That is why as adults we miss those days where our parents or grandma used to cook for us when we were kids. They made the food with love and good intentions🙏
Psychology is a real thing. Hence it is completely irrelevant what someone believes, it matters how said person feels. Some beliefs are harmful to you, others not. I pity those who never had found the freedom to consciously choose what they believe in.
@@daytonasayswhat9333 Are you stupid? To not understand that you literally create chemicals in your body with emotions can be the epitome of idiocy. Take yourself back to school and pay attention this time.
This is so true. I’ve noticed that when I’ve been around people whose energy does not align with my own, I feel a loss of appetite. But when I am around the people I love, I eat so much and feel so happy whilst eating.
@@Flippedwickii not really, stress and anxiousness can affect your appetite there is a nerve connected from the stomach straight to the brain that tells you when you're hungry or not
I work at Starbucks on my campus. ALL of my friends and some acquaintances never fail to tell me for some reason the drinks I made were the “best” or perfect. It’s because I make it with love baby 🥰🥰💋💋
I believe it! I get the same thing at Starbucks daily but sometimes at different locations, it always tastes better when the barista is in a happy mood. So strange and interesting. Energy matters.
@@ryangraham7012exactly! We should strive to love our enemies, as holding onto hostility only burdens us. By shifting our mindset and choosing to see others with compassion rather than as enemies, we reduce stress and open the door to understanding and peace. Jesus knows best!
@@ryangraham7012Thus says the Lord of hosts: Now, ask the priests concerning the law, saying, "If one carries holy meat in the fold of his garment, and with the edge he touches bread or stew, wine or oil, or any food, will it become holy?” Then the priests answered and said, “No.” And Haggai said, “If one who is unclean because of a dead body touches any of these, will it be unclean?” So the priests answered and said, "it shall be unclean." Haggai 2:11-13 You are absolutely correct; the only one who never gets contaminated, but rather cleanses everything He touches is Jesus Christ. When He touched lepers ... rather than He becoming defiled they became cleansed. 👍🏼
Don’t worry guy just love them that all you need to do jesus solved that problem by saying love your enemies, so which mean it not a problem for us those whoever believes in Jesus Christ but if they don’t want to eat with you , that totally fine may God bless u all God is love , love is not God
This can also be said for how food tastes when it’s prepared by someone in a bad mood. I worked in a deli in a health food store & we had a to-go case with salads, sandwiches & smoothies, among other things that we would prep every day… I swear though, EVERY TIME the deli manager prepped certain foods & wasn’t in a great mood, I’d hear complaints from customers about how this item or that item didn’t taste the same, look the same, have the same consistency, etc & I started to notice a pattern. Putting good energy into your food MATTERS, because some people can taste it & even feel it.
I'm like your deli manager so I don't make for for people who I don't like or who I am irritated or angry with at the time. I also don't work in food any more to avoid this.
Viewing others as enemies only creates unnecessary tension and stress. Instead, we should make an effort to approach people with compassion and understanding, even when we disagree with them. Shifting our perspective can lighten our emotional load and open the door to meaningful connections and mutual respect, fostering peace in our lives and relationships.
Dont eat when you are in bad mood... wait until you cool off and in happy state of your mind ... keep training your brain to stay happy... nothing in this life is worth degrading your health. Be happy and enjoy life and love yourself ... God bless yall have a blessed Saturday!!
True, prolly why when people are going through heartbreak or grief, they will not touch food. They can bath, still do chores and other stuff but appetite just completely dies down
I want to be done with life so badly I have 3 more days left and I pray for faith or Jesus or anything. I need salvation so badly I am hurting more than I ever thought possible. I am not as tough as I thought I was. I don’t know.
@@rooknado hang in there. Life is tough. But It's worth living. I promise this too shall pass.just breathe. One minute at a time. one day at a time. God's Love will Be there if you reach for it.
That's true. Over 30+ years ago, I remember my dad saying, "Don't let just anyone put their feet under your table, and you can't break bread with everyone".
@@mikewhocheeseharry5292 My dad mainly meant doe those rules at home and who you invite in. However, I don't mingle with co workers. I would hardly ever go to a dine in restaurant where I can't choose my own seating arrangements. Even my own family/friends know if certain people are there, I'm not coming. Not everyone is invited into my home or the event if I'm hosting. I'm 46 now and so far so good. People know how my dad was when it came to No good people and having the discernment to decipher the good from the bad. He passed that down to us and so far so good.
Ecclesiastes 9 verse 7-8 Go your way, eat your bread with joy and drink your wine with a cheerful heart, for God has already approved and accepted your works. The word is true
Imagination 500 verse 64:Batman symbol You’re a clown controlled by an ancient religion. It wasn’t even intelligently designed to control you and you still fall for it.
This just made me cry. This explains why i find it hard to eat when im extremely depressed or am in a bad mental position, the food makes me feel bad. I found it hard to eat at school because i have social anxiety and my "friend" i would sit with was best friends with some peopel who hated me, they would always talk shit about me so i eventually just quit eating at lunch and breakfast. Ild go home and eat like ive never seen food before, but only if my family wasn't fighting. I would go 1-2 days without eating a whole meal because the food just made me feel bad. Now days I dont eat alone at home, ill wait till my husband gets home at night. My mental is not good when im alone, but i feel happier and more calm around him. That makes sence now. That might be why i find it hard to eat around my family, and at family dinners. My whole life i wonderd what was wrong with me.
This isn't what he's saying. He didn't say you wouldn't want to eat. He is saying your body will not digest the food the same way if you were happy eating instead.
You all are way too desperate for a messiah like person to explain away all your problems. You don't need clever words of wisdom, you need discipline and action. Do something about the state of your life, rather than philosophize about it. Since your all clearly need a guru to tell you this for it to sink in, I am a Filipino practitioner of Buddhism, does that meet your standard of East Asian wisdom you so clearly desire?
It’s not just your state of awareness but also your words and their words are just as much affecting everything around you too, from the plants to the food to the water. That’s why you should always speak good or don’t speak at all? And why you should always surround yourself with good people. Because us as people affect the environment and nature around us just as much as the environment and nature affects us. There’s has been multiple studies done across multiple spectrum of topics and if you’ve studied or read them then you would see how everything connects. When you see something in one thing you see it in everything.
Thats it I will never eat with family again!lol explains my years of stomach issues. The stress of family events along with. Being forced to eat with them, always leaves me feeling sick. 😪
@volumerecords3945 loved ones? I don't have any of those. My family is dysfunctional and doesn't treat me kindly. I'm slowly healing from abuse I endured as a child in therapy. But setting boundaries with them I still struggle with. Obviously, no one can literally force me. The word force was used figuratively. Its their guilt triipping and they're constant nagging, that makes me me feel if I have no other choice but to do what they want. Now, This will be the last reply to you.I will not be replying to you again. So, if you're still confused or completely disagree with me. please note that I don't care enough to reply anymore. If you have anymore questions " please google Scapegoat of narcisstic Family dynamics and read on it. Hope your Christmas is nice 🎄🙏🏻
@@volumerecords3945 How do you know they are loved ones? Is it assumed that because some person had sex with some other person and you share similar dna that you are bound to love these people more than the other 8 billion people on the planet? How do you know it's quality time? What if they have nothing in common and their family has irritating behaviors and energy that add more stress than actual pleasure? By forced it is extremely likely they mean pressured to such an intense degree that it would feel very awkward and uncomfortable to reject the offer. It is not likely their family members held a gun to their head and tied them to a chair. Glad you're so lucky and or naive enough to automatically assume that family events means "quality time with loves ones"
🎯 ❗️ My sentiments PRECISELY! I remember being at a Mexican restaurant, ordering food to go. After I’d paid for the food, I stood nearby and saw the cook putting the wrong ingredients inside. I pointed it out to another cook who told him. The cook preparing my food then angrily thew another tortilla on the grill (to “correct” the order) after HE had gotten the order wrong the first time. I immediately went to the cashier to get my money back and walked out, never to return to THAT restaurant. No thanks, lad! Keep your angry creations.
The body has a natural defence for this, hence why you don't feel like eating when you're down or in a bad mood or dealing with bad news etc.....your appetite tends to go away
tends to .. unless you're dealing with mental illness. then you eat more when you're sad, etc... it just adds to the reason why people who struggle with depression often gain weight. it's a vicious cycle.
That term "food made with love" takes on a whole new meaning with this! My ex always complained when she cooked and you could taste her not wanting to cook in the food!
@mommakiwi7398 i do the cooking and my kids wouldn't have it any other way...matter of fact I've been cooking since yesterday for our Christmas meal! How bout I ask her why doesn't she pay all the bills? Cause I do that too! But I would be an asshole if I did that. The point is she doesn't like or want to do it so she half asses it, I don't have th opinion to half ass in providing cause I don't like it. I still push thru and try my best, as well as picking up where she is slacking. And you still found a way to make it an issue on my part! Women don't even like each other but yall will defend each other's bs. Im a single father now and it isn't as hard as all you women complain about it being. And yall have every program and assistance out there to help yall succeed but yall still complain and require more help! Let me guess all your meals come out of a box as well?
@AC-me6cf 1 Timothy 4:4-5 For everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, 5 for it is made holy by the word of God and prayer.
Nahhh go pick up a Bible @AC-me6cf ppl like u want everything spoon fed to u. That's why yall don't know simple Bible verses about the importance of praying over ur food... AKA SENDING GOOD THOUGHTS 😂🤦🏼♀️ everything is energy folks
It’s absolutely true! I had a colleague invite me to lunch, and I politely declined. Although I had no issue with her, my issue was with others who would’ve been present. I don’t feel comfortable sharing a meal with someone I don’t know well, and I don’t want to compromise my values for convenience. Breaking bread with someone is a personal experience, and I prefer to reserve it for those I trust and share a common bond with. 💯
This is also why saying "grace"/ prayer of gratitude over your food before you eat works. Most people today never have to actually dispatch their meat with their own hands. So that prayer of gratitude for the life given to sustain yours, is lost on people toaday
During separation from my ex, we still ate together, and I realized that my physical and mental health was declining at a very high rate. We shared dinner together, usually something healthy, yet I started to become ill and weak. After I moved out, I started to realize what happened.. I don't eat that healthy like I used to when we were together, yet I am much more healthier.
Thats why I always eat in my home and never outside. I enjoy food in my room all by myself. But if i was outside, i would be self-conscious of people judging me.
my first cat gave birth to 5. only four are alive to this day. but my mother cat looks so young compared to her kitties. we just have this bond and i love her so much
That is why we should pray before eating our food; to bless it and express gratitude. The perfect balance of humble, indebted gratitude which brings in a beautiful vibration.
What? Forgiveness doesn’t make evil righteous! If they are your enemy they are your enemy! A person keeps stealing from you, you may forgive them, but you’re not going to continue letting them in your home.
Makes sense. I don’t eat at work. I don’t eat at fast food restaurants. I eat alone if I eat during the day and I eat dinner at home with my wife. I avoid public meals and now I have an idea why.
I can relate. I chose to spend my birthday in the comfort of my home, mostly alone, with my gf and cat. Later, a few friends are coming over. But not my family, because I choose so.
I believe this 100%, I have always told family and friends to never eat angry or complaint at a restaurant then eat bc the energy space changes to negative and one esta that energy
I think at least one of the reasons why this happens is cortisol - when you have high cortisol (such as when you are stressed out or anxious) and then you eat, your body stores more fat.
It is also important to pray over food for a similar reason. We will be happier and more at peace with God on our side and he will bless our meals if we ask and it is in his will.
Thia makes so much sense. When im down or in a negative environment or have negative company I lose all appetite anyway, maybe thats my bodys way of telling me nope, eat later
No wonder, if I try to eat angry or on the verge of tears, I completely lose my appetite and can't physically eat. Even if I'm hungry and it's my favorite dish.
I’ve been no contact with my parents for over a year. I’m slowly coming out of fight or flight. And I enjoy eating with my husband and kids. I’m not nervous and anxious the whole time.
As a Latina I grew up being told never to eat angry or when sad . Because it'll cause cancer or other illness. I ate very angry ones and my stomach hurt like I got kicked . Never did that again
I remember being out for dinner with two people at one of my favourite restaurants.. I hadn’t eaten cause we’d been painting a house all day.. found out midway through the meal that I had been told a lie and as soon as that feeling of betrayal sunk in I immediately lost my appetite
If someone you love has difficulty eating, remove them from their usual eating environment, it may help. The more pressure someone has to eat, sometimes appetite gets lost.
Ha! I had to eat with my stepfather at the head of the table for 6 years. I always had to sit on his right hand so he could pick on me and I wasn’t allowed to defend myself. I hated it. I hated eating. It hurt my stomach.
O yea this is so true! I always make sure I'm always around nice, happy people. I won't eat my triple quarter pounder, lg fri, and lg coke unless I'm with friends and family. I'm 34 and i haven't been to a doctor in 15yrs and I'm sure I'm healthy 😂😂😂
This is why prayer before meals is also important. Join hands and pray together. Be grateful. Be sincere. I was reading just last year about water changing form when soothing music vs rock music was played. Verified under a microscope, the soothing music made the water droplets look like fine chrystal while the rock music made it look like jagged sludge. Tone is everything and vibes are like music you can't hear, but feel.
And also, that is why you need to learn how to cook delicious meals because when you like your food you eating and you felt joy and happiness while eating it, you will feel feel you've been actually fed and you will feel full and satisfied
Whenever I ate really good and had a big appetite my grandma would say it’s bc I was really happy and comfortable ( I think she was implying I was happy to be around her and she did always make me feel seen, safe and loved)😊
So true! I went to my favorite restaurant and had my favorite meal with a person I was trying to get over a hard time with and I was so annoyed the food was no longer good to me and I didn't want it. I will never do that again, I love a good meal!😊
Because of my upbringing, cant eat around narcissists. I physically cant or wont do it. My sister was a bully, a food bully. I knew shed mistreat me later and i didnt understand why. I couldnt say what i wanted either. Now i have chronic inflamation.
Eat with only one hand if you can.. eat on your own or with your loved/respected ones, don't rush your food... we are connected to eachother and this earth.. consumption is one of the main pathways into your body... From Wretch, with love ❤
I go to a diner every morning before I go to work at 5am, I eat alone, reading usually, it’s one of my very few moments that I can enjoy peace and quiet. But I guess people take being alone and being lonely differently because I had two of the waiters last week come and sit with me and tried to talk to me because “I looked lonely”. I told them I’m fine and I prefer to be alone where they scoffed a little bit and moved on. Pointless story but enjoy your moments of peace.
Prayer and Thanks to GOD before eating serves the same purpose ! Remember its impossible to complain while being Thankiful ! Give Thanks in all things !
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That is why as adults we miss those days where our parents or grandma used to cook for us when we were kids. They made the food with love and good intentions🙏
Yes!
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Yep, love was always the secret ingredient
And why we were healthier when we ate together at the table.
Not like now days can't trust what goes in the food in America
Imagine being in an unhappy marriage. This makes a lot of sense. 😢❤
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And history shows why praying over food was so beneficial
Psychology is a real thing. Hence it is completely irrelevant what someone believes, it matters how said person feels. Some beliefs are harmful to you, others not. I pity those who never had found the freedom to consciously choose what they believe in.
Very true. Don't allow toxic people to stay or be in your life. I pushed toxic people out of my life since 2018 and I've never been healthier.
There’s nothing to leave a bit true about this. Do you believe anything?
Did the same... never been lonelier 😂
Right!!❤❤ I'm like that and am truly joyous instead of stressed
Ever stopped to think maybe you were the toxix peson?
@@daytonasayswhat9333 Are you stupid? To not understand that you literally create chemicals in your body with emotions can be the epitome of idiocy. Take yourself back to school and pay attention this time.
This is so true. I’ve noticed that when I’ve been around people whose energy does not align with my own, I feel a loss of appetite. But when I am around the people I love, I eat so much and feel so happy whilst eating.
It happens both way people also eat a lot when they are depressed and they are usually depressed, because of people
Same same same
Your smoking rocks
@@Flippedwickii not really, stress and anxiousness can affect your appetite there is a nerve connected from the stomach straight to the brain that tells you when you're hungry or not
So so true
I work at Starbucks on my campus. ALL of my friends and some acquaintances never fail to tell me for some reason the drinks I made were the “best” or perfect. It’s because I make it with love baby 🥰🥰💋💋
Lmao ok
I believe it! I get the same thing at Starbucks daily but sometimes at different locations, it always tastes better when the barista is in a happy mood. So strange and interesting. Energy matters.
Sharing a meal with people you cherish is an awesome feeling!
Skipping meals is something all of us should do once in a while. It's a vacation for your gut biome and it humbles you alot.
You also get really good sleep at night. I did intermittent fasting for about two weeks and omg, I had some amazing sleep.
He is right. You need to enjoy your food. Never eat with your enemies.
Tell that to Jesus…
@@ryangraham7012exactly! We should strive to love our enemies, as holding onto hostility only burdens us. By shifting our mindset and choosing to see others with compassion rather than as enemies, we reduce stress and open the door to understanding and peace. Jesus knows best!
@@ryangraham7012Thus says the Lord of hosts: Now, ask the priests concerning the law, saying, "If one carries holy meat in the fold of his garment, and with the edge he touches bread or stew, wine or oil, or any food, will it become holy?” Then the priests answered and said, “No.”
And Haggai said, “If one who is unclean because of a dead body touches any of these, will it be unclean?” So the priests answered and said, "it shall be unclean." Haggai 2:11-13
You are absolutely correct; the only one who never gets contaminated, but rather cleanses everything He touches is Jesus Christ. When He touched lepers ... rather than He becoming defiled they became cleansed. 👍🏼
@@TheEdThinker 🙏
Don’t worry guy just love them that all you need to do jesus solved that problem by saying love your enemies, so which mean it not a problem for us those whoever believes in Jesus Christ but if they don’t want to eat with you , that totally fine may God bless u all God is love , love is not God
This can also be said for how food tastes when it’s prepared by someone in a bad mood. I worked in a deli in a health food store & we had a to-go case with salads, sandwiches & smoothies, among other things that we would prep every day… I swear though, EVERY TIME the deli manager prepped certain foods & wasn’t in a great mood, I’d hear complaints from customers about how this item or that item didn’t taste the same, look the same, have the same consistency, etc & I started to notice a pattern. Putting good energy into your food MATTERS, because some people can taste it & even feel it.
I'm like your deli manager so I don't make for for people who I don't like or who I am irritated or angry with at the time. I also don't work in food any more to avoid this.
Power of love is real.
Viewing others as enemies only creates unnecessary tension and stress. Instead, we should make an effort to approach people with compassion and understanding, even when we disagree with them. Shifting our perspective can lighten our emotional load and open the door to meaningful connections and mutual respect, fostering peace in our lives and relationships.
The love of power is stronger. "When the power of love is stronger than the love of power, the World will know peace" Jimmi Hendrix ❤
Love is the meaning of life. Love is why we are all here.
@@Diseaseisreversible"WE are not enemies, but friends" - President Abraham Lincoln
Very true, the act of breaking bread with someone should be sacred and reserved for your chosen family. Stay Focused!
Dont eat when you are in bad mood... wait until you cool off and in happy state of your mind ... keep training your brain to stay happy... nothing in this life is worth degrading your health. Be happy and enjoy life and love yourself ... God bless yall have a blessed Saturday!!
God bless you bro and keep spreading the good word homie😉
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❗️❗️❗️I agree wholeheartedly!
Much love and respect from San Francisco. ♥️ 🌉 💫
And if you're always in a bad mood, well, you starve 😂
Thanks for sharing your message...🙏🏽 I agree. Your health is your wealth 👍🏽😎
True, prolly why when people are going through heartbreak or grief, they will not touch food. They can bath, still do chores and other stuff but appetite just completely dies down
Its biblical. You always choose carefully who you break bread with. You are coming into agreement with them.
I want to be done with life so badly I have 3 more days left and I pray for faith or Jesus or anything. I need salvation so badly I am hurting more than I ever thought possible. I am not as tough as I thought I was. I don’t know.
@@rooknado hang in there. Life is tough. But It's worth living. I promise this too shall pass.just breathe. One minute at a time. one day at a time. God's Love will Be there if you reach for it.
The Bible says if your enemies are hungry feed them
They Bible says not to yet with non Israelites. Which is the beginning of racism.
@@rooknadoThat fake fictional character won't help you. You need to live just for spite
That's true. Over 30+ years ago, I remember my dad saying, "Don't let just anyone put their feet under your table, and you can't break bread with everyone".
Wow!!^^
That's some closet racist bullshit...smh😂😂😂😂😂😂
What if you’re at a social gathering like workplace or public restaurant and can’t always choose who you’re eating next to?
@@mikewhocheeseharry5292 My dad mainly meant doe those rules at home and who you invite in. However,
I don't mingle with co workers. I would hardly ever go to a dine in restaurant where I can't choose my own seating arrangements. Even my own family/friends know if certain people are there, I'm not coming. Not everyone is invited into my home or the event if I'm hosting. I'm 46 now and so far so good. People know how my dad was when it came to No good people and having the discernment to decipher the good from the bad. He passed that down to us and so far so good.
Ecclesiastes 9 verse 7-8
Go your way, eat your bread with joy and drink your wine with a cheerful heart, for God has already approved and accepted your works. The word is true
Amen!❤🙏
Ahhh this just got Fleetwood Mac stuck in my head. God dangggit.
Imagination 500 verse 64:Batman symbol
You’re a clown controlled by an ancient religion. It wasn’t even intelligently designed to control you and you still fall for it.
Oh man your in for a rude awakening @eryxviper
@@eryxviperso what are you for, what your purpose in this life to begin with? Think about it for a moment.
Exactly the old saying "you can't break bread with everyone" I'm really seeing that now. That's why I usually eat by myself! That's facts🌹🙏🏾💯👁️💪🏾
This just made me cry. This explains why i find it hard to eat when im extremely depressed or am in a bad mental position, the food makes me feel bad. I found it hard to eat at school because i have social anxiety and my "friend" i would sit with was best friends with some peopel who hated me, they would always talk shit about me so i eventually just quit eating at lunch and breakfast. Ild go home and eat like ive never seen food before, but only if my family wasn't fighting. I would go 1-2 days without eating a whole meal because the food just made me feel bad.
Now days I dont eat alone at home, ill wait till my husband gets home at night. My mental is not good when im alone, but i feel happier and more calm around him. That makes sence now. That might be why i find it hard to eat around my family, and at family dinners. My whole life i wonderd what was wrong with me.
Wow this is big...am sorry 😢. But now you understand ❤
This isn't what he's saying. He didn't say you wouldn't want to eat. He is saying your body will not digest the food the same way if you were happy eating instead.
Wow me too I was wondering am I the only one who got triggered to cry
God you're weak willed. Believing a guy who's considered a scientific quack? Really?
You all are way too desperate for a messiah like person to explain away all your problems. You don't need clever words of wisdom, you need discipline and action. Do something about the state of your life, rather than philosophize about it.
Since your all clearly need a guru to tell you this for it to sink in, I am a Filipino practitioner of Buddhism, does that meet your standard of East Asian wisdom you so clearly desire?
It’s not just your state of awareness but also your words and their words are just as much affecting everything around you too, from the plants to the food to the water. That’s why you should always speak good or don’t speak at all? And why you should always surround yourself with good people. Because us as people affect the environment and nature around us just as much as the environment and nature affects us. There’s has been multiple studies done across multiple spectrum of topics and if you’ve studied or read them then you would see how everything connects. When you see something in one thing you see it in everything.
Thats why i never eat in break rooms during lunch or breakfast
Yes , that is so messed up
Mind over matter, don’t let others energy and aura affect your own. This can all be seen from an inverse perspective
@@Jcil07-777amen brother
@@Jcil07-777
Your soul absolutely absorbs your surroundings, without your imaginary permission.
Maybe you think you can become a robot .
You can could just leave
Thats it I will never eat with family again!lol explains my years of stomach issues. The stress of family events along with. Being forced to eat with them, always leaves me feeling sick. 😪
Why were you being “forced” to eat. Why were you not actually looking forward to spending quality time with your loved ones?
@volumerecords3945 loved ones? I don't have any of those.
My family is dysfunctional and doesn't treat me kindly. I'm slowly healing from abuse I endured as a child in therapy. But setting boundaries with them I still struggle with. Obviously, no one can literally force me. The word force was used figuratively. Its their guilt triipping and they're constant nagging, that makes me me feel if I have no other choice but to do what they want.
Now,
This will be the last reply to you.I will not be replying to you again. So, if you're still confused or completely disagree with me. please note that I don't care enough to reply anymore. If you have anymore questions " please google Scapegoat of narcisstic Family dynamics and read on it. Hope your Christmas is nice 🎄🙏🏻
@@volumerecords3945 How do you know they are loved ones?
Is it assumed that because some person had sex with some other person and you share similar dna that you are bound to love these people more than the other 8 billion people on the planet?
How do you know it's quality time? What if they have nothing in common and their family has irritating behaviors and energy that add more stress than actual pleasure?
By forced it is extremely likely they mean pressured to such an intense degree that it would feel very awkward and uncomfortable to reject the offer.
It is not likely their family members held a gun to their head and tied them to a chair.
Glad you're so lucky and or naive enough to automatically assume that family events means "quality time with loves ones"
@@volumerecords3945 probably because they're toxic
This is true also dont eat from people who don't like you / are whose energy is negative it can go into your food
Facts!! Very true
Too late.....I took the bait 😭
🎯 ❗️ My sentiments PRECISELY!
I remember being at a Mexican restaurant, ordering food to go. After I’d paid for the food, I stood nearby and saw the cook putting the wrong ingredients inside. I pointed it out to another cook who told him. The cook preparing my food then angrily thew another tortilla on the grill (to “correct” the order) after HE had gotten the order wrong the first time. I immediately went to the cashier to get my money back and walked out, never to return to THAT restaurant. No thanks, lad! Keep your angry creations.
Think of what happens to children in an abusive home. They sit at a table, with the people who do not like them. but they must eat to stay alive.
An abused child wont stop loving its abuser it will stop loving itself
The body has a natural defence for this, hence why you don't feel like eating when you're down or in a bad mood or dealing with bad news etc.....your appetite tends to go away
tends to .. unless you're dealing with mental illness. then you eat more when you're sad, etc...
it just adds to the reason why people who struggle with depression often gain weight. it's a vicious cycle.
@ I'd say people suffering depression probably lose weight as well
But I understand where you're coming from
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That term "food made with love" takes on a whole new meaning with this! My ex always complained when she cooked and you could taste her not wanting to cook in the food!
This is literally common sense or should be; everything is energy
So then why weren't you cooking?
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@@Rosemary46840 "everything is energy" go play with your rocks 😂
@mommakiwi7398 i do the cooking and my kids wouldn't have it any other way...matter of fact I've been cooking since yesterday for our Christmas meal! How bout I ask her why doesn't she pay all the bills? Cause I do that too! But I would be an asshole if I did that. The point is she doesn't like or want to do it so she half asses it, I don't have th opinion to half ass in providing cause I don't like it. I still push thru and try my best, as well as picking up where she is slacking. And you still found a way to make it an issue on my part! Women don't even like each other but yall will defend each other's bs. Im a single father now and it isn't as hard as all you women complain about it being. And yall have every program and assistance out there to help yall succeed but yall still complain and require more help! Let me guess all your meals come out of a box as well?
I think he just showed proof on why we are told in the Bible to bless your food and speak over it
Can you quote the verse please?
@AC-me6cf
1 Timothy 4:4-5
For everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, 5 for it is made holy by the word of God and prayer.
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Nahhh go pick up a Bible @AC-me6cf ppl like u want everything spoon fed to u. That's why yall don't know simple Bible verses about the importance of praying over ur food... AKA SENDING GOOD THOUGHTS 😂🤦🏼♀️ everything is energy folks
I think you talk shit.
It’s absolutely true! I had a colleague invite me to lunch, and I politely declined. Although I had no issue with her, my issue was with others who would’ve been present. I don’t feel comfortable sharing a meal with someone I don’t know well, and I don’t want to compromise my values for convenience. Breaking bread with someone is a personal experience, and I prefer to reserve it for those I trust and share a common bond with. 💯
I don't eat with people I don't like. Learned that from my grandmere. ❤🙌🏿❤🙏🏿😇
I was today years old when I learned this however I don't even be around people I don't like
I enjoy speaking to my cat, when/as she eats, brings us together.
The fountain of youth is childlike wonder the purity of your heart and your ability to believe in miracles
Always PRAY 🤲🏾🙏🏾 when you starting ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
praying before you eat puts your brain in that healthy state of mind ❤
HE ❤ Turns everything around for my Good..Faithful One ❤
Yeah, I have a big issue with stress eating. Almost always, I end up bloating and not feeling well
Be on good terms with those you eat with. It’s called forgiveness.
That’s why they don’t grocery shop when you are hungry because you will always grab the wrong stuff
And this is why one should make a prayer before and after a meal. Eat it in the name of God.
Great! Now I have to find someone to pet me while I eat. 😂
I can do that! 😊😄 love from Germany! ❤
Not me😂
😂😂😂😂❤ I love this comment !!!!
Another important thing is to never eat with tv or phones,content we are watching influences our hormones and digestion , the same way
This is also why saying "grace"/ prayer of gratitude over your food before you eat works.
Most people today never have to actually dispatch their meat with their own hands. So that prayer of gratitude for the life given to sustain yours, is lost on people toaday
Hence why I try to watch happy videos on my phone when dining alone after a bad day.
This explains why I avoid work Christmas dinners. It’s the company I avoid because I know they’re all insincere!
Better is a dinner of vegetables and herbs where love is present Than a fattened ox served with hatred". Proverbs 15:17
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I learn almost every culture i know, old generation bless the food before eat and thank god to give them food. It actually produce happy hormones.
The way God made beings is just amazing
During separation from my ex, we still ate together, and I realized that my physical and mental health was declining at a very high rate. We shared dinner together, usually something healthy, yet I started to become ill and weak. After I moved out, I started to realize what happened.. I don't eat that healthy like I used to when we were together, yet I am much more healthier.
Thank God I’m self employed and I’m antisocial and don’t go to family Christmas parties also pray for my food because is my energy ❤❤❤ Jesus is king
This is why Mums food and Nannas food was always the best
Eating with an enemy will bless them. Bless those who curse you. Maybe this attitude is what should be to walk in peace with all men.
Amen
Amen
"If you're not feeling good, skip the meal."
Love that. It puts it back in the individual eater's hands & takes focus away from games people play. ;)
Thats why I always eat in my home and never outside. I enjoy food in my room all by myself. But if i was outside, i would be self-conscious of people judging me.
Huh?😅
Are you overweight?
This is also why we pray
my first cat gave birth to 5. only four are alive to this day.
but my mother cat looks so young compared to her kitties.
we just have this bond and i love her so much
Always pray and give thanks, the lord knows. That Will put you in the right state. Jesus is Lord.
Amen sweet sweet amen
Great advice. Now I will stop eating at work 😄
That is why we should pray before eating our food; to bless it and express gratitude. The perfect
balance of humble, indebted
gratitude which brings in a beautiful vibration.
Never eat with someone who brags about feeding you as well.
Forgive them and you won’t have enemies.
There are evil things that can’t be forgiven.
You won't be their enemy but they can still be yours and have bad intentions for you even if you have forgiven them. It's the intentions.
You can forgive them but they're still enemies. 🙏🏻
Tell that to the cartel😂
What? Forgiveness doesn’t make evil righteous! If they are your enemy they are your enemy! A person keeps stealing from you, you may forgive them, but you’re not going to continue letting them in your home.
Makes sense. I don’t eat at work. I don’t eat at fast food restaurants. I eat alone if I eat during the day and I eat dinner at home with my wife. I avoid public meals and now I have an idea why.
I totally understand him. I eat alone because my family is a pack of hyenas
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@No-way-oneway lol
I can relate. I chose to spend my birthday in the comfort of my home, mostly alone, with my gf and cat. Later, a few friends are coming over. But not my family, because I choose so.
Omg 😂😂😂
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I believe this 100%, I have always told family and friends to never eat angry or complaint at a restaurant then eat bc the energy space changes to negative and one esta that energy
One of the reasons families..friends..loved ones, eat dinner at the table ❤praise Jesus
Sadly some don't because sometimes family can be toxic
I think at least one of the reasons why this happens is cortisol - when you have high cortisol (such as when you are stressed out or anxious) and then you eat, your body stores more fat.
I like how everybody here is a qualified doctor all of a sudden. It's so true bro it's so true
It is also important to pray over food for a similar reason. We will be happier and more at peace with God on our side and he will bless our meals if we ask and it is in his will.
Psalms 23:5 “He prepares a table before me in the presence of my enemies.”
In a nutshell when He blesses you your enemies will be front and center to see it. This verse is not about eating a meal with your enemies
Im asian and i always remember when we eat with family and parent we don't discuss problems but we talk after aboit it.
True. Emotions affect digestion.
Thia makes so much sense. When im down or in a negative environment or have negative company I lose all appetite anyway, maybe thats my bodys way of telling me nope, eat later
No wonder, if I try to eat angry or on the verge of tears, I completely lose my appetite and can't physically eat. Even if I'm hungry and it's my favorite dish.
Say your Grace and this is where you are not concerned about folks opinions much. GOD LOVES YOU.❤
I’ve been no contact with my parents for over a year. I’m slowly coming out of fight or flight. And I enjoy eating with my husband and kids. I’m not nervous and anxious the whole time.
Never go back to them and keep your children from them at all costs.
As a Latina I grew up being told never to eat angry or when sad . Because it'll cause cancer or other illness. I ate very angry ones and my stomach hurt like I got kicked . Never did that again
This is why I bless my food. I believe prayer is very important for what we put into our body mind and soul.
What an incredibly important. One of the best videos with accidentally found
I think it just shows we’d all be healthier if we were treated and treated each other kindly
I remember being out for dinner with two people at one of my favourite restaurants.. I hadn’t eaten cause we’d been painting a house all day.. found out midway through the meal that I had been told a lie and as soon as that feeling of betrayal sunk in I immediately lost my appetite
That’s why we bless our food too. We bless the food that God has given us as it turns into energy within us.
If someone you love has difficulty eating, remove them from their usual eating environment, it may help. The more pressure someone has to eat, sometimes appetite gets lost.
Ha! I had to eat with my stepfather at the head of the table for 6 years. I always had to sit on his right hand so he could pick on me and I wasn’t allowed to defend myself. I hated it. I hated eating. It hurt my stomach.
Brilliant MashaAllah
O yea this is so true! I always make sure I'm always around nice, happy people. I won't eat my triple quarter pounder, lg fri, and lg coke unless I'm with friends and family. I'm 34 and i haven't been to a doctor in 15yrs and I'm sure I'm healthy 😂😂😂
Soul and body is very connected
Never drink alcohol with people you dont like either. 😂 Doesnt end well....
Haha funny❤
I have now understood why I don't eat much even if I'm hungry. I pray I'd be heal ❤
This is why prayer before meals is also important. Join hands and pray together. Be grateful. Be sincere. I was reading just last year about water changing form when soothing music vs rock music was played. Verified under a microscope, the soothing music made the water droplets look like fine chrystal while the rock music made it look like jagged sludge. Tone is everything and vibes are like music you can't hear, but feel.
And also, that is why you need to learn how to cook delicious meals because when you like your food you eating and you felt joy and happiness while eating it, you will feel feel you've been actually fed and you will feel full and satisfied
Whenever I ate really good and had a big appetite my grandma would say it’s bc I was really happy and comfortable ( I think she was implying I was happy to be around her and she did always make me feel seen, safe and loved)😊
Love this man Deepak. His wisdom is the best ❤
So true! I went to my favorite restaurant and had my favorite meal with a person I was trying to get over a hard time with and I was so annoyed the food was no longer good to me and I didn't want it. I will never do that again, I love a good meal!😊
That's so true. I couldn't agree more.
Cooking with Love is a real thing ❤
Because of my upbringing, cant eat around narcissists. I physically cant or wont do it. My sister was a bully, a food bully. I knew shed mistreat me later and i didnt understand why. I couldnt say what i wanted either. Now i have chronic inflamation.
This is what it does to cancer patients.. they need happiness 😊 to heal.....
Eat with only one hand if you can.. eat on your own or with your loved/respected ones, don't rush your food... we are connected to eachother and this earth.. consumption is one of the main pathways into your body...
From Wretch, with love ❤
I go to a diner every morning before I go to work at 5am, I eat alone, reading usually, it’s one of my very few moments that I can enjoy peace and quiet. But I guess people take being alone and being lonely differently because I had two of the waiters last week come and sit with me and tried to talk to me because “I looked lonely”. I told them I’m fine and I prefer to be alone where they scoffed a little bit and moved on. Pointless story but enjoy your moments of peace.
Prayer and Thanks to GOD before eating serves the same purpose !
Remember its impossible to complain while being Thankiful ! Give Thanks in all things !
This is pure golden information. I hope more eyes can see
I never eat when I'm pissed, and always treat myself when it's going good! Spend that check and get it right back!