Hey everyone, this is a re-upload of yesterday's video! Had some issues with it so had to edit it and re upload. Apologies for this, won't happen again! See you with a fresh one on Friday!
I love the detective who kept pointing out "It's not about you. Why do you keep bringing the conversation back to yourself? This isn't about you." LOVE this guy!
The detective calls him out for being embarrassed--again, it is all about him--not the man whose life he ended or the family he affected. As with true narcissists, there's little hope for rehabilitation, for they will never take the blame or have the insight to hold themselves accountable.
They like to talk about themselves but when called out or talked down to it does get under their skin. Loved this detective. Thought it was so funny he kept putting him down and not just by calling him things but by showing proof with the killers action.
The officer he killed had just been to the scene of a librarian being sexually assaulted . The officer had been at the hospital concerning this attack, he sat in his cruiser filling out the paper work on the assault when that excuse for a human being attacked him. Some how , this makes it even worse
@@dxcSOUL Mike does extensive research on cases and chooses which details go into his videos, with a variety of factors. The librarian wasn't a character in this story. Don't nit pick good content.
@@slinkybomb7491 Pretty interesting since it led up to the attack, he also talks about the perps past, yet the last minutes of the victim arent that important?
Because big powerful banks wants their money so they'll send lobbyists to the government to make sure those who do it are sent away for a long time. Not as an incentive to stop people from writing bad checks in the future but by keeping those who are more likely to, ie the poor, from physically being able to. There's no large company or organization with that same kind of power who can actually exert any kind of control to make a genuine change to the system.
@@erikkibler3466 please elucidate how a psychopath can be non-narcissistic. Narcissism is "baked in" the description for psychopathy (which is not an official diagnosis)
Another thing similar with them they get really upset if others think poorly of them. Call them a bad name ,a monster ,a bum, a thief they get super mad that people should think of them in those terms !! Lol
The fact that he harmed a child, is a former cop, and killed a cop means he's not safe from either the guards or other prisoners. Dude is gonna be in isolation pretty much his entire sentence.
It would be hard to do that. Not much glass in prison. Everything is plastic or metal. Well besides the windows but good luck breaking that without anyone noticing. It would have to be some kind of cleaning chemical. Probably the only thing one could get in a kitchen there. Or if he has an allergy he would getba special tray. Then you could really mess him up.@@mamapetillo8675
When he applied to join the police force did anyone talk to him? I would think any conversation with this guy would disqualify him from handling a mop let alone a gun
A basic psych screening would have too. I don't understand why those aren't standard considering the power of the role and police are armed across the pond
If Eric received emergency attention straight away and still died from his wounds then it showed you just how savage the attack was that he didn't have a chance of survival kevin is a complete psychopath
yeah I legit Audibly went "oh my god" when it said he was stabbed twice in the neck, when people go to the neck immediately thats gotta be first degree
FINALLY a detective that is mentally capable of calling out someone's BS. This idiot was/is used to BS'ing everyone so much he thinks he can just talk and talk around all his issues, pointing to everyone and everyTHING else but himself as the cause of all his problems.
Apologies from psychopaths are hollow and meaningless. They only care about themselves, using others for some personal gain, and trying to outsmart the interrogator. It's useless for the officer to suggest an explanation or apology.
What a terrible person this dude is! Ugh That strong little girl reading her statement, it’s so sad because people like that guy don’t apologize for anything because they have zero empathy for anyone but themselves, which was made obvious in his interview where it was even pointed out he just kept talking about himself.
I’ve watched an unbelievable amount of true crime in my life, this man might be the most insufferable perp I have ever seen. He is told that the victim’s family will watch this and his response is “my people will watch this” absolutely disgusting.
RCMP are better than provincial or municipal police by a long shot as they are federal. City and provincial cops are hired security that didn't make RCMP or military, and have the mentality of bar bouncers
Listening to this guy is like listening to my dad talk "I'm freakishly strong" "I'm so skilled" while being a fairly weak person. If he was so strong he could have easily taken his own life. People like this cannot be reasoned with because their reality is that they're the best and perfect and everyone else and the world is the problem. Frequently heard my dad saying he could beat up anyone while he was living at home on disability and couldn't even walk 😂 saying everyone else was lazy when he didn't work at all. Judging neighbors when our house wasn't painted or fixed. Funny thing is my dad is named Kevin too 🫠🤦♀️
@@simoncullum5019 yup he definitely is and was diagnosed with a mood disorder too. Doesn't take any meds. Also recently thrеат**ed to k**l my family members and had a g** loaded ready. He didn't go to jail and was allowed to get his we***n back. I have no idea what he's doing now but hopefully not planning to come after my immediate family and still it's all about him and his wants/needs. He convinced my gpop that he "didn't mean it' and my gpop gave him 30k to move 🤷♀️🤦♀️
Your father could be a narcissist or he could just be a bitter disabled person either way you have issues you need to resolve, professional help would probably be more productive than a TH-cam comments section.
Yeah, him talking about how “physically fit” he was and then him describe even his arteries were and that’s why they moved out of the way…? Who knows- this guy is so bizarre. Truly delusional.
We have to stop this idea that victims of abuse are healed by getting an apology from the abuser, or even seeking one. If you still need an apology from an abuser, you're handing your power away to someone not even worth a second of your time.
I absolutely agree. And I hate that we glorify forgiving abusers as if it's the virtuous thing to do. Forgiveness is earned and should be given with caution. The martyr's attitude is a major part of the cycle of abuse. You don't need to forgive someone to move on with your life.
Entitlement personified.... he dismisses "doing things so people find you acceptable" to be beneath him, but expects everyone in the world to do whatever is convenient to fulfill his requirements?
Much love and healing sent to you. My marriage of 17 years to an emotionally abusive narc ended in 2016 and I'm still a shell of who I was. It's a journey I wouldn't wish on anyone. They say time heals all, and I pray for us both that it's true.
@@ImJustKaren_Melanie Tonya-Evans is a wonderful person to listen to, for anyone who has suffered from the incredibly damaging but often misunderstood effects of being with a malignant narcissist. Also the book by Don Hennessy ‘How he Gets into Her Head’ is a classic in recognizing and understanding such damaged and damaging abusers and how to recover from such insidious and life-changing abuse as well as recover from the trauma that such people cause to those whom they target, their targets usually being sensitive and empathetic people which makes them vulnerable. The main thing is to be kind to oneself - because the damage is what is called ‘soul murder’ - it is as bad as that which is why it takes time and enormous self-care, to fully recover from such appalling abuse. The good thing is that one becomes highly attuned to recognize narcissism in individials in both private and public life, an insight which offers brilliant clarity into the empty husks that proliferate and operate in this world.
Everyone needs friends and to know the value and importance of true friendship. Cruelty to animals by children is unnatural and definitely a sign of a deeper disturbance. 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩
@@barefootincactus We’re in agreement that animals make excellent companions and I’m an introvert myself, and yet I have many longstanding, trusting, meaningful friendships and a few close confidants. It’s important to know how to be a friend to another person and to be able to give and take in order to maintain that relationship. It takes trust, faith, commitment, understanding and appreciation of another person’s values, goals and perspective and everyone needs to be capable of that.
@@donnaengel6413You sound like a good person. You say everyone needs to be capable, and that is a worthy goal. I am sure you are aware of dysfunctional families, mental illness, and genetic issues like Asperger’s. Also that it can take a lifetime of therapy and other care to attempt to reach what you speak of. Meanwhile there are dogs (and other pets). I wish you well and am sure you will live a wonderful life.
@@barefootincactus I wish you all the best, as well, and understand that different situations and mental health conditions require coping mechanisms. Be well, my friend;)☀️
I’m a narcissist and bipolar. I got laid off last year was out of work for 9 months totaled my car during that time…. None of this is valid reasons to murder someone smh
That poor girl was seriously strong. I can't imagine how she could forgive him. It's been 15 years for me and I'm not even remotely close to the possibility of forgiving him.
@Delicate_Disaster I'm so sorry you had to go through that. There's absolutely no reason for you to forgive anyone who abuses or traumatizes you. So, don't feel like you have to forgive any criminal.
Yeah people think forgiving is important, and most respond "well forgiveness is more for me to move on with my life and heal my own wounds more then its to actually forgive the person" 😅 this is wrong on two fronts, forgiving doesnt heal shit and when you actually say the word forgive and you actually dont truly care nore actually forgive the person you are being stupid, on a side note for me personally, i think God is the only one who actually has the ability and the power to forgive, its not our job, actually like women in abusive relationships where they stay in the relationship taking the beatings because they keep "forgiving " their spouse you are actually committing harm to yourself which is against gods wishes, just self deleting urself, your not allowed to bring harm to any human or animal including yourself
Faith, the idea of forgiveness, is one way people deal with anger. It is certainly not the only way. Anger needs to be dealt with, somehow. Otherwise, it eats at us, not at the people who have harmed us. Staying angry with them is like letting those people hurt us forever. Our anger destroys our health, our relationships, any peace or happiness coming our way. It can turn into addiction or depression. Negative emotions in general are exhausting and never do any good in the world unless we find ways to transform that negative energy into something positive and beneficial. Personally, I pour all my anger and other negative emotions into art. Art is a river that washes me clean and makes me fit company for my family and friends. I don't believe for a moment that you are either delicate or a disaster, young lady. I believe you are stronger and more able than most people would ever imagine. I know you will find your own way. Wishing you a beautiful future. Always remember that the greatest revenge is living a good life.
When you went “AAAAAH THIS GUY SUCKS SO BAD” it was right after I, myself, grunted in frustration and secondhand embarrassment lol. If Mike can’t contain the cringe, you KNOW the guy sucks shit extra.
This amazes me. My son is RCMP and I as female was turned down, although I passed every bar. Yet, this man got accepted? Crazy! In retrospect, I an glad I was turned down because now I am a high school teacher. I suspect my merciful side got me got me axed.
weird enough that you've become my storyteller to fall asleep - BEYOND COOL that i get to go back and rewatch at least once. thx for the joyful work, man.
Advice from me, don't fall asleep to true crime TH-cam you will have dreams about kids getting drowned by their aunt or whatever video you were watching. Not good 😂
Canadian here too! I grew up in Ottawa so it hit close to home when I heard about this case, even though I no longer live in the city. This was especially sad as Chapnick had made such a drastic career change later on in life. I knew very little about the perp but now I sure know way too much about him. The RCMP, man....IDK....a lot of pretty bad stuff has happened under them.
Whatever you're dealing with, I hope it gets better soon. I too deal with much family consternation during the holidays, so I understand how exhausting it is.
Hey Mike!! Contrary to popular belief, unlike Alaska, we have sun all year round, lol. As a matter of fact it’s December 27th and we don’t even have snow on the ground!! Yesterday was +9 C. In the summer it’s very hot and depending on where you live in Canada, when it’s very hot it can get very humid as well. I live in Calgary, Alberta and we’re surrounded by the beautiful Rocky Mountains. If you’ve ever had the chance to come to Calgary I believe that you’d really love it! 🇨🇦
12/27/23 Narcissistic isn’t even full words to describe this guy! He does not give a shit, about anyone! Only about himself (All about Me) Eric, rip💔 Love to his Family and Friends
Narcissism is the most awful behavior and not so easy to recognize right away, this guy besides his narcissism was a serious sick bastard. Glad his is in jail.
Small correction: Greg would have only needed to wait 5 years to get his pardon. The 10 year wait time was changed by the Harper Government in the late oots. It was changed due to the public's outrage that Karla Homolka was able to get a pardon 5 years out of prison. She did her whole bit so 5 years later, she got a clean record, changed her name, now lives a quiet life In Quebec.
This doesn’t make sense. So it used to be 10 years but it was changed to 5 due to public outrage that Karla only had to wait 5 years…? Because you said the 10 year wait time was changed [to 5]
I remember when they were still looking for Kristen French (I was a young girl). I still think homolka was the actual driving force and even worse than Bernardo.
He reminds me of the end of It's A Wonderful Life. Clarence wrote George a message telling him, "No man who has friends is a failure". Like this dude with no friends. 🙄
Oh man.. nothing like a Classic That Chapter video in the Classic Mike interpretation. ❤❤❤ Btw, there are some old cases that have been solved since you covered them years ago. Can we expect a few _TC - Update Edition_ videos?
Exactly! With that behavioral health history? It's not an easy path becoming RCMP and many potential "bad" candidates flush out under the stress. HOW did this piece ever hit the streets?
Could you look into covering the murder of DeAngelo Tobia? His grandmother Terry Borgia was convicted but a lot of people think it was actually the aunt.
@@MushroomMayhem EWU does fantastic work. Though I understand the sound irritation ... there are a couple female's channels that I can't handle myself. Too much excess whining and not enough straight to the point facts. Exactly why I LOVE Mike so much... his voice is pleasing to me so even the extra is welcomed 😊
I had always been a huge fan of Bailey Sairian and Mrballen. I watched them constantly. Then I found That Chapter. I haven't watched bailey in ages but I have to watch Mrballen 😊. Thank you for being my favorite content creator. Your stories are so attention grabbing. I am constantly checking in to see if there is a new video up but if not, oh well, I'll just rewatch my favorites.. ❤️
Wow that guy is the absolute worst. It's sickening listening to him talk. We need to designate an island to people like that. Poor Pickles, sounds like he was a legend. RIP❤
This is the exact type of stuff that doesn't make me chant "Back The Blue" or blindly think all cops are upstanding members and just shows how people who definitely should not be cops can become pretty easily become one.
Every individual is unique and different. There's certainly a culture that seems toxic around police forces in the US, but everyone on earth is capable of both great harm and great compassion.
I love your channel! Def #1 True crime storyteller!! Long time fan! I've been watching you like 2 boyfriends ago lol you gotta laugh if not cry right no it's okay. My bf went to treatment for drinking. I'm in recovery so i couldn't have him around me running or using. Anyway thanks for listening to my story. I love listening to you 💚❤️✨ Blessed be
People invariably get the saying "In the wrong place at the wrong time" wrong. The people in question are usually in the right place at the wrong time. They are where they want or need to be but it is the wrong time when something happens!!
Awesome stories, delivered even better. Mike is a natural storyteller with morals most can relate to…No shit. Subscribe & C.. I don’t miss anything. That Chapter rocks.
Wow! I was super excited to see a new upload but then realized I had already watched it yesterday. Sad but I’ll still leave a like for Mike! Love from Texas buddy!
I appreciate this detective calling it all out for what it is , instead of coddling this loser. And the detective showed remarkable restraint I’m sure he wanted to throttle this guy. The difference between a narcissist and a reasonable person..
I've met a few people with NPD, but none of them were as extreme as this guy. He is oblivious to how much he brags about himself. "I can't die. I'm inhumanly strong!" This guy can't get enough of himself.
They say that a narcissist is created out of excessive neglect or excessive idolization from the parents. His mum thinking cookies would work sort of proves the point.
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Hey everyone, this is a re-upload of yesterday's video! Had some issues with it so had to edit it and re upload. Apologies for this, won't happen again! See you with a fresh one on Friday!
Was a lovely surprise though!!
I'll watch ti again, I mean the content so great why not!
That’s a bummer sorry
I don't mind listening to this again! See ya Friday 😊
i don't mind, gives me an excuse to re watch it
I love the detective who kept pointing out "It's not about you. Why do you keep bringing the conversation back to yourself? This isn't about you." LOVE this guy!
The detective calls him out for being embarrassed--again, it is all about him--not the man whose life he ended or the family he affected. As with true narcissists, there's little hope for rehabilitation, for they will never take the blame or have the insight to hold themselves accountable.
I know - it's brilliant. Huge kudos to the detective.
Typical narcissist. Absolutely disgusting
Doesn't change much at the end of the day really... You think the killer cares? He obviously likes talking about himself.
They like to talk about themselves but when called out or talked down to it does get under their skin. Loved this detective. Thought it was so funny he kept putting him down and not just by calling him things but by showing proof with the killers action.
“How did a paramedic take you down if you were so strong?”😂😂😂i love this detective
And in the video, one of them was a woman? That would be an added wound to his giant ego!
It says a lot that you think it would be
The officer he killed had just been to the scene of a librarian being sexually assaulted . The officer had been at the hospital concerning this attack, he sat in his cruiser filling out the paper work on the assault when that excuse for a human being attacked him. Some how , this makes it even worse
Mike always seems to miss these interesting details.
@@dxcSOUL Mike does extensive research on cases and chooses which details go into his videos, with a variety of factors. The librarian wasn't a character in this story.
Don't nit pick good content.
If it’s not absolutely confirmed, Mike won’t include it. He only shares what he knows is the truth
@@slinkybomb7491 Pretty interesting since it led up to the attack, he also talks about the perps past, yet the last minutes of the victim arent that important?
Did you even read the title.the video is about him.people love finding something to complain about🤣
i will never understand why you can get more time for writing bad checks then for raping a child.. our system is broken
Because big powerful banks wants their money so they'll send lobbyists to the government to make sure those who do it are sent away for a long time. Not as an incentive to stop people from writing bad checks in the future but by keeping those who are more likely to, ie the poor, from physically being able to. There's no large company or organization with that same kind of power who can actually exert any kind of control to make a genuine change to the system.
Canada has a horrific record of inappropriate justice.....
Sadly they even protect them from the other prisoners to
@@mimi2the4 Its scary how many Western countries are soft on pedophiles. Makes you think about some of those people who make the laws...
It’s a reflection on who’s running the show , sadly I’m not surprised…
Childish justification for crappy deeds seems to be a trend of narcissistic psychopaths
You don't need to qualify "psychopath" with the word "narcissistic." All psychopaths are narcissistic. (But not all narcissists are psychopaths)
While it may be common,not all psychopaths are narcissists.that statement is just untrue,so they were correct in their statement.
@@erikkibler3466 please elucidate how a psychopath can be non-narcissistic. Narcissism is "baked in" the description for psychopathy (which is not an official diagnosis)
Another thing similar with them they get really upset if others think poorly of them. Call them a bad name ,a monster ,a bum, a thief they get super mad that people should think of them in those terms !! Lol
The fact that he harmed a child, is a former cop, and killed a cop means he's not safe from either the guards or other prisoners. Dude is gonna be in isolation pretty much his entire sentence.
Even solitary won’t keep him safe for long
Who do you think cooks and delivers the meals?
@@HamsterK37a bit of finely ground glass in the oatmeal, over time, might do the trick
@@mamapetillo8675I love how you think!
It would be hard to do that. Not much glass in prison. Everything is plastic or metal. Well besides the windows but good luck breaking that without anyone noticing. It would have to be some kind of cleaning chemical. Probably the only thing one could get in a kitchen there. Or if he has an allergy he would getba special tray. Then you could really mess him up.@@mamapetillo8675
Wow. Someone's last words being "thank you" says a lot about that person
When he applied to join the police force did anyone talk to him? I would think any conversation with this guy would disqualify him from handling a mop let alone a gun
A basic psych screening would have too. I don't understand why those aren't standard considering the power of the role and police are armed across the pond
I had the exact same thought. Trying to imagine this soulless POS nutcase with a badge and a gun . . . yikes.
Are you suggesting first nations people shouldn't have guns?
@@TheThreatenedSwanhope that's sarcasm.
@@nondisclosure3920 the thing about psych screenings is that they're heavily dependent on you actually being honest during the questions
"My speciality is I am trained to take life". Fails many many times to take his own life 😂😂🤣🤣
& wears protective armor against bullets. death wish??
Lol, he used the word 'specialization' I wish he said specialty.
Specialization sticks out and it sounds dumb. Lol I wish I can unhear him say that.
Yeah because he's full of it ,he never wanted to off himself
What a goober
It makes sense a narcissist would say specialization instead of specialty.the word is longer and sounds more important,in his mind.
If Eric received emergency attention straight away and still died from his wounds then it showed you just how savage the attack was that he didn't have a chance of survival kevin is a complete psychopath
yeah I legit Audibly went "oh my god" when it said he was stabbed twice in the neck, when people go to the neck immediately thats gotta be first degree
Correction: narcissistic sociopath 😢
Yes exactly! Cause the civic hospital is our trauma hospital so they know what they're doing 😞
“I’m freakishly strong” was by far the funniest thing I’ve ever heard
His strength fell from his hairline down to his body🤣😂
FINALLY a detective that is mentally capable of calling out someone's BS. This idiot was/is used to BS'ing everyone so much he thinks he can just talk and talk around all his issues, pointing to everyone and everyTHING else but himself as the cause of all his problems.
As if all detectives don't call people on their bs... Where have you been?
@@agirlisnoone5953 nope. Most detectives truly aren't smart enough are "brave" enough to call these people out and challenge them like this guy was.
And this was from 2009...
I love comments like this, people these days really think they're experts on interrogation after watching a couple true crime videos lmao
@@denisehagwood4542 Ha ha...like it's rocket science. It's not.
Apologies from psychopaths are hollow and meaningless. They only care about themselves, using others for some personal gain, and trying to outsmart the interrogator. It's useless for the officer to suggest an explanation or apology.
“ pick a word and put abuse after it”.... best line ever .
What a terrible person this dude is! Ugh That strong little girl reading her statement, it’s so sad because people like that guy don’t apologize for anything because they have zero empathy for anyone but themselves, which was made obvious in his interview where it was even pointed out he just kept talking about himself.
Plus he's a narcissist, they only apologize if it's a manipulation tactic.. and boy will they resent doing it
They call him Lucky Boy in prison....you DON'T want to be called Lucky Boy in prison.
More like his name is Samsonite, as he'll be getting overpacked every night like at the duty free
Love the interviewer calling him out like that. Too bad others can't do it to those with the same psychopathy. Thanks Mike
I’ve watched an unbelievable amount of true crime in my life, this man might be the most insufferable perp I have ever seen. He is told that the victim’s family will watch this and his response is “my people will watch this” absolutely disgusting.
Try Basil Borutski if you want to see someone just as bad for Kevin. Talk about a victim complex whingey crybaby.
It's weird how people like him stay free for as long as they do. Dude is a head case
He is a 'protected class' of citizen.
What do you mean? @@jimmyzhao2673
Narcissists are notorious for evading suspicion until its obvious they're the perpetrators
It's called Affirmative Action.
Not this guy. He was pretty effing obvious.@@janeysiegrist5061
I love how the cop keeps calling him on his bullshit!
Just know the RCMP in Canada is right full of more Kevin's
RCMP are better than provincial or municipal police by a long shot as they are federal.
City and provincial cops are hired security that didn't make RCMP or military, and have the mentality of bar bouncers
I'm actually shocked that his bishop alerted authorities to his behavior.
They
Rarely
Report
Anything.
Ex Mormon here and I can confirm. Maybe the laws in Canada are different and they’re actually forced to report crimes
Perhaps it was because the bishop himself was threatened/felt threatened. Makes a big difference when it's you that's afraid.
Running your badly hurt self into the hospital and still can't be saved 💔🥺😭 so heartbreaking
I don’t think you said what his sentence was for the murder.
He got life with no parole for 25.
I was looking for this. Thanks
Thank you for clearing that up! I was perplexed at how he got just 10 years for SAing a child AND murder".
@@fuzzamajumula Yeah, I think Mike just forgot to give both sentences.
"EVERYBODY HATES KEVIN"
I hope the 10yrs is consecutive and not concurrent with 25wop!
No one ever shares that part when they say the sentences.
Listening to this guy is like listening to my dad talk "I'm freakishly strong" "I'm so skilled" while being a fairly weak person. If he was so strong he could have easily taken his own life. People like this cannot be reasoned with because their reality is that they're the best and perfect and everyone else and the world is the problem. Frequently heard my dad saying he could beat up anyone while he was living at home on disability and couldn't even walk 😂 saying everyone else was lazy when he didn't work at all. Judging neighbors when our house wasn't painted or fixed. Funny thing is my dad is named Kevin too 🫠🤦♀️
Classic narcissist
@@simoncullum5019 yup he definitely is and was diagnosed with a mood disorder too. Doesn't take any meds. Also recently thrеат**ed to k**l my family members and had a g** loaded ready. He didn't go to jail and was allowed to get his we***n back. I have no idea what he's doing now but hopefully not planning to come after my immediate family and still it's all about him and his wants/needs. He convinced my gpop that he "didn't mean it' and my gpop gave him 30k to move 🤷♀️🤦♀️
Your father could be a narcissist or he could just be a bitter disabled person either way you have issues you need to resolve, professional help would probably be more productive than a TH-cam comments section.
Only thing worse than Kevin’s are Steve’s
Yeah, him talking about how “physically fit” he was and then him describe even his arteries were and that’s why they moved out of the way…? Who knows- this guy is so bizarre. Truly delusional.
"I hear you barkin big dawg" never gets old!!! 💯🔥🤣🥰
We have to stop this idea that victims of abuse are healed by getting an apology from the abuser, or even seeking one. If you still need an apology from an abuser, you're handing your power away to someone not even worth a second of your time.
Such a good point
I absolutely agree. And I hate that we glorify forgiving abusers as if it's the virtuous thing to do. Forgiveness is earned and should be given with caution. The martyr's attitude is a major part of the cycle of abuse. You don't need to forgive someone to move on with your life.
True but it is not always easy for ppl. J/S.
Entitlement personified.... he dismisses "doing things so people find you acceptable" to be beneath him, but expects everyone in the world to do whatever is convenient to fulfill his requirements?
I’m happy to rewatch this. This guy is such a piece of work, I need to watch it twice to grasp the fact he’s a real person.
I had a friend that was kinda like this…not quite this bad but he really thought he was superhuman.
6:35 "They describe me as brutally honest."
"Actually, what they said was 'honestly, brutal'".
Then he proceeds to describe how deeply he gouged his own neck, twisting the knife, when we see only superficial wounds.
With that freakishly strong strength 🤣
Im still healing from being with an abusive narcissist and the relationship ended in 2017. It's life changing in a bad way
Much love and healing sent to you. My marriage of 17 years to an emotionally abusive narc ended in 2016 and I'm still a shell of who I was. It's a journey I wouldn't wish on anyone. They say time heals all, and I pray for us both that it's true.
Hop you are doing okay, you can do this ( i did too) ❤
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@@ImJustKaren_Melanie Tonya-Evans is a wonderful person to listen to, for anyone who has suffered from the incredibly damaging but often misunderstood effects of being with a malignant narcissist. Also the book by Don Hennessy ‘How he Gets into Her Head’ is a classic in recognizing and understanding such damaged and damaging abusers and how to recover from such insidious and life-changing abuse as well as recover from the trauma that such people cause to those whom they target, their targets usually being sensitive and empathetic people which makes them vulnerable. The main thing is to be kind to oneself - because the damage is what is called ‘soul murder’ - it is as bad as that which is why it takes time and enormous self-care, to fully recover from such appalling abuse. The good thing is that one becomes highly attuned to recognize narcissism in individials in both private and public life, an insight which offers brilliant clarity into the empty husks that proliferate and operate in this world.
Everyone needs friends and to know the value and importance of true friendship.
Cruelty to animals by children is unnatural and definitely a sign of a deeper disturbance.
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There are people born who will never have a true friend. They develop inner strength; and also, there are dogs
@@barefootincactus We’re in agreement that animals make excellent companions and I’m an introvert myself, and yet I have many
longstanding, trusting, meaningful friendships and a few close confidants.
It’s important to know how to be a friend to another person and to be able to give and take in order to maintain that relationship. It takes trust, faith, commitment, understanding and appreciation of
another person’s values, goals and perspective and everyone needs to be capable of that.
@@donnaengel6413You sound like a good person. You say everyone needs to be capable, and that is a worthy goal. I am sure you are aware of dysfunctional families, mental illness, and genetic issues like Asperger’s. Also that it can take a lifetime of therapy and other care to attempt to reach what you speak of. Meanwhile there are dogs (and other pets). I wish you well and am sure you will live a wonderful life.
@@barefootincactus I wish you all the best, as well, and understand that different situations and mental health conditions require coping mechanisms.
Be well, my friend;)☀️
Many murderers do or did perpetrate animal cruelty.
Wow what an annoying creature. Hopefully he never gets out.
I’m a narcissist and bipolar. I got laid off last year was out of work for 9 months totaled my car during that time…. None of this is valid reasons to murder someone smh
But would a true narcissist ever admit it?
@@chudleyflusher7132ooooooo, fair point, definitely different levels of narcissism
I hope you have the support needed
@@chudleyflusher7132 thru therapy I’m self aware
@@VickyRyan2018 back on my feet thank God and thank you
Straight narcissism at its finest. It literally was all about him and how much pity we should have for him.
Kevin talks like a mixture of Steven Segal and Christopher Walken lol.
It's a Canadian accent.
I need more cowbells
He's got the same shitty attitude as Steven Seagal
Because that's all he would watch when he was not fantasising about assaulting little girls
But Christopher Walken is kidding.
That poor girl was seriously strong. I can't imagine how she could forgive him. It's been 15 years for me and I'm not even remotely close to the possibility of forgiving him.
@Delicate_Disaster I'm so sorry you had to go through that. There's absolutely no reason for you to forgive anyone who abuses or traumatizes you. So, don't feel like you have to forgive any criminal.
You dont have to forgive him.
Don’t feel like you have to forgive him. It’s not necessary, the only thing you should focus on is healing ❤️🩹.
Yeah people think forgiving is important, and most respond "well forgiveness is more for me to move on with my life and heal my own wounds more then its to actually forgive the person" 😅 this is wrong on two fronts, forgiving doesnt heal shit and when you actually say the word forgive and you actually dont truly care nore actually forgive the person you are being stupid, on a side note for me personally, i think God is the only one who actually has the ability and the power to forgive, its not our job, actually like women in abusive relationships where they stay in the relationship taking the beatings because they keep "forgiving " their spouse you are actually committing harm to yourself which is against gods wishes, just self deleting urself, your not allowed to bring harm to any human or animal including yourself
Faith, the idea of forgiveness, is one way people deal with anger. It is certainly not the only way. Anger needs to be dealt with, somehow. Otherwise, it eats at us, not at the people who have harmed us. Staying angry with them is like letting those people hurt us forever. Our anger destroys our health, our relationships, any peace or happiness coming our way. It can turn into addiction or depression. Negative emotions in general are exhausting and never do any good in the world unless we find ways to transform that negative energy into something positive and beneficial. Personally, I pour all my anger and other negative emotions into art. Art is a river that washes me clean and makes me fit company for my family and friends. I don't believe for a moment that you are either delicate or a disaster, young lady. I believe you are stronger and more able than most people would ever imagine. I know you will find your own way. Wishing you a beautiful future. Always remember that the greatest revenge is living a good life.
I adore that detective who kept calling Kevin out when he tried to make it about himself 😂😂😂😂
When you went “AAAAAH THIS GUY SUCKS SO BAD” it was right after I, myself, grunted in frustration and secondhand embarrassment lol. If Mike can’t contain the cringe, you KNOW the guy sucks shit extra.
This amazes me. My son is RCMP and I as female was turned down, although I passed every bar. Yet, this man got accepted? Crazy! In retrospect, I an glad I was turned down because now I am a high school teacher. I suspect my merciful side got me got me axed.
I just can't tolerate narcissists,...prob'ly why the older I get the less people I associate with.
Thanks Mike! I love you too.
weird enough that you've become my storyteller to fall asleep - BEYOND COOL that i get to go back and rewatch at least once. thx for the joyful work, man.
Me too
lol is that really a good thing or does it mean this doesn’t entertain you
Well that's an interesting comment. @@DocsBank
So That Chapter makes you fall asleep? I find Mike’s videos entertaining.
Advice from me, don't fall asleep to true crime TH-cam you will have dreams about kids getting drowned by their aunt or whatever video you were watching. Not good 😂
I feel bad for the children of these screwed up people. And, of course, their unsuspecting victims and their families.
Canadian here, I am always so surprised at the tragedies I never hear of - hope you had a lovely Christmas. Happy New Year!
Canadian here too! I grew up in Ottawa so it hit close to home when I heard about this case, even though I no longer live in the city. This was especially sad as Chapnick had made such a drastic career change later on in life. I knew very little about the perp but now I sure know way too much about him. The RCMP, man....IDK....a lot of pretty bad stuff has happened under them.
Canadian also and like you I’ve never heard of this tragedy. I’m in Montreal.
Mainstream media does not report on these cases because it doesn't fit their narrative.
How’s it goin’, eh?
It's almost like Canada is a huge country
The way he sees himself and even his voice sounds like a character straight out of a Steven segal movie played by Steven himself
Narrows eyes:‘’I’m freakishly strong’’
I need a break from family drama, thank you Mikeyboy!
Whatever you're dealing with, I hope it gets better soon. I too deal with much family consternation during the holidays, so I understand how exhausting it is.
@@DeathMetalDerf
Ditto.....sometimes positivity from an outside person helps get us through personal issues.
@galaxinity
Hang in there!
Wishing you the very best in all you do!
I think he’s talking about holiday family drama guys. 😂
Cheers, mate. Hope all is well with you and yours. May the new year find you healthy and happy, my friend!
Hey Mike!! Contrary to popular belief, unlike Alaska, we have sun all year round, lol. As a matter of fact it’s December 27th and we don’t even have snow on the ground!! Yesterday was +9 C. In the summer it’s very hot and depending on where you live in Canada, when it’s very hot it can get very humid as well. I live in Calgary, Alberta and we’re surrounded by the beautiful Rocky Mountains. If you’ve ever had the chance to come to Calgary I believe that you’d really love it! 🇨🇦
12/27/23 Narcissistic isn’t even full words to describe this guy! He does not give a shit, about anyone! Only about himself (All about Me) Eric, rip💔 Love to his Family and Friends
Ottawa born and raised and I remember when this happened and honestly being saddest that someone lost their dad that day
I was born in that hospital. I live in Ottawa. I remember when this happened. Way to go Mike! A story in my hometown.
Narcissism is the most awful behavior and not so easy to recognize right away, this guy besides his narcissism was a serious sick bastard. Glad his is in jail.
Small correction: Greg would have only needed to wait 5 years to get his pardon. The 10 year wait time was changed by the Harper Government in the late oots. It was changed due to the public's outrage that Karla Homolka was able to get a pardon 5 years out of prison. She did her whole bit so 5 years later, she got a clean record, changed her name, now lives a quiet life In Quebec.
Oh God don't get me started on Holmoka
This doesn’t make sense. So it used to be 10 years but it was changed to 5 due to public outrage that Karla only had to wait 5 years…? Because you said the 10 year wait time was changed [to 5]
@@stancexpunksit was changed from 5 to 10 cuz of homolka
@@stancexpunks reading is hard huh
I remember when they were still looking for Kristen French (I was a young girl).
I still think homolka was the actual driving force and even worse than Bernardo.
A That Chapter a day, keeps the psychos away... Thanks Mike!
Ohhh I'm sorry you had to re-upload but no worries I'll still watch it 😁 cause your amazing Mike... HAPPY HOLIDAYS 🎉
Mike- I think i started watching you in 2019 and patreon during covid. You are almost at 2M! Great job.
I like that the interviewing officer called him out on his narcissism.
He reminds me of the end of It's A Wonderful Life.
Clarence wrote George a message telling him, "No man who has friends is a failure". Like this dude with no friends. 🙄
Oh man.. nothing like a Classic That Chapter video in the Classic Mike interpretation. ❤❤❤
Btw, there are some old cases that have been solved since you covered them years ago. Can we expect a few _TC - Update Edition_ videos?
Oooh 2nded
Yes please!!
Bump
Please do an update video!
Yes!!
Lack of morality mixed with narcissism, YEP sounds like the perfect cop to me!
As a Canadian, I know how prestigious the RCMP is. I'm pretty shocked he was accepted into it!
Exactly! With that behavioral health history? It's not an easy path becoming RCMP and many potential "bad" candidates flush out under the stress. HOW did this piece ever hit the streets?
I'm not. The RCMP is an incredibly corrupt and incompetant organization.
Maybe don't be... Maybe instead have less confidence in govt agencies.
Now, and after this incident the RCMP is prestigious, but before this, it was somewhat relaxed.
@@socore4659 Wow! Someone on the internet telling me not to trust the government!
You are by far my favorite true crime story teller!!!
Thanks for reuploading, sorry you had to do that! This was a good one. What a psycho.
10 years for molesting a ten-year-old?! What is the sentence for raping a 5-year-old? 5 years? Pathetic. Unacceptable. Simply tragic.😅
Could you look into covering the murder of DeAngelo Tobia? His grandmother Terry Borgia was convicted but a lot of people think it was actually the aunt.
@@PaganPunk it was recommended but I'm not a fan of the channel TBH, the voice grates on me.
@@PaganPunk EWU Crew!! 😊🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🤗
@@MushroomMayhem EWU does fantastic work.
Though I understand the sound irritation ... there are a couple female's channels that I can't handle myself. Too much excess whining and not enough straight to the point facts.
Exactly why I LOVE Mike so much... his voice is pleasing to me so even the extra is welcomed 😊
i’m hooked on that case. It’s so weird
@@catherinerickard699 same, it's just so bizarre!
I think we can all agree that you’re the G.O.A.T. We really appreciate your dedication and staying true to the TH-cam community!! Rock on Mike.
I started it & forgot to finish it anyways , so perfect ! Thanks Mike ❤
I had always been a huge fan of Bailey Sairian and Mrballen. I watched them constantly. Then I found That Chapter. I haven't watched bailey in ages but I have to watch Mrballen 😊. Thank you for being my favorite content creator. Your stories are so attention grabbing. I am constantly checking in to see if there is a new video up but if not, oh well, I'll just rewatch my favorites.. ❤️
I made the same true crime journey. :)
You might like Coffee House Crime, also.
I also love Bailey Sarian, but Mike is my #1
Thanks 4 all the hard work Mike! Really love your stuff, podcast included 🙌🏻
Watched twice to support. Sorry you were having issues but hopefully it's good now. Thanks for working so hard on these. :) Happy holidays!
Crazy that he was able to run into the hospital after getting stabbed in the neck 🤯
He didnt stab his legs..
@@hastyhillfarmand4x480 well obviously but still it’s mad that he fully runs in there, guess it was the adrenaline
Adrenaline is a hell of a drug
Oh thank goodness I thought I was crazier than I actually am. I watched this yesterday too. Will never be a chore to watch Mike twice.
Wow that guy is the absolute worst. It's sickening listening to him talk. We need to designate an island to people like that. Poor Pickles, sounds like he was a legend. RIP❤
They should convert Manhattan Island in New York City into a maximum security prison
They tried that once. It's called Australia.
Yeah didn't we have Alcatraz? They shut it down
Yes!!! There is a island suitable ....its called England, he would fit in very well indeed here , no problem .....
The interrogating officer is one of the best I've seen 👌
Here's to a better new year for our planet!!! Thanks for your that chapter 🎉❤
How did he become a mountie?! Great job with the mental screening process, RCMP! Why does this happen so often with police forces?
I grew up watching " Sergeant Preston of the Yukon " ( with his dog King). What a let down.😐🙁🤤
The job attracts people with a certain mindset.
getting a video on my birthday!!! 🎉 how exciting 🥰 thank you Mike!!
(i'm a Canadian living in Ottawa too, hEckiN wiLd)
Well then happy birthday 🎉🎂🐱💵🍕
Happy Birthday and Happy New Year!!!
"I'm so freakishly strong." Well, he got the freak part right.
He’s given off real Steven Seagal vibes
This is the exact type of stuff that doesn't make me chant "Back The Blue" or blindly think all cops are upstanding members and just shows how people who definitely should not be cops can become pretty easily become one.
Every individual is unique and different. There's certainly a culture that seems toxic around police forces in the US, but everyone on earth is capable of both great harm and great compassion.
Hearing his last words were "thank you" broke my fucking heart. The man was dying, and he thanked the people trying to save his life.
I love your channel! Def #1 True crime storyteller!! Long time fan! I've been watching you like 2 boyfriends ago lol you gotta laugh if not cry right no it's okay. My bf went to treatment for drinking. I'm in recovery so i couldn't have him around me running or using. Anyway thanks for listening to my story. I love listening to you 💚❤️✨ Blessed be
People invariably get the saying "In the wrong place at the wrong time" wrong. The people in question are usually in the right place at the wrong time. They are where they want or need to be but it is the wrong time when something happens!!
Grandiose narcissim. Why did the force employ him?
Mike..you are the best! Don’t ever stop “giving it a goo”! Your facial expressions are the best. Keep up the great work you do!
Awesome stories, delivered even better.
Mike is a natural storyteller with morals most can relate to…No shit. Subscribe & C.. I don’t miss anything.
That Chapter rocks.
"That Morrisette song really screwed me up."😂😂😂😂
Mike, you never disappoint!😂
omg, the victim's letter broke my heart so much 😢 i hope she's doing fine today and this monster can rot in jail forever
I wasn’t able to watch the episode yesterday, so to open TH-cam up and I see an edited video! Thank you Mike!
So funny how he states hes "freakishly strong" all while never doing any exercise.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year , Mike ! Thank you for your fantastic channel ! ❤
Wow! I was super excited to see a new upload but then realized I had already watched it yesterday. Sad but I’ll still leave a like for Mike! Love from Texas buddy!
I appreciate this detective calling it all out for what it is , instead of coddling this loser. And the detective showed remarkable restraint I’m sure he wanted to throttle this guy. The difference between a narcissist and a reasonable person..
Mike has the only channel that you can watch the view counter roll like a gas pump, you go Mike!
I've met a few people with NPD, but none of them were as extreme as this guy. He is oblivious to how much he brags about himself. "I can't die. I'm inhumanly strong!" This guy can't get enough of himself.
Whatever issues you had with this video, It's still a good and informative one, Mike. Thanks!
He has great qualities to be in law enforcement, this is what they require in their pirates.
Hi Mike just want to say I always look forward to your uploads. Love your channel. ❤ From East London, South Africa
They say that a narcissist is created out of excessive neglect or excessive idolization from the parents. His mum thinking cookies would work sort of proves the point.
You can tell his mom sheltered him hard, and seeing how self centered his dad was I think his mom tried to raise him to be just like his father
There is no rehabilitation for this guy. He is just pure evil.