When asked for dating advice, I always recommend getting a dog. You obviously want appreciation, love, and loyalty. You will absolutely get that from a dog. Then you're happy. If you're already happy, you're more likely to attract someone and you don't have to be too needy which is an absolute turn-off. And if it doesn't work out, you're good for around ten years-- longer than 50% of marriages.
Great idea. It is also a good way of communicating to the outside world that you are dog person. Thereby, attracting fellow dog persons, and repelling those of us that absolutely would not want a dog in their life.
Biblical model for marriage, unsurprisingly, coming out on top looking at the research as the healthiest, most fulfilling, most secure option. Societies “modern” ideas of sex and dating have only harmed society, the family and children.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
I feel very lucky , iv been with my wife for 40 years and im still in love with her , she is my life , and I believe its the same for her 🙏🏻, so it does happen , we both come from an Irish back ground , birds from a feather flock together , maybe that’s the secret ?
Yeah, I don't agree with almost everything she said here, in fact I found it weird how she came to that conclusion. Always great news to hear about a happy couple, congratulations and may you have many more beautiful years ahead.💞👍
There’s that old saying “The road to hell is paved with good intentions” That’s what social media and these dating apps are, tools that were designed to help us connect, sad that they have made most people more lonely than ever before
It makes sense that radical feminism is able to grow so much if you take into consideration that women get more emotionally bonded by sex than men.And it also makes sense that the Red Pill and Manosphere can grow so much if you take into consideration that sexless men without relationships are more aggressive because taking the role as a father reduces their testosterone. An increase in meaningful relationships, love, bonding and children is part of fixing the modern day mental health/loneliness crisis.
7.46 mins of nonsense. No mention of below average woman with unrealistic standards creating an issue. They allow themselves to be used by high value men, by serving it up on a plate. A diamond ring counts for nothing. Divorce rate through the roof. Engagement guarantees nothing.
Dude, chill out and sort your life out before you go on about "below average women with unrealistic standards" (she also talks about your point at 1:16 , maybe listening should be a skill you start with)
andrewhaney4358, You sound like an incel, if you were mature minded, you would know that those ladies just aren't for you, so move on to the ones who will make a great partner in life based on love and things in common. This so called sex expert has some bad information, she needs to start over.
That's actually the entire point she's making. If women stopped having casual sex with high status men that will never commit to them it allows the monogamy effect to force people into lateral relationships to resume. Using marriage as a tool of social climbing it inherently unstable. Ask Anne Boleyn how badly that approach can go.
@@arthogofshe fails to call out and address my point. “They end up bitter”. Sorry nobody made them enter into relations with high value men. Ideal ending up with a healthy dose of reality / staying in their lane would be the outcome. “Sort your life out”…whilst knowing nothing about someone. Telling people what they “should do”. Time you learned to listen to alternative opinions without attacking
How did you think this was gonna turn out? On one hand you have a permanent victim class called “Female” “and on the other hand, you have a permanent villain class called “Male.”Dysfunction was baked in the cake from the beginning.
Have to say just looking at her and listening to her bad information really perplexed me as to why he had her on in the first place. Dysfunction is on both sides, why, because we are being brainwashed by media like movies, advertisements etc. When you are young and lacking in self awareness, you may fall for what isn't healthy. But if you are serious, you are looking for true love and true love doesn't feel compelled to stray, they feel happy having a partner that is like a friend and a lover. If one is looking for a more materialistic relationship, that is most likely going to be a very unhappy and lonely road. All kinds of people on this planet, if you are genuine, there is definitely someone out there for you.
@@oscarshedwick4862 They can't because it has only been the norm very recently. Polygamy has been the norm with very high status males having lots and lots of women and most men having none womens.
oscarshedwick4862, Thinking it's pretty obvious that it is the more popular of choices, ego has a lot to do with it, most men don't want their woman with another man, although they wouldn't mind having a few ladies on the side, and the woman is unwilling to go with that. If you are really in love, you don't want to be with anyone else whether your the female or the male.
bjmaynard01, Not where I'm from, nor my ancestors! High status males in let's say the Muslim culture can be a ticket to security, if that is all you're interested in, but most women want more from a relationship. If the average guy loves her and works hard along with her, it's a much preferred life, and the woman will choose to be with him. There is someone out there for every decent human being, the ones left in the dust, there is always good reason, and it's not about their looks.
I met my gf on a dating app 5 years ago. My own experience of dating online is that picture filters and social media are a big part of the problem, when you add an abundance of desperate men to that mix then the outcome is fairly predictable.
Given the chance to go after what they are told to want they don't and are bitter about it and it's not their fault of course. Women want equality, to be more equal than men that is.
There are a lot of average and below average men and women out there alone. While the top 30% have plenty of choices which the internet has given them even more. Many are not willing to settle for someone not that attractive or they are not that excited about. So, many wait for the few opportunities for the more attractive people to give them a shot and then they get the boot in 3-6 months.
The definition of "high status man" needs to be redefined. When good, Godly men start getting all the attention that's what most men will strive to be.
Men’s testosterone decreases after having children!? Good Lord, no wonder I can barely do 500 pushups without dying after having two! It’s all down here for me hahah
One of my first managers had a buddy called 'Rings', and one day explained the nickname. Rings, it turned out, was a serial engager; always with a new woman, fast in, engagement, then out. And the reason why he did this, my manager said, was because Rings had the theory that once a woman was engaged to him, she would, as they say in Mexico, 'give him the buttocks'... 🙈🙈🙈🙈 Yes, Rings would give them a ring, so they would give him *their* 'ring'... And thus was born the Legend of Ringsey... 🙈🙈🙈🙈 (and no; my manager was not Rings: He had the same girlfriend all the time I knew him, and viewed Rings as lovable degenerate)
I've never heard of that. In fact, my ex was raped as a child by his Uncle, many times. He told me he would never ask for that because he knew how it felt. Maybe Rings should get plugged himself.
Charlie-tb1lm Good lord what is she a boat with a rope or a bank, certainly doesn't sound like a relationship. Firstly, you need to talk to this girl about your intentions, and that you are interested in a monogamous relationship, communication is key to all relationships whether Romantic or business. Yes it can be scary, especially if you aren't used to doing it, but you get better at socializing, get off your device, and learn to communicate person to person. There is nothing more sad than to see a couple on a dinner date, and each with their heads in their bloody tech device. You can do this, but you must put the technology down and start talking to people. Try joining a support group if you feel you need a push, or feeling that you aren't alone. Good Luck🍀
Child support payments keep kids from living in poverty, many of em don't even have regular meals. And it's promiscuity, not birth control pills that affect dating habits. Like I said, you got it all wrong!
@@SG3Gunner Kids are living in poverty even with child support laws. And you can't gaslight me by saying that promiscuity didn't increase by orders of magnitude after the pill. Eliminate child support means that fewer kids will live in poverty because bad women won't be getting pregnant just for the paycheck. Which means men can be more productive and take care of their kids.
@Serahpin child support payments came in BECAUSE so many kids were living in poverty. It's a reaction TO an issue, not the cause of it. And plenty of poor kids have two parents, not just single moms. So you're not only ignorant and cruel, you're also misogynistic. And a lack of birth control has NEVER been a barrier to sex, but it does reduce stds. Ask the Africans. AIDS is rampant in the majority Christian countries, why? The church bans the use of condoms. Hasn't stopped them having kids, though.
Computers destroyed regular dating a long time ago people used to go out and drive their cars at night and don't meet up at certain places and then that's how you mint different people but since everybody's on a computer and they don't go anywhere anymore then regular dating went by the wayside a long time ago the best thing that could happen to this world is destroy all computers make kids go outside and play quit playing stupid video games 24/7 and do something with your life get rid of cell phones too in all reality I like getting on things like this but in all reality I can do without it really well
Not a problem,, the world is changing and modern Women are left behind in the Millions. Men decide everything so if they want a proper relationship they better learn what Men want or enjoy Cats.
SUNY, Your an incel, right? That was the most asinine blurb I've heard in sometime, it almost sounds like your kidding it's so off the wall! But just incase you are serious, let me inform you, caveman days are over! While it's nice to have a best friend and lover as a partner, it isn't necessary, we love our dog's with their unconditional love, and for the ladies who like the "maybe I love you" cat relationships, it can be very fulfilling. A lot of Men are being left behind because they are incels, watch way too much porn, spend way too much time playing video games, and have no idea how to socialize. There is help out there, but you must be willing to take healthy criticism and get rid of your bad habits that make you a no way in hell kinda guy.Cheers
? I thought it was Vasopressin and not Testosterone that changes for men who have children to take care of. I do know it doesn't need to be Their children; just need to have the Responsibility.
Men were not getting hundreds of women unless they were kings.. if a man had more then a few and a ton of men had none. He would die or get his women stolen..
What about the millions and millions of girls that can't stay committed to one guy and feel the need to sleep around.. because of the norm that casual sex is ok. That's a real problem if you'd ask me , because of the availability of their pool of men the likelihood of women cheating is vastly greater than the 1-2÷ of men at the top getting a pick and choose.
fvb1369 Oh my God, who are you people! It isn't millions and millions of women, that belongs to the males in our society that can't keep their Dk in their pants, so don't you dare blame the ladies! Clearly you have no social skills, which sadly seems to be the case with a lot of males these days. You need to stop playing video games night and day, stop living on porn channels, get outside and breathe some fresh air instead of living in mommy and daddy's basement. Try using some funds to get some professional help, stop hanging out on the internet and learn to talk to the ladies, it's actually a skill you can learn. If you're sincere, the world will open up for you, if you're just a selfish little man who never takes responsibility for his own bad behavior...Stop Typing! Wishing you the best🍀
So I’m hearing in this video “the stats” and looking at social studies. Maybe that’s because she promoting her book. I don’t think her explanation is adequate. I’ve noticed in my field (of counseling) that good outcomes happen when you find worth in yourself, you get a spiritual life and a purpose, you go slow in dating(hold off for a while on intimacy otherwise it derails ALL objectivity) and make sure you have great friendships to keep you grounded. I really cannot believe she didn’t mention the need for having integrity, values and standards. Taking the time to learn who people really are. Dating isn’t a “game.” That’s gross to think of it that way. Courtship is a way of slowly getting to know someone. And why oh why…ladies and gentleman, would you ever lower yourself to be described (as this woman says) as high status or low status/attractive vs unattractive? Sheesh. What a reductionist view. It sickens me. People are humans. Choose a good human. Look beyond the trappings and exteriors. Look for CHARACTER and integrity. This woman’s explanation of how she sees things is fairly creepy.
Yeah, that was a total load of BS! Now if you are talking about shallow people that believe more in materialistic pursuits than actual love, yes there are quite a few, the men are usually unattractive and the women normally out of their league. But in the real world of boy meets girl, there are plenty of opportunities, they run low if you are attracted to the superficial ladies like the ones mentioned above, but if you are a healthy well rounded guy who has the ability to be a good partner, there are plenty to choose from.
Diamond ring is a good one? How about this instead. Fathers will choose a man for someone chemically volatile and mentally unstable aka daughters, instead of demanding thousands of dollars. Greed instead of common sense.
I feel she's very femininist biased in this conversation, knowledge without actually talking to alot of men about it. Women want to marry up, so does men. They want beauty and personality. Women game the dating scene to play the field also. I'm not talking about the women driven in career etc. On the same context, when the woman is a PhD with high paying job, and still want to marry up. Well, good luck with that concept.
She can try to date up... in terms of looks. Unfortunately for women who tend to date up in terms of status/popularity etc.. men tend to date up by dating younger women and or women that are more attractive relative to them. We are both hypergamous in are own way. I knew a woman that married a friend of my brothers. She had a really good job back in the day (we are talking late 90s) they were married for like 2 years. She was a successful woman who found her bad boy...... well it didn't end well. As the old saying goes alpha seed beta need.
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Dating apps are the scourge of modernity.
dating apps do work, but you must first shape shift into a male model
only for sub 9s
paradise for chad and woman
When asked for dating advice, I always recommend getting a dog. You obviously want appreciation, love, and loyalty. You will absolutely get that from a dog. Then you're happy. If you're already happy, you're more likely to attract someone and you don't have to be too needy which is an absolute turn-off. And if it doesn't work out, you're good for around ten years-- longer than 50% of marriages.
Worst idea
I met quite a few women who thought my dog was adorable, as you can see in the thumbnail. Great way to break the ice. 😎🤓
@@PFlow007 for plenty of people it is. Those people should stick to owning a houseplant.
@guitar-jo That's why I love my guns they'll never betray me unless I have no other option but to self delete 😂
Great idea. It is also a good way of communicating to the outside world that you are dog person. Thereby, attracting fellow dog persons, and repelling those of us that absolutely would not want a dog in their life.
Biblical model for marriage, unsurprisingly, coming out on top looking at the research as the healthiest, most fulfilling, most secure option. Societies “modern” ideas of sex and dating have only harmed society, the family and children.
I know a lot of church marriages that are a nice facade. Just like many non religious are too. Humans will be humans
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@@Jose-lz6cw Jose, sorry... but I'mma have to pull the "Your best friend who only wants the best for you" card: *_"DON'T BE A SIMP, BRO!"_*
I feel very lucky , iv been with my wife for 40 years and im still in love with her , she is my life , and I believe its the same for her 🙏🏻, so it does happen , we both come from an Irish back ground , birds from a feather flock together , maybe that’s the secret ?
Yeah, I don't agree with almost everything she said here, in fact I found it weird how she came to that conclusion. Always great news to hear about a happy couple, congratulations and may you have many more beautiful years ahead.💞👍
There’s that old saying
“The road to hell is paved with good intentions”
That’s what social media and these dating apps are, tools that were designed to help us connect, sad that they have made most people more lonely than ever before
Were they designed with your best interest in mind, _or for the monetary gains of the companies?_
Men Women
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It makes sense that radical feminism is able to grow so much if you take into consideration that women get more emotionally bonded by sex than men.And it also makes sense that the Red Pill and Manosphere can grow so much if you take into consideration that sexless men without relationships are more aggressive
because taking the role as a father reduces their testosterone. An increase in meaningful relationships, love, bonding and children is part of fixing the modern day mental health/loneliness crisis.
7.46 mins of nonsense. No mention of below average woman with unrealistic standards creating an issue. They allow themselves to be used by high value men, by serving it up on a plate.
A diamond ring counts for nothing. Divorce rate through the roof. Engagement guarantees nothing.
And marriage guarantees a woman unequal share of unpaid housework, taken for granted, shorter life expectancy and sleep deprivation.
Dude, chill out and sort your life out before you go on about "below average women with unrealistic standards" (she also talks about your point at 1:16 , maybe listening should be a skill you start with)
andrewhaney4358,
You sound like an incel, if you were mature minded, you would know that those ladies just aren't for you, so move on to the ones who will make a great partner in life based on love and things in common. This so called sex expert has some bad information, she needs to start over.
That's actually the entire point she's making. If women stopped having casual sex with high status men that will never commit to them it allows the monogamy effect to force people into lateral relationships to resume. Using marriage as a tool of social climbing it inherently unstable. Ask Anne Boleyn how badly that approach can go.
@@arthogofshe fails to call out and address my point. “They end up bitter”. Sorry nobody made them enter into relations with high value men. Ideal ending up with a healthy dose of reality / staying in their lane would be the outcome.
“Sort your life out”…whilst knowing nothing about someone.
Telling people what they “should do”.
Time you learned to listen to alternative opinions without attacking
Stay strong lads
Thank you as always, even though I am married to an amazing husband, I still feel like I want to know more about this topic.😊
Don't believe she is the one that should be giving out this kind of advice. It just doesn't sound right.
you want to know more about the shallow nature of vvomen? i digress
To sum it up in one sentence: most women are average, just as most men are average, but today average women feel they are too good for average men.
How did you think this was gonna turn out? On one hand you have a permanent victim class called “Female” “and on the other hand, you have a permanent villain class called “Male.”Dysfunction was baked in the cake from the beginning.
Have to say just looking at her and listening to her bad information really perplexed me as to why he had her on in the first place. Dysfunction is on both sides, why, because we are being brainwashed by media like movies, advertisements etc.
When you are young and lacking in self awareness, you may fall for what isn't healthy. But if you are serious, you are looking for true love and true love doesn't feel compelled to stray, they feel happy having a partner that is like a friend and a lover. If one is looking for a more materialistic relationship, that is most likely going to be a very unhappy and lonely road. All kinds of people on this planet, if you are genuine, there is definitely someone out there for you.
Did she really just name hugh heffner as a top of the line man 😂😂 these liberal women are out of their minds.
Critical thinking is hard.
Monogamy was, is and will be the Norm. No amount of wishing it change will Change it.
You and what historical study can prove that?
@@oscarshedwick4862 They can't because it has only been the norm very recently. Polygamy has been the norm with very high status males having lots and lots of women and most men having none womens.
@@oscarshedwick4862 lol it's literally defined by one of the ten commandments.
oscarshedwick4862,
Thinking it's pretty obvious that it is the more popular of choices, ego has a lot to do with it, most men don't want their woman with another man, although they wouldn't mind having a few ladies on the side, and the woman is unwilling to go with that. If you are really in love, you don't want to be with anyone else whether your the female or the male.
bjmaynard01,
Not where I'm from, nor my ancestors! High status males in let's say the Muslim culture can be a ticket to security, if that is all you're interested in, but most women want more from a relationship. If the average guy loves her and works hard along with her, it's a much preferred life, and the woman will choose to be with him. There is someone out there for every decent human being, the ones left in the dust, there is always good reason, and it's not about their looks.
I met my gf on a dating app 5 years ago. My own experience of dating online is that picture filters and social media are a big part of the problem, when you add an abundance of desperate men to that mix then the outcome is fairly predictable.
Dating sites never worked for me
you just have to pay premium, jk
Grate topic! On an unrelated note, I am sure nobody cares, but I am 'glad' the cameraman got the mic and mug in focus and left Steve out of focus AF
Given the chance to go after what they are told to want they don't and are bitter about it and it's not their fault of course.
Women want equality, to be more equal than men that is.
I have to agree, this is one of the worst guests in this show! Sounds like she’s just babbling something she’s read from some one else!
There are a lot of average and below average men and women out there alone. While the top 30% have plenty of choices which the internet has given them even more. Many are not willing to settle for someone not that attractive or they are not that excited about. So, many wait for the few opportunities for the more attractive people to give them a shot and then they get the boot in 3-6 months.
Can't get rid of a feling she is bias. Especially when she went to a marige transaction relationship side of thing.
this is F##### amazing
The definition of "high status man" needs to be redefined.
When good, Godly men start getting all the attention that's what most men will strive to be.
A. Never take advice from a ginger born in the 90s. B. She isn't even a trained therapist. What is this?
Men’s testosterone decreases after having children!? Good Lord, no wonder I can barely do 500 pushups without dying after having two! It’s all down here for me hahah
More ideas than facts
Well then .. bring the facts that goes against this ideas
@@mimikeller On the contrary "what can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence" Hitchens's razor
One of my first managers had a buddy called 'Rings', and one day explained the nickname.
Rings, it turned out, was a serial engager; always with a new woman, fast in, engagement, then out.
And the reason why he did this, my manager said, was because Rings had the theory that once a woman was engaged to him, she would, as they say in Mexico, 'give him the buttocks'... 🙈🙈🙈🙈
Yes, Rings would give them a ring, so they would give him *their* 'ring'... And thus was born the Legend of Ringsey... 🙈🙈🙈🙈
(and no; my manager was not Rings: He had the same girlfriend all the time I knew him, and viewed Rings as lovable degenerate)
I've never heard of that. In fact, my ex was raped as a child by his Uncle, many times. He told me he would never ask for that because he knew how it felt. Maybe Rings should get plugged himself.
May I ask where in the UK/which bracket her accent is from? #JustAsking
London middle-class upbringing.
i slept with a girl and thought it was secured and the opposite happened, Im either cooked or shes messed up
Charlie-tb1lm
Good lord what is she a boat with a rope or a bank, certainly doesn't sound like a relationship. Firstly, you need to talk to this girl about your intentions, and that you are interested in a monogamous relationship, communication is key to all relationships whether Romantic or business. Yes it can be scary, especially if you aren't used to doing it, but you get better at socializing, get off your device, and learn to communicate person to person. There is nothing more sad than to see a couple on a dinner date, and each with their heads in their bloody tech device. You can do this, but you must put the technology down and start talking to people. Try joining a support group if you feel you need a push, or feeling that you aren't alone. Good Luck🍀
Get rid of all welfare/child support laws and make birth control drugs illegal. This would correct the problem from the root.
So much wrong in one post!
@@SG3Gunner That you can't point out.
Child support payments keep kids from living in poverty, many of em don't even have regular meals.
And it's promiscuity, not birth control pills that affect dating habits.
Like I said, you got it all wrong!
@@SG3Gunner Kids are living in poverty even with child support laws. And you can't gaslight me by saying that promiscuity didn't increase by orders of magnitude after the pill.
Eliminate child support means that fewer kids will live in poverty because bad women won't be getting pregnant just for the paycheck. Which means men can be more productive and take care of their kids.
@Serahpin child support payments came in BECAUSE so many kids were living in poverty. It's a reaction TO an issue, not the cause of it. And plenty of poor kids have two parents, not just single moms. So you're not only ignorant and cruel, you're also misogynistic.
And a lack of birth control has NEVER been a barrier to sex, but it does reduce stds. Ask the Africans. AIDS is rampant in the majority Christian countries, why? The church bans the use of condoms. Hasn't stopped them having kids, though.
I am going to die alone at this point
Computers destroyed regular dating a long time ago people used to go out and drive their cars at night and don't meet up at certain places and then that's how you mint different people but since everybody's on a computer and they don't go anywhere anymore then regular dating went by the wayside a long time ago the best thing that could happen to this world is destroy all computers make kids go outside and play quit playing stupid video games 24/7 and do something with your life get rid of cell phones too in all reality I like getting on things like this but in all reality I can do without it really well
Not a problem,, the world is changing and modern Women are left behind in the Millions. Men decide everything so if they want a proper relationship they better learn what Men want or enjoy Cats.
Indeed. Every action has a reaction/consequence.
Plenty of men crying over their broken hearts over on Reddit still. And getting burned when they thought they could be FWB. Poor things.
SUNY,
Your an incel, right? That was the most asinine blurb I've heard in sometime, it almost sounds like your kidding it's so off the wall!
But just incase you are serious, let me inform you, caveman days are over! While it's nice to have a best friend and lover as a partner, it isn't necessary, we love our dog's with their unconditional love, and for the ladies who like the "maybe I love you" cat relationships, it can be very fulfilling. A lot of Men are being left behind because they are incels, watch way too much porn, spend way too much time playing video games, and have no idea how to socialize. There is help out there, but you must be willing to take healthy criticism and get rid of your bad habits that make you a no way in hell kinda guy.Cheers
? I thought it was Vasopressin and not Testosterone that changes for men who have children to take care of. I do know it doesn't need to be Their children; just need to have the Responsibility.
Men were not getting hundreds of women unless they were kings.. if a man had more then a few and a ton of men had none. He would die or get his women stolen..
those vvomen were using the king (beta provider) for his resources, they would still have men on the side (the hot guy) to get it on with..
@@skinnyguy7773 kings went first into battle. They would never allow that. They would kill those men and women. That’s why they were the king!
A king providing for women is not beta.
A diamond ring is a guarantee a man won’t leave you?????????
What about the millions and millions of girls that can't stay committed to one guy and feel the need to sleep around.. because of the norm that casual sex is ok.
That's a real problem if you'd ask me , because of the availability of their pool of men the likelihood of women cheating is vastly greater than the 1-2÷ of men at the top getting a pick and choose.
Totally agree
fvb1369
Oh my God, who are you people!
It isn't millions and millions of women, that belongs to the males in our society that can't keep their Dk in their pants, so don't you dare blame the ladies!
Clearly you have no social skills, which sadly seems to be the case with a lot of males these days. You need to stop playing video games night and day, stop living on porn channels, get outside and breathe some fresh air instead of living in mommy and daddy's basement. Try using some funds to get some professional help, stop hanging out on the internet and learn to talk to the ladies, it's actually a skill you can learn. If you're sincere, the world will open up for you, if you're just a selfish little man who never takes responsibility for his own bad behavior...Stop Typing!
Wishing you the best🍀
Polygamous countries: Chad, Niger, Ethiopia, Uganda, Somalia, Algeria. Our future.
So I’m hearing in this video “the stats” and looking at social studies. Maybe that’s because she promoting her book. I don’t think her explanation is adequate. I’ve noticed in my field (of counseling) that good outcomes happen when you find worth in yourself, you get a spiritual life and a purpose, you go slow in dating(hold off for a while on intimacy otherwise it derails ALL objectivity) and make sure you have great friendships to keep you grounded. I really cannot believe she didn’t mention the need for having integrity, values and standards. Taking the time to learn who people really are. Dating isn’t a “game.” That’s gross to think of it that way. Courtship is a way of slowly getting to know someone. And why oh why…ladies and gentleman, would you ever lower yourself to be described (as this woman says) as high status or low status/attractive vs unattractive? Sheesh. What a reductionist view. It sickens me. People are humans. Choose a good human. Look beyond the trappings and exteriors. Look for CHARACTER and integrity. This woman’s explanation of how she sees things is fairly creepy.
Lol if every woman dates up then that means all the men are dating down.
Tell me how to live
As a six foot four successful and good looking man I disagree with this message.
So basically if women stopped chasing all the top tier of guys problem solved
Why should women settle for unattractive men? That's like saying men should settle for ugly women. I married my husband because he was hot.
Yeah, that was a total load of BS! Now if you are talking about shallow people that believe more in materialistic pursuits than actual love, yes there are quite a few, the men are usually unattractive and the women normally out of their league. But in the real world of boy meets girl, there are plenty of opportunities, they run low if you are attracted to the superficial ladies like the ones mentioned above, but if you are a healthy well rounded guy who has the ability to be a good partner, there are plenty to choose from.
Diamond ring is a good one? How about this instead.
Fathers will choose a man for someone chemically volatile and mentally unstable aka daughters, instead of demanding thousands of dollars. Greed instead of common sense.
I feel she's very femininist biased in this conversation, knowledge without actually talking to alot of men about it.
Women want to marry up, so does men. They want beauty and personality.
Women game the dating scene to play the field also. I'm not talking about the women driven in career etc.
On the same context, when the woman is a PhD with high paying job, and still want to marry up. Well, good luck with that concept.
She can try to date up... in terms of looks. Unfortunately for women who tend to date up in terms of status/popularity etc.. men tend to date up by dating younger women and or women that are more attractive relative to them. We are both hypergamous in are own way. I knew a woman that married a friend of my brothers. She had a really good job back in the day (we are talking late 90s) they were married for like 2 years. She was a successful woman who found her bad boy...... well it didn't end well. As the old saying goes alpha seed beta need.
So what else is new? It’s been that way forever.
Blame feminism
for men ?????????????????????? ---- it is not d.....it is...............
It's pronounced "harems" not "hareems". And no, it's not a British inflection. You're pronouncing it wrong.
In Britain it's har-eems
I laugh whenever she says that. That's a dish in my country.lol
@@peanutnutter1Yes and they also say “maths”. Both are wrong.
How is this blahblahblah helpful? Why is it a must watch?
Just a reminder that if you become pregnant you do not have to stay pregnant.
Exactly, 9months later you’re no longer pregnant
5:18 Look I bet this comment won't get pinned or like but if replied I'll do 10 push ups which won't happen I hope.
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