Forming New Habits for Your Marriage (Part 1) - Dr. Randy Schroeder

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ส.ค. 2024
  • Popular guest Dr. Randy Schroeder returns once more to Focus on the Family to discuss habits you can integrate into your marriage! Jim talks to Randy about pursuing the daily essentials of affection in your marriage, promoting emotional closeness, and leaving and cleaving properly. On the second day, they discussed positive communication habits, conflict resolution, and guarding your relationship well.
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  • @rb7454
    @rb7454 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    80% of behavior is habits.
    Consistent satisfaction amid ups & downs
    4 essentials:
    1. Show and speak love (oppose complacency) with goodbyes, hello’s and “I love you.”
    2. Set the tone for the day in the first 5 minutes. Don’t correct, complain or criticize in the begin of the day… set a positive tone instead.
    3. How to end the day: spend 20 mins together within spouses and arrival home from work reconnect emotionally (meaningful hug& kiss& check in with each other).
    4. Complement your spouse & speak appreciation

    • @danielleg1504
      @danielleg1504 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      These are super practical, measurable tips. I really like them! ❤ They give me a lot of hope that hubby & I can turn things around for the better.

    • @dr.randyschroeder
      @dr.randyschroeder 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@danielleg1504 I'm glad you found the tips practical and measurable! Remember, every positive step counts, and with determination and effort, you and your husband can definitely make positive changes.

  • @Spgal
    @Spgal ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We've been married for 30 years with a really good marriage. However this was very helpful!!

    • @focusonthefamily
      @focusonthefamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing, friend! It’s encouraging to read your positive feedback. If you need any help, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1‐800‐232‐6459. God’s best to you!

  • @cameronmccreary4758
    @cameronmccreary4758 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    First one has to find a person compatible; man to woman and woman to man with the capacity to communicate with each other.

    • @tammyholliday3289
      @tammyholliday3289 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s right. You can do that. Pray for the type of man or woman you want. I did that over 30 years ago. Jesus answered my prayer completely.

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Always a delight to have Dr.Randy
    Such Godly wisdom delivered in fun
    Thanks Dr. Randy
    Thanks FOTF

  • @ummuhajar558
    @ummuhajar558 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve been married 19 years, but I can’t wait to try these tips.

  • @michaelkoroma9446
    @michaelkoroma9446 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching from Sierra Leone West Africa 🇸🇱🌍

  • @deet7986
    @deet7986 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this video!! So helpful ❤

    • @dr.randyschroeder
      @dr.randyschroeder 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! I'm really glad you found the video helpful.

  • @lisamarie8155
    @lisamarie8155 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is great content!
    What is his advice on conflicting political issues?

  • @thewatcher4552
    @thewatcher4552 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Boy that introduction hit hard......Planning anything is a struggle.

    • @dr.randyschroeder
      @dr.randyschroeder 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hear you! Planning can definitely feel like an uphill battle sometimes.

  • @kikibeloved6786
    @kikibeloved6786 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    but can one form habits alone in a marriage, my husband doesnt seem to care much

    • @cpg1355
      @cpg1355 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry to hear that. Prayers.

  • @caenterprisellc6922
    @caenterprisellc6922 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the main focus for Emmanuel and I.

  • @kikibeloved6786
    @kikibeloved6786 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband doesn't like communication he prefers to stay with his friends playing Golf and likes to come late, am getting weary. i have asked him to go for counselling he said there was no need

    • @alicia4him1
      @alicia4him1 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It may take a long time but try not to say any more to him about his golf and pray that the Lord will put a disstifaction in his heart about it... that he will get tired of it... That he will start to miss you more and more. Pride is a terrible thing and may keep him from admitting it and he will push it out of his thoughts .... and really it may take along time but don´t give up. The Lord loves your husband and want to draw him to Himself. and of course the Lor loves and cares about how you feel about all this.

    • @kikibeloved6786
      @kikibeloved6786 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alicia4him1 Thank you so much, am encourgaed!

    • @alicia4him1
      @alicia4him1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kikibeloved6786 you are so welcome...

    • @halfwaythereatcampdowning6831
      @halfwaythereatcampdowning6831 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you take up golf? At least maybe just going driving( practice swings)

    • @summerjoy247
      @summerjoy247 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I would go to counseling alone to see if there’s anything I can do to improve things 🙏🏽

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Healthy sarcasm 10% of the time🤔

  • @Gloriasoyoungkim
    @Gloriasoyoungkim ปีที่แล้ว

    ♡♡♡-S.Korea-

  • @denniskramer5238
    @denniskramer5238 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mind reading expectations the double edged sword saying one thing meaning another with blaming the faults on the other a lose lose for the family win win for the Devil

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's a dangerous wife
    I would consider myself blessed she packed her bags
    A snake 🐍 in the grass