No not really. Everyone is entitled to what appeases them. It's a problem when women don't fit that category and gets butt hurt about it. I see nothing wrong with what he wants and stands for. People need to stop complaining about if things that don't apply to them when it's that person's wants or needs. If it does apply to them they should move on but hurt and hit dogs holla (females that his wants exclude).
Guy: must weight less then 145 lbs, must have a career, be independent, no tattoos, must take care of herself, must not be from the streetz and must be feminine Girl: WHAT!!!!! YOU DON'T WANT FIT WOMAN, YOU WANT CHILDREN YOUR PREDATOR! if i get a job i wouldn't need no man, whats wrong with my tattoos its just my ex-boyfriends name, what do you mean feminine? so i can't be myself? do i have to wear a pink dress now? know my place? what do you mean do i look like i belong in the kitchen? Also Girl: must be 6'0 tall and above, must have a high paying job, must cook, must clean, must pay attention to me, 24/7 must not get jelous if i wear heavy make up and see through clothing during public events, paragraph 1 out 10 complete :)) Other Woman: YOU GO QUEEN! :))
They’re shaming him because they could never fit his standards. Any woman who did fit those standards would be proud to announce that they do from what I’ve learned from women.
Jamal is picky. He said it. He didn’t present standards but rather a wish list as unrealistic as any list entitled women make. His “standards” are in low supply. A woman youthful, independent (intelligence enough to look after herself and take good enough care of herself to meet his “standards”), physically fit, attractive, and naturally beautiful can have anything she wants in life. Why would she pick this guy? What does Jamal look like? “Know her place” and not expect him to financially support her? Women like that are in high demand but low in supply. A woman as independent as he expects cannot be controlled in the way he wants. Good luck fellas trying to catch that golden goose. 😂 Anyways, the women responding to his are ridiculous and very jealous cause clearly they want him but can’t have him in the way they want. But notice, there are nnnnnoooo women that meet Jamal’s standards that want him and are willing to defend him in that comment section. He’s not attracting his “Mrs. Right”. His standards only attract women that want to use and abuse him while looking like Shrek. Look at the responses he got 🤣. Those are his takers of whatever he’s offering and they clearly hate his guts.
@@GoBooYourself not really Bobby O any woman will submit to the man she respects. If she won't submit to you then you have to look at yourself. It's nondifferent then a wahman making you pay for dinner but letting pokie or Ray Ray eat for free 🤔 🤣🤣
@@qualiswilliams7403 TL;DR Jamal’s perfect woman doesn’t exist. Who he actually attracts hates him. Jamal doesn’t really have a “standard”. He’s just picky and just like picky women, he’s gonna be disappointed when he discovers what he wants doesn’t exist. Good luck to him anyways. No fault or harm in asking and seeing what you get.😂
We live in a world where women are allowed to have these long lists of unreasonable, unrealistic demands but men will get shamed simply for stating his preference. Imagine being called a pedo just because you want your woman to maintain the average woman’s weight 🤦🏾♂️
Actually, the average women's weight has increased significantly, it's around 170. I blame men for this but some RP communities don't agree. If the men allow it then they going to be heavy.
@@appollo1826 so ? Average weight doesn't mean healthy weight. The point is men want healthy women. That include both mental and physical health. If you can't offer both you are at a serious disadvantage and probably would demands more resources to take care of. If the dude wants a family that is less money for the family, aka him and the kids. and since most women have a career, they clearly have the money needed to take care of themselves. If they want more money, women should just do like everybody else and work more hours or do overtime.
I recently attended a party with my fiancée and this girl we met there tried to imply that I was a predator because wifey looks young. We both look 10 years younger than we actually are and she's only 2 years younger than me; we're both in our 30s.
The fact that the weight bugs them is exactly the argument behind the height deal they like to put out. 145lbs is 65kg, there are a lot of grown women within that range so they just was dying to call him names
Women always saying that height shit. Stupid for one. But, guess what, same shoe... different foot. Women bout to have a rude awakening when you girls are in the mens spot begging for attention, wanting the sex and having to settle. Muhahahaha... love it. Awesome.
No there is not a lot of women in that range who want a guy like Jamal. His “standards” are in low supply. A woman youthful, independent (intelligence enough to look after herself and take good enough care of herself to meet his “standards”), physically fit, attractive, and a naturally beautiful can have anything she wants in life. Why would she pick this guy? What does Jamal look like? “Know her place” and not expect him to financially support her? Women like that are in high demand but low in supply. A woman as independent as he wants cannot be controlled in the way he wants. Good luck fellas trying to catch that golden goose. 😂 Anyways, the women responding to his are ridiculous and very jealous cause clearly they want him but can’t have him in the way they want. But notice, there are nnnnnoooo women that meet Jamal’s standards that want him and are willing to defend him in that comment section. He’s not attracting his “Mrs. Right”. His standards only attract women that want to use and abuse him while they are looking like Shrek. Look at the responses he got 🤣. Those are his takers of what he’s offering and they clearly hate his guts.
Average weight of a black man is 193 in America, average weight of a black woman is 187 in America. As a black man.......I refuses to date over 145-150 myself
There is absolutely *no reason* for women under 6ft to be over 200lbs+. 130-150 max is pretty tastefully normal for adults. Hell I'm not even 190lbs towering 5'11"
I weigh 135lbs and I could tell you right now I definitely don’t look like I’m built like a child! ☺️👍🏽 Trust me you can still look curvy and fit! It’s just A LOT of work that needs to be put in! 💪🏽 Also with the whole makeup thing… focus on investing in skin care instead of make up and when you do that you’ll have little to 0 reason to wear it! 👍🏽
Exactly. Lol they just make dumb stuff up out of thin air because they think 300 pounds is the norm for "curvy" women. I once saw a documentary about a poor black family where most of the people in the house were obese. But the youngest daughter was normal weight. Because they weren't used to seeing rib cages and collar bones, they thought she was in poor health 👀 They took her to the doctor, who quickly examined her and told them she's in perfect health. Lol that's when i realized some of us have some F'd up views regarding healthy weight.
It’s mainly black women who feel like this if my client who isn’t black woke up weighing 145 she would fire me. The fitness part of this is more interesting than anything bc we all see it different
I’m going to agree to disagree. Some women don’t wear make up to hide blemishes but rather as a form of artistic expression. Like when I get bored I like to go put butterflies on my face but most of the time I walk around the house. I honestly wear makeup in the house more often than I do outside.
Shit...my standards are pretty simple. A chick asked me what I wanted from a woman. Hinting she looking at us in a different light. I told her, "I don't want the pretty girl, I don't want the freaky girl, I just want a girl that knows how to follow instructions". They never know how to react. I met a Black/Filipina str8 from the Philippines, barely been here for a little over a yr. Told her the same shit and her reply was, "I know how to do that". And it's been history since. But one thing I do note is this, the more she gets caught up with this American culture. She is acting a little different. A new found boldness. But she does it in a way that helps us, not push us apart.
My wife became more out going since I'm naturally confident when we first got together. Her family loved it, her friends? Not so much. All of them were married when we got together, 8 years later we're still together with two kids, 3/4 of her friends are already divorced or are in the process of getting one while her former best friend is still single at 50. Good times, lol.
@@lavellelee5734 ...fo real. Like the other day we fussing about a bill. She looked at the bill pile 3 days prior. How I know, she circled it in red ink with 3??? and the date. This is a bill that I usually pay, my part of our house. She tells me that it was due in 2 days and I'm arguing back that I had at least a week left on it. But she wouldn't back down. So she ran and got the bill and showed it to me, and she was right. I immediately apologized, and she was like "No thing bae, you got a lot on your mind. I got it." Went and found her purse and paid that shit. Like a I said, she getting a little bolder, putting her feet down when need to. But she does it so slick tho, that I can't help to respect her more. When I met this woman, I had just got lucky on a mom/pops corner store that was being sold. Spent my whole life savings on it 2yrs ago. I was renting a "room" when I met her, running my spot 7days/wk. Ain't making money to hire yet. First she asked me to move with her. And I was, "No because then that'll be "your" shit, let's get a place together and make it "our" shit." She agreed to it and we are here, working on growing the store "first" so we can attain that house. We are already saving, but she understands that it's a priority the store succeeds. For that to happen. She works, but once a week on one her days off, she'll cover me for half a day at the store, so I can get my rest. She she help me figure that I had a spot in the back of my neck, that when she massages it. I melt like ice-cream. She would be, "Why are you always so tense right here" and go to work. Hate when she does that movie-night. Makes me fall asleep before the end of the damn thing.
Women shame as a way of reputation destruction. Lisrem to the women in your life, you'll see very quickly how they turn on each other and run their mouths slagging each other off. I personally hypothesis half the words we have to negatively described a woman, were created by women.
When you know your worth you will have standards. Those who are mad about that truly feel that they can’t live up to your standards, and they are upset at the fact that they don’t have the willingness to have standards themselves. Live Laugh Love 💚
I seriously don’t get why women/anyone get mad if they don’t meet a stranger’s standards. There’s so many people in the world, so don’t fret over one persons very reasonable standards. Also, I don’t get personally offended if I don’t meet someone’s standards because all that means is we’re not compatible. I meet my man’s standards and that’s the only thing I care about. Women need to stop taking everything as a personally attack 🤦♀️.
@@danielcook11 as woman I truly hate when women do that. Not very man is going to like you and it’s ok I’m full figured woman but who is nerdy a lot men didn’t like me And did I cry nope I just move on and till I found my soul mate who Am I getting married to next year
See he is probably the six figured guy that some of them are looking for. So now he articulates his standard which means some are no longer in the running. He knows his worth and because of this he wants someone just as worthy. Nothing wrong with the standards that were set.
To any women reading this, a man would rather you look good without make up than with it. I want to see you as beautiful after a shower, at the pool, first thing when we wake up in the morning and when we are around the house in sweats watching TV.
Real shit. There's a line I was thinking for my comic in the future it basically go like " I believe that things such as makeup are fool's gold. You can look dazzling in the ballroom or intoxicating in a night lounge, only for that allure to rubbed off with a simple washcloth. True beauty is not a supermodel whom starves herself, or someone who has more makeup brands then they have food and water. No, true beauty is owning your flaws, owning your current level whether it's average more or less, and being clever enough to make the most of it, to use it to your advantage madem"
Yea it used to be, make-up enhances your features, to now, make-up changes your entire face.. when someone contours their nose to take on a whole new shape.. that's ridiculous to expect a man to accept this catfishing..
I actually love those standards!! Nothing wrong with them. Heck I would have almost fit the bill besides the tattoo rule haha. May he find the right woman
You're a cool individual! Sucks that these broads dissing him make other good women look bad when he clearly has the confidence, work eithic, and self respect to himself right here. These types of women be wildin for the world to only be in their favor! Lmao
Yeaaaaah you one of them rare type of females every good dude wished they ran Into out In public because it's ridiculous these days and it's too much to explain
Same here 😂. I got tats, but my man likes them. But I really don’t think that man has outrageous standards by any means and he’ll find the woman he’s looking for.
I was with a lady that was about 5'4" & right around the 135-145 range. She worked as a CNA so she wore scrubs. Her everyday clothes didn't do much to give away what her body looked like. The first time I saw her without clothes I was shocked. She had a body of curves & was very toned.
"145 is a child" .... that's a very over weight child. I came close to his standards but I fell out of the running with a few of his requirements... I'm working on the weight I've got 10lbs to go to get to the 145. I'm trying.
"Under 145lbs is a child!" Ummmm, I'm a 6' tall dude and weighed 140-145lbs for most of my 20's. Being fat doesn't make you more of a woman or adult, it just makes you fat. Edit: Or muscular, in some, but very few cases. Most people nowadays are just overweight from excess calories.
Meanwhile those ladies standards: "Must be 6'3 or above, must make over 750k a year, must be ripped like Thor, must take care of me, must have 9 inch dong, must have no kids, must not make me sign a prenup, must buy me anything I want, must take me on vacations around the world at least 4 times a year, must not have any standards." 😒
They should then marry their dad's coz no man is his lady's father..He may provide for the family if they married and she brings her half to te table too.
So, I am 130 pounds and am in no way a child. And I also have curves in all the right places. Damn. Plummer women talk about how everyone shames them. Yet when a man prefers a woman who is not a bigger size. We are called child like. Please. Wanna talk about hypocrisy at its finest. Anyway, I think he was honest and upfront about the kind of woman he sees himself with. Hell if some of these ladies could learn to do that they wouldn't need to spend some much time trying to find the "perfect" man. AOK. I. So happy and proud of how much you have grown. I've been kept up on your progress with all you have set out to do. Keep shedding light on these horrible women bashing good Men. Much love and respect ❤️ and Celebrid. Girl! You are awesome!!! Much love and respect to you as well. ❤️
I’m proud of pops stating what he wants in a woman, and if they don’t fit his preference he’s not having it. I don’t blame him one bit for what he’s looking for
Woman: I want a man that makes a minimum of 7 figures, has a huge house, multiple cars, a boat, jet, loves to travel and be physically fit. Man: I'll like a woman who's a debt free virgin without tattoos. Woman: YOU'RE AWFUL, YOU MUST LIKE CHILDREN!!
@@thestache5424 A woman that can hold her own in modern times being she has masculine Tendencies so good luck trying to put your foot down on the final decision!
That is very much correct as a matter effect its a little far from average, 145 lbs is 65kg, i and the average woman weight is actually 50-55kg or 111-122lbs, and the average height for a woman is 5'4, take it from a guy that's actually 5'4 myself, i weight 60kg or 133lbs, and i a bit on the muscular side, im not fat at all, ner do i look like skinny either, i promise you, 145lbs, is actually above the average weight for a woman, these woman have no reason to be mad about weight...
I'm a muscular 5 foot 10 male who works out every day and I only weigh beetween 145 and 150 on average! Anyone who thinks 145 is a kid would have to be talking about an obese kid xD I think the people all sayin that's a kids weight probably weighed more than that when they were kids xD that's why their mad.
Something to take into account is that the average person over 40 is obese or overweight in America while the average person in their early 20s is only mildy chubby or skinny! Only a somewhat low percentage of young people are overweight compared to middle aged and elderly! By 40 a person's metabolism is about 80% of a young person's so it's not rly the metabolism causing it but just that men and woman dont care as much about their weight and health and fitness in their 40s when their already married than they do when their in their early 20's trying to attract a partner!
I laugh at these women getting all *pikachu shocked face* at us men for having standards. These women have astronomical insane standards that can't be met at all or they're making ish up. I have mine which makes women angry in an instant. I told them 🤷🏾♂️, you ladies have yours, I have mine if you can't meet those standards, you will be rejected w/o any explanation. Half of that man's requirement is almost the same as mine. I love his requirement that a woman must have a career. In this day and age, it is a requirement.
i used hinge for sometime as a dating app and one of the prompts are "i want someone who..." and i said i want a women who carries herself with class, doesnt need to show alot of skin or have alot of makeup to look good, and i got several women responding with hateful words and making it seem like im the one with the issue😂 why is it all of a sudden "not cool" to carry urself with respect and class in the black community. we are just fitting the stereotypes, we need to do better
Y’all out here lambasting women for having unrealistically high standards but act shocked when woman lambast men for their unrealistic standards? Did you read Jamal’s list? Jamal is picky. He said it. Nothing wrong with that and nothing wrong with picky women either. But are their standards realistic? A woman youthful, independent (intelligence enough to look after herself and take good enough care of herself to meet his “standards”), physically fit, attractive, and naturally beautiful can have anything she wants in life. Why would she pick this guy? What does Jamal look like? “Know her place” and not expect him to financially support her? Women like that are in high demand but low in supply. A woman as independent as he expects cannot be controlled in the way he wants. Anyways, the women responding to him are ridiculous and very jealous cause clearly they want him but can’t have him in the way they want. But notice, there are nnnnnoooo women that meet Jamal’s standards that want him and are willing to defend him in that comment section. He’s not attracting his “Mrs. Right”. His standards only attract women that want to use and abuse him while looking like Shrek. Look at the responses he got 🤣. Those are his takers to whatever he’s offering and they clearly hate his guts.
@@GoBooYourself damn like women are different? At least when a man has a standard it’s something a woman chose to have (like a tattoo), or weight (you can diet). But these women clown him but have the double standards of stuff he can’t change like his height. That is genetics, not something you can change. These women being in low supply is why the world will probably the population is gonna drop drastically. But hey, it’s a definitely a good look when you have women who have double standards, won’t take responsibility and blame EVERYTHING on everyone else, who talks trash and “exposes” every guy who criticizes her in anyway shape or form. If women wanna act like this. Fuck’em I’ll just die alone. Better than how these women are acting. Because I would rather live alone in peace, than have a girl in my life but chaotic as hell just because she’s toxic asf. No thanks
@@GoBooYourself no those are his detractors who don't fit the bill...those are women who can't. the difference here is that what he's asking for in some aspects are perhaps difficult to find. what alot of women ask for is leaning more to impossible. the weight he's requesting is not impossible...go to a gym it's plenty. not listening to todays music ...he didn't say his age but he sounds at least 40 that not difficult especially since he didn't say what race she had to be. her own well paying career...well hell social media is full of women claiming to check that box....and loads of bw admire the concept of "power couple" don't see an issue with the money dispersement in that instance. the only hard ask I read was a woman who is in a successful well paying career position who also " knows her place" he didn't elaborate on that so everything concerning that is assumptions....I will say though the women who seem to have the most issues when it comes to being a boss but turning that off when they go home are typically bw. the default stage is boss b...instead of the default state being feminine...also bm have shown themselves to be the most equiped to deal with that. also again he did not limit his request to one race or another. the majority of women list pale in comparison to his in length. go directly against the averages and norms in our society. are usually based on what they perceive other culture's have or how they behave despite being vehemently against mirroring those same cultures and it's behaviors. most of the things he didn't want are culture driven. tattoo's aren't necessities. makeup aren't necessities...not having a man take care of u isn't a necessity...women speak on independence all day. what alot of women be asking for goes directly against the norms of nature? especially when we are talking about physical standards. it is a very different set of ideals in my opinion and his to me isn't anywhere as " ridiculous" as some of what most men have heard women set as "standard's"
@@spazz-ok9nr Come on man! He doesn’t need to elaborate on “knows her place.” Everyone knows what is meant by that the same way we all know what is meant when a guy who says “go the the kitchen and make me a sandwich.” He wants a submissive woman. An obedient woman. Those are not also independent woman who have their own money. Gyms cost money, time and pain. Women don’t invest in time, pain and money to land an a$$hol3 who expects her to pay her way and be submissive. Power couples usually are ppl who are both physically attractive. They also are closer in age and are at similar levels in their career milestones. Our boy isn’t asking for a partner who can meet him half way. He want her to mind herself. No intelligent, ambitious, successful woman would submit to Jamal. That man can’t come to a woman like that and tell her what she can and cannot listen to, what she can and cannot wear… etc. our boy wants control. To have control he needs leverage. He has none. The woman he want has all of it. He wants a high value woman. Those women are in high demand but low in supply which means she can have whatever she want. She’s not submitting if he’s not paying for her to.
Funny how women get so pissed when he clearly states his likes and dislikes in a woman. But if he ain't 6 foot and makes 6 figures they don't want nothing to do with him.
Very sad the mental state of so many women. I'm 5'3 and 138 lbs (muscle) and look nothing like a child. I was teased by females my entire life because I was small and for years I thought something was wrong with ME. It really affected my confidence to the point that I would withdraw from social settings to avoid the comments on my size by bigger women. I'm so glad I have finally accepted my being smaller than most people.
Now this is the kind of man I'd swipe right on, and did 😉. And 5 years later, we're still going strong. I have respect for the fact that he wants us to save money, and I encourage it! 5 years in and we're going on our first trip together ❤️ I don't wear makeup, I don't like it. And he prefers me that way. Thank you for loving women in their natural state.
Yep stuff like this is the reason why a dude always have to know that their inner peace and happiness matters if you know that this day and age of relationships and marriages aren't what you expect stay moving forward and focusing on you to hell with what those modern women thinking and feeling what they think and feel
Its been said time and time again.Every time a man has standards hes shamed for it and women do they are praised for it.They come to the table to consume not to contribute in anyway.
None of his standards are unreasonable. He knows what he wants and he's going for it; he could find it, lower his standards/settle (not recommended in his situation), or end up alone. I hope he finds something and doesn't compromise his standards. If I'm being honest I don't yet date, partly because if I don't yet meet my own standards, who am I to dare impose them on someone else.
One of the great things about being a man is that we can pick and choose the women we want to romantically pursue. We men are the customers and nobody gets to tell the customers what they want or should accept.
Smh. Boy I tell ya. They are the least desired group in the world for a reason. They talk about men who don't have any standards and drag them, but then they talk about men who have standards and drag them too. And they wonder why they say "sysbm" (Save yourself black man) and why we take our success and talents elsewhere. This is exactly why alot of men who are worth their weight in gold don't deal with black women. Time and time again we women who are literally 200-300 plus pounds (regardless of height), all types of out of shape, fake hair, fake nails, some even with missing teeth, fake eye lashes, multiple children with multiple men, and had the nerve to say they're "celibate" and will not have sex until marriage, say they don't want a man with children, has to be at least 6'0, in shape, making at least 100k a year, works out regularly, goes to church, will take care of her and all of her children, and to add insult to injury, she's not having anymore children. Any black man that's doing something for himself that wants a good, natural, feminine, and in shape woman is somehow gay and a pedo, but they never say that about white men, or any other man for that matter, who want the exact same thing. Smh. That's black women for ya. But then again, they're the ones who literally brought sin into the world because they wouldn't listen and are unruly. They've been like this literally since the beginning of time.
Man: must be feminine, know how to cook, no tattoos, if you a city girl you’re for the street. Woman: you’re a misogynistic, you’re gay, you’re a child predator, you have momma issues, you’re bum daddy should thought you respect of women. Women: must be 6,0 feet tall or above, must make 6 figures, have tattoos, have a 6 pack must pay attention too me 24/7, pay for my dates and pay my bills, give me money for my hair nails and take me clothes shopping. 1 out of 20 page complete (YOU’RE A QUEEN YOU GO GIRL)
They have a problem with it because it’s a Brotha, the gynocracy tells BM that you should accept BW with how they are. “Yo mama black, you must be gay, you look like you date WW” we heard it all.
@@mrworkowt5419 I had to go back and watch the video to see what this was even about lol. But he's going to have a woman that is just as busy as him if not busier. He's probably busy a lot, so having a partner who is also busy can minimize one or the other feeling neglected. That is assuming the demands of their careers balances out and one doesnt have significantly more free time than the other. Attention/quality time may be an issue at some point. But hey... what floats someone else's boat doesn't rock mine. 🤷🏾♀️
The Sistahood is a strong coalition, but my adherence to my standards is stronger. I look at character, sense of humor, common sense, cooperation, compassion, and general appearance. Your size will never subtract points; you may get a little extra credit if you're "fit", but if the things I mentioned aren't there, it won't matter if you're two steps from the runway. If you look markedly different with makeup on compared to it off, no. Tattoos, generally no. I expect to pay for everything only if you're my child. If you're able to pay occasionally, it will be accepted and appreciated. Bottom line: You need to add value to my life. If you only define the word "value" as "money", no. Any woman who calls me gay or broke or accuses me of loving children too much because of what I just wrote is doing _me_ a favor. She is making my life easier by giving me back the time I might have wasted, so thanks to her.
I'm 42 I don't wear any makeup I do wear lipstick but not every day so I don't see anything wrong with his standard. I have tattoos but unless I show them to you, you would never know now I wish I was a 145 pound but with my height I would look like I'm smoking Crack lmao. I don't see anything wrong with what he said all women should be able to take care of themselves. I also hate all the new music old school me please lol. This man just like what he like, and it's definitely someone out there to fit his request.
Lmao I remember when a friend of a friend has home girl reached out to me because she was interested. She was working on that weird show P-valley 🤣🤣🤣. I turned her down because she has a tattoo of an ex on her arm and that was my ONLY standard. I have never….EVER seen a woman that pissed off before. Needless to say. I was all kinds of lil dick energy, no good nigga, light skinned nobody Lmmfao 🤣🤣🤣
True story: I posted a comment under a woman's post on Facebook a few days ago. The post was about her opinion about men being good fathers. I gave her truth about women need to pick better men. She basically insulted me the whole time exactly like the women in those comments. She called me a woman, said I gave her pedophile vibes, and etc. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 Women use that "last resort insults" when they know they're losing, they're wrong, when a man gives his standards, and etc. I see women say this exact same thing all over social media to men. 🤷🏾♂️
Those females got in they feelings real quick😂 it amazes me how they can have standards and be picky but we supposed to accept them as is, plus love them and spoil them all while dealing with the a bad attitude and they foul mouth. Im with the guy set standards and don't just settle for anything.😎
This is why I keep my circle small…comprised of like minded women 😮💨 It baffles me how some deflect when threatened because they don’t qualify for the standards requested yet set outlandish standards for others that they themselves are incapable of upholding 🤔🧠🚮
@@mrworkowt5419 idk to be honest but i would think you would want someone on your level at least. this way they can't shame you for making less money than them and possibly lose respect for you.
Im a white guy, raised someone elses, had a son to be proud of, work all the time then had a procedure not to have anymore! Im good sir! I love your channel watch them while one the treadmill and you hust prove to me in your videos that women are actually like what Ive known my whole life(Im 59). Thank you for your work and mich respect to you....PLEASE CONTINUE FOR THE YOUNGER VICTIMS OUT THERE 🤜🤛🙏👍BLESS YOU SIR!
I like what Jamal Ali wrote. I can concur with everything he said. Those women are only mad because they don't meet his standards. They also should get sued for defamation of his character.
i don't blame him for not wanting a 200 plus pound woman. all that FAT and obese body possitivity crap don't mean a damn thing when it involves your health.
Stuff like this people shouldn't have to censor out their names cause people should call them out. It's funny how all of these women are calling him broke yet their FB pic isn't even them.
I am 2 months out of a 13 year relationship where I was raising 3 kids that turned out to not be mine. Not one. I find myself with animosity towards all women. How do I get a handle on this? Please help me.
I’m sorry you have deal with that pain but I would suggest therapy to help work out some that animosity and focus on your self and find something a new hobby to put your focus in instead of being angry I had my best friend who went though this this help him a lot I wish you the best 😊
And this is why the government needs to enforce DNA at birth.. you shouldn't have been put through this and your feelings are completely understandable.. the fact that you're reaching out for support is a credit to your character and strength.. try looking into support groups with other men who have been through this.. unfortunately there's alot of men who have been taken advantage of by disgusting women like this.. they maybe able to suggest a good therapist or other things that have helped them.. hopefully you find a good woman in the future, who will respect you and bring peace and happiness to your life.. all the best brother..
What I will say is expecting a woman to have a high paying job and to know her place in a feminine frame is a hard ask. Everything else is understandable enough.
It’s really not that hard. Just don’t be disagreeable, argumentative, bitter, unbearable… Most people, women, should easily pass, but man… times are sad
What's interesting is that Shamu and the flock have standards that are unrealistic to the world; this man, this 'soul' brother, has standards that are down-to-earth are picked apart and chastised by the Walrus brigade.......amazing how they have time to work them thumb muscles but not the arms, legs, thighs, shoulders, etc. Interesting that this is the case when someone asks for someone who has a healthy lifestyle and takes care of themselves and that's a problem......the boss babes ain't hot shit if they need help pushing the door open it seems
Why are they mad? I thought we were doing away with the unfair patriarchal society and now we are trying to be more equal. If men can do it, then women can as well, and vice versa?
Hi This is Antoinette Adams I will say this man is a superb catch. I am sorry he is going thru this torment. He has the right to ask for those standards in a woman...especially if he has a young daughter. There are women out there who can match those standards, but they are far and few. I have standards just like that but I am not looking for a partner currently. I am enjoying 😉 my own company and success. Ignore those small-minded women. I wish him and the gentleman who runs the Different Perspective You Tube channel all the best in finding a good partner. It is a difficult task.
Sour grapes. Easier to tear this accomplished man down than build yourself into someone he'd desire. Lazy, entitled, spoiled, argumentative and the need to be right. I wish this man luck, he's looking for a unicorn in this day and age. We all are.
These women are so hurt by one mans preferences, that they're calling him a pedophile.....just *wow* 🥴 and like there isn't under 65kg curvy women out there lol 😂🤔 Also, he said he likes curves and what child got those? Smfh, how disgusting behavior.
"145 is a child" Bich, i weighed 145 as a man several months ago after cutting. I'm back up to 160 now after months of bulking, but soon i'm gonna cut again. I expect to be back in the 140's, just more if it will be muscle than fat this time.
ya think of this, they are complaining about staying under 145 with very little muscle. Unlike a dude who has more muscle. So they can't even cut the fat weight.
Same bro I'm 5 foot 10.5 just under 5 foot 11 without shoes and over 6 ft with shoes on and I work out everyday doing calisthenics and I used to bulk by eating tons of chicken but I just eat normal now and do calisthenics and I weigh beetween 145 and 150 on average and before I started working out I weighd 135 on average and I had weight 135 all the way from middle school till mostly through high school and in high school I was fluctuating beetween 135 an 140 but from working out I'm now always around 145+ to 150! And im 22 rn half way to 23! If I ate tons of chicken still i would prob be 155 on avg
With calisthenics your pretty much doing only body weight exercises and progress to being able to do one arm pullups or weighted one arm pull ups and by the time you can lift your entire weight with one arm you can also lift a person your same weight into the air with only one arm and I'm able to easily do muscle ups, pull ups and dips on gym rings with someone holding onto my back and It feels like I have super human strength even tho it's just normal for people doing calisthenics! I've only been doing calisthenics since 21 also and before that I could already lift logs twice my body weight cause I spent years logging from 17 to 21 and I still log sometimes so I had crazy strength for my size anyways but now it's insane, I can lift a man 3 times my weight above my head with both hands and throw them like a sack of potatoes, I basically never have to worry about someone attacking me cause I have immense strength from calisthenics and I'm incredibly shredded! Ever single muscle fiber in my upper body is visible and I have death star delts, my shoulders and chest and lats and back muscles look abnormally big compared to most my body and because of how myostatin works, if you work out for 1 hr a day you lower your myostatin levels in your body by 40% and myostatin is the chemical that Inhibits muscle growth so by working out your upper body every day it acctually causes all muscles including the butt and leg muscles to get significantly bigger to just at a slower rate than the muscles your working out but basically working out just your upper body still causes big gains everywhere else and for a guy myostatin even prevents their member from being as big and so working out every day causes your member to get longer and girthier because it's made of soft muscle which is also affected by myostatin! Also because of all my muscles getting bigger it makes the spine and everything a tiny more stretched by the muscles pushing eachother apart and so working out does make you a Lil taller too just cause you have more space beetween all your joints and spinal columns! I've never used any kind of supplement and I only work out 30 minutes to an hour a day on my gym rings sometimes with weight attached to me but mostly just with my body weight! I cant tell you how much calisthenics improves the time in the bedroom too xD you can pick chicks up like their a feather and do things most guys cant do and rly give chicks the time of their life xD when I was in high school I remember being only able to carry my girlfriend for like a couple minutes before I'd be exhausted and now it's easier than ever and chicks rly like being picked up and manhandled ;)
I'm under 55 kg.. I'm sick of women putting my weight down.. I'm no child, I'm in my mid 30s, have children.. overweight isnt curvy either, curvy has always been like having an hr glass shape or hips atleast, not an apple shape 🙄.. and some guys doesn't want curvy, I still look feminine being a small frame.. and this make-up comment is sooo valid, look at the difference between when a woman wears make-up to none 😳 literally a whole different person in alot of cases..
Depending on your height 55kg can be "normal" or "petite" which is totally fine imo. I think in todays time and age due to the rising numbers of obese people the concept of "normal" body composition is being warped. More and more people are fat so you lose the view for what is considered small or fit or whatever.
@@KorashSyndikat being 5'1 and having a really small bone structure, 52kgs is an effort for me to get to, I was alil under 47kgs before I starting to exercise.. different cultures have different bone structures, ppl in general have different bone structures.. these women are such hypercrits talking down against smaller framed cultures.. overweight isn't curvy, and most men don't want these loud mouth, overbearing women trying to be the man in the relationship..
I had standards, recently a girl raised them for me lol. My future gfs if I bother has her to blame for my standards being even higher. I didn't know I wanted something like that in my life til she acted that way toward me. My standards are not half bad if I lived a few decades back lol.
@@shanadams8870 I could but does it matter no, but fuck it. -Looks. My style is one of those Goth esque Rock Latinas. With some cake tits can be somewhat average. I am okay with sacrificing boobage for some cake lol. I also do not mind a genuine redhead. Asians are also acceptable. -Smart, or willingness to learn. -Strong Willed. Some bullheadness is allowed. -Can cook. I kinda recently started wanting that one added in. I cook for myself 3 to 4 times a day be nice to take a break lol. -5'10" to 5'. -Nothing over 180. -Supportive. That one is an addition thanks to another chick who was somewhat a cheerleader to me. I kinda appreciate being supported cheered on etc. Took a bit to get used though. -No Pet Ambers at all again ever. -Some kink. -Does actually want sex quite often. -Genuine as in if she asks me something because she genuinely wants the answer. Not out of courtesy that irks me to no end. -Maybe humor because I can be a bit of a Jester. -Honest with me. I can understand hahah jokingly lying type of things we all do but when asked flat out etc I want honesty. -Guess doesn't mind I am an Atheist. That seems to be a yuge deal where I currently live. Now I do not expect to find that at all in my current state of life. However that is my preference to a degree. When things are straightened out well enough I will potentially go out hunting for that. However I am okay with dying alone as well. My preferences will only get stricter.
I'm also a dude in tech and 40, that dude says words like "know her place", that is a big red flag for any woman, it means he wants to control her and treat her like a dog. The dude is not worth the hustle.
One of the main problems I see in today’s dating pool is everyone is posting their list of standards like job descriptions, thinking that is a way to weed out the undesirables, however in many cases it opens the door to plenty of posers, so even more time and energy is wasted on weeding the posers out. Whatever happened to just dating to get to know each other and seeing were it leads? A perfect list will rarely, if at all, have perfect results.
Dating apps ruined that. Gone are the days of traditional ways of meeting face to face. Now it's swipe this swipe that and online profiles with algorithm matches. Truly dystopian.
You make valid points. The only thing I'd like to point out is he contradicts himself. He says she needs to know her place. Then he says she needs to have a career that pays well. I hate to make assumptions, but for a man with it all together to say the woman should know her place, I get the sense he means in the home. He could mean cooking and cleaning. Or he could mean subservient to him. Either way, a woman that has her stuff together is not going to be either one of those. I expected the women to key on that. I did not expect the response that he got. That's just crazy!
I’ll say this, I’m 32 have a beautiful wife and kids. We take care of each other, the kids, and our home. If you make over 100k and you’re 51 and single. Your standards aren’t the problem. There are probably a few. One he probably trash at communicating with the type of women he is looking for. 2 His standards might be too high for the type of man he is Idk can’t see a picture. But the type of women that he’s describing probably want a good looking, fit, funny type of guy. Personality matters a lot. A lot of dudes that I’ve noticed that constantly complain about women. Usually have terrible personalities and I can see why they’re single. Also if you’re a good leader you don’t need to tell a woman to “know her place” lol I think a lot of you make this dating thing way harder than it needs to be. I’ve had bad relationships and good ones. I don’t blame the entire female gender for that or “ modern woman” some of y’all just trash, and a bad judge of character. You gotta take them Ls sometimes. I’ve taken a few. But instead y’all just cry constantly lol. Both genders do, when the truth is sometimes humans just ain’t shit.
Or women just generally don’t meet his standards and as such hate on him for it. But for you to be making assumptions about his communication skills or personality and looks based off literally nothing is some wild shit like deadass what’s even the reason for your comment? Also, the comment section literally proves that women DO find his standards an issue
It's funny how you say "a lot of you make this dating thing harder than it needs to be" when you're here with a paragraph of assumptions. The dating game can be exhausting. Seems like this man is tired of wading through garbage and decided to simply say what he wants and have that person come to him. If anything, he made it as simple as possible for both parties.
SIMP ALERT!!!!!! Someone has been drinking some HATORADE.... I guess LIZZO has dispatched her minion to undermine a successful/accomplished man with standards
Ye, I wouldn't judge people so quickly off of just a dating profile, we haven't even seen his face, and we haven't met him to see how he communicate with people. Also if women that ain't sh*t can have their super high standard, then men can also have their standards. Plus I don't see any problem with his standard and I'm just the average Joe. These standards used to be normal for the average Joe, we haven't changed our standard, women have dropped in quality, resulting in men not caring and thus dropping their own quality. If the average women would actually be fair in this then average would fit the average man. Problem is the average women don't fit the average men standard anymore. Men haven't changed much, women on the other hand have done a 180 turn on their standard and their sexual market value. These standard we see in the video, they've Been the average Joe standards since forever. Concerning your own situation you may as well have said "I got an average girl from the good old days". No point in bragging about getting what used to be the average woman as your wife. If anything you're either the average dude and got very lucky or you legit just picked up what used to be an average girl and took her as your wife, when you could've gotten better.
Damn. This dude is setting up reasonable standards. I don't see how being 145lbs is impossible for a woman. Unless you don't take care of yourself and eat junk food and take-out all the time. If thats unreasonable, then dating is mostly dead for the average guy. And you can go kick rocks about the whole same sex thing and being "controlling", but the latter already tells me that you wanted to control him.
I agree, the points they stressed are the makeup and the weight, these comnents are from overweight women! How they aint say anything about the taste in music or the tattoos? They cant get past the weight and the inability to hide their self hate, so sad
That man is awesome! I understand his preference. We all have preferences...I am with him regarding make-up, make-up is for Enhance, not cake up! I like natural too, men enhance their natural with their 'natural' look. BTW...your beard is awesome, so clean 👌
Them "standards" hit different when the man is on the ordering side of the menu, huh ladies...
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No not really. Everyone is entitled to what appeases them. It's a problem when women don't fit that category and gets butt hurt about it. I see nothing wrong with what he wants and stands for. People need to stop complaining about if things that don't apply to them when it's that person's wants or needs. If it does apply to them they should move on but hurt and hit dogs holla (females that his wants exclude).
But Jamal isn't making sense he wants her to be independent treat herself but not wear makeup those types of girls are likely to
Guy: must weight less then 145 lbs, must have a career, be independent, no tattoos, must take care of herself, must not be from the streetz and must be feminine
Girl: WHAT!!!!! YOU DON'T WANT FIT WOMAN, YOU WANT CHILDREN YOUR PREDATOR! if i get a job i wouldn't need no man, whats wrong with my tattoos its just my ex-boyfriends name, what do you mean feminine? so i can't be myself? do i have to wear a pink dress now? know my place? what do you mean do i look like i belong in the kitchen?
Also Girl: must be 6'0 tall and above, must have a high paying job, must cook, must clean, must pay attention to me, 24/7 must not get jelous if i wear heavy make up and see through clothing during public events, paragraph 1 out 10 complete :))
Other Woman: YOU GO QUEEN! :))
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The double standards stay in effect
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They’re shaming him because they could never fit his standards. Any woman who did fit those standards would be proud to announce that they do from what I’ve learned from women.
Jamal is picky. He said it. He didn’t present standards but rather a wish list as unrealistic as any list entitled women make.
His “standards” are in low supply. A woman youthful, independent (intelligence enough to look after herself and take good enough care of herself to meet his “standards”), physically fit, attractive, and naturally beautiful can have anything she wants in life. Why would she pick this guy? What does Jamal look like? “Know her place” and not expect him to financially support her? Women like that are in high demand but low in supply. A woman as independent as he expects cannot be controlled in the way he wants. Good luck fellas trying to catch that golden goose. 😂
Anyways, the women responding to his are ridiculous and very jealous cause clearly they want him but can’t have him in the way they want. But notice, there are nnnnnoooo women that meet Jamal’s standards that want him and are willing to defend him in that comment section.
He’s not attracting his “Mrs. Right”. His standards only attract women that want to use and abuse him while looking like Shrek. Look at the responses he got 🤣. Those are his takers of whatever he’s offering and they clearly hate his guts.
@@GoBooYourself not really Bobby O any woman will submit to the man she respects. If she won't submit to you then you have to look at yourself. It's nondifferent then a wahman making you pay for dinner but letting pokie or Ray Ray eat for free 🤔 🤣🤣
Facts! It's never a problem until they don't qualify.
@@GoBooYourself you said a lot to not say anything my boy
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Jamal’s perfect woman doesn’t exist. Who he actually attracts hates him.
Jamal doesn’t really have a “standard”. He’s just picky and just like picky women, he’s gonna be disappointed when he discovers what he wants doesn’t exist.
Good luck to him anyways. No fault or harm in asking and seeing what you get.😂
We live in a world where women are allowed to have these long lists of unreasonable, unrealistic demands but men will get shamed simply for stating his preference. Imagine being called a pedo just because you want your woman to maintain the average woman’s weight 🤦🏾♂️
Actually, the average women's weight has increased significantly, it's around 170. I blame men for this but some RP communities don't agree. If the men allow it then they going to be heavy.
@@appollo1826 look at this goofy don't blame men when they have full right to watch there own weight
@@appollo1826 so ? Average weight doesn't mean healthy weight. The point is men want healthy women. That include both mental and physical health. If you can't offer both you are at a serious disadvantage and probably would demands more resources to take care of. If the dude wants a family that is less money for the family, aka him and the kids. and since most women have a career, they clearly have the money needed to take care of themselves. If they want more money, women should just do like everybody else and work more hours or do overtime.
Those hungry hungry hippos are probably gold diggers too 😁
you're only called a pedo when you're a child predator..freudian slip, thanks!
I recently attended a party with my fiancée and this girl we met there tried to imply that I was a predator because wifey looks young. We both look 10 years younger than we actually are and she's only 2 years younger than me; we're both in our 30s.
It's these bitter Karen that get men in trouble with the law with their baseless accusations
The witch is JEALOUS!! She is sad and alone with her 15 tiny dogs
u should cussed her out
@@Blackrage843 it was among other friends so everyone just looked at her like "bish whet?"
Congratulations! I hope you have a happy long lasting marriage :)
As a 25 year old woman who is 5'2" and weighs 125 lbs, these women are just bitter
Acting as if you're better.
@@Onepieceistheworstanime Yes, Human Ass wipe. Yes she is!
@@Onepieceistheworstanime why are you coming for her? she’s on our side
@@Onepieceistheworstanime all she said was she's young and light damn. You just looking for enemies
@@Onepieceistheworstanime weirdo
The fact that the weight bugs them is exactly the argument behind the height deal they like to put out. 145lbs is 65kg, there are a lot of grown women within that range so they just was dying to call him names
Women always saying that height shit. Stupid for one. But, guess what, same shoe... different foot. Women bout to have a rude awakening when you girls are in the mens spot begging for attention, wanting the sex and having to settle. Muhahahaha... love it. Awesome.
No there is not a lot of women in that range who want a guy like Jamal.
His “standards” are in low supply. A woman youthful, independent (intelligence enough to look after herself and take good enough care of herself to meet his “standards”), physically fit, attractive, and a naturally beautiful can have anything she wants in life. Why would she pick this guy? What does Jamal look like? “Know her place” and not expect him to financially support her? Women like that are in high demand but low in supply. A woman as independent as he wants cannot be controlled in the way he wants. Good luck fellas trying to catch that golden goose. 😂
Anyways, the women responding to his are ridiculous and very jealous cause clearly they want him but can’t have him in the way they want. But notice, there are nnnnnoooo women that meet Jamal’s standards that want him and are willing to defend him in that comment section.
He’s not attracting his “Mrs. Right”. His standards only attract women that want to use and abuse him while they are looking like Shrek. Look at the responses he got 🤣. Those are his takers of what he’s offering and they clearly hate his guts.
The difference is men can't control or alter our height. But Weight can be lost
Average weight of a black man is 193 in America, average weight of a black woman is 187 in America. As a black man.......I refuses to date over 145-150 myself
There is absolutely *no reason* for women under 6ft to be over 200lbs+. 130-150 max is pretty tastefully normal for adults. Hell I'm not even 190lbs towering 5'11"
I weigh 135lbs and I could tell you right now I definitely don’t look like I’m built like a child! ☺️👍🏽 Trust me you can still look curvy and fit! It’s just A LOT of work that needs to be put in! 💪🏽
Also with the whole makeup thing… focus on investing in skin care instead of make up and when you do that you’ll have little to 0 reason to wear it! 👍🏽
Exactly. Lol they just make dumb stuff up out of thin air because they think 300 pounds is the norm for "curvy" women. I once saw a documentary about a poor black family where most of the people in the house were obese. But the youngest daughter was normal weight. Because they weren't used to seeing rib cages and collar bones, they thought she was in poor health 👀 They took her to the doctor, who quickly examined her and told them she's in perfect health. Lol that's when i realized some of us have some F'd up views regarding healthy weight.
It’s mainly black women who feel like this if my client who isn’t black woke up weighing 145 she would fire me. The fitness part of this is more interesting than anything bc we all see it different
I’m going to agree to disagree. Some women don’t wear make up to hide blemishes but rather as a form of artistic expression. Like when I get bored I like to go put butterflies on my face but most of the time I walk around the house. I honestly wear makeup in the house more often than I do outside.
Its a sister thang
@@theyoungandtraveling Are used to be 145 I’m in the 120 s now and I totally miss that weight
Shit...my standards are pretty simple. A chick asked me what I wanted from a woman. Hinting she looking at us in a different light. I told her, "I don't want the pretty girl, I don't want the freaky girl, I just want a girl that knows how to follow instructions". They never know how to react. I met a Black/Filipina str8 from the Philippines, barely been here for a little over a yr. Told her the same shit and her reply was, "I know how to do that". And it's been history since. But one thing I do note is this, the more she gets caught up with this American culture. She is acting a little different. A new found boldness. But she does it in a way that helps us, not push us apart.
Nice story. And honestly that last part is important, ain't nothing wrong with being strong, as long as it's for the benefit of us
My wife became more out going since I'm naturally confident when we first got together. Her family loved it, her friends? Not so much. All of them were married when we got together, 8 years later we're still together with two kids, 3/4 of her friends are already divorced or are in the process of getting one while her former best friend is still single at 50. Good times, lol.
@@lavellelee5734 ...fo real. Like the other day we fussing about a bill. She looked at the bill pile 3 days prior. How I know, she circled it in red ink with 3??? and the date. This is a bill that I usually pay, my part of our house. She tells me that it was due in 2 days and I'm arguing back that I had at least a week left on it. But she wouldn't back down. So she ran and got the bill and showed it to me, and she was right. I immediately apologized, and she was like "No thing bae, you got a lot on your mind. I got it." Went and found her purse and paid that shit. Like a I said, she getting a little bolder, putting her feet down when need to. But she does it so slick tho, that I can't help to respect her more. When I met this woman, I had just got lucky on a mom/pops corner store that was being sold. Spent my whole life savings on it 2yrs ago. I was renting a "room" when I met her, running my spot 7days/wk. Ain't making money to hire yet. First she asked me to move with her. And I was, "No because then that'll be "your" shit, let's get a place together and make it "our" shit." She agreed to it and we are here, working on growing the store "first" so we can attain that house. We are already saving, but she understands that it's a priority the store succeeds. For that to happen. She works, but once a week on one her days off, she'll cover me for half a day at the store, so I can get my rest. She she help me figure that I had a spot in the back of my neck, that when she massages it. I melt like ice-cream. She would be, "Why are you always so tense right here" and go to work. Hate when she does that movie-night. Makes me fall asleep before the end of the damn thing.
Thats how my ex wife was shes also black and japanese..seems the ones over seas got it..god bless her soul..she passed away
@@seancouger007 Sorry to hear that, my condolences. I'm glad you were able to experience her love in full while she was here. God bless you sir.
They said 145 pounds is a child, so they must think 200 pound women is normal. More delusion.
It seems like shaming is second nature once a woman gets over 200 lbs. It's disgusting the awful things they'll say to protect a fragile ego
Women shame as a way of reputation destruction.
Lisrem to the women in your life, you'll see very quickly how they turn on each other and run their mouths slagging each other off.
I personally hypothesis half the words we have to negatively described a woman, were created by women.
Not necessarily 200lbs.... depends on the height. could be as low as 170.
A ego that nobody cares for
When you know your worth you will have standards. Those who are mad about that truly feel that they can’t live up to your standards, and they are upset at the fact that they don’t have the willingness to have standards themselves. Live Laugh Love 💚
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I seriously don’t get why women/anyone get mad if they don’t meet a stranger’s standards. There’s so many people in the world, so don’t fret over one persons very reasonable standards. Also, I don’t get personally offended if I don’t meet someone’s standards because all that means is we’re not compatible. I meet my man’s standards and that’s the only thing I care about. Women need to stop taking everything as a personally attack 🤦♀️.
I agree with you gothly
Alot of women go for the 'if he doesn't want/ accept every women' (even morbidly obese). He's just gay.
Because women love options. When they don’t fit mens standards, their options diminish, and that drives them up a wall.
@@danielcook11 as woman I truly hate when women do that. Not very man is going to like you and it’s ok I’m full figured woman but who is nerdy a lot men didn’t like me
And did I cry nope I just move on and till I found my soul mate who Am I getting married to next year
See he is probably the six figured guy that some of them are looking for. So now he articulates his standard which means some are no longer in the running. He knows his worth and because of this he wants someone just as worthy. Nothing wrong with the standards that were set.
To any women reading this, a man would rather you look good without make up than with it. I want to see you as beautiful after a shower, at the pool, first thing when we wake up in the morning and when we are around the house in sweats watching TV.
Real shit.
There's a line I was thinking for my comic in the future it basically go like " I believe that things such as makeup are fool's gold. You can look dazzling in the ballroom or intoxicating in a night lounge, only for that allure to rubbed off with a simple washcloth. True beauty is not a supermodel whom starves herself, or someone who has more makeup brands then they have food and water. No, true beauty is owning your flaws, owning your current level whether it's average more or less, and being clever enough to make the most of it, to use it to your advantage madem"
Yea it used to be, make-up enhances your features, to now, make-up changes your entire face.. when someone contours their nose to take on a whole new shape.. that's ridiculous to expect a man to accept this catfishing..
A man’s face is his life story a woman’s face is a work of fiction.
I actually love those standards!! Nothing wrong with them. Heck I would have almost fit the bill besides the tattoo rule haha. May he find the right woman
You're a cool individual! Sucks that these broads dissing him make other good women look bad when he clearly has the confidence, work eithic, and self respect to himself right here. These types of women be wildin for the world to only be in their favor! Lmao
Yeaaaaah you one of them rare type of females every good dude wished they ran Into out In public because it's ridiculous these days and it's too much to explain
Same here 😂. I got tats, but my man likes them. But I really don’t think that man has outrageous standards by any means and he’ll find the woman he’s looking for.
men are finally waking up.. we're no longer about big A*** or beautiful faces...
Nothing wrong with a few tats. But some people take it tofar
I was with a lady that was about 5'4" & right around the 135-145 range. She worked as a CNA so she wore scrubs. Her everyday clothes didn't do much to give away what her body looked like. The first time I saw her without clothes I was shocked. She had a body of curves & was very toned.
"145 is a child" .... that's a very over weight child. I came close to his standards but I fell out of the running with a few of his requirements... I'm working on the weight I've got 10lbs to go to get to the 145. I'm trying.
155 is pretty good most guys would be content with that but continue the good work and make yourself happy
Trust me we good w that we don’t care if you 170 lmaooo
It's unfortunate that our truth and standards are considered misogyny.
Some women simply want to be in control. Men should stick with what they want and not be forced into dating Lizzo or fat Alberta
My standards are “Be better than me”😂 I love nerds, dorks and geeks🥰 I love Fun Facts and chill
"Under 145lbs is a child!"
Ummmm, I'm a 6' tall dude and weighed 140-145lbs for most of my 20's. Being fat doesn't make you more of a woman or adult, it just makes you fat.
Edit: Or muscular, in some, but very few cases. Most people nowadays are just overweight from excess calories.
Meanwhile those ladies standards:
"Must be 6'3 or above, must make over 750k a year, must be ripped like Thor, must take care of me, must have 9 inch dong, must have no kids, must not make me sign a prenup, must buy me anything I want, must take me on vacations around the world at least 4 times a year, must not have any standards." 😒
😂😂exactly
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and must be a bad boy thats sensitive
They should then marry their dad's coz no man is his lady's father..He may provide for the family if they married and she brings her half to te table too.
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So, I am 130 pounds and am in no way a child. And I also have curves in all the right places. Damn. Plummer women talk about how everyone shames them. Yet when a man prefers a woman who is not a bigger size. We are called child like. Please. Wanna talk about hypocrisy at its finest. Anyway, I think he was honest and upfront about the kind of woman he sees himself with. Hell if some of these ladies could learn to do that they wouldn't need to spend some much time trying to find the "perfect" man. AOK. I. So happy and proud of how much you have grown. I've been kept up on your progress with all you have set out to do. Keep shedding light on these horrible women bashing good Men. Much love and respect ❤️ and Celebrid. Girl! You are awesome!!! Much love and respect to you as well. ❤️
We’re men, we practically all prefer a woman who isn’t a bigger size
I’m proud of pops stating what he wants in a woman, and if they don’t fit his preference he’s not having it. I don’t blame him one bit for what he’s looking for
Woman: I want a man that makes a minimum of 7 figures, has a huge house, multiple cars, a boat, jet, loves to travel and be physically fit.
Man: I'll like a woman who's a debt free virgin without tattoos.
Woman: YOU'RE AWFUL, YOU MUST LIKE CHILDREN!!
it's more like....
Man: I don't want an obese women
Women: HOW DARE U!!!!!
im woman and i understand that is a irrational response for a female.I have sympathy for yall
You forgot 6 feet tall and can't have kids when they have multiple kids with multiple men.
He didnt even say the virgin part...
🤣 Dang debt free virgin with no Tattoos. lol... That's the dream there.
Crazy when a successful man wants what you can’t offer, you shame him
What type of woman does he think he's going to have if she has a successful career though?
@@mrworkowt5419 my guy a woman that can hold her own wtf u talking bout
@@thestache5424
A woman that can hold her own in modern times being she has masculine Tendencies so good luck trying to put your foot down on the final decision!
I weigh 145 and I’m no where near a child confusion 🤣🤣 like that’s crazy
That is very much correct as a matter effect its a little far from average, 145 lbs is 65kg, i and the average woman weight is actually 50-55kg or 111-122lbs, and the average height for a woman is 5'4, take it from a guy that's actually 5'4 myself, i weight 60kg or 133lbs, and i a bit on the muscular side, im not fat at all, ner do i look like skinny either, i promise you, 145lbs, is actually above the average weight for a woman, these woman have no reason to be mad about weight...
I'm a muscular 5 foot 10 male who works out every day and I only weigh beetween 145 and 150 on average! Anyone who thinks 145 is a kid would have to be talking about an obese kid xD I think the people all sayin that's a kids weight probably weighed more than that when they were kids xD that's why their mad.
Something to take into account is that the average person over 40 is obese or overweight in America while the average person in their early 20s is only mildy chubby or skinny! Only a somewhat low percentage of young people are overweight compared to middle aged and elderly! By 40 a person's metabolism is about 80% of a young person's so it's not rly the metabolism causing it but just that men and woman dont care as much about their weight and health and fitness in their 40s when their already married than they do when their in their early 20's trying to attract a partner!
Lol it's good to see sistas correct these dummies. Believe it or not, a lot of sistas feel this way.
THANK U FOR STATING FACTS TALKING BOUT HE WANNA A LIL GIRL ITS OBVIOUS HE DONT WANT A BIG GIRL!
I laugh at these women getting all *pikachu shocked face* at us men for having standards. These women have astronomical insane standards that can't be met at all or they're making ish up. I have mine which makes women angry in an instant. I told them 🤷🏾♂️, you ladies have yours, I have mine if you can't meet those standards, you will be rejected w/o any explanation. Half of that man's requirement is almost the same as mine. I love his requirement that a woman must have a career. In this day and age, it is a requirement.
Translation "Put that degree to use!"
Accountability tastes bitter when it's being held by you
i used hinge for sometime as a dating app and one of the prompts are "i want someone who..." and i said i want a women who carries herself with class, doesnt need to show alot of skin or have alot of makeup to look good, and i got several women responding with hateful words and making it seem like im the one with the issue😂 why is it all of a sudden "not cool" to carry urself with respect and class in the black community. we are just fitting the stereotypes, we need to do better
Good for him.... Don't settle, sir. You want what you want ... Go get that girl😉
These women are delusional! My wife is 5'3" and under 145lbs, after having TWINS!! I don't think the problem is the men, here.
So it's okay for women to have standards but men mustn't yeah okay.
That’s the bs world we live in today. Straight clown show
Y’all out here lambasting women for having unrealistically high standards but act shocked when woman lambast men for their unrealistic standards?
Did you read Jamal’s list?
Jamal is picky. He said it. Nothing wrong with that and nothing wrong with picky women either. But are their standards realistic?
A woman youthful, independent (intelligence enough to look after herself and take good enough care of herself to meet his “standards”), physically fit, attractive, and naturally beautiful can have anything she wants in life. Why would she pick this guy? What does Jamal look like? “Know her place” and not expect him to financially support her? Women like that are in high demand but low in supply. A woman as independent as he expects cannot be controlled in the way he wants.
Anyways, the women responding to him are ridiculous and very jealous cause clearly they want him but can’t have him in the way they want. But notice, there are nnnnnoooo women that meet Jamal’s standards that want him and are willing to defend him in that comment section.
He’s not attracting his “Mrs. Right”. His standards only attract women that want to use and abuse him while looking like Shrek. Look at the responses he got 🤣. Those are his takers to whatever he’s offering and they clearly hate his guts.
@@GoBooYourself damn like women are different? At least when a man has a standard it’s something a woman chose to have (like a tattoo), or weight (you can diet). But these women clown him but have the double standards of stuff he can’t change like his height. That is genetics, not something you can change. These women being in low supply is why the world will probably the population is gonna drop drastically. But hey, it’s a definitely a good look when you have women who have double standards, won’t take responsibility and blame EVERYTHING on everyone else, who talks trash and “exposes” every guy who criticizes her in anyway shape or form. If women wanna act like this. Fuck’em I’ll just die alone. Better than how these women are acting. Because I would rather live alone in peace, than have a girl in my life but chaotic as hell just because she’s toxic asf. No thanks
@@GoBooYourself no those are his detractors who don't fit the bill...those are women who can't. the difference here is that what he's asking for in some aspects are perhaps difficult to find. what alot of women ask for is leaning more to impossible. the weight he's requesting is not impossible...go to a gym it's plenty. not listening to todays music ...he didn't say his age but he sounds at least 40 that not difficult especially since he didn't say what race she had to be. her own well paying career...well hell social media is full of women claiming to check that box....and loads of bw admire the concept of "power couple" don't see an issue with the money dispersement in that instance. the only hard ask I read was a woman who is in a successful well paying career position who also " knows her place" he didn't elaborate on that so everything concerning that is assumptions....I will say though the women who seem to have the most issues when it comes to being a boss but turning that off when they go home are typically bw. the default stage is boss b...instead of the default state being feminine...also bm have shown themselves to be the most equiped to deal with that. also again he did not limit his request to one race or another. the majority of women list pale in comparison to his in length. go directly against the averages and norms in our society. are usually based on what they perceive other culture's have or how they behave despite being vehemently against mirroring those same cultures and it's behaviors. most of the things he didn't want are culture driven. tattoo's aren't necessities. makeup aren't necessities...not having a man take care of u isn't a necessity...women speak on independence all day. what alot of women be asking for goes directly against the norms of nature? especially when we are talking about physical standards. it is a very different set of ideals in my opinion and his to me isn't anywhere as " ridiculous" as some of what most men have heard women set as "standard's"
@@spazz-ok9nr
Come on man! He doesn’t need to elaborate on “knows her place.” Everyone knows what is meant by that the same way we all know what is meant when a guy who says “go the the kitchen and make me a sandwich.” He wants a submissive woman. An obedient woman. Those are not also independent woman who have their own money.
Gyms cost money, time and pain. Women don’t invest in time, pain and money to land an a$$hol3 who expects her to pay her way and be submissive.
Power couples usually are ppl who are both physically attractive. They also are closer in age and are at similar levels in their career milestones. Our boy isn’t asking for a partner who can meet him half way. He want her to mind herself. No intelligent, ambitious, successful woman would submit to Jamal. That man can’t come to a woman like that and tell her what she can and cannot listen to, what she can and cannot wear… etc. our boy wants control. To have control he needs leverage. He has none. The woman he want has all of it. He wants a high value woman. Those women are in high demand but low in supply which means she can have whatever she want. She’s not submitting if he’s not paying for her to.
I really don't see anything wrong with his standards. Go ahead my dude!
Funny how women get so pissed when he clearly states his likes and dislikes in a woman. But if he ain't 6 foot and makes 6 figures they don't want nothing to do with him.
What type of woman does he think he's going to have if she has a successful career though?
Very sad the mental state of so many women. I'm 5'3 and 138 lbs (muscle) and look nothing like a child. I was teased by females my entire life because I was small and for years I thought something was wrong with ME. It really affected my confidence to the point that I would withdraw from social settings to avoid the comments on my size by bigger women. I'm so glad I have finally accepted my being smaller than most people.
You're fine and healthy. Fuck them big Shirley's
we already know how they feel about men when they express their preferences. 🤨
Hungry hungry hippos they are. Greed, they have much of... ~Master Yoda
Now this is the kind of man I'd swipe right on, and did 😉. And 5 years later, we're still going strong. I have respect for the fact that he wants us to save money, and I encourage it! 5 years in and we're going on our first trip together ❤️ I don't wear makeup, I don't like it. And he prefers me that way. Thank you for loving women in their natural state.
And they wonder why we don’t care to much on dating or marriage anymore 🤦🏽♂️😂
Yep stuff like this is the reason why a dude always have to know that their inner peace and happiness matters if you know that this day and age of relationships and marriages aren't what you expect stay moving forward and focusing on you to hell with what those modern women thinking and feeling what they think and feel
What type of woman does he think he's going to have if she has a successful career though?
My wife was 4’11 when we met, she still 4’11, 15 years later… ain’t never been 145 lbs… these women clearly don’t know what a BMI or an MIT stand for.
Shout out 2 the natural women yall winning
Its been said time and time again.Every time a man has standards hes shamed for it and women do they are praised for it.They come to the table to consume not to contribute in anyway.
None of his standards are unreasonable. He knows what he wants and he's going for it; he could find it, lower his standards/settle (not recommended in his situation), or end up alone. I hope he finds something and doesn't compromise his standards. If I'm being honest I don't yet date, partly because if I don't yet meet my own standards, who am I to dare impose them on someone else.
One of the great things about being a man is that we can pick and choose the women we want to romantically pursue.
We men are the customers and nobody gets to tell the customers what they want or should accept.
Adults and children alike have disliked me for my moral compass my entire life. Imma keep doing what’s right
Smh. Boy I tell ya. They are the least desired group in the world for a reason. They talk about men who don't have any standards and drag them, but then they talk about men who have standards and drag them too.
And they wonder why they say "sysbm" (Save yourself black man) and why we take our success and talents elsewhere. This is exactly why alot of men who are worth their weight in gold don't deal with black women. Time and time again we women who are literally 200-300 plus pounds (regardless of height), all types of out of shape, fake hair, fake nails, some even with missing teeth, fake eye lashes, multiple children with multiple men, and had the nerve to say they're "celibate" and will not have sex until marriage, say they don't want a man with children, has to be at least 6'0, in shape, making at least 100k a year, works out regularly, goes to church, will take care of her and all of her children, and to add insult to injury, she's not having anymore children. Any black man that's doing something for himself that wants a good, natural, feminine, and in shape woman is somehow gay and a pedo, but they never say that about white men, or any other man for that matter, who want the exact same thing. Smh. That's black women for ya. But then again, they're the ones who literally brought sin into the world because they wouldn't listen and are unruly. They've been like this literally since the beginning of time.
Look how all the responses are aligned with one another. They banded together and dished out all the same insults.
Man: must be feminine, know how to cook, no tattoos, if you a city girl you’re for the street.
Woman: you’re a misogynistic, you’re gay, you’re a child predator, you have momma issues, you’re bum daddy should thought you respect of women.
Women: must be 6,0 feet tall or above, must make 6 figures, have tattoos, have a 6 pack must pay attention too me 24/7, pay for my dates and pay my bills, give me money for my hair nails and take me clothes shopping.
1 out of 20 page complete (YOU’RE A QUEEN YOU GO GIRL)
They have a problem with it because it’s a Brotha, the gynocracy tells BM that you should accept BW with how they are.
“Yo mama black, you must be gay, you look like you date WW” we heard it all.
I'm currently a housewife and this still didn't bother me. Folks really be making it a priority to try to tell people what they should like or want. 🥴
What type of woman does he think he's going to have if she has a successful career though?
@@mrworkowt5419 I had to go back and watch the video to see what this was even about lol. But he's going to have a woman that is just as busy as him if not busier. He's probably busy a lot, so having a partner who is also busy can minimize one or the other feeling neglected. That is assuming the demands of their careers balances out and one doesnt have significantly more free time than the other. Attention/quality time may be an issue at some point. But hey... what floats someone else's boat doesn't rock mine. 🤷🏾♀️
The Sistahood is a strong coalition, but my adherence to my standards is stronger. I look at character, sense of humor, common sense, cooperation, compassion, and general appearance. Your size will never subtract points; you may get a little extra credit if you're "fit", but if the things I mentioned aren't there, it won't matter if you're two steps from the runway. If you look markedly different with makeup on compared to it off, no. Tattoos, generally no. I expect to pay for everything only if you're my child. If you're able to pay occasionally, it will be accepted and appreciated. Bottom line: You need to add value to my life. If you only define the word "value" as "money", no. Any woman who calls me gay or broke or accuses me of loving children too much because of what I just wrote is doing _me_ a favor. She is making my life easier by giving me back the time I might have wasted, so thanks to her.
But they’re strong n independent 🤣
Exactly! But as soon as the dude said "I will not be take care of you." They go crazy! Lol
@@zeroremnant4477 make it make sense 😂
as a man I don't see what this guy is offering a woman and I doubt any would deal with him
I'm 42 I don't wear any makeup I do wear lipstick but not every day so I don't see anything wrong with his standard. I have tattoos but unless I show them to you, you would never know now I wish I was a 145 pound but with my height I would look like I'm smoking Crack lmao. I don't see anything wrong with what he said all women should be able to take care of themselves. I also hate all the new music old school me please lol. This man just like what he like, and it's definitely someone out there to fit his request.
Seems fair and not too far fetched. It especially makes sense since he’s much older too (than me)
What type of woman does he think he's going to have if she has a successful career though?
Lmao I remember when a friend of a friend has home girl reached out to me because she was interested. She was working on that weird show P-valley 🤣🤣🤣. I turned her down because she has a tattoo of an ex on her arm and that was my ONLY standard. I have never….EVER seen a woman that pissed off before. Needless to say. I was all kinds of lil dick energy, no good nigga, light skinned nobody Lmmfao 🤣🤣🤣
Lol I swear I don't even take women seriously who results to insults like "that's why Your D is small" I just laugh and move on.
Dude you’re funny bro!! I’m
Laughing more at your commentary then the BBW 49er replies!
True story: I posted a comment under a woman's post on Facebook a few days ago. The post was about her opinion about men being good fathers. I gave her truth about women need to pick better men. She basically insulted me the whole time exactly like the women in those comments. She called me a woman, said I gave her pedophile vibes, and etc. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 Women use that "last resort insults" when they know they're losing, they're wrong, when a man gives his standards, and etc. I see women say this exact same thing all over social media to men. 🤷🏾♂️
Hats off to this guy, he know what he wants. 145lbs isn’t a child at all, maybe a overweight child
What type of woman does he think he's going to have if she has a successful career though?
I like 210 plus. Natural everything, no tattoos or piercing. Women get mad at me when I bring up the tattoo or piercings and call me crazy.
I think I match your standards......... imagine a natural ass bouncing on your oops
Yep if you don't like one thing about them, they will absolutely lose their minds and go into shaming mode
It's like most of them forget that most of us men do have standards, always have.
"Modern Day" women to be precise.
Those females got in they feelings real quick😂 it amazes me how they can have standards and be picky but we supposed to accept them as is, plus love them and spoil them all while dealing with the a bad attitude and they foul mouth. Im with the guy set standards and don't just settle for anything.😎
This is why I keep my circle small…comprised of like minded women 😮💨 It baffles me how some deflect when threatened because they don’t qualify for the standards requested yet set outlandish standards for others that they themselves are incapable of upholding 🤔🧠🚮
I'm glad to see a successful man have standards keep them going buddy
if you strong and independent then it shouldn't be a problem with what the first guy said.
That's the kicker, they aren't
What type of woman does he think he's going to have if she has a successful career though?
@@mrworkowt5419 idk to be honest but i would think you would want someone on your level at least. this way they can't shame you for making less money than them and possibly lose respect for you.
@@TheMegatron673
That's not how male female relationships work she doesn't have to be on his level as far as finances.
@@mrworkowt5419 how does it work?
Im a white guy, raised someone elses, had a son to be proud of, work all the time then had a procedure not to have anymore! Im good sir! I love your channel watch them while one the treadmill and you hust prove to me in your videos that women are actually like what Ive known my whole life(Im 59). Thank you for your work and mich respect to you....PLEASE CONTINUE FOR THE YOUNGER VICTIMS OUT THERE 🤜🤛🙏👍BLESS YOU SIR!
It ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun.😂
I like what Jamal Ali wrote. I can concur with everything he said. Those women are only mad because they don't meet his standards. They also should get sued for defamation of his character.
i don't blame him for not wanting a 200 plus pound woman. all that FAT and obese body possitivity crap don't mean a damn thing when it involves your health.
Hungry hungry hippos they are. Greed, they have much of... ~Master Yoda
This
Stuff like this people shouldn't have to censor out their names cause people should call them out. It's funny how all of these women are calling him broke yet their FB pic isn't even them.
I am 2 months out of a 13 year relationship where I was raising 3 kids that turned out to not be mine. Not one. I find myself with animosity towards all women. How do I get a handle on this? Please help me.
ngl bro, u might need therapy. or try to become a stoic. Theres yt videos abt stoicism. And you always gotta remember time heals.
you need therapy. Don't take out what that puta did to you on other women. There are still virtuous women out here.
Focus on yourself. Improve yourself in every way possible
I’m sorry you have deal with that pain but I would suggest therapy to help work out some that animosity and focus on your self and find something a new hobby to put your focus in instead of being angry I had my best friend who went though this this help him a lot I wish you the best 😊
And this is why the government needs to enforce DNA at birth.. you shouldn't have been put through this and your feelings are completely understandable.. the fact that you're reaching out for support is a credit to your character and strength.. try looking into support groups with other men who have been through this.. unfortunately there's alot of men who have been taken advantage of by disgusting women like this.. they maybe able to suggest a good therapist or other things that have helped them.. hopefully you find a good woman in the future, who will respect you and bring peace and happiness to your life.. all the best brother..
The comment section of that post was a mini-convention of the Sisterhood of Failure.
What I will say is expecting a woman to have a high paying job and to know her place in a feminine frame is a hard ask. Everything else is understandable enough.
Fact
true true
It’s really not that hard. Just don’t be disagreeable, argumentative, bitter, unbearable… Most people, women, should easily pass,
but man… times are sad
Big mad energy from the ones who don't qualify.
What's interesting is that Shamu and the flock have standards that are unrealistic to the world; this man, this 'soul' brother, has standards that are down-to-earth are picked apart and chastised by the Walrus brigade.......amazing how they have time to work them thumb muscles but not the arms, legs, thighs, shoulders, etc.
Interesting that this is the case when someone asks for someone who has a healthy lifestyle and takes care of themselves and that's a problem......the boss babes ain't hot shit if they need help pushing the door open it seems
I need a copy of that... All women need to understand that because they want the same.
This is hilarious 🤣😅😂🤣😅😂🤣😅😂🤣😅😂 Pick Me's attack🤣😅😂🤣😅😂🤣😅😂
Ong salty as saltbae 😂
I'm 25 nearly 125 lbs with curves. Does that make me a child?🤔 Like make it make sense. 🤦🏾♀️
Why are they mad? I thought we were doing away with the unfair patriarchal society and now we are trying to be more equal. If men can do it, then women can as well, and vice versa?
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I will say this man is a superb catch. I am sorry he is going thru this torment. He has the right to ask for those standards in a woman...especially if he has a young daughter. There are women out there who can match those standards, but they are far and few. I have standards just like that but I am not looking for a partner currently. I am enjoying 😉 my own company and success.
Ignore those small-minded women. I wish him and the gentleman who runs the Different Perspective You Tube channel all the best in finding a good partner. It is a difficult task.
What about thier standard that men need to be 6ft tall that's not realistic for every man
Sour grapes. Easier to tear this accomplished man down than build yourself into someone he'd desire. Lazy, entitled, spoiled, argumentative and the need to be right. I wish this man luck, he's looking for a unicorn in this day and age. We all are.
For reference I looked up Danica Patrick. 5' 2" and 106 pounds.
These women are so hurt by one mans preferences, that they're calling him a pedophile.....just *wow* 🥴 and like there isn't under 65kg curvy women out there lol 😂🤔 Also, he said he likes curves and what child got those?
Smfh, how disgusting behavior.
"145 is a child"
Bich, i weighed 145 as a man several months ago after cutting.
I'm back up to 160 now after months of bulking, but soon i'm gonna cut again.
I expect to be back in the 140's, just more if it will be muscle than fat this time.
how tall are you?
ya think of this, they are complaining about staying under 145 with very little muscle. Unlike a dude who has more muscle. So they can't even cut the fat weight.
@@IMJUSTthatACE 5'8
Same bro I'm 5 foot 10.5 just under 5 foot 11 without shoes and over 6 ft with shoes on and I work out everyday doing calisthenics and I used to bulk by eating tons of chicken but I just eat normal now and do calisthenics and I weigh beetween 145 and 150 on average and before I started working out I weighd 135 on average and I had weight 135 all the way from middle school till mostly through high school and in high school I was fluctuating beetween 135 an 140 but from working out I'm now always around 145+ to 150! And im 22 rn half way to 23! If I ate tons of chicken still i would prob be 155 on avg
With calisthenics your pretty much doing only body weight exercises and progress to being able to do one arm pullups or weighted one arm pull ups and by the time you can lift your entire weight with one arm you can also lift a person your same weight into the air with only one arm and I'm able to easily do muscle ups, pull ups and dips on gym rings with someone holding onto my back and It feels like I have super human strength even tho it's just normal for people doing calisthenics! I've only been doing calisthenics since 21 also and before that I could already lift logs twice my body weight cause I spent years logging from 17 to 21 and I still log sometimes so I had crazy strength for my size anyways but now it's insane, I can lift a man 3 times my weight above my head with both hands and throw them like a sack of potatoes, I basically never have to worry about someone attacking me cause I have immense strength from calisthenics and I'm incredibly shredded! Ever single muscle fiber in my upper body is visible and I have death star delts, my shoulders and chest and lats and back muscles look abnormally big compared to most my body and because of how myostatin works, if you work out for 1 hr a day you lower your myostatin levels in your body by 40% and myostatin is the chemical that Inhibits muscle growth so by working out your upper body every day it acctually causes all muscles including the butt and leg muscles to get significantly bigger to just at a slower rate than the muscles your working out but basically working out just your upper body still causes big gains everywhere else and for a guy myostatin even prevents their member from being as big and so working out every day causes your member to get longer and girthier because it's made of soft muscle which is also affected by myostatin! Also because of all my muscles getting bigger it makes the spine and everything a tiny more stretched by the muscles pushing eachother apart and so working out does make you a Lil taller too just cause you have more space beetween all your joints and spinal columns! I've never used any kind of supplement and I only work out 30 minutes to an hour a day on my gym rings sometimes with weight attached to me but mostly just with my body weight! I cant tell you how much calisthenics improves the time in the bedroom too xD you can pick chicks up like their a feather and do things most guys cant do and rly give chicks the time of their life xD when I was in high school I remember being only able to carry my girlfriend for like a couple minutes before I'd be exhausted and now it's easier than ever and chicks rly like being picked up and manhandled ;)
Wow... for a CEO his standards are quite low? 👀 As a below average woman, I almost fit his standards.
I'm under 55 kg.. I'm sick of women putting my weight down.. I'm no child, I'm in my mid 30s, have children.. overweight isnt curvy either, curvy has always been like having an hr glass shape or hips atleast, not an apple shape 🙄.. and some guys doesn't want curvy, I still look feminine being a small frame.. and this make-up comment is sooo valid, look at the difference between when a woman wears make-up to none 😳 literally a whole different person in alot of cases..
Depending on your height 55kg can be "normal" or "petite" which is totally fine imo. I think in todays time and age due to the rising numbers of obese people the concept of "normal" body composition is being warped. More and more people are fat so you lose the view for what is considered small or fit or whatever.
@@KorashSyndikat being 5'1 and having a really small bone structure, 52kgs is an effort for me to get to, I was alil under 47kgs before I starting to exercise.. different cultures have different bone structures, ppl in general have different bone structures.. these women are such hypercrits talking down against smaller framed cultures.. overweight isn't curvy, and most men don't want these loud mouth, overbearing women trying to be the man in the relationship..
That brotha has a right to have his standards! Honestly, we need to get rid of dating apps completely and go back to meeting people in person.
This is just overweight women being mad. I'm under 130 and got curves. And I'm definitely not a child. I just know how to not eat like a pig.
I respect every word he said. He like what he like...dont get mad because you dint fit the bill. Same on those ladies!
I had standards, recently a girl raised them for me lol. My future gfs if I bother has her to blame for my standards being even higher. I didn't know I wanted something like that in my life til she acted that way toward me. My standards are not half bad if I lived a few decades back lol.
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I could but does it matter no, but fuck it.
-Looks. My style is one of those Goth esque Rock Latinas. With some cake tits can be somewhat average. I am okay with sacrificing boobage for some cake lol. I also do not mind a genuine redhead. Asians are also acceptable.
-Smart, or willingness to learn.
-Strong Willed. Some bullheadness is allowed.
-Can cook. I kinda recently started wanting that one added in. I cook for myself 3 to 4 times a day be nice to take a break lol.
-5'10" to 5'.
-Nothing over 180.
-Supportive. That one is an addition thanks to another chick who was somewhat a cheerleader to me. I kinda appreciate being supported cheered on etc. Took a bit to get used though.
-No Pet Ambers at all again ever.
-Some kink.
-Does actually want sex quite often.
-Genuine as in if she asks me something because she genuinely wants the answer. Not out of courtesy that irks me to no end.
-Maybe humor because I can be a bit of a Jester.
-Honest with me. I can understand hahah jokingly lying type of things we all do but when asked flat out etc I want honesty.
-Guess doesn't mind I am an Atheist. That seems to be a yuge deal where I currently live.
Now I do not expect to find that at all in my current state of life. However that is my preference to a degree. When things are straightened out well enough I will potentially go out hunting for that. However I am okay with dying alone as well. My preferences will only get stricter.
I'm also a dude in tech and 40, that dude says words like "know her place", that is a big red flag for any woman, it means he wants to control her and treat her like a dog. The dude is not worth the hustle.
One of the main problems I see in today’s dating pool is everyone is posting their list of standards like job descriptions, thinking that is a way to weed out the undesirables, however in many cases it opens the door to plenty of posers, so even more time and energy is wasted on weeding the posers out. Whatever happened to just dating to get to know each other and seeing were it leads? A perfect list will rarely, if at all, have perfect results.
Dating apps ruined that. Gone are the days of traditional ways of meeting face to face. Now it's swipe this swipe that and online profiles with algorithm matches. Truly dystopian.
Because if someone knows what you like/dislike initially it will save both time from either possible rejection or just wasting time period
You make valid points. The only thing I'd like to point out is he contradicts himself. He says she needs to know her place. Then he says she needs to have a career that pays well. I hate to make assumptions, but for a man with it all together to say the woman should know her place, I get the sense he means in the home. He could mean cooking and cleaning. Or he could mean subservient to him. Either way, a woman that has her stuff together is not going to be either one of those. I expected the women to key on that. I did not expect the response that he got. That's just crazy!
I’ll say this, I’m 32 have a beautiful wife and kids. We take care of each other, the kids, and our home. If you make over 100k and you’re 51 and single. Your standards aren’t the problem. There are probably a few. One he probably trash at communicating with the type of women he is looking for. 2 His standards might be too high for the type of man he is Idk can’t see a picture. But the type of women that he’s describing probably want a good looking, fit, funny type of guy. Personality matters a lot. A lot of dudes that I’ve noticed that constantly complain about women. Usually have terrible personalities and I can see why they’re single. Also if you’re a good leader you don’t need to tell a woman to “know her place” lol I think a lot of you make this dating thing way harder than it needs to be. I’ve had bad relationships and good ones. I don’t blame the entire female gender for that or “ modern woman” some of y’all just trash, and a bad judge of character. You gotta take them Ls sometimes. I’ve taken a few. But instead y’all just cry constantly lol. Both genders do, when the truth is sometimes humans just ain’t shit.
Or women just generally don’t meet his standards and as such hate on him for it. But for you to be making assumptions about his communication skills or personality and looks based off literally nothing is some wild shit like deadass what’s even the reason for your comment? Also, the comment section literally proves that women DO find his standards an issue
It's funny how you say "a lot of you make this dating thing harder than it needs to be" when you're here with a paragraph of assumptions. The dating game can be exhausting. Seems like this man is tired of wading through garbage and decided to simply say what he wants and have that person come to him. If anything, he made it as simple as possible for both parties.
SIMP ALERT!!!!!! Someone has been drinking some HATORADE.... I guess LIZZO has dispatched her minion to undermine a successful/accomplished man with standards
Ye, I wouldn't judge people so quickly off of just a dating profile, we haven't even seen his face, and we haven't met him to see how he communicate with people. Also if women that ain't sh*t can have their super high standard, then men can also have their standards. Plus I don't see any problem with his standard and I'm just the average Joe. These standards used to be normal for the average Joe, we haven't changed our standard, women have dropped in quality, resulting in men not caring and thus dropping their own quality. If the average women would actually be fair in this then average would fit the average man. Problem is the average women don't fit the average men standard anymore. Men haven't changed much, women on the other hand have done a 180 turn on their standard and their sexual market value. These standard we see in the video, they've Been the average Joe standards since forever. Concerning your own situation you may as well have said "I got an average girl from the good old days". No point in bragging about getting what used to be the average woman as your wife. If anything you're either the average dude and got very lucky or you legit just picked up what used to be an average girl and took her as your wife, when you could've gotten better.
No woman with curves is 145lbs????? I'm gonna assume a Lizzo sized woman typed that.
Damn. This dude is setting up reasonable standards. I don't see how being 145lbs is impossible for a woman. Unless you don't take care of yourself and eat junk food and take-out all the time.
If thats unreasonable, then dating is mostly dead for the average guy. And you can go kick rocks about the whole same sex thing and being "controlling", but the latter already tells me that you wanted to control him.
I agree, the points they stressed are the makeup and the weight, these comnents are from overweight women! How they aint say anything about the taste in music or the tattoos? They cant get past the weight and the inability to hide their self hate, so sad
That man is awesome! I understand his preference. We all have preferences...I am with him regarding make-up, make-up is for Enhance, not cake up! I like natural too, men enhance their natural with their 'natural' look. BTW...your beard is awesome, so clean 👌
This man pushed AAAALLL their buttons 😆 Got 'em mad as hell lol