WHY Walking Away Is ATTRACTIVE (Walk away or you'll get walked ON!)

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  • In this video, I discuss why walking away is attractive - and when walking away IS the appropriate response and when it is not appropriate. When people disrespect you, when a crush rejects you, or when someone crosses a boundary; it's important to show your strength by walking away and not letting them walk over you. You HAVE to assert your position and self-respect otherwise you will get taken advantage of - and walking away is the best way to do this. I hope enjoy this dating advice video
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ความคิดเห็น • 69

  • @juliencharlet3672
    @juliencharlet3672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    She disrespected me so I had to walk away and block her. It was hard but it was for the best. Had to let go and move on.

    • @FaintAura
      @FaintAura ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did she ever try to come back?

    • @stoicharmonyus
      @stoicharmonyus 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s tough, but walking away was the right choice for your peace and self-respect. Keep moving forward-better things are ahead. Stay strong!

  • @RollingThunder808
    @RollingThunder808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Walking away creates the fear of lost in the person. They fear maybe they made a mistake and you are of higher value than they realize..

    • @stoicharmonyus
      @stoicharmonyus 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I completely agree. Walking away can make someone realize what they’ve lost and how much they took you for granted. It’s not about playing games, but about showing that your time, energy, and love have value. Sometimes, it takes distance for both sides to truly appreciate each other. But remember, you should always prioritize your own peace and growth, no matter how they react.

  • @urielflores9927
    @urielflores9927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    walk away for good, leave everything behind, never look back

  • @stoicharmonyus
    @stoicharmonyus 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve been in situations where I was too afraid to walk away, but once I did, I realized how much power and respect I gained. It’s true-walking away shows strength and self-worth.

  • @mdmcpherson8574
    @mdmcpherson8574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I walked away due to disrespect. Don’t tolerate it.

  • @donaldcummings6439
    @donaldcummings6439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Mature approach to dealing with toxic disrespectful people. Thank you for this message.

    • @calebhodson7421
      @calebhodson7421 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely man. I had too with a former roommate

    • @stoicharmonyus
      @stoicharmonyus 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Taking a mature approach is key to protecting your peace and growth. Stay focused on what’s best for you, and remember, you deserve respect.

  • @josephgail204
    @josephgail204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I walked a way because i realise who he was and what i'd become.i started walking and this is how i started getting my self esteeme back.

  • @THEMAN-ru8ek
    @THEMAN-ru8ek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Walking Away is my Personal Weapon to Someone doesn't like me.

    • @THEMAN-ru8ek
      @THEMAN-ru8ek 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lillian jan do you have fb account?..I'll add you on FB.

    • @THEMAN-ru8ek
      @THEMAN-ru8ek 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lillian jan what is "IG"? I don't know what is that?

    • @stoicharmonyus
      @stoicharmonyus 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That’s a powerful mindset. Walking away is a form of self-respect and strength. It shows you won’t settle for anything less than mutual respect. Keep using it as your shield-it’s your peace that matters most.

  • @user-yv1fh3fc8y
    @user-yv1fh3fc8y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ghosting: when things are better left unsaid or when there is nothing left to say.
    Ghosting is not returning.
    Returning is weak and manipulative because you leave the door open to return if they apologize and of course they will apologize and of course the bad conduct continues and now they will plan to retaliate never forgetting you walked away and weakly returned.

  • @Weeflowerofscotland
    @Weeflowerofscotland ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been stressing about a connection I have with someone. We have both admitted attraction to each other , he has never disrespected me or anything. But I feel like I’m just there as a spare kinda thing. So I have decided to walk away. Not for my ego , not for him to chase me , but for my self respect and as showing self love. I’m happy to be his friend once these feelings for him have dissipated but right now it’s best for us both if I have time away and stop pursuing. Thank you so much for confirming that I’m making the right decision. ❤

  • @maceyr.6583
    @maceyr.6583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I walked away because he told me he doesn't need my love anymore.

  • @bpoydras1503
    @bpoydras1503 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great Presentation, and sounds very accurate.
    My walking away is absolutely for the right reasons, according to how you explained the ex dumping me.
    Thank you for the confirmation.

  • @Bee123R
    @Bee123R 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The best video i watched on the subject of walking away. Clear and sensible 👍

  • @Mancer1980
    @Mancer1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Great video. On top of attraction I've noticed a lot of it has to do with how much that person values you - has she or he gone out with a bunch of losers after you? If so, they'll prob regret losing you and reconsider things. Def depends on the situation but I've had it happen to me at least a few times.

    • @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching
      @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awesome insights and very true 👍

    • @Mancer1980
      @Mancer1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ChristineLoveridgeCoaching thanks Christine I really appreciate you saying that. I've had short term relationships end very abruptly and weeks, months or even years later have that person reach out. I think its pretty hard to write off anyone, especially if they were genuinely good to you.

  • @jhubenhood2584
    @jhubenhood2584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I walked away because they did not value my concern..

  • @calebhodson7421
    @calebhodson7421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sometimes in life people just have to walk away

    • @calebhodson7421
      @calebhodson7421 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And that’s how you do it gents. 🤪 They’re a fraud and I called them out on it. They won’t admit that. But it’s the truth. Notice how they tried to get me away from here with a fake number from overseas? This is what they do. Don’t fall for anything like it. I am certified crime prevention and personal safety instructor and they are breaking the law. Anything that seems too good too be true, if they tell you you’ve won an inheritance but have to pay a fee, asks you for any personal information like your credit card number, SS number, a payment with a google play card, Amazon gift card, google play card, money gram, western union, get you to sign up for Bitcoin or cryptocurrency, etc. It is fraud and they can get in a lot of trouble. Don’t do it.

  • @vivianperdue4329
    @vivianperdue4329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My right reason. .. im sick of the BS ....

  • @joncolunga673
    @joncolunga673 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The right time to walk away from someone is when you let one rip in silence and still have the chance to be only a suspect and not the culprit

  • @jordangrady1990
    @jordangrady1990 ปีที่แล้ว

    Told her I need to walk away she is ragging my brain told her I still have feelings for her she said she wasn’t interested I done what’s best for me!

  • @KNGnBLK
    @KNGnBLK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Broken down brilliantly!

  • @emmaransford
    @emmaransford 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your insights it's really appreciated 🙏 😊
    Your great value 👏 Christine x

  • @motokiksvlog2.0
    @motokiksvlog2.0 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I experience this.. she ghosted me.. then i walked away bcoz she doesn't respect me.. i sense this from her.. that's why i walked away ...

  • @doglover4195
    @doglover4195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very Good Video!! Thanks

  • @nsmilitia
    @nsmilitia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So I walked away from an ex after she found the right excuse for us to not be together. She said we needed to talk and agreed to go out to eat. Then she says before we eat we shouldn’t be together. I got up and told her just be happy and walked away. As I was walking she calls my name but I didn’t respond and committed to just going home. But here’s the kicker, we work together but it seems like she is turning people against me. The way I’m dealing with it now is not to respond to negative encounters but only respond to positive encounters from people at work that seem to have changed the way they see me. It’s extremely hurtful that she is doing this but am I doing the right thing? I keep a bare minimum conversation to her and if it’s only about work. It’s been 7 months and she came up to me and asked me a question for getting a health card for work for someone doesn’t know how to read English. I told her, if that person needs help I will talk to them personally and walked away from her trying to ask me for info. Am I wrong or idk what hell I’m doing but I have stayed committed to what I have started and its truly been hell for me.

    • @el-camine2563
      @el-camine2563 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are doing great. Don't get confuse because we should have self control in order to control everything. Pass the test with the following masculine traits in an attractive and decent manner.

    • @reginaldogbuneke2718
      @reginaldogbuneke2718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Remain focused mate!

    • @fj4731
      @fj4731 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@el-camine2563 Hi ...I need advice on Mental trauma Depression and Panic attack...
      My gf broke up with me twice and for 3rd time all same reason she said i am the root cause of her mental craziness
      She having insomnia couldnt sleep at night , and affecting her mental health….should I pull away or show my love or care by initiating contact? She didn’t text me for 51days
      She also having problem with Neck Degeneration and back pain..she is in her Menopause age…
      Should I be more caring like a Beta or I should Dont care like Alpha to just respond only when she reach out
      She want to do her own thing and I wonder whether am I the part time bf or she only need me when she want to ?
      I tried to arrange appointment with Doctors…she rather go on her own but medicine or gynae or chiropractic couldnt help her …she blame me is the source of her Mental Stress by me wanting her to put more effort on our relationship she feel pressure till she break down telling me she need rest..i told her she need Love but she said she want peace and to heal on her own..
      How to save the relationship with a gf having Menopause and Medical and Mental health ?
      Today is Day 51 No Contact
      She said if she miss me she will contact me

    • @CoreyJFoley
      @CoreyJFoley 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are doing Everything right ✅️ keepnit professional, but also consider other options for a career. This woman decided to start the drama, and you are not feeding into it.

    • @michaelking9818
      @michaelking9818 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s really hard , how did it work out .

  • @EA-of7bu
    @EA-of7bu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good spoken, congrats

  • @narcfreekeekee9168
    @narcfreekeekee9168 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like and enjoy your commentary. Thank you.

  • @valentine-p2r
    @valentine-p2r ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They are dating someone else..I thought I could handle it..but I can't 😢

  • @charlesdc1233
    @charlesdc1233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What if i was the one being so much stressed havibg my stuff together, that the person walked away and i am doing fighting to show that i want to rekindle things...

  • @davidnichols1568
    @davidnichols1568 ปีที่แล้ว

    If someone gives you alot of affection in the beginning. Then thay start to show less of that. Is it time to Walk?

  • @yeti290778
    @yeti290778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Clear and very helpful. Thank you.

  • @tatianataracenasandoval8781
    @tatianataracenasandoval8781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So if she says she’s not ready for a relationship but wants to still fool around should I leave her? I definitely wanted her to be my girl

    • @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching
      @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If she just wants to fool around but you want more than that then, yes, leave her. Tell her what it is you want and if she refuses then leave 👍

  • @sharrizaermajasmani5331
    @sharrizaermajasmani5331 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    To stop from seeing someone especially when you see a physician is actually an important thing not to do firstly. But people is still people they want to know you in person. Happy or not it is dependable on the importance of that meeting. Dating is possibly can be adjusted only with the right person.as i say walk away is walk away . Dont let me down.

  • @dobamric
    @dobamric 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    how about a girl coworker, how it is possible?

    • @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching
      @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't put any effort into talking to them unless it's the casual "how are you?" And "good mornings" you give to everyone else. Be polite, but leave it at that. 🙂👍

  • @petecoventry6858
    @petecoventry6858 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My ex told me to leave her alone and so Walked away - and when she video calls and I don't reply I get told to leave her alone again on text! - I mean she videos me and then tells me to leave her alone - how messed up is that!?

  • @jap7602
    @jap7602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do you have cut connection if you gonna walk away?

    • @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching
      @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes 👍

    • @calebhodson7421
      @calebhodson7421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Walking away shows you are high value and it creates a challenge. You won’t be a challenge if they can still get ahold of you. Cut off all contact. You need to go no contact.

  • @victorcervantes2636
    @victorcervantes2636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jajaja she walk away from me and im so happy 😁

  • @Micro_Learning
    @Micro_Learning 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a roommate a few years ago who was nice but had a bratty, entitled side. Not just a side, really; I think it was about 1/3 of her overall personality. Anyway, she was seeing this guy who she got frustrated with at one point and said to him, "Okay I think we're done." Three days later she texted him. I was super annoyed by her weakness, & because a big part of me didn't even like her (the 1/3 bratty, entitled part of her), I took a bit of joy in her making a fool of herself & being so damn weak. Even I don't respect a person who says "I'm outta here" and comes back 3 days later. I can understand not being able to stay away (I've been there...big time), but if you can't & you know you can't, don't tell someone you're done. Just succumb to your attachment until you can walk away & mean it.

  • @HashBandicoot356
    @HashBandicoot356 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You shouldn't want them back or for them to reconsider you. You're not a bus that comes around every 20 minutes. They passed on you it should be it. Easier said than done.

  • @vigneshgs5705
    @vigneshgs5705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to walk away from my previous goals, but i couldn't, im very much obsessed with my exams, i couldn't do anything, does walking away from my exams help me to clear the exams

  • @abraradib6353
    @abraradib6353 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay mam

  • @miguelmarino5017
    @miguelmarino5017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this what i did for this girl name ronnie after all the staff she did to me and wonder her feelings for me are still there or what i am not paying attention to her and dont even look at her when she is playing these games ,she needs to be the one now doing the work after the staff she did ,dont know if the feelings for me are still there or what i dont want to be a jerk thats not me .so again dont know i dont talk to her or anything she thinks its a game but again dont know what to do cause if she parks front of my house or passing by what is the deal on that .if she has feelings for me tell me cause i think if she sees me with someone else and try to get me back after i blow off bunch of girls for her and also my friends talk bad about her call her a b i stand up to her and i would have done everything for her . but again if she tells me sorry and i dont want to lose u i will say well tell me this do u still like me and want me and look into her eyes and then i will say see u didnt and then i will walk away and tell her i would have gave everything to make u happy and never cheat or lie to u which i would never thats not me and also her denying her feelings for me wow it stinks but again , its on her now .

    • @miguelmarino5017
      @miguelmarino5017 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Robnison lisa1 i dont know i dont want to waste my time with that cause i know it dont work

    • @miguelmarino5017
      @miguelmarino5017 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Robnison lisa1 ok but I am good don't want to get scammed ok

    • @michaelking9818
      @michaelking9818 ปีที่แล้ว

      And how did it work out ?

  • @fj4731
    @fj4731 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Christina and Ladies ...I need women advice on Menopause and Mental trauma Depression and Panice attack...
    My gf broke up with me twice and for 3rd time all same reason she said i am the root cause of her mental craziness
    She having insomnia couldnt sleep at night , and affecting her mental health….should I pull away or show my love or care by initiating contact? She didn’t text me for 51days
    She also having problem with Neck Degeneration and back pain..she is in her Menopause age…
    Should I be more caring like a Beta or I should Dont care like Alpha to just respond only when she reach out
    She want to do her own thing and I wonder whether am I the part time bf or she only need me when she want to ?
    I tried to arrange appointment with Doctors…she rather go on her own but medicine or gynae or chiropractic couldnt help her …she blame me is the source of her Mental Stress by me wanting her to put more effort on our relationship she feel pressure till she break down telling me she need rest..i told her she need Love but she said she want peace and to heal on her own..
    How to save the relationship with a gf having Menopause and Medical and Mental health ?
    Today is Day 51 No Contact
    She said if she miss me she will contact me