Do I Regret Having Kids So Young/Before Marriage...(the honest truth/my experience)
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That intuition that someone might take your kid away while your out is something every good mother has that we understand don’t like the feeling but it’s what makes us great mothers. The sad thing is not all mothers have that.
💖 we just want the best at all times ! It is sad ! 😔
Some people grew up in a safe environment so they don't have those instincts. I grew up in the late 80s and early 90s I trust no one.
@@DANNYTHEFROG123 It’s not really an instinct or intuition, it’s common sense. Well, I guess it should be, but it’s obviously not. I just got done watching a show about an idiot that let a stranger watch her baby. I don’t think it has anything to do w growing up in a safe environment. My childhood was in the 80s and 90s, but very safe. Some people just have sense and some don’t. Some people just really live and breathe for their kids, some don’t, sadly.
@@DANNYTHEFROG123 yes I completely agree with this
Dont Do A Madeline Mcann And You’ll Be Good 😅
I'm so happy you're in a better stage of life. I'm 23 I've been watching you since my late teen's so I definitely use these vids as an older sister gives advice situation.
I commend young mothers, I could never do it willingly 😭
I think everyone in their 20’s feel like they wish they waited, you’re still figuring out life & would obviously love to have a good amount of income so you don’t have to worry about what your kid needs & can’t buy it which is sadly the case for a lot of younger moms.
I swear it feels like this must be my 12th year of dropping everything and being hella happy to see your uploads ❤❤❤ the realest girly on the interwebs
You’re the REALEST❤😍
@@simplynessa15 love you always ❤️❤️❤️😁
I love how transparent and honest you are about your whole experience as a mother. It’s so helpful. Glad to see you’re doing well ❤
Damn you watch everyone on TH-cam
I wanna see your sub list lol
personally, i love your sit down videos. its what first drew me to your channel and to subscribing. i think you are just a natural at sitting and talking to the camera, and your personality shows a bit more :)
I used to watch you so back in like 2015-18 and this is the first video I've watched of yours since then and i'm so glad to see how much you've grown and evolved since the last time I saw you, its somewhat comforting to having left and became an adult and come back to see you at the point you're at now,, you seem more at peace. Also congratulations on the babies !!! ❤❤❤
I haven’t watch you in years so I said “kids? She has kids??” Congrats girl
She has a babygirl, I just saw now that she is pregnant again.
Welcome back 😊
Me too! I was shocked
and she's engaged! simplygrown15
@@QueenZsWorld OMG YASSSSS WHAT IF SHE RE-NAMES HER CHANNEL THAT or a new nickname
Girl THE HAIR?!?!??? Yeah baby #2 is doing you justice!!!! But I’m so happy this pregnancy is going good so far you deserve it! I love sit down and talking videos, it feel like we are on ft.
Nessa - music is your thing for sureeee. So happy to hear you're thinking about doing it again. You inspired me to start, and now I'm preparing my rollout for a whole ass EP! You got this, girlieee
I love these type of videos 😄 It feels like we're all just friends hanging out and chatting ❤❤❤ Thank you so much for making and posting this video!!! 🥰
💖ily!
Damn I'm here early.
On another note .... Heyyyy girly 😊
Been following you since forever and I love what you've become. You just look soo happy and I'm here for it!!
❤❤❤❤ily
@@simplynessa15 I just love that we both are going through motherhood now. We grown!! 😏🥴😊❤️
GIRL!!!! You are GLOWING 💁💁 Hope you, Andrew and the babies are doing good!❤️
Who’s Andrew😭
@@gloriiv7oa Her fiancee
His name is Anthony ❤
@@hellogab oh shit sorry I messed it up lmao🥲🥲
just started the video but I have to say this hair style is PERFECT on you. wow beautiful. always proud of you!
Thank you!
I didn’t know this vid would take this turn but her small speech about toxic relationships opened my eyes a lot to my situation right now. I’m crying, thank you❤️
my sister said she drank raspberry leaf tea throughout most of her first pregnancy and when she gave birth she didn’t feel much and it was extremely smooth! i’m pretty sure this tea also helps with cramps
So excited we are pregnant at the same time. I’m 17 weeks with my first and I’m having a boy 💙 can’t wait to find out what you’re having ☺️
Omg congrats love!😍😍
nessa!! i’ve been watching you literally since like 2015/16 and were pregnant at the same time now!! i was so happy when you were expecting nyla, but now i’m expecting my first too and i just love watching you and getting to “adult” together! so proud of you and everything you’ve become :)
Its so wild to think i spent my teen years and now watching you grow. Parasocial or whatever but I'm genuinely proud of you and how far you've come. You're such a strong soul, I honestly can't help but feel inspired. I'm glad you have a support system from Anthony and his family. Seeing you grow and mature into the young mother you are now is so *chef's kiss* 💖💖
you are such a good mom and such a good person. I'm going through alot rn and your videos never cease to comfort me. Thank you for always being real
I love you Vanessa.
My family haven't been taking to me in 20 years. It has scarred me for life. Be strong. You have your own family now and Anthony, Nyla and the little one inside of you are what's important now. Focus on them. I wish i was in a relationship and had kids but i don't have that either. I live alone and i'm disabled so i have nothing.
I’m 9 months post partum and i definitely relate to the post partum anxiety part. It’s soooo hard
Omg the epidural description is so accurate 😭🫠 I had a scheduled c-section and I was terrified but for my next baby….I want that again 😂
I like when you mix it up and surprise us with sit down videos or vlogs. I’m so excited for your second baby hopefully when it comes time to deliver it goes smoothly as well. Definitely still looking forward to the workout video I thought you forgot 😂 Love you so much girly 💜💜💜
Pulp Fiction hoodie is ICONIC!!! Your mix of content is absolutely wonderful. Taking your time and putting out content you enjoy is the wave!
So proud of you & how much you’ve grown!
Thank you 💖😇
I'm 25 weeks and I'm having a boy. We're having similar symptoms so I think you're having a boy too, Congrats!!💙
Been so honored to witness your journey! Thank you for sharing your life with us. CANNOT WAIT FOR MUSIC! Even if it’s one song 💜 grateful for anything you have space and energy to release!
I’m so happy for you Nessa. You’ve come a long way. Still enjoying your content ♡
I love to listen to your videos like these when I'm working regardless of the topic! Your thoughts are just so relatable. I'm pregnant with my first and I'm a little older at 29, but just watching your videos gave me that boost of confidence to finally have my first ♥
A controlling relationship never gets better period!! That's not love!! Sending you Anthony, Nyla and the new baby that's a boy lol so much love and positive thoughts. You gave it away with saying you're showing sooner and the lower back pain means you're probably carrying lower which means a boy 🤪😜🤪😜
When you said you grew up Catholic and went jehovah witness I literally started crying so hard. I have been raised jehovah witness all my life and the real world was so scary and still is trying to grow around that religion. I moved out for 6 years lived on my own and was so alone. All my family is Jehovah witness and I dealt with abuse since I could remember at 4 years old. And feeling like I had no one to save me because god didn’t approve of me and my mom just tolerated raising me. I constantly am going back and forth trying to go back and fix and heal my family past it’s not working because god has forgiven my mom she feels she doesn’t have to explain the past.
Tbh your at the perfect age to have kids. Im 25 with a almost 2 year old and i wouldnt want to have had my first earlier or later just my opinion tho ❤
I watched Nessa for so damn long I just now realized she hit 2.54 MILLION subscribers ; and im so damn happy for her !!!!!
Hey nessaa you seems so much more at peace and calm in this video, i hope this pregnancy goes smoothly
OMG I felt the last part😭The anxiety of having a baby to protect 24/7 messes w me a lot too. I c the world diff now. There's so much evil out there. I moved to a safer area & stay away from dangerous areas.
Yes! Picking the strain is so important
OMGGGG I’m so excited about the music I’ve been listening a lot to meditate a lot lately and the music video came up on my TH-cam recommended and watched it over and over again 😊
Love seeing organic content. Very genuine, open and honest. You help many, many of your *Fran's* "friends-fans" xox
I feel like you're my sister, I love that we are so alike and makes me feel not alone. Thank you for having the time and energy to share a little bit of your life with us. It is always appreciated and just know that we support you girly. Very excited for you and your beautiful family 💙🐛🦋🌺
I feel like we’ve grown up together, been watching you since I was like what 16? We had our firsts around the same time and now our seconds!
Your open and honest videos help me get thru the day❤️
I see that TEAM Boy glow 💙💙💙💙 can’t until the gender reveal
Agreed, epidural was the worst part. My sisters really fucked her back up permanently.
Girl I love the mix! My man and I are having our first child together too we’re 22. Also I love your hoodie and am excited for this videoooo!
yess nessa we love the sit down videos! your personality is such a vibe
you look so beautiful in this video! your hair and makeup is amazing 🥹 always happy to watch a video of yours!
Been watching your videos for years and you have taught me so much just by being you. You melt my heart with your genuine thoughts/emotions and fierce love for your little family 💞 Sending so much love to you and your new little one.
That last clip of the anxiety and not wanting to go out in public too much and wanting to keep your baby safe 24/7 I felt that 110% literally me my baby is 19 months old and the anxiety is fkn real im like on go mode & literally watching everything and everyone everytime i go out .. its a scary world and its worse for us parents
Nessa !!!! I’m happy for you babes congrats on another little one. I’ll be waiting for the r&b album 👀
Grew up watching your videos. We went from being lil babies to having our own. Proud of your growth
I’ve watched your videos for years and I love that you grew and matured over the years ! I do pray that everything goes well for you !, you can do it !,
i like ur sit down videos and actually really enjoy ur vlogs girl😭 keep doing them 🙃
Girl, i never ever comment but gotta say this realllyyyy felt like talking to a friend❤️❤️❤️ thanks girlie
You’re having a boy😂❤the excitement is telling
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Love watching you grow and now your fam!! It’s so beautiful. ❤️
Girl I’ve been watching since the beginning, you could literally post the most BORING shit and I’d still watch every second lmao love u foreva ❤️
I love your videos 🥰🥰 Your vibe is amazing!
Thanks babes!
0:38 definitely a mix of both vlogs and sit downs
❤️ you nessa. I love your videos. I can't wait until I finally run into you one day. You're such an inspiration
You’re so sweet 💖 sending love!
I see a lot of people are saying they’re preggo now. And bestie. I’m 14 weeks preggo today and so In love. I was so excited when you said you were preggo again. I’m experiencing it with you 🥹
I think 2/3 of the videos you post should be sit down/chit chat grwm/q&a and 1/3 can be vlogs. Love all your videos regardless 💓
I love both types of vids q&a and vlogs, I’d watch anything you post tbh lol 🤍
Bet ❤😊
(currently still watiching the video) 😅But seeing your videos pop up make me smile! I love seeing your family grow thank you for sharing💗
❤❤❤thanks love
@@simplynessa15 idk if you had seen my comment on your last video or 2 but I think you are a month behind me with pregnancy my due date is 2/24/23 with my baby girl (first baby) Vallerie💖
I’m 21 and 2 months along, I’m so scared but I have to face the consequences for my actions but thank God my family is well off and my fiancé is super involved. I’m so excited tho.
You’re gonna be an amazing mommy!❤
@@simplynessa15 thank you Nessa❤.
Weed is great but I learned that if you've been an avid smoker before pregnancy or smoking in the first trimester, your body and cravings become reliant on it and it becomes hard to eat in the first trimester without it. So if you're having bad morning sickness and eating issues in the first trimester, try to cut back on the herb so your body can get use to you wanting food without it. 💚 If that makes sense lol
Honestly I like everything you put out. You’re literally the only lifestyle TH-camr I watch. Literally. Maybe it’s cause you’re a Chicago bb like me 🤭
Omg your family were witnesses?? Personally, being a witness I feel like the things you learn can be so warming but I know some people really abuse the teachings and use it to gaslight those around them. I’m so so sorry you had to deal with negative situations at home. I hope you’re finding peace now💓
Girl, same on skipping the unnecessary risks of the world. Being a mommy, I’m like there’s deer out and it’s after dark..I’m not driving bc I’m a mother and I have undeveloped little beings depending on my livelihood to raise them and show them what’s up out here… we’re not driving anywhere this late and messing with their roaming hours. Let me have em. Lol.
Hey, Nessa hopefully everything is alright cause toxic families are awful. You can do better than your parents.
omg thank you for sharing that you don't upload all of your videos. I used to feel so guilty about the ones that never made it to TH-cam lol
Hey girly! I hope your doing okay and your pregnancy is going well. Much love and light from this side ✨❤️
I love this hair on you pretty. The face is still top tier I fear 😍😍😍
Too many ppl think they have to tolerate ppl bcs they're related. Let's normalize going no contact w fam & cutting fam off. It's peaceful. If there's no change,let them go.
Bro I want MORE THAN ANYTHING to have some more of her music!!!
You look so pretty, as always! I love your sweatshirt😍
Girl that’s called postpartum anxiety. I didn’t have PPD but I sure had PPA AND PPR (postpartum rage). Trust me it can be crippling. I didn’t take my children out for the first year of their life’s. And then with the way this works is set up 😩. My 3rd is 1 1/2 now and I’m barely getting back to myself and the anxiety is slowly becoming manageable but I still rather my leave my children home with someone while I go out grocery shopping or getting things done I need to do. Just know that it does get better and don’t feel bad for wanting to protect your babies. You are also pregnant so your hormones are for sure making that anxiety heighten. There are mannyyyy things that women/doctors don’t talk about that can happen after/during pregnancy. But now after my 3rd child I can look back and see that I was suffering in ways I didn’t even notice. But IT GETS BETTER 🫶🏼👸🏽.
Ahhh! Just got dinner and you happen to upload!! Perfect timing!! ❤️
Periodt! I tried to wait till people were chillin and eating off work!
@@simplynessa15 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
omg i’ve watched you forever and i had no idea you were in nursing school!! i’m currently in my senior year of nursing :))
Honestly I love all of your videos. Vlogs and sit down💕💕
I really enjoy your sit down videos. It feels like you were on FaceTime with us! I love your vlogs too! Thank you for always being yourself ❤
GIRL yes this is my 1st pregnancy and I haven’t had spicy like that even my mom was surprised. Also tell me while a min ago I was having lays con Valentina and now to be healthy I had grapes
I can totally relate when it comes to your family, I recently came to the conclusion that I am the only one who ever wanted more so I have officially decided to leave them tf alone for good.
Been subscribed since 2015! I love you nessa, your videos never fail to put a smile on my face
Girl you look amazing. That lipstick color on you 😍
I love the sit down vids. Don’t even care what you talk about 😂
I love sit down videos I like all u do it don’t matter I’m been here a long time being so nice some times want get u know where so time u have to tell people where to get off
It occurred to me that I haven’t tuned in to watch you in ‘too long’ when I realized you have had kids. 😅 congratulations!
Could you please talk about quitting smoking and being pregnant I’m so scared for that to happen and I’d like to know how it was and how you got through it!❤
Hope you’re doing good girly love your content sending love to you and your family 💕💕
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I swear you always manage to make me feel less alone
I love your videos ❤️ been watching you for years
I had my first son at 28 and honestlllyyyy I wish I had the opportunity to have kids YOUNGER! I had SO much more energy at 23. Unfortunately I didn't have a super stable income or home situation at 23, otherwise I would have has a baby back then for sure.
Tbh I don’t even feel comfortable taking my sister out cause I can’t control what happens to her☹️
I think that acid feeling was the wipe they used to sterilize your back
I felt the same and still do. My doctor said that wasn’t normal but idk how to not be anxious 😬
Hey nessa❤️ been watching for years and i need some advice! My boyfriend doesn’t like talking to me and when I feel lonely, I look over and see him texting other people. Is it that time where I start looking for someone else
Yassss no please get back into music!!!! I still have all your songs in my playlist 🥰
I’d die for an R&B album
love u Nessa 🖤