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How did you experience doing Joachim's exercise? Comment below! 🦒

4:56 First step

Thank you I need to practice 🙏 this ❤

He forgot that stories throughout history have included the hero defeating the villain and usually killing him. Whether it's Homer, Zine or Shakespeare, writers of stories have killed off characters along the way for centuries. It's not TV corrupting - TV is just a storyteller, one that perhaps we all shouldn't be sitting in front of for so long. He's pretty arrogant and judgmental.

Thank you! I find this very helpful.

empathy is not the same as sympathy. but can be easily mistaken as such. it is not giving advice or correcting.

Giraffe is right.

1:22 What song?

Very intuitive, Curious about the final outcome of the Nigerian case

Studying NLP and stumbled on to this amazing man. The ultimate rabbit hole i can hardly stop listening to giraffe applied to every situation i know of. What a human being!!!

I lost count of how many times I cried during this video I love Marshall like a father. ❤

THANK YOU very much for all the effort to make these short extracts. They are very helpful. ❤

Is my need based on my interpretation of the stimulus? For example, if I'm interpreting that the person is acting inconsiderate, does my need for consideration originate with the interpretation? If so, is it still beneficial to address the need? "What can I do to fulfill my need for consideration based on my (possibly false) interpretation of their actions?" seems a bit like, "what can I do to defend myself from the imaginary monster in the closet?" Any clarification on that would be much appreciated :)

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"you can t cause another person s psychological pain." that s handy.

I love this "empathic connection before education" so simple when he puts it this way.

100% - Rsenburg is the master at his. What a great reminder connection is everything and assumptions, fixing advice and theories disconnect us. Sometimes I just hear words, words and more words constantly streaming without connection. To find the connection ask the person directly - what is alive in you right now? And be open to receiving their response. That's a powerful sentence. I love that ending "we demonstrate understanding".

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Is that Rosenberg singing? I love it!

This was so clear and helpful, thank you!

Amazing.

I think his whole philosophy is a little naive. The part where he tells the woman in the audience that "there is no such thing as an insult".. wow.. what an idiot. That actually sounds like Gaslighting of some sort. "You being called an idiot and a bitch isn't an insult, it's just an observation." just... wow... wtf.

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White man corners vulnerable minority to force compliance backed by all the violence of a state that keeps 20% of population in jail and bombs the world, calls it "non violent comm" for grater sadism.

Much as I appreciate this, it's still hard for me to wrap my head around. There's no such thing as a bad person? There's no such thing as doing anything wrong? It's very baffling, and actually quite shocking when one applies it to serious crimes, such as murder, rape, torture, and genocide. The idea that these things are not wrong is shocking and bewildering to almost everyone. Then again, if nothing is wrong, can you even really call them "crimes"?

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“thank you for telling me that’s what you heard” 🥺🫶🏼

“what do you want other people’s reasons to be when they do what you want?” 🤯🤯🤯 “rewards can be equally violent as punishments” 💯 gosh where has literature like this been my entire life? i’ve always felt what the author is saying but just couldn’t put it into words until now.

Fooking brilliant! Listened again to him after about 20 years ... still impressive

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I’m happy to be able to refer to this clip in my learning, it meets my need for clarity and collaboration 🙏

6:03 - 6:36 stimulus of anger is not cause of anger 16:19 - 17:35 steps 1-3 to separate stimulus of anger from actual cause of anger and THEN identify the ROOT EMOTION that exists beyond/behind the anger that is based on AND reveals the internal need 17:36 judgements based on anger (a diversion emotion, not a need based emotion) are tragic expressions of need 21:36 - 22:03 transforming anger into need-serving emotions 22:04 basic function of feelings is to serve our needs. 22:11 - 22:54 the meaning of “emotion” 22:55 anger is a diversion

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I'm fairly young, I never expected to learn so much from just one book, this is world changing

I've learned a lot and help me through a tough time

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Absolutely perfect

This is my favorite story and teaching point from his book. I finally understood why I didn't feel heard. I love it when he explained that "All judgments are a tragic expression of unmet needs."

Of course there is much wisdom and kindness in the core practical guidance he offers, but there was a lot here that troubled me too - the attacks on thinking, the slightly messianic tone, the casually and unhesitatingly made massive, simplistic-seeming claims about the nature of all humanity and existence... After finishing this fourth video, I went and read Chapman Flack's essay 'The Subtle Violence of Non-Violent Communication'. Did a lot to clarify my misgivings. I strongly recommend it.

So satisfying

4th to comment!😂. But anyway, Marshall May say that anger means that we are not connected to our needs! But when he says anger i Think that hatred is more acurate! Anger is used to overcome obstacles, or quit in the case of frustration! In the case of hatred, we see the person we hate as Merkels an obstacle to us meeting our need, wich just leads us to want to kill Them, in order to destroy that obstacle, so that they Can meet their needs! Or to prevent Them from threatining other pepoles needs, like their need for safety!

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Always brilliant and so easy to forget. I am so grateful for Marshalls recordings. As I don't dip into the book as much as I could. 💓🙏🏽🌈🙌🏽🧿

Ameeeen pour toutes ces âmes qui ont soif de cette délivrance !!

How do you spell that word? 10:30 I been trying to look up Adolf Eichmann to find the word, but I can't track it down.