Why Do Men Struggle With Dating in 2024? (Dating CRISIS Explained)
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Why are men struggling with dating? Seriously, why is there a massive crisis in the dating world for men in 2024 and beyond? It’s not getting better anytime soon. In fact, it’s only going to get worse before it gets better. In America, with men aged 18 to 35, one-third have not had sex even once in the last year. This statistic is alarming, and it begs the question: what’s happening with the other two-thirds who did have sex? Are they meeting women who are at least a 7.5 in attractiveness and feminine? The answer is likely far less than 1%.
Topics Covered:
- The Current Crisis: One-third of men aged 18-35 haven't had sex in the last year.
- Standards in the West: Why attractive women in the West are reserved for a tiny fraction of men.
- Red Pill Podcasts: The rise of podcasts like Fresh and Fit and their role in exposing dating realities.
- The Passport Bro Movement: Why men are looking for better dating opportunities abroad.
- Giving Up on Dating: The MGTOW movement and its implications.
The Uncontrollable Factors:
- Rise of Feminism: How modern feminism teaches a generalized disdain for men and masculinizes women.
- Social Media and Dating Apps: The overwhelming options women have, leading to inflated egos and unrealistic standards.
- Cultural Shifts: The impact of cultural changes on dating dynamics.
The Controllable Factors:
- Stepping Up: Why men need to build social skills and approach women.
- Social Interaction: The importance of having a social life and improving social skills.
- Online Dating: Mastering the art of online dating with effective texting and great photos.
- Physical Fitness: The necessity of hitting the gym and maintaining a healthy physique.
- Personal Improvement: Investing in self-improvement, like fixing teeth or getting a hair transplant.
Practical Tips:
- Building Social Skills: Make a WhatsApp group with friends to plan social activities.
- Learning Online Dating: Get good photos, create engaging social media profiles, and learn effective texting.
- Going Overseas: Consider moving to countries where your value in the dating market is higher.
- Physical Fitness: Train intensely five to six days a week and maintain a decent diet.
Final Thoughts:
The universe already presents enough challenges. Don’t make it harder by ignoring what you can control. Get a remote job, go overseas, train intensely, and improve your social skills. Coordinate with friends, follow instructions, and make the most out of the opportunities available. - บันเทิง
We're too busy getting the money first !
The average American male no matter what age no matter how rich or how poor lives like a castrated caged animal. This is why i spend 6 months a year in south America. Dating feels normal again when im in south America life in general feels normal when im in south America. Life in America turn out to be a cornball lonely kind of life. If i didn't own my house thats paid off i would have left a long time ago. I waiting until im 55 to sell and retire in south America until the day i die. I cant see myself dying alone in the usa.
South America is big. Where do u go?
If you have a paid off house why not just sell it and then go overseas? probably give you enough money if its an average house for two decades of living without adding in any gains.
@@Eye_of_Horus I brought this place when the banking crashed in the USA in 08 at a fire foreclosure sale it 4x in value since then. I truly believe it will go up another 40% in the next few years especially when the interest rates come down. I have diamond hands and I'm holding on because real estate will never come down in value again it will only go up in the future. I will sell when trump is in his third year as president
@@user-rw311 seems like bad reasoning dude. But maybe you are just being completely sarcastic lol. In the next 10-15 years we are going to see a massive die off of the boomer pop who holds nearly all the real estate. What happens to real estate prices then? Pretty easy to see it doesn't go up forever. The massive population boom is done. At some point it "only goes down".
@@Eye_of_Horus do you think America was being friendly by giving migrants free hotels and leaving the border open allowing 20 million people to enter knowing these people that enter have four to five kids per family hundred million people will be added to the population in the next ten years then where there kids get big it will add another 100 million citizens
The only dating strategy for most men in the US to land an attractive woman is to leave. That's it. No shortcuts or promising alternatives.
Yup
"in the US is to leave" 😂🤣😂😂
"Comically high standards"
So effing true 😂
I went out to dinner with some women on a triple date. They were like 8.5's. They were low key flirting with the waiters there. Their husbands straight up didn't care. I live in America, and this is just the reality of things here.
Ya, if they were 8.546332s, it would've been a different story
Remotely attractive women are treated like dimes in Toronto . I went on my first trip in 2020 and man South America is where its at. I dont even know why guys still speak english. I started learning Spanish by default because the south American woman are so friendly in their conversation. Most have alot to talk about, and are not just looking to you to carry the conversation all the time . Western women are looking for men that will serve them continually no matter yourr status as a man she thinks she can talk to you any way she want , and refuses to change into what you want. Bottom line is western women dont want guidance from a man , wether.they are his wife or gf.. South America has a higher precentage of beautiful woman.
100% true. Average women are WORSHIPPED in the West
Lived in Toronto for two decades YUP. You are speaking facts but still better than LA.
i check out of dating in America or the West. I'm in Kenya right now. The women will treat you will king
7.5 or above statistically is about one in one hundred women. „Attractive“ starts around 7, the best 2% of the population.
source?
@@bevs9995 study Gaussian Bellcurve. 2.5 standard deviations above average is about the highest percentile. And is congruent with real life. „Attractive“ starts around 7/10 and about 1-2% of women can be considered „attractive“.
@@thomi77 sounds absurd. Atleast 1/3rd of people are attractive
@@thomi77 And why would a 7 be two an a half standard deviations above a 5?
you consider 1 point to be a standard deviation?
because in IQ - 15 points is a standard deviation
@@bevs9995 that’s what I said. 7 or above is 2 standard deviations above average, about top 2%, 7.5 is 2.5 standard deviations above average, the top 1%
Im eating while watching , then you said cockroach in dress at 2:45 😂😂😂
40% of the world population are still struggling to get internet connection
Girls in countrysides aged 18 years in any poor country
Are extremely loving and submissive
They value each dollar men spend on their food
if u re her second love
Her love and submission drop by 43 %
It's possible genuine love doesn't really exist? Maybe.
If a woman says "I can only date a guy making as much as me or more money than me" she'll never love a guy. It's impossible because her prime reason to enter a relationship is to acquire the man's resources. Red pillers may say "that's sensible. She's finding a guy that can give her the best security and ensure her long term survival and the long term survival of any potential children" but that's a simp mindset because it's validating her greed. It's essentially saying "women can't help be hypergamous/greedy because they need men's protection."
Yeah but that doesn't mean they like you! A man is expected to provide resources and the women can pretend she likes the man.
The whole system is rigged in women's favor.
I do only cold approach and it has been effective in the USA. At least in California there’s a lot of fun white girls and Latinas. Online has never worked for me.
Of course it hasn't, you need formalized training in this and 99% of online advice is vague and wishy washy at best, downright wrong at worst. Me and a handful of other guys actually know what were doing.
4:46 Dating and Social web sites in the 2000s like Yahoo Personals and Myspace were not so bad. When I was a single guy in my 20's during that decade I met tons of women there including my future wife. I don't think I would have that "success" in 2020s smartphone based dating apps technology.
I really like the mix of RP theories and game that this channel propagates on videos. Trying to run game without RP knowledge like this is futile.
Last year I was Smashing 2 women in a week. This year I haven’t even had a Kiss… 😩
i think its more than a 3rd sexless. Men lie about that a lot
Definitely could be.
I’d say 2/3
Hi Lebron!
This is a weird one here, so im 29 years old. 6 foot 5 in height, blue eyes, fit athletic and defined sporty guy. been described as a very attractive guy, look slightly on the younger side but i know im above average for sure. I know looks are subjective but I know what I am. Also a certified nuclear pharmacist I make literally over 150k after taxes a year so I'm put together financially. Here's the strange thing... I can attract women yes, however it's average or below average women, the thing is I can literally get any average looking women I want with incredible ease, i even get em to do what i want and everything, they worship me literally, I just can't seem to pull an attractive women which makes no sense, and what makes it even stranger I's the attractive women I see are with guys im better looking than. I don't know what's wrong with society now
you are overrating your own looks
@@benny3515 I use to actually think that was it which I don't really care but that wasn't the case, if u seen pics of me u would know what I'm talking about.
@@william11724 Then why arent you getting attention from hot girls if you are that attractive? The hot guys that I know of get plenty of attention at clubs, tinder, etc. All from young hot women
@@benny3515 bud i don't see what ur talking about, i see usally the opposite, the more attractive girls are always usually with lesser attractive guys! Ik I'm not the only one seeing this. And i dont know why i can't get attention from attractive women, im usally always better looking than the guys there with. I do get attention from girls but just average or below average women, but the thing is they treat me like im there God, like it's a land slide for me to hookup with average girls, just attractive women it's near impossible. I've asked about my looks ratings and everyone has always said I was like near 9 or 10, im not bad looking at all im even really tall like 6 foot 5. I don't know what it is I might have a curse on me idk
I need that beard surgery
Casey is always on point..❤
Thanks brother, some finally had to get on TH-cam and actually tell it like it is
9:25 "What's the harm in talking to her? Now if you're in America, I get it.." . Well I am in America (USA) ! Lol
Hahaha get out then my friend!
@@redbeardrants I'm working on it brutha. I'm getting my mental health in order, my finances in order, etc. I want to be a solid dude by the time I make my move because I want the 2nd half of my life to have no resemblance to the 1st half.
The Red Bearded Bandit is stealing yo girls... how can we get any love when this guy is around.
Pay for them just like he does
I don’t think guys are struggling now more than ever. I just think social media and 🌽 has really messed up men’s expectations of what dating success is
wrong
Wrong
So most guys back in the day in western economies were just downing in 🐱? No they were just happy with the limited options they had and actually focused on their life on other things than just collecting a notch count
Not even close to true.
@@Jp-do9nyreally ? So guys back in the day had what you’d consider great options and grest dating lives ?
Angry nerds raging and arguing with females online is not the solution.
Women in real life being prost itutes (only fans)and then wandering why no good quality man wants them is not the solution either.
Actually, this whole anti feminist stuff is BS and I don't know why anybody with a working brain doesn't question it.
That thumbnail is cringe, you’re really holding onto her, you really want to get your moneys worth, making sure she doesn’t run away. How much did you pay her?
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