Great message Andrew...Thank you 😃 I found in those early dark, chaotic days, post abuse, it felt as though my inner flame was weak, fragile and barely flickering. During the healing process, I had to protect that flame, guarding it from anything that could further diminish it. As Andrew always says, self love, belief, knowledge and this community will keep the flame alive. So for anyone at the beginning of their journey don't give up, you can get there, your flame can be the strongest yet, it will keep you warm on dark days, it will light your path. The flame is you, protect and nurture it, and believe me it will illuminate your beauty and strength once again..much love 💚
My new eyes are spectacular. Now that I no longer carry all of THEIR baggage I can see what a good person I’ve always been! I’m loving this girl, she is kind and loving and creative and smart as a whip and STRONG!!!! The third version of myself has been born. And thanks to all of you narcissist TH-camrs, it’s the first place I found the real answers. ❤❤❤✌️ Thank you!
Amen. When you have gained back your confidence. You know exactly what you are capable of. That no one can steal your joy anymore. You control your destiny. 💯💙😊🤚✋
@@flowerpower4944 It's soooo much easier to do the work when you don't have to deal with or have to exhaust all that energy towards a bottomless pit(Narc.)
Your channel has helped me to realise that my ex fiance was a "covert" Narc. I split with her years ago but just couldn't get to the bottom of what happened. I trained as a therapist and as part of that was in therapy for two years, even with that I found it hard to Discern what went on. I can deal with grandiose destroyer Narcs easily, but the covert Narc. Offfft: the poisoner Narc, the parasite Narc - awful, nearly ruined my life. Nearly. Their control of the fog, the gaslighting, the silent treatment is far more subtle. Its used to create the ultimate blame shift - the most inpenetratble fog. Thanks Andy keep up the good work. 👍 keep reaching out to people
For anyone struggling with needing closure : THEIR DISRESPECT IS YOUR CLOSURE !!!!! Evil is not concerned with your feeling better, you must heal yourself.
Thankyou for enhancing our powers of empowerment. A timely kick up the backside like this message is the push that we all need during the not-so-good days. 🙏🌷🌸
I've come to view the unfortunate narc collision and the devastation that resulted as a life-lesson I am here to learn this time around. One difficult but important practice has been separating the emotion from the intellect. Another is not to care what others think. It's like lifting weights - you get stronger the more you progress.
Thank you Andrew for your words of wisdom. I'm on the way to becoming the best version of myself. You definitely tell the truth. There are good days. There are challenges. It is a wonderful feeling not to be abused by a toxic narcissist. Going no contact was the best decision. God bless you and everyone on this channel.
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Hi Andrew. I find your channel to be supportive and kind. As we share our experiences, strength, and hope we are getting stronger and better each and every day. Thank you for all that you do to help others. We appreciate you.
I am so grateful for your videos, Your Teachings, I Thank you for Sharing Your Journey...Total blessing for Me, foot Us All...Your a Beautiful Being and Deserve the Very Best! 💯✌💖🙏🙌🙏💐
Yes I am not alone God is with me.. it's almost 3 months out of narcissistic relationship.. whenever it feels bad or something I just pray to God and he helps me man..
Hey 👋😁 Thanks for the videos today! Bout to start cooking dinner so don’t have much time! I’ll have to come back later! Love you my friends!!! Y’all are THE BEST!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
What a kind and generous message - something I needed way back when …. Anyone just awakening - it’s all here - lovingly crafted and direct Great reminders for veterans Thank You ☀️
Oh yes...I am continuing to grow, and am learning a great many things...not just from my experiences with toxic and narcissistic abusive relationships, but also about myself, AND from you Andrew...I am continuing to journal, daily. I am also delving back into my art, learning watercolor and learning from the mistakes, honing all my skills, growing in confidence. Doing positive things that feed and healing to my soul...staying in the present which is building upon my dreams, aspirations, goals, and my future ...loving myself as God loves me, becoming more of the person He created me to be. Hopefully a better example for my adult children and my grandchildren...their legacy may not be great wealth, but my hope is to give them a confirmation of their self worth, their great value, their God's blessings of love ❤ 😍 🙏❤🤓😎
I honestly think that I am almost healed. Today I started to Spring clean. I went into one of the dressers and found 2 Easter Cards from my X Narc! I saw his handwriting I then proceeded to get a pair of tongs and I threw them out😊❤️💪👍 It felt good! Thank you Andrew, you are a treasure🌹🙏💯🌠
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I honestly had your videos playing in my mind when I saw the writing on the. Envelope. I said to myself don't look and don't touch. I figured that Andrew and this beautiful community would approve and thank you all. Patty 3.0 😊❤️🪜
It is me too, mostly bc I’m trying to get back on track financially. Everything is so expensive, sometimes you have to justify just going for a drive! I miss living in the country when you could get out and at least walk in nature. I am trying to incorporate things like listening to music again, working out at home, self care stuff. I did go out for some shopping and some of the best music played in the store. I gave myself a treat of a few new things but hearing the music that I used to love made me feel like someone was looking out for me. 😊
Very,very, True Andrew, we will not be defined by what happened to us, we must move forward and do our inner work.some days will be hard. But we have must continue on the healing path. You will reap the rewards be patient and steadfast and most important thing is live in the present moment,keep your light shining Bright,God Bless you All Here.❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Andrew! This is just what I needed to hear after being contacted by a flying monkey after almost 1 year. I truly love your wisdom on healing from narcissistic abuse! Strength from healing daily!
I kept forgetting my magic wand many times to fix the Crazy mess I was living in. Older is not always wiser, though I am healing and I read all I can to heal myself. Therapy helped so much. Andrew was the One who brought me CLARITY. Love from this Family and you know who you are that gave me more strength. Love to you all who are members of this Family Tribe of Andrew!
Aaniin Andrew! After hearing about Nathan Chasing His Horse ( Smiles Alot in Dances with Wolves) I was left with goosebumps. My ex is a mirror image of what Nathan accomplished. I'm so happy, I listened to my instincts and had my ex charged with 2 yrs of sexual assault. He was using sacred teachings to get inside my head. I pray that me speaking my truth helps others to see his truth and find the courage to speak their own. I am free!
After being decimated by my narrsistic parent & having to be the last survivor who continues to care/visit weekly, I'm having a hard time caring for myself. I have learned alot about the abuse, the language & I watch many people who help & understand. It's been excruciatingly difficult but I'm trying hard to learn self care, self-love, self worth. Thank you Andrew for the confidence you provide. Namaste 🥀
My parents abuse magnified after I had my children & pictured that happening to them. My counselor in my thirties told me if they do it to me they will also abuse my children. I kept my children safe from them and at 61 my precious daughter helped my mom in her last months before her death in September. I've been no contact since 2019 because my Moms cruelty did escalate as she got older.
Continue to make these wonderful videos please, Andrew. Thank you, from my Heart ❤️ I am 30 years + in a narcissistic relationship and on the verge of getting out. Pray for me. I am hopeful for a better life ahead of me. Thank you ❤️
Into the journey where focusing on self and doing what is good for me. They are still out there, and always will be, strangers who love the drama of impacting you. They bring a fog til you recognise it. Thank you for saying about survivor abundance. Healing is growing the energy back I think.
Spending 64 years with narcissist, family, has been extremely difficult . Always wondered how I came out as "normal" as I did. I've stood next to my brother and could watch the energy being SUCKED right out of my body ! Having family narcissist is not as easy to get rid of. Still possible but not as easy to discard family. His means of what equates to getting whacked in the back of the knees with a stick have lessened because of my new knowledge. I shine surrounded by the light . I love your video's. I love that you are not clinical and a regular person like the rest of us. Thank you ! Rock on !
Thank you Andrew 🦋🦋🦋 I am getting help from your videos I am also seeing therapist.... Trying so hard to grow to become the best version of myself I am so thankful to you for all your help I would not be able to survive without it God bless you
Thank you once again Andrew, it’s been two months since things ended and a wise person once told me “don’t hate anyone , you are only poisoning yourself” “Be Neutral towards them, don’t love or hate them” since practicing this I feel a great sense of peace in my heart. Peace because I love myself enough to know that they never really cared for me, and in a way it’s not their fault, they have trauma of their own they need to work through. I genuinely feel bad for them and hope they break out of their own narcissistic abuse cycle, because on some level they probably hate it too….
Thank you for making these videos! 😊 I am understanding more and more each day and understanding more of how I became a victim of this. I am a nice person and will be much more careful next person I meet or date in the future. Still healing but getting stronger each day. Praying that God guides me to the right healthy people for me.
I was told to forgive and thank the narc (internally) for becoming my greatest teacher, as they provided me with the opportunity to learn about the preciousness of life and to rebuild. I also came to realise that I had accepted the dynamic of the relationship as these were the blueprints laid down in early childhood. It was familiar. To anyone trying to heal, you will, just stay the course (no contact).... In the end only three things matter, how gently you live, how greatly you love and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you. Slán 🍀
😔 narc pops up again, so to spare my daughter from the headache and drama I have agreed to be in contact again.. 2 steps forward 5 steps back, I want to get myself back to a good place and no contact once and for all.. I hope.. one day at a time I guess
Growth comes from within. Once you are FREE from the narc, and you start thinking back, you ask yourself, "Why didn't I see it?" It's bcse we loved them and were temporarily blind. They are clever, but we eventually catch on to them. This is when I started healing my soul, then my physical features began healing. I was a bag of bones!! Healing takes TIME, but you'll get there. First you heal inside and the rest comes natural. GREAT TOPIC ANDREW!❤❤
Hi Andrew... I'm so proud of my growth and empower I have know!! I am living in the third me and I'm loving every minute of it... so much peace, positive energy and happiness now!! And also thank you for sharing your wisdom with your videos because it helps so much!! Namaste 🙏🏼
Growth is what my butt is doing if I eat one more of these cookies right here!!! LOL!! A bit of humor, yes, but……TRUTH right now!! Have a beautiful evening, Andrew❣️🕉️❣️
I agree with everyone here who said you’re amazing ❤🙏 thank you so much for all your teaching and empowerment. You make a difference every single day in my life.
Thank you very much, Andrew, for all your advice and encouragement about the inner healing journey in this video! I applied your wisdom about boundary setting and gray rocking when I have had to deal with four narcissistic people in my apartment building over the last eight months (one was a tenant and the other three were guests of tenants) and the four narcissists learned not to start trouble with me and they leave me alone. Your channel is definitely changing my quality of life for the better! I realize I still have a lot of work still to do on the healing path and I'm motivated to work on it each day. Namaste. ❤️ 🙏
Thank you for what you're doing for us. It is immensely helpful and I am grateful for mentors like you! Can you please make a video on how to open ourselves up to others once we have healed. Because one you've healed , you can instantly see glaring red flags which makes you want to run away because you just dont want to deal with it. It's like a switch that instantly goes off. You just want to be by yourself
Thanks Andrew. Yes I agree with you. It's bloody hard. Some days are OK and some I have been in very dark places. I feel so stupid and embarrassed actually for falling on love. I'm in my 60's and have never encountered such toxicity. Love is hard enough to find let along being stomped on
Angela Hart. I know how you feel. It can feel embarrassing and humiliating to realise what happened. But remember that the Narcissist is the real stupid person because they don't value love at all and you have the beauty power to feel it. ❤️
Andrew's videos have helped to clear the fog and confusion that comes from having an ex-husband, ex-friend, and ex-manager who were all narcissists. "Ex" because all three discarded me. I tried to process it in my brain over and over, but after watching about 20 videos, I finally saw a pattern and now understand. I can stop beating myself up and live free.
Thank you Andrew for being there and helping us on the healing path. I thought I had healed but I had a minor setback so I realise I still have a little way to go to be fully healed. I am Still no contact and it will stay that way but with your help I will get to become fully healed🙏🏼
Hi Andrew. Once you've been with a narc, you have a lot to learn and understand WHAT you've been thru physically & mentally. I did get somewhat lucky by not having Flying monkeys. He had no friends, but the healing is a lifetime task. I personally don't think of him anymore, unless I hear a song, then it fades. I come in and out of these rooms so I don't forget where I came from. ANOTHER GREAT VIDEO ANDREW ❤❤
Thanks Andrew. True power comes from growth and knowing ourselves, bettering ourselves, and constant learning. With wisdom we can make the right decisions.
Thank you Andrew! Your videos have helped me so much. I'm on my way to healing. I have more to work on but I have realized the ruminating has dropped to almost zero!!! Huge accomplishment!
The healing path is not easy. Nevertheless my energy gets better every day. I am a primary school teacher and unfortunately we dont learn about narcisismo at school ar least in Portugal it isnt. I am in the healing path and investing in me my teacing my well being um creativity etc. God bless you XXX
I have made great new friends this past year that are completely opposite in nature to the narcissistic relationship. The generosity and compassion of the new friends show that the Narcissistic relationship was more like a business transaction
I'm definitely on my right path and healing everyday feeling better everyday it's sucks I went through it but I'm glad I did knowing what to look for now standing in my power after I got outta my narcissistic relationship I found you're videos like Devine timing thanks for everything Andrew
1 year out. Took 12 years too long to realise what he was. No contact us impossible for me with our 12 yo son however I have as little contact as possible. No explaining, no defending, no reacting. You're so right about some days still being hard. We mourn what could have been, if they'd been a healthy normal individual who had feeling for those other than themselves!!
I had no problem at that stage Andrew walking away ,it was the scars from many yrs of abuse ,my ex left, that I had to heal , it's been 3yrs down the track ,and will probably take a few more but I'm sure I will heal eventually .Feeling stronger as the yrs goes on . God Bless ,Love and Light .
Growth never ends. Newbies, I recommend a book, Letting Go of Your Ex by Cortney Soderlind Warren, Ph.D. The earnest work is so worthy. Version 3 includes strength, authenticity, recognition of present values, resilience, and a dedication to living a safe and fulfilling life. Freedom rocks, and better late than never.❣️
I had no say when being with my former Narc spouse. Five years post divorce, I have the beginnings of a voice. I can only use it when I feel safe and accepted. It has taken me sooo long to feel better Each of us is unique, according to Andrew!
The Third Version of me is really the most difficult..... But as Andrew says, I can say "NO". I can see the importance of this. Really I can. Never will I go through this again. I just damn well want to get through this one. It is certainly taking time. How the narc can sit back and not care for what they have done is beyond me. I am still waiting for that day. I just want myself back :(
Andrew I really struggle with how at such ease they are able to make you out as the villain, carefully wording every communication in such a way you could never respond without creating more drama, and also painting your name black to each and every person they encounter, leaving you more isolated and angry, that perhaps if you had ceased contact earlier - despite the emotional attachment - you may have saved yourself more stress, anxiety and depression. No doubt my mental and physical health have taken a battering to them reaching out to me after a decade, only to repeat the same over but 100 times worse.
Thank you so much for your videos. My marriage of 31 yrs to a narcissist ended almost 3 months ago. Am at the stage that you mentioned, I don’t want to do anything or see anyone. I want to be alone.. I go from sad to anger back & forth.. but more anger than anything. I look in the mirror & I see this ugly old person that swam against the current for so long to make this relationship from hell work.. and I hate her for being so weak.. I can’t sleep & am restless all the time.. yes I want that magic wand.. I want to not FEEL ANYTHING!
🕊💛💫 the way the sunlight shines behind you is beautiful!🌞
My favorite comment “time to help yourself now”! First second and third priority. Thank you so much Andrew.
Great message Andrew...Thank you 😃
I found in those early dark, chaotic days, post abuse, it felt as though my inner flame was weak, fragile and barely flickering. During the healing process, I had to protect that flame, guarding it from anything that could further diminish it. As Andrew always says, self love, belief, knowledge and this community will keep the flame alive. So for anyone at the beginning of their journey don't give up, you can get there, your flame can be the strongest yet, it will keep you warm on dark days, it will light your path. The flame is you, protect and nurture it, and believe me it will illuminate your beauty and strength once again..much love 💚
Thank you for sharing ☀️😊🙌
So true
Very bad day today thank you for all what you do for us who think that we were alone. God keep us all safe from all attacks
Blessings!!!
My new eyes are spectacular. Now that I no longer carry all of THEIR baggage I can see what a good person I’ve always been! I’m loving this girl, she is kind and loving and creative and smart as a whip and STRONG!!!! The third version of myself has been born. And thanks to all of you narcissist TH-camrs, it’s the first place I found the real answers. ❤❤❤✌️ Thank you!
Welcome ☀️🙌😊
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and advice. Have a great day 🙏❤️
You are so welcome🙌💯😊
“Think about that for a minute”… Thank you soo much, dear Andrew.
Welcome 😌😊
Thank you, Andrew, for your support.
Welcome 🙏🙌😊
I second that comment hehe!
Amen. When you have gained back your confidence. You know exactly what you are capable of. That no one can steal your joy anymore. You control your destiny. 💯💙😊🤚✋
So true it's a whole new world the freedom is wonderful 👍🙏🙏❤️❤️🤗
Talk is cheap be a doer. Like Andrew says do the work to improve on any level. Bye 👋 bye 👋 narc.
@@jessmason2112 yea true radical acceptance,and rewiring to be done, we can't be defined by the past 😀😀
@@flowerpower4944 It's soooo much easier to do the work when you don't have to deal with or have to exhaust all that energy towards a bottomless pit(Narc.)
@@jessmason2112 yea no distractions 🤣🤣❤️🙏
Your channel has helped me to realise that my ex fiance was a "covert" Narc. I split with her years ago but just couldn't get to the bottom of what happened. I trained as a therapist and as part of that was in therapy for two years, even with that I found it hard to Discern what went on.
I can deal with grandiose destroyer Narcs easily, but the covert Narc. Offfft: the poisoner Narc, the parasite Narc - awful, nearly ruined my life. Nearly.
Their control of the fog, the gaslighting, the silent treatment is far more subtle. Its used to create the ultimate blame shift - the most inpenetratble fog.
Thanks Andy keep up the good work. 👍 keep reaching out to people
Yes! Mine was covert and it's so confusing. Nothing makes sense!
For anyone struggling with needing closure : THEIR DISRESPECT IS YOUR CLOSURE !!!!! Evil is not concerned with your feeling better, you must heal yourself.
You are awesome Andrew, thanks so much.
Welcome 🙌😊🙏
Thankyou for enhancing our powers of empowerment. A timely kick up the backside like this message is the push that we all need during the not-so-good days. 🙏🌷🌸
I've come to view the unfortunate narc collision and the devastation that resulted as a life-lesson I am here to learn this time around. One difficult but important practice has been separating the emotion from the intellect. Another is not to care what others think. It's like lifting weights - you get stronger the more you progress.
💯 my circle is small now life is forever changing after many years of finding the right path that seed is growing within ready to blossom.
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Coral👍❤️❤️🙏
@@flowerpower4944 hi hope all is well with you 🌺🙏
Andrew, thank you so much for saying my golden sentence, healing is NOT LINEAR, so allow yourself to understand that.
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Thank you Andrew for your words of wisdom. I'm on the way to becoming the best version of myself. You definitely tell the truth. There are good days. There are challenges. It is a wonderful feeling not to be abused by a toxic narcissist. Going no contact was the best decision. God bless you and everyone on this channel.
Thank you for sharing 🙏🙌😊
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Hi Andrew. I find your channel to be supportive and kind. As we share our experiences, strength, and hope we are getting stronger and better each and every day.
Thank you for all that you do to help others. We appreciate you.
Thank you Andrew! I am healing ❤️🩹
Welcome 🙏
I am so grateful for your videos, Your Teachings, I Thank you for Sharing Your Journey...Total blessing for Me, foot Us All...Your a Beautiful Being and Deserve the Very Best! 💯✌💖🙏🙌🙏💐
Thank you...
Welcome💪🙌
This is so true. Our growth comes only grom within. Let us continue growing. God bless you Andrew.❤
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Only with the Holy Spirit of Jesus Christ is healing possible.
🙏Nordsand -Denmark 🇩🇰
Amen...that about covers it. Just...NAILED IT!!! Abundant thanx.
Yes I am not alone God is with me.. it's almost 3 months out of narcissistic relationship.. whenever it feels bad or something I just pray to God and he helps me man..
My narc after she discarded me she called me being very nice. Remember that want to put you on a shelf for later destruction..
Exactly 💯
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Hey 👋😁 Thanks for the videos today! Bout to start cooking dinner so don’t have much time! I’ll have to come back later! Love you my friends!!! Y’all are THE BEST!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
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Hi Jennifer hope you are doing well 👍👍❤️❤️🙏🙏🤗💖
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What are you cooking for dinner ? 😊
Hey Jennifer 🖐🏾 what's for dinner tonight ❤️✌🏽🙏🏽
On point 🙌🏻🎯You Nailed it! The story of my life right now. Love ya Andrew!! You’re an amazing human being ♥️
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What a kind and generous message - something I needed way back when ….
Anyone just awakening - it’s all here - lovingly crafted and direct
Great reminders for veterans
Thank You ☀️
Welcome 😊🙌☀️
Oh yes...I am continuing to grow, and am learning a great many things...not just from my experiences with toxic and narcissistic abusive relationships, but also about myself, AND from you Andrew...I am continuing to journal, daily. I am also delving back into my art, learning watercolor and learning from the mistakes, honing all my skills, growing in confidence. Doing positive things that feed and healing to my soul...staying in the present which is building upon my dreams, aspirations, goals, and my future ...loving myself as God loves me, becoming more of the person He created me to be. Hopefully a better example for my adult children and my grandchildren...their legacy may not be great wealth, but my hope is to give them a confirmation of their self worth, their great value, their God's blessings of love ❤ 😍 🙏❤🤓😎
Mary that's so true your comment ❤️❤️🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing this 😊🙌🙏
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I honestly think that I am almost healed. Today I started to Spring clean. I went into one of the dressers and found 2 Easter Cards from my X Narc! I saw his handwriting I then proceeded to get a pair of tongs and I threw them out😊❤️💪👍 It felt good! Thank you Andrew, you are a treasure🌹🙏💯🌠
Great job!💯💯😉
@@ESSIEMARIE1998 Thank you❤️
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I honestly had your videos playing in my mind when I saw the writing on the. Envelope. I said to myself don't look and don't touch. I figured that Andrew and this beautiful community would approve and thank you all. Patty 3.0 😊❤️🪜
Congratulations, Patty!🎉
@@emilywilson7308 Thank You❤️
That Neverending feeling of postnarc isolation is taking its toll on me
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It is me too, mostly bc I’m trying to get back on track financially. Everything is so expensive, sometimes you have to justify just going for a drive! I miss living in the country when you could get out and at least walk in nature. I am trying to incorporate things like listening to music again, working out at home, self care stuff. I did go out for some shopping and some of the best music played in the store. I gave myself a treat of a few new things but hearing the music that I used to love made me feel like someone was looking out for me. 😊
It will get better!
Thank you Andrew God bless you 🙂🙏
Very,very, True Andrew, we will not be defined by what happened to us, we must move forward and do our inner work.some days will be hard. But we have must continue on the healing path. You will reap the rewards be patient and steadfast and most important thing is live in the present moment,keep your light shining Bright,God Bless you All Here.❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
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You are our help and your smiles reaches miles , Andrew
Thank you 🙌😊☀️
I have to come here once a day to hear someone tell me that I’m not alone.
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You are here with many people in the same boat-rowing for our lives!💕
Thank you Andrew! This is just what I needed to hear after being contacted by a flying monkey after almost 1 year. I truly love your wisdom on healing from narcissistic abuse! Strength from healing daily!
I kept forgetting my magic wand many times to fix the Crazy mess I was living in. Older is not always wiser, though I am healing and I read all I can to heal myself. Therapy helped so much. Andrew was the One who brought me CLARITY. Love from this Family and you know who you are that gave me more strength. Love to you all who are members of this Family Tribe of Andrew!
Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌😊💯
Aaniin Andrew! After hearing about Nathan Chasing His Horse ( Smiles Alot in Dances with Wolves) I was left with goosebumps. My ex is a mirror image of what Nathan accomplished. I'm so happy, I listened to my instincts and had my ex charged with 2 yrs of sexual assault. He was using sacred teachings to get inside my head. I pray that me speaking my truth helps others to see his truth and find the courage to speak their own. I am free!
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Thank God!!
After being decimated by my narrsistic parent & having to be the last survivor who continues to care/visit weekly, I'm having a hard time caring for myself. I have learned alot about the abuse, the language & I watch many people who help & understand. It's been excruciatingly difficult but I'm trying hard to learn self care, self-love, self worth. Thank you Andrew for the confidence you provide. Namaste 🥀
Namaste 🙏
I absolutely understand.
@@catheycross2655 thank you for your understanding.
My parents abuse magnified after I had my children & pictured that happening to them. My counselor in my thirties told me if they do it to me they will also abuse my children. I kept my children safe from them and at 61 my precious daughter helped my mom in her last months before her death in September. I've been no contact since 2019 because my Moms cruelty did escalate as she got older.
Its so ironic how we can dole out so much unconditional love to everyone...but we just forget about ourselves!!!!!
Continue to make these wonderful videos please, Andrew. Thank you, from my Heart ❤️ I am 30 years + in a narcissistic relationship and on the verge of getting out. Pray for me. I am hopeful for a better life ahead of me. Thank you ❤️
You can do it!🌹
❤Thank you Love 😢 God bless you abundantly 💐🙏🌹
Into the journey where focusing on self and doing what is good for me.
They are still out there, and always will be, strangers who love the drama of impacting you. They bring a fog til you recognise it.
Thank you for saying about survivor abundance. Healing is growing the energy back I think.
Welcome 🙌💯🙏
Spending 64 years with narcissist, family, has been extremely difficult . Always wondered how I came out as "normal" as I did. I've stood next to my brother and could watch the energy being SUCKED right out of my body ! Having family narcissist is not as easy to get rid of. Still possible but not as easy to discard family. His means of what equates to getting whacked in the back of the knees with a stick have lessened because of my new knowledge. I shine surrounded by the light . I love your video's. I love that you are not clinical and a regular person like the rest of us. Thank you ! Rock on !
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Thank you Andrew 🦋🦋🦋
I am getting help from your videos
I am also seeing therapist....
Trying so hard to grow to become the best version of myself
I am so thankful to you for all your help
I would not be able to survive without it
God bless you
Thank you once again Andrew, it’s been two months since things ended and a wise person once told me “don’t hate anyone , you are only poisoning yourself”
“Be Neutral towards them, don’t love or hate them” since practicing this I feel a great sense of peace in my heart. Peace because I love myself enough to know that they never really cared for me, and in a way it’s not their fault, they have trauma of their own they need to work through. I genuinely feel bad for them and hope they break out of their own narcissistic abuse cycle, because on some level they probably hate it too….
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Absolutely!
Thank you, Andrew, I really needed to hear this today. As you said, there are bad days and now your words brightened one of them ☀️
You are so welcome🙌😊🙏
“It consumed me. And now is the time to save myself.”
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Thank you for making these videos! 😊 I am understanding more and more each day and understanding more of how I became a victim of this. I am a nice person and will be much more careful next person I meet or date in the future. Still healing but getting stronger each day. Praying that God guides me to the right healthy people for me.
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I was told to forgive and thank the narc (internally) for becoming my greatest teacher, as they provided me with the opportunity to learn about the preciousness of life and to rebuild. I also came to realise that I had accepted the dynamic of the relationship as these were the blueprints laid down in early childhood. It was familiar. To anyone trying to heal, you will, just stay the course (no contact).... In the end only three things matter, how gently you live, how greatly you love and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you. Slán 🍀
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That's beautiful!
😔 narc pops up again, so to spare my daughter from the headache and drama I have agreed to be in contact again..
2 steps forward 5 steps back, I want to get myself back to a good place and no contact once and for all.. I hope.. one day at a time I guess
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone ❤️ thank you for the encouragement!
🎉staying focused and believe in my self now more then ever 🎉 thankyou ❤
Growth comes from within. Once you are FREE from the narc, and you start thinking back, you ask yourself, "Why didn't I see it?" It's bcse we loved them and were temporarily blind. They are clever, but we eventually catch on to them. This is when I started healing my soul, then my physical features began healing. I was a bag of bones!!
Healing takes TIME, but you'll get there. First you heal inside and the rest comes natural.
GREAT TOPIC ANDREW!❤❤
For me not wanting to eat or going to a supermarket lasted 1 year.
Thank you so very much Andrew! I can’t say that enough 🙏🏻
Hi Andrew... I'm so proud of my growth and empower I have know!! I am living in the third me and I'm loving every minute of it... so much peace, positive energy and happiness now!! And also thank you for sharing your wisdom with your videos because it helps so much!! Namaste 🙏🏼
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Namaste 🙏🙌😊
Thank you, really enjoyed this video today. I’m growing wiser every day . Have learned so many things to help heal. 😊
You are so welcome😊🙌☀️
Growth is what my butt is doing if I eat one more of these cookies right here!!! LOL!! A bit of humor, yes, but……TRUTH right now!! Have a beautiful evening, Andrew❣️🕉️❣️
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Lol! Good one! My addiction is is ice cream! 😅😂
🥰🤣😂 I hear you !!
@@djw8504 that TOO!!!! 🍦🍦🍦🍦
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I agree with everyone here who said you’re amazing ❤🙏 thank you so much for all your teaching and empowerment. You make a difference every single day in my life.
Thank you 🙌😊☀️
@@ESSIEMARIE1998 hi Martha ❤️ trusting you’re doing good
@@ESSIEMARIE1998 sounds delicious and glad you’re good 😊 and I’m melting into peace ready for sleep soon.
Salmon tonight here. Sweet dreams 😴
Yes!
Thank you very much, Andrew, for all your advice and encouragement about the inner healing journey in this video! I applied your wisdom about boundary setting and gray rocking when I have had to deal with four narcissistic people in my apartment building over the last eight months (one was a tenant and the other three were guests of tenants) and the four narcissists learned not to start trouble with me and they leave me alone. Your channel is definitely changing my quality of life for the better! I realize I still have a lot of work still to do on the healing path and I'm motivated to work on it each day. Namaste. ❤️ 🙏
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@@ESSIEMARIE1998 Hi Martha! ❤️
@@ESSIEMARIE1998 Hi Martha, how are you? ❤️ 🙏
Love you, Holly!
Thanks for your work in this endeavor.
Thank you for what you're doing for us. It is immensely helpful and I am grateful for mentors like you!
Can you please make a video on how to open ourselves up to others once we have healed. Because one you've healed , you can instantly see glaring red flags which makes you want to run away because you just dont want to deal with it. It's like a switch that instantly goes off. You just want to be by yourself
I always prefer being alone!
Thank you Andrew . I dont feel so alone when you say such lovely kind words too help us through the nightmare .x
Thanks Andrew. Yes I agree with you. It's bloody hard. Some days are OK and some I have been in very dark places. I feel so stupid and embarrassed actually for falling on love. I'm in my 60's and have never encountered such toxicity. Love is hard enough to find let along being stomped on
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Angela Hart. I know how you feel. It can feel embarrassing and humiliating to realise what happened. But remember that the Narcissist is the real stupid person because they don't value love at all and you have the beauty power to feel it. ❤️
You are not stupid for falling for the fake mask! All of us here on this channel have, and can relate to your pain.
YES 💗🕊️ Namaste 🕊️💗
Namaste 🙏
Thks Andrew
Andrew's videos have helped to clear the fog and confusion that comes from having an ex-husband, ex-friend, and ex-manager who were all narcissists. "Ex" because all three discarded me. I tried to process it in my brain over and over, but after watching about 20 videos, I finally saw a pattern and now understand. I can stop beating myself up and live free.
Thank you❤
You're welcome 😊
Thank you Andrew for being there and helping us on the healing path. I thought I had healed but I had a minor setback so I realise I still have a little way to go to be fully healed. I am Still no contact and it will stay that way but with your help I will get to become fully healed🙏🏼
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🌅Growth is truly BEAUTIFUL💙!!! Thank You Andrew !!! Namaste 🙏🏽 Take care & GodBless! 💜😉
Namaste 🙏
I just started listening to you.. I find your videos so very helpful and uplifting
Andrew is amazing and so is his tribe!
Always wonderfully affirming. Thank you Andrew. 🙏
Thanks for listening🙌😊☀️
thank you Andrew, always on point! love to listen to your advice and experiences, it relaay helps me a lot.
Hi Andrew. Once you've been with a narc, you have a lot to learn and understand WHAT you've been thru physically & mentally. I did get somewhat lucky by not having Flying monkeys. He had no friends, but the healing is a lifetime task. I personally don't think of him anymore, unless I hear a song, then it fades. I come in and out of these rooms so I don't forget where I came from.
ANOTHER GREAT VIDEO ANDREW ❤❤
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Thanks Andrew.
True power comes from growth and knowing ourselves, bettering ourselves, and constant learning.
With wisdom we can make the right decisions.
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Thanks Andrew❤
Excellent video 👍
You are gold ! I love your work ! This is so super important. You opened my eyes , thank you for your work. Love you !
You are so welcome☀️😊🙌
we ask for the seeds to plant God gives them the water to grow. and the son gives it light to shine that is growth.
by Hanna 💛💜
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone goodnight sending love hugs and💐🌱🌻 kisses
Thank you Andrew! Your videos have helped me so much. I'm on my way to healing. I have more to work on but I have realized the ruminating has dropped to almost zero!!! Huge accomplishment!
The healing path is not easy. Nevertheless my energy gets better every day. I am a primary school teacher and unfortunately we dont learn about narcisismo at school ar least in Portugal it isnt. I am in the healing path and investing in me my teacing my well being um creativity etc. God bless you XXX
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Thank you so much for the update on the show ❤️it
God bless you 🙏🙌❤️🔥
Thank you Andrew.
Hello everyone! Another superb lesson from the beautiful Carolinas. Thank you Andrew 😊.
Thank you too!☀️🌲😊
Well done Andrew..... Support and well wishes to you ... Great content as always 🙏 Take care☺️
Thanks, you too!🙌😊
This really hit home with me today.
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Narcisist did becomelike that somehow, so theres understanding for underlying causes
Thank you Andrew!
I have made great new friends this past year that are completely opposite in nature to the narcissistic relationship. The generosity and compassion of the new friends show that the Narcissistic relationship was more like a business transaction
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I'm definitely on my right path and healing everyday feeling better everyday it's sucks I went through it but I'm glad I did knowing what to look for now standing in my power after I got outta my narcissistic relationship I found you're videos like Devine timing thanks for everything Andrew
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1 year out. Took 12 years too long to realise what he was. No contact us impossible for me with our 12 yo son however I have as little contact as possible. No explaining, no defending, no reacting. You're so right about some days still being hard. We mourn what could have been, if they'd been a healthy normal individual who had feeling for those other than themselves!!
I had no problem at that stage Andrew walking away ,it was the scars from many yrs of abuse ,my ex left, that I had to heal , it's been 3yrs down the track ,and will probably take a few more but I'm sure I will heal eventually .Feeling stronger as the yrs goes on . God Bless ,Love and Light .
Growth never ends. Newbies, I recommend a book, Letting Go of Your Ex by Cortney Soderlind Warren, Ph.D. The earnest work is so worthy. Version 3 includes strength, authenticity, recognition of present values, resilience, and a dedication to living a safe and fulfilling life. Freedom rocks, and better late than never.❣️
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Hi RUBY 😀😀❤️❤️🙏
@@flowerpower4944 Hi, my friend 💓
Welcome!🙌😊☀️
Thank you for all you do Andrew 🙏🏼
Thank you too!🙏😊
Thank you Andrew 🙏💔
Welcome 🙏
I had no say when being with my former Narc spouse. Five years post divorce, I have the beginnings of a voice. I can only use it when I feel safe and accepted. It has taken me sooo long to feel better Each of us is unique, according to Andrew!
The Third Version of me is really the most difficult..... But as Andrew says, I can say "NO". I can see the importance of this. Really I can. Never will I go through this again. I just damn well want to get through this one. It is certainly taking time. How the narc can sit back and not care for what they have done is beyond me. I am still waiting for that day. I just want myself back :(
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Absolutely! You can do it!
Andrew I really struggle with how at such ease they are able to make you out as the villain, carefully wording every communication in such a way you could never respond without creating
more drama, and also painting your name black to each and every person they encounter, leaving you more isolated and angry, that perhaps if you had ceased contact earlier - despite the
emotional attachment - you may have saved yourself more stress, anxiety and depression. No doubt my mental and physical health have taken a battering to them reaching out to me after
a decade, only to repeat the same over but 100 times worse.
Thank you for sharing this 🙌💯🙏
Thank you so much for your videos. My marriage of 31 yrs to a narcissist ended almost 3 months ago. Am at the stage that you mentioned, I don’t want to do anything or see anyone. I want to be alone.. I go from sad to anger back & forth.. but more anger than anything. I look in the mirror & I see this ugly old person that swam against the current for so long to make this relationship from hell work.. and I hate her for being so weak.. I can’t sleep & am restless all the time.. yes I want that magic wand.. I want to not FEEL ANYTHING!
Sending healing energy and strength.. 🙏🙌💯
We know how painful it is. There are brighter days ahead! You can get through this🌸