To all the people saying , oh you’re pretty etc, as a certified ugly girl, this has no effect on me. You don’t have to be pretty to be treated like a person, it isn’t compulsory. Some people don’t fit the standards, and that’s okay.
Is this a joke or... she's literally attractive. She's exactly the kind of girl from the movies who ends up being the prettiest girl in school by taking off her glasses and wearing makeup
While there is nothing wrong with being physically ugly, she is objectively NOT ugly. She feels and thinks she is, probably because she was bullied mercilessly. As she ages and matures, I'm hoping she will feel differently. I was bullied mercilessly all through grade school, middle school, and high school. One boy pretended to ask me out and then immediately walked over to his friends and pointed and laughed at me. My freshman year, some of my male bullies tied me to a flagpole after school and ripped my shirt open to "prove" whether or not I was a girl, because I was so flat-chested and "SHE'S SECRETLY A DUDE" was their favorite narrative to bully me with. I not only graduated high school a virgin, but I had never even been kissed. I'm 30 years old, and I still struggle a bit with my confidence. Most days, I feel decent about my looks, with some bad days sprinkled in. I went from thinking I was hideous and unlovable to feeling confident most days. I'm hoping she will go through the same epiphany I did: That she is NOT ugly, she just had ugly PEOPLE in her life who treated her horribly for one stupid reason or another. I also realized that most of the girls I knew who believed they were ugly were NOT, and THAT made me realize that if all these girls who believe they're ugly are actually pretty, then I might be having the same dysmorphia they are. That mindset also helped with my body as well. I would ask myself "does my stomach shape look bad on this woman?" I would realize it doesn't, so why would it look bad on me? It seems like the older I get, the more I realize I don't know anything about myself. A lot of my perceptions of myself were extremely distorted and just ingrained into me by other people or society. Edit: THIS IS ALSO WHY BULLYING SHOULD BE CRIMINALLY CHARGED, DEPENDING ON THE SEVERITY. IT CAN POTENTIALLY DAMAGE PEOPLE LIFELONG AND CAUSES TEEN SUICIDE TOO OFTEN.
Agree. She's not ugly, but pretty. As an older man, her youth is attractive, but so are her facial features and lack of sluttiness and shallowness. She would be marriage or dating material for a man in his 30s or 40s, however, she's probably so damaged by low self-esteem, she'd be a handful.
She is and she knows it. That makes her perceptive, self-aware, and wise. Don't take that away from her. Don't replace her self-knowledge with delusions and lies.
I agree that people in general are often too hard on themselves in terms of looks or other things... Bullying is a very bad thing to do and should be avoided and stopped as much as possible. Some people (mainly girls) sometimes claim that they are ugly to seek attention and acceptance by people telling them otherwise and cheering them up. I think that the girl from the video just has low self-esteem for some reason... That is sad and the best advice I can give is that mental health and being strong mentally is more important than looks. Because even very good looking people struggle with their self worth and perception of themselves... This goes to show that even if you change your face or your looks in general externally, in the long term it might not be enough to satisfy your inner self criticism... So, in my opinion it's better to start with changing the things that we can control more easily, such as good hygiene to look and feel more clean and tidy, etc. All the best to everyone struggling mentally or in any other way... We are all in this together. Let's support one another. 😎😉😇🙏🕯️
I can't take any compliments. I'm always looking at my reflection when I'm out in public. When friends take pictures of me I'm always just starring at my face HATING it. Shit sucks. Also, I know this doesn't matter but I think you're very cute. Wishing you the best!
Exactly. I hate myself on pictures and knowing that the way I see myself on the mirror is not the way people see me… oh boy it makes me wanna stay at home for the rest of my life 😀
Wow u guys r so cool. SHE doesn’t feel like she’s beautiful. You’re just invalidating how she feels by pitting “how much worse” you are . Let her express her pain without someone comparing
I'm going to be honest with you: you're not ugly. You're not a model (which for some reason we all compare ourselves to), you are a normal girl. You're actually pretty cute. Please stop comparing yourself to people who has access to expensive hair stylist and spend who knows how much time putting on makeup just for a video that is going to be further edited.
@iamme25yago her points are right but the thing is she's not ugly , not even the slightest... her face doesn't match with her experiences, that's why most people will not take her seriously, it seems she's just insecure, not ugly, one day she will find happiness
Exactly like I get beauty standards are crazy but people having to console you for not being supermodel hot when most of us aren’t is silly when you think about it!
@@iamme25yagothe reason its annoying is because when you constantly say it to other people you can’t expect them to just agree when they don’t. If you’re not gonna listen then why even say anything at all to other people, especially to the people close to you bc they probably don’t agree and it’s hurtful when you say things like that and then ask them not to disagree.
I relate to you so much. I never really got compliments growing up and when I did it was like "your clothes look pretty", it was never that *I* looked pretty. The awkward silence from friends when I say that I feel ugly hurts. I also wear glasses and sometimes I go without them because my face will look more blurry and it's harder to see the real me. I cried after I saw myself in the mirror with my glasses, it's like I had 100 more imperfections that I hadn't noticed before.
We have same experiences bruh.When I say I'm ugly they're like "well atleast you have a great personality" like bruh they just admit I'm literally ugly lmao but it hurts and unfortunately,my feelings wouldn't matter to them
Tbh if you complain about being ugly around ur friends it sounds like your fishing for compliments which sounds really insecure. So yeah it's reasonable for someone to not say anything in that situation.
I feel so related, i am always THE ugly girl for my whole life with bucket teeth and thick glasses. Totally nerd nerd. My friends always say they like my personality but i have never received a single compliment as "you look beautiful". I want somebody to say this to me at least once. Having a great personality has nothing to do with feeling confident for me. Girl, let's get through this together. Hope we'll be fine someday.
The first one is so relatable. "Noooooo... you're not.... ugly😞" like im being honest, i dont want pity. It sucks trying to be honest about my feelings and people just shut it down
then don’t bring it up? You can’t be mad at people for trying to make you feel better. I just wonder what you want them to say. I’ve been put in that situation with my best friend often and I truly believe she’s so beautiful so when she says she’s ugly so often of course I get uncomfortable because she really isn’t to me. Then I’m accused of lying or being fake for not agreeing but I’d be mean if I did anyways??
I’m not trying to invalidate the feelings you have but if you don’t want pity then don’t bring up your insecurities and create that negative atmosphere. Everyone struggles with insecurity but their confidence despite those things is what makes them attractive. Just like the girl in this video is NOT ugly and there’s really no such thing. It’s her attitude about herself and others that is making her less attractive in my eyes. However, I don’t know what she’s been through or the things that have happened to make her feel this way but the moment she learns to stop focusing on her physical appearance her outer appearance will automatically become more attractive.
@@natalienoelle9122 "theres no such thing as being ugly" Goodbye. I don't randomly bring up what I look like anymore like I used to when I was young. I usually just respond honestly if I'm given a fake compliment, and thats where my frustration lies with fake pity and fake compliments given to me when I never asked for it nowadays. Its invalidating
@@raepan2797 okay but are you telling yourself they’re fake...? I mean what makes you so sure. Because you’re insecure and believe you’re ugly? Because if that’s the case then this makes sense. It’s so stupid sounding I know, but I genuinely believe that how you feel about yourself will also be how others see you. If you are comfortable with yourself and have confidence in the things you like about yourself others will too and whatever you’re insecure about is overlooked. If you’re constantly self deprecating wether you’re vocal about it or not those opinions of yourself become the opinions of those around you as well because all they know is what you put out 🤷🏼♀️ when you are genuine and confident you attract genuine and confident people who don’t give you those fake compliments. I’m sorry that you feel this way but your mindset has to change if you want anything else to.
Listen girl I'm not saying this to be nice, you're genuinely gorgeous, you have amazing features very sharp and feminine, just a lil more confidence you'll be a diva .
@@helldoefdewf8959 she really isnt ugly tho. If i'm being honest tho shes talking about her experiences and i see that she has braces so she probably was treated bad bc of her teeth maybe?
@@Marie-lk5xq stop. Please, you are invalidating her experience by telling her this. It’s not about what you think as a woman, it’s about what the men think. And if her experience is that she’s ugly, let it be. You can give her advice to improve, but don’t invalidate
@@Marie-lk5xq but that’s how she sees herself and ho the vast majority of people she interacts with see her. To tell her she isn’t is telling her that her entire life experience is wrong, and everything she’s experienced is in her head. Like I said, it’s not what YOU think as an individual. In terms of what the western world thinks, it’s not that hard to see how she’s been treated so badly for her appearance. Forehead size, recessed jaw, glasses, crooked teeth etc. How are you claiming to not realise these all correlate with being ugly in the world we live in???
Everyone in the comments telling her how attractive she looks is missing the point entirely. For instance my entire life I've been told how good looking I am, normally by the people rejecting me and those mandated by biology to love me, but statistics and experiences don't ever lie to you. When you're the only person you know that hasn't dated anyone by eighteen, the only person that nobody talks to because nobody can be bothered remembering your own existence unless you fight for it, or the only person that supports and comforts people that aren't even invested enough to know when you need to be- reality's answers become infinitely more truthful than the righteous lies of those surrounding you. No matter how many strangers may or may not be admiring you from afar, nothing will ever change the soulless one-result constant of your own life, and the consistent results you continuously get given despite every change you ever make, leaving no choice but to accept the reality of the only cause the source of all your misery could possibly be. To argue with the conclusion one has gained from their own existence is to argue with their ability to perceive reality itself.
this is true, harsh reality in highschool, when you not interest anyone, or someone who everyone are laughing at, this is the indicator. Even if you change your image you have still lack of social intelligence, which is need to find a partner in adult life, you are always behind everyone, to the rest of your life...
Edit: Folks, this is an old comment of mine, and I've received enough replies saying: "she's not ugly though," to where I want to address it. No, she's not ugly. I never meant to imply she was, but her perception of herself at the time of this video conveyed that she thought she was ugly. The solution to thinking you are ugly isn't to be told that you aren't. It doesn't work. You instead need to find that you should be proud that you are here, breathing, feeling, experiencing. You have a chance to live, and strive, and fall, grip the dirt under your hands and cry loudly. Laugh unconditionally. Live. People can be shitty to other people (especially girls in high school) for no good reason. We grow, we develop, we change, and we realize that all of those people (us included!) will wrinkle and grey. They will be left with nothing but their unkindness, and you can choose what you want to be left with. Your beauty is what is left behind after all else fades, because believe me, it will. She is beautiful, but it's up to her to determine her self-perception and find worth in herself in other ways. People are persecuted for so many things, and it can be hard to find joy in this world. The politics of attraction will always be unfair, so instead of trying to exist within that unfair sphere, why not try to step outside of it and radically accept who you are in the truest sense possible? Old comment begins here: I’m seeing a ton of people being like “no omg you aren’t ugly, you are so pretty!!” You know what? Why can’t we be ugly in peace without people feeling the need to tell a lie to make us feel better. ITS OKAY TO BE UGLY. it’s okay to say “I’m ugly”. Because being ugly does not deprive someone of the right to be loved and accepted just as much as a conventionally attractive person. You deserve love. You deserve people in your life that care about who you are. You don’t need to be pretty to deserve all of that and be completely worthy of it. Yeah, people can be terrible towards you when you aren’t beautiful, but you are so much more than your vessel, them not seeing that is an issue they have, not something you should feel sorry about or shameful for. People saying “oh, wear some makeup and it’ll be better” or “get a haircut” don’t help. You are only perpetuating the idea that someone must be attractive to achieve happiness and satisfaction in life. You don’t need to “glow up”. You are who you are and I know for a fact that as a human being on this earth, you have interests and goals, you laugh and you cry. Those are so much bigger than what you look like. It’s okay to be insecure sometimes, but don’t forget your worth NO MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE. I wish I could project a hug through the screen or smth, but I can’t, so I’m saying this.
Exactly my thoughts. I hate when people doing this - lying. It's like they do not want hear you out and just shut down by saying "oh you pretty, you just overthinking, so stop complain already". It doesn't help. At all, because we all have mirrors and they show real deal everyday. What people need to hear is that being ugly ISN'T BAD. It does not make you bad person or less worthy of love and happyness. Just dat...not lies.
@@skylitup Good point. Stereotypes of attractiveness are QUITE ARTIFICIAL and Media Money GRUBBING INFLUENCING DRIVES IT HEAVILY. I have seen a COAL BLACK WOMAN BE "THA BOMB!" And SAME, SAME AN ICE WHITE SKIN, OR A BUTTERY BROWN "TONE," ROCKING LIFE. The Inner SPIRIT of some old, humble and SWEET SOUL can INFUSE ONE WITH "RECOGNITION" That YOU have SEEEN "PURE LOVE!" The MOST, BEAUTIFUL THING EVER SEEN. God said "I WILL BEAUTIFY THE MEEK WITH SALVATION." EACH PERSON MATTERS TO HIM, INFINITELY...💖✝️💖🙋 Lisa Rae Rousseau 💯 TRUTH
Here's my issue: Having a lazy eye is the worst, you can't make eye contact with anyone even if you tried, it makes you look stereotypically dumb or broken, ugh
I know it’s stereotypically viewed as a negative trait because of the set beauty standards of symmetry, but I’ve found lots of women attractive who have unique features. Including people with amblyopia and strabismus. People can be absolute garbage about it, but the right person will cherish your features. Not trying to invalidate your experiences btw! Just sharing my perspective.
@@CrookedLady No, you're so right!! I chose not to get the (stupid, inconvenient) eye surgery for the 3rd time because at this point it's kind of a vibe for me. 👋😗🤳
As a ugly person who got told being ugly like 7 times and got death threats😊, getting comments on the Internet, that say:"You're pretty" isn't gonna change their appearance or life. Like,I mean it would make them feel better in real life but on the Internet?C'mon,it honestly feels like as if they're lying tryna make you feel better about existing. But that's totally wrong and the actual solution is giving advices or comforting. You can comfort a person without mentioning their looks,it's making them feel better. You don't have to be pretty to be treated good. :)
I'm not saying it to make you feel better; I think you're objectivelly not ugly. Your face is symmetric (at least in this video it looks like it), you have pretty lips and teeth and overall good facial proportions/harmony. Ugly people usually have bad facial proportions, undeveloped jaw, assymetry etc. I don't have the right to deny your experiences though so I won't do it. I struggle with my own perception of my looks, I grew up bullied and called ugly, and then when I grew up people started calling me attractive, but because of my past experiences I can never 100% believe in what people say and my brain always tells me they're saying things out of pity. I will never know and I will never consider myself attractive, but either ugly or average.
100% what I was thinking. She's not ugly, she's just a little quirky and has odd mannerisms which could put people off. She will grow into her looks, she's young and her features are a little out of proportion. She also purposely doesn't invest anything into her appearance. With a little tweaking she would be just fine.
@@deleted01 That's a pretty ugly statement. She's not ugly at all. Lacks confidence, probably because so many people like yourself have been jerks and telling her she's ugly, and whoever the hairdresser was, they really did a number on her there. A new hairdresser, a few more smiles, and I think she'd be well able to pull any guy she wanted.
@@deleted01beauty or ugliness is always going to be subjective,just as someone loves or hates the taste of certain foods..in my opinion this young lady is certainly not ugly she has unfortunately met some very ugly people
Pretty and Ugly is subjective. I see life as a Baskin Robins Ice Cream shop. Every person is 1. A customer who has their favorite flavor of ice cream (flavor= Traits you want in a friend or partner) Every person is also a Tub of Ice Cream. Their personality, experiences, and appearances all make up the unique flavor. There will always be customers that hate the flavor you represent and usually this will happen more often then not. However There are also customers that completely love the flavor you represent. The challenge is getting the customer into the correct store that has the flavor they love. (right time, right place)
hearing you refer to yourself as ugly helps me to comprehend I might not be as ugly as I think I am. You seriously are a pretty girl, There are ways women highlight there lovely features you obviously have not been exposed to, plus can tell you feel sad and defeated so harder to see yourself for all you are. This is part of my life long struggle, I learned the beauty tricks and people treated me as if I was beautiful. But reality inside I feel same as you do now. I am still traumatized about my looks I just do all the tricks to look my best than forget about it, basicly put all my attention on others to cope. Thing is both fact I am ageing and sometimes people take pictures of me puts me back into trama response OMG I am so ugly. Hugs, find a trusted friend that help you fine tune your beauty that is clearly there, but hope you get help I wish I had to deal with false inner critic.
it’s sad to know that someone this beautiful thinks they’re ugly. i know i wouldn’t be able to change her mind but she genuinely just is pretty. standards are so high at this point, it’s stressful.
Dude I have been exactly where you are and a lot of days I still feel like that, but trust me this is more of a mental issue than anything and I believe if you had regular therapy it would be a lot better for you. I would take so many pictures of myself in jr high and high school and just obsess over how I looked and cry about it so many times, but now at 25 I’m doing a lot better and I’ve realized it’s not really my body I hate, it’s just there are a lot of internal factors that I need to work on in order to feel at peace, and when I’m having a good day I feel absolutely beautiful. You’re a normal girl and you don’t have to be a super model to feel good about yourself! The world’s expectations are weird because we’re so used to seeing people doing the most all the time and yes there are gorgeous people, but trust me your character matters SO MUCH MORE than your looks.
Objectively I can’t believe society made you think that you were ugly. You have a beautiful clean skin, nice coloured eyes and eyebrows, your hair looks healthy your lips are plump you’ve got nice white teeth and a smooth looking nose. You’re literally so pretty, changing glasses that will fit your face shape is gonna help you, I believe that you will look simply gorgeous if you were to part you hair. So pretty
I find it very sad how society especially in high school really is, people are very rude. Keep your head up, this world going to perish one day. You’re not ugly.
It's okay to be ugly, it doesn't matter if you're ugly, you deserve to be respected and be happy Having said that, I highly believe attractiveness is subjective, some people will find you ugly and other will find you pretty, me personally, I think you're gorgeous
I disagree. You can’t just say it’s subjective. I believe deep down you know that a lot of it is objective. I’d say most of it is objective and only a portion of it is subjective.
3:14 That's highly relatable! "They don't feel like you're really worth their time" That hit me so hard! When I was like...12 Since I'm ugly, I've always wanted to look like my friend 'X', I wanted people to treat me like they treated him : ( Believe me, People react different when you're Ugly! One day in my school, the girls rated all the boys in the class based on appearance. I know I'll be at the bottom, I even joked about it to feel better but it turned out I wasn't even in the list! And the worst part is that no one even noticed. I acted like I didn't care but "that hurt" Don't worry, We'll get through this! Lots of love
I had a humiliating experience last night at a restaurant. I was with my mom and she's in her 50s, not in great shape and dressed her age. She's attractive and me... Here I am in my 20s trying to look cute of course and the 2 waiters we had were hitting on her. One acted like I didn't exist. He didn't even try to acknowledge me as a customer! I felt embarrassed and horrible. My mom tried to make me feel better by saying that maybe they were hitting on her so they could get with me. Yeah no, I'm not dumb 😞
@john bonjovie well why are you so unhappy you have to drag others down for being happy???? *They're not stepping on anyone but you clearly are.* Meathead.
everyone saying "oh youre so pretty" "i feel uglier compared to you" is not helping 😭 you think you are but it really does NOT help which is the whole point of the video. EMPATHIZE with her do not pity her, and stop missing the point of the video; which is to share her experience
People that are telling her she's pretty do not pity her, they are simply telling their opinion. She is not ugly, that is the reality. For some people she would be average looking, for others she would pe really pretty ( I find her to be very pretty). Why should we validate something that is objectively not true?
I've always been ugly. I was bullied at school and I don't get the compliments telling me I'm pretty. As an ugly girl I can tell you, I have a partner who loves me, I have great friends, I'm smart enough to live my life as a free woman. So, everything is not about how pretty you are, is about your self-esteem, you don't have the pretty privilege but you deserve to be loved and cared for
Makeup…..the cure to everything 🙄. My mother used to feed me that line, I’d look so much better if only I’d “put on some makeup!” I’m 43 and it still hurts. Pay no attention to that, you don’t need it. You have great skin and lovely eyes! ❤️
Yall in the comments need to stop telling her she's beautiful and cute. The whole point of the video is that you shouldn't need to tell her she's beautiful when she says she's ugly. Being ugly is ok, and it doesn't determine who you are as a person.
You’re a very articulate and smart person. I enjoy a lot of your content, and I think you have a lot of valuable things to share to the world. I am proud of you for enduring the things you have been through! And whether it means anything or not, you are not physically unappealing at all. Take care :)
My childhood, adolescence and young adulthood was ruined because of being an unattractive girl. Other kids, particularly boys, just loooved to tell me I was ugly, like all the time. I made terrible life choices because my self esteem was in the gutter. If I could go back in time, I would make it my priority as soon as I was an adult to find a way to get surgery. For what it’s worth, I think you look fine, but equally I wouldn’t blame you for wanting to change your face. We’re conditioned from a very young age to put HUGE value on our physical appearances. If there’s a way of improving it and and gaining value in society, who can blames you
Hey, who said you are ugly? You are hundred times prettier than me.😊 You have beautiful long straight hair and fair skin. Even your behavior is so genuine and polite. Don't be sad at all. You are pretty I swear.❤❤❤
Being ugly ruined my life. Never get same value I gave. Never been loved or never been single date. Never share my pictures because I look bad. I can’t like myself. While other ppl born naturally attractive I am trying so much to just look some good. Not too good just a bit good. A bit of attractive… but at the end of the day you can’t change yourself and you must be happy alone, for example I can do everything alone. I used to eat my meals alone when I was working outside while my friends were eating as group outside. You must be mentally stronger because it’s with you everywhere you go. And you hundred percent sure you will never be liked so I even stopped trying for relationships, because when you not even attractive they don’t care how kind person you are. It’s been a long time stopped trying for any boy and relationship. Already never been in one as 18 y/o. I was meant be alone maybe, as I was born unattractive.
In fact, having a beautiful voice and good manners is much better than being beautiful but bad-tempered and bad-voiced. I ask a simple question, please tell me honestly.. are you willing to travel with a beautiful but bad-tempered girl for a week? I can't stand such a girl even for a minute😂 No matter how ugly you are, but if you have good manners, everyone will love you and this love will make you look beautiful in the eyes of your friends. That is the truth. Beauty lasts for a limited time..ten years, twenty years..Nicole Kidman was very beautiful, but what about now? Now she is old and she is never as beautiful as a 20-year-old girl
Beauty shines from within. You are a pretty girl, just no inner light. People are feeding off what you think about yourself. Just be you, cultivate your soul and the rest of them can go eat dirt. You'll understand one day, when you do the inner work.
I started feeling ugly in 4th grade when we had those square dances in gym class. The teacher paired me up with my crush and I remember being so excited to dance with her. Later that day, I overheard her talking to her friend saying "I really didn't want to dance with him, he just so ugly." I was devastated for years after that. But I needed to understand back then was that doesn't make me ugly to everyone. Everyone's going to have their own opinion about you, But you can't let those opinions dictate your own self worth. Did you feel ugly before you heard something from someone else? I was never repulsed by my face when I looked at myself in the mirror until that day. We both made picking out flaws and calling ourselves ugly a habit. But in reality, they are only intrusive thoughts. Seeing those thoughts for what they are is one step closer to self acceptance. ❤️
When ppl tryna sideways they responses if I'm ugly or not, it just hurts more lol. Had a friend say I'm unique in features which I understand the sentiments but made me feel like a freak bc unique doesn't equate to pretty.
you're not ugly at all! I think you're extremely pretty and my jaw dropped at the title. I haven't watched the video yet but as someone who was also made to feel like I was ugly my whole life and still working through the trauma and body dysmorphia that comes with that, I understand why anyone would feel this way. I still can't believe it when people tell me they find me pretty but at least I feel a lot more neutral about my appearance now. I'm sending you so much love and support and I hope you can see what we all see when looking at you!
You’re still very young, give it time and you may grow into yourself and begin to like who you see in the mirror. I’m still a young adult myself, but I hated every aspect of my appearance when I was younger, so I think part of maturing is accepting who you are, not accepting that you’re “ugly” but seeing the beauty that you do have. Ugly is subjective, everyone is ugly to someone, and everyone is beautiful to someone.
@@dubrob210 well I think in the princess diary she was pretty before and after but tbh she looks more like Ellen page from inseption all beautiful women
yes about the makeup thing. if i feel like my face is already ugly, WHY draw more attention to it with makeup?! if someone had a horrible pimple, they wouldnt dress it up and make it "pretty" they cover the entire thing. You cant do that with your face unless your wear a whole ass mask
Breaks my heart that you think you are ugly. You are cute, and you are real. Those are two huge, attractive attributes. --- I know ugly... and it ain't you, not even close.
The most important thing we all must learn in life is to learn how to love ourselves. You are beautiful. The problem is low self esteem or no self esteem. God made us in his image you are perfect just the way you are.
Girl I relate. I remember a group of old coworkers wanted to go speed dating. I told them I didn't want to go because I didn't want to be rejected. They just stood there and stared at me. Ive learned to not to open up my insecurities in front of other women. It never helped me.
There's nothing wrong with the way you look. Just be yourself. I used to wear make-up all the time when I was in my 20s and 30s. I don't anymore. I get more compliments the older I get about my looks (54 now). Everyone has different tastes. Don't waste your money changing yourself. Some find the fake eyelashes, surgery and tons of makeup attractive. Some like natural looks. The older you get, you usually start to care less about what others think about you. There's so much more to worry about than looks. You'll see. And btw, in my opinion you are a beautiful girl.
I'm now 34 but I had similar traits to this girl, except the straight teeth with braces. The paleness, dark straight hair, rectangle face shape...and I was considered ugly through high-school and college. Meanwhile I died my hair red, got a bit of color with lip tint and blush and covered by dark eye circles with foundation, and seems like it improved a bit..i was then considered ok-cute. Now, in my 30s make up tricks don't do it anymore. I totally understand where this girl comes from and here are my tips.
I've been told I was ugly ever since I was a little girl. By random strangers, people I thought I was friends with. It's really like they always say, my parents said I was beautiful lol, which is what parents ofcourse will do out of love. Ruined my self esteem for life. I got body dysmorphia because of it which I confused with gender dysphoria (a long with already looking like a butch masculine looking girl which is what I preferred) which led me to transition to male for the wrong reasons. And then I was an ugly dude. You pretty much know you're ugly when people only tell you you're cute once every two years or so. And ofcourse, everyone rejects you and no one wants to date you.
Your beautiful features: - your choice of glasses - your big smile - your teeth after your braces are finished - your straight hair - your eyebrows - your honesty - your nose - your symmetry Just because someone doesn’t meet other beauty standards doesn’t mean they miss out on everything, it’s not a black and white thing, it’s a multiple choice thing, pretty much everyone I know meets at least 1. You meet a lot more than you think you do :)
Ugh I feel you girl. I think I am pretty but I guess in societies eyes I am not, which is so annoying. I notice how differently my pretty friends get treated, like people are usually overly nice to them and just ignore me. I wish that people could see past people’s looks and everyone could get treated like an actual person and not just valued based on their looks. It seems like nowadays you can’t win, because if you are ugly you get no respect, and if you are pretty nobody really cares what you have to say or if you are smart at all, because you look good.
I was enjoying a delicious meal that my wife cooked. When she pointed out that she overcooked or over seasoned something, it put my focus on something I would never have noticed otherwise. You are very brave, now you just need to be confident to complete the package that people find attractive.
I needed this. I'm having a really hard time. I've considered suicide over my looks. I have a boyfriend who tells me I'm beautiful, luckily. My family picked apart my appearance growing up and I was bullied in school. Now in my mid 20s, all of this has finally caught up to me and I'm severely depressed. Still considering ending my life. Good to know I'm not alone
You may want to consider that your boyfriend is right, you're not ugly, your problem stems from what people have said to you over the years. I won't pretend to know all about you but I can guess that you ruminate on your looks and like a needle on a record, this rumination has worn a groove in your thinking where you cannot change your opinion of yourself.
@@eve9981 bruh she's just telling she's ugly with her pfp that fits the beauty standard so she would gain people to comment "but you're so pretty!" don't fall for this people .She knows she's not ugly but she said she is because,again,that would gain more validation and compliments
Hey kid, listen. Whoever told you that you’re ugly that person or those people they are hideous. You are not ugly. You have a cute personality and you’re going to blossom into an incredibly beautiful woman. Everyone watching this video sees it. You need to stop telling yourself that you’re ugly. You are not ugly. Start using more positive self talk. If you constantly tell yourself you’re ugly you’re going to attract people and situations that support that mindset. Use more positive, loving language with yourself and you will attract people who agree with those thoughts. Research the law of attraction. It’s a fascinating topic. You are not ugly. You’re a human being who deserves to feel attractive, so be nice to yourself. 🙏🏼
Yes girl i feel you! I am the ugly and the "smart" one in our group. I once give advice to my friend abt his boyfriend. Then literally he said you are jealous of your friends happiness so you are trying to make her break up with me. It's tough to be ugly sometimes.
You're not ugly! And you look so young (which is a good thing). I spent the whole of my teens and part of my 20's feeling so bad about myself. I'm 40 now, and feel the best I've ever felt. Trust me on this, one day you will be comfortable in your own skin. Do whatever you want. Wear makeup/don't wear makeup. Ditch the glasses/keep the glasses. Do what makes you feel good. And do it for you, not for anyone else ❤
As a hairstylist I am so sorry other hairstylists made you feel like “you’re not worth their time” First you absolutely are and second how unprofessional and just plainly rude of them! A customer is a customer no matter their looks or personality or id we like them or not! We’re here to give you the haircut you want and it doesn’t depend on the customer wether or not a hairstylist cut’s good or bad or rushes, that’s on the hairstylist (Sure some haircuts look better in certain faceshapes and so on but you can still cut the hair in a good way…)
You had me laughing at myself . I made a video also about me being ugly.. but to hear someone else say it , kinda funny. Like when we say " I don't like my face".. but damn it's like a whole face , not like we can replace the whole head .lol .. I so feel you on everything . We should all have a Ugly meet up group..lol I bet we would share many laughs , At least we all have personality. I definitely don't believe you're ugly , but I already know when we feel that way it doesn't matter what others say.. Thanks for making this video ❤️❤️❤️ I share your feelings my dear..
Its unfortunate that usually the person who makes you feel the worst is yourself. Ive been that way my whole life. Its just not true. You're a cutie pie. Please, stop feeling that way about yourself. You're the most beautiful flower waiting to bloom, you're suppressing the wonderful light that's inside you by thinking that way. You are NOT ugly.
When a perfectly natural beautiful girl says she is ugly we know society failed and i only hope my 6y old daughter will see herself differently and accept the natural beauty nature gave her.
I'm ugly too, so I can emphasize. I think people do not understand why it is difficult to be ugly. We simply do not want to be beautiful, but we are tired of being bullied for our appearance, something we have not chosen. Ugly is a physical description such as fat, thin, tall, short. There is nothing wrong with being unattractive, so people should not call ugliness beautiful, it is just dishonest and it will hurt the person more. Let me know if you want to be friends and talk.
I’m a ugly guy & during lunchtime in high school, this dude had a drawing of my face & showed it to everyone. Everyone laughed & pointed at me, my forehead’s a little big, I have a weird pointy chin, they called me MegaMind. It was horrible, my anxiety skyrocketed that day, I just had to sit there & hear them laugh at me. I hate people
)): finally a video that truly explains the way it feels in words that aren’t out of pity. I can feel your genuine thoughts, and it’s quite sad I relate so strongly. the point you made about haircuts and makeup though? that hit a little too close to home for comfort. haircuts.. literally they never take time to do anything nice, I’m in for all of five minutes and sent back out. I look worse each time. Makeup.. doesn’t change anything either. Literally compliments what features you already had. So I didn’t bother with it because I feel like makeup will only draw attention to all my flaws. So I get what you mean- it being ‘tedious’. I hope you’re alright though )): you’re a lovely person and your feelings are ofc 100% valid, but I just want you to know that you are beautiful- even if you can’t see that yet. I hope you can find self love because you deserve happiness
I feel you girl. I relate much. I am a 38 yrs old housewife. And i have a looot of acne scars those box scars are really hard to conceal even with make up. Im not even good at applying make up so for me whenever i go out i prep myself mentally because ive been diagnosed with depression and a lot of things its hard tho whenever my husband and i go out specially with family outings i still feel alone they often tell.me dont them even if they insult you or stuff or thats its all in my head so i bottled it up there are time when eating becomes a problem i throw so i get to loose weight then i gain them again. Im still suffering tho anxiety and triggers are a problem now because i have to keep it all to myself when i let out and tell those people what heck is their problem i get to be the one scolded by my family. They said that i dont have to do that just ignore them for 10 years until now they didnt stop.... I have NIGHTMARE NEIGHBORS from Hell here. Gossips really do damage slowly...
I'm a good looking dude and I would accept you instantly. I feel for you cos you seem trapped in a negative feedback loop when it shouldn't even be there in the first place. Our brains do this even when things are fine. You're aesthetically perfectly fine young lady and I hope you learn this.
I know you won't believe me but don't forget: Contact lenses make a very huge difference. Your braces won't stay forever. Your skin will be thankful that you don't wear make up and people can/will tell. And i think what will help is a therapy. Seriously, no joke. It is possible that you have a bodydysmorphic disorder. Because you are not ugly. Not one bit. There will always be people who think you look weird, but there will also be people who would kill to look like you.
Hey. I started watching your channel because I can relate, especially when u described being asked out as a joke. I used to be hit on as a joke in middle school. I wish I could hug you.
To the girl in this video: 😊get contacts, get bangs, and maybe some makeup and you’ll be more attractive. Your not so ugly that people will stare… you have a nice body, you’re slim, and you have straight nice hair and nice skin. You can enhance yourself
This video is so real and relatable. I've grown up ugly, still am. Like it's a feeling that follows you everywhere, you know people pity you when someone mentions attractiveness and you just feel out of place... idk it's my experience
Hello, I'm an ugly guy!I can relate to everything you've just said!Some people are straight up jerks!Not everyone treated me badly, but many people did!
You’re pretty !! I admire your bravery and honesty to share painful experiences, but you look perfect to me. Perhaps you’ve had the misfortune of being surrounded by narcissists. Narcs are attracted to strength, virtue, AND beauty… but their reflections are like funhouse mirrors, distorting our true essence and value. It’s by convincing us we’re worth less than we are that they can gain and maintain control over us. Narcs always choose the worthy to attack and confuse. I used to have body dysmorphic disorder so bad… In high school I felt guilty people had to look at me, and I was treated as less-than, as I perceived myself to be. As I healed on the inside, my outer world started reflecting my status an attractive and valuable woman. May you discover your beauty in spades! You’ve got it.
I understand this 100000% because I feel like I’m so ugly . I know I’m so ugly! And it hurts because I reallllllyyyyyy wish I was I was beautiful. I have alopecia. I have 2 bald spots on the side of my head . I cry everyday I had a breast augmentation. I’ll Definitely be doing things to my face when I get the money . Because I definitely don’t want to wear makeup everyday . It’s definitely just a cover up ! Including the wigs it’s just a cover up !
You’re not ugly at all… I think you just need more people around to encourage you and help build your confidence… having a beautiful soul is waaay better than an outward appearance 🥰
I Am an "ugly" girl, and what i like to do is work on My Inner Self , because One Day EVERYONE is going to lose their looks. So that's what I work on Myself. You seem to have a Kindness about You. Don't try to fit beauty standards. Just be Kind and Loving ❤️
Man, society has really got people messed up. You have people like her who really don’t think enough of themselves and then you have people who for some reason think they are gods gift. You really aren’t ugly, really really not, but if you will never have your mind changed about that then try to accept how you feel about yourself and you’ll feel better.
@@spaketticarbonada9651 Well beauty is subjective. I personally think all her features line up with the beauty standard like I’d pay to have her lips and nose!!! Nothing ugly about her at all
To all the people saying , oh you’re pretty etc, as a certified ugly girl, this has no effect on me. You don’t have to be pretty to be treated like a person, it isn’t compulsory. Some people don’t fit the standards, and that’s okay.
yeah but I genuinely dont think she is unattractive at all, she's really cute. Definitely agree with your statement though
That's true and I can relate to it, but I genuinely don't think that she's unattractive
but she isnt ugly
Self asteem is all you need and makeup
Yes, I agree with this so much
When you tell someone they are ugly, you hurt their soul. Some never come out of it. Treat each other well.
@@user-qt4ug5of7f I’m sorry he said that to you, I’m sure you’re not ugly at all
Trust me I had girls say eww to me and it hurts
I don't find anyone ugly . I always compare people to myself then it makes them beautiful in my eyes. I don't know if it's toxic or somethin
Big facts
@@arenaplay8714 if you see me you will die I am ugly as fuck maybe ugliest in entire world
You are not ugly , telling yourself that you are will cause more emotional stress. You are the type of girl i would date . Keep positive. ❤
Is this a joke or... she's literally attractive. She's exactly the kind of girl from the movies who ends up being the prettiest girl in school by taking off her glasses and wearing makeup
Ikr
stop trolling her
She is just crazy! What ugly?
right! lol society sucks lol
She prob did this for attention
While there is nothing wrong with being physically ugly, she is objectively NOT ugly. She feels and thinks she is, probably because she was bullied mercilessly. As she ages and matures, I'm hoping she will feel differently.
I was bullied mercilessly all through grade school, middle school, and high school. One boy pretended to ask me out and then immediately walked over to his friends and pointed and laughed at me. My freshman year, some of my male bullies tied me to a flagpole after school and ripped my shirt open to "prove" whether or not I was a girl, because I was so flat-chested and "SHE'S SECRETLY A DUDE" was their favorite narrative to bully me with. I not only graduated high school a virgin, but I had never even been kissed. I'm 30 years old, and I still struggle a bit with my confidence. Most days, I feel decent about my looks, with some bad days sprinkled in. I went from thinking I was hideous and unlovable to feeling confident most days. I'm hoping she will go through the same epiphany I did: That she is NOT ugly, she just had ugly PEOPLE in her life who treated her horribly for one stupid reason or another.
I also realized that most of the girls I knew who believed they were ugly were NOT, and THAT made me realize that if all these girls who believe they're ugly are actually pretty, then I might be having the same dysmorphia they are. That mindset also helped with my body as well. I would ask myself "does my stomach shape look bad on this woman?" I would realize it doesn't, so why would it look bad on me? It seems like the older I get, the more I realize I don't know anything about myself. A lot of my perceptions of myself were extremely distorted and just ingrained into me by other people or society.
Edit: THIS IS ALSO WHY BULLYING SHOULD BE CRIMINALLY CHARGED, DEPENDING ON THE SEVERITY. IT CAN POTENTIALLY DAMAGE PEOPLE LIFELONG AND CAUSES TEEN SUICIDE TOO OFTEN.
Agree. She's not ugly, but pretty. As an older man, her youth is attractive, but so are her facial features and lack of sluttiness and shallowness. She would be marriage or dating material for a man in his 30s or 40s, however, she's probably so damaged by low self-esteem, she'd be a handful.
thats why forced education should be a crime, they send us there to be tortured and to torture others!
She is and she knows it. That makes her perceptive, self-aware, and wise. Don't take that away from her. Don't replace her self-knowledge with delusions and lies.
@deleted01 Bro, I don't think you know the difference between ugly and just average. She's like a 6-7. That's not ugly.
I agree that people in general are often too hard on themselves in terms of looks or other things... Bullying is a very bad thing to do and should be avoided and stopped as much as possible. Some people (mainly girls) sometimes claim that they are ugly to seek attention and acceptance by people telling them otherwise and cheering them up. I think that the girl from the video just has low self-esteem for some reason... That is sad and the best advice I can give is that mental health and being strong mentally is more important than looks. Because even very good looking people struggle with their self worth and perception of themselves... This goes to show that even if you change your face or your looks in general externally, in the long term it might not be enough to satisfy your inner self criticism... So, in my opinion it's better to start with changing the things that we can control more easily, such as good hygiene to look and feel more clean and tidy, etc. All the best to everyone struggling mentally or in any other way... We are all in this together. Let's support one another. 😎😉😇🙏🕯️
Telling a girl she's pretty just to make her feel better is even worse than calling her unattractive.
Exactly what the comment section did in this video, which is sad.
I can't take any compliments. I'm always looking at my reflection when I'm out in public. When friends take pictures of me I'm always just starring at my face HATING it. Shit sucks. Also, I know this doesn't matter but I think you're very cute. Wishing you the best!
I can totally relate to everything you just said!
When my friends try to take pictures I hide my face or look away. I hate it.
Exactly. I hate myself on pictures and knowing that the way I see myself on the mirror is not the way people see me… oh boy it makes me wanna stay at home for the rest of my life 😀
Me too. I need to accept the fact im ugly🤷♀️
Me too. I hate looking at my pictures
This girl isn’t ugly LMAO, I feel horrendous compared to her
In fact, maybe she would even dump me lol
True if she's ugly then I don't know what the hell am I ? Lmfao
i feel the same
I look like a frying pan with oil lol
Wow u guys r so cool. SHE doesn’t feel like she’s beautiful. You’re just invalidating how she feels by pitting “how much worse” you are . Let her express her pain without someone comparing
I’m sorry you feel ugly. No one is perfect but the way you carry your self, your self confidence is what makes the difference.
Sadly for some of us, if we are ugly...we have no self confidence
I thought no body is perfect until I knew Jang Wonyoung..so I thought "No body is perfect? Yeah nah"
I'm going to be honest with you: you're not ugly. You're not a model (which for some reason we all compare ourselves to), you are a normal girl. You're actually pretty cute. Please stop comparing yourself to people who has access to expensive hair stylist and spend who knows how much time putting on makeup just for a video that is going to be further edited.
wtf is wrong with you@Erick.02
@Erick.02 What does that make you?
@iamme25yago her points are right but the thing is she's not ugly , not even the slightest... her face doesn't match with her experiences, that's why most people will not take her seriously, it seems she's just insecure, not ugly, one day she will find happiness
Exactly like I get beauty standards are crazy but people having to console you for not being supermodel hot when most of us aren’t is silly when you think about it!
@@iamme25yagothe reason its annoying is because when you constantly say it to other people you can’t expect them to just agree when they don’t. If you’re not gonna listen then why even say anything at all to other people, especially to the people close to you bc they probably don’t agree and it’s hurtful when you say things like that and then ask them not to disagree.
not ugly at all. i’m not even saying this to make you feel better, your super cute like deadass
exactly thats what i thought?? shes cute as hell
She has a great voice too
I agree, she's so cute and she is not ugly but in fact, the people like to let her down to feel better. She is beautiful the people are ugly
I think exactly the same!!!!!
She's being rejected by guys she finds attractive so she feels ugly.
you are not ugly🤦😮😮😮😮😮 you're a beautiful person inside and out its so sad that people can't see that, shine bright girl👍
Cap
Calling someone beautiful on the inside is just a backhand compliment
I relate to you so much. I never really got compliments growing up and when I did it was like "your clothes look pretty", it was never that *I* looked pretty. The awkward silence from friends when I say that I feel ugly hurts. I also wear glasses and sometimes I go without them because my face will look more blurry and it's harder to see the real me. I cried after I saw myself in the mirror with my glasses, it's like I had 100 more imperfections that I hadn't noticed before.
I just got glasses and I feel the same
Have stylish eyewear
We have same experiences bruh.When I say I'm ugly they're like "well atleast you have a great personality" like bruh they just admit I'm literally ugly lmao but it hurts and unfortunately,my feelings wouldn't matter to them
Tbh if you complain about being ugly around ur friends it sounds like your fishing for compliments which sounds really insecure. So yeah it's reasonable for someone to not say anything in that situation.
Thats so sad! What makes you ugly in your opinion? Have you tried fashionable glasses, lipstick? Wax eyebrows and just practice self care!
I feel so related, i am always THE ugly girl for my whole life with bucket teeth and thick glasses. Totally nerd nerd. My friends always say they like my personality but i have never received a single compliment as "you look beautiful". I want somebody to say this to me at least once. Having a great personality has nothing to do with feeling confident for me. Girl, let's get through this together. Hope we'll be fine someday.
I tried to make out your picture and from what I could see you look pretty to me.
You have beautiful hair
i can be your friend
Soo true...like when ppl say u r soo kind,talented n stuff I feel like pls for 1 godamn time pls say I am pretty enough
Nerd girls are always the most beautiful
You are literally so gorgeous and it is so sad you don’t know it. Just remember to be confident in who you are ❤❤❤
The first one is so relatable. "Noooooo... you're not.... ugly😞" like im being honest, i dont want pity. It sucks trying to be honest about my feelings and people just shut it down
then don’t bring it up? You can’t be mad at people for trying to make you feel better. I just wonder what you want them to say. I’ve been put in that situation with my best friend often and I truly believe she’s so beautiful so when she says she’s ugly so often of course I get uncomfortable because she really isn’t to me. Then I’m accused of lying or being fake for not agreeing but I’d be mean if I did anyways??
I’m not trying to invalidate the feelings you have but if you don’t want pity then don’t bring up your insecurities and create that negative atmosphere. Everyone struggles with insecurity but their confidence despite those things is what makes them attractive. Just like the girl in this video is NOT ugly and there’s really no such thing. It’s her attitude about herself and others that is making her less attractive in my eyes. However, I don’t know what she’s been through or the things that have happened to make her feel this way but the moment she learns to stop focusing on her physical appearance her outer appearance will automatically become more attractive.
exactly
@@natalienoelle9122 "theres no such thing as being ugly" Goodbye. I don't randomly bring up what I look like anymore like I used to when I was young. I usually just respond honestly if I'm given a fake compliment, and thats where my frustration lies with fake pity and fake compliments given to me when I never asked for it nowadays. Its invalidating
@@raepan2797 okay but are you telling yourself they’re fake...? I mean what makes you so sure. Because you’re insecure and believe you’re ugly? Because if that’s the case then this makes sense. It’s so stupid sounding I know, but I genuinely believe that how you feel about yourself will also be how others see you. If you are comfortable with yourself and have confidence in the things you like about yourself others will too and whatever you’re insecure about is overlooked. If you’re constantly self deprecating wether you’re vocal about it or not those opinions of yourself become the opinions of those around you as well because all they know is what you put out 🤷🏼♀️ when you are genuine and confident you attract genuine and confident people who don’t give you those fake compliments. I’m sorry that you feel this way but your mindset has to change if you want anything else to.
Listen girl I'm not saying this to be nice, you're genuinely gorgeous, you have amazing features very sharp and feminine, just a lil more confidence you'll be a diva .
I hate people like you, say anything to make people happy so no one knows whats real anymore
@@helldoefdewf8959 she really isnt ugly tho. If i'm being honest tho shes talking about her experiences and i see that she has braces so she probably was treated bad bc of her teeth maybe?
@@Marie-lk5xq stop. Please, you are invalidating her experience by telling her this.
It’s not about what you think as a woman, it’s about what the men think. And if her experience is that she’s ugly, let it be. You can give her advice to improve, but don’t invalidate
@@themarathoncontinues4211 im not invalidating it i just genuinely dont see how shes ugly
@@Marie-lk5xq but that’s how she sees herself and ho the vast majority of people she interacts with see her.
To tell her she isn’t is telling her that her entire life experience is wrong, and everything she’s experienced is in her head.
Like I said, it’s not what YOU think as an individual. In terms of what the western world thinks, it’s not that hard to see how she’s been treated so badly for her appearance.
Forehead size, recessed jaw, glasses, crooked teeth etc. How are you claiming to not realise these all correlate with being ugly in the world we live in???
Everyone in the comments telling her how attractive she looks is missing the point entirely. For instance my entire life I've been told how good looking I am, normally by the people rejecting me and those mandated by biology to love me, but statistics and experiences don't ever lie to you. When you're the only person you know that hasn't dated anyone by eighteen, the only person that nobody talks to because nobody can be bothered remembering your own existence unless you fight for it, or the only person that supports and comforts people that aren't even invested enough to know when you need to be- reality's answers become infinitely more truthful than the righteous lies of those surrounding you.
No matter how many strangers may or may not be admiring you from afar, nothing will ever change the soulless one-result constant of your own life, and the consistent results you continuously get given despite every change you ever make, leaving no choice but to accept the reality of the only cause the source of all your misery could possibly be. To argue with the conclusion one has gained from their own existence is to argue with their ability to perceive reality itself.
this is true, harsh reality in highschool, when you not interest anyone, or someone who everyone are laughing at, this is the indicator. Even if you change your image you have still lack of social intelligence, which is need to find a partner in adult life, you are always behind everyone, to the rest of your life...
Edit: Folks, this is an old comment of mine, and I've received enough replies saying: "she's not ugly though," to where I want to address it. No, she's not ugly. I never meant to imply she was, but her perception of herself at the time of this video conveyed that she thought she was ugly. The solution to thinking you are ugly isn't to be told that you aren't. It doesn't work. You instead need to find that you should be proud that you are here, breathing, feeling, experiencing. You have a chance to live, and strive, and fall, grip the dirt under your hands and cry loudly. Laugh unconditionally. Live. People can be shitty to other people (especially girls in high school) for no good reason. We grow, we develop, we change, and we realize that all of those people (us included!) will wrinkle and grey. They will be left with nothing but their unkindness, and you can choose what you want to be left with. Your beauty is what is left behind after all else fades, because believe me, it will. She is beautiful, but it's up to her to determine her self-perception and find worth in herself in other ways. People are persecuted for so many things, and it can be hard to find joy in this world. The politics of attraction will always be unfair, so instead of trying to exist within that unfair sphere, why not try to step outside of it and radically accept who you are in the truest sense possible?
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I’m seeing a ton of people being like “no omg you aren’t ugly, you are so pretty!!”
You know what? Why can’t we be ugly in peace without people feeling the need to tell a lie to make us feel better. ITS OKAY TO BE UGLY. it’s okay to say “I’m ugly”. Because being ugly does not deprive someone of the right to be loved and accepted just as much as a conventionally attractive person. You deserve love. You deserve people in your life that care about who you are. You don’t need to be pretty to deserve all of that and be completely worthy of it. Yeah, people can be terrible towards you when you aren’t beautiful, but you are so much more than your vessel, them not seeing that is an issue they have, not something you should feel sorry about or shameful for.
People saying “oh, wear some makeup and it’ll be better” or “get a haircut” don’t help. You are only perpetuating the idea that someone must be attractive to achieve happiness and satisfaction in life. You don’t need to “glow up”. You are who you are and I know for a fact that as a human being on this earth, you have interests and goals, you laugh and you cry. Those are so much bigger than what you look like. It’s okay to be insecure sometimes, but don’t forget your worth NO MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE. I wish I could project a hug through the screen or smth, but I can’t, so I’m saying this.
Exactly my thoughts. I hate when people doing this - lying. It's like they do not want hear you out and just shut down by saying "oh you pretty, you just overthinking, so stop complain already". It doesn't help. At all, because we all have mirrors and they show real deal everyday. What people need to hear is that being ugly ISN'T BAD. It does not make you bad person or less worthy of love and happyness. Just dat...not lies.
While it's ok to be "ugly", it is not a lie when some people see her as pretty. You think everyone has the same standards?
@@skylitup Good point. Stereotypes of attractiveness are QUITE ARTIFICIAL and Media Money GRUBBING INFLUENCING DRIVES IT HEAVILY. I have seen a COAL BLACK WOMAN BE "THA BOMB!" And SAME, SAME AN ICE WHITE SKIN, OR A BUTTERY BROWN "TONE," ROCKING LIFE. The Inner SPIRIT of some old, humble and SWEET SOUL can INFUSE ONE WITH "RECOGNITION" That YOU have SEEEN "PURE LOVE!" The MOST, BEAUTIFUL THING EVER SEEN.
God said "I WILL BEAUTIFY THE MEEK WITH SALVATION."
EACH PERSON MATTERS TO HIM, INFINITELY...💖✝️💖🙋
Lisa Rae Rousseau 💯 TRUTH
Cope more
i love you so much
Here's my issue: Having a lazy eye is the worst, you can't make eye contact with anyone even if you tried, it makes you look stereotypically dumb or broken, ugh
If you get to know the person, then I never saw it as a big deal. It's more of a surprise when the person is a stranger
@@cooliest2267 that helps me, thank u :>
I know it’s stereotypically viewed as a negative trait because of the set beauty standards of symmetry, but I’ve found lots of women attractive who have unique features. Including people with amblyopia and strabismus. People can be absolute garbage about it, but the right person will cherish your features.
Not trying to invalidate your experiences btw! Just sharing my perspective.
@@CrookedLady No, you're so right!! I chose not to get the (stupid, inconvenient) eye surgery for the 3rd time because at this point it's kind of a vibe for me. 👋😗🤳
@@CrookedLady I always hate my nose ☹️☹️☹️😔
As a ugly person who got told being ugly like 7 times and got death threats😊, getting comments on the Internet, that say:"You're pretty" isn't gonna change their appearance or life. Like,I mean it would make them feel better in real life but on the Internet?C'mon,it honestly feels like as if they're lying tryna make you feel better about existing. But that's totally wrong and the actual solution is giving advices or comforting. You can comfort a person without mentioning their looks,it's making them feel better. You don't have to be pretty to be treated good. :)
yes this. Also when you talk about your plastic surgery plans they agree sometimes.
Plastic surgery won't fix your shitty genetics
@@lionelronaldo7156 trust me it can. But it depends on what you're getting.
@@queena588 I want plastic surgery but I dont have money Im so saaad
If people like starts getting cosmetic surgery then I'm 100% doomed lol.
this is so true, i have even been told to get a nose job
I'm not saying it to make you feel better; I think you're objectivelly not ugly. Your face is symmetric (at least in this video it looks like it), you have pretty lips and teeth and overall good facial proportions/harmony. Ugly people usually have bad facial proportions, undeveloped jaw, assymetry etc. I don't have the right to deny your experiences though so I won't do it. I struggle with my own perception of my looks, I grew up bullied and called ugly, and then when I grew up people started calling me attractive, but because of my past experiences I can never 100% believe in what people say and my brain always tells me they're saying things out of pity. I will never know and I will never consider myself attractive, but either ugly or average.
100% what I was thinking. She's not ugly, she's just a little quirky and has odd mannerisms which could put people off. She will grow into her looks, she's young and her features are a little out of proportion. She also purposely doesn't invest anything into her appearance. With a little tweaking she would be just fine.
don't lie to her. it's helping no one.
@@deleted01 That's a pretty ugly statement. She's not ugly at all. Lacks confidence, probably because so many people like yourself have been jerks and telling her she's ugly, and whoever the hairdresser was, they really did a number on her there. A new hairdresser, a few more smiles, and I think she'd be well able to pull any guy she wanted.
@@deleted01 Instarius isn't lying, and neither am I. If you think she's physically ugly, that's on you. You have no business invalidating our opinion.
@@deleted01beauty or ugliness is always going to be subjective,just as someone loves or hates the taste of certain foods..in my opinion this young lady is certainly not ugly she has unfortunately met some very ugly people
Pretty and Ugly is subjective. I see life as a Baskin Robins Ice Cream shop.
Every person is 1. A customer who has their favorite flavor of ice cream (flavor= Traits you want in a friend or partner)
Every person is also a Tub of Ice Cream. Their personality, experiences, and appearances all make up the unique flavor.
There will always be customers that hate the flavor you represent and usually this will happen more often then not. However
There are also customers that completely love the flavor you represent. The challenge is getting the customer into the correct store that has the flavor they love. (right time, right place)
hearing you refer to yourself as ugly helps me to comprehend I might not be as ugly as I think I am. You seriously are a pretty girl, There are ways women highlight there lovely features you obviously have not been exposed to, plus can tell you feel sad and defeated so harder to see yourself for all you are. This is part of my life long struggle, I learned the beauty tricks and people treated me as if I was beautiful. But reality inside I feel same as you do now. I am still traumatized about my looks I just do all the tricks to look my best than forget about it, basicly put all my attention on others to cope. Thing is both fact I am ageing and sometimes people take pictures of me puts me back into trama response OMG I am so ugly. Hugs, find a trusted friend that help you fine tune your beauty that is clearly there, but hope you get help I wish I had to deal with false inner critic.
Ugly? Certainly not ugly at all!
it’s sad to know that someone this beautiful thinks they’re ugly. i know i wouldn’t be able to change her mind but she genuinely just is pretty. standards are so high at this point, it’s stressful.
Dude I have been exactly where you are and a lot of days I still feel like that, but trust me this is more of a mental issue than anything and I believe if you had regular therapy it would be a lot better for you. I would take so many pictures of myself in jr high and high school and just obsess over how I looked and cry about it so many times, but now at 25 I’m doing a lot better and I’ve realized it’s not really my body I hate, it’s just there are a lot of internal factors that I need to work on in order to feel at peace, and when I’m having a good day I feel absolutely beautiful. You’re a normal girl and you don’t have to be a super model to feel good about yourself! The world’s expectations are weird because we’re so used to seeing people doing the most all the time and yes there are gorgeous people, but trust me your character matters SO MUCH MORE than your looks.
"your character matters SO MUCH MORE than your looks" - is actually what she hates when people say, ans she does not believe it (._. )
Objectively I can’t believe society made you think that you were ugly. You have a beautiful clean skin, nice coloured eyes and eyebrows, your hair looks healthy your lips are plump you’ve got nice white teeth and a smooth looking nose. You’re literally so pretty, changing glasses that will fit your face shape is gonna help you, I believe that you will look simply gorgeous if you were to part you hair. So pretty
It's how people make you feel.
I find it very sad how society especially in high school really is, people are very rude. Keep your head up, this world going to perish one day. You’re not ugly.
And I'm a weirdo about eyes too. You're stunning, I wish I was as pretty as you. Makeup is a way of falsifying yourself. Stand strong girl 💪
It's okay to be ugly, it doesn't matter if you're ugly, you deserve to be respected and be happy
Having said that, I highly believe attractiveness is subjective, some people will find you ugly and other will find you pretty, me personally, I think you're gorgeous
I disagree. You can’t just say it’s subjective. I believe deep down you know that a lot of it is objective. I’d say most of it is objective and only a portion of it is subjective.
Yeah I disagree... attractiveness is mostly objective. That said, this girl is cute af
It's always attractive people that say this, like rich people saying money isn't so important lol
3:14 That's highly relatable! "They don't feel like you're really worth their time" That hit me so hard!
When I was like...12 Since I'm ugly, I've always wanted to look like my friend 'X', I wanted people to treat me like they treated him : (
Believe me, People react different when you're Ugly! One day in my school, the girls rated all the boys in the class based on appearance. I know I'll be at the bottom, I even joked about it to feel better but it turned out I wasn't even in the list! And the worst part is that no one even noticed. I acted like I didn't care but "that hurt"
Don't worry, We'll get through this! Lots of love
@chicken barbie Well said! Let's be kind to everyone. If people can hate you for no reason, I can Love!
I am a mother of grown kids and I am here to tell you that you are not ugly. You are pretty. It's a matter of how you groom yourself. 😊❤
I had a humiliating experience last night at a restaurant. I was with my mom and she's in her 50s, not in great shape and dressed her age. She's attractive and me... Here I am in my 20s trying to look cute of course and the 2 waiters we had were hitting on her. One acted like I didn't exist. He didn't even try to acknowledge me as a customer! I felt embarrassed and horrible. My mom tried to make me feel better by saying that maybe they were hitting on her so they could get with me. Yeah no, I'm not dumb 😞
@@MN-so7xr what mean type?
This has happened to me too
Just for a different perspective, maybe the 2 waiters were hitting on your mom hoping for a good tip
Maybe they thought you were underage. Which, in that case, they'd be doing the right thing not hitting on someone who may look like a teenager.
lmao💀💀💀
"If i had money i would fix it, but i dont have money". Well well, thats me
@@haristhebosniaklion8584 you are so beautiful
You are not ugly !!!!!! You are so cute! I dont know how you ended up feeling ugly
Girl you look soooo much better than me but I've never thought I was ugly 😭
Well I think you look better
Lol
@john bonjovie what u saying? she should think she ugly? get outt mann
@john bonjovie bruh no, that’s not a good way to live tf
@john bonjovie well why are you so unhappy you have to drag others down for being happy???? *They're not stepping on anyone but you clearly are.* Meathead.
everyone saying "oh youre so pretty" "i feel uglier compared to you" is not helping 😭 you think you are but it really does NOT help which is the whole point of the video. EMPATHIZE with her do not pity her, and stop missing the point of the video; which is to share her experience
They're just saying she's pretty in THEIR opinion. They're not telling her to call herself pretty
People that are telling her she's pretty do not pity her, they are simply telling their opinion. She is not ugly, that is the reality. For some people she would be average looking, for others she would pe really pretty ( I find her to be very pretty). Why should we validate something that is objectively not true?
But she ain’t ugly tho, I’m being dead ass, she looks nice
It’s not pity, pity is telling lies, people are just saying that she’s not ugly compared to them which for them is actually a fact.
We aren't pitying her lol I think she's rlly genuinely pretty. She isn't even wearing makeup or anything- wish I looked like that without makeup
I've always been ugly. I was bullied at school and I don't get the compliments telling me I'm pretty. As an ugly girl I can tell you, I have a partner who loves me, I have great friends, I'm smart enough to live my life as a free woman. So, everything is not about how pretty you are, is about your self-esteem, you don't have the pretty privilege but you deserve to be loved and cared for
Makeup…..the cure to everything 🙄. My mother used to feed me that line, I’d look so much better if only I’d “put on some makeup!” I’m 43 and it still hurts. Pay no attention to that, you don’t need it. You have great skin and lovely eyes! ❤️
Yall in the comments need to stop telling her she's beautiful and cute. The whole point of the video is that you shouldn't need to tell her she's beautiful when she says she's ugly. Being ugly is ok, and it doesn't determine who you are as a person.
but its so frustrating to hear when u genuinely think she's pretty
@@damionmarkham9835 she’s gay-
Why ugly ..in first place ..this word dam ...this is just anyone's opinion or gaze ..
@@damionmarkham9835 please jsut shut up!!!!!!
@@darkndark9521 como?
You’re a very articulate and smart person. I enjoy a lot of your content, and I think you have a lot of valuable things to share to the world. I am proud of you for enduring the things you have been through! And whether it means anything or not, you are not physically unappealing at all. Take care :)
You aren't ugly. Your glasses are ugly.
Her glasses are AMAZIN 🥰
@@user-wy6eg1cp9kit makes her looking like Jeffrey Dahmer
@@user-wy6eg1cp9k The shape doesnt really go well with her face, maybe smaller ones could compliment her looks better
@@user-wy6eg1cp9kAMAZIN
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My childhood, adolescence and young adulthood was ruined because of being an unattractive girl. Other kids, particularly boys, just loooved to tell me I was ugly, like all the time. I made terrible life choices because my self esteem was in the gutter. If I could go back in time, I would make it my priority as soon as I was an adult to find a way to get surgery. For what it’s worth, I think you look fine, but equally I wouldn’t blame you for wanting to change your face. We’re conditioned from a very young age to put HUGE value on our physical appearances. If there’s a way of improving it and and gaining value in society, who can blames you
Hey, who said you are ugly? You are hundred times prettier than me.😊 You have beautiful long straight hair and fair skin. Even your behavior is so genuine and polite. Don't be sad at all. You are pretty I swear.❤❤❤
You're actually very pretty.
God bless you.
I don’t think you’re ugly at all, on the contrary I think you’re pretty.
me as well
👍
Thank God she isn't
stop the cap
@@realhades9178 🤣🤣🤣🤣im dead.but she ain't ugly tho .
Being ugly ruined my life. Never get same value I gave. Never been loved or never been single date. Never share my pictures because I look bad. I can’t like myself. While other ppl born naturally attractive I am trying so much to just look some good. Not too good just a bit good. A bit of attractive… but at the end of the day you can’t change yourself and you must be happy alone, for example I can do everything alone. I used to eat my meals alone when I was working outside while my friends were eating as group outside. You must be mentally stronger because it’s with you everywhere you go. And you hundred percent sure you will never be liked so I even stopped trying for relationships, because when you not even attractive they don’t care how kind person you are. It’s been a long time stopped trying for any boy and relationship. Already never been in one as 18 y/o. I was meant be alone maybe, as I was born unattractive.
"Charm is deceitful and beauty is fleeting: but the woman who fears the Lord, she is to be praised." (Proverbs 31: 30)
In fact, having a beautiful voice and good manners is much better than being beautiful but bad-tempered and bad-voiced. I ask a simple question, please tell me honestly.. are you willing to travel with a beautiful but bad-tempered girl for a week? I can't stand such a girl even for a minute😂 No matter how ugly you are, but if you have good manners, everyone will love you and this love will make you look beautiful in the eyes of your friends. That is the truth. Beauty lasts for a limited time..ten years, twenty years..Nicole Kidman was very beautiful, but what about now? Now she is old and she is never as beautiful as a 20-year-old girl
@@Joa8n "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is fleeting. But, the woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." (Proverbs 31: 30)
You have a lovely smile and a warm personality. You are far from ugly and you have more to work with than you realize.
She seems Very Intelligent and Sweet! Very Soft Spoken and shy. Very attractive woman! Her Qualities and demeanor alone make her appealing.
Beauty shines from within. You are a pretty girl, just no inner light. People are feeding off what you think about yourself. Just be you, cultivate your soul and the rest of them can go eat dirt. You'll understand one day, when you do the inner work.
I started feeling ugly in 4th grade when we had those square dances in gym class. The teacher paired me up with my crush and I remember being so excited to dance with her. Later that day, I overheard her talking to her friend saying "I really didn't want to dance with him, he just so ugly." I was devastated for years after that. But I needed to understand back then was that doesn't make me ugly to everyone. Everyone's going to have their own opinion about you, But you can't let those opinions dictate your own self worth. Did you feel ugly before you heard something from someone else? I was never repulsed by my face when I looked at myself in the mirror until that day. We both made picking out flaws and calling ourselves ugly a habit. But in reality, they are only intrusive thoughts. Seeing those thoughts for what they are is one step closer to self acceptance. ❤️
When ppl tryna sideways they responses if I'm ugly or not, it just hurts more lol. Had a friend say I'm unique in features which I understand the sentiments but made me feel like a freak bc unique doesn't equate to pretty.
you're not ugly at all! I think you're extremely pretty and my jaw dropped at the title. I haven't watched the video yet but as someone who was also made to feel like I was ugly my whole life and still working through the trauma and body dysmorphia that comes with that, I understand why anyone would feel this way. I still can't believe it when people tell me they find me pretty but at least I feel a lot more neutral about my appearance now. I'm sending you so much love and support and I hope you can see what we all see when looking at you!
You’re still very young, give it time and you may grow into yourself and begin to like who you see in the mirror. I’m still a young adult myself, but I hated every aspect of my appearance when I was younger, so I think part of maturing is accepting who you are, not accepting that you’re “ugly” but seeing the beauty that you do have. Ugly is subjective, everyone is ugly to someone, and everyone is beautiful to someone.
Ur not ugly at all and bangs will fit you so well i have them since i was a kid and i feel so much better with them
You're not ugly you're actually really pretty, you remind me of Anne Hathaway😊
Agreed
I was just thinking that!!!
I thought that to
Before her makeover in the princess diaries 😂
@@dubrob210 well I think in the princess diary she was pretty before and after but tbh she looks more like Ellen page from inseption all beautiful women
yes about the makeup thing. if i feel like my face is already ugly, WHY draw more attention to it with makeup?! if someone had a horrible pimple, they wouldnt dress it up and make it "pretty" they cover the entire thing. You cant do that with your face unless your wear a whole ass mask
So true
Breaks my heart that you think you are ugly. You are cute, and you are real. Those are two huge, attractive attributes. --- I know ugly... and it ain't you, not even close.
The most important thing we all must learn in life is to learn how to love ourselves. You are beautiful. The problem is low self esteem or no self esteem. God made us in his image you are perfect just the way you are.
Girl I relate. I remember a group of old coworkers wanted to go speed dating. I told them I didn't want to go because I didn't want to be rejected. They just stood there and stared at me. Ive learned to not to open up my insecurities in front of other women. It never helped me.
There's nothing wrong with the way you look. Just be yourself. I used to wear make-up all the time when I was in my 20s and 30s. I don't anymore. I get more compliments the older I get about my looks (54 now). Everyone has different tastes. Don't waste your money changing yourself. Some find the fake eyelashes, surgery and tons of makeup attractive. Some like natural looks. The older you get, you usually start to care less about what others think about you. There's so much more to worry about than looks. You'll see. And btw, in my opinion you are a beautiful girl.
I'm now 34 but I had similar traits to this girl, except the straight teeth with braces. The paleness, dark straight hair, rectangle face shape...and I was considered ugly through high-school and college.
Meanwhile I died my hair red, got a bit of color with lip tint and blush and covered by dark eye circles with foundation, and seems like it improved a bit..i was then considered ok-cute.
Now, in my 30s make up tricks don't do it anymore.
I totally understand where this girl comes from and here are my tips.
When I talk to my mom about it she offers plastic surgery when it was completely un requested and just makes me feel much worse
That’s really messed up. I’m sorry
IKRR! My dad even pointed out that my nose is masculine 💀
@@me-hk4ro lol what ? 😂😂
That happened to me too😭😭
Mine too, she's poor but she said she's willing to take a loan out just so I can get a nose job
Your not ugly,your beautiful!
I've been told I was ugly ever since I was a little girl.
By random strangers, people I thought I was friends with.
It's really like they always say, my parents said I was beautiful lol, which is what parents ofcourse will do out of love.
Ruined my self esteem for life.
I got body dysmorphia because of it which I confused with gender dysphoria (a long with already looking like a butch masculine looking girl which is what I preferred) which led me to transition to male for the wrong reasons.
And then I was an ugly dude.
You pretty much know you're ugly when people only tell you you're cute once every two years or so.
And ofcourse, everyone rejects you and no one wants to date you.
No girl don't feel ugly ,the people who have ugly eyes would find you ugly ...u r gorgeous ❤️❤️
when I used to say I'm ugly people would go: noo you have such a nice style! Like... xD that's a yes thank you xD
Oop I feel that
I just can’t believe this girl thinks she’s ugly! She’s actually really pretty!
Your beautiful features:
- your choice of glasses
- your big smile
- your teeth after your braces are finished
- your straight hair
- your eyebrows
- your honesty
- your nose
- your symmetry
Just because someone doesn’t meet other beauty standards doesn’t mean they miss out on everything, it’s not a black and white thing, it’s a multiple choice thing, pretty much everyone I know meets at least 1. You meet a lot more than you think you do :)
The glasses are terrible.
Wtf are you smoking?
🤣
Ugh I feel you girl. I think I am pretty but I guess in societies eyes I am not, which is so annoying. I notice how differently my pretty friends get treated, like people are usually overly nice to them and just ignore me. I wish that people could see past people’s looks and everyone could get treated like an actual person and not just valued based on their looks. It seems like nowadays you can’t win, because if you are ugly you get no respect, and if you are pretty nobody really cares what you have to say or if you are smart at all, because you look good.
I hope your profile pic isn't you or you said nonsense here. Real ugly people don't like to show their faces or even just to have fotos of themselves.
I was enjoying a delicious meal that my wife cooked. When she pointed out that she overcooked or over seasoned something, it put my focus on something I would never have noticed otherwise. You are very brave, now you just need to be confident to complete the package that people find attractive.
I needed this. I'm having a really hard time. I've considered suicide over my looks. I have a boyfriend who tells me I'm beautiful, luckily. My family picked apart my appearance growing up and I was bullied in school. Now in my mid 20s, all of this has finally caught up to me and I'm severely depressed. Still considering ending my life. Good to know I'm not alone
Oh no looking at your profile picture you are beautiful why would anybody say you are not beautiful 😍 😍😍I’m serious.
@@eve9981 aww you're so sweet. Thank you ♥️
@@IzzyMarie you naturally beautiful girl trust me I see a lot of women they need make up and you don’t need make up at all. Keep being beautiful 😍
You may want to consider that your boyfriend is right, you're not ugly, your problem stems from what people have said to you over the years.
I won't pretend to know all about you but I can guess that you ruminate on your looks and like a needle on a record, this rumination has worn a groove in your thinking where you cannot change your opinion of yourself.
@@eve9981 bruh she's just telling she's ugly with her pfp that fits the beauty standard so she would gain people to comment "but you're so pretty!" don't fall for this people .She knows she's not ugly but she said she is because,again,that would gain more validation and compliments
Are you kidding me, you’re very pretty and attractive!
Not gonna work mann
Hey kid, listen. Whoever told you that you’re ugly that person or those people they are hideous. You are not ugly. You have a cute personality and you’re going to blossom into an incredibly beautiful woman. Everyone watching this video sees it. You need to stop telling yourself that you’re ugly. You are not ugly. Start using more positive self talk. If you constantly tell yourself you’re ugly you’re going to attract people and situations that support that mindset. Use more positive, loving language with yourself and you will attract people who agree with those thoughts. Research the law of attraction. It’s a fascinating topic. You are not ugly. You’re a human being who deserves to feel attractive, so be nice to yourself. 🙏🏼
Yes girl i feel you! I am the ugly and the "smart" one in our group. I once give advice to my friend abt his boyfriend. Then literally he said you are jealous of your friends happiness so you are trying to make her break up with me. It's tough to be ugly sometimes.
You're not ugly! And you look so young (which is a good thing). I spent the whole of my teens and part of my 20's feeling so bad about myself. I'm 40 now, and feel the best I've ever felt. Trust me on this, one day you will be comfortable in your own skin. Do whatever you want. Wear makeup/don't wear makeup. Ditch the glasses/keep the glasses. Do what makes you feel good. And do it for you, not for anyone else ❤
Girl you’re so pretty!
As a hairstylist I am so sorry other hairstylists made you feel like “you’re not worth their time”
First you absolutely are and second how unprofessional and just plainly rude of them! A customer is a customer no matter their looks or personality or id we like them or not! We’re here to give you the haircut you want and it doesn’t depend on the customer wether or not a hairstylist cut’s good or bad or rushes, that’s on the hairstylist
(Sure some haircuts look better in certain faceshapes and so on but you can still cut the hair in a good way…)
Wear contacts, get bangs or wispy fringe, wear makeup, wait for your braces to come off. You have everything you need, you just aren't using it
This didnt age well
I think she's absolutely gorgeous.
You had me laughing at myself . I made a video also about me being ugly.. but to hear someone else say it , kinda funny. Like when we say " I don't like my face".. but damn it's like a whole face , not like we can replace the whole head .lol .. I so feel you on everything . We should all have a Ugly meet up group..lol I bet we would share many laughs , At least we all have personality. I definitely don't believe you're ugly , but I already know when we feel that way it doesn't matter what others say.. Thanks for making this video ❤️❤️❤️ I share your feelings my dear..
Its unfortunate that usually the person who makes you feel the worst is yourself. Ive been that way my whole life. Its just not true. You're a cutie pie. Please, stop feeling that way about yourself. You're the most beautiful flower waiting to bloom, you're suppressing the wonderful light that's inside you by thinking that way. You are NOT ugly.
When a perfectly natural beautiful girl says she is ugly we know society failed and i only hope my 6y old daughter will see herself differently and accept the natural beauty nature gave her.
I'm ugly too, so I can emphasize. I think people do not understand why it is difficult to be ugly. We simply do not want to be beautiful, but we are tired of being bullied for our appearance, something we have not chosen. Ugly is a physical description such as fat, thin, tall, short. There is nothing wrong with being unattractive, so people should not call ugliness beautiful, it is just dishonest and it will hurt the person more. Let me know if you want to be friends and talk.
Same, aside from part of me still wants to be beautiful
You mean empathize.... Lol
I’m a ugly guy & during lunchtime in high school, this dude had a drawing of my face & showed it to everyone. Everyone laughed & pointed at me, my forehead’s a little big, I have a weird pointy chin, they called me MegaMind. It was horrible, my anxiety skyrocketed that day, I just had to sit there & hear them laugh at me. I hate people
This girl is definitely not ugly, beauty standards these days are crazy
)): finally a video that truly explains the way it feels in words that aren’t out of pity. I can feel your genuine thoughts, and it’s quite sad I relate so strongly. the point you made about haircuts and makeup though? that hit a little too close to home for comfort. haircuts.. literally they never take time to do anything nice, I’m in for all of five minutes and sent back out. I look worse each time. Makeup.. doesn’t change anything either. Literally compliments what features you already had. So I didn’t bother with it because I feel like makeup will only draw attention to all my flaws. So I get what you mean- it being ‘tedious’. I hope you’re alright though )): you’re a lovely person and your feelings are ofc 100% valid, but I just want you to know that you are beautiful- even if you can’t see that yet. I hope you can find self love because you deserve happiness
I feel you girl. I relate much. I am a 38 yrs old housewife. And i have a looot of acne scars those box scars are really hard to conceal even with make up. Im not even good at applying make up so for me whenever i go out i prep myself mentally because ive been diagnosed with depression and a lot of things its hard tho whenever my husband and i go out specially with family outings i still feel alone they often tell.me dont them even if they insult you or stuff or thats its all in my head so i bottled it up there are time when eating becomes a problem i throw so i get to loose weight then i gain them again. Im still suffering tho anxiety and triggers are a problem now because i have to keep it all to myself when i let out and tell those people what heck is their problem i get to be the one scolded by my family. They said that i dont have to do that just ignore them for 10 years until now they didnt stop.... I have NIGHTMARE NEIGHBORS from Hell here. Gossips really do damage slowly...
Hey its been a year, how are things?
I'm a good looking dude and I would accept you instantly. I feel for you cos you seem trapped in a negative feedback loop when it shouldn't even be there in the first place. Our brains do this even when things are fine. You're aesthetically perfectly fine young lady and I hope you learn this.
I know you won't believe me but don't forget:
Contact lenses make a very huge difference. Your braces won't stay forever. Your skin will be thankful that you don't wear make up and people can/will tell.
And i think what will help is a therapy. Seriously, no joke. It is possible that you have a bodydysmorphic disorder. Because you are not ugly. Not one bit. There will always be people who think you look weird, but there will also be people who would kill to look like you.
Exactly, when I got contacts I felt like a whole new person
Hey. I started watching your channel because I can relate, especially when u described being asked out as a joke. I used to be hit on as a joke in middle school.
I wish I could hug you.
To the girl in this video: 😊get contacts, get bangs, and maybe some makeup and you’ll be more attractive. Your not so ugly that people will stare… you have a nice body, you’re slim, and you have straight nice hair and nice skin. You can enhance yourself
This video is so real and relatable. I've grown up ugly, still am. Like it's a feeling that follows you everywhere, you know people pity you when someone mentions attractiveness and you just feel out of place... idk it's my experience
Hello, I'm an ugly guy!I can relate to everything you've just said!Some people are straight up jerks!Not everyone treated me badly, but many people did!
Ure beautirgul and sl is she
You actually have a nice face, you just need to fill out your neck. All it takes is a workout routine
You’re pretty !! I admire your bravery and honesty to share painful experiences, but you look perfect to me.
Perhaps you’ve had the misfortune of being surrounded by narcissists. Narcs are attracted to strength, virtue, AND beauty… but their reflections are like funhouse mirrors, distorting our true essence and value. It’s by convincing us we’re worth less than we are that they can gain and maintain control over us. Narcs always choose the worthy to attack and confuse.
I used to have body dysmorphic disorder so bad… In high school I felt guilty people had to look at me, and I was treated as less-than, as I perceived myself to be.
As I healed on the inside, my outer world started reflecting my status an attractive and valuable woman.
May you discover your beauty in spades! You’ve got it.
Ooh, I just noticed your more recent video on body dysmorphia! Great work digging into healing!
I understand this 100000% because I feel like I’m so ugly . I know I’m so ugly! And it hurts because I reallllllyyyyyy wish I was I was beautiful. I have alopecia. I have 2 bald spots on the side of my head . I cry everyday I had a breast augmentation. I’ll Definitely be doing things to my face when I get the money . Because I definitely don’t want to wear makeup everyday . It’s definitely just a cover up ! Including the wigs it’s just a cover up !
You’re not ugly at all… I think you just need more people around to encourage you and help build your confidence… having a beautiful soul is waaay better than an outward appearance 🥰
I Am an "ugly" girl, and what i like to do is work on My Inner Self , because One Day EVERYONE is going to lose their looks. So that's what I work on Myself. You seem to have a Kindness about You. Don't try to fit beauty standards. Just be Kind and Loving ❤️
Man, society has really got people messed up. You have people like her who really don’t think enough of themselves and then you have people who for some reason think they are gods gift. You really aren’t ugly, really really not, but if you will never have your mind changed about that then try to accept how you feel about yourself and you’ll feel better.
Omg what??? You’re gorgeous I would pay to look like you!!!!! You’re really lucky
@@spaketticarbonada9651 Well beauty is subjective. I personally think all her features line up with the beauty standard like I’d pay to have her lips and nose!!! Nothing ugly about her at all
Stop the cap
@@benayasdebela1164 how r u gonna tell me I’m lying 😭 beauty is subjective dont be dumb.