“I said a crappy thing to her, and it all unraveled from there, and now that it’s done, I realize I started it.” Except he didn’t start it, what he said about her was 100% true. She was cheating on OP with this guy. And she didn’t sent that follow-up text to be the bigger person and apologize, she sent it to rub it in OP’s face that she got with her boss and will be happy while he won’t be. She is not a good person
The part where she said that the HR being okay with the relationship between a superior and a subordinate sounds like a BS. OP should've tipped the HR just to be sure
Not just BS, it was an obvious tactic to stop OP from informing HR. Dude wasn't vindictive so she had nothing to worry about but it does prove she was cheating, even if only emotionally
The only thing left was for her to give her boss a bath. He should have left in the beginning after telling her women that behave this way aren't wife material.
Yeah it was obvious. No honest man on this world has a secretary that travels with him that he's not smashing so lol poor guy but he stumbled across the most obvious thing on the world.
Hahaha dont worry, that "man" will probably marry her, but when she becomes "traditional" his mask will come off and it will be too late for her. Having been an EA myself, i have learned about their egos and to keep my distance. But good for op on dodging this bullet. Smdh MESSY!!
As someone who works in a business casual setting, you NEED specification beyond business casual. Where I work, a henly (long sleeve shirt that has no collar and usually a few buttons at the top only) is considered business casual.
This is a lot of emotion for five months of barely going out because of schedules, what she did was shitty, the way he behaved so cavalierly about everything sucked. The booktok girlies would fckin love this.
“I said a crappy thing to her, and it all unraveled from there, and now that it’s done, I realize I started it.”
Except he didn’t start it, what he said about her was 100% true. She was cheating on OP with this guy. And she didn’t sent that follow-up text to be the bigger person and apologize, she sent it to rub it in OP’s face that she got with her boss and will be happy while he won’t be. She is not a good person
Imagine going to cure your boss's sick booboo and getting angry when being told you are being paid to be his unofficial lover.
She's so grimy. She could've just broken up with op and deal with that cringy grown man on her own
Ngl I feel like that HR bit was a lie so OP wouldnt report them lmao
The part where she said that the HR being okay with the relationship between a superior and a subordinate sounds like a BS. OP should've tipped the HR just to be sure
Not just BS, it was an obvious tactic to stop OP from informing HR. Dude wasn't vindictive so she had nothing to worry about but it does prove she was cheating, even if only emotionally
tbh, that type of relationships are never too healthy. Also that text was just to say: "You were right, suck it".
Bullet dodged.
The only thing left was for her to give her boss a bath. He should have left in the beginning after telling her women that behave this way aren't wife material.
Yeah it was obvious. No honest man on this world has a secretary that travels with him that he's not smashing so lol poor guy but he stumbled across the most obvious thing on the world.
Ah, just move on. It was only a 5-month relationship. And she's not even worth it.
Hahaha dont worry, that "man" will probably marry her, but when she becomes "traditional" his mask will come off and it will be too late for her. Having been an EA myself, i have learned about their egos and to keep my distance. But good for op on dodging this bullet. Smdh MESSY!!
Am I cooked lmfao
Like the Chad said, stick to school buddy! You were NOT ready for a relationship!
As someone who works in a business casual setting, you NEED specification beyond business casual. Where I work, a henly (long sleeve shirt that has no collar and usually a few buttons at the top only) is considered business casual.
Business casual where I work (public sector) is polo and jeans.
Just sleeping her way up to the top I see
It's a 5 month relationship. Leave and move on. She was never worth it. Reddit guys smh
She doesn't seem like wife material to me
Women and their mind games I stg
Wise words from a pathetic little toddler that blames his shortcomings on women. Grow up little boy 💀
This is a lot of emotion for five months of barely going out because of schedules, what she did was shitty, the way he behaved so cavalierly about everything sucked. The booktok girlies would fckin love this.
OP was a loser from start to finish. He'll come back with another story when it happens again.
Not to mention that he's a simp. A wimpy one, that is.