Racism in dating in the DR and other Latin American countries Part 1

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  • @poobado
    @poobado 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Whites people had a 500 year head start to buy property get education…etc.

    • @ac20oakcliff
      @ac20oakcliff 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      More like stole property, enslaved people. They history ain’t nothing to be proud about.

    • @PartnerBoss
      @PartnerBoss 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Buy property? Jaja jaja jaja. From whom?😂😂😂

  • @poobado
    @poobado 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Being white in Latin America and in Africa you have an edge

    • @fenb2067
      @fenb2067 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Asia, too.

    • @chicaliqc
      @chicaliqc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Ugh the world 😅

    • @555125kevin
      @555125kevin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Relax, Africa is a stretch. Certain African countries white men do have privilege.

    • @Aisha_Davis
      @Aisha_Davis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@555125kevin Then it isnt a stretch.

    • @Dragoncam13
      @Dragoncam13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@555125kevinwhite guys absolutely have an advantage in atleast a quarter to half of the continent,look at how North African women see black and their own North African men on average compared to a white guy

  • @MusicShaddyRaddy
    @MusicShaddyRaddy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    People equate white and black with social class. It’s mainly social programming
    In other countries, being “American” is associated with being wealthy, powerful and status
    It takes a lot of courage and boldness to deviate from the norm

    • @jamestheproexpat
      @jamestheproexpat  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree 100%. It’s hard not believe something you’ve been taught since you were a child.

  • @mikemix77
    @mikemix77 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    5:11 I saw this in Korea, a bunch of Korean kids playing outside an army base and one little blonde kid mixed in

  • @anthonyhilton1709
    @anthonyhilton1709 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Listening to this story is so fascinating. How you can be poor and living barely and still have this mindset.

  • @yoginasser305
    @yoginasser305 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Question to my black Brothers. If you had a choice between two black baddies with the only difference being one is light-skinneded and the other one dark which one would you prefer?

    • @nigelstanford4
      @nigelstanford4 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Dark

    • @doncartier6796
      @doncartier6796 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Which ever one I get along with. Dont matter how beautiful both are, if I can’t get along with you, it’s a wrap.

    • @jbk19xx57
      @jbk19xx57 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Neither.

    • @jamestheproexpat
      @jamestheproexpat  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Whoever has the better personality

    • @Aisha_Davis
      @Aisha_Davis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly. They're tone def.

  • @teddydavis2339
    @teddydavis2339 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Spain left their racist legacy in the world.

    • @chestnutters9504
      @chestnutters9504 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      These places where colorist long before Spain came around

    • @jubernardi23
      @jubernardi23 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No more than the anglos 🤡

    • @pixiet7321
      @pixiet7321 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm a black American woman married to a European man from Spain. (20 years) We have social clout that I never even knew. Even my European Spanish is a marker of high class. It is what it is. Good for my children in Europe and Latin America. I had them in Spain :)

    • @chicaliqc
      @chicaliqc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@pixiet7321 it is what it is!!!???😓🥱🤬

    • @Aisha_Davis
      @Aisha_Davis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chicaliqc Shes right. What can be done to change others' way of thinking when these mindsets are 100's of years old? Nothing.

  • @Kays-k7r
    @Kays-k7r 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are now about to go viral.Oshay duke Jackson has taken snippets of your video just a few minutes ago and made a commentary

  • @Nationworldwide1
    @Nationworldwide1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Teach Bro ... good stuff

  • @southeastclass76
    @southeastclass76 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Us three fellas visted los terranes, met Dominican chica, that had 2 bastard white kids. She said the white guy was from a European country, left her with the kids, now she crying and begging us for money, showing us photos of the kids and feeling sorry for herself. I felt no pity! That's what she gets. No denaro from me, in this situation.

    • @jamestheproexpat
      @jamestheproexpat  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They are taught that white European men are better. I don’t have pity either

    • @southeastclass76
      @southeastclass76 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She learned the hard way. But I see most dominican chicas show white images or emojis on their Whatsapp profile or page. I ask them, what's up with the white folks images? They often respond, that she's not a racist. I respond, but you're racist against yourself. You don't show images of yourself. Sounds racist to me. That leads into DR being racist against Haitians, and they need to be departed. I come back, then maybe USA should depart illegal Dominicans that migrate into Puerto Rico, into New York. That normally shuts them down.

    • @southeastclass76
      @southeastclass76 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree, that's why inform them if European behavior in the USA, starting with Jeffrey dahmer . And others behavior .

    • @daverolling1435
      @daverolling1435 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@southeastclass76 the same self hatred you’re accusing them of is why you visited DR to begin with 😂 and not haiti. Even with a language barrier you 🥷 felt Latin America was more palatable than Jamaica, Barbados etc and the other anglophone countries that share a similar cultural and racial identity.
      You should look inwards.

    • @southeastclass76
      @southeastclass76 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@daverolling1435 Dave, apparently you never been to DR. It's a huge Haitian population. Europeans come to the island thinking their superior, and that's exactly why the DR system is designed to scam them out of every penny. They just want their money. 😂. It's beautiful.

  • @SytaraBeard-u5v
    @SytaraBeard-u5v 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember a Blaxican woman that was married to a Meztizo man. He treated her bad, and made her cry. She did not leave him. She hated Black American women.

    • @kem1233
      @kem1233 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Blaxican woman married a mestizo man? Yeaa but they aint mexicans. They r americans. Blaxican women dont really get with latin american men. Latin american men rarely date out. Blk n white american males love dating out n wanting mixed children

  • @justarichone
    @justarichone 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Good stuff, dude.

  • @rsr3729
    @rsr3729 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I never been to the DR yet … I travel to many other countries though as a black man. We level up, never lead with the money, workout (gym), stay confident, and keep it pushing . 💯
    Each family has to live with consequences of there stereo types. Men, we marry who we want, and women marry who they can. 💯

  • @MarcosBenchi
    @MarcosBenchi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the stories, definitely give me new insight into these self haters. Also tell your boy Jamie to stop saving these ungrateful slores.

  • @jmudikun
    @jmudikun 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for bringing up this whole REFINAR LA FAMÍLIA & MEJORAR LA RAZA NONSENSE

  • @black0614.
    @black0614. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Naw bro it depends on the black man. If your an attractive clean and fit black man you have the edge. This is from my personal experience we have to stop saying it’s race when every person looks and acts different .

    • @jamestheproexpat
      @jamestheproexpat  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      This video is not every woman in Latin America or even dating in general. This video is about specific families that believe in “mejorar la raza “ and will tell you to your face that it’s about race. That’s why I’ve given specific examples of female friends of mine that have told me of how they experienced this from their families.

    • @555125kevin
      @555125kevin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Relax, a lot of Latin women will find a black man attractive but won't consider him because they're scared of what society or their friends will think

    • @mikemix77
      @mikemix77 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So if you’re way better than the average white guy you have a chance ? Sounds like you’re in denial

    • @brownpapi2634
      @brownpapi2634 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@555125kevinThat's why I don't take the white/mestizo one seriously.... they're just for fun because I don't have time family colorism BS

    • @StaticbeyfrmSemoran
      @StaticbeyfrmSemoran 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U shouldn't have to be attractive to not be subjected to racism.

  • @MrHank-bd8yr
    @MrHank-bd8yr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    great topic

  • @MK-gainz
    @MK-gainz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m a black men from Europe, traveling a lot to the DR and I never treated a women that way..
    I saw some American men there with a gangster like attitude getting disliked over there, but the Americans with normal behavior are the majority off course.
    So I think you have to be careful with what you say about travelers because rotten apples can come from everywhere. some men are idiots, I agree. But the women there in the DR like and admire us also a lot.
    I can tell out of experience, I 4 times a year there..
    Travel safe brother!

  • @israeliteinpanama3263
    @israeliteinpanama3263 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true!

  • @jqight740
    @jqight740 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    8:18 according to TH-camr AC that grandmother has Brad worship.

  • @southeastclass76
    @southeastclass76 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    @daverolling even Haitians don't want to go to Haiti. You go there and teach them gangs about self hate, your sooo intelligent. Well try to attach your head back to your body so you can tell us of your experience. Thanks smart guy

  • @poobado
    @poobado 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    How is this guy’s channel not bigger????

  • @juan-ko5hz
    @juan-ko5hz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Im mexican and confirm 😅. In the average poor area high school/middle school the attractive guy or girl looks like a sphynx cat but everyone loves them cause they got blue or green eyes even though they all ugly.
    But i think this is dying

    • @jamestheproexpat
      @jamestheproexpat  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’ve noticed that each generation gets better at viewing people for their personality and not color. Great comment and thanks for watching

    • @jmudikun
      @jmudikun 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're totally right. People that are ugly as hell but are looked up to just because they have light eyes

  • @tiny8626
    @tiny8626 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Feel for you, I think the biggest area where racism is present is in dating and nobody talks about it. Whereas in other areas of society racism is greatly exaggerated, really makes you think, considering who you marry as almost always considered more important than your job or your friends e.t.c.
    Good luck man.

    • @jamestheproexpat
      @jamestheproexpat  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As I’ve gotten older, I made sure to check out a persons family early on.

  • @ronniethesilverbackgorilla2793
    @ronniethesilverbackgorilla2793 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    More like looks matter most

  • @45Dre
    @45Dre 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Isnt obvious though even in America you see it with Asian women or latin women. Even black women. Idk we'll never catch up

    • @jamestheproexpat
      @jamestheproexpat  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      The key is to like those that like you. I learned that from older guys. I explained in the video that it’s not all women. Just some families

    • @45Dre
      @45Dre 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jamestheproexpat I get that. Just society is the end all be all in some cases.

  • @Appie-rd2bg
    @Appie-rd2bg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think latin America, especially the more diverse countries, are way less racist than say Asia. Latin America has a bigger classism problem. Rich - poor and educated - less educated.
    I’m white (European) and my wife is brown/morena. It really depends how you behave and dress. I would get a lot of attention in Asia and it didn’t matter that much how I dressed. I don’t get that much attention here if I’m dressed how I feel comfortable (every day its hot) with like easy t-shirts, sports bermudas and flipflips…I will get an instant way more attention in the streets the moment I wear nice jeans, expensive looking latin style long sleeve shirt and nice clean leather shoes instead of trainers or flipflops…appearences and attention to how you present yourself matter a lot.
    This is how I experience it and my opinion. Racism can never be 100% excluded but S-America definately not as racist as other places, I see a lot of mixed couples.
    I live in the Caribbean region of Colombia.

    • @555125kevin
      @555125kevin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Colorism is a problem in every latin country, it's just the con of Latin countries. Not everyone is a colorist but it is part of the culture.

    • @jamestheproexpat
      @jamestheproexpat  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is probably one of the best comments on my page

    • @renataferreira8829
      @renataferreira8829 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In Brazil is all about money. But people from USA dont understand that the Economy dont allow people to move up socially easily. In USA you can be a trader and have a good life. Almost Impossible in Brazil. You have to study history and economy to understand why all the black are poor and segregated. Not everything is about race

  • @Michealst1
    @Michealst1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WOW I must move to latin america or africa, if that is the case.....

    • @jamestheproexpat
      @jamestheproexpat  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You should. My best friend is white and I introduced him to some of these women and they treated him like a king. I don’t knock white guys for using something that’s to their advantage. If you got an advantage, use it. It’s what you’re supposed to do

  • @Texasmade469
    @Texasmade469 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Funny how you sh*t on PassportBros but use the name and hashtag for clicks and views.

    • @jamestheproexpat
      @jamestheproexpat  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you ain’t cheating you ain’t trying 🤣🤣🤣

    • @kem1233
      @kem1233 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jamestheproexpatblk and white american males r obessed with latin america

  • @ricolaw1033
    @ricolaw1033 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As light skinned black american that passes for latino, arab or white i see how I'm treated differently from my darker friends and family in latin America and even Jamaica and the Bahamas. It's blatantly obvious. I have an arabic name (Tarik Asim) so people in my city with a high muslim populatiin (Philly) usually can tell I'm black by the way I talk, dress and carry myself but most people think I'm arab or latino. Most ask me what I am to be sure but im latin america and the Caribbean, I'm considered white

    • @kobe8034
      @kobe8034 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How about in America?

    • @ricolaw1033
      @ricolaw1033 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kobe8034 I’m from Philly and lived in New York, Jersey and DC. In the north I’m mistaken for Puerto Rican, Dominican or Arab. Females regularly call me Pappi. In DC, I’m just a red ninja. They used to call me Philly Red. Well that was the late 80’s and early 90’s. Now that there is a big Latino community in DMV, I might be latino there too 😂😂😂😂

    • @ricolaw1033
      @ricolaw1033 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kobe8034  as far as in America and being treated? Depends on where I’m at and in what setting. If I’m in a ritzy place and spending money, they treat you how you pay like you weigh! Lol. But nothing preferential based on my skin tone. It's completely different in the Caribbean and South America. I'm considered white in those places

    • @ricolaw1033
      @ricolaw1033 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kobe8034  as far as in America and being treated? Depends on where I’m at and in what setting. If I’m in a ritzy place and spending money, they treat you how you pay like you weigh! Lol. But nothing preferential based on my skin tone. It's completely different in the Caribbean and South America. I'm considered white in those places

  • @timmistarr9800
    @timmistarr9800 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was real ...😮

  • @KallusGarnet
    @KallusGarnet 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This happens a lot to bm quiet as its kept.

  • @ohenrico17acr92
    @ohenrico17acr92 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sounds like a personal problem 😂😂😂