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  • @TheFeminineUniverse
    @TheFeminineUniverse  ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Hi ladies!! We will be getting together LIVE today (Saturday Dec 2) @ 11am. So, if you want more, feel free to join in 💕

    • @bintokiria5338
      @bintokiria5338 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This is really great, I will be there❤

    • @Talia_IceCreamPaints
      @Talia_IceCreamPaints ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh wow! I wish I could have caught this. Are you on PST time?

    • @hc7092
      @hc7092 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is this 11am GMT-5?

    • @BlaqQTpie
      @BlaqQTpie ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Newly single and your videos are so 🔥

    • @beautyandpositivity1343
      @beautyandpositivity1343 ปีที่แล้ว

      Raise your value 🥂

  • @imagoblack
    @imagoblack ปีที่แล้ว +1540

    I’m a man and not your target demographic but I must say that I still get a lot from your videos. You are a treasure! Your content is balanced and full of wisdom. I will be sharing your videos with my daughters. (And my son for that matter) Keep doing what you’re doing!!!

    • @denisebrock3154
      @denisebrock3154 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Wow! I'm impressed that you chimed in and left this wonderful comment.
      You will have amazing daughters and a fabulous son by exposing them to this contact while they're still young. This is crucial information to teach them in their years where they're more open to learning and receiving correction.😉👌💯

    • @dudunhlabathi1870
      @dudunhlabathi1870 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I agree fully

    • @drecool85
      @drecool85 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Same. I’m a man and I apply a lot of these to my life too!

    • @Author_SoftwareDesigner
      @Author_SoftwareDesigner ปีที่แล้ว +72

      I’m a man as well. 34 years old, no kids gets. Studying for my masters, and this is one of if not the BEST channel I’ve found on the dating arena. Healthy and practical advice. She should write a book or package and sell a course.

    • @jasminealexia
      @jasminealexia ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Goo dad! ❤

  • @TiktokTownhall
    @TiktokTownhall ปีที่แล้ว +262

    I raised that price and treatment has definitely followed. I wish I did this 3 years ago. Literally the WEEK I dropped a dusty.. a king came in stepping strong. I kicked that door completely down

    • @kairosunltd130
      @kairosunltd130 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🔥🔥🔥wish I also did it 5 yrs ago. I'm finally getting the hang of it and things are now opening up and it's looking amazing ☺️😊🥰👑👑👑💎💎💎

  • @Bed_kingnoob
    @Bed_kingnoob ปีที่แล้ว +262

    I like this video. People should look at you and automatically think “hmmm this lady is high maintenance”. Stop apologizing. Stop allowing people to manipulate you. Stop slowing people to make you feel bad about your hard no’s

  • @dianemoril7612
    @dianemoril7612 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I raised my price a few months ago and lost all my "friends". I then realized that we were not friends, they just benefited a lot more from me than me from them. and they were mad when it stopped.... so, did a very good job!

    • @sp3357
      @sp3357 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @dianemoril7612 you are so right girl the same thing happened to me when I moved away from my hometown before I left we wasn’t just on the same page I was growing and they were still stuck I had to go and leave them behind.

  • @nzeifunanya2052
    @nzeifunanya2052 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    I learnt so many things here but my favorite and most effective remains "be ok with being put back the shelve" it only means you're too expensive for them to afford and that's totally ok.
    It transformed me. Thank you for this channel
    It's been helpful.

    • @Goddess_Infinity
      @Goddess_Infinity ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Damnnnn !!! This is the message here !!!

  • @ktiyw2685
    @ktiyw2685 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    This video came right on time. I know I’ve sold myself terribly short over the years. It is time for me to value myself and radically love myself

    • @andreaviola8675
      @andreaviola8675 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Cheering you on Sis!

    • @ktiyw2685
      @ktiyw2685 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you! 💖

    • @rocioruiz5622
      @rocioruiz5622 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It better late than never than never

    • @ladyd8028
      @ladyd8028 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If you don't love you, no one else will, either. 💡

  • @9darshana
    @9darshana ปีที่แล้ว +201

    I feel like someone needs to hear this. Ladies, if you are single and are interested in being with a man, make sure you're always presentable when you go out. I've noticed that I attract higher quality men when I wear slacks, trousers, and a nice shirt or blouse. When I'm too casual with sweat pants on I attract more undesirable men. These men are less likely to approach if you have on less casual clothing. There's just something about slacks/trousers that will turn the average undesirable man away, they may look but I promise you, they'll leave you alone. This is just something my friends and I have noticed.

    • @emeraldgem8041
      @emeraldgem8041 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Agree❤

    • @prettypractical3372
      @prettypractical3372 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I prefer skirts and dresses.

    • @cindersmolloy6584
      @cindersmolloy6584 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@prettypractical3372 Absolutely. I would never hide my best asset, legs and high heels.

    • @goldenparachute392
      @goldenparachute392 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      If they like you in slacks, they’re going to love you in a dress 🤌 💕

    • @Florapurehoney
      @Florapurehoney 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks sis

  • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
    @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Raise your value. ❤️
    Yes, ladies, watch out for these “shaming” phrases:
    - “You priced yourself out of the dating market.”
    - “You’re charging new car prices for a used car” (dating market)
    - “I can get someone else here for less money” (for jobs/business)
    - “You’re not going to get that kind of money for that kind of work” (for jobs/business)
    I love how you brought up that your price may indeed be too high in your current location, and you just might have to move to where your price is reasonable.

  • @graceacquah246
    @graceacquah246 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I got my a book, a pen and wifi, this channel is my self schooling, im going to graduate with first class😅

    • @krestedkay
      @krestedkay 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      First class as u should

    • @barneslx
      @barneslx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too!

    • @msmarisadenise
      @msmarisadenise 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love this 💖

    • @mindfulblend166
      @mindfulblend166 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We're so blessed 🎉

  • @fatikay5735
    @fatikay5735 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    " What you tolerate, you *deserve* " 😢 gurl that hit me like an arrow 🏹 right in the hear!!! 😂❤ Painful truth!

  • @QueenAmour8888
    @QueenAmour8888 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    This is such a perfect timing. I literally had these exact same thoughts just yesterday on my 31 bday ❤

    • @sydney8725
      @sydney8725 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      happy birthday!

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Happy birthday, Queen🎉🎉 I hope your 31st year is absolutely magical! So happy to have you as part of this community. Celebrate yourself, keep growing, keep glowing! Can't wait to hear what this year has in store for you 💕🥂

    • @QueenAmour8888
      @QueenAmour8888 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sydney8725 thank you so much Sydney it means a lot ❤️

    • @QueenAmour8888
      @QueenAmour8888 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@efemmary9450 thank you so much! I greatly appreciate it ❤️❤️

    • @QueenAmour8888
      @QueenAmour8888 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annengei2885 thank you so much, I appreciate you ❤️

  • @lavieestbelle6068
    @lavieestbelle6068 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I enjoy your content . It reminds me on how much I need to work.
    Get to the gym
    Find a hobby
    Continue to diversify the novels I read.
    Your content is helpful.
    Thank you so much.

  • @judithstuck9979
    @judithstuck9979 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I wish I would have seen this video years ago. I thought I was being devoted by acting like the desperate girl. I thought I could win men over, when I should have been raising my value. I never had a mother to tell me these things or a father who told me my worth. They should teach this as a class in school. Better late than never to learn. Thank you so much!❤

    • @journeywithme_erika1890
      @journeywithme_erika1890 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same! It's never too late to learn a new way and thank God we got away from those in the past...now our future is brighter ❤

    • @bellecherie3143
      @bellecherie3143 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s not too late ❤

    • @judithstuck9979
      @judithstuck9979 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@bellecherie3143 Amen with Jesus it’s never too late!

    • @venitalafi8654
      @venitalafi8654 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I thought the same thing/way you did.

  • @grettalemabouchou6779
    @grettalemabouchou6779 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I am doing it. From the clothes I wear to my homes' design and even my furniture. Thank you for this message.

  • @fraideSTUDIO
    @fraideSTUDIO ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You know you’re on the right path when synchronicity happens. I literally out of no where said this affirmation to myself, “My price just went up.” And now I’m watching this video. Beautiful message and lesson in life!

  • @icnekoka
    @icnekoka 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I recommend all of us to listen to this as many times as possible. It's so easy for the old version of self to arise uninvited. Cried my eyes out last night!

  • @zephomalunga5251
    @zephomalunga5251 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That last one....got me...
    Just this morning I was saying to myself, I have done the work but I don't seem to meet friendships and men that meet my standards....

  • @l.c.8211
    @l.c.8211 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    OMG. I am about to study your videos like I am in University. I am going to become the best version of myself. Thank you sincerely❤

  • @edwardhelb1139
    @edwardhelb1139 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    As a man this was needed to hear I need to raise my value and price. Awesome content for everyone man or woman despite not being your targeted audience. ❤💯

  • @mx7darling663
    @mx7darling663 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Right on time and point as usual. Raise your value please❤

  • @Tala_Ta
    @Tala_Ta 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "You may be doing right things in a wrong place" is a brilliant idea! Thank you. Much food for thought.

  • @taxtechnicians8939
    @taxtechnicians8939 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Raise Your Value!

  • @claes9429
    @claes9429 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Raise your value girl! 💙

  • @shaleenison
    @shaleenison ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Raise your value!!!
    Preach gurl! I wish you were my spirit animal. Every video I take notes and journal on each lesson. Thank you for showing me how i can be better, live better, and want better.

  • @paisleygarrett1975
    @paisleygarrett1975 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    this is all really important and i guess deep down i’m afraid of being lonely. but i’m gonna try and be ok w my own company and god 💕

  • @SherryLight
    @SherryLight ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Sis, you are so intelligent and insightful. Thank you for sharing this type of content with the world. You are CHANGING lives! Thank you for sharing your tips as they are deep and impactful. ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾💃🏾💃🏾👸🏾👸🏾👑👑

  • @lizzyo9029
    @lizzyo9029 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    To the glory of God in Christ Jesus, I am almost done completing my 2nd PhD❤️. Thank you for creating a place for us to celebrate the works of our hands💕

  • @femme_intention
    @femme_intention 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Eloquent, elevated and divine ✨💅

  • @Apiscesworld
    @Apiscesworld ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Raise your value!✨

  • @tamaratammy8039
    @tamaratammy8039 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Raise your value❤

  • @lanapincock246
    @lanapincock246 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Raise your value! This is such a great reminder! Thank you for the video!!!❤

  • @Naomily
    @Naomily ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Raise your value - looking forward to a video on that.
    Thanks again for yet another amazing video. It's true, I'd be ready to buy your book, at least printables with the key messages you've given us.

  • @FUfon-gf5ph
    @FUfon-gf5ph ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your thumbnail showed up in my Sisters feed & she sent it to me Neither of us knew you but We Know You were heaven sent & this was a divine appt❤May Yah Bless you for your Light Wisdom Courage & Love Thank you!! Implementing Now & l👀k forward to MORE🎉🎉🎉

  • @rachaeladu7360
    @rachaeladu7360 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Raise your value 💗🙏🏾✨… great video & perfect timing ⏱ yet again

  • @Meg104D
    @Meg104D ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes please - would love a video on how to raise your value!

  • @annkimani1763
    @annkimani1763 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    RAISE YOUR VALUE ❤❤❤❤

  • @georgiaseitanidou154
    @georgiaseitanidou154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Raise your value in my 50devorse mother thank you I really appreciate it 🙏❤️

  • @bookbutterfly2408
    @bookbutterfly2408 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Oooh, been excited for this one! & yes, raise your price! Keep up with these next-level videos, your explanations make them so easy to understand!

  • @illuminateyourshadows5861
    @illuminateyourshadows5861 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I want to take some time to thank you for your content. I’m sure you put hours of thought and love into each video because it certainly shows. I discovered your channel a few weeks ago and the way I view myself has changed for the better and my self esteem has advanced to levels I didn’t even know were possible. I’ve tried to find other feminine channels and so many of them leave me feeling worse. But your content is always so full of grounded timeless wisdom and love. You are appreciated and have a subscriber for life! 🥰🤍

  • @Catherine-ew1ww
    @Catherine-ew1ww ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow! Probably the most powerful self help wisdom I’ve heard on you TH-cam. Awesome. Thank you very much.

  • @anettjessop9102
    @anettjessop9102 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You always Raise Our Value! Thank you!!

  • @karolinasakowicz3627
    @karolinasakowicz3627 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes to the video on Raise Your Value!

  • @Naturelaxing-t3M
    @Naturelaxing-t3M ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Raise your value! Thank you!

  • @thinadlamini4671
    @thinadlamini4671 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Raise Your Value ❤ 12:47

  • @End_Orca_Captivity
    @End_Orca_Captivity ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm at that point where I know I have had enough, more than enough and have started the process of change by myself for myself. As a stay at home mum, I put the children first always, but now they are much older, I'm noticing it's not ok for me to be in the house in threadbare t-shirts with holes in. This is not what I want for myself. I don't have much money (I sew a little from home when I can for Etsy), so I have become well acquainted with sites like Vinted. It takes much longer to find nice styles, but every now and then a nice little something turns up for a fraction of the original price and in new condition with tags. Thank you for this video! x

  • @Phenomenal3021
    @Phenomenal3021 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Raise your value ❤❤❤

  • @moniquejohnson59
    @moniquejohnson59 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I manifested this video. Thank you very much!

  • @dia9612
    @dia9612 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Raise your value, what you are doing is important

  • @depringsmith
    @depringsmith ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need to listen to this everyday, as a reminder. Great video!

  • @Organiclemonade7
    @Organiclemonade7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Right on time sister 🙌🏽💅🏽 been feeling this in my spirit

  • @isismob7379
    @isismob7379 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Raise your value, excellent video!

  • @amelieluciol2581
    @amelieluciol2581 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have changed me. For a better, stronger version of myself. Love from France ❤❤❤

  • @FeminineElegancebyRoz
    @FeminineElegancebyRoz ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Trash settles..... but cream rises to the top. Yes, raise your value smooches 💋

  • @ubahchikarositta9940
    @ubahchikarositta9940 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Raise your value. Thank you for this video.

  • @gladys.glad.
    @gladys.glad. ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's time to Reset and Rise ! Thank you for your inspiring videos . Bonne journée à toutes

  • @ravellemoore
    @ravellemoore ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yesss a video on "Raise your Value" pleaseee🙏🏽💕

  • @LaCreshiaify
    @LaCreshiaify ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Raise your value ✨️
    I would love to see your video on that

  • @wrldtrvlr4vr
    @wrldtrvlr4vr ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed this. Thank you. Please do another video on raising your value.

  • @AdwoaAvor
    @AdwoaAvor ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I so love your theme. I raised the value some time back now I'm going to add the taxes.Grest and informative video. Thank you so much.

    • @andreaviola8675
      @andreaviola8675 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "Now I am adding taxes" OH .....that is gooooooooood, that is sooooooooooo good. That may be my motton for 2024 ! Thank you

  • @edwinaogboleoche1027
    @edwinaogboleoche1027 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Raise your value! Thank you for the invaluable impact you're making ❤

  • @Xo_Chante__
    @Xo_Chante__ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Raise Your Value💕 I adore this channel.

  • @darrienhoward2334
    @darrienhoward2334 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is some of your best content yet and its right on time for me. Thank you!! ❤

  • @lenaolichwer8534
    @lenaolichwer8534 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mom has always setting herself on fire to keep others warm and still does it - one of her friends wanted her to get a cosmetic kit from the big city the other day and she did it no questions asked. For herself or the family she will ALWAYS look for discounts. I'm terrified of being like that, that's why I watch your videos. All it does is create petulance and resentment within a person.

  • @lltidalwave
    @lltidalwave ปีที่แล้ว +14

    IT'S TIME!!! I've been waiting for this all week 🩷😍

  • @rashidat1009
    @rashidat1009 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Raise your value! I need this video.

  • @SweetestSadie
    @SweetestSadie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Raise your value! Please make another or longer video. 🙏🏾

  • @carmolina
    @carmolina 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this video! I wish I would have heard this when I was a teen. I’m a 100% sure I would have never wanted to be in a relationship, marriage or have kids. I feel like now days it is just not worth it. But, for future reference this knowledge will help me to be a better version of myself to “attract” better. Or just set a very high standard from the door so name games can get to squeeze in! For the meantime I’m loving being alone. I realize more and more who I am each day!

  • @desireenunez7824
    @desireenunez7824 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I absolutely love this video! Thank you for the love and energy that you put into creating this beautiful content ❤ what you’ve shared with us is priceless ❤

  • @FD031487
    @FD031487 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yes!!! Loving this ❤ definitely wanting a raise your value video.

  • @simoneallen2081
    @simoneallen2081 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Raise your value!!! I love your positive content!!! Thank you!!!

  • @Bellahsimone
    @Bellahsimone ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We need the video on how to raise your value!

  • @Lovingmylife24
    @Lovingmylife24 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Raise your value! ❤ this video

  • @jennylumbrera5277
    @jennylumbrera5277 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love this I must say that I used to sell myself for short and then I healed and recently was in a relationship and lol was waiting shouldn’t wait on anyone let’s say that relationship didn’t last long at all but I was able to do some self reflection and able to move forward our values didn’t align and that is simply ok ❤❤❤😊

  • @mariarosatuttobene8672
    @mariarosatuttobene8672 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Valuable beyond price!
    Thank you!

  • @FUfon-gf5ph
    @FUfon-gf5ph ปีที่แล้ว +6

    RAISE YOUR VALUE❣❣

  • @gpennant
    @gpennant ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Raise your value! ....as always great video ❤

  • @MademoiselleGisela
    @MademoiselleGisela ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are such a queen! Thank you for your valuable knowledge 🩷

  • @gffhvhvh1253
    @gffhvhvh1253 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Raise your value video please! I love your insights

  • @venitalafi8654
    @venitalafi8654 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've FOUND MY TRIBE, thank you ladies!

  • @annettefrench4689
    @annettefrench4689 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    RAISE YOUR VALUE- please and thank you! Can't wait to see that one!!! And don't hold back......

  • @yasxw.444
    @yasxw.444 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Increase your value🌹 I loved this video, thank you for created this amazing channel!
    With Love from Brazil🇧🇷💗

  • @ruthdesroches2359
    @ruthdesroches2359 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Raise your value ❤✨thank you!

  • @kutencreative
    @kutencreative ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whew benefit from our brokenness. That’s deep

  • @karibose631
    @karibose631 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love you work! Thank you. ❤

  • @unreeel2105
    @unreeel2105 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please stop being nice! Tell them see you never and get along with your life, honey. I wouldn’t say “maybe we can do this another time”. Don’t tolerate disrespect. Btw happily married so kudos to me. 👏🏽😎

  • @natashachisenga9524
    @natashachisenga9524 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your voice is my therapy.

  • @Just_Kori9
    @Just_Kori9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Raise your value 🙌🏽

  • @tshireletsochuma7931
    @tshireletsochuma7931 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Raise your value
    Great video. Again. ❤

  • @chantal4342
    @chantal4342 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for putting together this video- along with previous ones. It has been incredibly helpful and effective in driving changes in the way I value myself.

  • @handr_l9397
    @handr_l9397 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Raise your value!❤😊 (thank you for the video, I need it)

  • @cindywambugu4308
    @cindywambugu4308 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Raise your value ❤

  • @vanessamuckett278
    @vanessamuckett278 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! You’re truly a beautiful soul ❤

  • @ConnieWawuda
    @ConnieWawuda 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my goodness am here to stay wow got a lot of things to train here thank you.

  • @mistysworld_
    @mistysworld_ ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love this message! Thank you for your wise words!! ❤❤❤

  • @sissykuey917
    @sissykuey917 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Raise your values.❤❤

  • @Opinionsarevalid
    @Opinionsarevalid 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My price is RAISED! Thank you beautiful🙌🏽🥰

  • @doreenmwendwa7832
    @doreenmwendwa7832 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're videos are definitely NOT a waste of TIME! I'm definitely subscribed ❤😍

  • @lakeithasiggers2087
    @lakeithasiggers2087 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi girl hey!! this video was just one time and definitely hits the market for me! Keep the videos coming this was really needed and appreciated❤

  • @ms.ednapost
    @ms.ednapost ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a BEAUTIFUL channel with beautiful content.👏🏽🙏🏽🌹❤️🍷