Before I got married, I had a $50 first date spending limit rule. I would tell women up front, the first date is the "get to know you" date not the "I'm trying to impress you" date. We can hangout, talk, and get something to eat. I ain't trying to spend my whole paycheck on someone I don't know and probably ain't giving it up any time soon. Most women got offended. The one woman who took me up on the offer, I met her at a bar and we talked and sipped until the $50 ran out, she put down $20 on the bar and said "I ain't ready to go home". I married her.
Okay , great. A lot of men, do not have the ability or sense to have a first date $50 spending rule. If the man in these texts had that sense, he would of suggested something besides a free park. Museum, ice cream, ice skating, visiting a sneaker shop, going on a tourist tour.... lots of choices in NYC.
A different perspective indeed. Because she legit turned “seeking a life partner for marriage” into “just a walk in the park” so you think husbands just fall out of the sky and expect to put NO EFFORT EVER? But he has to shell out a few Benjamin’s? Feminism is wild bruh
@Benjamin kharazi how did he disrespect your name ? You know you're not the only person to have the name Benjamin , Benjamin franklin is on the $100 bill, and that's what he was referring to .
WOW, this exact thing happened to me about 2 months ago I met this woman at a Scholastic Sports Benefit a friend of mine was having everything was clicking atleast that's what I thought anyway we exchanged numbers and I called her looking to meet up NO CAP she asked me if I made reservations....I'm like excuse me, she said I don't do first dates without reservations, so I said I don't do reservations on the first date...she called me broke and told me to lose her number....that same night I'm cruising in Waikiki (I live in Hawai'I) I'm at a red light and low and behold I see ol'girl at a bus stop with a few bags I'm looking dead at her but I wasn't going to say anything so I turned the music in my car up to get her attention...I got her attention and I'm assuming she recognized me cause she smiled at me and started walking towards my car, but the light turned green and took off...haven't seen or heard from her since
Same when they tell you to cash app or pay, send their dumb ass a job application. I mean shit, she calls the dude broke but she can't even pay half for dinner lmao what a hypocrite
The funniest part of this is that she doesn't realize he's asking her to the park to find out if she's worth going to a restaurant requiring a reservation
@@Brethefinesser you may want to consider that just as you have standards, so do men. The whole point of asking her out to a coffee or something simple is to be able to get to know her well enough to know if she's worth the time and money to take her on a full date. You'd think knowing that so many women will go on a date just for a free meal, that you'd want a guy smart enough to do this.
@@Brethefinesser you're comparing having to put clothes on to be out of the house to paying for a date and saying that's a level playing field.... nope, there's no issue with that mindset at all 🤣🤣
My first date with my now husband was a walk in a park. We learned so much about each other then 20 years ago. Now we have a 500k home, 4 cars and six children. We still take walks today.
@@briansarchive3805 😂😂😂😂 He kept me barefoot and pregnant 🤰. Just doing our part to populate the world! It wasn’t with struggle but we grew together. 💜
I love how women think its okay to do this men and put them on blast and call them broke but heaven forbid if a guy was to this to a woman he's gets called an incel, broke and misogynistic.
@@jayr5mitty351 nah no point to stoop to their level.. Plus all they'll "oh men be doing that to women all these year" bullshit talk.. 😒.. My thing is if "we" did that to them.. They would be mature enough to not stoop to this level... Smh
Here's the thing. I'd probably do the same thing as this guy on this first date. I try not to spend too much on a first date. It's not that I'm broke. But, the amount of money I'm willing to spend is dependent upon how much she's into me. A walk in the park is a great way to weed out the entitled, gold digging, women. I don't need that type of negativity, or toxicity, in my life.
Facts bro. I wouldn’t even double text a shawty. I wouldn’t even send a question mark wondering if she saw the message. If she was interested then you wouldn’t have to double text 🤷🏾♂️
Why would you invite someone who lives outside the city centre to travel an hour one-way, if not more, to go take a walk in the park? If there are specific or special activities in the park you're inviting them to, then say that.
I understand that depending on how far she needs to travel, going into the city may be quite a bit of effort, HOWEVER, if it’s a nice day and she’s interested in the guy, I don’t see the issue. You can go for a walk, get ice cream and talk. I would actually like that because as a female it’s nice to not feel “obligated” to sleep with someone because of how much he spent on you, because some men feel entitled to physical reciprocity for spending a lot on a date. This is a public place where if you don’t like him you can leave any time. It’s low anxiety. And then if you hit it off, he will probably suggest going to get some food for a lunch or early dinner. I actually think it’s a really smart plan for both parties.
Thank you and glad a woman understands. A daytime date is meant to be casual and a way to see if there is any chemistry through conversation. Notice she didn't come up with an ideas for a good date and instead complained and was difficult.
From HER POV: She doesn't want to give any time to this guy unless the activity is worth it for HER, no interest in the person but what the person has or can do for her. (Entitlement) From HIS POV: Let's go on an easy chill date where we can chat ang get to know each other (Minimal Financial Investment as he doesn't know your intentions) Me: 1. she said he wasn't her type so why give him your # at all? 2. You then demand a standard from a guy you don't like and he doesn't know you or your intentions so why should he invest any substantial time or money into you This one was eye opening, I don't understand why woman communicate like this and expect to be understood by men or anyone. There is so much vague language and veil undertones
They do not wish to be understood. They have been coddled till now. They expect Ryan Reynolds to fall out of the sky and make their life heaven. They have to spackle on the makeup and fake nails, and want what they think a "real" man is. They have no idea, but time will slap em around until they are single and have more cats than matches. Let the problem take itself out. Glad she told on herself. Good luck to you and yours!
She exposed that her motives were just to extract resources out of him. She wasn't interested at all. She was disappointed in herself for giving her number to the wrong man.
It's a cult lol. This is what the obligation of 24/7 unconditional validation and support leads to, narcissist. Either flat-out narcissism like in her vid or covert narcissism to lie and con ppl into getting what she wants, with enough leeway to deny that she's doing that
Like 95% of women in dating Apps...looking for a free meal. We are learning, ladies. First dates won't be more than what that guy is offering. Bending to her "needs" leads to even more entitlement and to the fact her time will be more valuable than yours (At least in her mind). Never do that. Additonally, always split the bill, unless other agreement upon, they are earning good money too, ffs.
@@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 In his comment, how splitting the bill women will use whoever did the inviting has to pay.. That's what I'm talking about.
Me and my girlfriend's first two dates were both to public parks. The first date we just got ice cream on cones and the second date we didn't get anything, and she insisted on splitting the transport costs half and half even though I wanted to pay. The first few dates you want to get to know each other and just enjoy each others presence, not go somewhere expensive. These women are crazy
Lmao me and my girl took a trip to NYC and I'm pretty sure her favorite part was going to the park lmao. We ate at the boathouse and went for the boat ride too. Shit was romantic af and she loved it. This girl is just triflin, lookin for a payout!
This woman needs to realize she wasn't worth a dinner reservation. That's the short and simple. So she attacked his bank acct ignoring the glaring observation that she's not worth that much time and money.
I'm glad more and more women are wearing their shallowness on their sleeves now. Making it easier for men to avoid commitment and wasting money on women with sludge for souls. In a way, she saved this man a headache. Good on her. Hope she and others like her keep that same energy for when they become crazy cat ladies, ranting online; "Where have all the good men gone?".
Facts. I’ve long said women’s insatiable desire to put their real selves on these social media streets is a benefit to us. It saves us from unnecessary headaches, wasted time and wasted money.
My first date with my current girlfriend of 2 years went like this. So it was my last full day in the city before I went back home. And I texted her, “Hey, do you wanna watch a movie with me tonight”? And she said “Yes”, so then I was like; “Would you like for me to come to your house and we can have movie night”? And she was like, “well it’s going to be too many people at the house”. “How about meeting me at the movie theatre on Campus and it’s only $5 to get in on Tuesday. So me knowing myself, I was definitely down with that. So I meet her at the movie theatre and I drove in my bff car, S/O to her for letting me borrow her car for the date. So we meet up at the movie theatre and watched a great blood and gore horror movie. Then I drove her back to her house, spend an hour with her and we ended up kissing on our first date. And we wasn’t looking to spend a lot of money on the date, she likes me and I like her. We’ve been dating for 2 years and it’s been great ever since.
Her first couple of sentences told me everything i need to know. She is NOT ATTRACTED to him hence why her standards are raised all of a sudden. If she was completely attracted to him she would have gone to the park and then his apt afterwards. Her "standards" only apply if you are the right guy she is attracted to.
@Rudy O'Brien when you go against the narrative, you will always be targeted. As the saying goes, *"If they aren't hating on you, you aren't doing enough!"*
I mean I get that she is feeling some type of way about the guy wanting to go to the park. But she has to understand as a man, we don't ever want our ideal first date to be reservations especially if she is acting like THAT. If she was interested to go to the park, there would be no entitlement whatsoever. Men get played on dates for free food by women all the time, but nobody ever talks about that... She even said that he wasn't her type, so all along she was trying to play him.
Wow! My first date with my now husband was the Festival of Lights it was $10! We sat in the car talked, laughed, looked at the Christmas lights and listened to music! Simple and fun! We have now been married for 4 years and we have a soon to be two year old son! The type of date means nothing but what do I know… 🤷🏾♀️💍
Funny how women find even the thought of a man expecting some action after an expensive date SO horrifying (him feeling entitled to her body)... But it's accepted or even expected for her to feel entitled to his body (by way of the work he had to do to pay for the date).
My lord, a date in Central Park NYC is.epic, the historical sites, the incredible buildings that surround, a picnic, flying a kite, and just having that chance to talk deeply without interruption. I can easily see spending a couple hundred dollars on such a date. It could even be capped off with the horse and buggy ride and champagne. Men are are far more romantic in actually wanting that chance to get to know you, happily, for this man, he found out exactly who this woman was at the cost of some simple texts.
I dealt with a story like this before. I met this girl at my job at that time and eventually she added me on Facebook and she started messaging me out the blue. Talking about her situation with her man or whatever and being the dummy i am I thought i could “help” her. We hung out secretly a few times and i was lowkey feeling like the side dude and i even brought it up. We didn’t talk everyday mostly because she wasn’t allowed to have male friends without ol boy feeling some sort of way. It lead to me backing off a bit because I didn’t wanna be mixed with that. She gets cheated on and next thing you know she hits me up and we started talking more. Again, being the dummy that I was at that time I developed feelings and i was trying to aim for heart. I asked her if she wanted to go to the park due to the fact that the weather is really nice for once and its not gonna stay like this and she told me “I already have plans with another guy.” The next day she told me she went to Dennys and had a nice long conversation with a guy she met offline. It got to the point where she kept flaking on me because I even invited her to my apartment and she made an excuse of why she wouldn’t go. It got to the point where i just stopped. It was mixed signals from the beginning and I just kept ignoring the red flags
Sorry bro, you were just a place holder used for her validation. She found another guy while you kept her confidence up. It happens. Don’t talk to women that you know are in active relationships, this especially true if the relationship seems toxic. Good luck and remember to take your red pill every morning.
Nah, man. You were literally nothing more than a confidence booster. Someone just meant to be kept on the side to be lead along. That’s why its always a good idea to establish thing early on. Shoot your shot and if the answer is no, then no need to waste your time any further .
you learned from it and now know what to do... You don't need to take a red pill to get better.. Just learn from your mistakes and keep your head up high .. to each their own..
You know, women like this are great! They are so self-centered and entitled that they themselves don't even realize it, so it makes it so dang easy to notice and completely avoid women like this. And, this one in the video was even better, because she showed that in the message which helped the guy avoid it completely and not waste any time on it.
This video alone was the straw that broke the camels back for me to delete the dating app once again 🤣🤣. The entitlement is actually this real. Most want and expect expensive dates. It’s an expensive hobby or habit to try to date in this day in age, regardless if you have money or not. Men just aren’t willing to take multiple women out on dates each week and spend a ton of money for it to end up no where. The end all be all isn’t always about trying to get the cakes, some are actually looking to test the waters on if they’re quality women that’s worth vetting. It’s slim to none
This is why nobody asks girls out cause they think just cause you approach them for their time that you have to go all out. Then the nice guys that do go all out still finish last
Can’t tell you how many dates out to dinner ended up with no calls text or anything even after asking for honesty for a second date and being told yea we can but then ghosted.
From my perspective, it sounded like he wanted to grt to know her from park/picnic date but when she turned it down he proposed something else to test what she was thinking. Once she rejected his offers the way she did it was clear to him that she was just after his money.
My man went to visit his hometown for a week and OMG -- three girls from his past tried hitting him up for money within the first couple minutes of conversation!! One really spoiled brat straight up said give me $1000 and I'll pay you back someday or S your D tonight... girl NOBODY is $1,000 cute 😂
@@skinnyguy7773 Hmm maybe, he's definitely not like that since I've known him about 4 years but that whole area is pretty wealthy -- those girls sure felt comfortable asking with ease full well knowing he's not available - no shame -- I hope they age terribly and quick
Imagine a World where everybody just post on the internet whatever conversation they have with other people (true conversations or not) for clout. Keep your life to yourself, you're supposed to be that incredible woman with an incredible open mind but you're just nothing different that every girl in the west who think they deserve to go to a great restaurant just because you are a woman who receive lot of dm or pm.
Amen. Funny how there are so many divas and queens that own zero land or holdings. No royal guardsmen to enforce their will... maybe disney told them a lie, maybe fathers didn't have a reality check with their daughters...either way, this generation is not interested in actual connections. Then the choosers in relationships get mad when the men they shunned do not jump through all the hoops they think they are worth. So glad I am old and not in the game today.
I got a story for you. I set up a movie date with a girl about a decade ago now. We were supposed to meet at the theater and I ended up arriving about 5 minutes late due to traffic, however, as a testament to how early it still was I had no problem parking next to her car at the front of the theater in a big city. She starts getting mad and throwing a fit in the text messages and when I got there I had one foot out of the car and decided I had better things to do, got back in my car and left. The sad part is I used to feel bad about this story like I was in the wrong for leaving her at the theater.
"Im keeping an open mind" thats her way of saying he wasnt attractive. But since she met him at a museum function she was hopeful he had money. Once the money didnt appear she flipped the script. Question.... Whats the difference between 50 shades of gray and an episode of CSI? Answer.... The amount of money in the mans bank account.
She wants to be spoiled but who does that for someone they just met? We gotta get to know one another to find out if this is even gonna go anywhere. Gold digger.
My husband and I had our first date, well several dates at my house, me cooking, after I got off work just sitting around talking and enjoying each other's company. We were together almost 3 yrs before he said "hey, we've actually never been on a date, you wanna to a movie and dinner". What's wrong with these girls these days? We've been happily married 13 yrs now.
Met a girl on tinder.. We met at the park, walked and talked for 2 hours, went to grab drinks and lunch, went to see a movie then back to my hotel and smashed.
Imagine if all dating apps required the woman to send $250.00 to the app in order to receive the man's contact information for each date BEFORE knowing if you two have any chemistry. How many dates will these "independent women" be going on weekly? Imagine flying a guy out for a "meet-and-greet". Women say they are making their own money and are independent, but they only spend it on themselves. They respect "THEIR" money. But they want a guy they don't know to spend $250.00-$500.00 of HIS money just to "get to know her," while she may be on her cell phone the whole night, taking pics of the food, the environment, and the ambiance while ignoring the guy who invited you, all to do it again next weekend. That is a bad investment. She claimed he was broke without even getting to know him, not realizing he could have been testing HER. It's true most guys who spend a lot on the first date expect something afterwards. They just doled out money on a stranger. Now, just imagine you went to the park & TALKED. You both could tell if your personalities mesh well together and learned a bit about each other. You could leave the park and grab a bite to eat, or do something else that was mentioned on your meet-and-greet. If you like each other, he can still take you to a nice restaurant, and be more inclined to, and you would have things to talk about so you can put your cell phone away. If it doesn't go well, you have a man with little investment who isn't looking for sex as a bit of payback.
That’s why I used to talked to women for at least 2 weeks, before even asking her to meet. Most of those women never made past basic conversations. If the chemistry was good, and I felt they were worth the effort, then I would spend my valuable time and resources to see where things went…Men need to realize their time and resources are valuable, and should not be squandered on women who aren’t worth it…Talk to her first, get her to talk as much as possible, listen carefully, and look past the cute face and round ass…Because, if you let a woman talk long enough she will tell on her self.
Thank you. I don't even accept a meet up until after talking to someone for a couple of weeks. I love walks in the park. Get a beef or turkey hot dog, chips and drink. Just have a nice conversation. I was like this in my teens/20s and I'm still like this in my 40s.
Bro these the type of chicks you ask how their day is going and get “good” but ask where they wanna eat and they sending links, menus, photos, paragraphs, a graduation thesis…..
my girl loves that mess. my girl is corny and I love it. cuz I was basic. I was always taking women out to eat and out of town. but when I met her it was real odd. like she asked me out to eat I went to pay for bill and she was like baaeee I asked you to eat so why you trying to pay. went to Myrtle Beach she was like I'll get the room you just donthe rental car and gas. 😮 I was like huh. but the more we started going to parks and especially parks with the food stand, frozen ice hamburgers hotdogs. so I started learning stuff that it's women out here that really want to live a happy life. care free of all the bull. I mean going out side laying in sun or walking in park makes her happy.
First red flag is when she admitted that he wasn’t her type. When a man is not her type it’s clear that she’s not going to have any interest in him or give him time to see how he is. Second red flag she thinks a man should make reservations to date her that’s just her way of wanting to eat for free then ditch him.
Adding on to your first red flag, the fact that she said he wasn’t her type, he was in his 40s and she met him at an after party tells me she wasn’t being open minded, she was just hoping he was wealthy so she could milk him. Smh
7:07 Dafaq does she want then!?!?!?!?!?! The dude offered a safe spot mean while she is hooked on how much money he can dish out on her for a date keep in mind they are both strangers lol. The ENTITLEMENT is crazy!
She's a stranger to him too yet she expects him to spend money on her without knowing whether or not she's worth spending money on. The entitlement is baffling.
Back in my day (Im early 40s), trying to date or even smash was not this mentally draining. Today, its like walking a mile just to cross the street. A lot of these women seem to not understand that like milk, they have an expiration date.
the man did not want to go straight to the apartment. he wanted the park to see if she was legit worth his time. and since she wanted food instead. He offer to order at his place because cheaper. Who wants to go on a date and spend 200$ etc and the girl ghosts... I think he was interested in the chic, but she needed $$ spent on a first date.
She’s not even they cute to be acting like that but I know a few chicks from that area who have that big ego just like her. And I agree, no way I’m spending my hard earned money on a chick like this. She’s the type you have fun with and throw away once you are bored.
My first date with my mrs was a walk in the park. We took my dog out for like 8 hours and she paid for our drinks. Now she's the mother of my child and we are still together.
Park on a first date awesome! Safe ( safer ) See nature Fresh air Something new ( city park ) for me! If it’s a match….. romantic If it’s not a match safe don’t know where each live! I like it!! 🤗
I really don’t understand how women will just accept date from men they aren’t interested in at all. If he wasn’t your fucking type why did you even entertain a date in the first place.
@Rudy O'Brien I'm watching 15-20 year olds just jump from one relationship to the next sleep with a different dude every month and Im just trying to understand whats the goal it's like why are you using the time that can be spent bettering yourself sleeping around
Listen Women: NO ONE s entitled to have someone spend money on them. We spend money on y'all because we WANT to not because we have to. I don't know why women think we have to spend all our money on them.
So there was a girl I went on a date with a few years ago. I was 35, and her 36. Neither of us had any kids and she looked good for her age. We went on a few dates, I paid every time and had no problem. The voice in the back of my head told me something was up because she always wanted to go to fancy places to eat. Well after about 3-4 dates, we hang out and she tells me it won't work out. Her reasons were that I was too young, I was too short; I'm 5'4 and she's 4'10 and that I didn't have Ivy league education. She told me she was used to older guys with money who let her go all over the world and let her buy what she wanted. I put up the deuces and never looked back.
Smart guy. I filter women like this. I live downtown and invite women to free activities throughout the week that are in walking distance from my apt. If it goes well, I’ll pay for food/drinks and going back apt is always an option. Most women don’t get to the part where I do well for myself. It saves a lot of time & money. And if you’re actually looking for a relationship, you’ll meet more genuine women
I used to live about a mile from central park and took my son often. There is a zoo and horse drawn carriages. I believe there is a museum close by also among other things. There is also lots of street vendors to get tasty snacks. (Not sure about now but NY used to be renowned for street food) and after walking through the park if they had hit it off there are plenty of upscale eating that is within walking distance and plenty of things to see along the way. I loved It when I lived there was a lot to do then. LoL he probably does have money but is already learned about the diggies ⛏️
People that legitimately have money don't waste it. I've always owned bland looking cars on the outside. My house is the same way. Keeps property taxes lower to be plain on the outside. They don't need to know. how much time and money I've spent on the inside.
I read that different than you did.I read that she's a money greedy woman yes, but I also read that maybe he wanted to see if she was worth spending money on, a on a real woman with character and class would not mind going on a picnic as a first date out in public At the park nothing wrong with that. I truly believe he dodged a bullet.
Why would I spend a lot of money if im not going to smash?? And women wonder why men stopped trying to date them... Heres the truth ladies, nice guys have caught on.. The fact we know you've given the goods to Chad or Tyrone for FAR less but make a decent guy jump through hoops has become common knowledge
Lmao my first day with my fiancee was at the park we sat and talked for 5 hrs and I actually ended up late for work because we both lost track of time. we both still talk about that day and how we were nervous and the park was the best date ever
Men we need to stop entertaining women like this I understand you want the cheeks but it's to many women like this that think this ok. If we stop spending money on them or sponsoring them on of and other platform. They will learn they need to change becuz the real women will get all the attention. Men let's have standard
Before I got married, I had a $50 first date spending limit rule. I would tell women up front, the first date is the "get to know you" date not the "I'm trying to impress you" date. We can hangout, talk, and get something to eat. I ain't trying to spend my whole paycheck on someone I don't know and probably ain't giving it up any time soon. Most women got offended. The one woman who took me up on the offer, I met her at a bar and we talked and sipped until the $50 ran out, she put down $20 on the bar and said "I ain't ready to go home". I married her.
I think that’s a good thing
Okay , great. A lot of men, do not have the ability or sense to have a first date $50 spending rule.
If the man in these texts had that sense, he would of suggested something besides a free park.
Museum, ice cream, ice skating, visiting a sneaker shop, going on a tourist tour.... lots of choices in NYC.
Damn. That is a great story,
That's a keeper. Good job king 👑
@@wakandaisatmtzion Going to the park is fine stop being entitled.
A different perspective indeed. Because she legit turned “seeking a life partner for marriage” into “just a walk in the park” so you think husbands just fall out of the sky and expect to put NO EFFORT EVER? But he has to shell out a few Benjamin’s? Feminism is wild bruh
PREACH 💪🏽💯lol
Real talk
ayo bro my name is Benjamin have some respect on my name
@Benjamin kharazi how did he disrespect your name ? You know you're not the only person to have the name Benjamin , Benjamin franklin is on the $100 bill, and that's what he was referring to .
What a brat of a girl
WOW, this exact thing happened to me about 2 months ago I met this woman at a Scholastic Sports Benefit a friend of mine was having everything was clicking atleast that's what I thought anyway we exchanged numbers and I called her looking to meet up NO CAP she asked me if I made reservations....I'm like excuse me, she said I don't do first dates without reservations, so I said I don't do reservations on the first date...she called me broke and told me to lose her number....that same night I'm cruising in Waikiki (I live in Hawai'I) I'm at a red light and low and behold I see ol'girl at a bus stop with a few bags I'm looking dead at her but I wasn't going to say anything so I turned the music in my car up to get her attention...I got her attention and I'm assuming she recognized me cause she smiled at me and started walking towards my car, but the light turned green and took off...haven't seen or heard from her since
Bahahahahahahaha this legit cracked me up and I could hear the tires spinning in my head as you drove away 😂
@@yoshiiididit3704 me fucking too 🤣
Power to you 💪
Literal king shit. Stay sharp fellas !!
Major W 😤👏🏾👏🏾
Fellas, if she asks for free food reply with the link for her to apply for them stamps 💀💀💀💀💀
I'm 💀💀🤣🤣 that's 💯
Same when they tell you to cash app or pay, send their dumb ass a job application. I mean shit, she calls the dude broke but she can't even pay half for dinner lmao what a hypocrite
I thought I was the only one that did this. 😂
I'm so 💀💀💀 but I got to use that one 😆 🤣 😂
@@mikeminniefield5796 please send it to AOK if you do bro I will fall outtt lmao
The funniest part of this is that she doesn't realize he's asking her to the park to find out if she's worth going to a restaurant requiring a reservation
I guess the world may never know, cus I’m not going 😂
@@Brethefinesser you may want to consider that just as you have standards, so do men. The whole point of asking her out to a coffee or something simple is to be able to get to know her well enough to know if she's worth the time and money to take her on a full date. You'd think knowing that so many women will go on a date just for a free meal, that you'd want a guy smart enough to do this.
@@easy6427 and I’ve simultaneously decided that he’s not worth wasting an afternoon and an outfit on. It’s level playing field.
@@Brethefinesser you're comparing having to put clothes on to be out of the house to paying for a date and saying that's a level playing field.... nope, there's no issue with that mindset at all 🤣🤣
@@Brethefinesser You're just another delusional modern woman. Nothing else to see here
My first date with my now husband was a walk in a park. We learned so much about each other then 20 years ago. Now we have a 500k home, 4 cars and six children. We still take walks today.
Top woman :)
This!
Can I move in. I’ll gladly call you mom and do the dishes. Tell dad I’m mowing the lawn lol
Damn yall was really fuckin LMAO
Happy for you both 😊
@@briansarchive3805 😂😂😂😂 He kept me barefoot and pregnant 🤰. Just doing our part to populate the world! It wasn’t with struggle but we grew together. 💜
“Reservations need to be involved”
Oh wow, I discovered the block button suddenly
I love how women think its okay to do this men and put them on blast and call them broke but heaven forbid if a guy was to this to a woman he's gets called an incel, broke and misogynistic.
This is true
FACTS! and it's totally accepted, this world is garbage..
especially the ones who wear makeup are the worst
Honestly, we Should start doing this. Fuckit 🤷🏾♂️
@@jayr5mitty351 nah no point to stoop to their level.. Plus all they'll "oh men be doing that to women all these year" bullshit talk.. 😒.. My thing is if "we" did that to them.. They would be mature enough to not stoop to this level... Smh
That’s how I met my wife for 25 years just walking in the park n we do this with our kids till this day 😂 😂
Congrats on 25 years bro!
That’s dope.
W mans
that's cute 💘
Congrats on that 25 man!!!!
She’s worried about him being a stranger and going to his house but she’s fine with him sending an Uber and knowing her address 😂😂
Dumb move😹
Right 😂
Women logic
Most of the time they have the Uber sent to a different location of course to have it pick them up at
Here's the thing. I'd probably do the same thing as this guy on this first date. I try not to spend too much on a first date. It's not that I'm broke. But, the amount of money I'm willing to spend is dependent upon how much she's into me. A walk in the park is a great way to weed out the entitled, gold digging, women. I don't need that type of negativity, or toxicity, in my life.
That's what most women do they have zero interest in you but expect the man to take them out on expensive dates
Facts bro. I wouldn’t even double text a shawty. I wouldn’t even send a question mark wondering if she saw the message. If she was interested then you wouldn’t have to double text 🤷🏾♂️
I don't know where you live but it's a chore getting to central park from outside of Manhattan. A total waste of time.
Facts why spend a lot of money on somebody you might not ever see again.
Why would you invite someone who lives outside the city centre to travel an hour one-way, if not more, to go take a walk in the park? If there are specific or special activities in the park you're inviting them to, then say that.
And women like this is why i live a modest life for myself and stay away from the dating scene.
I understand that depending on how far she needs to travel, going into the city may be quite a bit of effort, HOWEVER, if it’s a nice day and she’s interested in the guy, I don’t see the issue. You can go for a walk, get ice cream and talk. I would actually like that because as a female it’s nice to not feel “obligated” to sleep with someone because of how much he spent on you, because some men feel entitled to physical reciprocity for spending a lot on a date. This is a public place where if you don’t like him you can leave any time. It’s low anxiety. And then if you hit it off, he will probably suggest going to get some food for a lunch or early dinner. I actually think it’s a really smart plan for both parties.
tryna go for a walk in the park?
I agree as well
@@MonkeyD.Raider 👀🤣🤣
@@MonkeyD.Raider I mean that would be a hell of a commute from Massachusetts 😂
Thank you and glad a woman understands. A daytime date is meant to be casual and a way to see if there is any chemistry through conversation. Notice she didn't come up with an ideas for a good date and instead complained and was difficult.
From HER POV: She doesn't want to give any time to this guy unless the activity is worth it for HER, no interest in the person but what the person has or can do for her. (Entitlement)
From HIS POV: Let's go on an easy chill date where we can chat ang get to know each other (Minimal Financial Investment as he doesn't know your intentions)
Me: 1. she said he wasn't her type so why give him your # at all? 2. You then demand a standard from a guy you don't like and he doesn't know you or your intentions so why should he invest any substantial time or money into you
This one was eye opening, I don't understand why woman communicate like this and expect to be understood by men or anyone. There is so much vague language and veil undertones
They do not wish to be understood. They have been coddled till now. They expect Ryan Reynolds to fall out of the sky and make their life heaven. They have to spackle on the makeup and fake nails, and want what they think a "real" man is. They have no idea, but time will slap em around until they are single and have more cats than matches. Let the problem take itself out. Glad she told on herself. Good luck to you and yours!
Because they're overgrown entitled children
She exposed that her motives were just to extract resources out of him. She wasn't interested at all. She was disappointed in herself for giving her number to the wrong man.
It's a cult lol. This is what the obligation of 24/7 unconditional validation and support leads to, narcissist. Either flat-out narcissism like in her vid or covert narcissism to lie and con ppl into getting what she wants, with enough leeway to deny that she's doing that
This is the beginning of a women in her 60s who lives with seven cats. If she really thinks a guy is gonna do all that for her she is crazy
Like 95% of women in dating Apps...looking for a free meal. We are learning, ladies. First dates won't be more than what that guy is offering. Bending to her "needs" leads to even more entitlement and to the fact her time will be more valuable than yours (At least in her mind). Never do that. Additonally, always split the bill, unless other agreement upon, they are earning good money too, ffs.
In the past 2 yrs thats all l get with women is feeding there fat azzes and ego's ,worhless
Its funny how they keep calling guys broke but expect us to pay for everything. They’re the biggest leeches around.
Itst funny that you mentioned that, because most women will use
" Who ever invited the person, should pay".. how to get past that ?
@@dreadiejaquan9240 “Park is free.”
@@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
In his comment, how splitting the bill women will use whoever did the inviting has to pay.. That's what I'm talking about.
Me and my girlfriend's first two dates were both to public parks. The first date we just got ice cream on cones and the second date we didn't get anything, and she insisted on splitting the transport costs half and half even though I wanted to pay. The first few dates you want to get to know each other and just enjoy each others presence, not go somewhere expensive. These women are crazy
Yes
The first few dates I'm trying to figure out how many positions we can hit and if doggy is da best. Tf I get to know u in da first 20min of us meetin
Lmao me and my girl took a trip to NYC and I'm pretty sure her favorite part was going to the park lmao. We ate at the boathouse and went for the boat ride too. Shit was romantic af and she loved it. This girl is just triflin, lookin for a payout!
this man dodged a bullet big time, congrats dude!
This woman needs to realize she wasn't worth a dinner reservation. That's the short and simple. So she attacked his bank acct ignoring the glaring observation that she's not worth that much time and money.
this is why i loved kevin samuels bc he put women like this in their place.
Oh so this is why I get ghosted sometimes. I don’t initially say I’ll spend money on them and lose to another guy who’s desperate and is.
She isn’t cute enough for all of this. It shows that she’s just trying to get free meals.
I'm glad more and more women are wearing their shallowness on their sleeves now. Making it easier for men to avoid commitment and wasting money on women with sludge for souls. In a way, she saved this man a headache. Good on her. Hope she and others like her keep that same energy for when they become crazy cat ladies, ranting online; "Where have all the good men gone?".
Facts. I’ve long said women’s insatiable desire to put their real selves on these social media streets is a benefit to us. It saves us from unnecessary headaches, wasted time and wasted money.
After her "reservations involved" response I wouldn't have even given her any more of my precious time.
Should tell he l have reservations ,there about you !
My first date with my current girlfriend of 2 years went like this. So it was my last full day in the city before I went back home. And I texted her, “Hey, do you wanna watch a movie with me tonight”? And she said “Yes”, so then I was like; “Would you like for me to come to your house and we can have movie night”? And she was like, “well it’s going to be too many people at the house”. “How about meeting me at the movie theatre on Campus and it’s only $5 to get in on Tuesday. So me knowing myself, I was definitely down with that. So I meet her at the movie theatre and I drove in my bff car, S/O to her for letting me borrow her car for the date. So we meet up at the movie theatre and watched a great blood and gore horror movie. Then I drove her back to her house, spend an hour with her and we ended up kissing on our first date. And we wasn’t looking to spend a lot of money on the date, she likes me and I like her. We’ve been dating for 2 years and it’s been great ever since.
Her first couple of sentences told me everything i need to know. She is NOT ATTRACTED to him hence why her standards are raised all of a sudden. If she was completely attracted to him she would have gone to the park and then his apt afterwards. Her "standards" only apply if you are the right guy she is attracted to.
"You are a stranger..."
But I bet if he said "Take my private plane to Paris for dinner..."
She is NOT attractive. She's entitled and average at best.
@Rudy O'Brien when I joined the military, I knew that putting on that uniform meant putting a target on my back. Nothing has changed!
@Rudy O'Brien when you go against the narrative, you will always be targeted. As the saying goes, *"If they aren't hating on you, you aren't doing enough!"*
Imagine this being a test and the one female that agrees gets spoiled
I mean I get that she is feeling some type of way about the guy wanting to go to the park. But she has to understand as a man, we don't ever want our ideal first date to be reservations especially if she is acting like THAT. If she was interested to go to the park, there would be no entitlement whatsoever. Men get played on dates for free food by women all the time, but nobody ever talks about that... She even said that he wasn't her type, so all along she was trying to play him.
That part!
I ain’t gona hold you I always do a small first date to see what time the woman is on.can’t deal with the “secured the bag” type
She's for the streets and thinks she deserves a stranger spending money on her 😂
Wow! My first date with my now husband was the Festival of Lights it was $10! We sat in the car talked, laughed, looked at the Christmas lights and listened to music! Simple and fun! We have now been married for 4 years and we have a soon to be two year old son! The type of date means nothing but what do I know… 🤷🏾♀️💍
Funny how women find even the thought of a man expecting some action after an expensive date SO horrifying (him feeling entitled to her body)... But it's accepted or even expected for her to feel entitled to his body (by way of the work he had to do to pay for the date).
My lord, a date in Central Park NYC is.epic, the historical sites, the incredible buildings that surround, a picnic, flying a kite, and just having that chance to talk deeply without interruption. I can easily see spending a couple hundred dollars on such a date. It could even be capped off with the horse and buggy ride and champagne. Men are are far more romantic in actually wanting that chance to get to know you, happily, for this man, he found out exactly who this woman was at the cost of some simple texts.
I dealt with a story like this before. I met this girl at my job at that time and eventually she added me on Facebook and she started messaging me out the blue. Talking about her situation with her man or whatever and being the dummy i am I thought i could “help” her. We hung out secretly a few times and i was lowkey feeling like the side dude and i even brought it up. We didn’t talk everyday mostly because she wasn’t allowed to have male friends without ol boy feeling some sort of way. It lead to me backing off a bit because I didn’t wanna be mixed with that.
She gets cheated on and next thing you know she hits me up and we started talking more. Again, being the dummy that I was at that time I developed feelings and i was trying to aim for heart. I asked her if she wanted to go to the park due to the fact that the weather is really nice for once and its not gonna stay like this and she told me “I already have plans with another guy.” The next day she told me she went to Dennys and had a nice long conversation with a guy she met offline. It got to the point where she kept flaking on me because I even invited her to my apartment and she made an excuse of why she wouldn’t go. It got to the point where i just stopped. It was mixed signals from the beginning and I just kept ignoring the red flags
Sorry bro, you were just a place holder used for her validation. She found another guy while you kept her confidence up. It happens. Don’t talk to women that you know are in active relationships, this especially true if the relationship seems toxic. Good luck and remember to take your red pill every morning.
Nah, man. You were literally nothing more than a confidence booster. Someone just meant to be kept on the side to be lead along.
That’s why its always a good idea to establish thing early on. Shoot your shot and if the answer is no, then no need to waste your time any further .
you learned from it and now know what to do... You don't need to take a red pill to get better..
Just learn from your mistakes and keep your head up high .. to each their own..
@@dreadiejaquan9240 That…is literally what the red pills is though.
@@Crazieyboy15
If you say so 👍🏿
This man is smart. Cause he knows how to make you show your true colors
Did it not occur to her that you are also a stranger to this man? Central Park got snacks 😂😂
You know, women like this are great! They are so self-centered and entitled that they themselves don't even realize it, so it makes it so dang easy to notice and completely avoid women like this. And, this one in the video was even better, because she showed that in the message which helped the guy avoid it completely and not waste any time on it.
This video alone was the straw that broke the camels back for me to delete the dating app once again 🤣🤣. The entitlement is actually this real. Most want and expect expensive dates. It’s an expensive hobby or habit to try to date in this day in age, regardless if you have money or not. Men just aren’t willing to take multiple women out on dates each week and spend a ton of money for it to end up no where. The end all be all isn’t always about trying to get the cakes, some are actually looking to test the waters on if they’re quality women that’s worth vetting. It’s slim to none
She didn’t realize she was going to be a smash & dash
This is just the issue I have with some of these dumb women. The guy isn't your type but you expect him to spend money on you.
This is why nobody asks girls out cause they think just cause you approach them for their time that you have to go all out. Then the nice guys that do go all out still finish last
Can’t tell you how many dates out to dinner ended up with no calls text or anything even after asking for honesty for a second date and being told yea we can but then ghosted.
From my perspective, it sounded like he wanted to grt to know her from park/picnic date but when she turned it down he proposed something else to test what she was thinking. Once she rejected his offers the way she did it was clear to him that she was just after his money.
My man went to visit his hometown for a week and OMG -- three girls from his past tried hitting him up for money within the first couple minutes of conversation!! One really spoiled brat straight up said give me $1000 and I'll pay you back someday or S your D tonight... girl NOBODY is $1,000 cute 😂
he might have had a past as a sugar daddy?
@@skinnyguy7773 Hmm maybe, he's definitely not like that since I've known him about 4 years but that whole area is pretty wealthy -- those girls sure felt comfortable asking with ease full well knowing he's not available - no shame -- I hope they age terribly and quick
He already knows better and vetting her right away.
Imagine a World where everybody just post on the internet whatever conversation they have with other people (true conversations or not) for clout.
Keep your life to yourself, you're supposed to be that incredible woman with an incredible open mind but you're just nothing different that every girl in the west who think they deserve to go to a great restaurant just because you are a woman who receive lot of dm or pm.
yeah most women are for the streets nowadays
Imagine? You mean a woman’s reality lol
Amen. Funny how there are so many divas and queens that own zero land or holdings. No royal guardsmen to enforce their will... maybe disney told them a lie, maybe fathers didn't have a reality check with their daughters...either way, this generation is not interested in actual connections. Then the choosers in relationships get mad when the men they shunned do not jump through all the hoops they think they are worth. So glad I am old and not in the game today.
Right? They swear up and down they’re so quirky and unique…
I got a story for you. I set up a movie date with a girl about a decade ago now. We were supposed to meet at the theater and I ended up arriving about 5 minutes late due to traffic, however, as a testament to how early it still was I had no problem parking next to her car at the front of the theater in a big city.
She starts getting mad and throwing a fit in the text messages and when I got there I had one foot out of the car and decided I had better things to do, got back in my car and left.
The sad part is I used to feel bad about this story like I was in the wrong for leaving her at the theater.
"Im keeping an open mind" thats her way of saying he wasnt attractive. But since she met him at a museum function she was hopeful he had money. Once the money didnt appear she flipped the script.
Question....
Whats the difference between 50 shades of gray and an episode of CSI?
Answer....
The amount of money in the mans bank account.
💯
That is way of saying that i am 30 and i am looking for a rich beta who could even be older.
She wants to be spoiled but who does that for someone they just met? We gotta get to know one another to find out if this is even gonna go anywhere. Gold digger.
She thinks she's entitled to his money, but found out she's barely entitled to his time.
Barely is a stretch lol
My husband and I had our first date, well several dates at my house, me cooking, after I got off work just sitting around talking and enjoying each other's company. We were together almost 3 yrs before he said "hey, we've actually never been on a date, you wanna to a movie and dinner". What's wrong with these girls these days? We've been happily married 13 yrs now.
Met a girl on tinder.. We met at the park, walked and talked for 2 hours, went to grab drinks and lunch, went to see a movie then back to my hotel and smashed.
My man!
BIG W
For da W!!!! Good on ya mate!!
Imagine if all dating apps required the woman to send $250.00 to the app in order to receive the man's contact information for each date BEFORE knowing if you two have any chemistry. How many dates will these "independent women" be going on weekly? Imagine flying a guy out for a "meet-and-greet".
Women say they are making their own money and are independent, but they only spend it on themselves. They respect "THEIR" money. But they want a guy they don't know to spend $250.00-$500.00 of HIS money just to "get to know her," while she may be on her cell phone the whole night, taking pics of the food, the environment, and the ambiance while ignoring the guy who invited you, all to do it again next weekend. That is a bad investment.
She claimed he was broke without even getting to know him, not realizing he could have been testing HER. It's true most guys who spend a lot on the first date expect something afterwards. They just doled out money on a stranger. Now, just imagine you went to the park & TALKED. You both could tell if your personalities mesh well together and learned a bit about each other. You could leave the park and grab a bite to eat, or do something else that was mentioned on your meet-and-greet. If you like each other, he can still take you to a nice restaurant, and be more inclined to, and you would have things to talk about so you can put your cell phone away. If it doesn't go well, you have a man with little investment who isn't looking for sex as a bit of payback.
That’s why I used to talked to women for at least 2 weeks, before even asking her to meet. Most of those women never made past basic conversations. If the chemistry was good, and I felt they were worth the effort, then I would spend my valuable time and resources to see where things went…Men need to realize their time and resources are valuable, and should not be squandered on women who aren’t worth it…Talk to her first, get her to talk as much as possible, listen carefully, and look past the cute face and round ass…Because, if you let a woman talk long enough she will tell on her self.
Thank you. I don't even accept a meet up until after talking to someone for a couple of weeks. I love walks in the park. Get a beef or turkey hot dog, chips and drink. Just have a nice conversation. I was like this in my teens/20s and I'm still like this in my 40s.
Bro these the type of chicks you ask how their day is going and get “good” but ask where they wanna eat and they sending links, menus, photos, paragraphs, a graduation thesis…..
@@ollylevesque3404 lmfaooo that thesis!!!
@@ollylevesque3404 😂😂😂😂
@@ollylevesque3404 you wild, yo 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He recognised her for the type of woman she was right from the start. That’s probably what upset her the most.
my girl loves that mess. my girl is corny and I love it. cuz I was basic. I was always taking women out to eat and out of town. but when I met her it was real odd. like she asked me out to eat I went to pay for bill and she was like baaeee I asked you to eat so why you trying to pay. went to Myrtle Beach she was like I'll get the room you just donthe rental car and gas. 😮 I was like huh. but the more we started going to parks and especially parks with the food stand, frozen ice hamburgers hotdogs. so I started learning stuff that it's women out here that really want to live a happy life. care free of all the bull. I mean going out side laying in sun or walking in park makes her happy.
Walking and talking is the best, love it
First red flag is when she admitted that he wasn’t her type. When a man is not her type it’s clear that she’s not going to have any interest in him or give him time to see how he is. Second red flag she thinks a man should make reservations to date her that’s just her way of wanting to eat for free then ditch him.
Adding on to your first red flag, the fact that she said he wasn’t her type, he was in his 40s and she met him at an after party tells me she wasn’t being open minded, she was just hoping he was wealthy so she could milk him. Smh
She doesn't understand that her videos will come back to haunt her
@@Gymtoshi fact’s
@@trustme7660 as long as modern woman like her exist she will just keep believing that she’s a queen and deserves everything.
7:07 Dafaq does she want then!?!?!?!?!?! The dude offered a safe spot mean while she is hooked on how much money he can dish out on her for a date keep in mind they are both strangers lol. The ENTITLEMENT is crazy!
Honestly, that sounds like a very neutral first date location. Broad day, people around to witness anything should stuff happen.
She's a stranger to him too yet she expects him to spend money on her without knowing whether or not she's worth spending money on. The entitlement is baffling.
She thinks she's a 10 when really she's a 2 at best. LOL!!!
Back in my day (Im early 40s), trying to date or even smash was not this mentally draining. Today, its like walking a mile just to cross the street. A lot of these women seem to not understand that like milk, they have an expiration date.
Hey at least she is being upfront about what she wants and not sending "clues and signs."
She was just looking for a free meal and he wanted to just give her the vitamin D.
the man did not want to go straight to the apartment. he wanted the park to see if she was legit worth his time. and since she wanted food instead. He offer to order at his place because cheaper. Who wants to go on a date and spend 200$ etc and the girl ghosts... I think he was interested in the chic, but she needed $$ spent on a first date.
Guys want sex without paying for it. Women want money without given up the cat. The foolishness of modern relationships
Well said
Should both focus on securing a future for each other rather than trying to be selfish. Wild shit.
College boys want sex. Once you hit 28, unless you been incellin it, flaps are flaps. Don’t no man over 28 melt over sugar walls if he’s ever had some
Remember gentlemen no matter what you do for a living, an honest working man is a respectable man.
Meeting in a public place like a park is a good option people are crazy these days
She’s not even they cute to be acting like that but I know a few chicks from that area who have that big ego just like her. And I agree, no way I’m spending my hard earned money on a chick like this. She’s the type you have fun with and throw away once you are bored.
Tbh it dont matter how cute a female is.. none of em should act this lame
*in my opinion*
@@jaced7289 I agree.. I mean, in general, no one should be like this
My first date with my mrs was a walk in the park. We took my dog out for like 8 hours and she paid for our drinks. Now she's the mother of my child and we are still together.
Park on a first date awesome!
Safe ( safer )
See nature
Fresh air
Something new ( city park ) for me!
If it’s a match….. romantic
If it’s not a match safe don’t know where each live!
I like it!! 🤗
It's hilarious when you don't even have to dodge the bullet
I really don’t understand how women will just accept date from men they aren’t interested in at all. If he wasn’t your fucking type why did you even entertain a date in the first place.
Free food for broke ho3s
It goes into relationships as well they don't see anything long term they just do it because they are bored
@Rudy O'Brien they only know their worth in their 30s before then it's free pass to anyone who she finds attractive
@Rudy O'Brien I'm watching 15-20 year olds just jump from one relationship to the next sleep with a different dude every month and Im just trying to understand whats the goal it's like why are you using the time that can be spent bettering yourself sleeping around
Listen Women: NO ONE s entitled to have someone spend money on them. We spend money on y'all because we WANT to not because we have to. I don't know why women think we have to spend all our money on them.
Truck driver mouth!
I had so many dates like that. As soon as I saw those red flags I inmideatedly stopped the date and move on. I was very good at looking for red flags
Women like that ruin it for everybod! 🤦🏾♀️ this is why guys are getting fed up
The 99 percent of gorls
A person who can attend the Met Gala is not broke.
She is only acting like that cause she didn’t like him. If she did the park would be perfect. All she was looking for was a free meal.
He is testing her to see what kind of person she is. That's how I see it
So there was a girl I went on a date with a few years ago. I was 35, and her 36. Neither of us had any kids and she looked good for her age. We went on a few dates, I paid every time and had no problem. The voice in the back of my head told me something was up because she always wanted to go to fancy places to eat. Well after about 3-4 dates, we hang out and she tells me it won't work out. Her reasons were that I was too young, I was too short; I'm 5'4 and she's 4'10 and that I didn't have Ivy league education. She told me she was used to older guys with money who let her go all over the world and let her buy what she wanted. I put up the deuces and never looked back.
Your first mistake was taking her out on a date before smashing.
Smart guy. I filter women like this. I live downtown and invite women to free activities throughout the week that are in walking distance from my apt. If it goes well, I’ll pay for food/drinks and going back apt is always an option. Most women don’t get to the part where I do well for myself. It saves a lot of time & money. And if you’re actually looking for a relationship, you’ll meet more genuine women
People like this will never admit how wrong or close minded they are. It will always be someone else’s fault. Always
Cognitive dissonance at its finest.
thing is she acts like that because some men allow her to act that way, I mean simps
In my country, we call it "wrong and strong", meaning the person is at fault, and has no shame for justifying it
She’s a horrible person. When she shows it, believe it the first time.
It’s not that she failed to pick up on it, she just didn’t want to admit that all he wanted was to get the goods.
I used to live about a mile from central park and took my son often. There is a zoo and horse drawn carriages. I believe there is a museum close by also among other things. There is also lots of street vendors to get tasty snacks. (Not sure about now but NY used to be renowned for street food) and after walking through the park if they had hit it off there are plenty of upscale eating that is within walking distance and plenty of things to see along the way. I loved It when I lived there was a lot to do then. LoL he probably does have money but is already learned about the diggies ⛏️
People that legitimately have money don't waste it.
I've always owned bland looking cars on the outside.
My house is the same way. Keeps property taxes lower to be plain on the outside. They don't need to know. how much time and money I've spent on the inside.
He was testing her and she failed big time! He found out quick she wasn't worth it.
I read that different than you did.I read that she's a money greedy woman yes, but I also read that maybe he wanted to see if she was worth spending money on, a on a real woman with character and class would not mind going on a picnic as a first date out in public At the park nothing wrong with that. I truly believe he dodged a bullet.
Why would I spend a lot of money if im not going to smash?? And women wonder why men stopped trying to date them... Heres the truth ladies, nice guys have caught on.. The fact we know you've given the goods to Chad or Tyrone for FAR less but make a decent guy jump through hoops has become common knowledge
Lmao my first day with my fiancee was at the park we sat and talked for 5 hrs and I actually ended up late for work because we both lost track of time. we both still talk about that day and how we were nervous and the park was the best date ever
Central Park is the park of all parks... Restaurants surround it... The Park is the time to pick which one is right for her....
And she wonder why no dude will hit her up unless she's willing to be just an object 😒
I rather go to the park on a first than go to a restaurant. And I have done that and it was a great date. ☺️
see, you're an actual decent human being. unlike her
Me and my husband first date and we still go to the park because he know I love being by the water and watching the sunset.
He should have said, “No need for reservations at the drive thru!”
Men we need to stop entertaining women like this I understand you want the cheeks but it's to many women like this that think this ok. If we stop spending money on them or sponsoring them on of and other platform. They will learn they need to change becuz the real women will get all the attention. Men let's have standard
I can’t stop laughing bro!!!!!!😂😂😂😂 cause that’s how those dude’s are. Freaking hilarious bro!!!!!