How To Talk To Girls at Parties When You're Nervous

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  • @zachbechthold7745
    @zachbechthold7745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So confused when he said “hey playa”

  • @callumcollier4848
    @callumcollier4848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ngl parties are actual hell for me. I get real nervous and just start feeling like everyone’s judging me on everything. I find it impossible to approach people, especially girls, and what’s more, don’t get invited to enough parties to get practice.

  • @LegoGamer5502
    @LegoGamer5502 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Lol I WAS JUST INVITED TO A GIRLS PARTY FOR THE FIRST TIME SINCE SECOND GRADE!! Perfect timing gtg eat dinner but after I will watch this right away ☺️☺️😉

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      awesome, I hope this video helps!

    • @LegoGamer5502
      @LegoGamer5502 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Josh Speaks yep!!

    • @simonb3102
      @simonb3102 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ruben Feneser 🤣🤣

  • @pigeonrito9974
    @pigeonrito9974 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Here's my story I know that's not related to a video but it's the most recent video and I want to tell the people and give me some tips, so my story is that there's is beautiful girl very smart blonde intelligent athletic and very nice in his very good I percussion. And I want to ask her out and I want to express my feelings towards her I want to tell her I like your school is coming to the end and I don't know how to do it I really don't know. And sometimes I go over to talk to her a bit but the pain is my friend has already told her that I like her but like I wasn't sure but I kind of want to make a move you guys have any tips what I could do

    • @pigeonrito9974
      @pigeonrito9974 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some errors sorry😅

    • @princegrewal9361
      @princegrewal9361 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should ask her to hang out because it only gets worse if you don't go for it I know from personal experience

    • @pigeonrito9974
      @pigeonrito9974 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      red rodriques you see I know I have to make a move I just know that she likes someone else but i gotta come on top

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey I made this video on why you need to ask your crush out now, I think it'll be super helpful for you: th-cam.com/video/pbpbPxllYws/w-d-xo.html

    • @pigeonrito9974
      @pigeonrito9974 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Josh Speaks thanks man

  • @ajdinmehmedovic3123
    @ajdinmehmedovic3123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Josh publishes the right video, at the right time! 😂🔥

  • @BooleanDev
    @BooleanDev 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How to talk to girls at parties is a name of a fictional story

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      haha I didn't realize that until I was working on the tags and title for the video.

  • @jorgebarragan5495
    @jorgebarragan5495 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hehe u shouldve posted this vid on friday bc i went to a party on saturday and i couldn't approach any girl 😢

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ahh sorry to hear this, hopefully this helps for next time.

  • @mrsloth4403
    @mrsloth4403 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    great vid josh can this work at prom to

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely, I was planning on doing a prom specific video on starting a conversation this week as well!

  • @MrGamerGuyMFC
    @MrGamerGuyMFC 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yeah thanks but the girl that I talked to was so cold

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry to hear that, what did she do that was cold?

  • @AverageJayce23
    @AverageJayce23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Josh! Got my notifications on! 🛎

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome! What advice would you give someone if they wanted to talk to you and say hi at a party?

    • @luisquintero7359
      @luisquintero7359 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Josh Speaks I have a question. I really want to visit a girl next month for the first time. But what should I say to her if I want to come over without acting like a creep. Can you make a video about it. If you do, thanks.

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, if you're going to visit her you should focus first on getting her hyped that you're going to come by. Try to make plans with her and talk about fun things the two of you can do together.

    • @luisquintero7359
      @luisquintero7359 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Josh Speaks thanks for the advice josh. I will try to do that with confidence.

  • @alphadre6239
    @alphadre6239 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve never been to a party lol and I’m 16 years old

  • @Heyitsandy10123
    @Heyitsandy10123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1st

  • @lukebauman9045
    @lukebauman9045 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The problem is I’m always being chased by my friends.... i want to approach them but they never leave me.... so idk what to do without being rude or telling them everything..... please help

    • @Swabbol22
      @Swabbol22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Luke Bauman just tell them you’ll be back pussy

  • @begemots1638
    @begemots1638 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dont work

  • @XpandYourImagi-Nation
    @XpandYourImagi-Nation 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Josh so I just need your opinion on this story to see if my crush actually likes me or not
    So then the other day I was playing basketball at the court with my friends, I was playing on the other side shooting around while they were versing each other. And then my crush comes and then she tells me: "can I play?" to me, and I'm like "sure!" And then we played around for a bit until it was time to go in.
    So does this mean that she likes me or that is it building slowly?

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, it's hard to say if she likes you from that in a romantic way. It's possible she wanted to jump in and play, I would take it as a sign of her being comfortable around you which is great. If you want to build on that, invite her to play with you again and see where it can go from there.

    • @XpandYourImagi-Nation
      @XpandYourImagi-Nation 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Josh Speaks wow, thanks man. I'll definitely take your advice

  • @EricLobel
    @EricLobel 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey, can you help with telling someone you like them in a note?

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey before you write a note to your crush, I made this video explaining why you shouldn't confess your feelings for them: th-cam.com/video/ulpdFmwAruA/w-d-xo.html

  • @rotcore
    @rotcore 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why are u called josh

  • @shadowkill33r56
    @shadowkill33r56 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi. for some reason i can't talk to girls my age and i don't know if it is because i am shy or if it is something else..

  • @liamanderson3045
    @liamanderson3045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Mc'lovin.

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haha I've gotten that one before

  • @jjjay3328
    @jjjay3328 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm binge watching all thEse bc I have a crush who's really shy and boys don't rly talk with her so I'm trying to find a way to talk to her. We are about to go into seventh grade.

  • @livviecarter4607
    @livviecarter4607 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a dance on Friday but I have gone to school with the same 28 kids since 3rd grade because I go to a private school and I know for a fact nobody has a crush on me. This will be my last one before high school and I want it to be memorable with a dance but I doubt anybody will ask. What should I do? (I’m a girl btw)

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmm maybe the best thing to do is to find someone you want to go with and ask them or try to get a group of your friends together to go. Dances don't always have to be one on one experiences, it can be a group effort!

  • @jackpaul2529
    @jackpaul2529 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey I got my Notifications thank you a lot of because of you I got a girlfriend

  • @Laughs985
    @Laughs985 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even tho when I get nervous I still say the words right with out stuttering

  • @pigeonrito9974
    @pigeonrito9974 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Notifications Squad

  • @Laughs985
    @Laughs985 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m too much of a nice guy to my crush and wanna stop being too nice too my crush I just wanna nice be to her not too nice

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, I made this video talking about how NOT to be a nice guy which might be helpful: th-cam.com/video/Gby2mozqyWM/w-d-xo.html

    • @Laughs985
      @Laughs985 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Josh Speaks thank u the video was very helpful

  • @youngaamez3550
    @youngaamez3550 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm usually the antisocial type. Which is ironic cause it's a party

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haha I hear ya man, sometimes parties can be fun and other times they can be overwhelming and draining. The key is to find a place where you feel ok, if that means hanging out by yourself at a party then that's fine too.

    • @youngaamez3550
      @youngaamez3550 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Josh Speaks that's true

  • @who1834
    @who1834 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have an end of the year party and I asked my girlfriend to go with me and I’m very nervous

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      An end of the year party sounds awesome, how does she feel about it?

    • @who1834
      @who1834 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Josh Speaks she wants to go with me too but it will be kinda awkward and idk if I should do anything more then just talk to ger

  • @fern4real733
    @fern4real733 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Second?

  • @jasonchilado
    @jasonchilado 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good video man!

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @jasonchilado
      @jasonchilado 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Josh Speaks got this girl in my class, we are friends but chances rarely come up for me to talk with her personally and get to know her better. Do you have any advice? I would appreciate it!

  • @muskets5718
    @muskets5718 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sup!

  • @dontfollowme4437
    @dontfollowme4437 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey josh im training a new girl at work. She is really nice and cute but I dont know how to make a move on her without making her feel uncomfortable

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey I made this video on asking a girl out at work which might be helpful for you: th-cam.com/video/_tQpzXAr-4c/w-d-xo.html