Condolences buddy. That’s what you said to me after my father passed during your live stream after your Michael Todd match. Meant so much to me, and hopefully returning it means something to you. Keep your head up Champ. 🙏
Being a good father is the hardest thing a man will ever do in their life. Being a horrible father that’s probably the easiest thing a man could ever do in his life
Number one goal should be faith in Jesus Christ. Your eternity secured forever and then the earthly things, your family, friends, neighbours. God bless
It's okay Devon, your videos don't need to be anything in particular. They don't need to be jovial. I think being true to yourself and giving us that is one of the greatest things you can give.
That’s why I love his videos. There are already millions of people on TH-cam who put out videos that have so much crazy editing involved in it. Devon is just himself. Love it
Getting to know Devon Larratt on the table and behind the scenes has always been a joy to watch. A killer mentality with a heart of lion. Then to see the human side with problems we all face. Can't say enough about this man. I'm trying to figure out what inspires us more. His arm wrestling or his way of life. We're not all perfect, but this man has made the most out of what he's got and that to me is the way it should be. Make the most out of what is given to you. That's the message I get from Devon Larratt and it's truly inspiring.
To hear someone thousands of miles away in a different land, seas apart, talk about something so similar to what you went through: my best to you that you may never fail your children’s faith in you and may we learn something from our fathers, not in just how to emulate them but also how to avoid their destinies.
Sorry to hear that buddy. Losing a parent is tough but that’s the way it is supposed to go I don’t even want to imagine losing my wife. Really sorry once again
I can totally relate. The day my dad passed away was just another day in my eyes. My dad had all the tools talent and humor to be a great father, but his selfish addictions for gambling and drinking wrecked it all. When he left when I was about 5 years old I think I saw him about once a year after that and it was random. But at least on the day he showed up that one time a year he was sober. When I got the news I think I shed one tear, it wasn't because that I will miss him, it was because he missed out on what kind of father he could have been. I was on my third kid by the time he passed so I knew what it took and how much work it takes and how tiring it can be doing the job of a dad. Thanks for sharing this video. Videos like this always help someone else out there not feel so alone.
It takes a lot of guts to be as candid as this. And you are right with respect to holding onto the images that are happy. I, likewise, am sorry for your loss in the past. Your Present is mesmerising, and the Future is bright for the efforts of what you have done.
Man, you're a beaming ray of positivity. This is an example, many people would have fell into a very dark hole after hearing something like that, but youre still optimistic. You remain to be such an inspiration. P.S. Cant wait to see you and John pull again💪
Similar story to me, my dad went to prison not talked to him since. Being fatherless was tough and now I have kids I would do anything for and I will never leave them. LOVE YOU DEVON seriously takes a man to talk about this 👍💪❤️
A lot of my family thought my brothers and I would go to jail when we got older because of how we were raised. Now that I have children I’m just trying to be opposite of what I was raised like. I love being a dad and a good one at that.So I definitely get what you’re saying with that. I’m sure you know being a good parent is very hard for being a bad parent that’s very easy.
@@youtubeconnollyfamily I was a quite disruptive growing up too, pretty angry as well but kids definitely change you for better if you’re a caring person 👍😊
Love you brother God bless you and your family Me and my family will keep you in our prayers.After seeing the heart and courage you showed fighting Thor my mom just became a big fan of yours 👊🏼
Thanks for sharing, Devon. I am a young father of a bunch of boys, trying to figure this thing out. I really just want to succeed in this role and I can feel the pressure I put on myself increase day by day - the consequences are enormous if I were to fail... I think the balance of discipline and love is a particular difficult aspect. I know I am doing my best, though. May you find peace in your loss.
Very true message. We learn something from everyone. My dad has a lot of great qualities but also a lot of not so great qualities. So I've learned what qualities makes people feel good and I incorporate them in my life, and I try to not Incorporate the bad qualities so I dont make people feel the way I felt when he was showing them. Great message!
lost my Dad when i was 8. wasn't the greatest but nor the best Dad but will was Dad. but when it comes down to it its my feet walking this path. one step in front of the other. always moving forward
Despite everything, my condolences Devon. I hope he's finally at peace together with your brother Shannon. This was a beautiful and impactful speech so thank you. We all love you! ❤
I never spoke to anybody after my father died, a year ago, not even with my mom. Same situation here he was dead long ago for me, after his death I didn't know how to feel apart from mad and indifferent, I really like what you said about "stick with the good part". Thanks for sharing Devon, it really means a lot to hear it from you and I think it will help me to finally close that chapter in my life :).
Sorry for your loss. My dad was abusive to my mother and I and I have not talked to him in about twenty years or longer. I gave him the chance to fix things but he choose his own selfishness and flat out denied the abuse. He has major alcohol problems and was never a role model for me. Thanks for the video and reminder to be the best version of myself for my son. I am trying. I just read something this morning talking about how we become the person we needed to save us from our bad times. I find truth in that for myself.
Very sorry for your loss Devon, my condolences. You've said some very valuable things there. Cherish the time you have with your kids/parents and try to be the best child/parent you can be. Because one day it will all be gone. Family is the most important thing in life and it is our all's task to make the best out of it. Take care of each other and don't take anything for granted.
The point on improving yourself as a parent is very true. Since being a dad it's given me more motivation to improve my mind more than anything to help my lad as he grows. I wanna be a good example if I can. Not always possible as I like my sweets and chocolate lol I'm working on that.
Loved the ending of the video. Take whatever good there is and run with it. Everyone has good within them. Try not to repeat the bad parts. The best examples are those that show you how not to be. So true...
Condolences. When my dad died in 1997 we had been fighting 2 days before he died. I never got to work it out either and that fight was my last interaction with him alive. My dad kept a roof over our heads and kept us fed, but he had severe PTSD issues from time in Korea and Vietnam. My sister and I often received whippings with thick leather belts, whipping that today would be considered abuse. I often times had bruises and buckle marks as a kid in Elementary school.. When myn sister ran away from home at age 15, the focus turned onto me. I vowed to never raise my hands in anger when my daughter was born. The way I see it, you suffered through things so your kids would not have to. It may sound cliche, but your perspective changed and you will not make those mistakes and your kids will never be haunted by those memories.
So true Devon. My dad has always been my hero. Despite the fact he was tuff on me my whole life and we didn’t always see eye to eye. I worked for him for 16 years and it was tuff. Now we live in different states and we are seeing each other differently and are going as father and son. And I take all the negatives and try to turn them into positives like you said. When he is gone I don’t want regrets. Time heals most wounds. Thanks for sharing your experience with us. Most of us understand more than you know brother. And as was stated sorry for your loss 😔
So sorry to hear that. Losing parents is tough but honestly that’s the order it is supposed to go. Losing your significant other that’s just heartbreaking. So sorry
Negative or not, you spoke from the heart and you spoke truth. That's why I respect you and follow you. Life is life, and it won't do any of us any good if we hide from the painful aspects of it.
Thanks mate..👍👍 And condolences, I love your message here Devon and by looks of the man/husband and father you've become... I'd say you've taken that exact advice. Stay strong...💪
Condolences brother. My father passed away in 2017 and I haven't shed a tear. I know what it's like to have that kind of loss, both as his child, and after he was gone. You've found the courage and strength to be your own man and do better for your children, that's what matters.
I had lost my father in 2019 ... we never saw eye to eye ... we usaully argued about almost everything *but I loved him and still love him* ... I'm sure he knew that ... I visit his grave every week ... Rest in peace Dad ur little Boi
Your transparency for others isn't bluntness but wisdom that you as a person have proved you can take anything and make it the best. God bless you Devon.
Brother GOD blessed you with a wonderful family of your own. It shows in the hours of TH-cam footage I’ve watched in the last year. Any family would be blessed to have a husband and father like I think you are. You have a beautiful family. That’s you and your wife’s greatest accomplishment. SOUTH CAROLINA loves YA’LL .Sorry for your Loss.
The love that you give is already one of the most beautiful ways to be a good role model for everyone around you. Not only for your kids... Thank you, Mister Larratt! And all the best..
Appreciate your words of wisdom Devon. Everyone has the capacity to be good and better themselves, but they must first choose to be better. It's a life long struggle.
So deeply sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing a personal moment. It makes you realize how fleeting time is. In life, we have to come to expect dissapointment. Never sweat the small stuff. In your heart he is still your hero, you made this video to forgive him and look past what disappointed you. Again, thank you for sharing Devon. God Bless you and your family.
My condolences. You have become a very inspiring person, and yes, a role model even for me. I am 22 and I strive to attain a similar mindset to yours: To be the man who loves to win more than he hates losing - not the other way around
You are the great Dad that your father wasn't able to be. All the videos throughout the years show that your kids know you love them and that they are worthy of love. What happened with your father likely showed you exactly how to be the great father you are. They will never know the pain you're feeling right now because you will always be there for them, no matter what it takes.
Wow. I'm sorry you had to experience this, Devon. My wife came from an abusive and broken family. She WORKS to break that cycle for her kids, and it's been the hardest thing she's ever done. It takes an incredible amount of strength to rise above her past, and *every single day* she puts in the work. Our kids need to see us trying to do our best, even when we fail. Take care.
My heart goes out to you brother. Im sure he was proud knowing he had a son who was an honorable warrior, good father/friend and who made the world a better place. Your words of wisdom have definitely made me a better person and i credit you for getting me through many a rough time with your humor and inspiring actions on and off the table 💪🤝
Sorry for your loss, your an inspiration to so many, your real and you put it like it is. Thanks for that sir, look forward to watching your next preparation and training for future matches
Troooth…. And it’s one rarely heard but as someone who’s lived through that particular parental failure know that it doesn’t have to be that’s way for your future!!👍🏻
I can totally relate with you, Devon. There are a lot of terrible fathers out there, and to a lot of kids, it is their first source of hardship and trauma. And being in that situation either creates a weak child or a strong man. Now I know why you're so strong, why you're such a massive inspiration on how to become a good man. We may not be thankful to the person who caused the suffering, but we have to be thankful for being in that situation, from which we've found growth and strength, and learned how to be a better person to be the best role model for our kids. 🙌
how to connect to someone, all while trying to grow up and be better person, can get ugly and complicated. when you have enough energy, you can apply patience, amd sometimes, shit hits the fan. thank you devon for sharing
Wonderful, hold on the goods in people. I do the same after my father passed away a half year ago. Devon-men I wish you all the best for the upcoming time. Sorry for your loss.
Sorry you and your father weren't on good terms, that can definitely make a death more difficult. Sorry for loss. My mother died from cancer in 1996 when I was 10 years old. Glad you shared this message to the world
Prayers sent sorry for your loss and struggle but by rising above it , as you are and have may God continue to bless you and family sorry you were put in that situation . On a positive note you are a great father and role model for your children.
Hey buddy. Really sorry to hear. My Dad passed in March. We hadn’t spoke for 6 years. No matter the situation. It’s never easy. You’re an inspiration for many people.
Your story reminded me of when i met my paternal grandfather as a kid. I asked my dad what i should call him.. grandpa, grandad, abuelo... He simply said 'i don't care.' similar situation to what you said in your story Devon.. thanks as always for sharing. Keep your head up!
Thank you for your honesty. My relationship to my father was and is complicated but in some ways as an alcoholic we were very aware of his failures. I came to appreciate the areas that did do well by us and realized that he was doing the best he knew. I hope in my failures my children will see the love I have for them. I do hope to continue to better myself. All the best to you and yours.
So sorry man. I have gone through similar situations with my dad but it has really kept me focused on my own family and how to be the best dad/man I can. Thanks for being so open and hope you heal fast. My condolences again.
I was the same way with my mother. But when she passed it hit me harder than I thought. I was totally cut off from her in mind and body. But the reality of her actually dying was pretty hard. Sorry to hear Devon. Thanks for all you share.
Sorry to hear that man, even if your dad wasn't everything you wanted him to be, I know that the example you set as a father and husband is inspirational to many. Various videos like these have made me respect you for more than just your strength, but also for your character. God bless you guys ❤️
i'm right there with you. Feel like we are Brothers. Used to have a strong arm, tendonitis got my arm down, father keeps my emotions down. Stay Strong bro.. U Got This!
I haven't spoken with my dad in almost 20 years. I don't even know if we would recognize each other anymore. I do hope I see him again before he's gone for good.
Make it happen. It wont happen on its own, and you dont want the regret when he's gone. Even if you meet and feel nothing, at least you'll know you made the effort.
Stay strong brother! I know the feeling and depression, I'm 46 and lost my mom 2 years ago, single father of 3 awesome kids, cancer survivor as well, after my kids mother left it seems like I got grey hair over night. Stay positive my friend
You spoke to me here on a personal level. This was hard. The people you surround yourself with are an impressive example of who you are and what you can make life into. Despite the clichés life is what you make out of it, otherwise it will make something out of you. No extra pressure but I feel like you definitely fill that "advice giver" roll for me that a father-figure normally would. It's your honesty and deep thinking on living that make you an invaluable and approachable resource on life. Thanks Devon
I'm so sorry for your loss, Devon. I lost my mom to cancer a couple of months back, and you definitely helped inspiring me to keep myself healthy and stay strong through the pain. May you find comfort to endure this pain, and know this: we're here for you, champ. Stay strong, Devon. 😔
Sorry to hear Devon. No matter his faults, he and you are apart of a long, long, long line of successful father's that helped carry in your future generations. Respect. Wish all the best to you and your family
You are not alone. On the bright side a rough childhood can be like a crucible, adulthood and its challenges are easier to overcome if you can gain stability, can take a while to get strong enough to handle the baggage. Odds are good the abusers were also abused and just couldnt overcome or control themselves, be glad you can and hopefully generations beyond you will never know the terror that may have formed you.
Sorry for your loss man, sucks when someone you love passes away. I personally never knew my father so I can’t exactly understand the feelings you’re having, but it’s motivated me to never abandon my children and help them grew into respectful and responsible human beings.
Didn't talk to my mom for the last 12 years plus, couldn't continue to be the parent to someone who should have been filling that role for me, due to a host of issues (manic depressive with psychotic tendencies). Anyhoo, I felt a fair amount of shame and regret that when she passed, it was so unresolved, so I can whole heartedly relate to the place you find yourself now. I do what you suggested: remember the best parts of her, and honor her by choosing to give those memories my energy. Sorry for the loss, and more sorry for the lack of closure you may likely feel. You are, however, massive, so that's a comfort...😂
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Condolences buddy. That’s what you said to me after my father passed during your live stream after your Michael Todd match. Meant so much to me, and hopefully returning it means something to you. Keep your head up Champ. 🙏
Being a good father is my number one goal in life, everything else can and will follow. Sry for your loss.
Being a good father is the hardest thing a man will ever do in their life. Being a horrible father that’s probably the easiest thing a man could ever do in his life
@@youtubeconnollyfamily Well said.
Number one goal should be faith in Jesus Christ. Your eternity secured forever and then the earthly things, your family, friends, neighbours. God bless
@@vladbogdanov5916 lmao
@@maidenrulz73 hahah hah 🙄
It's okay Devon, your videos don't need to be anything in particular. They don't need to be jovial. I think being true to yourself and giving us that is one of the greatest things you can give.
That’s why I love his videos. There are already millions of people on TH-cam who put out videos that have so much crazy editing involved in it. Devon is just himself. Love it
Getting to know Devon Larratt on the table and behind the scenes has always been a joy to watch. A killer mentality with a heart of lion. Then to see the human side with problems we all face. Can't say enough about this man. I'm trying to figure out what inspires us more. His arm wrestling or his way of life. We're not all perfect, but this man has made the most out of what he's got and that to me is the way it should be. Make the most out of what is given to you. That's the message I get from Devon Larratt and it's truly inspiring.
nailed it man, that's exactly what I'd have written
Well said brother
Thank you sensei Larrat...sorry for your lost.
To hear someone thousands of miles away in a different land, seas apart, talk about something so similar to what you went through: my best to you that you may never fail your children’s faith in you and may we learn something from our fathers, not in just how to emulate them but also how to avoid their destinies.
The positive outcome is that your kids now have one of the best father's in the world. Because It made you even a better person.
I'm so sorry for your loss Devon. I lost my wife back in July. And today would've been our 28th anniversary. You're an inspiration. Keep pulling
condolences brother
Sorry to hear that buddy. Losing a parent is tough but that’s the way it is supposed to go I don’t even want to imagine losing my wife. Really sorry once again
Sorry for your loss
Damn it. I'm truly sorry for your loss. Keep living, I'm sure that's what any partner would want from their other half. I hope you find some peace. ❤
sorry bro must not be easy
We love you Devon. Sorry for your loss of your father
I will not abandon you to the grave! thx!
I can totally relate. The day my dad passed away was just another day in my eyes. My dad had all the tools talent and humor to be a great father, but his selfish addictions for gambling and drinking wrecked it all. When he left when I was about 5 years old I think I saw him about once a year after that and it was random. But at least on the day he showed up that one time a year he was sober. When I got the news I think I shed one tear, it wasn't because that I will miss him, it was because he missed out on what kind of father he could have been. I was on my third kid by the time he passed so I knew what it took and how much work it takes and how tiring it can be doing the job of a dad. Thanks for sharing this video. Videos like this always help someone else out there not feel so alone.
I'm sorry for your loss and I don't mean his death. The one that you endured 15-20 years ago. But I pray that may his soul rest in peace.
It takes a lot of guts to be as candid as this. And you are right with respect to holding onto the images that are happy. I, likewise, am sorry for your loss in the past. Your Present is mesmerising, and the Future is bright for the efforts of what you have done.
Thanks Devon. Sending prayer.
Devin you have a beautiful mind, heart and soul. Thank you for everything you share with us mortal Canadians. We need you....
Blessings and love, and thank you so much for sharing.
Man, you're a beaming ray of positivity. This is an example, many people would have fell into a very dark hole after hearing something like that, but youre still optimistic. You remain to be such an inspiration. P.S. Cant wait to see you and John pull again💪
Far too many...as Hemingway said "the world breaks everyone, and afterwards many are strong at the broken places". Thanks for sharing and god bless
Stay strong bro, keep being an amazing father to your kids. Your messages help a lot of people, this reminds me to strive to be the best dad I can be.
You're doing a great job on showing your kids what a role model is and what someone can achieve with the right attitude, focus, desire, and hard work.
Similar story to me, my dad went to prison not talked to him since. Being fatherless was tough and now I have kids I would do anything for and I will never leave them. LOVE YOU DEVON seriously takes a man to talk about this 👍💪❤️
A lot of my family thought my brothers and I would go to jail when we got older because of how we were raised. Now that I have children I’m just trying to be opposite of what I was raised like. I love being a dad and a good one at that.So I definitely get what you’re saying with that. I’m sure you know being a good parent is very hard for being a bad parent that’s very easy.
@@youtubeconnollyfamily I was a quite disruptive growing up too, pretty angry as well but kids definitely change you for better if you’re a caring person 👍😊
Love you brother God bless you and your family Me and my family will keep you in our prayers.After seeing the heart and courage you showed fighting Thor my mom just became a big fan of yours 👊🏼
Thanks for sharing, Devon. I am a young father of a bunch of boys, trying to figure this thing out. I really just want to succeed in this role and I can feel the pressure I put on myself increase day by day - the consequences are enormous if I were to fail... I think the balance of discipline and love is a particular difficult aspect. I know I am doing my best, though. May you find peace in your loss.
Thanks for sharing Devon. God bless you.
Condolences. And thank you for your honest reflection. Forgiving is a life saver and the strongest force towards peace coming from a dark place...
Thank you Devon, my condolences. Very thoughtful words and something I need to continue to do for my boys. Thanks again. All the way from NZ
Very true message. We learn something from everyone. My dad has a lot of great qualities but also a lot of not so great qualities. So I've learned what qualities makes people feel good and I incorporate them in my life, and I try to not Incorporate the bad qualities so I dont make people feel the way I felt when he was showing them. Great message!
lost my Dad when i was 8. wasn't the greatest but nor the best Dad but will was Dad. but when it comes down to it its my feet walking this path. one step in front of the other. always moving forward
Despite everything, my condolences Devon. I hope he's finally at peace together with your brother Shannon. This was a beautiful and impactful speech so thank you. We all love you! ❤
I never spoke to anybody after my father died, a year ago, not even with my mom. Same situation here he was dead long ago for me, after his death I didn't know how to feel apart from mad and indifferent, I really like what you said about "stick with the good part". Thanks for sharing Devon, it really means a lot to hear it from you and I think it will help me to finally close that chapter in my life :).
Sorry for your loss. My dad was abusive to my mother and I and I have not talked to him in about twenty years or longer. I gave him the chance to fix things but he choose his own selfishness and flat out denied the abuse. He has major alcohol problems and was never a role model for me. Thanks for the video and reminder to be the best version of myself for my son. I am trying. I just read something this morning talking about how we become the person we needed to save us from our bad times. I find truth in that for myself.
Thank you for sharing as always.
MY CONDOLENCES, THX FOR THE ADVICE.
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Very sorry for your loss Devon, my condolences. You've said some very valuable things there. Cherish the time you have with your kids/parents and try to be the best child/parent you can be. Because one day it will all be gone. Family is the most important thing in life and it is our all's task to make the best out of it. Take care of each other and don't take anything for granted.
Parents should ALWAYS be the one to make the effort. If you bring someone into this world youve already made it your responsibility. ✌💙
Be well Devon. I wish you and your family great health to come and for years ahead. Thank you for sharing your pearls of wisdom!
The point on improving yourself as a parent is very true. Since being a dad it's given me more motivation to improve my mind more than anything to help my lad as he grows. I wanna be a good example if I can. Not always possible as I like my sweets and chocolate lol I'm working on that.
Loved the ending of the video. Take whatever good there is and run with it. Everyone has good within them. Try not to repeat the bad parts. The best examples are those that show you how not to be. So true...
Brave and wise words Devon, thanks for sharing…
Respect and best wishes.
Condolences. When my dad died in 1997 we had been fighting 2 days before he died. I never got to work it out either and that fight was my last interaction with him alive.
My dad kept a roof over our heads and kept us fed, but he had severe PTSD issues from time in Korea and Vietnam.
My sister and I often received whippings with thick leather belts, whipping that today would be considered abuse. I often times had bruises and buckle marks as a kid in Elementary school.. When myn sister ran away from home at age 15, the focus turned onto me. I vowed to never raise my hands in anger when my daughter was born.
The way I see it, you suffered through things so your kids would not have to. It may sound cliche, but your perspective changed and you will not make those mistakes and your kids will never be haunted by those memories.
Sounds familiar...And yes you are right... We already do and did it much better with our kids! 🙏💪
So true Devon. My dad has always been my hero. Despite the fact he was tuff on me my whole life and we didn’t always see eye to eye. I worked for him for 16 years and it was tuff. Now we live in different states and we are seeing each other differently and are going as father and son. And I take all the negatives and try to turn them into positives like you said. When he is gone I don’t want regrets. Time heals most wounds. Thanks for sharing your experience with us. Most of us understand more than you know brother. And as was stated sorry for your loss 😔
Positive watch for me!! Thank you Devon!!
Sorry for your loss Devon. Much Love, Mr. Paul. As a parent I hear you…haven’t spoken to my father for many many years now.
My condolences to you and your family. I know the pain. I've lost both parents and my husband of 32 yrs. Love, light, and prayers for you.
So sorry to hear that. Losing parents is tough but honestly that’s the order it is supposed to go. Losing your significant other that’s just heartbreaking. So sorry
Hi Devon , i'm completely agree with you and i add // How much in the your speech you are go near to the reality of the facts//.😇
Can confirm. You are not alone.
💔💝💞 I needed to hear this today.
Negative or not, you spoke from the heart and you spoke truth. That's why I respect you and follow you. Life is life, and it won't do any of us any good if we hide from the painful aspects of it.
Thanks Devon! I'm in a similar situation. I wish you all the best. Grüße aus Deutschland 🇩🇪, Sebastian
Its never easy..my heart goes out to you sorry for your loss. to you and your family God bless and Cheers to the good memories.
Thank you for sharing Devon. Never easy to lose a parent almost no matter what. A great message and not negative at all, just brave, 🙏👏🙏
Sorry for your loss brother we are all thinking of you! Stay positive cause you are an amazing role model
Thanks mate..👍👍 And condolences, I love your message here Devon and by looks of the man/husband and father you've become... I'd say you've taken that exact advice. Stay strong...💪
Condolences brother. My father passed away in 2017 and I haven't shed a tear. I know what it's like to have that kind of loss, both as his child, and after he was gone. You've found the courage and strength to be your own man and do better for your children, that's what matters.
Thank you for sharing Devon. No Limits dad!
I had lost my father in 2019 ... we never saw eye to eye ... we usaully argued about almost everything *but I loved him and still love him* ... I'm sure he knew that ... I visit his grave every week ... Rest in peace Dad ur little Boi
Your transparency for others isn't bluntness but wisdom that you as a person have proved you can take anything and make it the best. God bless you Devon.
Brother GOD blessed you with a wonderful family of your own. It shows in the hours of TH-cam footage I’ve watched in the last year. Any family would be blessed to have a husband and father like I think you are. You have a beautiful family. That’s you and your wife’s greatest accomplishment. SOUTH CAROLINA loves YA’LL .Sorry for your Loss.
The love that you give is already one of the most beautiful ways to be a good role model for everyone around you. Not only for your kids... Thank you, Mister Larratt! And all the best..
Been walking a similar road. It is really helpful to know I’m not alone. Thank you for sharing this and being an inspiration.
Appreciate your words of wisdom Devon. Everyone has the capacity to be good and better themselves, but they must first choose to be better. It's a life long struggle.
So deeply sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing a personal moment. It makes you realize how fleeting time is. In life, we have to come to expect dissapointment. Never sweat the small stuff. In your heart he is still your hero, you made this video to forgive him and look past what disappointed you.
Again, thank you for sharing Devon. God Bless you and your family.
My condolences. You have become a very inspiring person, and yes, a role model even for me. I am 22 and I strive to attain a similar mindset to yours: To be the man who loves to win more than he hates losing - not the other way around
You are the great Dad that your father wasn't able to be. All the videos throughout the years show that your kids know you love them and that they are worthy of love. What happened with your father likely showed you exactly how to be the great father you are. They will never know the pain you're feeling right now because you will always be there for them, no matter what it takes.
Wow. I'm sorry you had to experience this, Devon. My wife came from an abusive and broken family. She WORKS to break that cycle for her kids, and it's been the hardest thing she's ever done. It takes an incredible amount of strength to rise above her past, and *every single day* she puts in the work. Our kids need to see us trying to do our best, even when we fail. Take care.
My heart goes out to you brother. Im sure he was proud knowing he had a son who was an honorable warrior, good father/friend and who made the world a better place. Your words of wisdom have definitely made me a better person and i credit you for getting me through many a rough time with your humor and inspiring actions on and off the table 💪🤝
Sorry for your loss, your an inspiration to so many, your real and you put it like it is. Thanks for that sir, look forward to watching your next preparation and training for future matches
Troooth…. And it’s one rarely heard but as someone who’s lived through that particular parental failure know that it doesn’t have to be that’s way for your future!!👍🏻
I can totally relate with you, Devon. There are a lot of terrible fathers out there, and to a lot of kids, it is their first source of hardship and trauma. And being in that situation either creates a weak child or a strong man. Now I know why you're so strong, why you're such a massive inspiration on how to become a good man. We may not be thankful to the person who caused the suffering, but we have to be thankful for being in that situation, from which we've found growth and strength, and learned how to be a better person to be the best role model for our kids. 🙌
how to connect to someone, all while trying to grow up and be better person, can get ugly and complicated. when you have enough energy, you can apply patience, amd sometimes, shit hits the fan. thank you devon for sharing
Wonderful, hold on the goods in people. I do the same after my father passed away a half year ago.
Devon-men I wish you all the best for the upcoming time. Sorry for your loss.
Condolences....your message about taking away the good in a person is right on....No one is perfect, remember the positive times.
Healing and Happiness upon you and your entire family brother. Stay Strong Stay MASSIVE💯
Thanks for sharing brother, right there with you.
It's very hard not having a role model and not just when young but also throughout the adult life! I'm sorry about your dad Devon! I wish you well!
Sorry you and your father weren't on good terms, that can definitely make a death more difficult. Sorry for loss. My mother died from cancer in 1996 when I was 10 years old. Glad you shared this message to the world
Prayers sent sorry for your loss and struggle but by rising above it , as you are and have may God continue to bless you and family sorry you were put in that situation . On a positive note you are a great father and role model for your children.
Condolences! mAY THE CREATOR HAVE MERCY ON HIS SOUL AND GRANT HIM ACCESS TO HEAVEN!
Very good advice, be a good parent, and let God help you.
Hey buddy. Really sorry to hear. My Dad passed in March. We hadn’t spoke for 6 years. No matter the situation. It’s never easy. You’re an inspiration for many people.
Your story reminded me of when i met my paternal grandfather as a kid. I asked my dad what i should call him.. grandpa, grandad, abuelo... He simply said 'i don't care.' similar situation to what you said in your story Devon.. thanks as always for sharing. Keep your head up!
Thank you for your honesty. My relationship to my father was and is complicated but in some ways as an alcoholic we were very aware of his failures. I came to appreciate the areas that did do well by us and realized that he was doing the best he knew. I hope in my failures my children will see the love I have for them. I do hope to continue to better myself. All the best to you and yours.
My condolences Davon, great words!!
Devon's got that larger than life Babe Ruth type personality, great heart felt and thorough message.
I appreciate your words of wisdom Devon! May his soul rest in peace and you find peace moving forward.
So sorry man. I have gone through similar situations with my dad but it has really kept me focused on my own family and how to be the best dad/man I can. Thanks for being so open and hope you heal fast. My condolences again.
I was the same way with my mother. But when she passed it hit me harder than I thought. I was totally cut off from her in mind and body. But the reality of her actually dying was pretty hard. Sorry to hear Devon. Thanks for all you share.
condolences m.larratt.thanks for sharing.
Sorry to hear that man, even if your dad wasn't everything you wanted him to be, I know that the example you set as a father and husband is inspirational to many. Various videos like these have made me respect you for more than just your strength, but also for your character. God bless you guys ❤️
i'm right there with you. Feel like we are Brothers. Used to have a strong arm, tendonitis got my arm down, father keeps my emotions down. Stay Strong bro.. U Got This!
I hear you, Devon. Thx for sharing.
I haven't spoken with my dad in almost 20 years. I don't even know if we would recognize each other anymore. I do hope I see him again before he's gone for good.
Make it happen. It wont happen on its own, and you dont want the regret when he's gone. Even if you meet and feel nothing, at least you'll know you made the effort.
Reach out and see. Don't live with any regrets.
Itll help you. Remember you dont forgive for them, you forgive for you.
@@BozoThaTroll Thanks for reminding me of this. I have seen my father a handful of times in 25 years
Stay strong brother! I know the feeling and depression, I'm 46 and lost my mom 2 years ago, single father of 3 awesome kids, cancer survivor as well, after my kids mother left it seems like I got grey hair over night. Stay positive my friend
You spoke to me here on a personal level. This was hard. The people you surround yourself with are an impressive example of who you are and what you can make life into. Despite the clichés life is what you make out of it, otherwise it will make something out of you. No extra pressure but I feel like you definitely fill that "advice giver" roll for me that a father-figure normally would. It's your honesty and deep thinking on living that make you an invaluable and approachable resource on life. Thanks Devon
I'm so sorry for your loss, Devon. I lost my mom to cancer a couple of months back, and you definitely helped inspiring me to keep myself healthy and stay strong through the pain. May you find comfort to endure this pain, and know this: we're here for you, champ. Stay strong, Devon. 😔
Finding the light can be hard sometimes, but it's always worth it!
Sorry to hear Devon. No matter his faults, he and you are apart of a long, long, long line of successful father's that helped carry in your future generations. Respect. Wish all the best to you and your family
My prayers are with you and your family My brother God bless you💪🙏☝
We are forged in the fires of our trials and tribulations
Relatable, sir. The most valuable thing my parents taught me, was to not make their numerous mistakes.
You are not alone. On the bright side a rough childhood can be like a crucible, adulthood and its challenges are easier to overcome if you can gain stability, can take a while to get strong enough to handle the baggage. Odds are good the abusers were also abused and just couldnt overcome or control themselves, be glad you can and hopefully generations beyond you will never know the terror that may have formed you.
Sorry for your loss man, sucks when someone you love passes away. I personally never knew my father so I can’t exactly understand the feelings you’re having, but it’s motivated me to never abandon my children and help them grew into respectful and responsible human beings.
Didn't talk to my mom for the last 12 years plus, couldn't continue to be the parent to someone who should have been filling that role for me, due to a host of issues (manic depressive with psychotic tendencies). Anyhoo, I felt a fair amount of shame and regret that when she passed, it was so unresolved, so I can whole heartedly relate to the place you find yourself now. I do what you suggested: remember the best parts of her, and honor her by choosing to give those memories my energy. Sorry for the loss, and more sorry for the lack of closure you may likely feel. You are, however, massive, so that's a comfort...😂