its been 8 months, and I'm hearing my ex told her mom she feels defeated, and that her rebound that she was so into, isn't gonna last. walk away kings, it works
Hey as a girl it's good to hear guys feel the same too, my bf broke up with me, but I didn't do anything wrong , I know my worth and instead of stop living I've kept myself busy ,back into PT , uni starts next month and planing nights out with my friends again , so now I'm doing the no contact as he's been back an forward giving mixed messages , what ever the result of no contact wither they come back or you build your self-esteem it's a win win method
So he'd did contact me and we're back together now , but if this does happen for anyone make sure your in the right place to know if it's really what you want , and what the other half wants not just a lingering feeling of loss , and your back to the start again ,
Guys wether it increases attraction or not it works. I cut her off last week by telling her to stop contacting me because I need complete separation (she’d been sending breadcrumbs). You’ll feel better if you do it because you’ll get your mind back. From there just manage your conscience(the conscious things you can control). Go to church, go to the gym, read books, hang with friends, learn about yourself, learn about relationships, just work on becoming all around better (good, well rounded men are scarce)! You’ll feel better and wether or not she comes back around you’ll be ready for whatever life has in store for you at that point! Stay tough but be patient!😤
Really good points! I’m past the initial freaking out stage, but still think about her all the damn time, can’t stay focused on anything except my workouts. Stayed disciplined though as far as NC although I really want to see her, been 6 weeks, and not looking at her social.
The list of stupid things I've done during breakup anxiety is endless.. But that's the old me.. Through videos like this I've learned so much and I now handle things way differently. Very proud of myself for that because before, I had no self respect
6 months post break up. Went into “fu€k you mode”. Quit bad habits. Dropped 85lbs. Back to dating. She’s noticed the changes, but I’m moving on and getting better day by day. Some days I feel great, others not so much. But I’m bringing my best self with some lessons learned.
Going through a 5 year break up … was no contact for six month broke it yesterday but I didn’t call her she called me crying how much she want me back . Since the break up I own my business ( subscribe plz ) I shoot music video. I have two cars and a I found a better job. Start back hittin the gym. But I told her yesterday no we can’t be friends and I’m happy she left. Boy when I tell y’all I woke this morning to nudes I didn’t ask for and 5 calls 😂😂😂 I’m so thankful I found y’all channel . No contact is best !! 313 in the building 💪🏾💪🏾
My ex and I split a few months ago we didn’t talk for about a month and then she reached out we communicated and hung out a few times but she made it clear she did not want a relationship so to me it was a lot of stringing along she wanted to have her cake and eat it too. So I called her up told her if she didn’t want to work on our relationship then I’m done she said okay two weeks went by I get a phone call from her I didn’t answer then she texts me a long paragraph a few days later still I did not respond later on that week she texts again talking about something to do with out old job still I did not respond then she texts again asking if she can please call me to talk about what’s on her mind still I did not respond. Don’t let these women run games on you be a man and walk away
You guys aren't lying, I chased my ex for 2 months, no luck, finally got blocked on everything and instead of making fake accounts, resorting to email etc. like I did intitiallly, I let her go, started working out, painting pictures, riding horses, looking at motorbikes, making funny tictocs, got promoted at work. I noticed 3 weeks later one of her gf's checked out my page so I blocked her, 2 days later my ex unblocked me and is now looking at my profile lol. I've heard the quickest way to gain someone's attention is to remove yours.
Walked away from ex finally after 8 months of breadcrumbs ..over 2 months now zero contact from her . Staying strong. Its hard as fk ..but to gain self respect and self worth WALK AWAY 👍👍thanks for video gentleman 🙏
It's been over 11 weeks since I walked away. I've made no effort to contact her and even unfriended her on Facebook. I felt like if I stayed her Facebook friend, then I wasn't truly walking away.
I made the mistake of saying harsh things because I couldn’t have her back . That was Out of character of me due to me always being calm and collected . Never again .
No Contact definitely works my ex called me 6 times yesterday and 1 text no response on my end stay strong 💪 and yall have sum amazing videos mentality I feel much better great content
My ex was VERY mercurial during our relationship. It was just her personality. She is a house cat in this sense. There was a time I became very indifferent towards her and withdrew at home, and I barely texted her from work. She started exploding MY phone trying to seduce me while I was at work. This psychology does work. Getting to the point of indifference is the key. Keep your mind busy on anything but her.
Out of all the videos and I mean I've watched all your videos. This one is the most empathetic and I appreciate you doing a little opposite of what you do. You spoke to me on this one because there was sympathy and empathy not just what to do. Coach T great introduction. Thank you both always.
It’s the beast tiger🐅 FROM NEWPORT BEACH 🐬, Balboa, Island, California… it’s been July 11, 2024. No contact it’s been rough and tough but I’m a tiger I know things were work out for me. I go to the gym early morning and late afternoon I just want to thank you guys for your videos to help me a lot….🐅
LOL I could talk about this for hours I've done so many unsavory things but I have learned one thing. Only you can control your self-respect and only you can control your actions.. Do what's best for you if somebody doesn't want to just walk away it is the only way the best way and the way to gain your self-respect back. Sometimes we have to experience things in life to understand how to become a better person with strong emotions and a strong heart ❤
Thank you for letting me know that men also feel desperate and needy. It’s taken me months to stop begging him to take me back and to find my worth again. But now, the tide is turning. He won’t find another woman like me. I’m not going to be easy to replace. Good luck trying!
Reminiscing about the pain you passing through, because have been in your situation, i even got depressed when the situation got out of my hands, but the situations did not go out of the hands of a spell caster that helped me detect where the problem was coming from and helping me clear the problem, there something that is affecting your relationship you do not know, and helping you solving the problems I promise you, you can ask me how to get contact with him
I always believe that things happen for a reason... and I just happened to come across this video. So glad I didn't keep scrolling. Thank you for being so open and honest about your own personal experiences, and for being so informative--- it makes alot of sense.
The one thing that you don’t realize is that yeah you could do the right thing and move on but when they come back no matter what if you take them back she will NEVER respect you again. If there’s no respect there is no love.
Much of the time a woman is coming back for one reason after you brake-up with her and that is to regain her power. She will be a wonderful wife/GF for a few weeks, and suddenly and for no reason, she will dump you and walk away. Her power is restored. Game over. She wins -- you lose. Never take a woman back!
My first time experiencing liking someone too much and unfortunately I don’t like her behaviour, but i didn’t realise I had enough feelings to constantly attacked my mind. I noticed that shit was TOXIC, INTOLERABLE Thank you 🙏🏻very much For this video. Really needed your knowledge. I am walking away hope this will teach her a lesson and remembers not to play with Men. Blessings and love to you my brothers. ♥️💪 peace
Thank you guys so much for what you do… I just used this technique on my fiancé sometimes you just Gotta walk away and let her come to you and it worked..kind of like a cat if you go try to pick it up it runs away but if you just ignore it comes right up to you 🐱 So the lesson here is the less you do the better did you notice the word less is in the word lesson?!
I feel in love with my best friend we know each other for years but after we got drunk and had sex she hates me she block me on Facebook then after a week she unblocked me so iam so confused its been 5 months and no contact but I sent a message on Thanksgiving but no reply so I still love her but iam the one that walk away but had dreaming about her for a whole week its crazy but still doing the no contact its on her the balls in her corner and I will not be disrespected and I know my worth amen
There is a grl who isn’t interested in me that I really liked and really showed her I do by my actions, but times like that means you should just walk away and be distant around them, if they care they’ll make a effort to come back if they don’t than they just never were yours to begin with. Walking away is the smartest way, shows you have self respect and deserve better
Well I am glad he left me now. It was 14 years of being with a narcissist who verbally abused. Thank though for this video! I don't want him anymore and stopped chasing. Now ...the fool is looking at me. But God sent me a good man
I begged and pleaded. Never works. Walk away. Havent spoken to her since Feb. She did an indirect direct message. I ignored it as she served me seperation papers through her lawyers. Couldnt be happier being single.
She broke up with me 2 months ago. I went into no contact immediately and shes reached out indirectly 3 times now. One of those times was a casual check in and the last time was her dog was attacked by the neighbors dog. I feel shes trying to get me to chase but i remain steadfast. Her birthday was yesterday and i gave her the gift of silence.
A lot of great facts, My girlfriend dumped me after 2 and a 1/2 years , 4 + weeks ago. The hardest thing was is that my girl had a lot of trauma from being a child 8 until 18. Her mom was nasty and mentally abusive and said something no person should say to their child.. When I try to talk to her she would take what I say as a personal attack and tell me that she gets triggered by it or shut down. We agreed to do couples counseling, The therapist told her that she needs to work on learning how to separate her mom from me. If I tell her that I'm frustrated about something, She needs to learn how to process that I'm not saying it in the same way that her mom did And that would go for anything I say. I never spoke with hate or malice or intentions of hurting. I always try to find ways to talk to her because I always told her when we 1st met that communication is the most biggest thing relationships need. That we don't have to agree about everything but we do need to make compromises and make sure are doing things that are best for our relationship. That it's not about who's right or wrong it's about just working together. Long story short her trauma due to her mother affected our relationship. And sadly she was unable to move on with things because she would hold onto grudges which are unhealthy for a relationship. I loved her with everything I was. Relationships are about compromises, working together and communicating. I have never loved a woman the way I loved her, And even with things got tough or hard I never gave up. The hardest thing she ever said to me was is she gave all the effort and love in the beginning but had no more in the end. She let me know that she only had so much effort and lovely given to a relationship. I was not perfect but I was a good man, I always told her I just want to understand And I just wanted to be the best person that I could be for her. The hardest thing was when she told the therapist that she agreed that 90% of her relationship she was happy with. And while she felt the 10% needed work it was workable, Though she gave up after 3 sessions. Now mind you she already broke up with me 2 months beforehand. Which again Caught me off guard. I'll mind you almost 2 weeks later we went to ocean cithe ocean city for a vacation that we already had planned. We were about an hour away from arriving and we stopped at a barbecue place. When I got out of the car she walked up towards me and gave me a hug and says I love you and we're gonna Get through this together. Everything was going fine we had a great time in ocean city. And the whole time since she said nothing but I love you to you and how happy she was that we were working with things and making a better future Together. So the Wednesday before July 4th weekend we went out for a usual date night, We went to a nice brewery that we'd like to go to every once in a while. We showed a lot of affection to one another as we always do when we go out in public. We were also laughing and having great time and making plans That we wanted to do together. We already had it in the books for months before That we will be going to New Orleans together because she's been and I never have. But we both like spicy Cajun food. After a date night we got home and relaxed and It talked about how much for great time we had. We both agreed that next week would be even more fun. We both got home and relaxed a little before going to bed, Told one another that we loved 1 another and had a great night together and looked forward to the following date night. The next day we're texting back-and-forth while she's at work and for me work at home. We texted throughout the day Asking how one another's day is going, With I love you always included. She did let me know that she was running a little bit late that night which was Thursday now one day after date night. Told her new words to please drive safely and that I love her and I'll see her when she gets home as she replied the same way. Once she got home we exchanged hugs and kisses asked about one of those day and said I love you. I was very excited to see her as she was very excited to see me as she was giggling and laughing. We went to sit down and she started laughing and saying how cute adorable I am when I eat. I told her thank you that I love her and she says I love you too. Not 15 seconds later go by that I ask her how she been doing how she really been doing. That's when she told me I'm glad you asked I wanted to talk to you about something.... I was like sure hon you can talk to me about anything. That's when she crushed my world and told me that she can no longer be with me. The most worst thing is knowing that someone can love you and then turn it off like a light switch. I remember the night that she told me and she left. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship I know that I always have. But a relationship does involve working. We already had a great foundation, Though I feel like those 2 months she was lying to me that she loved me. And granted this is the woman I wanted to grow old with, I was never more sure about anything in my life except for her. This time next year I would have been proposing to her at her family's summer party. I feel like she's the girl that got away. I still wonder if there's Things more I could have done. I was already happy with who I was, She just complimented my life It felt things with her own levels that I've never experienced to my life. And even more than anything I would have been proud and happy to call her my wife. Apologies did not mean to rent. I'm literally losing my mind, I was very happy of myself before I met her, though she made my life just that much better. We complimented one another very well in everything. Even her family kept asking me when we going to get married because her family even loved me. I feel I've lost both my bestfriend/ GF and a great second family that was just really loved my character and how happy I made her. When I saw her 2 weeks ago she cut her and deleted any and all pictures of me from her Facebook, like I never existed.
I acted way to needy after she broke up with me but it was because I still loved her sent emails left voicemails etc I need to level up and walk away for good
Walking is strength...my ex and her friends must drive by my place no lie 3-5 times a day. Every where I go there they are. Countless people come to me and talk to me about her. Her choice. Seriously within 4 hours I met 2 incredibly good looking sisters. What a night. They were 20 and 19. Yeah I'm really good looking..
Been one week I had to make my stand I finally put the whole puzzle together and if I stayed I would have no self respect. It was real hard I had ingrained her into my life. I trully cared. But she didn't seem to wanna leave her old ways and level up. And that's what I'm about. Still think about her everyday, she just been out about with these other cats doing what she do but hey that her decision she will not find true happiness and love doing what she doing. It has been messing with my mental state tho.
My bf broke up with me....I walked away and did nothing.....he has reached out 4x....I still did nothing....don't really care....I was a good girlfriend....he didn't appreciate....he lied and cheated.....I forgave....I loved him....but he didn't was selfish ...bye boy!
This worked exactly as stated in video the first time. She came back 7-8 months later. Fast forward 3 yrs from then, here we are again. Although this time I dont think she'll come back, why would she, she gave it another chance, didnt work out, it was more of the same really. But thats cool too, lets just throw 7 yrs down the drain together. They always leave you at your lowest, and you are left picking up pieces. Dont get too comfy my kings, and never get down low enough where you cant automatically rebound. Keep working on yourself, wether you solo or with someone. You are #1 to yourself. We just havent met right people yet that offer their love unconditionally. PS. Its been just over 2 months since she left, sent a breakup text and changed sim cards/phone number. And off the social media. We zero dark thirty up in this bihh.
Yes, I made mistakes in being too available almost everyday & as a result, she takes me for granted in not valuing my time & effort as I took a self esteem hit as I really felt it. She was not matching my same level of energy or being reciprocal after I tried to show her love so after that, I had matched the same level of energy so as I ran into her 2 other separate times & then as she sees me, she expects me to approach & come up to her but she did not expect that I will show her the complete opposite as I did a complete 360 takeaway & I said to myself no as I pulled away in keeping my distance & used the other people as fuel as I was clearly disrespected. I was exhausted because of this & with my work. I have not been the same since then.
As I recently entered an area, she was in fact cockblocking me as she expects me to approach her as she was in fact using others without their knowledge & then thinks that by using them in interfering that I was going for that as this was clearly spotted beyond a mile away. Her plan in doing this DID NOT WORK as as I kept my distance. This is clearly a false class female who is just an attention whore as I already charged her to the game by getting rid of her & dumping her. If she was truly interested, we would already had one & one discussions under the privacy. She was obviously trying to get something out of me because she sees me as very attractive. She has done this to other guys before. It's pretty obvious.
I saw my ex fiancee yesterday with rebound dude. He doesn't even have a car. All walking and hugged up. They didn't see me lol. Seeing that shit made me so glad I've been in no contact since the day I found out nearly 3 months ago. And it didn't hurt at all. Just weird being we were just engaged a few months ago. These new chicks different lol.
@@Leshgetit2025 I recently discovered thats her M.O 😂 She just jumps from guy to guy. Relationships last 2 years maximum. Besides her beauty and personality she doesn't have much to offer. No true drive to reach higher levels. I made the mistake many do in falling in love with potential. In retrospect I may have been too much for her. I invest and know how to get money. She just happy to make 500$ a week but complain about the job. She got a new dude to get high and drunk with. I don't smoke. She can f*ck off tbh.
The only issue is.. we are assuming they are thinking about us after 8 weeks NC.. but I do agree that this must be done. Nothing will help besides the distance.
All very well but I ain't gonna be buying any new car anytime soon. I'm retired - 64 - I'm very fit ( ex forces and former boxer ) and look younger I'm told. She's 57 and looks 10 years younger. Man she is gorgeous. There were tears and hugs all over the place when she left my lovely home in the countryside after 6 years of happiness. I mean it was bliss. I was so content. Maybe took her for granted but I did a lot for her as well ( she still works ). I have hundreds of cards and notes she left me each day saying how she loved me and how happy she was. Then Boom, she wanted out. I thought yeah, it's another guy but she swears no and I believe her. She came here a couple of times to get her stuff and am afraid yes, I left her silly notes of love. I also txt'd her NY eve (3 months after she left ) to invite her round and she said no politely, but that was over a month ago and I haven't contacted since. It's 5 months now since she went. Not a peep. I think I'm gonna need more than Lamborghini.
It's hard atimes when thinking about the good old days, but I always do my best not to contact her at all.i try to distract myself with things to do,just trying to interact with other people more... Like they say "fake it till you make it" 😁
@@opusandtarquez yesterday I started to do exercise more... Atleast to keep up in shape... Yes I lost weight cz of break up, lose sleep most of the time, , but now it's time for my upgrade. To heal first
Do uncomfortable stuff. I’ve always been in the gym so I decided to join an mma gym too and now I’m looking at taking dancing classes. I’m reading more & working on skills
Ever since my breakup I have developed a jagged edge. In other words I do not tolerate hardly anything especially for women my friends my family they're always going to be there but from women they can go to hell far as I'm concerned unless they listen to me
I went to the gym got my body right and maintained. I care but don't care to worry about her but I have kids with her but the drama she likes to create I don't want to call it's just toxic drama I don't wanna deal with that. I'm not playing this game and it's been yrs and call to speak to my kids to be ignored when I call to speak to my kids ugggh drama!!!!
Man I done it all, fought her boyfriend, called her the C word , cried , begged and pleaded. It’s been almost 2 years post break and I’ve never been successful at no contact . Do you think it would still have the same affect after this king and all my mistakes?
i got blocked on everything because she had monkey branched to a rebound guy. i sent 2 letter over the course of three months. been in NC for 2 months now and am genuinely a better person and shes in a full relationship with the pther guy. im 100 percent sure she will never contact me again but im also 100 sure i will never brake no contact. its hard caus she also lives in my street. i know if i didnt do the letter id have her back by now, i think knowing that i fucked up (with the letter) makes it even harder
I wanted her to take my last name but she didn’t treat me properly so I walked away did a couple drive-bys LOL but after watching this video decided not to do that anymore going no contact.. still no contact at all for one month today
I cried an begged her for another chance an accused her with sleepin with her half brother i kept telling her i was changing an i just wanted her back and i just want my family an her the our girls to be happy i begged to just be friends i became a lil bitch boy an im a cocky mother fucker an i have massive confidence an i lost myself to the break up an it wasnt till about 2 an a half weeks b4 i finally said fuck it ima just be me
I honestly think what ever chance there was there is gone due to how i acted but you know what im ok with that now i mean yea i still want her back but it is what it is now
Enjoy your channel! I’m 54 and been out of the dating world so long I’m lost… Anyhow, what about a situation where my ex wife and I spent a ton of time together from March-June, even spent several nights together in the same bed, but no intimacy. I vomited my feelings to her after years apart because she told me that she wanted me to be “vulnerable”. Huge mistake! After that she made a decision that she just wanted to be friends, I said no, that I didn’t want that. Told her I didn’t want to lose her, but I wasn’t interested, she said bye. She’s a blonde, green eyes Barbie doll that always has a lot of male orbiters so I’m sure she’s got options. I was upset about it, but we’ve been apart so long that NC isn’t a big issue for me other than I wish we were together. We’re both used to being apart. Am I screwed?
You did the right thing Tony. It’s good that you recognize your mistakes. You definitely put yourself in the friend zone without the intimacy. That’s a big mistake. It sounds like she might be back, but never accept the friend zone.
I was in the same boat. Ltr with no intimacy, she's older so that has something to do with it. It was more painful to be in the friend zone than to not have any contact with her. I wanted it the way it used to be. Broke it off a few weeks ago, it's been tough, but I'm looking forward to new opportunities and a chance to meet someone that meets at least basic human needs.
You did the right thing. Never accept the Friend Zone. Being her friend means you are now one of her orbiters and you get to watch as she flaunts her "starting lineup" in front of you. Once you're out of the "starting lineup" -- you're done. She isn't bringing you back. Walk away on your terms, with your self-respect and dignity. NO CONTACT!
Just so you know, my ex-boyfriend put me in the Friend Zone because he tried but couldn't be intimate. Has a history of poor relationships to where he just stopped trying. I had to let him go and yes, I walked away.
Yes me. I worked on myself for two years and I thought we were making progress towards getting back together. And then he dropped the bomb that he wants to play the field
I'd like to think I give mystery in my relationships. I go about and mind my business but, when it comes to me dealing with some men, that mystery I have for some reason, leads them to accuse me, try to put me down & place their insecurities on me😡 but when I make myself available to them, they mishandle me. I'm dealing with that right now. I feel I need to, like this video, walk away from this situation. Either he's going to see I'm scarce or we both just moving on & stop wasting each other's time. Thoughts?
Mine stopped looking at my IG stories but she added me to her close instagram circle..it's been a month she ghosted me and dipped on an event we where supposed to go to
@@opusandtarquez Yes because she was going on a trip, but we planned this over month before hand. But yeah, she ghosted me after I apologized because I worked 80 hrs when covid hit so I neglected her during the relationship (not intentionally). Now I have time but not before
Yeah, I hit her phone up whilst drunk, trying to speak to her etc. Dumb ass I was. So now I decided its time to get back to who I am and am in no contact to walk away. I did this initially, but when the drank flows, the dumb ass grows. Now we soldier on! Back on the grind
Became more spiritual. And successful A question for you both. Why do they still contact from time to time checking on your status even tho they already with their baby mama? It's annoying.
I think im screwed, she kicked me out if the house and took all the pictures down, gave me everything back, we split the bills up, I only see her on the weekend to switch my son, and I broke no contact last night. I get nothing from her anymore, even tho she said she still wanted me around and let me stay the night right after the breakup, im not even allowed inside her house now. Im fucked.but I deserve it, I treated her like shit, wasn't being the man in the relationship, was being a fuckboy. Now I'm changing for the best, but think its too late.
Hello thanks for this beautiful video. My ex bf dumped me. But how could I walk away from him if we live in the same place/village and having the same circle of friends. Pls help me and tell me what to do?
My ex know I won the battle I'm beautiful and I get alot of attention and I grew my hair long with a nice sexy body she was my first love so she got over on me thru time I learned my self worth and self love boy she is going thru it rn and I dont evan want her she crossed the line she know I see her in a bad low light and she got me on a pedestal
I guess there’s a difference between going no contact and ignoring someone. But if you have been ignoring them and they ask you that then your best bet is to be straightforward and tell them that you were busy in a light playful way, then quickly change the topic. But if you’re trying to get your ex back I highly suggest you don’t ignore them.
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Thank you 🐅
its been 8 months, and I'm hearing my ex told her mom she feels defeated, and that her rebound that she was so into, isn't gonna last. walk away kings, it works
You are right where you want to be. You did good man. 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
8 months, I hope you keep her away, keep pushing 👍🏾
Pumped and dumped by another dude. Perfect reason to never go back.
Update?
Hey as a girl it's good to hear guys feel the same too, my bf broke up with me, but I didn't do anything wrong , I know my worth and instead of stop living I've kept myself busy ,back into PT , uni starts next month and planing nights out with my friends again , so now I'm doing the no contact as he's been back an forward giving mixed messages , what ever the result of no contact wither they come back or you build your self-esteem it's a win win method
There it is Naomi! It’s a win win 💪🏾
Stay strong! God bless
Breakups kill men, yes. Even after I broke up with a woman I had my moments of hesitation.
So he'd did contact me and we're back together now , but if this does happen for anyone make sure your in the right place to know if it's really what you want , and what the other half wants not just a lingering feeling of loss , and your back to the start again ,
Yes QUEEN!
Guys wether it increases attraction or not it works. I cut her off last week by telling her to stop contacting me because I need complete separation (she’d been sending breadcrumbs). You’ll feel better if you do it because you’ll get your mind back. From there just manage your conscience(the conscious things you can control). Go to church, go to the gym, read books, hang with friends, learn about yourself, learn about relationships, just work on becoming all around better (good, well rounded men are scarce)! You’ll feel better and wether or not she comes back around you’ll be ready for whatever life has in store for you at that point! Stay tough but be patient!😤
Marvelous 👊🏾
@@opusandtarquez oh I forgot to mention that she has to see me at work and I was already treating her like a stranger there lol… here we go
Should be a bumpy, fun ride!
Exactly, I'm in no rush for a relationship with anyone, but I'm learning about healthy relationships
Really good points!
I’m past the initial freaking out stage, but still think about her all the damn time, can’t stay focused on anything except my workouts. Stayed disciplined though as far as NC although I really want to see her, been 6 weeks, and not looking at her social.
Indifference unlocks the abundance mentality. 💯
Facts
Spoken like a Stoic.
Indifference shown to you by the dumper? Or you feeling indifferent to them? Im confused
@@lennymcshits2288 I Am A Stoic & I Love Stoicism In General. 💯
@@raymysterio1242 I'm completely indifferent all the way around. 💯
The list of stupid things I've done during breakup anxiety is endless.. But that's the old me.. Through videos like this I've learned so much and I now handle things way differently. Very proud of myself for that because before, I had no self respect
6 months post break up. Went into “fu€k you mode”. Quit bad habits. Dropped 85lbs. Back to dating. She’s noticed the changes, but I’m moving on and getting better day by day. Some days I feel great, others not so much. But I’m bringing my best self with some lessons learned.
Congrats. Remember it’s a marathon, not a sprint.
Good shit bro 💪
THAT'S the way to live life by! Being 'Alpha' is about knowing you are valuable, worthy, and abundant.
Inspiration 💯
Man I appreciate yall. Like the older brothers I never had.
Much love Michael 👊🏾
Or just walking away from a toxic and narcissistic woman. No more breadcrumbs, no more abusive or manipulative treatment. Peace
Going through a 5 year break up … was no contact for six month broke it yesterday but I didn’t call her she called me crying how much she want me back . Since the break up I own my business ( subscribe plz ) I shoot music video. I have two cars and a I found a better job. Start back hittin the gym. But I told her yesterday no we can’t be friends and I’m happy she left. Boy when I tell y’all I woke this morning to nudes I didn’t ask for and 5 calls 😂😂😂 I’m so thankful I found y’all channel . No contact is best !! 313 in the building 💪🏾💪🏾
My ex and I split a few months ago we didn’t talk for about a month and then she reached out we communicated and hung out a few times but she made it clear she did not want a relationship so to me it was a lot of stringing along she wanted to have her cake and eat it too. So I called her up told her if she didn’t want to work on our relationship then I’m done she said okay two weeks went by I get a phone call from her I didn’t answer then she texts me a long paragraph a few days later still I did not respond later on that week she texts again talking about something to do with out old job still I did not respond then she texts again asking if she can please call me to talk about what’s on her mind still I did not respond. Don’t let these women run games on you be a man and walk away
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I’ve been through it several times so I’m getting better at walking away and meaning it
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I’m gonna miss them Gillian stories RIP Marcus. My condolences bro!
I beg and plead thats freaking sick ... now i realized i have a value. Now i am focusing in my grind and purpose and i regained my confidence 😊
You guys aren't lying, I chased my ex for 2 months, no luck, finally got blocked on everything and instead of making fake accounts, resorting to email etc. like I did intitiallly, I let her go, started working out, painting pictures, riding horses, looking at motorbikes, making funny tictocs, got promoted at work. I noticed 3 weeks later one of her gf's checked out my page so I blocked her, 2 days later my ex unblocked me and is now looking at my profile lol. I've heard the quickest way to gain someone's attention is to remove yours.
Walked away from ex finally after 8 months of breadcrumbs ..over 2 months now zero contact from her . Staying strong. Its hard as fk ..but to gain self respect and self worth WALK AWAY 👍👍thanks for video gentleman 🙏
It's been over 11 weeks since I walked away. I've made no effort to contact her and even unfriended her on Facebook. I felt like if I stayed her Facebook friend, then I wasn't truly walking away.
Spoken like a true Jedi
I made the mistake of saying harsh things because I couldn’t have her back . That was Out of character of me due to me always being calm and collected . Never again .
Lesson learned.
Opus keeping it real with his story. So relatable and encourages me to keep going with NC.
Thanks homie !!! 💯
Don’t give in, you got this 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
No Contact definitely works my ex called me 6 times yesterday and 1 text no response on my end stay strong 💪 and yall have sum amazing videos mentality I feel much better great content
It definitely works. Stay up LaDarius! 🤟🏾
Always
Hey friend, I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist who brought my ex back after so many months of separation,,
He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work I'm am assuring you, you gonna testify
Wh'tsapp him for help
Gentlemen! Your words matter so much. Thank you!
My ex was VERY mercurial during our relationship. It was just her personality. She is a house cat in this sense.
There was a time I became very indifferent towards her and withdrew at home, and I barely texted her from work.
She started exploding MY phone trying to seduce me while I was at work.
This psychology does work. Getting to the point of indifference is the key.
Keep your mind busy on anything but her.
Out of all the videos and I mean I've watched all your videos. This one is the most empathetic and I appreciate you doing a little opposite of what you do. You spoke to me on this one because there was sympathy and empathy not just what to do. Coach T great introduction. Thank you both always.
Wow Alejandro. We appreciate the support. Glad you’re able to relate to it. 🙏🏾
It’s the beast tiger🐅 FROM NEWPORT BEACH 🐬, Balboa, Island, California… it’s been July 11, 2024. No contact it’s been rough and tough but I’m a tiger I know things were work out for me. I go to the gym early morning and late afternoon I just want to thank you guys for your videos to help me a lot….🐅
Scarcity breeds value 💯
Salute!
Welcome back to BLACK…BOOK….BASICS..🔥. Straight up, I listen all the way through everytime
Much Respect !!! 🙏🏽 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
So true I was acting out of my character !!
LOL I could talk about this for hours I've done so many unsavory things but I have learned one thing. Only you can control your self-respect and only you can control your actions.. Do what's best for you if somebody doesn't want to just walk away it is the only way the best way and the way to gain your self-respect back. Sometimes we have to experience things in life to understand how to become a better person with strong emotions and a strong heart ❤
I haven't contacted her it's like my mind & heart is in a hell of a battle
You are spot on guys. I just lived this exact scenario.
Thanks Derek
Thank you for letting me know that men also feel desperate and needy. It’s taken me months to stop begging him to take me back and to find my worth again. But now, the tide is turning. He won’t find another woman like me. I’m not going to be easy to replace. Good luck trying!
Thanks for watching 👍🏾
Reminiscing about the pain you passing through, because have been in your situation, i even got depressed when the situation got out of my hands, but the situations did not go out of the hands of a spell caster that helped me detect where the problem was coming from and helping me clear the problem, there something that is affecting your relationship you do not know, and helping you solving the problems I promise you, you can ask me how to get contact with him
I always believe that things happen for a reason... and I just happened to come across this video. So glad I didn't keep scrolling. Thank you for being so open and honest about your own personal experiences, and for being so informative--- it makes alot of sense.
Thanks for your support !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
The one thing that you don’t realize is that yeah you could do the right thing and move on but when they come back no matter what if you take them back she will NEVER respect you again. If there’s no respect there is no love.
Much of the time a woman is coming back for one reason after you brake-up with her and that is to regain her power. She will be a wonderful wife/GF for a few weeks, and suddenly and for no reason, she will dump you and walk away. Her power is restored. Game over. She wins -- you lose.
Never take a woman back!
My first time experiencing liking someone too much and unfortunately I don’t like her behaviour, but i didn’t realise I had enough feelings to constantly attacked my mind. I noticed that shit was TOXIC, INTOLERABLE
Thank you 🙏🏻very much
For this video. Really needed your knowledge. I am walking away hope this will teach her a lesson and remembers not to play with Men. Blessings and love to you my brothers. ♥️💪 peace
Much respect to you
Thank you guys so much for what you do… I just used this technique on my fiancé sometimes you just Gotta walk away and let her come to you and it worked..kind of like a cat if you go try to pick it up it runs away but if you just ignore it comes right up to you 🐱 So the lesson here is the less you do the better did you notice the word less is in the word lesson?!
That’s amazing Michael! Thank you for support! 🦈🤟🏾
I feel in love with my best friend we know each other for years but after we got drunk and had sex she hates me she block me on Facebook then after a week she unblocked me so iam so confused its been 5 months and no contact but I sent a message on Thanksgiving but no reply so I still love her but iam the one that walk away but had dreaming about her for a whole week its crazy but still doing the no contact its on her the balls in her corner and I will not be disrespected and I know my worth amen
There is a grl who isn’t interested in me that I really liked and really showed her I do by my actions, but times like that means you should just walk away and be distant around them, if they care they’ll make a effort to come back if they don’t than they just never were yours to begin with. Walking away is the smartest way, shows you have self respect and deserve better
That’s what I call…Solid Wisdom. 👊🏾
@@opusandtarquez thanks
Well I am glad he left me now. It was 14 years of being with a narcissist who verbally abused. Thank though for this video! I don't want him anymore and stopped chasing. Now ...the fool is looking at me. But God sent me a good man
I begged and pleaded. Never works. Walk away. Havent spoken to her since Feb. She did an indirect direct message. I ignored it as she served me seperation papers through her lawyers. Couldnt be happier being single.
Hey friend, I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist who brought my ex back after so many months of separation,,
He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work I'm am assuring you, you gonna testify
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She broke up with me 2 months ago. I went into no contact immediately and shes reached out indirectly 3 times now. One of those times was a casual check in and the last time was her dog was attacked by the neighbors dog. I feel shes trying to get me to chase but i remain steadfast. Her birthday was yesterday and i gave her the gift of silence.
I started reading more books post break up
May god bless you both for what you do 🙏🏽👌🏽
Wow. Thank you 👊🏾
Scarcity breeds value but if you're useless and you become scarce, nobody will miss you.
Make conscious effort to add value to yourself FIRST
My Father gave me this advice as a teenager. Unfortunately. I often failed to heed that advice. Dad was correct.
He sounds like a smart man !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
A lot of great facts, My girlfriend dumped me after 2 and a 1/2 years , 4 + weeks ago. The hardest thing was is that my girl had a lot of trauma from being a child 8 until 18. Her mom was nasty and mentally abusive and said something no person should say to their child.. When I try to talk to her she would take what I say as a personal attack and tell me that she gets triggered by it or shut down. We agreed to do couples counseling, The therapist told her that she needs to work on learning how to separate her mom from me. If I tell her that I'm frustrated about something, She needs to learn how to process that I'm not saying it in the same way that her mom did And that would go for anything I say. I never spoke with hate or malice or intentions of hurting. I always try to find ways to talk to her because I always told her when we 1st met that communication is the most biggest thing relationships need. That we don't have to agree about everything but we do need to make compromises and make sure are doing things that are best for our relationship. That it's not about who's right or wrong it's about just working together. Long story short her trauma due to her mother affected our relationship. And sadly she was unable to move on with things because she would hold onto grudges which are unhealthy for a relationship. I loved her with everything I was. Relationships are about compromises, working together and communicating. I have never loved a woman the way I loved her, And even with things got tough or hard I never gave up. The hardest thing she ever said to me was is she gave all the effort and love in the beginning but had no more in the end. She let me know that she only had so much effort and lovely given to a relationship. I was not perfect but I was a good man, I always told her I just want to understand And I just wanted to be the best person that I could be for her. The hardest thing was when she told the therapist that she agreed that 90% of her relationship she was happy with. And while she felt the 10% needed work it was workable, Though she gave up after 3 sessions.
Now mind you she already broke up with me 2 months beforehand. Which again Caught me off guard. I'll mind you almost 2 weeks later we went to ocean cithe ocean city for a vacation that we already had planned. We were about an hour away from arriving and we stopped at a barbecue place. When I got out of the car she walked up towards me and gave me a hug and says I love you and we're gonna Get through this together. Everything was going fine we had a great time in ocean city. And the whole time since she said nothing but I love you to you and how happy she was that we were working with things and making a better future Together.
So the Wednesday before July 4th weekend we went out for a usual date night, We went to a nice brewery that we'd like to go to every once in a while. We showed a lot of affection to one another as we always do when we go out in public. We were also laughing and having great time and making plans That we wanted to do together. We already had it in the books for months before That we will be going to New Orleans together because she's been and I never have. But we both like spicy Cajun food. After a date night we got home and relaxed and It talked about how much for great time we had. We both agreed that next week would be even more fun. We both got home and relaxed a little before going to bed, Told one another that we loved 1 another and had a great night together and looked forward to the following date night. The next day we're texting back-and-forth while she's at work and for me work at home. We texted throughout the day Asking how one another's day is going, With I love you always included. She did let me know that she was running a little bit late that night which was Thursday now one day after date night. Told her new words to please drive safely and that I love her and I'll see her when she gets home as she replied the same way. Once she got home we exchanged hugs and kisses asked about one of those day and said I love you. I was very excited to see her as she was very excited to see me as she was giggling and laughing. We went to sit down and she started laughing and saying how cute adorable I am when I eat. I told her thank you that I love her and she says I love you too. Not 15 seconds later go by that I ask her how she been doing how she really been doing. That's when she told me I'm glad you asked I wanted to talk to you about something.... I was like sure hon you can talk to me about anything. That's when she crushed my world and told me that she can no longer be with me. The most worst thing is knowing that someone can love you and then turn it off like a light switch. I remember the night that she told me and she left. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship I know that I always have. But a relationship does involve working. We already had a great foundation, Though I feel like those 2 months she was lying to me that she loved me.
And granted this is the woman I wanted to grow old with, I was never more sure about anything in my life except for her. This time next year I would have been proposing to her at her family's summer party. I feel like she's the girl that got away. I still wonder if there's Things more I could have done. I was already happy with who I was, She just complimented my life It felt things with her own levels that I've never experienced to my life. And even more than anything I would have been proud and happy to call her my wife. Apologies did not mean to rent.
I'm literally losing my mind, I was very happy of myself before I met her, though she made my life just that much better. We complimented one another very well in everything. Even her family kept asking me when we going to get married because her family even loved me. I feel I've lost both my bestfriend/ GF and a great second family that was just really loved my character and how happy I made her. When I saw her 2 weeks ago she cut her and deleted any and all pictures of me from her Facebook, like I never existed.
Good on you fir giving the best advice .
Thank you Louisa
I acted way to needy after she broke up with me but it was because I still loved her sent emails left voicemails etc I need to level up and walk away for good
Needed this, thanks guys 🙏💯
We appreciate you watching. 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
An eye for an eye will leave the whole world blind.
I think i’m the 29 viewer of the video😮...Shoutout from E.Africa🇹🇿! No Contact works🚨
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Walking is strength...my ex and her friends must drive by my place no lie 3-5 times a day. Every where I go there they are. Countless people come to me and talk to me about her. Her choice. Seriously within 4 hours I met 2 incredibly good looking sisters. What a night. They were 20 and 19. Yeah I'm really good looking..
R. I . P. Opus 🕊
Been one week I had to make my stand I finally put the whole puzzle together and if I stayed I would have no self respect. It was real hard I had ingrained her into my life. I trully cared. But she didn't seem to wanna leave her old ways and level up. And that's what I'm about. Still think about her everyday, she just been out about with these other cats doing what she do but hey that her decision she will not find true happiness and love doing what she doing. It has been messing with my mental state tho.
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You guys are real and your Content is relatable... We have to focus on our excellence.
My bf broke up with me....I walked away and did nothing.....he has reached out 4x....I still did nothing....don't really care....I was a good girlfriend....he didn't appreciate....he lied and cheated.....I forgave....I loved him....but he didn't was selfish ...bye boy!
I got my ex Bc of y’all thank u I’m the head of the table 💯💯💯
That’s amazing to hear Jo! 👊🏾
This worked exactly as stated in video the first time. She came back 7-8 months later. Fast forward 3 yrs from then, here we are again. Although this time I dont think she'll come back, why would she, she gave it another chance, didnt work out, it was more of the same really. But thats cool too, lets just throw 7 yrs down the drain together. They always leave you at your lowest, and you are left picking up pieces. Dont get too comfy my kings, and never get down low enough where you cant automatically rebound. Keep working on yourself, wether you solo or with someone. You are #1 to yourself. We just havent met right people yet that offer their love unconditionally.
PS. Its been just over 2 months since she left, sent a breakup text and changed sim cards/phone number. And off the social media. We zero dark thirty up in this bihh.
Yes, I made mistakes in being too available almost everyday & as a result, she takes me for granted in not valuing my time & effort as I took a self esteem hit as I really felt it. She was not matching my same level of energy or being reciprocal after I tried to show her love so after that, I had matched the same level of energy so as I ran into her 2 other separate times & then as she sees me, she expects me to approach & come up to her but she did not expect that I will show her the complete opposite as I did a complete 360 takeaway & I said to myself no as I pulled away in keeping my distance & used the other people as fuel as I was clearly disrespected. I was exhausted because of this & with my work. I have not been the same since then.
As I recently entered an area, she was in fact cockblocking me as she expects me to approach her as she was in fact using others without their knowledge & then thinks that by using them in interfering that I was going for that as this was clearly spotted beyond a mile away. Her plan in doing this DID NOT WORK as as I kept my distance. This is clearly a false class female who is just an attention whore as I already charged her to the game by getting rid of her & dumping her. If she was truly interested, we would already had one & one discussions under the privacy. She was obviously trying to get something out of me because she sees me as very attractive. She has done this to other guys before. It's pretty obvious.
He had me at doing drive-bys and calling her mama. Lol.
Absolutely !!! Well said👍
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I wrote a 5 page handwritten letter and burned the pages and edges a bit lol
Ouch!!
You guys ....you nailed this topic....Qi can relate to what you are saying...hey
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I saw my ex fiancee yesterday with rebound dude. He doesn't even have a car. All walking and hugged up. They didn't see me lol. Seeing that shit made me so glad I've been in no contact since the day I found out nearly 3 months ago. And it didn't hurt at all. Just weird being we were just engaged a few months ago. These new chicks different lol.
They fear being alone. She should’ve taken that time off to become a better woman but they never learn
@@Leshgetit2025 I recently discovered thats her M.O 😂 She just jumps from guy to guy. Relationships last 2 years maximum. Besides her beauty and personality she doesn't have much to offer. No true drive to reach higher levels. I made the mistake many do in falling in love with potential. In retrospect I may have been too much for her. I invest and know how to get money. She just happy to make 500$ a week but complain about the job. She got a new dude to get high and drunk with. I don't smoke. She can f*ck off tbh.
@@mrkeitt I think you dodged a bullet. Imagine when all her drinking, smoking and party catches up. Hopefully you find someone with more to offer.
Hey friend, I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist who brought my ex back after so many months of separation,,
He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work I'm am assuring you, you gonna testify
Yall killed killed this video 🔥👍also rip to your bro
I love the vibe of this channel! I went no contact, and I blocked her…………I’ll let you know how it goes!!
Thanks for watching brotha
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Thank you guys for this video its so the true
Love this video
This applies to leaving toxic jobs aswell.
Great video. Thank you😘
Our pleasure Aphrodite 😀
The only issue is.. we are assuming they are thinking about us after 8 weeks NC.. but I do agree that this must be done. Nothing will help besides the distance.
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Speaking the truth. Thank you.
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Thank you very kings🤴🤴
Our pleasure 🤟🏾
All very well but I ain't gonna be buying any new car anytime soon. I'm retired - 64 - I'm very fit
( ex forces and former boxer ) and look younger I'm told. She's 57 and looks 10 years younger. Man she is gorgeous. There were tears and hugs all over the place when she left my lovely home in the countryside after 6 years of happiness. I mean it was bliss. I was so content. Maybe took her for granted but I did a lot for her as well ( she still works ). I have hundreds of cards and notes she left me each day saying how she loved me and how happy she was. Then Boom, she wanted out. I thought yeah, it's another guy but she swears no and I believe her. She came here a couple of times to get her stuff and am afraid yes, I left her silly notes of love. I also txt'd her NY eve (3 months after she left ) to invite her round and she said no politely, but that was over a month ago and I haven't contacted since. It's 5 months now since she went. Not a peep. I think I'm gonna need more than Lamborghini.
It's hard atimes when thinking about the good old days, but I always do my best not to contact her at all.i try to distract myself with things to do,just trying to interact with other people more... Like they say "fake it till you make it" 😁
Try to start doing something new…a hobby or a challenge. It’s time to upgrade.
@@opusandtarquez yesterday I started to do exercise more... Atleast to keep up in shape... Yes I lost weight cz of break up, lose sleep most of the time, , but now it's time for my upgrade. To heal first
Do uncomfortable stuff. I’ve always been in the gym so I decided to join an mma gym too and now I’m looking at taking dancing classes. I’m reading more & working on skills
@@Leshgetit2025 thanks a lot for the support, 👍🏾👍🏾.
Ever since my breakup I have developed a jagged edge. In other words I do not tolerate hardly anything especially for women my friends my family they're always going to be there but from women they can go to hell far as I'm concerned unless they listen to me
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Y’all stay bringing that puro! 🔥
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I went to the gym got my body right and maintained. I care but don't care to worry about her but I have kids with her but the drama she likes to create I don't want to call it's just toxic drama I don't wanna deal with that. I'm not playing this game and it's been yrs and call to speak to my kids to be ignored when I call to speak to my kids ugggh drama!!!!
Man I done it all, fought her boyfriend, called her the C word , cried , begged and pleaded. It’s been almost 2 years post break and I’ve never been successful at no contact . Do you think it would still have the same affect after this king and all my mistakes?
I watch y’all videos when I feel the urge to break NC.
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i got blocked on everything because she had monkey branched to a rebound guy. i sent 2 letter over the course of three months. been in NC for 2 months now and am genuinely a better person and shes in a full relationship with the pther guy.
im 100 percent sure she will never contact me again but im also 100 sure i will never brake no contact. its hard caus she also lives in my street.
i know if i didnt do the letter id have her back by now, i think knowing that i fucked up (with the letter) makes it even harder
I wanted her to take my last name but she didn’t treat me properly so I walked away did a couple drive-bys LOL but after watching this video decided not to do that anymore going no contact.. still no contact at all for one month today
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My ex and I are both off social media. We hate it. However, she moved about 5 blocks away from me. I anticipate many driveby’s on her part.
Definitely anticipate them.
I be doing them same-day thing. I be venting to strangers too! I'm still hurting and it's been a two month relationship!
Fight through it!
I cried an begged her for another chance an accused her with sleepin with her half brother i kept telling her i was changing an i just wanted her back and i just want my family an her the our girls to be happy i begged to just be friends i became a lil bitch boy an im a cocky mother fucker an i have massive confidence an i lost myself to the break up an it wasnt till about 2 an a half weeks b4 i finally said fuck it ima just be me
I honestly think what ever chance there was there is gone due to how i acted but you know what im ok with that now i mean yea i still want her back but it is what it is now
Let the games begin
I walked away, no contact for a year now..and she's with another guy. Walking away doesn't always work to get them back
U begged her?
Walking away is more about making yourself a better man… not necessarily getting her back.
@Stomper604 Exactly
What have I done uncharacteristically in my younger days
Great question: rather keep that 1 discreet
Enjoy your channel! I’m 54 and been out of the dating world so long I’m lost…
Anyhow, what about a situation where my ex wife and I spent a ton of time together from March-June, even spent several nights together in the same bed, but no intimacy. I vomited my feelings to her after years apart because she told me that she wanted me to be “vulnerable”. Huge mistake!
After that she made a decision that she just wanted to be friends, I said no, that I didn’t want that. Told her I didn’t want to lose her, but I wasn’t interested, she said bye. She’s a blonde, green eyes Barbie doll that always has a lot of male orbiters so I’m sure she’s got options.
I was upset about it, but we’ve been apart so long that NC isn’t a big issue for me other than I wish we were together. We’re both used to being apart.
Am I screwed?
You did the right thing Tony. It’s good that you recognize your mistakes. You definitely put yourself in the friend zone without the intimacy. That’s a big mistake. It sounds like she might be back, but never accept the friend zone.
I was in the same boat. Ltr with no intimacy, she's older so that has something to do with it. It was more painful to be in the friend zone than to not have any contact with her. I wanted it the way it used to be. Broke it off a few weeks ago, it's been tough, but I'm looking forward to new opportunities and a chance to meet someone that meets at least basic human needs.
You did the right thing. Never accept the Friend Zone. Being her friend means you are now one of her orbiters and you get to watch as she flaunts her "starting lineup" in front of you. Once you're out of the "starting lineup" -- you're done. She isn't bringing you back. Walk away on your terms, with your self-respect and dignity. NO CONTACT!
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Really wish I would have found you guys before all of this nonsense…I think it would have been a better outcome.
Just so you know, my ex-boyfriend put me in the Friend Zone because he tried but couldn't be intimate. Has a history of poor relationships to where he just stopped trying. I had to let him go and yes, I walked away.
Has anyone had 2 breakups with same girl? That’s boat I’m in
Yes me. I worked on myself for two years and I thought we were making progress towards getting back together. And then he dropped the bomb that he wants to play the field
Long ass letters, drive bys, stalking everything damn thing! Restraining order. I've grown up now. I don't do it anymore. Just move on to the next!
Always be prepeared for a break up...
Doesn’t work all the time. It’s been 5 years and still no contact….
Does that apply if we are blocked everywhere
What if she don’t want nothing to do with you ?
Do the same thing to heal.
I'd like to think I give mystery in my relationships. I go about and mind my business but, when it comes to me dealing with some men, that mystery I have for some reason, leads them to accuse me, try to put me down & place their insecurities on me😡 but when I make myself available to them, they mishandle me. I'm dealing with that right now. I feel I need to, like this video, walk away from this situation. Either he's going to see I'm scarce or we both just moving on & stop wasting each other's time. Thoughts?
It might be a certain type of man you’re attracting.
Well, in my case , the more she was clear with me , I wanted to be more close to her but then the started giving mixed signals and I walked away
Hearing this but I dont want my ex back.
Mine stopped looking at my IG stories but she added me to her close instagram circle..it's been a month she ghosted me and dipped on an event we where supposed to go to
She flaked? I would NEVER talk to her again.
@@opusandtarquez Yes because she was going on a trip, but we planned this over month before hand. But yeah, she ghosted me after I apologized because I worked 80 hrs when covid hit so I neglected her during the relationship (not intentionally). Now I have time but not before
She’s way in the wrong for ghosting. That’s not cool. I wouldn’t speak to her again. She just brushed you off like nothing.
Yeah, I hit her phone up whilst drunk, trying to speak to her etc. Dumb ass I was. So now I decided its time to get back to who I am and am in no contact to walk away. I did this initially, but when the drank flows, the dumb ass grows.
Now we soldier on! Back on the grind
Became more spiritual. And successful
A question for you both. Why do they still contact from time to time checking on your status even tho they already with their baby mama? It's annoying.
They still care or their ego may be bruised.
I think im screwed, she kicked me out if the house and took all the pictures down, gave me everything back, we split the bills up, I only see her on the weekend to switch my son, and I broke no contact last night. I get nothing from her anymore, even tho she said she still wanted me around and let me stay the night right after the breakup, im not even allowed inside her house now. Im fucked.but I deserve it, I treated her like shit, wasn't being the man in the relationship, was being a fuckboy. Now I'm changing for the best, but think its too late.
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Hello thanks for this beautiful video. My ex bf dumped me. But how could I walk away from him if we live in the same place/village and having the same circle of friends. Pls help me and tell me what to do?
My ex know I won the battle I'm beautiful and I get alot of attention and I grew my hair long with a nice sexy body she was my first love so she got over on me thru time I learned my self worth and self love boy she is going thru it rn and I dont evan want her she crossed the line she know I see her in a bad low light and she got me on a pedestal
What if they ask you why you've been ignoring them
I guess there’s a difference between going no contact and ignoring someone.
But if you have been ignoring them and they ask you that then your best bet is to be straightforward and tell them that you were busy in a light playful way, then quickly change the topic.
But if you’re trying to get your ex back I highly suggest you don’t ignore them.
@@opusandtarquez I was considering saying I gave you what you wanted by giving you space but didn't know if that was a good idea or not to say that