Self Esteem Will Do What!

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  • @Woopwoop65
    @Woopwoop65 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    You are right on the money Herc. I come from a background with two very troubled parents. They weren't evil, but they didn't have their stuff together at all. I had literally zero self-esteem at all growing up until I became an adult. I started working on it (after i distanced myself from the constant chaos), had many ups and downs and many setbacks. But now I have my own business, an awesome wife and a spot in life that is looking way brighter than the past. It is difficult, but even if you come from a broken home, you can make it by working on the problems relentlessly.

    • @stephenallen3274
      @stephenallen3274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is inspiring for me thanks brother

  • @steve2561
    @steve2561 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    to bad a lot of parents don't instill self esteem in their children.

  • @steveatbentover3320
    @steveatbentover3320 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I've learned so much about my self through this channel. Would have been nice if my parents were the ones to tell me, but hey at least this guy taught me. Thanks big herc

    • @bigherc916
      @bigherc916  6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Kyle L my parents didn’t tell me either, I learned the hard way

    • @nickpayne4724
      @nickpayne4724 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Big Herc, what you're doing is impacting so many people's lives. I wouldn't be the person I am today without the jewels you pass on to all of us. I'm serious - I've been able to navigate so many challenging parts of life just in the last year that I've been exposed to your channel and your guidance and insights. A physical jewel can only be given once, but these ones duplicate themselves and keep traveling. From the worst situations have come some of the best people. THANK YOU

  • @randychampion184
    @randychampion184 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    High self esteem comes from performing estimable acts....the more you accomplish that's positive the more confident you feel. That helps even when you fail....it helps you to be resilient, even in the face of adversity.

  • @SCOOTAVIZION
    @SCOOTAVIZION 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man thank you for these positive messages you made a difference in me

  • @Danielcoleco
    @Danielcoleco 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I work with alotta older teens and early 20 yr olds and they all have dreams. Instead of being the cynical sarcastic ass I used to be I encourage and learn about their dreams and challenge them to do that and more. Thanks Herc

    • @bigherc916
      @bigherc916  6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Coleco Co I think if people gave kids more encouragement, they wouldn’t be so quick to give up

    • @MrBigChops
      @MrBigChops 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you don’t mind sharing, what kind of work do you do? I’m trying to be in a similar position. I’m 17 right now and planning my future.

  • @nolosanchez3668
    @nolosanchez3668 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All love from that 714 Big Herc, gotta leave the past to achieve at last

  • @ItsAllGoodGames
    @ItsAllGoodGames 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    low self esteem can help u push urself to greatness. its all on u.

  • @weedandwine
    @weedandwine 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish people like you with advice like this was around back in the 70's, 80's when I grew up.

  • @Quadrex7
    @Quadrex7 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm back watching this again nine months later.
    I gain so much from this knowledge.

  • @Lemon-rk9hq
    @Lemon-rk9hq 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s hard but you have to believe in yourself and tell yourself you can do it keep pushing no matter what even though it sucks sometimes it will be worth it in the end hard work always pays off

  • @hybridmultimedia6436
    @hybridmultimedia6436 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    BigHerc916 Our candidate for 2020 election, Vote no excuses and stop hating, Help us, Help us

  • @msameg
    @msameg 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    True. Gentlemen. , mentor, father figure , u are my guide light. Inspiration thank I my positivity. Force. My brother

  • @thelasthero1750
    @thelasthero1750 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These the realest words I've heard from anybody in a while aside from Big Herc.

  • @sherryparkman7635
    @sherryparkman7635 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    HEY BIGHERC I AGREE WITH YOU.YOUR TALK ABOUT SELF-ESTEEM WE CAN SENSE WHEN WE LISTEN TO YOUR VIDEOS IT SHOWS.YOUARE LIVUNG LARGE , SO HAPPY FOR YOU YOU DESERVE IT.TO THETOP!

  • @twizzum5
    @twizzum5 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Big herc...this is too real...I live my life by this mentality I love shittin on all the haters..god bless em

  • @quesanabrams9810
    @quesanabrams9810 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Big herc. My man. Where is the big smile when u start.

  • @joshuajohnson5317
    @joshuajohnson5317 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big Herc you're dropping jewels. Everything that you brung up, happened to me but I refuse to give up. Thanks Herc & hoping everything goes well for you

  • @Alex-ky8bw
    @Alex-ky8bw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your channel Big Herc, you the only guy on youtube who gives raw advice, much respect.

  • @andracadicecrawford4256
    @andracadicecrawford4256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks bro!

  • @weldonmebane3949
    @weldonmebane3949 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Knowledge!! Big Dog!👍

  • @trulyjdm
    @trulyjdm 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    "I don't listen to shit, I hear from people who ain't accomplish shit, people who been out here for the last 10 years who ain't got shit trying to tell me about shit." Fuck those naysayers and believe in yourself. Love your videos Herc!

  • @Trillmxtic
    @Trillmxtic 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m only 19 but this is true. This year is the first I’ve felt comfortable as myself. Fuck that bullshit just be ur self nd people come into ur life for the person u are

  • @collinschubert6940
    @collinschubert6940 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my favorite video you've made big homie I sent the link to my fiance she is very depressed due to alot of fucked up shit that popped off in her life. I wish I could actually talk to you man, guess if I make my effort we will sometime soon. Much love.

  • @kbanks9911
    @kbanks9911 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    dropping science god sent message priceless

  • @thabomboneni2994
    @thabomboneni2994 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really love the jewels dropped on this channel

  • @aaronpotter7559
    @aaronpotter7559 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks Big Herc. keep it going. you are a blessing.

  • @donellis5005
    @donellis5005 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Once again Big herc you're an inspiration man, thanks for being a role model and keeping it real you really make a person think about what direction they're going in life and I appreciate that and great content is usual

  • @JonBomIX
    @JonBomIX 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Big Herc. Your videos are a huge inspiration. I hope to check out the life coaching when financially feasible.

  • @alitanwir3372
    @alitanwir3372 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice.

  • @austinhardison2582
    @austinhardison2582 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big herc is the dad I wish I had but never got.thanks herc

  • @tylerjoyner9865
    @tylerjoyner9865 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Low. Self esteem can really mess your life up entirely

  • @collinschubert6940
    @collinschubert6940 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless you Herc your so damn right...

  • @jordiemarshall7811
    @jordiemarshall7811 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cheers from Ireland Big Herc

  • @JonesRealEstate19
    @JonesRealEstate19 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou. Mr. Bighurc916. I needed that Self esteem talk.

  • @TrucknGame
    @TrucknGame 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great message homie

  • @thephenomenon6258
    @thephenomenon6258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Checking in from Somalia 🇸🇴 what it do big herc nine one srx

  • @AiiRv
    @AiiRv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo! You inspire me every morning before I start my day. Love from Alaska bro.

  • @Quadrex7
    @Quadrex7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this video. I'm on a binge watch of your videos because I missed some due to cheek busting activities. Great stuff Big Herc. Start from scratch 😎

  • @SoutheastBeats
    @SoutheastBeats 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Real talk man

  • @RealOriginalGamers
    @RealOriginalGamers 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    that was a powerful video

  • @X-rayAnon
    @X-rayAnon 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great talk, Herc!

  • @Paaka
    @Paaka 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I grew up I never heard it this way dying or prison is the easy way out it's hard to live I remember those words everyday

  • @sagetscippio8878
    @sagetscippio8878 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯👏🏾👏🏾 from 209 Stockton CA!

  • @devonlewis3463
    @devonlewis3463 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your Detroit interview was great herk

    • @bigherc916
      @bigherc916  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Devon Lewis thanks

  • @brianbcpryor112
    @brianbcpryor112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @brianbcpryor112
    @brianbcpryor112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @hybridmultimedia6436
    @hybridmultimedia6436 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Daaammmnnnnnn!

  • @i.c.e.d.u.c.e923
    @i.c.e.d.u.c.e923 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    ✊🏿🙌🏿💯

  • @allexbuogeymannbroiwnn980
    @allexbuogeymannbroiwnn980 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't,don't,not,why & ain't were the parents I knew comin up....but I know better now

  • @Edgarspiffy
    @Edgarspiffy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big Herc, I love your videos. Have you thought about getting a mic? It’s hard to listen to your videos at the gym...the sound isn’t loud enough. Anyways much loves

  • @vanilla6754
    @vanilla6754 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Herc what if your parents constantly tell you you’re worthless?

  • @rodgerlucio5523
    @rodgerlucio5523 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you make a video on how you knew rich piana

  • @Ryman158
    @Ryman158 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    With out esteem for yourself, you going nowhere.

  • @661AV13
    @661AV13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1st

    • @weedandwine
      @weedandwine 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      🥇🏆🤙🍻

  • @mackd7141
    @mackd7141 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Geah Mon