He made her break character at the end
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Book referenced @ 10:55 - “Coming of Age: African American Male Rites-of-Passage” by Paul Hill, Jr.
Thank you! I think I saw it available on Audible just yesterday, if it's the same one. Btw, I appreciate you even knowing who Dr DeGruy is, and your eye contact issue, it'll be ok, lol
He The author of the book has a couple of interviews on TH-cam as well. That people should take a look at As well
Her body was seated facing away from him and as she spoke she avoided looking him in the eyes (even after he called it out she struggled to maintain eye contact)... They say 93% of communication is nonverbal in nature, so even though she eloquently speaks about logically knowing and understanding that women need to have empathy towards men, her body language is oblivious to that knowledge as it was closed off to vital physical gestures of empathetic human connection...
They say actions speak louder than words, if the maxim is gospel; her words are being betrayed by her own physiology, which to me signals some heavy dissonance happening within her. Empathy is not something one just intellectually masters, it's a state of BEING one opens themselves to (BECOMING)... My synopsis is even though she gets it up there🧠, it doesn't mean she has got it in there ❤ yet... Don't just listen to what they consciously say, also watch what they unconsciously do... Just food for thought.
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Backstory: due to traveling, I hadn’t slept for over 24 hours & was struggling just to make sure coherent sentences come out 🥴
A pin worthy comment for sure! ❤❤❤
I think that maybe her intellectualization might come from fear/anxiety to be well recieved. She throws it off as media training/duality but really she just have common insecurities she hasnt worked on and has to be asked to relax and be her awkward self. Idk if her outfit sort of says the same thing too maybe?
Great observation. Just looking and observing is a thing that can keep you single for all the right reasons 💪🏿👏🏿👍🏿
Black women never have a problem putting their traumas aside when it comes to relationships with white Zaddy either on interviews or relationships. That toxic attitude gets suppressed
Facts, it is always funny when a non-black man shows up all of a sudden they knows how to act. It is almost like they hate black men and themselves.
It's because they know the mayo man ain't trying to hear none of that, yet they get loose as a goose with bm.
That's why all that trauma talk is 🧢. BW have a low level of contempt for BM. They have a high regard for the oppressor.
That's why I refuse to take any BS of a woman.
I agree with the brother when he said that men are dismissed when talking about their experiences especially negative experiences with women. Finding out that alot of women are not nice , the dating world is ruthless, and many women have little for patience for perceived weaknesses.
Too many women DO NOT care about the feelings of and reputation of the men that they get involved with and make you feel foolish for trusting them, defending them, and most importantly protecting them.
SAY IT AGAIN. Oh my god right on the money. That is what truly breaks our hearts. They’re the ones who programmed and conditioned us to believe a facade that they sell about themselves and the “bad men” that they incentivize, just to make us feel like foolish lowly beggars when we realize the truth. It deters us. I feel disillusioned and disenchanted from the process because I know how cruel and indifferent they can be to the very customers that they depend upon to maintain their bottom line and keep their business afloat. It’s about time they put their pride aside and give out customer surveys if they want to improve engagement, for the communitah’s sake
Well said brother
Exactly why that was my thesis! 🎯🎯🎯🎯
Women do not like the terms, "All women are like XYZ", "Women are all emotional." but then women want to make all men carry the burden of their past relationships. Not all men were players in high school, some of us were either shy, awkward, or were going through family situations that were stressful. What I would say is the men that women chose to be with (and still choose to be with) are women's primary issue. Women need to learn how to choose better and having the power of choice comes with responsibility for that choice.
Ultimately choosing better boils down to who they are at their core. Once their attraction bottoms out then they know what a good man is. They always knew and have been single handily the most destructive force in the black community by poor womb management, tearing apart families, causing unnecessary boundaries and sabotaging male leadership that ends up stunting the growth of children and enabling many forms of self destruction, mental illness and spiritual wickedness.
All they do is lie and I can’t put enough emphasis on that point. Yes men and women both lie but there’s levels to this.
It's always Jermaine's fault
This man look like he is the next Sith Lord or he is about to replace mace windu with that city back drop.🤣🤣🤣looks dope tho
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That black clothing made his skin look even darker. Lol
I love the unedited organic content that this video turned into. It felt very human and authentic.
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A lot of women live in a state of irrational fear.
I witnessed a female family member start flailing her arms around frantically, ducking and moving around. The look on her face was one of horror. Female family members standing next to her all started behaving the same way. All of them started screaming and then they at ran away in the same direction. What was interesting is that one female family member who took off running yelled out, “what is it?”
My father laughed out loud and said, ‘It’s a GD butterfly! What it’s wrong with you all.’ The female family member who initiated the madness said, ‘I thought it was a bee.’
Witnessing that madness helped me all I ever needed to know about how some people have been conditioned and respond to the world they live.
My own daughter was taught better…she knows and understands flying bugs don’t care about human beings…Yet, despite being taught better, she gets something out of the thrill of running and screaming with the rest of the women in the family. Group psychosis is a hell of a drug.
"group psychosis".. BARS
My dad taught me this lesson at the age of 6 or 7, when he use to cutt my hair outside. Since that day i wasnt worried about any bugs.
Thanks for the memory
I don't know why brothers are surprised at this point. No eye contact and staring out into space. It made it very hard to believe anything she said. The ending was fun when she looked at him while talking. Her real voice started to come out. She sounded totally different. The code switch and articulation of words changed. 😂
Chameleon. She knew what the correct response was.
She made a joke in her "real voice" and then she went back to professionalism. This is regular human behavior.
Matthew 10:14
And if anyone will not receive you or listen to your words, shake off the dust from your feet when you leave that house or town.
Mr. Obi is next level intelligent and astute. I like his delivery and how he articulates his point.
Your doing great work it’s appreciated
I appreciate that
For who? Have you seen his homeland?😆
@@negroraven9458Exactly. Nigerians won’t stay off our nuts!!!😆
@@wnttalk BM need to do better. talking BW all day aint gonna help that. BM are at the bottom
The quality 🔥 The multiple angles 🔥 The editing 🔥 this is next level work, Allen!
She dodged the question, where did prison come from, he asked you why women's issues are treated more important than men's issues.
She defaulted to repeating what black women have heard from day time talk show hosts and fictional movies.
That black women have it hard because so many black men are in prison or gay.
There is no concern for men's issues. There is only a reflex reaction that if you're talking about men's issues, that means you're not talking about women's issues.
Which then means you're ignoring women's issues, thereby making it harder on top of women having it harder.
Women don't like men talking about men's issues unpoliced by women because women are only concerned about direct benefits off of any improvement or resolution to men's issues. They don't want men realizing that improvements to their own lives can be independent of a direct benefit to women.
But on the other side, all the women's issues that women see as needing improvement or resolution, mostly will end up putting them in direct competition with men. All the areas they say are about their empowerment from their sports leagues needing more attention, movies being infused with their narratives, to Eboni K. Williams claims of she's a good catch because she's going to push the man she's attracted to, to be better.
She explains how basic hypergamy gets turned into an internal competition of her self viewed status against men's. Men aren't looking to push a woman to a level relative to their own level. They looking for a woman to be something that a man on any level would like.
Proverbs 9:7-9
7 Criticize a person who is rude and shows no respect, and you will only get insults. Correct the wicked, and you will only get hurt. 8 Don’t correct such people, or they will hate you. But correct those who are wise, and they will love you. 9 Teach the wise, and they will become wiser. Instruct those who live right, and they will gain more knowledge.
I live in Atlanta. Let’s do a dinner meetup at a restaurant for your viewers in Atlanta. Pick a restaurant with a large dinning venue !
She is right when she says "put the other first". It is hard to understand the point of view of the opposite sex. Women think they are better at understanding people, but that doesn't really apply for relationships. You have to make an effort, to learn, to get out of your comfort zone. Relationships with the opposite sex don't come naturally.
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Women don’t understand themselves crazy how they feel keyword feel they understand people better
I gotta say this quality! You have definitely stepped it up a notch
This women is talking about a life she never lived. She's been able to have a bank account her entire life.
True a lot of these women like to use references that they themselves never lived neither have a lot of their mothers. Because women got the right to have a bank account in the 60s so if their mother were born in the 50s or the 60s that wouldn't apply because they were too Young
Tell her again😂
True! She is using the exaggerated oppression of women to explain women resenting men, while not looking at the situation of men at all.
Hi! So the quote was “there was a time when women couldn’t have bank accounts,” should I not reference the historical roots of things I haven’t lived? Should we then never again mention slavery for example?
@@suraiyethe411 That is not quite in the same ball park. My mum had jobs at a time when a married woman had to open a bank account in her husband's name. So how much did she suffer? Not at all.
I was going to comment on the way the woman was not making eye contact with the guy in the video, but she explains it. She’s in her thoughts and is able to process things better when she’s not looking at someone. Makes sense.
She makes eye contact when he is talking. So maybe she was getting lost in thought and that's why she loses eye contact.
This is super high quality bro hats off
The simple truth is that women in general, black women specifically in this case, arent interested in men's experiences and prospectives. Despite all talking points to the contrary, men have been and still are socialized and conditioned to care for and about women.
The inverse of that statement isnt true. Whenever we talk about relationships, its always framed around the woman. What is expected of men, and what men owe women is pretty clear, and frankly hasnt changed much.
What isnt clear and is always nebulous, is what women owe men. Frankly, it seems like it's nothing. As long as there's no clearly defined standard to measure them against, nothing will change.
I agree with you fully and it was my intention for publicly sharing this conversation 🙏🏽
@@suraiyethe411 thank u
Damn 😮Did you shoot this in 12k my nigga 🎥🎥 🔥🔥🔥 tell that camera man to follow me
All me brotha 😂🤣
At 11:00 when she brings up the book, it seems that only in our incarceration or death can we be humanized or somewhat understood and by then it's too late.
Great talk. Quality work, as usual.
“Look at me! Look!” 😆
She's better as her awkward self (as she phrased it). Rather than as a pseudo intellectual 😊
Perspectivize is CRAZY
Yes, completely insane! We must adhere strictly to the rules of the white man’s language ! 😮😂😂😂 Some people approach language poetically, you don’t get points for throwing the grammar book at folk. Chill & listen to the intent of the words, damn.
@@Arts4Change U interpreted what i said through whatever gaze dominates ur perspective and made it about the the white man. Maybe i like "crazy". Maybe i should add emoji's so that this happens less often. Thank u for ur insight.
This content is golden. Effortless intentional explorative conversation. A rarity in these days and sadly a lost art especially amongst young adults. Salute!!! 🫡
It's her process....I get it-just flow the conversation, the energy will deliver period.
Nothing is going to change it over!!
Great video! I noticed that a lot of answers to the questions can be seen in the body language of you both.
Another good submission. Right on!
Women are characters in their own movies
@1:10 it amazes me how often Blk women use examples of not being able to open a bank account with out being attached to black men. It’s like they really associate themselves as whyte women. Bc there has never been a time in the USA where whyte women had less or less mobility as Black men
the end sums up everything they been talking about and I thought they both handled it well!! 😊
Obi you have some talking and tone classes. I commend you on your frame. What is it that you practice that helps guide your emotions into a place of palatable response? I understand ,”be not easily offended”, however that’s thought, what actions behaviors and mannerism have you cultivated to do this? I’m not challenging I’m giving you praise. I’ve been subbed to your channel since 2020 and I’ve never seen you break frame. Please black brother share this wisdom to the black male delegation. Or me, cuz I need that class
I will on Patreon brother✊🏿
@@wnttalk it’s a new season for me, you will be my first Patreon sub I’m claiming and laying the foundation for it.🫡
She is talking in circles. I don’t think she’s really thought about the things she was going to say.
Conversation will ALWAYS be important when it comes to human dynamics. We're social creatures by design. Great work with this one! 👍🏾
Conversation ..at this point..is just for views on TH-cam. It is because people want easy money online, and have no TALENT..so they just talk. Yap yap yap ..talking in circles..getting nowhere, which is obvious by the lack of results. It is just proselytizing at this point. ACTION is what makes change. Our culture would have to be changed through ACTION and these parents are not going to grab the bull by the horns and really RAISE their kids like the period of time in maybe the fifties and sixties. All of these silly terms do nothing, they are just talking points to get views. It’s the hamster wheel.
@@marcelmarshall4240 That's fair enough and I agree for the most part, but I do genuinely believe that conversation is an important first step. Though I do want to add something to that notion. HONEST conversation is important. Reasonable and productive discourse can only be had on a foundation of honesty from all parties included and that's the problem with a lot of these online discussions. A lot of them are not rooted in honesty and are mostly just vapid; tit for tat bullshit.
This is so bad-ass. Thank you. And Heavens Yes!
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Beautiful location... Beautifully shot... Perfect lighting... Good crisp audio... As for the conversation and topics, I don't think sisters understand how far things have slipped past their fingers and how disinterested they are in addressing any aspects of the phenomena...
I honestly prefer us as a community to continue going down this ugly path, and see it through to the bitter end until there’s a complete breakdown. Over time our differences will cease to matter much, as our separation will relinquish all expected obligations from one another anyways. In every aspect of society the black man and black woman is divided on a multitude of levels; therefore fighting against the inevitable is simply futile. Going our separate ways is the only solution to a ongoing problem that seeks no end in sight.
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Thats a very blck pill way to see it. And i love it.
I see a large movement of black men divesting. I see alot of brothers with white women. It's reality now.
Your right about the multiple levels. Most AA men don't know the educated sisters are pathologizing us for the white folks in academia. 2015 study conclude that AA boys perform significantly worst when raised by AA women. 20 million dead from abortion. 1.2 million non black children birthed to AA women by biblical definition. I could go on for days. The community can't advance when half of said community is team white supremacy.
if this happens there will be no more Black men. I find it crazy Black men cant see this. Yall are going to divest yourselves out of existence. The Black community will no longer exist. Yall have been defeated and conquered by white supremacy. @@marlonlombard6006
Socially, not looking at someone when you talk, that means she is lying when you don't look at people. Do they still have a sociology class in college ?
Lady said a lot without saying anything.
Thank you! She just want D
Yeah they just ramble on and on with no point being made it’s like talking to a child that wants the parents attention just for the sake of having the attention
Great discussion
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Excellent content, brother!
At first review, I agree with a lot of the brothers in the comments but i will say i commend anyone bold enough to get online and speak transparently to the masses. Her body language is a bit off-putting for sure but i think we expect one of two extremes in these situations: a. Perfect and confident compliance with the BM experience b. Disdain and delusion...and I'm starting to understand that we have some embedded trauma from our experiences with BW that comes out in our expectations of every BW we view. I think she was mostly sincere but has some nervous tells in 1-1 interaction. I'm interested to see where this conversation evolves and I also agree that we need relevant action to try and course correct. However, I still believe all the convos serve a direct purpose and are relevant to some degree. Salute again to great content, I always look forward to yours good brother! 🙏🏾
I thought she was attracted to him which is why she is not looking at in him!!!
This was my first time meeting this man so yes it was a nerves thing lol, I was sleep deprived from traveling & just trying not to lose my thoughts 🥴😂
My mum raised me to be for the Streets, and that's fine for black women.
7:24 They say they want empathy but in reality they want tolerance -A pass to continue to act out of the pain which their current man did NOT cause, with no expectation to *actively* work on healing and doing better.
I'm sorry but did this woman just try to compare the reality of black men going to prison to the occurrence of women having their monthly? I wish these conversations would be more productive but there is no reasoning with a sector of women who would actually think that that is a fair comparison. In an effort to show how badly women need to understand men, she just throw her whole case out the window by putting those two scenarios on the same shelf. I will always applaud Allen for his patience because theres no way in human hell I wouldve just glossed over that. I had to pause the video and take a walk haha
Yeah I had to pause for a second lol
Thank you for the honest feedback. My intention wasn’t to say that those are 2 equally oppressive or traumatic occurrences, but rather just thinking of examples of core aspects and daily experiences that are vital to us better understanding one another. 🤍🙏🏽
Tell her to empathize with her man like she does with her co-workers 😂
13:30 dude, you know thats normal right? for people to look up & to the left or right or look at a wall while their brain is accessing memories & data that the person has read. who looks straight into somebody's eyes at all times when having a deep conversation about things they've seen & read? we should be celebrating american black women who think because most american black women don't think, they have emotions & act on it or blurt stuff out not caring who it hurts or affects, especially if its a man who is affected by it. she's actually carefully thinking out what she has to say. lets encourage that because that sh*t is rare.
Thank you for affirming this. The backstory is I traveled quite far to be there and hadn’t slept well in over 48 hours, so I was super concentrating to put alllll those words together to do the conversation justice. 🙏🏽
@suraiyethe411 I do the same thing. I get animated and gesture with my hands, but my eyes will roam all over the place. I heard it is associated with the type of attachment style that a person develops during childhood. It's not necessarily right nor wrong, but some people will see that you are being disingenuous.
But, once you are alert to it, it's relatively easy make an adjustment.
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She’s not thinking she just want some D
@@rockmyworldmusic interesting.
@@asdfdc1946 what's not normal a person looking everywhere but the 1 person they are talking to about 70 percent of the whole conversation. Some people will look up or around. BRIEFLY when they are trying to think of an obscure word or thought, but that is only for a few seconds at most. Most people don't speak several entire sentences without making eye contact at all. It's really weird and the fact that many people immediately notice this should tell you something. I honestly thought that maybe. She was blind, because I've seen actual blind people do that, understandably, in conversation with a seeing person.
I've also never heard anyone claim that fatigue is the reason they couldn't maintain eye contact during the majority of a conversation. I certainly wouldn't agree to a televised talk or interview if I was too fatigued to fully concentrate and participate in the discussion.
I feel for the men of today. I sincerely believe we are dealing with the worst generation of women in human history to choose from. While we wait for them to self correct I think men should get their passports. There are more traditional and caring black women overseas that would be happy to have western black men.
This comment right here 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I agree with your statement. Black people were transported to various countries during the slave trade. South America alone received twice as many blacks as North America. Not even including the Caribbean countries and Europe. It’s time for American black men to get their passports and just see the world. Just to expand their horizons and gain new experiences. If they find companionship while traveling, that’s okay and if they don’t that’s okay too. But they need the experience for personal growth and a different perspective.
I agree. It’s a great solution for us all to merge. (I’m a bit of a Black Countries passport gal myself 😆)
@@suraiyethe411 That won't work well for the majority of American blk women. The foul attitudes and mouthiness are not tolerated by the men nor the women in non-western countries.
BW are doing the same dysfunction in brazlil and africa.
the majority of BW in brazil, carribean, etc. spit out kids for rogues as well too.
Who is anyone to judge anyone’s else’s right to have love or not that’s not anyone’s place to say
Thanks!
Thank you brother ✊🏿
The lack of eye contact is very cringy to me.
It’s something I struggle with when deep in thought for sure. Hope you were still able to engage with what was being said for the most part though. 🙏🏽
@@suraiyethe411 Still a great conversation
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On my healing journey I've been able to come to appreciate non-combative conversations like this. Some of these comments show me that it's dudes that are still early on in their own journeys and they're still nitpicking this woman's mannerisms and rationale when she is authentically trying to be present in, and considerate of, the conversation. This was a good one and could've stopped before he asked her why she was looking into her thought space (and then proceeded to do the same thing himself).
Thank you for the honest & reflective feedback. I was genuinely trying my best to do Justice to the nature of the conversation. 🤍🙏🏽
why do white men and mexican men don't half to
go thew all this back and forth and confession
About your place in the relationship.🤔🤔🤔
There is no toxic masculinity. There is no toxic femininity.
There is toxicity.
Guidance by principle is needed to return to pure proper standard of beingness.
Men and women.need to go on an ok interaction fast...none of the other gender for 7 yrs. During which there is fixing and balancing and being of proper self. Draw back, leave ppl alone in n their zone, see what happens.
I swear they just be talking
9:54 this imbalanced you pointed out is a reflection of the society. It's really that simple. Given the fact that all societies are foundationed on human biological capabilities and differences and also spiritual polarity of the genders, the man or the masculine has always been the sacrificial and acquisition component of humanity. But what we have today is a culture/economic model that gains prosperity in the dehumanization, disregard and deliberate devaluation of that sacrifice. And this reflects in the nature of the women of such societies (this does not mean that it affects them more). In the so called western society, prosperity is begotten by devaluation of labor/effort. So naturally women of this society have imbibed the social instinct that if she devalues a man's effort then he has to do more to get her validation. If this didn't have some initial success in terms of gender dynamics it wouldn't have gotten to his point. But everything has a breaking point. Note that this isn't a criticism of women but more of a culture. In fact, as a Nigerian, Culture and family background was the priority in marriages. If your culture was deemed bad it didn't matter much how good the woman's individuality was. She wasn't seen as a bad woman. But she could be dismissed on grounds of her culture. It would seem that there was great knowledge in this practice.
Masculinity is not toxic, toxic is toxic period. People are toxic I dislike the mixing up or combining of words to sound smart. Masculinity is what keeps the world safe, toxic people keep the world is disarray.
Just wow
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I do that too if I’m trying to explain something deep or complicated.
If I focus on people or how much eye contact or body language, it distracts my thought process.
I don’t think she’s being dismissive or even feels uncomfortable. I don’t try to be, I’m just more concerned about being clear and precise about my thoughts and saying them in real time. When I don’t do this, I often end up saying things that I don’t exactly mean or it might require more explanation than necessary.
Nobody ever called me out on it, but I am aware that I do this too.
Glad to know that I’m not the only one who does this sometimes.
Excellent point!
Thank you for understanding 🤍🙏🏽
Hours and Hours of conversation. With no solution. Embrace individualim. It's the only thing that we have left.
It's been almost 6 months I've been thinking that conversations been enough.... Let's act now coz we have to start somewhere....
The other thing is that I genuinely think that BW really don't know BM. coz this toxic masculinity thing it's about very few percentage of us but it's painted like most of us are toxic, and I'm tired of this. No reason for me to pay for a horrendous behavior from an another guy
Deadbeat father myth is one of the examples of that ignorance all the more that it is a myth.... EVEN OPRAH had to do a show about this lie in '2023.... But i got to say this :that lady is just beautiful. I like... Sorry I love how she presents herself...
I agree with you, way too much talking when there’s so much that needs doing (which I speak on in the full video). Our dislike of one another is by design and we just cannot know this yet allow the plan to succeed. We must be reminded that we are not each other’s true enemy. The truth is we share a common enemy. Thank you for the compliment also. Appreciate your feedback 🙏🏽
There's so much more going on here. You could write a book on just the communication that we see here.
We live baby 🍿🍿🍿
Some people are notbgreat with eye contact. Makes them uncomfortable.
I think she pin pointed a good answer un intentionally. Women need to study men like men study women. Past and present. Nuances and all.
Thag sj the problem toooooooo EMOTIONAL!!
Talking only matters if the root of the problems get identified and addressed. If people just want to be heard, those are what we call emotinal band aids, and they help nothing.
Its spiritual is exactly what the bottom line problem/issue is!? Trying to solution things with out the Most High God the outcomes is NEVER going to be at a decent level. We as a whole communitah, are too far gone as relationship and marriage with AA's Blks etc., its a wrap ovreall lets be honest the writing has been on the wall at least for a few decades now💯
100% 🎯🎯🎯 if the action part doesn’t follow we tripping.
A menstraul cycle is equal to the industrial prison complex that starts at kindergarten......🤦🏿♂️
Our women did not look at women from the 30s and pull from their unfair treatment in the 90s to hold all men accountable. I’m not understanding why now it’s become a personal problem for them seeing as they as well as their parents have had access their entire lives. If anything they were closer to the civil rights movement and that fight. Black men never created laws to oppress our women but you would think that we did by the way they talk about it when discussing us
Stockholm syndrome mixed with radical feminism. You blame what's closest to you while over looking the macro. "I AM A Man" says it was never a black patriarchy in America... just one example
Yea I don't understand that
Mom is 78 yrs old and loves to refer to women not being able to have a bank account. Yet she's never been denied an account or voting. And didn't ALL AA still require a Voting Rights Bill in 1965?!?
The thing to take away is that the AA women thinks or needs to believe we as AA men had the same rights and social capital as white men. They are unable to acknowledge that we were enslaved as well.
If women change for the better the world would change. If men change for the better there will be a lot on lonely women.
MacGyver Stravenue
Talking does nothing, It is over. Our culture..be it dating, intellectual, economic or otherwise…is what it is. It’s a wrap. Sayonara.
There are toxic people not toxic masculinity or femininity.
Aye man love this content give me some time and ill be having an interview with you soon
I believe that the understanding is, YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK, now whatever capacity that looks like, you have to embrace it. A lot of women were going at Simone Biles, but she lucked up on that man, but when she did, SHE DID THE WORK TO GET THAT MAN!!! I think women don't understand the simple truth that, men go for what they want and women just accept what comes to them. You all can't have the same thing and then still end up settling anyway!!! Find a decent man, work on the relationship, and get that man!!! That's how this thing is going to have to work....... SORRY if you don't like it. Or there is always the unfortunate alternative, no one wins when the family fights.
“No one wins when the family fights” 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
That is strange that she does not look at him
...That's very strange...i bet she looks at her
Girl friends when she talks to them...this is
kinda sick.
I clicked off after she said “perspectivize”. I cannot take pseudo-intellectuals seriously.
Women submit to men on some sort of level whether they understand it or not because men build infrastructure.
@0:05... Prespectivize is NOT a real word.
How do women BW remember how it was like in the 1950s when it was before they were born? It's like me relating to slavery or Jim Crow.
I’m not sure that was my point at all. History impacts us. Just like the history of slavery impacts us as a people, the history of gender rights imbalances impacts us as women.
@@suraiyethe411funny right this applies to black men too but most of you don’t care or even know that. I’m tired of the pop feminism among black women
You relate to slavery every time you guys lust over that lightskin girl just because she lightskin lol
Some people process words as pictures or puzzle pieces. When you see someone zone out, they are making a movie in their head. If they dont want to tell you then they dont want to tell you. Why consistently point it out when you can just enjoy the conversation? 😤🙄🥴
Thank you for understanding 🤍🙏🏽
News flash It’s too late.
Did you shoot this with a RED cam?
I wishhh!! Lol Sony gang
@@wnttalk came out so crisp bro, your production quality is going up. Keep at it
@@wnttalkSony A1 in full 8k probably ?
That boy good! 🔥
😂 she felt that power over there! I watched that too with the eye contact as well it seems like a hurt is still there from past experiences or fear maybe dunno, but she became ultra feminine once she let you see her 💯
My grandma worked throughout her life, cooked, and raised her kids so the extreme feminist narrative is played out its 2024.
Well done fam!
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12:12 Men should never look up interact with a woman based on her menstrual cycle
Shes saying one thing but her body language is saying the opposite.
Shes not geniune in her words, she doesnt believe what shes saying.
I am 100% genuine in what I’m saying. Struggling with eye contact is not something I always do, but while sleep deprived from traveling, trying to form meaningful thoughts, & sitting face to face with someone you’re meeting for the first time can add to the nerves if it all. Im not sure being nervous automatically equals everything you’re saying being disingenuous. 🤍🙏🏽
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Her conversation is a whole 🧢, stop communicating with this nonsense and live your peace, and find your shore
she said a bunch of nothing.
Just so you know, this video was hidden for a long time. If you did it, cool. If not, youtube is messing with you.
Women not having bank accounts was a blessing yall shot yourself in the foot with. Let me explain. Before credit cards men had accounts with stores. When you married that man you was put on the account. Meaning you can shop and not have to worry about getting a bill, because it was your husband responsibility to pay for for it. Start talking to your great grandparents about this. If a woman couldn't have a bank account, then how did she pay for things. Now, this was the majority not the minority
Wow, just wow
And wow...Women can submit to there
Explorer...its not hard for them to summit
its all cap...they choose not to submit.
Who's their explorer?
She is right about us researching each other. But the she was wrong and women being oppressed...men and women were locked into roles and bad men would target those who were physically weaker, the same way more powerful men would abuse less powerful men....we need to remember what the ideal working conditionz were in the traditional male and female dynamic. Men treated women, wives, mothers as queens. Men would die first in those settings. It was not set up like slavery, like a one way street of privilege. Men & Women have always set up a 2 way street of privileged. That two way definitely needed improvement but of course over correction was done.