Thank you for contributing! I am so happy to see that you invest your time to make the NVC material available to more people! I have added the title and keywords to the video information, so that it will be easier to find when searching for it in Japanese :)
Just added subtitles! Title: "come godersi il dolore dell'altro" Keywords: presenza, guarigione, empatia, Comunicazione non violenta, consigli, interrompere, passato, vita.
"Enjoying" someone else's suffering absolving any responsibility to discern if there's anything that can be done is called schadenfreude and predatory psychopathy.
Yeah, perhaps it is unfortunate that Marshall expressed it this using that word. I think he did that to lighten the mood. Could I try to explain this in a way where we sort out this misunderstanding? What Marshall is explaining here, from his experience as a therapist, is how to listen to someone who is on a lot of pain, without being overwhelmed yourself with the other person's painful feelings and experiences. Imagine if your therapist would start crying each time you the patient would cry! So it is really about moving from sympathy to empathy, and trying to see the beauty of the needs in life, even in painful situations. This is how Marshall suggests showing empathy for other people, while staying grounded and not being overwhelmed by emotions, so that you can continue listening with presence and empathy. So this is really about showing empathy even in difficult situations, which is quite opposite to psychopathy. Did this make it more clear? If you check out the playlist on my page, you can also see the video just before this part, which will set the correct context.
Thank you I need to practice 🙏 this ❤
1. We did not cause there psychological pain.
2. We can't fix it. But listening and being present witness.
Hi! I added Japanese subtitle.
Title: 「いかにして相手の痛みを楽しむか」 Keywords: 非暴力コミュニケーション、マーシャル・ローゼンバーグ、共感
Thank you for contributing! I am so happy to see that you invest your time to make the NVC material available to more people! I have added the title and keywords to the video information, so that it will be easier to find when searching for it in Japanese :)
"you can t cause another person s psychological pain." that s handy.
Just added subtitles!
Title: "come godersi il dolore dell'altro"
Keywords: presenza, guarigione, empatia, Comunicazione non violenta, consigli, interrompere, passato, vita.
Thank you for your contribution! :)
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"Enjoying" someone else's suffering absolving any responsibility to discern if there's anything that can be done is called schadenfreude and predatory psychopathy.
Yeah, perhaps it is unfortunate that Marshall expressed it this using that word. I think he did that to lighten the mood. Could I try to explain this in a way where we sort out this misunderstanding? What Marshall is explaining here, from his experience as a therapist, is how to listen to someone who is on a lot of pain, without being overwhelmed yourself with the other person's painful feelings and experiences. Imagine if your therapist would start crying each time you the patient would cry! So it is really about moving from sympathy to empathy, and trying to see the beauty of the needs in life, even in painful situations. This is how Marshall suggests showing empathy for other people, while staying grounded and not being overwhelmed by emotions, so that you can continue listening with presence and empathy. So this is really about showing empathy even in difficult situations, which is quite opposite to psychopathy. Did this make it more clear? If you check out the playlist on my page, you can also see the video just before this part, which will set the correct context.
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