@@pawelzawrotniak3826 just heartless. there is nothing beautiful about a system that naturally trends towards these types of things. this is the rule, not the exception
There’s a saying that goes “you may be the sweetest peach on the tree, but some people don’t like peaches.” And I totally agree. if you need validation from other people to feel good about yourself, you will never be happy
This is the most accurate saying i’ve ever heard. And i’m doing my best to accept this fact too. I’m always concerned and worried about if someone likes me or not that i forget that not everyone’s gonna like me, and that doesn’t mean that i’m a bad person or that I’m annoying. I can be the most confident, humble, generous and respectful person in the world and someone will still hate me. Humans have and will ALWAYS find ways to complain, that’s the bitter truth.
I love the fact that instead of being a kinda fake pesona on youtube kaaedee just gives out genuinely good opinions, instead of being fake he gives genuine tough love, just a kinda real guy who i can imagine this is his real personality and exists in real life unlike nick ehhhh 30 or andrew tate. Like, who is going to genuinely fight you because you dont drink sparkling water?
Trust me, my brother, you don't. You are making me laugh, you'll do great as a comedian, in fact I dare you, I freaking dare you to speak to a 30 year old 4'5 man and ask them about their experience in life in general, you wouldn't want to be less than 5ft.
GUYS, height doesn’t matter, if you have a good, fun personality and you make her laugh YOU WILL GET HER be yourself be CONFIDENT and she’ll see that and admire that shit
Heigh does not matter indeed, I'm 197 cm (I think that is 6'6'' in burger units) and it ain't never helped me. But neither did the "making her laugh" part, I've invested greatly into becoming the guy who can make the ladies laugh, and I always did, and it never helped me in the slightest
Hey, man, i know you may not even read this comment but i just want to post this for you. Your videos have made me laugh a lot and genuinely made my day. I sadly had been pretty harsh on myself these past 2 years because you know, never had a gf, not very social and etc. (I'm 22 btw) But your videos really have made my days better and made my big sad go away. Now I'm focusing on myself and I'm trying to improve thw best i can even if the struggle is real. Just thank you, keep up the good work.
Hey unspoken we're both the same age. I'm glad you're starting to improve yourself because that's the step we all need to take instead of comparing ourselves to random strangers over the internet.
"Wouldn't still be living with their parents at 25" Blood how should anyone be able to afford a house right out of college? TH-camrs are delusional when it comes to finances
I love how men and women become insecure over the stupidest things and then blame the opposite gender for their insecurities that they created themselves. Like wtf are canthal tilts and hip dips 😭
3:42 Women who say that are so out of touch it hurts It's an anedoctally provable fact taht the people who pressure women into fitting beauty standarts the most are OTHER WOMEN. Just like how it's often guys who'll make other guys feel insecure about not being manly or tall or stylish enough. Yes the opposite happens but from observancy i'd say the person pressuring a woman into wearing makeup or heels or wahtever tends to be another woman who thinks she's better, not a dude trying to make her fuckable
“Anecdotally provable” so basically what you’re saying is subjective nonsense based in no facts whatsoever. Imagine being this much of an idiot lol you realise not even 200 years ago if you didn’t meet the beauty standard as a woman you were basically deemed worthless 🤦🏻♂️ that beauty standard was enforced by men, women pressure other women but that’s because those women are pressured by men and used by men (elites) as tools to promote consumerism and conformity amongst the masses. In the same way the elites use cleelbrties
@@resaresaresa3800 it means ''i have no concrete data to prove anything but am confident that by going outside and/or talking to people you will understand said conclusion''; basically.
@@resaresaresa3800 again, go outside and talk to people and see what ocnclusion you'll reach, i reached that one. life isn't reddit bud, you don't need a peer-approved essay and 3 pages worth of citations and evidence for every statement you make, having experience and personal tought is a thing.
What I hate the most is that I’ve always been a shorter guy and during high school I never had issues with it I was never insecure about it and I had no problem with girls or friends but as soon as the internet culture shifted towards this insecurity bullshit I felt it hit me so much more it’s terrible and I feel so bad for any kids going through those formative years with such negative influence in their lives
@@RazorRamonMachismo i agree with skin and hair care and lifting but probs best to avoid the limb lengthening surgery just feels a bit off and probably is unsafe
@@RazorRamonMachismoNow thats just acknowledging the problem. You don't need to get a surgery to make you look taller for other people. If you wanna Lift then lift for yourself. Trust me this is wayyyyy WAYYYYYY better.
You're not wrong, the internet has utterly warped people's standards, I was the same as you, 5'7 and didn't care, not until the pandemic hit, I swear we entered the clown timeline when we all got cooped up in our houses.
I don't really think height boosters and makeup are a very apt comparison. For the most part, women see makeup as another way to express themselves, like wearing nice clothes or styling their hair. You'll see a lot of alt girls doing crazy shit with makeup that many would say isn't conventionally attractive. I think a better comparison to height boosters would probably be breast pads imo.
I won't say make up was an expression of themself because if it was they would have drawn flowers or rockets on their face. the fact that all of the tools for make up enhances features that make you look better says it all that make up is not a extension like shirt or shoes, they are very very different. shirts don't make you look like you have abbs.
I ain't a tall guy by any means (5'7 ft), but this didn't keep me from getting a girlfriend that was slightly taller than me in the past. I understand the preference of wanting a guy that's at least eye level or taller, but if she absolutely disregards everything else that you offer with your identity just to get that height criteria met, then she's for the streets. I promise you that you're dodging a bullet, because the last thing you want is to love someone that's as hollow as a Kardashian's skull.
Ikr. dudes put women on such a gargantuan pedestal, it's almost disgusting. If a woman doesn't want to be with you over your height or any other similar criteria, then it simply wasn't meant to be. You don't need to be attractive to every woman on the planet
Facts, Women get so mad and defensive when we say they look better without makeup. We’re literally complementing you by saying your natural beauty is better without Powder and Paint.
Maybe it the fact that it takes them 30 min to an hour to do it and you say- oh you look better without it. Imagine you get all dressed up and someone says -oh you look better in your usual clothes.
imagine a girl came up to you and said you would look better if you had a checkerboard neon-green buzzcut with minibraids that girl could be telling the truth but would you feel better about yourself at school or work if you had a checkerboard neon-green buzzcut with minibraids? *_no_*
I'm 165-170 cm and I love it. If people don't want to be with you just because your height or some other things you can't change. That's an insanely massive red flag
Exactly what i’ve been saying. Once you accept that there are some things that are out of your control, life becomes easier to cope with. Whether it’s your height, people’s actions and opinions towards you etc
If you are a woman, yeah you can take this as a red flag, because you have choices. But if you are men, 95% of the girls will care about your height, some just will be less demanding, but if you take this as a bad characteristic will be hard to find a ''good' person, but you can use as a cope as well and just say most people suck, which is true lol
If you need other people to love/like you in order to feel good about yourself.. Ya need to love yourself, because that love can never be taken away from you. People's opinions about you can change, but your opinion is what's gonna carry on with you for your life.
Completely understand this. As a tall woman, it's somewhat the opposite for me. I've been insecure if my height for the longest time because of media-- and people generally wanting shorter/more petite girls. I've literally gotten bullied for being skinny and tall. Having prefences is fine, but don't let people shame you for something you can't change.
так тебе наоборот повезло. Найди еще более высокого мужчину, и ваш сын будет по гроб жизни благодарен вам за ваши гены. У низких женщин с этим большие проблемы, да у них больше выбора из парней, но они потом рожают низких сыновей, которые потом страдают всю жизнь от этого
I think makeup is largely dependent on its usage. Many people use makeup to enhance their uniqueness and to express themselves better and I think that's dope. Like it's not that they don't feel bad or insecure without it but rather they feel better with it - like people that dress up for conventions or people into fashion design. However if u do makeup out of insecurity and to hide away your uniqueness by trying to look like everyone else like the general beauty standard, I think that's pretty lame.
i dont agree with everything you say but i really enjoy listening to your perspective on these things. genuinely i think youve helped me grow as a person, especially with the social anxiety video because that shit helped me get a girlfriend so thanks kaedee and youre funny as fuck
@@cyrusthe0ther795 i saw a girl i found super attractive on a night out and just thought 'its selfish to be socially anxious' and went up to her. i was expecting a rejection but it didnt happen, so i got her snapchat, and now we're together. ive always been super nervous with approaching but that phrase from that video just kept coming into my head. now i dont really get anxious at all
to everyone hear, yall some handsome/beautiful mfs. Work on yourself, don't be an ass, and step outside your comfort zone to talk to people. Have a good day
im 5ft4 black guy, i agree with you. im short but no girl has ever rejected me because of my height, it my dating life is not perfect but my height is never the reason. i had girls choose me sometimes instead of the chad standing next to me. hack some of these girls were tall asf. some twice my size but still were into me. girls never say anything about my height, when i get rejected it is always cause of superficial reasons like, ohh he's boring, or he's broke but never height
Guy: "Hey, I thought you were cute. Can I get your number?" Girl: "ACTUALLY, I HAVE A BOYFRIEND" Guy(in his head): "damn, if only she didn't have a boyfriend, then I would have gotten her number, and I would’ve gotten the opportunity to be her boyfriend. If only I had asked her out sooner. It was because of the reason I was late that I was not able to get her number. Her response proved that. I thought a guy like this wouldn't exist, but it seems like I was wrong.
Im 6'4, no job no gf... but i havent even tried getting a gf and i cant get a job. I get ignored just as much as anyone else, im not even too bad looking and i definetly dont lack in size. There are just too many guys who are better at approaching and talking to women than me, im not the greatest option.
yeah but it exponentially increases your chances like yes some short white guy can get a bantu girl from Africa so technically you are right but you know it is heavily retarded in practical application
I don't mean to sound like a boomer or that stereotypical self help author but I feel that people need to learn to love themselves (not in narcissism but in self esteem) because no matter how much validation you give to someone it'll never be enough for them.
It’s kinda funny I’m tall and my short friends have girlfriends I’m single so there you go being tall isn’t the magical cure for your girl can’t stand you disease
About 9 months ago i broke my leg in half in a skating accident and got surgery. Fast forward to now it fully healed but now its an inch shorter, mf im 5'9 on one leg and 5'8 on da other, i got a whole ass limp now. Still pulled a girls number jus by walkin da pup an bein friendly. Truth be told yall most of us arent studs, but that dont mean we cant be attractive to someone. Stay patient, dont chase, and embrace your flaws :)
1. Listen ladies, he’s right on that part we didn’t really care about makeup until it’s either brought up or u take it off 2. Height boosters actually aren’t the same as make up guys. Most girls don’t go crazy with their makeup to the point where they’re unrecognizable and when they do it’s obvious they are wearing makeup. 3. Height boosters are just setting yourself up for failure, unless you find a super soldier serum there’s no good way to add proportional height
that rant wasnt off topic and it actually made me smile, i know this channel is more oriented to men, but as a woman, that part actually helped me bc i was considering buying makeup but now i realize that i dont need it, so thank you
Trust me. A lot of guys are more attracted to the local barista than the club girl with enough powder to feed 5 families. That's why there's tons of memes about a random cashier being cuter than a supermodel. Just a hoody and a bun is fine if you're nice to dudes and comfortable in your own skin.
honestly as a person who is 6 foot 1, being tall isnt what its cracked up to be. You might get the occasional compliment, but you arent swimming in hoes like the tiktoks claim it to be. But to me, thats honestly a good thing. People irl will judge you more on how your personality is than looks, as long as you look average. And even if girl will judge you based on your hieght, they are def very shallow and only care about you meeting their standdards.and honestly, dont worry if some people judge you. You are still human and there are many others who deal with the same issues.
People aren't trying to be taller because they want hoes, they just want to be more normal and not have their self-esteem obliterated whenever they leave the house. Honestly the closer you are to average height the better from the perspective of someone that is short like me, being 6'+ no offense but it's mostly just a vanity thing and may attract more heightest people to you but that's about it. Regardless, you can be unattractive at any height and that has nothing to do with your "personality".
Thanks man, I needed this, shit my brain is just making excuses so the day was hard. I got fit and relatively good looking, now I said I was bad looking because of one single black head, yeah..a SINGLE ONE, man life's stupid sometimes.
The reason why women get annoyed with mens comment on their makeup is because they're not wearing it for YOU. It's for them, have you seen goth/alt/lolita ect? Those aren't exactly looks you'd do to be the beauty standard and get male attention.
I'll tell you this on my perspective as a 5'7 man, it isn't easy, nobody takes you seriously, hell even dare respect you, It is pretty bad, could get worse but if you were to ask me, I would rather be taller, it doesn't take rocket science to know that height makes you look more imposing and attractive, it is an objective truth, men, women, people in general treat people who are taller better, especially in the Philippines, it shows status, that you have superior genetics, that's why people respect you, and if people want to taste a little bit of that, yeah sure go ahead but it is clown behavior, nothing can change that, even if you accept the flaw it is a cope, you will never be respected or admired compared to a much more taller person, it is an objective truth I do not care whatever mental gymnastics you perform to try to disprove it, exceptions may happen sure but in general? Height matters, a lot, not the only thing ofcourse but still, it would be nice to be taller especially, and I mean ESPECIALLY if you are a man, it really feels emasculating knowing that an aspect of my life could never and will never truly be changed unless I do stupid clown surgeries or wear dumb clothing, genetics and anatomy is destiny y'all, if you read this, don't forget it.
People allow a very small minority of insecure people who are always posting about makeup, looks, height etc (they always talk about it because their insecure) to muddy their perception of what society and average people expect of them. I’m not saying looks don’t matter but for most people it’s more of a minimum threshold, and then other things such as character, personality and type matter much more once you meet that point.
I'm the shortest guy in my friend group, I'm also the oldest and strongest. My friends make fun of me because of my I height and I don't care. My purpose in my friend group is to give honest life advice to help them grow and also to be funny :)
nono my brother, height is actually a huge deal i'm 5'5, most there's a bunch of women my size, so this boost helps me be a little bigger or the same size as her, being smaller is a nono, and if you think back in school, it is gonna be the short kid and the fat one who's gonna suffer the most. paying like 10$ for a life changing step is peanuts
Im 5'5 as well, and no its not a huge deal. Once you get some confidence you could give less of a shit. Honestly Ive never had an issue with my heigth; and having a girl my heigth or close to it makes things feel better, because the eye contact just feels more natural. Especially when youre walking side by side and talking to each other.
Also, just to add. Ive never really liked social media, (I have only used yt) which is most likely why I never had an issue with these sort of things. From what Ive seen people on social media give a lot of care to others opinions. When in most cases people dont bat a eye or care when theyre in public, and if they do why care? People who are judgemental are a lot more miserable than those who are not. Not only that but most solid relationships are built by two people who talk to eachother and learn about eachother. Not a website that makes you choose a partner you think is attractive or not.
Dude thank you... I literally took your advice, lost 14kg worth of fat and built decent muscle but still found a way to hate myself because my jawline wasn't a certain way.... Y'all please and I say this with all sincerity, sure life weights, and dress better but don't get caught up in this looksmaxxing bs... There is literally only on of you in existence, no one will ever be like You, so stop limiting yourself from self hate... Talk to That girl or guy, acknowledge the effort you've put and start valuing yourself
@@Crimera137I feel like once Ur 5'11 it's a game of what shoes u r wearing coz I have a friend and dependin in the shoes he either finesses 6 ft or if hes wearing like slides literally looks almost 5'10
I was with you until you said most people don't put emphasis on other people's physical appearance when it comes to dating. I still agree with the overall point but the number one thing for both men and women when looking for a partner is that they find the person physically attractive. Unless we're talking about gold diggers it don't matter how much money you got or how good your personality is if the person you're trying to date think you're ugly you don't got no chance.
@@cyanscrewdriver2092 No doubt a bad personality can make a person unattractive but a good personality alone will never be enough to make you attractive.
@@carlosanthony4972 idk cuz I don’t think I’ve ever met a genuinely ugly guy and if I have, I’ve always seen the potential of them being good looking if they only spent time on working on themselves and good personality can 100% elevate one’s beauty
Obviously thats how attraction works but it doesnt mean that you have to be the beauty standard most people dont meet beauty standard and still get girls people who think its all about lookibg the beauty standard dont know how to find love and only following what the media tells you. If you depend on what social media tells you about how to find love you will never find true love because media is fake. And no girl would want an inauthentic guy.
@@Valentino016 My guy I didn't say anything about the beauty standard just you have to be attractive to the person you are pursuing. Trying to pretend that personality comes before looks is lying to people. It's just as bad as the black pill people saying you can never get a girl unless you make six figures and are 6 ft tall. It's lying about reality and setting people up for failure. In the video bro says most people don't put emphasis on looks because there are more important things like personality. No matter how good your personality is if you don't meet someone's bare minimum for attractiveness you have no chance with that person.
I'm a 5'7 guy and I have actually been with women that are taller than me. I'm not talking like a big gap like 6'1 or like 5'11 cuz those are like super hard to even find in the first place but I still have hooked up with or been on dates with those that are still taller than me. It doesn't just boil down to height at the end of the day trust me.
Ok facts but some women don't do it as an art form if I take a girl home and she ends up looking completely fucked I'm gonna be honest it kinda feels like a lie
Here's another great example of a "missing the point" fallacy, yeah, just because you're under 6 feet doesn't mean you should hate yourself every day, but that doesn't say anything about the fact that if you're under 6 feet, you're invisible to women.
Honestly there is a better way of saying that you like a girl naturally other than saying “you look better without makeup”. “Why do y’all think the way y’all think?!” Why do y’all talk the way y’all talk. 😭😂
Two words: personal bias People hear that their flaws are heavily criticized and that if they don't have this certain trait, they'll fail in finding their partner. Upon hearing this and believing that, every time they see something in their day to day life that conveniently aligns with their beliefs, they'll subconsciously selectively try to seek out more of said thing. So they end up confirming their beliefs through personal bias and ignoring the things which would prove them wrong.
Only men think that being tall matters. Most men are on average taller than the average woman and that’s good enough. I’m a little under 5’11 and some people say I’m tall, so that goes to show how perception is different than we think
( From about 4:05 to 4:08, I just asked google cause... I'm not that good at summarisations so this will do :> ) The term “hip dips” refers to the slight indentations in the outer hips, just above the thighs. Also known as hip valleys or violin hips, hip dips are a natural and common body shape variation. The meaning of hip dips originates from their appearance, being small inwardly curving dips. They are largely determined by genetics and are a normal part of having healthy hips. Whilst they are not a medical concern, some people consider hip dips an aesthetic concern and seek ways to reduce their appearance. With ever-elusive beauty standards, “fixing” hip dips has become the focus of a wide range of exercises and body shaping techniques.
wishing to be tall?? i wish to be *SHORTER* jokes aside, this is why i stay away from that side of the media. i wear make up from time to time, but i dont put on pounds upon pounds. even when im dressing up for a special occasion, its not pounds upon pounds. i started a skin care routine to fix *things that can be helped*, like oily+dry skin. vs someone trying to *stop cheek wrinkles* from forming or whatever the frick 💀 im quite happy with my body (aside from arm/leg hair, but i dont let it *occupy my mind* and decide to get it lazered off. shave my legs and keep my arm hair) moral of the story: dont consume so much media to where you become insecure over the smallest “imperfections” because the people who get popular on social media for their looks probably got surgery done for it. be greatful for what you have and dont envy. be realistic.
I’m very fortunate to be tall, but it still pisses me off that I can’t date someone over one aspect I can remotely control. And no I’M NOT GETTING SURGERY TO MAKE MYSELF TALLER THAT’S TORTURE.
what people also fail to understand is that surgeries like that can also be permanent and there's no telling what can happen if it goes wrong as well as a bunch of side effects that can come with it.
As a 5'1 14 year old man. I fucking hate being this height. I'm constantly bullied for my height and if I woke up tomorrow 6 feet, my life quality would definitely improve like 10 fold. However, a little cope I tell myself is "the things you can't control, can't control you"
Like me you’re only 14 bro, your height could increase exponentially and even if it didn’t so what, some of the best people ever were short mike Tyson for example.
Being 6'3 this can be really annoying because people will act like you can get all the bitches or something, and uh I don't, and its not about being tall that will get them, also I'm skinny and that's a difficult thing to fix when you need many more calories than the average man. Being tall has its disadvantages too so its not like a straight upgrade or something. Not going to act like I'm not happy with it, I definitely am, but people don't understand life is more nuanced than just "physical trait = problems solved".
when I was in uni I was part of the local theater. there was one guy there that had like 6-8 of the girls crushing on him (including myself at one point haha) he's 165cm, or 5'4" in American. that never once stopped him from being the most attractive person in the group because he was highly charismatic and incredibly confident. I've also met men who are shorter who very obviously have a complex about it and it blinded them to the actual reasons women rejected them because they could just say "it's because I'm short" and not fix their anger issues, weight issues, confidence issues etc Also as a woman, I personally tend to avoid highly attractive men because I find them far more likely to be players or to be tempted to cheat because they have so many women vying for their attention (there are many awful women who purposefully try to seduce men who are taken but that's another story) and I would always be suspicious of them/ unable to trust them. That's just me tho. When I try to bring up stuff like this to blackpilled guys who think every woman wants a gigachad (ignoring how insanely popular effeminate kpop idols are btw), they call me a liar. You can't fix other people's delusions.
You're the exception, not the rule, your personal experience is miniscule compared to the damned horror stories I hear from my fellow short men everyday, is it really fair to call it delusion when it has been their entire life? Mind you, the 5'4 guy you were talking about is also an exception as well, he may not be tall but he probably is a pretty boy with good facial features that make up for his lacking height, confidence and personality also came from positive feedback loops in life, you can't change how people treated you and your experiences, which well changes your behavior as well, it is a big factor, you can't just tell someone to be confident and expect them to be like that the next day, they'll have to get the experience necessary to be confident. Also women want or desire Chad because of genetics, nothing more, it is literally human nature, you can't deny the factual truth here, most women like and desire Chad, most people are shallow, most people cannot change what they are attracted to and what they dislike. This isn't delusion, this is real, what they think and experienced is real, you'll never understand it because frankly it is hard to even sympathize or even put yourself in our shoes in your position. You can't and will never empathize with us, you don't and will never understand the pain and suffering these men have to go through, they tried their best, but their best wasn't enough, and sooner or later it might be my case too.
@@quirinoguy8665 "you can't change how people treated you and your experiences" I know this very well, and I also know that as long as I let how other people treated me control how I perceived myself, I was miserable, anxious, and had no self-confidence. In the end I had to face that sometimes other people treat you a certain way because of who they are, not because of you. "you'll never understand it because frankly it is hard to even sympathize or even put yourself in our shoes in your position" You do understand that women have body issues too, right? A woman born too tall, or with small hips, or wide shoulders, or the "wrong body type" will absolutely face the same shame and despair of being lovable or attractive because it's something genetic that can't even be changed with surgery. Go look up how women fret about their ankles - a part of the body most men never even notice. This is a human experience. Everyone has to face that they are not who or what they wish they could be. People who make peace with that gap are the ones who, in the end, are not controlled by it. But really, nothing I or this video or anyone says can change your mind or anyone else's. You have to change your own mind. Sartre said hell is other people, but hell can be the self too. I spent 15 years in a hell of my own making, full of resentment and envy over things that couldn't be changed. I know how it feels. And I say it doesn't help. All it does is make you focus on one narrow part of your own life and blow it up until you can't even see any of the good you have.
taking advantage of people's insecurities is happening everywhere now. thanks for making a vid on this topic
I agree friend, and most these things create as-wide-as-possible demographic of defeated people to sell them ALL the 'quick fix' products...
capitalism is beautiful but heartless
Facts
@@pawelzawrotniak3826 just heartless. there is nothing beautiful about a system that naturally trends towards these types of things. this is the rule, not the exception
@@pizdrinkah I think it's just the certain companies exploiting the ability to monetize anything.
There’s a saying that goes “you may be the sweetest peach on the tree, but some people don’t like peaches.” And I totally agree. if you need validation from other people to feel good about yourself, you will never be happy
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This saying is great because it also says that people who don't like peaches should have 0 opinion
"You may be the *insert good trait* human on the planet, but some people don’t like human."
This is the most accurate saying i’ve ever heard. And i’m doing my best to accept this fact too. I’m always concerned and worried about if someone likes me or not that i forget that not everyone’s gonna like me, and that doesn’t mean that i’m a bad person or that I’m annoying. I can be the most confident, humble, generous and respectful person in the world and someone will still hate me. Humans have and will ALWAYS find ways to complain, that’s the bitter truth.
The first person that needs to validate you is yourself
I love the fact that instead of being a kinda fake pesona on youtube kaaedee just gives out genuinely good opinions, instead of being fake he gives genuine tough love, just a kinda real guy who i can imagine this is his real personality and exists in real life unlike nick ehhhh 30 or andrew tate.
Like, who is going to genuinely fight you because you dont drink sparkling water?
if you do drink sparkling water tho it's on sight
pretty sure the sparkling water thing is a joke
@@nationalotamatone9800 that's what I'm saying, they play up a bit of a character for the cameras
he just copes really hard lol
bro has never heard a joke in his life
I would rather be 4’5 than wear those shoes
Really tho?
Lol at 4'5 you probably won't be able to reach the lifts on the store shelf 💀
dk about 4'5 i'd rather wear those shoes 4'5 is basically a midget bro
If you can comb into the shoes
Trust me, my brother, you don't. You are making me laugh, you'll do great as a comedian, in fact I dare you, I freaking dare you to speak to a 30 year old 4'5 man and ask them about their experience in life in general, you wouldn't want to be less than 5ft.
GUYS, height doesn’t matter, if you have a good, fun personality and you make her laugh YOU WILL GET HER be yourself be CONFIDENT and she’ll see that and admire that shit
Heigh does not matter indeed, I'm 197 cm (I think that is 6'6'' in burger units) and it ain't never helped me. But neither did the "making her laugh" part, I've invested greatly into becoming the guy who can make the ladies laugh, and I always did, and it never helped me in the slightest
lol
Sounds like something Jeremy meeks would say
What kind of copium bullshit is this??
There's literally a study out there that proves that women rate tall guys as having a better personality
Some girls make it a big deal. Some don't. It's not rocket science
To be honest I do think there’s a difference between make up and this. Make up can be used as a form of art, I don’t think height boosters do that
Hey, man, i know you may not even read this comment but i just want to post this for you. Your videos have made me laugh a lot and genuinely made my day. I sadly had been pretty harsh on myself these past 2 years because you know, never had a gf, not very social and etc. (I'm 22 btw) But your videos really have made my days better and made my big sad go away. Now I'm focusing on myself and I'm trying to improve thw best i can even if the struggle is real. Just thank you, keep up the good work.
Hey unspoken we're both the same age. I'm glad you're starting to improve yourself because that's the step we all need to take instead of comparing ourselves to random strangers over the internet.
@secretpeace-wp6xg Yup, social media is very crappy and I got to stop comparing myself with others irl too. I will be the best of me. ✊️
@@unspoken657 I wish you all the best.
I'm 191cm. That's 6'3. When do i get my harem?
When you have the courage to talk to girls
Highkey heels. 🤣 These ladies be hypocrites.
Women literally wear high heels. That’s literally a height booster. Height is attractive
"Wouldn't still be living with their parents at 25" Blood how should anyone be able to afford a house right out of college? TH-camrs are delusional when it comes to finances
A apartment?
Bich have you looked at the price of even just a 1 bedroom apartment in the past 3 years?
It's an american thing, get a student loan for an unrelated degree AND blow money on a rent😂
Bro those 6 inch insoles are just high heels with extra steps 💀
Raise your height, lower your self respect.
I call them what they really are. High heels for men lol
“You are in full control of your life and how you’re perceived” actually laughed out loud at this pathetic cope.
But he is right. Nothing is stopping you from getting others to look at you on a better light. You have control over that.
Sad projection, get your head out of your ass
I don’t even care about about the material, kaedee just entertaining fr
Bro is the reincarnation of Grade A Under A
Love yourself NOW⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️
3:00 Sid the sloth jumpscare
Them height lift jus like make up fr😂😂
Back in my day people would likely make fun of you wearing heels rather then your height
Its not "the world" monitizing your flaws, it's Capitalism.
I love how men and women become insecure over the stupidest things and then blame the opposite gender for their insecurities that they created themselves. Like wtf are canthal tilts and hip dips 😭
I don't even know what a canthal is I don't speak pretentious fuckwad.
These people are weirdos that never got attention at home and were never taken seriously at school so they put all their baggage online
@@-astor-9844HES GAY
@@-astor-9844asked
@@-astor-9844Sorry i couldnt help myself
3:42
Women who say that are so out of touch it hurts
It's an anedoctally provable fact taht the people who pressure women into fitting beauty standarts the most are OTHER WOMEN.
Just like how it's often guys who'll make other guys feel insecure about not being manly or tall or stylish enough.
Yes the opposite happens but from observancy i'd say the person pressuring a woman into wearing makeup or heels or wahtever tends to be another woman who thinks she's better, not a dude trying to make her fuckable
“anecdotally provable”
what.
“Anecdotally provable” so basically what you’re saying is subjective nonsense based in no facts whatsoever. Imagine being this much of an idiot lol you realise not even 200 years ago if you didn’t meet the beauty standard as a woman you were basically deemed worthless 🤦🏻♂️ that beauty standard was enforced by men, women pressure other women but that’s because those women are pressured by men and used by men (elites) as tools to promote consumerism and conformity amongst the masses. In the same way the elites use cleelbrties
@@resaresaresa3800 it means ''i have no concrete data to prove anything but am confident that by going outside and/or talking to people you will understand said conclusion''; basically.
@@TheAuthorStudios "I literally have no evidence but I talk hard enough out of my own ass that I myself believe it."
@@resaresaresa3800 again, go outside and talk to people and see what ocnclusion you'll reach, i reached that one.
life isn't reddit bud, you don't need a peer-approved essay and 3 pages worth of citations and evidence for every statement you make, having experience and personal tought is a thing.
Wear lifts for women 🚫
Wear lifts to reach something ✅️
fr XD
also known as a ladder, step stool or whatever tf you can use to step up on.
@@stew4572Ask mommy to pick you up
@@stew4572I mean your not carrying a ladder or step stool everywhere
@@stew4572 The shoe lifts are much more portable than those
What I hate the most is that I’ve always been a shorter guy and during high school I never had issues with it I was never insecure about it and I had no problem with girls or friends but as soon as the internet culture shifted towards this insecurity bullshit I felt it hit me so much more it’s terrible and I feel so bad for any kids going through those formative years with such negative influence in their lives
HGH limb lengthening surgery and all that hair and skin care and lifting
@@RazorRamonMachismo i agree with skin and hair care and lifting but probs best to avoid the limb lengthening surgery just feels a bit off and probably is unsafe
@@RazorRamonMachismoNow thats just acknowledging the problem. You don't need to get a surgery to make you look taller for other people. If you wanna Lift then lift for yourself. Trust me this is wayyyyy WAYYYYYY better.
You're not wrong, the internet has utterly warped people's standards, I was the same as you, 5'7 and didn't care, not until the pandemic hit, I swear we entered the clown timeline when we all got cooped up in our houses.
How tall are you tho? Im 5'4", and let me tell you, this is a dealbreaker for the vast majority of women
In summary: WE ARE ALL KENOUGH
In summary 2: We dont have to be kix keet kall
@@IZachC ke are all just ken
@@IZachCKool
@@IZachC we're all kandsome eings.
But if i feel im kenough i will stop improving 🤔
Imagine wearing those shoes just to be 5'11
The risk aint worth the reward
Why not? Women do it all the time and I bet you don't mind :^)
@@Canoweissmonthats a yikes bro 😬
yea that's crazy
High Heels for men
As long as you work with what you have and you do what you love, you're doing good for yourself 💪🏻😎
Radical
Copeus maximus
Nobody gives a fuck about your best
People want the best
“Next time let the wolves eat all your brains, and you’ll be a genius”
Just keep doing hardwork and shoot for your dreams bro!
I don't really think height boosters and makeup are a very apt comparison. For the most part, women see makeup as another way to express themselves, like wearing nice clothes or styling their hair. You'll see a lot of alt girls doing crazy shit with makeup that many would say isn't conventionally attractive. I think a better comparison to height boosters would probably be breast pads imo.
REAL (and they're called push-up bras)
I won't say make up was an expression of themself because if it was they would have drawn flowers or rockets on their face. the fact that all of the tools for make up enhances features that make you look better says it all that make up is not a extension like shirt or shoes, they are very very different. shirts don't make you look like you have abbs.
@@levielevo6570…people do draw flowers and clouds on their face with makeup though
Why not both?
Ahah that’s a big cope
I ain't a tall guy by any means (5'7 ft), but this didn't keep me from getting a girlfriend that was slightly taller than me in the past. I understand the preference of wanting a guy that's at least eye level or taller, but if she absolutely disregards everything else that you offer with your identity just to get that height criteria met, then she's for the streets. I promise you that you're dodging a bullet, because the last thing you want is to love someone that's as hollow as a Kardashian's skull.
Ikr. dudes put women on such a gargantuan pedestal, it's almost disgusting.
If a woman doesn't want to be with you over your height or any other similar criteria, then it simply wasn't meant to be. You don't need to be attractive to every woman on the planet
5'7 and 5'11 are the best height
"you're dodging a bullet bro believe me you already dodged two million bullets straight to being a 30yo virgin bro you only won keep it up king"
Then you won't get anyone they're all the same.
@@FloppaTheBasedyou go date someone who truly thinks that height is an extremely valuable quality to have and tell us how it goes
Facts, Women get so mad and defensive when we say they look better without makeup. We’re literally complementing you by saying your natural beauty is better without Powder and Paint.
well I mean what if they like the way it looks on them? I would be offended if someone said I look better without my hat.
Maybe it the fact that it takes them 30 min to an hour to do it and you say- oh you look better without it. Imagine you get all dressed up and someone says -oh you look better in your usual clothes.
@@silentnightingale3934 Sounds like a Her Problem.
imagine a girl came up to you and said you would look better if you had a checkerboard neon-green buzzcut with minibraids
that girl could be telling the truth but would you feel better about yourself at school or work if you had a checkerboard neon-green buzzcut with minibraids?
*_no_*
@@socialistrepublicofvietnam1500 I’m complementing her natural beauty, what you’d described is a whole different thing.
I'm 165-170 cm and I love it. If people don't want to be with you just because your height or some other things you can't change. That's an insanely massive red flag
6'1" and I agree completely
Exactly what i’ve been saying. Once you accept that there are some things that are out of your control, life becomes easier to cope with. Whether it’s your height, people’s actions and opinions towards you etc
If you are a woman, yeah you can take this as a red flag, because you have choices. But if you are men, 95% of the girls will care about your height, some just will be less demanding, but if you take this as a bad characteristic will be hard to find a ''good' person, but you can use as a cope as well and just say most people suck, which is true lol
i don’t even know how tall i am so i get to choose!
Not really, I want my kids to be tall, thats not a red flag
If you need other people to love/like you in order to feel good about yourself.. Ya need to love yourself, because that love can never be taken away from you. People's opinions about you can change, but your opinion is what's gonna carry on with you for your life.
Its all mindset man, W comment
Im trying to reach this mindset
brutal cope
@@FloppaTheBased ?
@@marinefart9082 Humans are social animals and we need approval or we are fucked and it happens from childhood
DUH??
Completely understand this. As a tall woman, it's somewhat the opposite for me. I've been insecure if my height for the longest time because of media-- and people generally wanting shorter/more petite girls. I've literally gotten bullied for being skinny and tall.
Having prefences is fine, but don't let people shame you for something you can't change.
так тебе наоборот повезло. Найди еще более высокого мужчину, и ваш сын будет по гроб жизни благодарен вам за ваши гены. У низких женщин с этим большие проблемы, да у них больше выбора из парней, но они потом рожают низких сыновей, которые потом страдают всю жизнь от этого
@@FloppaTheBasedNyet
Find yourself a mountain climber
Pray to God that somebody the same height or taller falls from the sky because your bloodline will forever be in debt to you
You go girl, live ur life and meet someone who appreaciate of who you are!
I think makeup is largely dependent on its usage. Many people use makeup to enhance their uniqueness and to express themselves better and I think that's dope. Like it's not that they don't feel bad or insecure without it but rather they feel better with it - like people that dress up for conventions or people into fashion design.
However if u do makeup out of insecurity and to hide away your uniqueness by trying to look like everyone else like the general beauty standard, I think that's pretty lame.
This. I completely agree with this. Use it to express yourself, not to cover up yourself
W take
Cope. Most of them won't leave the house without it on.
@@LegalizeTheNuclearBomb source: I saw it in a dream
Enhance their uniqueness by buying a serialized product demanded by the mass market? They'd be more unique going by only genetics.
there was a whole ass courage the cowardly dog episode showing its fine to not be perfect
i dont agree with everything you say but i really enjoy listening to your perspective on these things. genuinely i think youve helped me grow as a person, especially with the social anxiety video because that shit helped me get a girlfriend so thanks kaedee
and youre funny as fuck
Damn wtf, hol on lemme go rewatch that vid
Bro got bitches cause of kaedee
congratulations
damn bro how???? explain, details
@@cyrusthe0ther795 i saw a girl i found super attractive on a night out and just thought 'its selfish to be socially anxious' and went up to her. i was expecting a rejection but it didnt happen, so i got her snapchat, and now we're together. ive always been super nervous with approaching but that phrase from that video just kept coming into my head. now i dont really get anxious at all
to everyone hear, yall some handsome/beautiful mfs. Work on yourself, don't be an ass, and step outside your comfort zone to talk to people. Have a good day
damn, forgot i was illiterate. have a good day tho
Huge anti blackpill cope 😔
Fr bro gimmi my herbert boy back
Blackpilling and looks maxing has made men so unconfident
yea bro that's why i don't focus on black pill it makes me feel more negative about my self
Men need to evolve rather than making the thing you don't got....you cant max something which you don't even own....
Blackpilling was invented to make normal humans into internet basement dwellers
Because men are finding out their looks matter and they aren't up to par
Dont forget the redpill!
im 5ft4 black guy, i agree with you. im short but no girl has ever rejected me because of my height, it my dating life is not perfect but my height is never the reason. i had girls choose me sometimes instead of the chad standing next to me. hack some of these girls were tall asf. some twice my size but still were into me. girls never say anything about my height, when i get rejected it is always cause of superficial reasons like, ohh he's boring, or he's broke but never height
Fr im 5ft5 and still girls chase me
😂damn so oblivious
You have been you just don't know it and they didn't tell you.
Guy: "Hey, I thought you were cute. Can I get your number?"
Girl: "ACTUALLY, I HAVE A BOYFRIEND"
Guy(in his head): "damn, if only she didn't have a boyfriend, then I would have gotten her number, and I would’ve gotten the opportunity to be her boyfriend. If only I had asked her out sooner. It was because of the reason I was late that I was not able to get her number. Her response proved that.
I thought a guy like this wouldn't exist, but it seems like I was wrong.
I think you're mixing up maternal instincts with genuine interest because these bitches want a child and they think it's you
Im 6'4, no job no gf... but i havent even tried getting a gf and i cant get a job.
I get ignored just as much as anyone else, im not even too bad looking and i definetly dont lack in size.
There are just too many guys who are better at approaching and talking to women than me, im not the greatest option.
Best thing you can do is take care of yourself. Love for yourself will reflect in your interactions with others as well.
Crazy how far you've grown in like 6 months man. Keep it up(I am a confirmed kaedee dick rider)
Me too.
Nah being tall doesn't automatically fix all your problems
It's like saying I can't get a girl or a job just because my t-shirt was green
yeah but it exponentially increases your chances
like yes some short white guy can get a bantu girl from Africa so technically you are right
but you know it is heavily retarded in practical application
Idk man. It def would make my life a lot better since it's my main insecurity and I'm always called out for it at school
homie just buy some big boots
Looks height money status are the only things that matter. Everything else is cope.
What a sad way to see the world
@@mrossknejust because it’s the way the world is doesn’t mean it’s how the world should be
Blackpill remains undefeated
I don't mean to sound like a boomer or that stereotypical self help author but I feel that people need to learn to love themselves (not in narcissism but in self esteem) because no matter how much validation you give to someone it'll never be enough for them.
i’ve never dated before or anything, but as a woman, i would be happy with a man who is 5’5. i really dont understand the obsession with height.
Sure
Fr like just be taller than me. That’s it
@@inquisitionagent9052 Bro in my country, average height of men is literally 5’3-5’5. I don’t care, that’s still taller than me.
@@zandkingdom 5'3 is average? Wow that's crazy. Where do y'all live? The shire?
@@inquisitionagent9052 Lol.. Philippines. Average filipino man, 5’4 (164 cm). I’m about 150 cm, so about 5’0. Southeast Asians aren’t tall.
It’s kinda funny I’m tall and my short friends have girlfriends I’m single so there you go being tall isn’t the magical cure for your girl can’t stand you disease
Face
Manlets coping
About 9 months ago i broke my leg in half in a skating accident and got surgery. Fast forward to now it fully healed but now its an inch shorter, mf im 5'9 on one leg and 5'8 on da other, i got a whole ass limp now. Still pulled a girls number jus by walkin da pup an bein friendly. Truth be told yall most of us arent studs, but that dont mean we cant be attractive to someone. Stay patient, dont chase, and embrace your flaws :)
thank you world famous skater Chig Bungus
Dam bro you real for that
sounds like shortoid cope
Sounds like a ugly cope 😂🫵🏾
i have to put special insert's into my shoes cause I'm flat footed but these are goofy as hell and dont even help with anything
1. Listen ladies, he’s right on that part we didn’t really care about makeup until it’s either brought up or u take it off
2. Height boosters actually aren’t the same as make up guys. Most girls don’t go crazy with their makeup to the point where they’re unrecognizable and when they do it’s obvious they are wearing makeup.
3. Height boosters are just setting yourself up for failure, unless you find a super soldier serum there’s no good way to add proportional height
most people have a longer wing span than their actual height so it works out
Just wear high-heels. If women can do it to appear taller, it's only fair that men can do it, too.
that rant wasnt off topic and it actually made me smile, i know this channel is more oriented to men, but as a woman, that part actually helped me bc i was considering buying makeup but now i realize that i dont need it, so thank you
I love makeup but I don’t wear it in public or in front of people. Idk I just like to paint my face home alone just to go to the kitchen or smth
@@cyanscrewdriver2092 GIRL SAME 😭I only wear makeup at nighttime alone in my room when I wanna have fun bec I'm too shy to wear makeup in public
Trust me. A lot of guys are more attracted to the local barista than the club girl with enough powder to feed 5 families. That's why there's tons of memes about a random cashier being cuter than a supermodel. Just a hoody and a bun is fine if you're nice to dudes and comfortable in your own skin.
@@cyanscrewdriver2092Bro puts on eyeliner to make a sandwich 💀
@@familyguysofunny1933 it enhances the flavours 🤌
3:18 sounds like ricegum a bit
honestly as a person who is 6 foot 1, being tall isnt what its cracked up to be. You might get the occasional compliment, but you arent swimming in hoes like the tiktoks claim it to be. But to me, thats honestly a good thing. People irl will judge you more on how your personality is than looks, as long as you look average. And even if girl will judge you based on your hieght, they are def very shallow and only care about you meeting their standdards.and honestly, dont worry if some people judge you. You are still human and there are many others who deal with the same issues.
You're so blind to your own privilege lmao
Nah the reason why I wanna be tall is because you can pack on more muscle in your frame without being to big
@@zayedmustafa4737 that makes sense
People aren't trying to be taller because they want hoes, they just want to be more normal and not have their self-esteem obliterated whenever they leave the house.
Honestly the closer you are to average height the better from the perspective of someone that is short like me, being 6'+ no offense but it's mostly just a vanity thing and may attract more heightest people to you but that's about it.
Regardless, you can be unattractive at any height and that has nothing to do with your "personality".
the issue isnt being not tall its being short
Thanks man, I needed this, shit my brain is just making excuses so the day was hard. I got fit and relatively good looking, now I said I was bad looking because of one single black head, yeah..a SINGLE ONE, man life's stupid sometimes.
The reason why women get annoyed with mens comment on their makeup is because they're not wearing it for YOU.
It's for them, have you seen goth/alt/lolita ect? Those aren't exactly looks you'd do to be the beauty standard and get male attention.
Wrong cause Goth girls are pretty
Girls are fucked up bro I dont get their logic.
Wemon LITERALLY uses waist restraints or what ever it’s called… a griddle?
can feel my insecuritys getting smaller just by watching dis man
daily dose of copium lol
@@FloppaTheBased you clicked this video too
I'll tell you this on my perspective as a 5'7 man, it isn't easy, nobody takes you seriously, hell even dare respect you, It is pretty bad, could get worse but if you were to ask me, I would rather be taller, it doesn't take rocket science to know that height makes you look more imposing and attractive, it is an objective truth, men, women, people in general treat people who are taller better, especially in the Philippines, it shows status, that you have superior genetics, that's why people respect you, and if people want to taste a little bit of that, yeah sure go ahead but it is clown behavior, nothing can change that, even if you accept the flaw it is a cope, you will never be respected or admired compared to a much more taller person, it is an objective truth I do not care whatever mental gymnastics you perform to try to disprove it, exceptions may happen sure but in general? Height matters, a lot, not the only thing ofcourse but still, it would be nice to be taller especially, and I mean ESPECIALLY if you are a man, it really feels emasculating knowing that an aspect of my life could never and will never truly be changed unless I do stupid clown surgeries or wear dumb clothing, genetics and anatomy is destiny y'all, if you read this, don't forget it.
Heightpill is law
The victim in the friend group is always the shortest one 😭
I'm 5"3, going to work and being made fun of every shift is ropefuel.
I'm 6'3 and not only do I not have a girlfriend, but my back hurts all the time.
Stop taking backshots and you'll feel good.
Nigga you just have bad posture
@ItachisCrowy bro what 💀
Stop dropping the soap
@@FictionHubZA this is wicked 💀💀
Tbh I accept the fact I’m 5’5
ok? congratulations
W
anyone who dislikes this video or hate comments is calling themselves out at that point
People allow a very small minority of insecure people who are always posting about makeup, looks, height etc (they always talk about it because their insecure) to muddy their perception of what society and average people expect of them. I’m not saying looks don’t matter but for most people it’s more of a minimum threshold, and then other things such as character, personality and type matter much more once you meet that point.
I'm the shortest guy in my friend group, I'm also the oldest and strongest. My friends make fun of me because of my I height and I don't care. My purpose in my friend group is to give honest life advice to help them grow and also to be funny :)
nono my brother, height is actually a huge deal i'm 5'5, most there's a bunch of women my size, so this boost helps me be a little bigger or the same size as her, being smaller is a nono, and if you think back in school, it is gonna be the short kid and the fat one who's gonna suffer the most. paying like 10$ for a life changing step is peanuts
Im 5'5 as well, and no its not a huge deal. Once you get some confidence you could give less of a shit. Honestly Ive never had an issue with my heigth; and having a girl my heigth or close to it makes things feel better, because the eye contact just feels more natural. Especially when youre walking side by side and talking to each other.
Also, just to add. Ive never really liked social media, (I have only used yt) which is most likely why I never had an issue with these sort of things. From what Ive seen people on social media give a lot of care to others opinions. When in most cases people dont bat a eye or care when theyre in public, and if they do why care? People who are judgemental are a lot more miserable than those who are not. Not only that but most solid relationships are built by two people who talk to eachother and learn about eachother. Not a website that makes you choose a partner you think is attractive or not.
Dude thank you...
I literally took your advice, lost 14kg worth of fat and built decent muscle but still found a way to hate myself because my jawline wasn't a certain way....
Y'all please and I say this with all sincerity, sure life weights, and dress better but don't get caught up in this looksmaxxing bs...
There is literally only on of you in existence, no one will ever be like You, so stop limiting yourself from self hate...
Talk to That girl or guy, acknowledge the effort you've put and start valuing yourself
If your 5 11 just say your 6 ft
fax
@@Crimera137I feel like once Ur 5'11 it's a game of what shoes u r wearing coz I have a friend and dependin in the shoes he either finesses 6 ft or if hes wearing like slides literally looks almost 5'10
@@milesmorales2869 yeah i agree id be good if i were 5'11 you can just lie your way to the finish line and noone would notice
Even if I like barley reach 5,11?
@@equ-ipe6893 yeah alot better then most of us
I was with you until you said most people don't put emphasis on other people's physical appearance when it comes to dating. I still agree with the overall point but the number one thing for both men and women when looking for a partner is that they find the person physically attractive. Unless we're talking about gold diggers it don't matter how much money you got or how good your personality is if the person you're trying to date think you're ugly you don't got no chance.
I agree but that said attractive person can also look ugly with a bad personality
@@cyanscrewdriver2092 No doubt a bad personality can make a person unattractive but a good personality alone will never be enough to make you attractive.
@@carlosanthony4972 idk cuz I don’t think I’ve ever met a genuinely ugly guy and if I have, I’ve always seen the potential of them being good looking if they only spent time on working on themselves and good personality can 100% elevate one’s beauty
Obviously thats how attraction works but it doesnt mean that you have to be the beauty standard most people dont meet beauty standard and still get girls people who think its all about lookibg the beauty standard dont know how to find love and only following what the media tells you. If you depend on what social media tells you about how to find love you will never find true love because media is fake. And no girl would want an inauthentic guy.
@@Valentino016 My guy I didn't say anything about the beauty standard just you have to be attractive to the person you are pursuing. Trying to pretend that personality comes before looks is lying to people. It's just as bad as the black pill people saying you can never get a girl unless you make six figures and are 6 ft tall. It's lying about reality and setting people up for failure. In the video bro says most people don't put emphasis on looks because there are more important things like personality. No matter how good your personality is if you don't meet someone's bare minimum for attractiveness you have no chance with that person.
"MY WEINER IS TINY" is such a powerful line lmaoo
im 6'5 and genuinely wish I was shorter, 6'2 would be nice.
ungrateful a
im not ungrateful but I am an asshole@@therearewormsundermyskinth2928
@@therearewormsundermyskinth2928 that spine is gonna snap when he gets old ☠☠
your videos are so good man, you deserve at least 1 mil bro bc ur takes are absolute 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I'm a 5'7 guy and I have actually been with women that are taller than me. I'm not talking like a big gap like 6'1 or like 5'11 cuz those are like super hard to even find in the first place but I still have hooked up with or been on dates with those that are still taller than me. It doesn't just boil down to height at the end of the day trust me.
Incredibly rs. I’m proud, always w the well made vids 👏👏
W youtuber
Kaedeelations had me rollin 7:52 💀
Makeup is an art form. Height boosters are just wedges in your shoes
Ok facts but some women don't do it as an art form if I take a girl home and she ends up looking completely fucked I'm gonna be honest it kinda feels like a lie
Keep simping normie
Here's another great example of a "missing the point" fallacy, yeah, just because you're under 6 feet doesn't mean you should hate yourself every day, but that doesn't say anything about the fact that if you're under 6 feet, you're invisible to women.
I guess you're my new GradeAUnderA... Now i gotta see your feet for the time being
I wish gradeaundera would return
Same
Honestly there is a better way of saying that you like a girl naturally other than saying “you look better without makeup”.
“Why do y’all think the way y’all think?!”
Why do y’all talk the way y’all talk. 😭😂
true
Two words: personal bias
People hear that their flaws are heavily criticized and that if they don't have this certain trait, they'll fail in finding their partner. Upon hearing this and believing that, every time they see something in their day to day life that conveniently aligns with their beliefs, they'll subconsciously selectively try to seek out more of said thing. So they end up confirming their beliefs through personal bias and ignoring the things which would prove them wrong.
Only men think that being tall matters. Most men are on average taller than the average woman and that’s good enough. I’m a little under 5’11 and some people say I’m tall, so that goes to show how perception is different than we think
( From about 4:05 to 4:08, I just asked google cause...
I'm not that good at summarisations so this will do :> )
The term “hip dips” refers to the slight indentations in the outer hips, just above the thighs. Also known as hip valleys or violin hips, hip dips are a natural and common body shape variation. The meaning of hip dips originates from their appearance, being small inwardly curving dips. They are largely determined by genetics and are a normal part of having healthy hips.
Whilst they are not a medical concern, some people consider hip dips an aesthetic concern and seek ways to reduce their appearance. With ever-elusive beauty standards, “fixing” hip dips has become the focus of a wide range of exercises and body shaping techniques.
I’m 6’1 and still have no girls, having height does not help ☠️
Natural always wins.
Natty is W
Not always
It's about perception
This kicks ass
I LOVE ASS
wishing to be tall?? i wish to be *SHORTER*
jokes aside, this is why i stay away from that side of the media.
i wear make up from time to time, but i dont put on pounds upon pounds. even when im dressing up for a special occasion, its not pounds upon pounds.
i started a skin care routine to fix *things that can be helped*, like oily+dry skin. vs someone trying to *stop cheek wrinkles* from forming or whatever the frick 💀
im quite happy with my body (aside from arm/leg hair, but i dont let it *occupy my mind* and decide to get it lazered off. shave my legs and keep my arm hair)
moral of the story: dont consume so much media to where you become insecure over the smallest “imperfections”
because the people who get popular on social media for their looks probably got surgery done for it. be greatful for what you have and dont envy. be realistic.
Here early today
Who aint
Reminder that Dio was 5’4”
(Ronnie James Dio not Dio Brando lmao)
MUDA DA MUDA WRRRRRRRYYYYYY
It all depends on how I'm feeling
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I’m very fortunate to be tall, but it still pisses me off that I can’t date someone over one aspect I can remotely control. And no I’M NOT GETTING SURGERY TO MAKE MYSELF TALLER THAT’S TORTURE.
what people also fail to understand is that surgeries like that can also be permanent and there's no telling what can happen if it goes wrong as well as a bunch of side effects that can come with it.
As a 5'1 14 year old man. I fucking hate being this height. I'm constantly bullied for my height and if I woke up tomorrow 6 feet, my life quality would definitely improve like 10 fold.
However, a little cope I tell myself is "the things you can't control, can't control you"
Like me you’re only 14 bro, your height could increase exponentially and even if it didn’t so what, some of the best people ever were short mike Tyson for example.
@@analt2379Mike Tyson was 5'10 huh
"man" dawg you got 4 years left
I'm 5"3, it's hell bro. Hope you grow taller and if you don't. That's okay bro. Shits difficult. But I wish you the best
@@benitomussolini8544 thank you, btw I've grown an inch I'm 5'2 now
Being 6'3 this can be really annoying because people will act like you can get all the bitches or something, and uh I don't, and its not about being tall that will get them, also I'm skinny and that's a difficult thing to fix when you need many more calories than the average man. Being tall has its disadvantages too so its not like a straight upgrade or something. Not going to act like I'm not happy with it, I definitely am, but people don't understand life is more nuanced than just "physical trait = problems solved".
when I was in uni I was part of the local theater. there was one guy there that had like 6-8 of the girls crushing on him (including myself at one point haha) he's 165cm, or 5'4" in American. that never once stopped him from being the most attractive person in the group because he was highly charismatic and incredibly confident.
I've also met men who are shorter who very obviously have a complex about it and it blinded them to the actual reasons women rejected them because they could just say "it's because I'm short" and not fix their anger issues, weight issues, confidence issues etc
Also as a woman, I personally tend to avoid highly attractive men because I find them far more likely to be players or to be tempted to cheat because they have so many women vying for their attention (there are many awful women who purposefully try to seduce men who are taken but that's another story) and I would always be suspicious of them/ unable to trust them. That's just me tho. When I try to bring up stuff like this to blackpilled guys who think every woman wants a gigachad (ignoring how insanely popular effeminate kpop idols are btw), they call me a liar. You can't fix other people's delusions.
You're the exception, not the rule, your personal experience is miniscule compared to the damned horror stories I hear from my fellow short men everyday, is it really fair to call it delusion when it has been their entire life? Mind you, the 5'4 guy you were talking about is also an exception as well, he may not be tall but he probably is a pretty boy with good facial features that make up for his lacking height, confidence and personality also came from positive feedback loops in life, you can't change how people treated you and your experiences, which well changes your behavior as well, it is a big factor, you can't just tell someone to be confident and expect them to be like that the next day, they'll have to get the experience necessary to be confident.
Also women want or desire Chad because of genetics, nothing more, it is literally human nature, you can't deny the factual truth here, most women like and desire Chad, most people are shallow, most people cannot change what they are attracted to and what they dislike.
This isn't delusion, this is real, what they think and experienced is real, you'll never understand it because frankly it is hard to even sympathize or even put yourself in our shoes in your position. You can't and will never empathize with us, you don't and will never understand the pain and suffering these men have to go through, they tried their best, but their best wasn't enough, and sooner or later it might be my case too.
@@quirinoguy8665
"you can't change how people treated you and your experiences"
I know this very well, and I also know that as long as I let how other people treated me control how I perceived myself, I was miserable, anxious, and had no self-confidence. In the end I had to face that sometimes other people treat you a certain way because of who they are, not because of you.
"you'll never understand it because frankly it is hard to even sympathize or even put yourself in our shoes in your position"
You do understand that women have body issues too, right? A woman born too tall, or with small hips, or wide shoulders, or the "wrong body type" will absolutely face the same shame and despair of being lovable or attractive because it's something genetic that can't even be changed with surgery. Go look up how women fret about their ankles - a part of the body most men never even notice. This is a human experience. Everyone has to face that they are not who or what they wish they could be. People who make peace with that gap are the ones who, in the end, are not controlled by it.
But really, nothing I or this video or anyone says can change your mind or anyone else's. You have to change your own mind. Sartre said hell is other people, but hell can be the self too. I spent 15 years in a hell of my own making, full of resentment and envy over things that couldn't be changed. I know how it feels. And I say it doesn't help. All it does is make you focus on one narrow part of your own life and blow it up until you can't even see any of the good you have.
@@quirinoguy8665 Brutal and agreed. The man in OP's story is an EXTREME outlier. Even more fucking blackpilling to be honest.
Ay boys, I’m 6’1 and still hate myself. Hight is not solving going too solve your problem