The system protects ignorant bullies by punishing people who fight back to defend themselves. I had gum thrown in my hair, ears flicked, tripped, picked on, made fun of, lies/rumors spread, car keyed, pictures drawn of me.....I told teachers and my parents and no one really did anything......Finally I split some whigs and got suspended for it. Parents yelled at me....But I got Respect and that was more important than anything else.
Agreed. I was bullied in high school. Teacher saw it, did nothing for months. One day, he tried to give me titty twister....I punched back, was threatened by the teacher with expulsion. Teachers, parents enable the Bullies for sure.
True. A reason I didn't wanna fight back too. Because I was more afraid of getting in trouble with my mom after getting suspended than for doing some damage to fools twice my size.
Even as a grown man, You still get bullied at work. You have to react in some ways. Either by throwing the same jokes back at them or finding a way to show you are not scared. Otherwise it never stops.
Your not wrong. I was 25 at the time. Some dudes 10-15 years older tryna fuck with me. I was ready to run the fade in the back on the spot. He didn’t want the smoke and stoped that shit ASAP
I lost a job because I stood up to a few bullies. I tolerated them for a while but eventually even patience has it's limits & I told myself enough is enough! My dignity was more important than a paycheck.
When I was in high school the head teacher said if we ever fight in the school they would arrest us. I had a way around it I split that wig outside of school at the party, the back of the store, under the bleachers, on the streets and the hood. No bullshit.
Bullies suck, but I have to admit, being bullied myself as a kid helped me build a tough skin, hit the gym hard, and stand up for myself a lot more. I even have empathy for others I see getting bullied and step in to help deescalate the situation.
I agree, my son was bullied in the 6th and 8th grade, I told him tell the teacher or principal, but if that don't stop go upside their head and go all in with it. Both incidents he warned the kids doing it a couple of times and then after that, he went full Randy Macho Man Savage on that ass sent both to the nurse's office bleeding from the nose and face. He got suspended but those two boys don't bother him now. I was a proud dad! He doesn't bully kids but just wants to be left alone.
It’s so crazy I was just thinking about this topic. I was bullied as a kid and it still plagues me as an adult man. I never stoop up to the bully and it has rotted my mind to the core.
Man don't let it get to you I had bullies try and punk me but never let it happen. Unless someone brings up the bullying topic I almost completely forget about it. Don't let what happened in the past define who you are
I was bullied by 3 dudes my junior year cause I was a new kid, I decided from the first verbal confrontation that we were eventually gonna fight. So, I decided to start watching boxing, I started training and I had to put that work in by myself. Even though it was 3 v. 1 I couldn’t stand the feeling of feeling bitched so I had to scrap for my own self respect.
Several problems with this: 1.) You can't box 3 people and stand any chance unless they are totally stupid or incapable. 2.) If you lose they might not stop kicking and punching you while you're unconscious. Now you have a bigger problem (potential lifelong injuries or brain damage). This 'solution' doesn't work for all bullies and can get a person seriously harmed and won't necessarily stop the bullying.
@Damien Holland you definitely raising weenies. Fuck bodily injury you see all these kids taking there own life because of bullying. Hit up @bigherc he’ll get lil Timmy right.
The best thing my dad ever told me was , " dont punk anyone and definitely dont get punked. Defend yourself at all times." I still have this message in my head everyday.
An old friend of mine told me he got bullied way back in the day as well. He was tall (like 6.4) but fat and helpless. For some time, he got bullied all day and one day he was badly kicked in the back with a knee drop, so he was barely able to walk for a while. That was the point when he decided to change everything. He hit the gym, worked out hard and turned into a beast. He had enough. He went back and beat the bully into a pulp. No one ever messed with him again later on and he worked as a bouncer for a long time... Either you gotta stay away from the bully or show him what time it is....
I grew up broke, rockin' pro wings, L.A. Gear and tons of other non popular attire and would have to fight almost every day at school bc of the common jokes made. I won some, lost some and bullies quit fuccin wit me bc I am a dirty fighter
Yung Toney. I went through all that stuff too bro. When I finally snapped and fought back, I did it with mayor rage. Well the bullying stopped, but according to the Principal I was a problem, and needed counseling.
I agree 1000%.. We had to fight.. I grew up in an Army family. Im half white, half Korean.. We moved to a new state every year or two and that meant new schools.. I was usually the only Asian and I had to fight. My parents didnt like it but they never punished me when I got suspended because they understood.. I was always a loner.. I was huge.. Im 6'4 about 200lbs now and still a fighter... I had to fight a few times outnumbered.. I never backed down and when things started getting heated I had no problems flipping the switch and start throwing haymakers first if I had to... It got to the point where I was so tired of being called Chinese or Jackie Chan that as soon as someone said it I would immediately start swinging...
Well said, I remember in highschool this guy would always mess with me. I told him politely to stop messing with me but that didn't work. One day I got tired of him messing with me and knocked him out. After that he never messed with me again!
you used "messing with me " 4 times , don't repeat speech patterns in this fashion, try to diversify verbs (messed up with me, abused me, looked for trouble etc)
Never seen Big Herc this genuinely upset before. Love it!!!!!
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True story 1986, me and 4 of my friends dressed up like ninjas in all blk clothes. We knocked on the bullies door, one of us was standing in his yard, when he came out into the yard, 4 of us jumped out a tree on his azz...
You're doing a good job, sir. There's a lots of young boys out there raised by single moms that can benefit from your knowledge and experience as a man in this increasingly feminized society.
Subscribed to both channels great content.I was bullied as a skinny 135lb high schooler. I dealt with it by hitting the weights. The bullies pretty much disappeared as I grew into a 310lb powerlifter. I’m 50 now. Not as strong now but still pushing hard
💯 my boys are 6 and 4 we train Monday through Friday in my garage gym. I was told by my boys teacher he doesn’t start problems but he for sure finishes them. Smh they got bs called cyber bullying now
@@ungobungo7986 Man I had a bully when I was.5 I couldn't never beat him because I didn't no how to fight. I had no one to teach me.but when I got older my kuz z taught.me I start whooping every body. big tall small I be came a Ak warrior.
It seems that a lot of men lost their way these days, and most of them don't really know how to be men. I'm glad that there are people like you who can teach us some good information.
My foster dad, an immigrant from Portugal told me that another kid used to bully him constantly as a kid so one day he got a baseball bat hid around a corner and when the bully came around the corner he smashed his knee in. After that the kid never bullied him again. I was nine years old when he taught me this and I never forgot it.
when i grew up the word bully did not even exist, we talked about racketeering (when other kids rip u of your money or clothes), but if they just bullied you that was not a problem per se, you just had to deal with it。luckily for me o had a simple rule: if you insult my parents we are scrapping until you beg for mercy or you say sorry, if.you pushed me 2 times same thing. this little set up in my head was useful, no rumination or overthinking
The worst bullies are the ones that trash your name and act like your friend while doing it. Those are the truly dangerous ones. The schoolyard bullies are easy to defend yourself against, just fight them and never back down. They will leave you alone eventually.
I guess Im randomly asking but does any of you know a way to log back into an Instagram account?? I was dumb lost the account password. I would love any assistance you can offer me.
i had a bully growing up named shawn vernon. He would bully me daily and lived in the same apartment unit upstairs. i had never been in a fight so i was scared . i had no older brothers to help or friends. I took the bullying for awhile. finally we moved to another school district and the bullying started by some differnt kids at the new school and new neighborhood. This time unlike the last time i fought back. I had to fight everyday . Once i did i realized getting hit wasnt that bad and i wasnt scared to knuckle up. i won some and lost some but soon i had less and less trouble from my class mates and kids in the neighborhood as they knew id fight soon they left me alone. facts 100 percent
Born in 86' -- scrapped my way through the 90's and turned out a well respected man all these years later. I can still go for a drink in my local area to this day and get a nice greeting from all the local big men. My son is gonna be a fighter too - not a bully.
I was always the one in my school who stood up to bullies, nobody Ever got picked on anywhere around me. I was one of the biggest guys in any grade and when I look back on it, I think we never had a problem with bullies because I wouldn't tolerate it. My mom even remembers me busting some kid up in kindergarten for picking on a smaller kid so I set the tone early
Man im bout to turn 36 in a month and i can tell you for sure there aint more truth been spoken. My dad literally dragged me by my shirt to another kids house to fight him . My pops always told me dont let nobody ever take advantage of you or make you feel scared. You know what that type of shit is what made me the man i am today. Im no huge dude. Im 5-10 205 lbs. but you damn sure better believe to this day i will throw down in a second if need be. Thats what help you become a man. So thankful i had a dad that taught me this . You see kids today committing suicide over bullying, breaks my fuckin heart man. This society we love in has declared war on basic masculine behaviors and that is the exact reason why we see these boys cryin to themselves. What a valueable video my man. Your content like this has real world application , its honest and true and you got yourself a subscriber.
Being the proud father of 28 n 30 yr old boys I’m truly glad I shared me being bullied as a younster with them I explained how standing my ground changed my life forever. With my support my sons grew up to be perfect gentleman who have no problem taking care of them selves as well as standing up for the underdog. 😎🇺🇸
All this is true! I had a bully who I was scared of. Went home crying to moms and she wasn't having it. She told me step up to him and give him what he wants. God as my witness ✋, I stepped up to my bully and told him if he wanted my fade. He had this look of confusion and fear on his face that I will never forget. He turned down my fade and never bothered me again. Later I was mad at myself for putting up with it for so long. As an adult now I know fist fighting ain't always the answer, but it definitely gives you some backbone and won't allow you to be a pushover. You just gotta get that first fight out of the way and you'll realize that it's not the end of the world. Stand up for yourself!! Another good message Herc. Oh and watch out for that "ninja midget shit" (a few of y'all will get it lol)
"The weenie revolution will not be televised" one of the best vids I've seen in a while... Big Up to you Big Herc.. These kids need to here this.. 👍🏾💪🏽
I remember going to a new primary school and on my first day, entering the class and being introduced by the teacher, I decided beforehand I was going in there with the meanest mood I could muster. It sent a message and served me well.
I agree with what he is saying, that sometimes u have to fight, but we live in a country where the law isn’t really by your side, and fighting only gets you arrested with an assault charge and expelled from school, Society works against you when tryna prove manhood, plus there’s feminism
Sad but true. What you can do though is to make sure there are no witnesses and instead of going all-in from the start just slap the person in the face, push his ass to the curb or whatever, wait for a reaction and then beat his ass to the ground Mike Tyson-style.
Yeah that's right I remember when I was younger growing up I used to get bully all the time because I was big I used to tease called names beat up until one day I got fed up I stood up to the bully after that I had no more problems yeah man the youth need to stop acting like cry baby stand up fight back
You always on point, Herc! I think also a lot of things depend on how you carry yourself. I am, by nature, a quiet, introverted type of guy but when I greet, speak to people I step up to the plate. No holding my head down, checking the concrete for cracks. You got to look people dead in the eye and speak the #!*% up. You CANNOT give ground to bullies. People always make the mistake of assuming quiet people are timid. Wrong! Many wigs have been adjusted in this world for people who have assumed incorrectly. Never could figure out why the golden rule is sooo hard to understand.
A bully is often insecure about you. You threaten him on a level you don’t understand yet. He will break you down and intimidate you physically and psychologically. If he can’t beat you one on one he will get friends to help him. He will infect everyone around him to go against you, you will just have to stand up and remain humble. Not following that negative path and not being reduced to that lifestyle. Staying close to God, and protecting yourself.
Big Herc, It is true that most bullies will back down. The problem is that there are people out there who aren’t just bullies, but are mean. They’re fighters. And if you stand up to them, they’ll stomp you flat. That is because when you thought that you were being assertive, you were in fact being aggressive....and provoked him
Lil Timmy checking in .. Thanks big Herc . I pilled their wigs back at recess.... Honestly though, im going to county jail today just for 30 days in Texas and im gonna use your wise words to my advantage
Shout out from SF! I teach my kids to stand up and that being scared is bravery. Thanks for your words and love hearing the old school words you use 😉✌🏼️
If only I had the same advice when I was younger. The psychological impact of not standing up to my bullies is still affecting me to this day. Hope you are good though.
Probably try to understand why they bullied in the first place. However, I have not ran into any of them so far and tbh I accept my responsibility of not standing up to them at that time.
Well said sir. Bullies only fight if they know for sure they'll win. If there's just a small chance they might loose, they walk or run away. A little martial arts won't hurt either. Mainly for the sparing. I'm a bigger guy so I was pretty much left alone. I hate bullies so most of the shit I got into was helping some little dude. I grew up living in PMQs. That's Canadian for Post Married Quarters. Though I be white and grew up a little north of ya, sounds like we had similar childhoods. God bless and stay strong.
What youre saying is so right man, my dad lived a rugged childhood and life doing the type of things you're saying, got older was a lineman and then a cop and a soldier. He lived a tough life and didn't want me to, so he didn't encourage that type of stuff man, hed rather me go to the teacher and focus on school. But now I feel like a weenie, hey but because of you im getting that yard time in and learning about basic stuff that I should know but didn't really care or knew to know.
I was fighting a lot as a kid because other kids always running their mouth. I never told anyone about me being picked I would just throw down and defended myself.
I've never had bullying problems because even though I was a small skinny white boy, my mother forced me to confront anybody who resembled a bully. If you fight back they don't want to have anything to do with you, they want to pray on the weak.
In England self defence is often punished harshly, you are encouraged to be stoic and to go to the authorities or you'll be punished and/or sued for damages because it's more civilised that way apparently and they won't tolerate you taking things into your own hands.
Love it stand up for yourself. I was the youngest kid on my block always chased home and bullied until the one day I was taught to fight and busted a nose on a bigger kid then it all stopped just like that no more getting chased home
Big herc is as real as they come. Somebody who talks about prison and doesn't want to go back. Talks about bullies and bullying and taking care of business and not running complaining about it to anybody and just banging. Keep it 💯💪🗽real talk.
I’m happy my son knock a bully out. He got a 4 day suspension, the bully cried his way out of it. The bully was Bragging he was 29-0. I guess he is 29-1 now lol. I’m white but I hate the N word. That is such a hateful word. I’m also glad my boy has a black GF. I taught him right. I got the video of the fight before he got home lol
Bless you bro, you have a big good heart, you stand on side of weak...This what people need to hear...Some bullies and evil people dont understand one type of language and its a shame...Violence is horrible but no body should be a victim, I hate violence and I am believing christian, but you completly right I started to compete boxing at the age of 15 changed my life completl made me a man🙏☝️
Growing up, it wasn't the bullies that had me afraid....it was breaking the so called "rules".....for everytime I'd beat the shit out of a bully or someone that was taking advantage of me, or cussing the daylights out of a female because she had miles and miles of arrogance, I was always threatened by a teacher,dean,assistant principle,principle for bitch ass "breaking a rule," just for standing up for myself-rightfully. I look back at life, I'm 28 years old now, I look back now and I see the world today, knowing that these so called rules just keep certain people at an advantage and keeps certain people down..its where your level of freedom is at (mentally)....I've been a car/motorcycle mechanic for 10 years and I've learn, for myself to create my own rules/principles rightfully....when ANYONE deserves a beatdown,they gotta get it. I, speak for myself, sometimes it's ok to break the rules when you have to stand up for yourselves. You got 1 life to live, make the best of it. This life is meant to be a dream and not a nightmare. Never let anyone else change that for you--Jason/Topcat_nyc/rebellioussoul64/Livinitupwne Love and peace throughout the universe everyone!!!
True message Herc , glad to hear this positivity. life is not about avoiding and running from shit, its about facing it head on and win or lose not being a coward. Most bullies look for an easy mark, even if you lose, you go down swinging and chances are that bully picks another mark, he won't be back. Also, important is that now "Bully" has been so played out. Jjust because you're 130lbs and have a big ass mouth and get stomped on by a dude 200lbs, don't make him a bully...some folks need to learn to stay in their lane. So many kid have never been smacked before, mommy and daddy (if there's a daddy around) didn't ever give any discipline so 'Lil Timmy thinks he can talk shit to others like he does his mommy. In that case, it ain't bullying its a justifiable ass whooping. I been on both sides and you live and learn.
I'm a skinny guy 5'10 and 150 lbs. I only had to deal with a bully 1 time in my life. He used to chase me home fun school everyday. The last time he did it, my Mother saw me running and locked the door and said I couldn't come in until I kicked he ass. That's when I found out that I has hands. We've been best friends every since. That was in the 6th grade. I'm 53 now. Still got hands lol
I remember growing up in Frisco as a kid. I used to get picked on and my whole childhood was fighting kids at school and at the bus stop lol. Hella true, fight your ass off lol.
You said something so powerful when you said they will blame bullying when they shoot the school up .....when it was not knowing how to stand up for themselves is and was the problem. Awesome shit.
Big Herc, thanks for representing truth. I appreciate the people who don't sugar coat shit and keep it real. We need more real people like you out in the word. I have honor for you, making the changes in your personal life needed and not feeling sorry for yourself. Too many individuals feel sorry for themselves now days. I respect everything you say and stand for. You're a good dude. Keep it real. Keep this content coming. Really enjoy listening to you speak. Much love.
Bigherc.. Great advise! As a teacher, I have to deal with so much "anti-bullying" garbage in the public schools. This stuff should be taught in the home by a (alpha male) father figure. Your 100% correct. Growing up had to stick-up for myself and little brother.
Bro, My mother raised me never to fight. I took many ass whoopin's til I turned 17 and had enough. When I had my own son I raised him to take no shit. He got much respect in school and is the most like person now as a grown man and gets his respect. I wish my mom had never done that to me.
thanks for your words of wisdom, dont become over emotional and angry and start throwing hands, but also defend yourself. and mainly its a mental game, if you have some good comebacks and stuff like that you are pretty good when it comes to mental strength
The system protects ignorant bullies by punishing people who fight back to defend themselves. I had gum thrown in my hair, ears flicked, tripped, picked on, made fun of, lies/rumors spread, car keyed, pictures drawn of me.....I told teachers and my parents and no one really did anything......Finally I split some whigs and got suspended for it. Parents yelled at me....But I got Respect and that was more important than anything else.
Agreed. I was bullied in high school. Teacher saw it, did nothing for months. One day, he tried to give me titty twister....I punched back, was threatened by the teacher with expulsion. Teachers, parents enable the Bullies for sure.
True. A reason I didn't wanna fight back too. Because I was more afraid of getting in trouble with my mom after getting suspended than for doing some damage to fools twice my size.
Well said. And very factual.
You're sooo goddam right
You're not lying.
Even as a grown man, You still get bullied at work. You have to react in some ways. Either by throwing the same jokes back at them or finding a way to show you are not scared. Otherwise it never stops.
Yup. Those are usually shit jobs too.
Nah, they need a beating too
Your not wrong. I was 25 at the time. Some dudes 10-15 years older tryna fuck with me. I was ready to run the fade in the back on the spot. He didn’t want the smoke and stoped that shit ASAP
@@Cuban4Life4 what the hell are you on about?
I lost a job because I stood up to a few bullies. I tolerated them for a while but eventually even patience has it's limits & I told myself enough is enough! My dignity was more important than a paycheck.
'Form Vultron on his ass!' - Big Herc, 2018.
snappycattimesten I loved that line lmao
😂👍🏽👍🏽
I seen this right when he said it😂
Voltron not Vultron
snappycattimesten said some real shit then 😂
this should be required viewing for anyone entering high school
The weenie revolution will not be televised 😂
Or school period. Some things are worth getting suspended over.
And college, too.
When I was in high school the head teacher said if we ever fight in the school they would arrest us. I had a way around it I split that wig outside of school at the party, the back of the store, under the bleachers, on the streets and the hood. No bullshit.
Bullies suck, but I have to admit, being bullied myself as a kid helped me build a tough skin, hit the gym hard, and stand up for myself a lot more. I even have empathy for others I see getting bullied and step in to help deescalate the situation.
Good Day Mate Herc forgot to say some kids kill they self over bullying .
The gym might be underrated by some but it really boosts one's confidence. I love pumping weights.
I agree, my son was bullied in the 6th and 8th grade, I told him tell the teacher or principal, but if that don't stop go upside their head and go all in with it. Both incidents he warned the kids doing it a couple of times and then after that, he went full Randy Macho Man Savage on that ass sent both to the nurse's office bleeding from the nose and face. He got suspended but those two boys don't bother him now. I was a proud dad! He doesn't bully kids but just wants to be left alone.
Good job man :) don't "castrate" your boy with shit like "don't hurt anyone!" or "you have to be nice with everyboy!" and so on. You're a good dad.
You are damn right to be proud, you raised your boy right, and he will be thankful for it for his whole life.
It’s so crazy I was just thinking about this topic. I was bullied as a kid and it still plagues me as an adult man. I never stoop up to the bully and it has rotted my mind to the core.
Man don't let it get to you I had bullies try and punk me but never let it happen. Unless someone brings up the bullying topic I almost completely forget about it. Don't let what happened in the past define who you are
Ooh you sad about being bullied go get your nails done
@@samnam715 really?!?!
Don't cry over the past man, it's never to late to change.
I crushed mine literally. nothing feels more liberating like smashing a piece of shit that deserves it and having zero remorse for them.
I was bullied by 3 dudes my junior year cause I was a new kid, I decided from the first verbal confrontation that we were eventually gonna fight. So, I decided to start watching boxing, I started training and I had to put that work in by myself. Even though it was 3 v. 1 I couldn’t stand the feeling of feeling bitched so I had to scrap for my own self respect.
That's what's up, Jason. One love.
Jason Mullen 💯
Several problems with this: 1.) You can't box 3 people and stand any chance unless they are totally stupid or incapable. 2.) If you lose they might not stop kicking and punching you while you're unconscious. Now you have a bigger problem (potential lifelong injuries or brain damage). This 'solution' doesn't work for all bullies and can get a person seriously harmed and won't necessarily stop the bullying.
Damien Holland shut up weenie
@Damien Holland you definitely raising weenies. Fuck bodily injury you see all these kids taking there own life because of bullying. Hit up @bigherc he’ll get lil Timmy right.
Two ways to deal with bullies
1. Split their wig
2. Bust their cheeks
You forgot 3. Peel their cap.
3. Shit down their throats
@@leooz8071 Bring that East Coast Flava and dont bust their cheeks bust thier Eyesockets Take those Eyesockets.
Hahahhahha yessssss
Facts
Stop the weenie revolution!
That line was pure gold 😂😂👌👌
Vote Republican.
That line needs a shirt!! Big Herc!! Where the “Don’t be a Weenie” merch???😂
Does big Herc got that personal email.
The weenie revolution will not be televised! Not on THIS channel!
You are very inspirational. You're a father figure for a lot of these kids... But show us some of them cars!
The best thing my dad ever told me was , " dont punk anyone and definitely dont get punked. Defend yourself at all times." I still have this message in my head everyday.
An old friend of mine told me he got bullied way back in the day as well. He was tall (like 6.4) but fat and helpless. For some time, he got bullied all day and one day he was badly kicked in the back with a knee drop, so he was barely able to walk for a while. That was the point when he decided to change everything. He hit the gym, worked out hard and turned into a beast. He had enough. He went back and beat the bully into a pulp. No one ever messed with him again later on and he worked as a bouncer for a long time...
Either you gotta stay away from the bully or show him what time it is....
I grew up broke, rockin' pro wings, L.A. Gear and tons of other non popular attire and would have to fight almost every day at school bc of the common jokes made. I won some, lost some and bullies quit fuccin wit me bc I am a dirty fighter
No such thing as a dirty fighter. If you didn't start it, only rule is don't loose.
Yung Toney. I went through all that stuff too bro. When I finally snapped and fought back, I did it with mayor rage. Well the bullying stopped, but according to the Principal I was a problem, and needed counseling.
I agree 1000%.. We had to fight.. I grew up in an Army family. Im half white, half Korean.. We moved to a new state every year or two and that meant new schools.. I was usually the only Asian and I had to fight. My parents didnt like it but they never punished me when I got suspended because they understood.. I was always a loner.. I was huge.. Im 6'4 about 200lbs now and still a fighter... I had to fight a few times outnumbered.. I never backed down and when things started getting heated I had no problems flipping the switch and start throwing haymakers first if I had to... It got to the point where I was so tired of being called Chinese or Jackie Chan that as soon as someone said it I would immediately start swinging...
Well said, I remember in highschool this guy would always mess with me. I told him politely to stop messing with me but that didn't work. One day I got tired of him messing with me and knocked him out. After that he never messed with me again!
Jirons R that’s right
you used "messing with me " 4 times , don't repeat speech patterns in this fashion, try to diversify verbs (messed up with me, abused me, looked for trouble etc)
@@MMABeijing right on brotha
Never seen Big Herc this genuinely upset before. Love it!!!!!
True story
1986, me and 4 of my friends dressed up like ninjas in all blk clothes. We knocked on the bullies door, one of us was standing in his yard, when he came out into the yard, 4 of us jumped out a tree on his azz...
Lmao
You're doing a good job, sir. There's a lots of young boys out there raised by single moms that can benefit from your knowledge and experience as a man in this increasingly feminized society.
“Can’t shoot everybody you fight , learn how to fight and lose” 💯💯💯
Subscribed to both channels great content.I was bullied as a skinny 135lb high schooler. I dealt with it by hitting the weights. The bullies pretty much disappeared as I grew into a 310lb powerlifter. I’m 50 now. Not as strong now but still pushing hard
Awesome
Lifting weights, boxing, kickboxing etc are great confidence builders.
7:46 "form Voltron on his ass" LOL I love this..
The greatest line of all time!
H3ll yeah..... Ole Skool! 🤣
Weenie revolution will not be televised!
SHIT TOOK ME OUT 😭😭😭😭
"The one and only thing that a bully will ever understand is a bigger bully."
💯 my boys are 6 and 4 we train Monday through Friday in my garage gym. I was told by my boys teacher he doesn’t start problems but he for sure finishes them. Smh they got bs called cyber bullying now
Respect but why the hell are 6 year olds beefing 😂
Ungo Bungo over who got the better fruit snacks😂
@@ungobungo7986 Man I had a bully when I was.5 I couldn't never beat him because I didn't no how to fight. I had no one to teach me.but when I got older my kuz z taught.me I start whooping every body. big tall small I be came a Ak warrior.
It seems that a lot of men lost their way these days, and most of them don't really know how to be men. I'm glad that there are people like you who can teach us some good information.
My foster dad, an immigrant from Portugal told me that another kid used to bully him constantly as a kid so one day he got a baseball bat hid around a corner and when the bully came around the corner he smashed his knee in. After that the kid never bullied him again. I was nine years old when he taught me this and I never forgot it.
when i grew up the word bully did not even exist, we talked about racketeering (when other kids rip u of your money or clothes), but if they just bullied you that was not a problem per se, you just had to deal with it。luckily for me o had a simple rule: if you insult my parents we are scrapping until you beg for mercy or you say sorry, if.you pushed me 2 times same thing. this little set up in my head was useful, no rumination or overthinking
The worst bullies are the ones that trash your name and act like your friend while doing it. Those are the truly dangerous ones. The schoolyard bullies are easy to defend yourself against, just fight them and never back down. They will leave you alone eventually.
preach to em.
Yo found u off Matts Channel!! U and Big Herc are in my top 5 inspiring youtube figures. Keep it up!!!:)
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He's too passionate about this and absolutely right. How can anyone dislike this video?
"The weenie revolution will not be televised" lmao
ROTFL. - RIGHT??? :-P
i had a bully growing up named shawn vernon. He would bully me daily and lived in the same apartment unit upstairs. i had never been in a fight so i was scared . i had no older brothers to help or friends. I took the bullying for awhile. finally we moved to another school district and the bullying started by some differnt kids at the new school and new neighborhood. This time unlike the last time i fought back. I had to fight everyday . Once i did i realized getting hit wasnt that bad and i wasnt scared to knuckle up. i won some and lost some but soon i had less and less trouble from my class mates and kids in the neighborhood as they knew id fight soon they left me alone. facts 100 percent
Teach your kids that everyone is responsible for themselves. Man is self reliant.
Born in 86' -- scrapped my way through the 90's and turned out a well respected man all these years later. I can still go for a drink in my local area to this day and get a nice greeting from all the local big men. My son is gonna be a fighter too - not a bully.
Man I love your car big herc, that green is a great color.
Lemans!!!!! 1970's
Agreed
1000000%
Brother.. I totally agree... deal with the bullys!!!! Teach your kids respect for others and themselves... teach them to not tolerate disrespect!
It'll help u at work too at my job all we is joke with each other no need to take anything personal it takes the day go faster
“Form Voltron on his m-fukin ass!” Man I lost it laughing!! That is so epic!
I was always the one in my school who stood up to bullies, nobody Ever got picked on anywhere around me. I was one of the biggest guys in any grade and when I look back on it, I think we never had a problem with bullies because I wouldn't tolerate it. My mom even remembers me busting some kid up in kindergarten for picking on a smaller kid so I set the tone early
Man im bout to turn 36 in a month and i can tell you for sure there aint more truth been spoken. My dad literally dragged me by my shirt to another kids house to fight him . My pops always told me dont let nobody ever take advantage of you or make you feel scared. You know what that type of shit is what made me the man i am today. Im no huge dude. Im 5-10 205 lbs. but you damn sure better believe to this day i will throw down in a second if need be. Thats what help you become a man. So thankful i had a dad that taught me this . You see kids today committing suicide over bullying, breaks my fuckin heart man. This society we love in has declared war on basic masculine behaviors and that is the exact reason why we see these boys cryin to themselves. What a valueable video my man. Your content like this has real world application , its honest and true and you got yourself a subscriber.
Thanks for this very important message. I agree with your anti-bullying message.
Being the proud father of 28 n 30 yr old boys I’m truly glad I shared me being bullied as a younster with them I explained how standing my ground changed my life forever. With my support my sons grew up to be perfect gentleman who have no problem taking care of them selves as well as standing up for the underdog. 😎🇺🇸
LIVING WELL is the BEST REVENGE
The Talmud
" one way or another you will leave me alone" The one way or another determination gets one through life.
All this is true! I had a bully who I was scared of. Went home crying to moms and she wasn't having it. She told me step up to him and give him what he wants. God as my witness ✋, I stepped up to my bully and told him if he wanted my fade. He had this look of confusion and fear on his face that I will never forget. He turned down my fade and never bothered me again. Later I was mad at myself for putting up with it for so long. As an adult now I know fist fighting ain't always the answer, but it definitely gives you some backbone and won't allow you to be a pushover. You just gotta get that first fight out of the way and you'll realize that it's not the end of the world. Stand up for yourself!!
Another good message Herc.
Oh and watch out for that "ninja midget shit" (a few of y'all will get it lol)
little Timmy here; my brothers and my pops raised me to be strong, I'm blessed. I'm a 90's baby. Holy shit the kids after me are in trouble
"The weenie revolution will not be televised" one of the best vids I've seen in a while... Big Up to you Big Herc.. These kids need to here this.. 👍🏾💪🏽
I remember going to a new primary school and on my first day, entering the class and being introduced by the teacher, I decided beforehand I was going in there with the meanest mood I could muster. It sent a message and served me well.
I agree with what he is saying, that sometimes u have to fight, but we live in a country where the law isn’t really by your side, and fighting only gets you arrested with an assault charge and expelled from school, Society works against you when tryna prove manhood, plus there’s feminism
Sad but true. What you can do though is to make sure there are no witnesses and instead of going all-in from the start just slap the person in the face, push his ass to the curb or whatever, wait for a reaction and then beat his ass to the ground Mike Tyson-style.
Mary Decouvertes good point, but my rule of thumb is to let them throw the first punch, so that way It can be self defense
What about coworkers? How do you deal with a coworker who thinks being a shift leader means they are king shit? Cant fight on the job. Sucks.
First time tell him after work or. The weekend or if he really disrespect that 15 min break
your right, I thought I was the only one that knew
Every parent, educator and child should have to watch this video.
The weeny revolution is your next tshirt bro!! Lol
Bullying is character carving.
Yeah that's right I remember when I was younger growing up I used to get bully all the time because I was big I used to tease called names beat up until one day I got fed up I stood up to the bully after that I had no more problems yeah man the youth need to stop acting like cry baby stand up fight back
NO. They need to be told that fighting back is MANDATORY. FUCK THE FEMINISTS!
You always on point, Herc! I think also a lot of things depend on how you carry yourself. I am, by nature, a quiet, introverted type of guy but when I greet, speak to people I step up to the plate. No holding my head down, checking the concrete for cracks. You got to look people dead in the eye and speak the #!*% up. You CANNOT give ground to bullies. People always make the mistake of assuming quiet people are timid. Wrong! Many wigs have been adjusted in this world for people who have assumed incorrectly. Never could figure out why the golden rule is sooo hard to understand.
A bully is often insecure about you. You threaten him on a level you don’t understand yet. He will break you down and intimidate you physically and psychologically. If he can’t beat you one on one he will get friends to help him. He will infect everyone around him to go against you, you will just have to stand up and remain humble. Not following that negative path and not being reduced to that lifestyle. Staying close to God, and protecting yourself.
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Big Herc, It is true that most bullies will back down. The problem is that there are people out there who aren’t just bullies, but are mean. They’re fighters.
And if you stand up to them, they’ll stomp you flat.
That is because when you thought that you were being assertive, you were in fact being aggressive....and provoked him
My son will see me die for my/his honor before I get disrespected in front of him
@PiK no
Death before dishonor
Mike Wilt yessir 💯
Lil Timmy checking in .. Thanks big Herc . I pilled their wigs back at recess.... Honestly though, im going to county jail today just for 30 days in Texas and im gonna use your wise words to my advantage
Shout out from SF! I teach my kids to stand up and that being scared is bravery. Thanks for your words and love hearing the old school words you use 😉✌🏼️
Scotown what's up?
Every single word here is - on point.
I wish someone taught me this stuff when I was growing up...I am 26 and I have some serious catching-up to do and it's causing me a lot of stress.
Hope you your good now bro
If only I had the same advice when I was younger. The psychological impact of not standing up to my bullies is still affecting me to this day. Hope you are good though.
@@8000jk what would you say if you met your bullies today?
Probably try to understand why they bullied in the first place. However, I have not ran into any of them so far and tbh I accept my responsibility of not standing up to them at that time.
You are half way there already if you realize this!!!
Well said sir. Bullies only fight if they know for sure they'll win. If there's just a small chance they might loose, they walk or run away. A little martial arts won't hurt either. Mainly for the sparing.
I'm a bigger guy so I was pretty much left alone. I hate bullies so most of the shit I got into was helping some little dude.
I grew up living in PMQs. That's Canadian for Post Married Quarters. Though I be white and grew up a little north of ya, sounds like we had similar childhoods.
God bless and stay strong.
Hey man appreciate the advice I'm going thru it with my son n hes dealing with some of these problems n you r a great help
What youre saying is so right man, my dad lived a rugged childhood and life doing the type of things you're saying, got older was a lineman and then a cop and a soldier. He lived a tough life and didn't want me to, so he didn't encourage that type of stuff man, hed rather me go to the teacher and focus on school. But now I feel like a weenie, hey but because of you im getting that yard time in and learning about basic stuff that I should know but didn't really care or knew to know.
Realest advice god bless this man 💯👏
I really appreciate your advice to our young folks nowadays. God bless you.
I was fighting a lot as a kid because other kids always running their mouth. I never told anyone about me being picked I would just throw down and defended myself.
Your so damn right these parents need to teach these kids how to stand there ground and dont put up with no bullshit. Much Respect my Brother!!!
I busted my bullies cheeks!!! I now dont get bullied after 27 years!!!!
Big Herc you're the big brother most of us always wanted.
Oh, I just wanted to say that you did great on Advise Show Media tv. That interview was real good! ✊🏿👍🏿✊🏿👍🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💯
That's real man I'm 41 and I been through all that you talking about .
I've never had bullying problems because even though I was a small skinny white boy, my mother forced me to confront anybody who resembled a bully.
If you fight back they don't want to have anything to do with you, they want to pray on the weak.
Listened to this art piece of a pep talk before a basketball game. I’m hyped now.
In England self defence is often punished harshly, you are encouraged to be stoic and to go to the authorities or you'll be punished and/or sued for damages because it's more civilised that way apparently and they won't tolerate you taking things into your own hands.
Coleorton in Wales self defense is encouraged
Wow
Well move to baddass 'MERICAAA!!
Telling kids they can't defend themselves and punishing them when they do is what leads to school shooters.
@@sikkableeat5614 that doesn't make ANY sense. Please explain your theory and back it up by references please.
Love it stand up for yourself. I was the youngest kid on my block always chased home and bullied until the one day I was taught to fight and busted a nose on a bigger kid then it all stopped just like that no more getting chased home
If that wasn't a message aimed straight at these millennials then I just don't know!
90s babies also
That was literally the truest and real thing I've ever heard. What a wake up call seriously I mean it
Standing on your own and hitting back at the bully is the way. There’s no other way.
Big herc is as real as they come. Somebody who talks about prison and doesn't want to go back. Talks about bullies and bullying and taking care of business and not running complaining about it to anybody and just banging. Keep it 💯💪🗽real talk.
I’m happy my son knock a bully out. He got a 4 day suspension, the bully cried his way out of it. The bully was Bragging he was 29-0. I guess he is 29-1 now lol.
I’m white but I hate the N word. That is such a hateful word. I’m also glad my boy has a black GF. I taught him right.
I got the video of the fight before he got home lol
Haha that's awesome!
Bless you bro, you have a big good heart, you stand on side of weak...This what people need to hear...Some bullies and evil people dont understand one type of language and its a shame...Violence is horrible but no body should be a victim, I hate violence and I am believing christian, but you completly right I started to compete boxing at the age of 15 changed my life completl made me a man🙏☝️
You go Herc!
The best after prison channel, I watched them all, this is the best!
Growing up, it wasn't the bullies that had me afraid....it was breaking the so called "rules".....for everytime I'd beat the shit out of a bully or someone that was taking advantage of me, or cussing the daylights out of a female because she had miles and miles of arrogance, I was always threatened by a teacher,dean,assistant principle,principle for bitch ass "breaking a rule," just for standing up for myself-rightfully. I look back at life, I'm 28 years old now, I look back now and I see the world today, knowing that these so called rules just keep certain people at an advantage and keeps certain people down..its where your level of freedom is at (mentally)....I've been a car/motorcycle mechanic for 10 years and I've learn, for myself to create my own rules/principles rightfully....when ANYONE deserves a beatdown,they gotta get it. I, speak for myself, sometimes it's ok to break the rules when you have to stand up for yourselves. You got 1 life to live, make the best of it. This life is meant to be a dream and not a nightmare. Never let anyone else change that for you--Jason/Topcat_nyc/rebellioussoul64/Livinitupwne
Love and peace throughout the universe everyone!!!
True message Herc , glad to hear this positivity. life is not about avoiding and running from shit, its about facing it head on and win or lose not being a coward.
Most bullies look for an easy mark, even if you lose, you go down swinging and chances are that bully picks another mark, he won't be back.
Also, important is that now "Bully" has been so played out. Jjust because you're 130lbs and have a big ass mouth and get stomped on by a dude 200lbs, don't make him a bully...some folks need to learn to stay in their lane. So many kid have never been smacked before, mommy and daddy (if there's a daddy around) didn't ever give any discipline so 'Lil Timmy thinks he can talk shit to others like he does his mommy. In that case, it ain't bullying its a justifiable ass whooping. I been on both sides and you live and learn.
Splitting wigs makes America great again
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Chance Rutherford true dat
Splitting orange wigs for sure.
Donald Trump approves!!!
I'm a skinny guy 5'10 and 150 lbs. I only had to deal with a bully 1 time in my life. He used to chase me home fun school everyday. The last time he did it, my Mother saw me running and locked the door and said I couldn't come in until I kicked he ass. That's when I found out that I has hands. We've been best friends every since. That was in the 6th grade. I'm 53 now. Still got hands lol
I remember growing up in Frisco as a kid. I used to get picked on and my whole childhood was fighting kids at school and at the bus stop lol. Hella true, fight your ass off lol.
Same here . Bayview Silver Terrace 1974-1988
You said something so powerful when you said they will blame bullying when they shoot the school up .....when it was not knowing how to stand up for themselves is and was the problem. Awesome shit.
Sunnyvale huh ! I'm from lakeview Big Hurc Frisco yep it can be ruff .....
Good for you DEFENDING yourself! Now a days, kids are literally suspended for defending themselves.
Spot on Big Herc. Smack that bully up
Big Herc, thanks for representing truth. I appreciate the people who don't sugar coat shit and keep it real. We need more real people like you out in the word. I have honor for you, making the changes in your personal life needed and not feeling sorry for yourself. Too many individuals feel sorry for themselves now days. I respect everything you say and stand for. You're a good dude. Keep it real. Keep this content coming. Really enjoy listening to you speak. Much love.
I would be careful being a bully nowadays w/all this crazy stuff going on
Bigherc.. Great advise! As a teacher, I have to deal with so much "anti-bullying" garbage in the public schools. This stuff should be taught in the home by a (alpha male) father figure. Your 100% correct. Growing up had to stick-up for myself and little brother.
Herc looks like under the bed, but I respect him and all the free game he be passing around.
Bro, My mother raised me never to fight. I took many ass whoopin's til I turned 17 and had enough. When I had my own son I raised him to take no shit. He got much respect in school and is the most like person now as a grown man and gets his respect. I wish my mom had never done that to me.
Tell the public what they need to hear herc 🙏🏿👌🏿
thanks for your words of wisdom, dont become over emotional and angry and start throwing hands, but also defend yourself. and mainly its a mental game, if you have some good comebacks and stuff like that you are pretty good when it comes to mental strength