How to help jumping, nipping or any other obnoxious behavior

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  • @johnnyfever9708
    @johnnyfever9708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    The problem for most people is they get a dog because they want a friend, someone to love them. They hope the dog will naturally act in the right way without them having to train and correct their friend. They don't want to risk the friendly relationship they have with their dog by being the boss. But that's a recipe for disaster whether raising dogs or kids. Your dog can still be your friend, but he first has to respect you.

    • @WollongongSkyWatch
      @WollongongSkyWatch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I know too many humans with this idea; it's very sad for their dogs.

    • @dabiggdogg1027
      @dabiggdogg1027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Very Well said I agree 100% good video. I like this comment as well.
      I’ve had 3 Cane Corso my youngest is 3 months old. Play if you want to they’ll show you whose boss and you don’t want that trust me.

    • @rachelm7525
      @rachelm7525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're so right 👍

    • @jessicajarsak7812
      @jessicajarsak7812 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah and dogs actually need discipline because they are just like little kids lol. Little toddlers in dog bodies.

    • @jillsy2815
      @jillsy2815 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly!!! I used to tell my kids, "I don't care if you like me or not; I'm trying to raise a good person." 🙏🏽❤️

  • @Boyhead1973
    @Boyhead1973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I fully support everything you say 100%... I have an 8-month-old Border Collie and a 59-year-old husband. As I try to be consistent with his training, I also have to train my husband who is NOT consistent.

    • @cathylarkins9949
      @cathylarkins9949 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Giggles

    • @RairakkuMushi
      @RairakkuMushi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me with my StepDad. I tell him to not let my 7month BC jump on him… he just says no cuz he’s spoiling him.

  • @terridavis9278
    @terridavis9278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Training MUST start when that cute little furry sweet puppy enters your home. It is easy to love the little guy and laugh at all its antics but that little guy is going to grow up. So from the very start the puppy must understand nothing happens without your say so. You are the leader / boss. Remember if you don't want a grown dog to jump on you then don't let a puppy jump on you. Short time pain (in training a puppy non stop) equals long time gain (a well behaved adult dog). Another great informative video from Joel.

    • @bottomherout2357
      @bottomherout2357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol you literally said nothing new 🤣 everyone knows this dude .

    • @terridavis9278
      @terridavis9278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bottomherout2357 How could a person say something "new" when it comes to Joel's training. I wrote that for the newbies and the pet parents that don't use tough love.

    • @Adianodelih
      @Adianodelih 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Indeed. You can't expect a puppy to follow but still you must repeat without discouraging your self, they're field with so much Energy and Joy but it's pur duty to let them know what's unacceptable

  • @colewooten8550
    @colewooten8550 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I've been binge watching Joel's channel for 2 days now, and I am fully invested in his guidance. I love the fact that he speaks to us like real people and doesn't coddle us in a baby voice. Finally found someone that speaks my language (and my puppy's!)

  • @BazDad382
    @BazDad382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is one of top trainers in America. I only follow his and Cesar M advice.

    • @BazDad382
      @BazDad382 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG Beckman liked my post. You made my DAY keep dropping vidoes bro bro and me n my Dog De'Vil will keep watching. You are a fucking Legend training killer whales omg i am fan boying sorry bro bro. Have a great day love you and your team

  • @name.terrie
    @name.terrie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    "Correction", "meaning business", being no nonsense doesn't translate to being mean or abusive to our nuggets. I have to say, the leash training I learned from you/your channel and recall have been absolutely game changers. I so love the dogs I have the privilege to foster. I want the best for them, I strive to keep them safe, and for them to thrive. You have helped me help them so very much. Thanks soooo much.

  • @carolelawmac7921
    @carolelawmac7921 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Can’t wait to put this into action! We have 4 dogs. One (Australian Shepherd) is OUT OF CONTROL. I’ve never had a dog as hyper as him. We live on 5 acres and they exercise regularly, but this one has absolutely zero self control with jumping and getting in our space. This succinct video is exactly what I was looking for. 🙏🏽

    • @debbiearchibald
      @debbiearchibald 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have a 5 month Aussie. She is the worst puppy I have ever had. This is the first puppy we have had which I didn't have an older dog. Me and my husband are now the older dogs and we are to old for that lol. I don't know if we made a mistake getting an Aussie.

    • @rawrevelations2002
      @rawrevelations2002 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am having the same issue… my 4 month old Aussie is SO Smart. She makes up her own training tricks! She’s so smart! She watches me every second. So If my eyes leave her direction she immediately does something that’s a “no.” I am working with her 3 times a day. After we have a wonderful training and play!!! She then bolts and pulls the leash so hard she’s going to break her own neck and pull my fingers out of my joints. She goes wiggly worm wild. Biting nipping. I’m bleeding from teeth, bruised and sore. She acts apologetic when I grab her by the skin of the neck and coller *** til next time!!! I have so much fun with her and now she’s been in the kennel more than out. It has to stop, pup or not… a few days ago I thought a prong or vibration collar was cruel. Now I’m going to see how much they cost… this dog is smart, my friend said… She’s gonna be a really good dog for you… in 3 years😂😂😂😂

  • @annettestephens5337
    @annettestephens5337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thank you Joel. I am a naturally passive person who shys away from confrontation. Owning a dog has challenged me hugely but your videos have taught me the importance of stepping up and being in charge. I have had to act out of character and be very assertive with my super confident/head strong young dog. It felt ‘mean and unloving’ at first, but the results are undeniable. My dog does not seem to understan subtly, so I have followed your lead and been clear, firm and consistent as much as can. If I have an ‘off day’ I will pay for it later!!

  • @bluboyblu6315
    @bluboyblu6315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Joel! You're right on buddy!! Until your dog understands that you are the pack leader and the boss in your house behavior problems are extremely difficult to correct! A little tough love is in order here . My sister owns a small toy dog and one time just applying some of your techniques on a walk, I had her dog under control within 5 minutes and she could not believe it! But she and her husband continue to baby and pamper the dog with affection when she misbehaves, and so they continue to have problems. The other thing is everyone in the family needs to be on the same page about training the dog and be disciplined and consistent about it, otherwise, the dog will only be confused and never learn direction! Just my 2 cents! Cheers!

  • @adrienne5836
    @adrienne5836 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this. I found your channel a month or so ago. It’s been life-changing around here.

  • @LauraLemleyLucas
    @LauraLemleyLucas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have been so grateful for finding your channel and all your videos. My favorite 2 channels right now are yours and Zacks (the reality training series), because they have given me real life expectations of my dog. And yours was the only video I've seen that broke it down for me that what ages we can expect dogs/puppies to learn some of these things. And learning that my dog is not abnormally acting like a psycho; this is very normal and it's up to me to get it under control, I needed it!. Thank you so much. We cant all be out there on the west coast or paying to come to you regularly so your insight has been invaluable! And I've said it before, but finding a trainer who doesn't rely on "correctional" collars to deal with just regular unacceptable behavior, a Godsend! Thank you!

  • @1974newton
    @1974newton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    With the biting... I think many people lose temper when dog is not doing the right thing and face up to the dog and point fingers and raise voice etc. Before that? no leadership no rules dog is pulling and than bam the owner freaks out. Nearly Noone correct the dog before set rules and stay calm the same time. When I teach people about dogs this is one of my important advices : stay calm when correcting. Check your pulse and get yourself together cause your the boss. They bite from fear and loosing trust to you.
    Love your videos Joel 👍🏼

  • @MaryJ0
    @MaryJ0 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow! You can see this sort of behaviour in our communities with parents who have out of control teens! Spare the rod spoil the child mentality 😮
    I don't understand how people can abuse their dog/child, and it's the same thing with discipline.
    We have a generation of poor, unattentive, ineffectual and lazy parenting....goes in the same lane w their dogs.
    I completely understand. No freaking abuse, just good stern parenting. Give these pet dogs some honest, consistent guidance and attention. Let them know who is boss...
    Period.
    Thank you for the excellent advice.
    New follower for my 4mos old German shepherd female
    I adore it, but she knows who the bass is, and she LOVES IT AND LISTENS

  • @ravelanone9462
    @ravelanone9462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A million thumbs up! I can’t always catch my 8-month-old ACD/Border Collie/mutt mix when she won’t come in when called. When she’s in the mood to turn it into a game and I’m not, it’s difficult. She’s incredibly fast, and I’m a petite woman who is not fast enough! 😆 What I’ve found effective so far is to give her “the look”-a direct, unwavering stare, and point at her and tell her to sit. She quickly figures out that I mean business and she lies down and stays put while I approach, and then often shows her belly. I have the leash with me, and she gets put on the leash and brought inside, no problem. No playing till a bit later. It’s been working…but she’s 8 months, so I’m remaining vigilant. Joel, you are brilliant; thank you!

  • @coraimaarojasb9286
    @coraimaarojasb9286 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ughh I cannot explain how much I love your demeanor with UNACCEPTABLE behaviors! Thank you for sharing this information because when I share this collective knowledge it’s almost as if the owner thinks I’m not aware of what I’m saying when it comes to firm and assertive correction. Thank youu !!

  • @triciawade8634
    @triciawade8634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Good to hear this as our 50+ kg 11 month old Caucasian Shepherd is terrible for jumping and mouthing and with her size it hurts! . We’ve started doing as you state as our breeder gave us the same advice - few days in and already seeing improvements - consistency is the key for sure 🤞🏻🤞🏻

  • @roxannecapitani1939
    @roxannecapitani1939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good pep talk Mr Beckman. 😄

  • @thefifthhorseman8886
    @thefifthhorseman8886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so glad I found this channel. We just got a Doberman about 10 days ago and I started applying his methods and the difference in the last 6 days has been really impressive. We still have a lot of work to do, but she’s doing really well on a leash for a 7 month old (female) but she’s skiddish going in and out of doorways.

  • @chrisnossoughi9039
    @chrisnossoughi9039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    By six weeks old my puppies know already no teeth on humans. They learn it within two attempts. The consequences are a fast and timed squeeze of the muzzle . They squeak a second and the release is immediate. They quickly respond with respectful licking. I learned this from our mama BoerBoels who taught me most of my dog training

  • @pmlm1571
    @pmlm1571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just got up off my duff and got my dog by the collar and brought her in and sat her down and looked at her, then let her go. That was for not coming when I called her to come in and stop barking at a squirrel. After I let her go, she went and laid down inside her crate all on her own. wow.

  • @jillsy2815
    @jillsy2815 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is why I respect and adore you so much!!!! 🙏🏽❤️🐾

  • @tracielillytan1530
    @tracielillytan1530 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! I loved this video. I did a four week puppy class and came away thinking “That was a waste of my time, energy and money” I’ve learned more in this one video because it resonates with me…it’s not about being angry and yelling at my dog, it’s about taking charge!

  • @BlingEyeCandy
    @BlingEyeCandy ปีที่แล้ว

    Since finding you on YT, I cannot stop watching and learning from you. Your videos are getting better each time I watch. The only suggestion I have is puting a microphone on the owner or repeat back their comment or question because it may be a question we are all asking.
    I see great results, that's all that needs to be said. Ignore the naysayers, they are inexperienced and overestimated.
    If it ain't broke don't fix it!

  • @jillsorbera7247
    @jillsorbera7247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love these pep talks!!!! 🐾❤️

  • @maryuzo9734
    @maryuzo9734 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a first time dog owner and I've got an 8 month old male Rotty ' Sledge' much against the advice of more experienced dog owners. But, I really wanted to get it right so, I found your channel months ago and your techniques have never failed me. So happy with the way my doggo is turning out to be a fine-mannered k9. I'd definitely get me more additions to the family soon. Thanks BDT.

    • @Bigbilly-ms9bn
      @Bigbilly-ms9bn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I would have found him first. I was trying Zack George stuff and my dog was just running rampant. Since I've found him, his behaviors are getting better. I just got a black lab/rottie mix. I wouldn't have got a rott if I had known. Shelter thought he was part mastiff lol.

  • @KingsMom831
    @KingsMom831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Yep it’s all about being the leader. You will know, when you are seen as the leader because things start to shift.
    You have to embody a pack leader. And you HAVE to mean what you say & FOLLOW THROUGH.

  • @cynthiakarkeys
    @cynthiakarkeys 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This came just in time for me! My 8-month-old just started getting squirrelly and started mouthing me... I added an extra walk and it got better, but the mouthing started again after a couple weeks.
    Thank you Joel for giving this first time puppy owner the tools I need to stay sane.

  • @asp1213
    @asp1213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awesome advice Joel. 👏 You've said it before in other videos. Once you really take the mindset of being the boss, and putting the time in and consistency on the corrections literally everything falls into place. I mush and love and squish my dogs almost constantly. Before finding your channel, I was also wishy washy on correcting pretty much anything my dogs didn't want to do. I have an extremely athletic high prey drive 3yo pit bull that was also the sweetest most cuddly dog, that was quickly on her way to becoming dangerous. Once I changed my behavior and followed these methods consistently, the changes in my dogs are nothing short of miraculous. I didn't just work on fence reactivity or leash reactivity, I worked on ALL the things. You can do this people!!!! I am not mean. I still mush and squish my dogs all the time lol. They still love me. But there is absolutely no question, I am the boss and unacceptable behaviors are unacceptable. Period. Having consistency and rules is good for the dogs and just as good for the owner. I enjoy my dogs so much more because I have so much less stress and frustration. It takes time and consistency. Sometimes it really sucks having to put my shoes on and 'go get' my dog from the yard late at night after a failed recall though lol I'm not going to lie! But that is getting better too, everyday.

  • @kaitlynjennings3448
    @kaitlynjennings3448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve managed to get my dog so calm inside and amazing on walks from your videos, he is just crazy outside 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’ve been trying so much hopefully I’ll try this one!

    • @kaitlynjennings3448
      @kaitlynjennings3448 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Outside in my backyard * outside the house he is great- recall is great and doesn’t misbehave.

  • @Triciak6
    @Triciak6 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I called and left a voicemail and the answer was here along!! I just needed to hear it on the podcast and get another pep talk on TH-cam😊. I know I’m not assertive naturally so after hearing this (and every pod) the whole family is making a plan to address the natural behaviors a puppy does as it grows from puppy, to adolescent, to adulthood, before we get the dog. We are practicing responding with the Uh-uh in a calm, matter of fact but not playful way. For people who have to work at leadership skills more than others, I think rehearsal is key. The behaviors are inevitable so we’re preparing collectively as a family. Still curious how to find the balance between socialization with a puppy and not overwhelming a puppy. We live rural on 10 wooded acres and want to be able to work on skills to bring the dog to busy locations with sounds/ lots of stimulation. My kids race bikes, there’s loud clicking of hubs, air compressed hissing of metal gates dropping, in addition to loud cheering/pa systems. Would you work on conditioning calmness and a “settle” to those noises, played over the phone, at home first? If so what age/signs would show readiness for working on socialization/calmness in that environment directly?
    I’ll be here 💯

  • @marwakii
    @marwakii 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice stuff. Thx a lot. I just got a Bully XL, 5 mths. 3 kids. That video gave me a lot of confidence !! Im raising a 4th child like thing. Known territory!

  • @MB-lf8rm
    @MB-lf8rm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Yes, each of us has to have "the will" -- we need to have "the will" AND we need to have the DISCIPLINE to deal with those behaviors EVERY TIME.
    I confess that too many times, when my 10-month, 45-lb, pup rocketed to the end of the leash, I have just let go of the leash. Because I was too tired, or just didn't want to feel that massive jolt again.

    • @BuffBodHotRod
      @BuffBodHotRod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😬

    • @LSZEsq
      @LSZEsq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They make leashes out of rock climbing rope, and various thicknesses, that do a good job of absorbing the shock. You really just can’t let the dog go. It’s going to get run over.

    • @MB-lf8rm
      @MB-lf8rm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LSZEsq Everyone knows you "just can't let the dog go" when there are roads nearby. I only have let her go when we are out in the woods, miles away from any road. Also, while we still have a thing or two to work on with this pup, one of the things she is excellent at is staying close by and recall. She is ALWAYS within twenty yards of me, and she races back to me like a shot when I call her. She is one heck of a good young dog.

  • @maxinebulldog7095
    @maxinebulldog7095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are so no nonsense i love it. 😊 in our house wen we have had our puppies they learn straight away rules an boundaries and we make it biblical if they started to nip or show any other unacceptable behaviour...if you dont want a 50k dog doing bad stuff then dont accept it wen they only weigh 10k.🤷‍♀️🙂

  • @bostonmommy8698
    @bostonmommy8698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was a great video it's so nice to have someone do videos exactly how I think. Love them thank you. I have 5 dogs and there needs to be order in the house.

  • @bastdanica
    @bastdanica 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Would love to hear more about dog correction when they travel in a car. Ours gets overly excited and woos and squeaks at dogs we drive past to the point of distracting the driver. We drive my son to school and bring the 3 year old boxer/lab with us. Thanks! Great video!

  • @swn69
    @swn69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One more thing... 80% of the bad behaviors you mention, my dog does not do, so I am very happy to know he's not as bad as I think. Doesn't counter surf, doesn't bite or nip, is not aggressive, he rarely barks, he doesn't bolt out doors, etc. He has a sketchy recall (getting better using your method) and he is still leash reactive when he wants to meet other dogs or people, he will try to pull me toward them. This is also getting better using your method. Baby steps.

  • @robinrutherfordcost4748
    @robinrutherfordcost4748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Also want to watch or know if your dog is being bad to be good. Negative attention is better than none at all. It's human nature to wait til they do something wrong to correct them, but if they aren't getting praised or reinforced positively for doing something right, especially a puppy that doesn't even know better, you might be creating the issues just so your dog gets some kind of interaction or reaction from you. Praise and acknowledge what they are doing correct, (catch them doing something right) so they clearly understand, yes, that's the behavior I want, keep doing that. Even if it's just a thumbs up - if you don't want to say anything, but so much better for both of you when you verbally acknowledge what you want. Like Joel's puppy voice. I still forward your videos to my students, Joel. Loved the comment about no prongs or shock collars too! 👍

  • @Arya-mk5bz
    @Arya-mk5bz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so true! Thanks Joel!

  • @anaf.8901
    @anaf.8901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello! Thank you so much for this. I just found your videos and was like: my goodness! This is just what I need! Is there a link somewhere for your Patreon?

  • @martynrich5187
    @martynrich5187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Witching hour. Never really noticed that with my 15wk old puppy until you said that. AFter being walked during my break, I was wondering why they started to go nuts doing zoomies while on my last call of the day.

  • @claramoreno8456
    @claramoreno8456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great advice, thank you!

  • @LaraYAH127
    @LaraYAH127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Beckman family 🐾
    It is time that makes a difference and patience. After you put in want your looking for it gets lighter. Loving them has nothing to do with wanting learned good behavior.
    🐾💕

    • @michaelrath6475
      @michaelrath6475 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want well behaved dogs BECAUSE I love them. I'm responsible for their safety, they mean the world to me.

    • @robertbaelen7656
      @robertbaelen7656 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love my dogs because they are well behaved. And I cuddle them a lot.😊

  • @selfcarewithsamcross8101
    @selfcarewithsamcross8101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re the best Joel! Thanks so much!! Our dog is so much better behaved from when we got her in May, thanks to your methods

  • @wendybrown9035
    @wendybrown9035 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks! Good repetition ... I'm listening!!

  • @kellysites6164
    @kellysites6164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes, this is so helpful.

  • @bettymcconnell1011
    @bettymcconnell1011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent video thank you

  • @matthewvega3848
    @matthewvega3848 ปีที่แล้ว

    I F*ckin love your Approach!

  • @DesignerFromMars
    @DesignerFromMars 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excellent advice as always and I enforce it when I’m with the dog I don’t mind doing it all day. However my kids and wife don’t follow my lead at all. It’s hard to be the “boss” of the dog when you’re not the “boss “of the house. Which brings up a video suggestion: How to train a dog effectively has a family?

    • @WollongongSkyWatch
      @WollongongSkyWatch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My father didn't speak to me for 18mths after I called him out for disrespecting my house rules re my dog. It's a much tougher one when you live with the non-supporters.

    • @rachelm7525
      @rachelm7525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'd maybe call a family meeting and thrash things out. Arrive at a compromise if you have to, but it so matters that you're consistent. You all have to be on the same page. Good luck! 😏

  • @chiefw3573
    @chiefw3573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the new intro 😊

  • @judybeverley-harvey5899
    @judybeverley-harvey5899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this great advice, I am over with his behavior! I am already speaking louder, he looks at me, like who is this! I was always told to turn your back on them when they jump, I am going to watch the video again & do as you say!!!

  • @Imageyenation
    @Imageyenation 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good advice

  • @5dkamath5
    @5dkamath5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for such complete clarity. But when it's a young pup under 6mo age, what sort of correction technique is best to use, especially stubborn breeds like Lhasa Apso or fierce breeds like Rajapalyam?

  • @ktan3142
    @ktan3142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    While I may not necessarily agree with the whole "pack leader/boss" mentality, I absolutely agree with "having the willpower" to do things.
    I have a friend who recently got a puppy, and both he and his girlfriend always ask me what to do when X occurs.
    Just like you, I can tell them what to do, but chances are, they already know what to do - they just don't have the willpower to do it.
    This is especially true of his girlfriend, where she just stares / breaks down / yells as their puppy does all sorts of undesirable behaviors.
    When I suggest that she physically correct the dog (in a sort of go-get method), she claims she doesn't want to be the mean parent. I facepalm every time...

  • @2greeksandacamera
    @2greeksandacamera 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We can tell you love what you do Joel and we recommend you to everyone because what you say works!

  • @jdo2574
    @jdo2574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Being the leader with always following through does not work for barking at people outside my home. I clap once and yell "NO" then get him. His ears are pinned and he slinks around and still barks as I come to get him. I've been doing this since I rescued him 12 months ago. I get him firmly every time.

  • @kelseyfarr7914
    @kelseyfarr7914 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video!

  • @gretasimmons8987
    @gretasimmons8987 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the help

  • @Meche697
    @Meche697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Topics I hope you will cover in depth (1.5 yr Golden Retriever)
    1) on lead, on point. Off lead, doesn't listen until his frenzy to say hello is over. He takes off to play with friends walking by and will not obey. Note, he knows when he's on his 20 foot lead.
    2) last video was spot on, but sometimes I need to start walking towards him before he realizes come mean NOW!
    Something like th-cam.com/users/shortsBtdvcFaeFb0?feature=share

  • @terrycross952
    @terrycross952 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Joel, i have a question about gentle leader. I started using it on my Golden Retriever 4months old puppy because he was pulling hard on a leash. Whats the best time to start using gentle leader?

  • @michaelrath6475
    @michaelrath6475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been using this method..it works.

  • @stevehupper7418
    @stevehupper7418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video, thank you.

  • @LindaLovesLofts
    @LindaLovesLofts ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video and so acurate!

  • @MAGGET49
    @MAGGET49 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Bekman, an you do a video on how to teach "drop it" I hear alot of discussion around it but want to know your method.

  • @Int3x0r
    @Int3x0r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We found your channel and learned a lot. The thing is: our labrador/shepperd mix listens to me (42y male), but when my wife does the same things the dog just keeps going on and on with the nipping and things escalate sometimes. Not that we hurt him, just grabbing the collar, making him sit just like you say, but the moment he's loose he continues to harass my wife. Never happens to me. Perhaps because my physique and voice are more imposing?

    • @leejennifercorlewayres9193
      @leejennifercorlewayres9193 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same thing over here. My boyfriend he listens to but with me he thinks it's party play time 🎉🥳. I put my foot down harder than anything and the dog still thinks he doesn't have to listen. Had to put him in a prong collar so I can safely walk him.

  • @key-hunta5527
    @key-hunta5527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love watching these videos, so interesting and informative, been a great help... shame your not in the UK

  • @kaylahbasoco
    @kaylahbasoco 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi! I was wondering if you could give any advice on becoming a professional dog trainer? There are so many schools and programs that one doesn't really know where to start. Plus, I have a young family and don't want to choose a program that isn't a good fit for us and not be able to afford something better later on. I hope that this makes sense in that you can steer us in the right direction. Thank you so much!

  • @rustyc601
    @rustyc601 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm reviewing your videos and we might be on the edge of "need trainer not youtube" but I'm still reviewing and researching. That said, in the context of this video, I'm dealing with a 3+ year old rescue who is pretty well mannered inside but behaves badly when offleash in the backyard. "Going and getting" to apply that "this is unacceptable" energy isn't an option for a variety of reasons. I'm mixing separation (he values interaction) and command + treat redirection to attempt to establish a different baseline of engagement.
    The next idea I'm considering is ecoller or require on leash (though he bites/hold leashes often) or building a temporary dog run to narrow the open area instead of the entire fenced backyard... allowing more opportunity to go-and-get.
    (I should say I'm interested in any video recommendations for adult dogs exhibiting behavior described in this video but without an ability to easily go-get. Any suggestions would be much appreciated.)

  • @martynrich5187
    @martynrich5187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Question, I have a Puppy15 wk GSD who starts to walk but after 20m's sits down and doesnt like to walk any further (quiet street and i recognise she's a baby/dont expect to walk far). If i take her to a park she'll walk because dogs are around, which encourages her to walk and play, but not on streets. I dont remember on having this issue with my last GSD puppy - she wanted to go everywhere.

  • @Joni.b.
    @Joni.b. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THANK YOU for this one!! Just what we need for our 9 month old looney tune.

  • @rachelm7525
    @rachelm7525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Hey, Joel, the method for nipping that worked for us was: "Aagh!" and 10 seconds out the room. Every. Single. Time. You put them behind a door for 10 seconds. And I'm telling you, it's powerful!

    • @robertkezer3665
      @robertkezer3665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes it is a time out. I use that to and it does work! Nice thanks for the post

  • @daydrms
    @daydrms ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I can't believe I found this video. Our girl is a Black Mouthed Cur and she fits the description of the foster dog

  • @sallykingman8169
    @sallykingman8169 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are so right!! Thanks,Joel. I wish people would do this with their children as well, I was a teacher for many years

    • @michaelrath6475
      @michaelrath6475 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      May I suggest the gentle leader?

  • @kamilo1889
    @kamilo1889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOve the new intro

  • @danehnm2210
    @danehnm2210 ปีที่แล้ว

    fantastic and common sense advice - thank you

  • @therealbc8524
    @therealbc8524 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this today. We adopted a 6 month old large breed mix and his "witching hour" is hell in my house. I am implementing the "go get" method when he jumps on the couch but he's so damn fast its hard for me to catch him. Me coming towards him is a total game to this dog. I get so frustrated!! Should I just stand still until he approaches and then grab him and put in him a "sit" or put him in his "place" (his bed)?

  • @negroknievel
    @negroknievel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    excellent

  • @christierobinson7707
    @christierobinson7707 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @ilonamannan
    @ilonamannan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi. Can this methods be used on 5 month old puppy? We have Great Dane and there are times during walks he starts obnoxious jumping and biting (not aggressive). He is over 70lb now so “puppy” behaviour is more like adult dog size one. Thanks

  • @carrielea6009
    @carrielea6009 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, makes total sense.

  • @goymedhundDogtrainingBehavior
    @goymedhundDogtrainingBehavior 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video.( first sorry for the spelling - i am scandinavian ) I agree - so much could have been done if the dogs get an apropriate amount of good stimuli.
    I see this over and over - Some of these dogs are classifed as group Atype dogs and there is so much underlying stress . Sadly many owners7trainers think that a "calm" dog is indeed calm...they do not know that the dog can be highly aroused internaly and that the cortisol level is dangerously high. . So if the dog behaves the way your patreon talked about i actually think this might be a group A dog..The "deciding when to listen" , jumping biting getting worse when met with "hands on" solutions ( knee up to stop etc) . They might be super stressed internaly and are trying to avoid the owner - not being stubborn.. .This is a hard situation and this type of behavior must be met with a long time plan - empathy and a thorough understanding of dog behavior ( the updated kind - not the Millan way ;) .. i love how you tell people that they should not watch YT videos when they have the biting problem. For regular problems YT can be a treasure trove.. :)

    • @rachelm7525
      @rachelm7525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your spelling looks fine to me, my friend! 🙂

  • @sherylcoates5750
    @sherylcoates5750 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, we have a four month old Groodle.. and he does the sofa leap and nipping also, at the witching hour.. with her age, is the same response correct?

  • @jessicajacobs1500
    @jessicajacobs1500 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Something you probably really know are breed specific info! I’d love to see a dog show! Plus any other breed type info. How do we stay excited about our career? Working remote gets boring! Do the same for us. Keep making videos about what makes your job interesting to you and we will be interested in what you do!

    • @roxannecapitani1939
      @roxannecapitani1939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eh?

    • @jessicajacobs1500
      @jessicajacobs1500 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@roxannecapitani1939 part of the reason I like watching Joel is his work with different breeds. I don’t even have a dog right now but I grew up in a family with a kennel and I miss it! Have you ever been to a dog show? They are awesome! Professional dog handlers and amazing kinds of breeds running around a ring side by side. Seeing them win prizes for their breeding. It’s awesome. We always came home from those events inspired.

    • @roxannecapitani1939
      @roxannecapitani1939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jessicajacobs1500 oh I see, sorry I just didn't understand your comment or how it related to this specific video 😁 I didn't get it because I mainly watch Joel to better understand dog behaviours and he deals with aggressive dogs sometimes. I'm watching to help me help my dog! I'm sure dog shows are amazing, dogs are amazing

    • @jessicajacobs1500
      @jessicajacobs1500 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@roxannecapitani1939 I’m sorry to hear about your dog being aggressive! It can be so hard to deal with that and stay encouraged because we love them so much and they are dependent on us for their needs almost like a child. Keep trying! What can be learned by a dog can be unlearned. And hopefully his nature can be mastered by you with good training! Talk to some local people who know your breed they may have ideas for you! What kind of dog do you have?

    • @bw7839
      @bw7839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. I've always wanted to see Jole do breed specific videos.

  • @jinkim917
    @jinkim917 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think Joel mentioned this advice is for 7mo to 2years. Do we let him nip and bite under that? For my 5mo puppy I try to give him stuff to chew to replace what he chews ... But it doesn't always work even when I have brand new bullysticks and cod skins and Kong's.... Not sure what else to do for younger puppies

  • @allyhastie2944
    @allyhastie2944 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm trying to find some solutions for my English bulldog/ English staffy. He will jump and softly nip guests who come over or if I raise my energy he will try the same. Husband thinks it's playful I think it's attention seeking, and dominant. His lack of impulse control contributes. Is he playing or trying to control everything?

  • @jclorden
    @jclorden 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Joel, my dog (16 month female Doberman) is super sweet and I absolutely trust her with my 3 young kids. She has very good obedience training (sit, stay, come, drop it, etc)… That said she is super reactive on the leash and when she she’s someone (or an animal) through the window… she gets a little nutty and is hard to control or to get her attention back on me… when she actually meets people she is great. Example car pulls into driveway - she freaks out… person in the car comes in the house and she wants nothing but attention from them. I want to work on this with a pro but I live in Maryland and can’t get to your location. Do you have any east coast trainers that you’d recommend?

    • @Angela-lo1ny
      @Angela-lo1ny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just follow Joel's videos on loose leash training. When you can handle that then the reactivity goes away.Practise in the house and in the garden,it's really that simple.Joel is by far the best trainer.

    • @jclorden
      @jclorden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Angela-lo1ny Thanks, I get you and I’ve been trying to follow his methods … but like he always says “you think you are doing it right, but you aren’t” … I need an objective observer… she is actually REALY good loose leash walking right now (no pulling, checking in, stopping when I stop) on the road until she sees someone…. Then she goes haywire!

    • @jclorden
      @jclorden 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@b.t4604 what is a cesar milan style correction?

  • @madmandu
    @madmandu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Subscribed.

  • @emmajudd9398
    @emmajudd9398 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When do you let go of the hold?

  • @kjab87
    @kjab87 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes our 6 month old male Samoyed runs away after a jump, air bite. It mostly happens during the witching hour or when he’s over-stimulated. We crate him for 15 minutes and he’s better. My concern is if this continues if he gets bigger. Any suggestions?
    What are your thoughts about neutering and vaccines? We’d like to keep him Intact. Thank you for your realistic training methods.

  • @mihaeladog7187
    @mihaeladog7187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My 5 mo puppy bites in the morning around 8 not sure what’s in that time frame he just become a brat.He is GSD and big for a pup , I am afraid to correct him too hard bc neighbours might be watching. And I don’t know if I should be so hard on a 5 mo puppy.

  • @drccddmm
    @drccddmm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been trying the go-get method when my dog does not come. She treats it like a game and I would spend 10 minutes trying to get her and failed. It felt like it could go on forever.

  • @rebekahb6533
    @rebekahb6533 ปีที่แล้ว

    PREACH!!!!🙌🙌🙌

  • @brado6655
    @brado6655 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For anyone who’s late here, this is how I’d handle it if my dog tried to bite me. I’d pop her in the nose and then grab her snout and lightly squeeze it closed. Not enough to hurt them but just enough to get the point across and then tell her “no! Bad girl” and put her in a sit or a down. Then ignore them for a while. Just what I’d do but I’ve never had that issue

  • @helpfulbystander5218
    @helpfulbystander5218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Gsd is 7mths old jumps, nips and bites. Have tried this training from this video and other methods like isolating her etc. Only very little improvement. It bites all family member there are times it will go berserk and when I grab to stop her she will fight and keeps biting. Its difficult to grab as she dodges, fight and run and launch at me or us.
    Any other suggestions would be great.

    • @darth_veda
      @darth_veda 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow that must be a nightmare to live with. Seems like the GSD think she's the boss of the house. You gotta take her out and let her burn up enough energy before you start your training. It seems like she's not getting enough exercise. I find majority of behaviour issues in dogs is down to a lack of physical and mental stimulation. Touching your dog in a stern manner also gets them to listen as they find it quite embarrassing to have received a light spanking.

  • @WritesFantasy
    @WritesFantasy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just got my first real puppy. A Samoyed. Into 3rd week. His mouthiness was pretty bad when we got him. I watched vids on correction methods. Especially since I have young (4,3,1) kids, one of who keeps putting her fingers in his mouth. It took a couple weeks, but he's just suddenly clicked at 11 weeks. He is much more careful not to actually put his mouth on the kids. When he plays with my youngest he learned to be careful not to jump and land on him, and not nip either.
    His mouthiness is almost completely gone. I have used voice and active corrections, but also redirect and reward. When I saw him hold himself back with my youngest. He got huge praise and his favorige treat.
    But is this wrong? He isn't even 3 months yet.

  • @GarrettH1
    @GarrettH1 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a Sheppard that avoids the new puppies at all cost he's a male. The two new puppies are male and female. He also nips at them if they get close. Ive been yelling no at him do I just keep doing that?

  • @Anna-dn3bi
    @Anna-dn3bi ปีที่แล้ว

    How do I train my 11mnth rotty . That jumping up at me and mouthing my hand when I try to let him of the chain in the morning . He is just sooo excited

  • @user-ll5eo2ip3z
    @user-ll5eo2ip3z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Exercise and Discipline!

  • @barbarawarren9443
    @barbarawarren9443 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Witching hour" - yup.

  • @LSZEsq
    @LSZEsq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, Joel, I love your videos and I’m trying to use your methods on my dog. She is a tough one. She is now 16 months old and is doing all of the behaviors you have mentioned. She is a rescue, jack russell/Chihuahua/Amstaff mix. She is only 20 pounds, but it is 20 pounds of solid muscle and she is very strong and determined. I have tried the go get method, and the problem is when I grab her collar she just goes limp. I don’t want to drag her by her neck across the floor. I also don’t want to pick her up because she will think that’s a good thing. How would you suggest handling this? Thanks!

    • @rachelm7525
      @rachelm7525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi, Linda. If I may? My dog wears a harness so when I go get him I clip the lead back on and return to where I was. I'll then usually put him in a sit for a few seconds to calm him. Hope that helps 🙂

    • @LSZEsq
      @LSZEsq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rachelm7525 thanks Rachel. Usually she doesn’t wear a harness around the house though. What I’ve started doing instead of dragging her is just picking her up firmly and bringing her to where I wanted her to come. She weighs 20 pounds so it’s good exercise for me!

  • @deniseagostinelli2855
    @deniseagostinelli2855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is helpful and I see the benefit of more exercise. Have a 1 year old GSD pup and when we correct for mouthing, jumping, etc - it seems to amp him up more. He zooms across the room and wants us to chase him like it is a game. Is there a way to counter that?

    • @LittleBarracuda
      @LittleBarracuda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i had this issue with my gsd as well when he was around 6ish months old, he would just get agitated by any reaction i gave. My trainer recommended me to just completely ignore him no matter what. It did really help and now he is out of this phase luckily. Lots of marks on my hands legs and arms but worth it. I don't know how well this is going to go with a one year old gsd tho due to the size and strength

    • @robertbaelen7656
      @robertbaelen7656 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      1)One year old is no pup anymore.
      2)put a rope on his collar let it drag behind him. Running away and playing all your sensitive notes, stops, balance on the rope towards the dog and didcipline him as Joël says.
      3)Break your social contact with him by putting him for 15 sec in another 'bald' room.
      4)Let him in again on your terms and conditions, rectify him, correct him, show him

    • @Jyrgenstrator
      @Jyrgenstrator 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@robertbaelen7656 1) one year old is still a puppy!