Why a narcissist uses Triangulation and how to possibly deal with it

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 พ.ย. 2024

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  • @MichaelSmith-jz7xg
    @MichaelSmith-jz7xg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    As soon as you bow out of the triangle, their manipulative game is over. Don’t settle for sloppy seconds!

  • @eunhinged
    @eunhinged 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    when you point a finger at another person, there are 3 fingers pointing back at you! DON'T fall into their trap.

  • @roxannesimard5073
    @roxannesimard5073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    devastating harm!

  • @Layla-hg4ux
    @Layla-hg4ux 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is very helpful information! Straight to the point. I search this topic to find a solution

  • @ninjagirlnomeansno9403
    @ninjagirlnomeansno9403 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is absolutely tremendous , Thank you so much for this, Stating so much truth, Peace, love to you and everyone, Thank you universe, Strength and kindness back to you 😃♾️🛸😁✨️🐉🧿💙🐺😍👽💎🌈💜👁🥰😀💫🤗🐴⚘️🐎🌌😊🧝‍♀️😁💞

  • @adrianascholtz3500
    @adrianascholtz3500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    excellent, thank you for your good insight and care!

  • @moonlightstargem1006
    @moonlightstargem1006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My malignant narcissistic dad is trying to triangulate me against the dog. I know where he’s going with it. He’s going to try to tell me i’m attacking the dog or trying to torture the dog. I am best friends with our new dog. I was simply trying to get him to sit down.
    These men have done evil evil things to my mother. Their crazy making behavior made my mother go crazy. They messed up her entire mental state for real. I’m aware of what they will try to do to me but i will succeed over them & they might get arrested & go to prison.
    Oh the moment they come for me they will have outed themselves and exposed themselves. That they were trying to destroy both the women in the home & take all the money & house for themselves. Everyone will see it and they should. No aunt of mine should ever believe that a man doing such evil to their closest female family members and that they would never come for any other woman in the family. They laughed at nana’s death.

    • @DealWithNarcissist
      @DealWithNarcissist  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry about your painful experience. Wish you strength and more kindness in the future!

  • @suzannemaroney4579
    @suzannemaroney4579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!💕

  • @eunhinged
    @eunhinged 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If you'd like to do a case study on Triangulation please interview my 2 sisters. Their 'go to' is Mommy, because Mommy is at the top of the family hierarchy so if you can get Mommy on your side, well, you win! My one regret is it took me 47+ years to understand all this. Excellent video that helps explain this and offers good tips. 'Go grey rock' - I've started doing that and it drives them CRAZY! "Why am I not getting an emotional reaction from her?! Why is she stone faced? I always get an emotional rise out of her...what's going on??"
    Go grey rock!!

    • @DealWithNarcissist
      @DealWithNarcissist  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your reaction and kind words. I'm sorry about your experience. It can be very hard to recognize these things when you're in it. I'm glad you understand now, recognize the behaviour, and can decide how to deal with it! Wish you strength and more kindness in the future!

    • @eunhinged
      @eunhinged 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@DealWithNarcissist Cheers! Apologies 4 emotional reaction. All of this has helped me deal. THANK YOU! Cheers!

    • @DealWithNarcissist
      @DealWithNarcissist  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@eunhinged I'm thankful it's helpful to you! :)

    • @ellik1817
      @ellik1817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DealWithNarcissist Very helpful.. just came across your channel & will watch your videos… Please continue to make more - it’s great how you also offer strategies in a concise form… Thanks so much Love from Australia. 🙏💛

    • @DealWithNarcissist
      @DealWithNarcissist  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ellik1817 Thank you for kind words Elli. I'm thankful it may be of help to you. Wish you strength and kindness!

  • @Jovi_Wan_Shinobi
    @Jovi_Wan_Shinobi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When are you going to do a video on what happens when the triangulation fails and the discarded supply doesn’t try to fight for the relationship? Do that show!

    • @elaineclewley4704
      @elaineclewley4704 ปีที่แล้ว

      This happened to me
      They seen out their flying monkeys

    • @Hidden2u
      @Hidden2u 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Literally happening to me now - I disengaged immediately. How did your situation pan out?

    • @Jovi_Wan_Shinobi
      @Jovi_Wan_Shinobi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Hidden2uMy ex is still with her guy but their relationship is very dysfunctional. Alcoholism, drugs, neglect of her child, physical and emotional abuse between the two. I ran into her mother and brother out and about and it’s really bad with her. She’s being isolated and her family and friends don’t even see her anymore. She’s getting what she wants and deserves and I have been chilling with peace 🕊️😎

  • @susanneklees5721
    @susanneklees5721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😊👍