Every Type Of Trauma & Effects Explained In 10 Minutes | Dr. Paul Conti
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- Dr. Paul Conti a general psychiatrist & expert on treating trauma, reveals all types of trauma & their effects on your brain.
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Lot of male speakers, get Emily Hunt OBE on ex-rape advisor to the governement, sexual violence is pandemic in society. In the UK evidence is kept for 2 years in sexual assault referral centres and destroyed, private companies did originally keep it for 99 years, then 7 now 2years, why even bother!!! Steven be that man that this culture, talk about the subject noone wants to talk about, these private companies don't share info unless victim goes the police, talk to the sex offenders and the potential jurors (ps love your French bulldog)
As Gabor Mate and Peter Levine says: trauma is not only what happens to you but how you experience it in absence of an empathic witness and also what did NOT happen to you. This field is so deep and rich and, thank God, is now really being understood and seen in more and more true light, wisdom and understanding.
I've experienced every type of trauma and have complex PTSD. I was abused for years as a child and had no control over my dysfunctional home environment. I made a poor career choice and went into the mental health care field to help other traumatized people like me and am trying to figure out something less intense to do for a career because it exacerbates my complex PTSD.
I grew up poor and in the “hood”. I experienced many traumas and so did the people around me. By the grace of God, many of us are still here and out of poverty. I find it interesting that some of us want to stay connected to those awful, traumatic roots and others (like me), never want to see reminders of this ever again. It’s cool to joke about welfare cheese and remember the crazy things that happened, but I close the book and put it back on the shelf. I don’t feel some need to keep an attachment to a place that could’ve killed me. I don’t watch “hood” shows because I had my fill of the real thing. But I’m guessing some people self soothe with familiarity.
Agreed.. don't miss the gunshots, police sirens, and helicopters above your house every night. The desensitization starts young and takes a lot of time out of that environment to truly process that trauma because being in the 'hood' was once your normal. You think killing is normal or the amount of violence in young children is normal, or joining gangs, and getting pregnant early is normal, and unless you're out of that bubble people have a hard time seeing past it.
People stay because they don't find anything wrong with it and that's because they never left it. I used to not find anything wrong with that environment either even 2-3 years out of it. Took a long time to see differently as a teen.
As an adult looking back is crazy...
@@RoyalRadiantJade you’re right about the desensitization and the feeling that the outside world doesn’t care about you. I have to give my mom credit. We had a new random encyclopedias and she tried her best to make sure I knew there was a world outside the bubble, even if it felt like it was impossible to break out.
I grew up the same way.. this is where resilience comes into play. There is research on it and I’m sure companies wish they could bottle it and sell it. Every person Is different.
Sometimes the little slights may not be noticed consciously, but still have an influence; that’s why I believe it is better to be consciously aware of it and deal with it in the moment.
CEN - Childhood Emotional Neglect and Covert Narcissistic Emotional Abuse cause CPTSD as well.
Steven ...
Fantastic guests 👏 😊 I learn something new each time. Thanking you.
How do you repair and recover once those changes in the brain have taken place?
Look into neuroplasticy
Amazing episode… recommend to anyone very interested ❤
interesting thoughts. Thanks.
The trouble with this kind of thinking, astute thought it may be to what is, is that it hampers peoples ability to focus more or what can/could be (good).
I spent many years in therapy some of it with people who really were good at their job. But, spending too much time with this mentality causes us simply to further tune and fine tune our radar when it’s already hyper vigilant to the point of being faulty and over-active.
Indeed to some degree, therapists simply train people to be more aware and more traumatised - often because they themselves are. It’s not deliberate. It’s just human.
So. People have a tendency to prefer their victimhood. Especially if it worked for them. It’s understandable and it’s a strategy. Good short term for the individual but disastrous long term for groups of people especially countries.
Becoming an expert in things you don’t want doesn’t get you less of those things. We magnetise to what we analyse.
Once you can see, and know what it’s like to be seen, look past what you are to what you could do.
Interesting 👍🏻
Therapy is not about dwelling on what happened to you, but rather helps you to understand how it affected you, and teaches you ways to modify those effects.
Every trauma can be much faster healed, if we would stop listening the ego
Ego is called - False self
Ego is also called - past self (ego always lives in the past, and takes information from past)
even though there is no answer in past, because our memories often are not even true 50 percent, the mind makes things up.
Ego always gives some self-limited and self-doubt answer.
If you believe every word or thought from the ego,
Sometimes the trauma isn´t so big as you think,
because often people say things they didn´t mean (they apologize) or you realise they are so fragile that they dont know how to apologize.
and then you realize later that the people change for better as well.
But of course there can be a real trauma, or abuse from people. like abandonment or bullying.
But it seems another form of silent trauma can be if parent doesnt give the child a freedom of choice, and is trying to manage every choice.
It creates conflict.
When you’re in trauma there is zero way to understand the “ ego” … this is a high level experience most Humans never have.
Is it just me or this guy looks like Jordan Peter
Despite saying over and over again that it’s not a “soft” definition, the current definition of trauma seems to be a fairly soft definition.
Overwhelm+Brain Changes=Trauma
How do you operationalize “overwhelm of coping skills”?
Traumas are generational punishments. Be good have morals ethics and principle and your future generations will benefit from you. Thats how you affect the world. People think they can do bad and dont harm or hurt other but little do they know that their choices will be paid by their descendants and vice versa, the good you do is rewarded to your future generations. I figured that out from life G-ds wisdom and I aint a Dr.
That is well said. Those words have the truth of God in them coming thru you.
Trauma is cumulative. everyone has a lifetime limit of how much of it they can withstand.
Is he more than 1 time close to crying??? I love his advice and how he explains the things, but it seems that he is a kind of overreacting maybe cause it looks for me that he is close to start crying for a few seconds but got it fixed. (It's okay if he would cry, don't get me wrong. I am just confused in my empathic feeling why he is so close to crying. This is different.)
Trauma is the work of the devil Empathy is the work of Christ
Trauma is the work of life
@@Giovanni-Giorgio the work of life was created by God.
I think you need to seriously elaborate on what you wrote, the tone of it is not very compassionate towards those who have suffered trauma and JESUS was directly compassionate to those who were traumatised.
Trauma is the argument the devil 👿 used saying it is chronic and lasting and you can not heal !
All is done to steal your joy to give up on your soul and God and mainly rouoah!
You can bounce and heal from trauma it depends on how honest open the person to go through his triggers weakness; grief...
Yes you can come out of trauma wiser ; stronger and sharper and more wise ! As trauma change brain so does the neuroplasticity; therapy.....
The system will always tell us we can not make it alone . Nonsense.
Clearly you live your life in hate
Racial relations got worse in last 20 years, that’s why your experience was worse then older siblings
Brain changes constantly. Therefore, just because a change has happened due to one or more events, it shouldn't be called a trauma. The definition needs to be more complex.
Steven stop dropping the F%$# bomb please!!!!! Its discredits you and keeps us from sharing your good material with our kids. PRESS LIKE SO HIS TEAM READS THIS😊
And included in 'racism' is the trauma of being told everyone in your race is born racist
Racism wouldn't be causing that trauma, shame and or guilt would