11 Ways I Live Differently Because I Went To Federal Prison

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ก.ค. 2024
  • Fifteen years ago, on April 28, 2008, I surrendered to federal prison to begin serving my 18-month sentence. Fear, uncertainty, and shame consumed me. At the time, I didn't know my prison experience would be one of the most transformative of my life, leading to personal growth and a newfound appreciation for freedom, family, and health.
    In this video, I share 11 ways my life has changed after going to federal prison. For clarity, I learned many lessons--these are some that come to my mind today as I reflect.
    11 Ways I Live Differently Because I Went To Federal Prison:
    Reflecting on what I lost versus what remains in my life.
    Developing a respect for money and understanding the actual cost of earning it.
    Gratitude for the struggles and challenges I faced.
    Appreciation for my parents and the support they provided.
    Embracing my felon status and using it as motivation to succeed.
    Making a daily commitment to reading or listening to a book and finding ways to implement that knowledge.
    Cutting back on television by 90% and using that time for more productive activities.
    Committing to exercise, regardless of circumstances.
    Avoiding the temptation to use food as a way to cope with stress.
    Always be mindful that the FBI could listen to what I say and do.
    Taking a stand on my beliefs and not being afraid to speak up.
    I am grateful for the lessons I learned. I am also thankful to all of you who choose to learn more about our prison system and how people can succeed despite some difficult circumstances.
    Thank you,
    Justin Paperny
    jp@whitecollaradvice.com - 818-424-2220
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ความคิดเห็น • 53

  • @bebesha7501
    @bebesha7501 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    As I am getting ready to self surrender I am grateful for the information you provide and I hope to gather the courage and know how to share my story one day.

    • @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial
      @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You’re welcome. Just spend some time every day documenting the journey. You will do great.

    • @xreediculousx
      @xreediculousx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      good luck bebe. god bless you.

  • @kims8317
    @kims8317 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This is not only good advice for people who went to federal prison. It's great advice for everyone.

  • @tisICaroline
    @tisICaroline ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Turning trauma into triumph! Hearty congrats to you Justin on marking 15 years of awakening. What an inspiration you are! Your story is your glory. Grateful for your wisdom. We all fall down it’s how we get up, move forward and help others along the way the key to a fulfilled and meaningful life. Your parents must be so proud of you!

    • @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial
      @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much for your comments. I appreciate you watching and for supporting our work. And I think my parents are proud!!

  • @CodeDeb
    @CodeDeb ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That’s nice that some people go out of their way to be kind and welcoming

  • @jackielavelle7974
    @jackielavelle7974 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My brother is 3x in. He's not good outside the wall. Learning a lot from your Videos. You're a calming voice for those in need.

    • @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial
      @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. Wishing you and your family well. We have free weekly webinars each week you all would find valuable.

  • @itsandy9290
    @itsandy9290 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ive never been to federal prison but I love listening to you speak and soaking up your knowledge

    • @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial
      @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much for your nice comments. I’m pleased to know you find value in the work. I’ll keep working hard to produce good stuff!!

    • @drooshmaroosh8261
      @drooshmaroosh8261 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sure we'll be seeing you there soon.

    • @itsandy9290
      @itsandy9290 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@drooshmaroosh8261 You’re a fucking low life bitch for making a comment like that

  • @lss74
    @lss74 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It really really really scares me the thought of going to prison.... petrifies me actually.

  • @sdaiwepm
    @sdaiwepm ปีที่แล้ว +5

    On the topic of dying, I think you'll enjoy reading Four Thousand Weeks, by Oliver Burkeman.

  • @max-jayderomero7743
    @max-jayderomero7743 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A good man, very sound life advice whether in prison or not.

  • @fotogal54
    @fotogal54 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Justin, you are definitely making a difference in people's lives. Thank you and God bless you.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your videos are so helpful. Congrats on 15 years.❤

  • @user-hh8xg7kd4v
    @user-hh8xg7kd4v ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Do you have a link to the blog you mentioned to take notes after reading a book?

    • @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial
      @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, here is the blog from March, 2009: etikallc.com/sixty-one-days-until-my-release-from-taft-prison-camp/

  • @drummersagainstitk
    @drummersagainstitk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You define what contrition means. Thank You.

  • @RobG1729
    @RobG1729 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "We do not ask life what the meaning of life is. Life asks us, what is the meaning of your life. And life demands our answer." • Viktor Frankl

  • @kimc.3104
    @kimc.3104 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well, the reason we "warehouse" the ppl is to determine others from committing similar crimes... this is why Murder punishment is so severe... if it were lighter ... more people would do it. A lot more.

    • @kimc.3104
      @kimc.3104 ปีที่แล้ว

      Deter*** autocorrect...

  • @dianebass5251
    @dianebass5251 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow!

  • @peyo670
    @peyo670 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I plan on never go in prison but love your videos

  • @mr_rn6549
    @mr_rn6549 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed hearing you speak.

  • @montyollie
    @montyollie ปีที่แล้ว

    In #5 when you said you refuse to lay low I had to laugh because I saw an interview with you with Dr Phil and you gave advice to lay low while in prison and don't get caught talking to the guards. I thought that was bad advice then and I think it now. But you do you. I don't appreciate you substituting your experience for everyone's. Some people would do well to lay low after prison AND to talk to the guards while inside. What worked for you doesn't necessarily work for everyone.

  • @deniseblackburn33
    @deniseblackburn33 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wise words

  • @michaelspoto8720
    @michaelspoto8720 ปีที่แล้ว

    what was your favorite prison made meal in your cell with your commissary?

  • @Nicole-ww7bo
    @Nicole-ww7bo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Justin

  • @jw8285
    @jw8285 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Do people still treat you horribly even though they don’t know your story? Like they act holier than thou? Unreal how stupid people are believing what crap they read in a newspaper.

    • @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial
      @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was never treated horribly. There are some people who still judge me for my past. But I don’t care. I focus on those who stand alongside me.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stay away from salt, fat, and sugar or balance them in favor of more nutritious choices. Very important.

    • @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial
      @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว

      Good advice.

    • @alicelong3613
      @alicelong3613 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wrong. There are many hearty fats, keto is awesome and a good treatment for some mental health disorders

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive ปีที่แล้ว

    But maybe Elizabeth will somehow evade ever going in …

  • @Williamb612
    @Williamb612 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A real time David and Goliath story…the only crime here is how both the feds and Amazon handled this situation through bullying and intimidation tactics. Seems to me, all funds confiscated, AND the out of pocket lawyer fees of this family should be restituted.
    This is truly a dark episode which exposes the underbelly of a system skewed heavily toward corporations with power resources and influence.
    If I were Amazon I would make the final charge go away rather than arbitrate it…the negative exposure to their inhumane practices behind the curtain will tarnish their carefully crafted brand promise.
    Also, I hope the family civilly sues…which Amazon will probably settle with them out of court… Amazon ruined this families reputation, which translates into difficulty getting future contracts

    • @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial
      @WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you-I think you left this message on wrong video. Please feel free to move message to other video. Thanks for watching!

  • @artsaucedo8911
    @artsaucedo8911 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    dont go to prison