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  • @ErinaBleu
    @ErinaBleu ปีที่แล้ว +874

    this is insane they're literally saying "i know it's kind of toxic but like you should emotionally abuse him!!! he'll love you

    • @Onnarashi
      @Onnarashi ปีที่แล้ว +35

      As a man, trust and believe he won't love you. Ghosting and emotional manipulation tends to have the opposite effect on men, at least the men women would like to attract. Men who take a woman witdrawing as an invitation to pursue her further are generally speaking not men you'd want to date. Not talking about him asking where you've gone if you stopped texting or seeing him alltogether, but more the types who won't take no for an answer or be extremely persistent regardless of how little interest you show.

    • @justemoi555
      @justemoi555 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@Onnarashi orrr you can just not do it to men because it will fuck them up. there's also that. don't generalize men. and the ones who won't take no for an answer... you're just describing predators.

    • @Onnarashi
      @Onnarashi ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@justemoi555 Exactly.

    • @thenablade858
      @thenablade858 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@OnnarashiYou’re exactly right. Men who deliberately go for women who don’t want them are either men with no self worth or creepy.

    • @bazooka-sharks-parker
      @bazooka-sharks-parker ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s the difference between love , infatuation and addiction . It’s only another person’s feelings

  • @eringassner5663
    @eringassner5663 ปีที่แล้ว +3165

    “I’ve spent my life studying relationships” miss you’re 22 years old

    • @andreaf8404
      @andreaf8404 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      shes like 30 or older 😭 i used to watch her videos on youtube years ago when i was straight. and she used to give better advice too. apparently shes a relationship counselor, which is a little worrying with those tips she gave

    • @MelinaImmonen
      @MelinaImmonen ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I think she's 39 or 40! I was obsessed with her TH-cam channel when I was younger

    • @stott2hot
      @stott2hot ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MelinaImmonenstfu 😂

    • @AnimatorBlake
      @AnimatorBlake ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Actually she's 40-50. I used to download her videos off limewire when I was younger.

    • @ThePhighteane
      @ThePhighteane ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Actually she’s 50-60, pretty sure we had her videos on VHS

  • @saraobrochta1127
    @saraobrochta1127 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    The fact that these are grown women giving middle school level toxic dating advice so earnestly terrifies me.

  • @brookeworm18
    @brookeworm18 ปีที่แล้ว +3574

    love to see that toxicity and being an incel knows no gender. this is true equality! 😍🤗😬

    • @jamsquan9415
      @jamsquan9415 ปีที่แล้ว

      we don't need less incels, we need more femcels.
      right? fight fire with fire and all that, they could match up with each other on incel dating websites.

    • @astroblast2325
      @astroblast2325 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      "incel" was first coined by a woman - we stay winning!!!

    • @Holmnielsen-
      @Holmnielsen- ปีที่แล้ว +18

      i'm a female incel and i wouldn't trade it for anything.

    •  ปีที่แล้ว +37

      You should read Men Who Hate Women by Laura Bates. It'll make you reconsider

    • @m2012o1
      @m2012o1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @LesReadsMore
    @LesReadsMore ปีที่แล้ว +717

    These people are just out here teaching the starter kit for how to psychologically abuse people 🤦🏻‍♀️😅

    • @Onnarashi
      @Onnarashi ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Well, us men don't have feelings so it's alright.
      (sarcasm alert)

    • @ealusaid
      @ealusaid ปีที่แล้ว +9

      LITERALLY

  • @julietdemske1791
    @julietdemske1791 ปีที่แล้ว +1804

    the fact that carley did the small hand thing is so funny to me💀

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +191

      🥺🥺

    • @LizzylovesLobo
      @LizzylovesLobo ปีที่แล้ว +123

      i literally screamed bc as someone with “piano fingers” ive NEVER been able to do this and im insanely jealous to the girls who could

    • @PersephonesRose-nr3oo
      @PersephonesRose-nr3oo ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@LizzylovesLobo I have small hands and I’ve always wanted piano fingers 😭

    • @LizzylovesLobo
      @LizzylovesLobo ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@PersephonesRose-nr3oo como se diceeeee the grass is always greener on the other side 🥲😭

    • @Samzillah
      @Samzillah ปีที่แล้ว +13

      We really thought as teenagers, that showing a guy how much smaller we were then them, was going to make them like us😂

  • @cur1ouscatf1sh
    @cur1ouscatf1sh ปีที่แล้ว +2303

    The problem is that they’re all pretty. I want a girl who’s not conventionally attractive telling me how to get guys obsessed with me, because that’s a lot more helpful to the non supermodels among us

    • @NoraMandelkern
      @NoraMandelkern ปีที่แล้ว +296

      Literally!! That’s what I couldn’t stop thinking about. The guy finds you attractive because you’re attractive!

    • @modkip25
      @modkip25 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      true !

    • @Solip_i
      @Solip_i ปีที่แล้ว +49

      They re not obsessed with them but with their beauty.
      Do you really want that ? The day he will get tired of you, when he will find prettier or the day you change…. Then you’ll be abandoned.

    • @Onnarashi
      @Onnarashi ปีที่แล้ว +121

      As a man, I want to ask why you'd want someone to be obsessed with you? If they're obsessed, they're not in a healthy mindset. I don't think people who say they want someone to obsess over them actually know what obsession looks/feels like. Obsession is stalking, possessiveness, jealous rage, emotional immaturity/volatility, and the violation of your boundaries.
      Trust me when I say it's way better to create and uphold healthy boundaries and respect the boundaries of others. Also, men aren't that complicated. We crave a genuine connection, respect, trust, peace, occasional compliments and show of gratitude, someone who listens to us and doesn't outright dismiss our interests and hobbies.

    • @maiak3188
      @maiak3188 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Right? If the average woman went around touching guys arms they would be creeped out, not turned on

  • @hamtaru
    @hamtaru ปีที่แล้ว +659

    this is actually inspiring, so good to see female representation in a male dominated field. #feminism #gaslightgirlbossgatekeep

  • @johannaelloso9418
    @johannaelloso9418 ปีที่แล้ว +642

    "The rules are not the same for us girlie" I felt that 😭

  • @Rebel_without_a_clue
    @Rebel_without_a_clue ปีที่แล้ว +759

    Speaking as a lesbian in a longterm relationship ... I am also obsessed with watching these video's, I think it's just my morbid way of checking what the straight girlies are up to lmao

    • @D0MiN0ChAn
      @D0MiN0ChAn ปีที่แล้ว +99

      As a straight girlie, trust me, this shit is terrifying more than anything 😭

    • @rx500android
      @rx500android ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lmao mood

    • @the1r1s
      @the1r1s ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Im in a long term het-relationship, and I am so glad I don’t “have to” be single and dealing with this shit….

    • @leila_de_hautjardin
      @leila_de_hautjardin ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't know about lesbians but let me tell you the straight girls are not okay !

    • @namangoy
      @namangoy ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah I'm also a lesbian watching this just horrified

  • @alexjames7144
    @alexjames7144 ปีที่แล้ว +760

    The rejection thing is very concerning, that some young women are internalising the normality of being relentlessly pursued by men after saying no, and instead of assessing how awful that is they're like this is perfect this is how I win.
    Like honey no, please do a feminism instead.
    I also really hope men don't see these and use them to justify harrassing women because this stuff is essentially encouraging awful behaviour from men. That woman rejected you? Its because she secretly wants you. That woman accudentally brushed up against you? She's gagging for it. That woman expressed basic interest in what you were saying? Clearly an invitation.
    Can we just normalise being up front and just saying "hi, I'm attracted to you do you want to go out? No? No worries have a nice day"

    • @blueblubloo7243
      @blueblubloo7243 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      THIS! I think rejection needs to be more normalized one both sides. It's okay to say no, and also it's okay to put yourself out there and be told no. No doesn't mean anything beyond not interested, it is not a huge dissection on your personality and looks. Especially for girls. So many of my friends don't put themselves out there because of fear of rejection and antiquated gender roles. Be bold AND take rejection as a pro. Guys who keep going after you show you aren't interested makes things so uncomfortable.

    • @katfujioka212
      @katfujioka212 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yeah omfg all I want is a guy who respects and values me as a person, I don’t want some creep who sees me as an object or is ‘obsessed’ with me. These people create more work for themselves too, it’s easier to communicate and be yourself rather than come up with these weird little games imo

    • @elenaascia8879
      @elenaascia8879 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      EXACTLY

    • @dragonbeardable
      @dragonbeardable ปีที่แล้ว

      This is why men should really go MGTOW and not approach women at all.... It's harassment.

    • @bennyv4444
      @bennyv4444 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bring back courting lol

  • @indigo92099
    @indigo92099 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    "give him a little chocolate covered strawberry...... and then slit his throat" lmaoo I love u

    • @likeatempestinateacup
      @likeatempestinateacup ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I literally had to stop the video after she said that, I was laughing so hard.

  • @tasheve3015
    @tasheve3015 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    i’ve never understood the “make them interested and then ignore them for a few days” method. if i’m into someone and they randomly stop replying i immediately get the ick

    • @dyoopiter
      @dyoopiter ปีที่แล้ว +15

      this is a sign that ur emotionally healthy and well adjusted ! keep it up babe

  • @fynnsternis6432
    @fynnsternis6432 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    i'm sure there are people who get obsessed from rejection but that could not be less relatable to me. If someone ghosted me for a few days every so often, i would simply get so anxious about it that i would stop talking to them. Others might have a fight or flight response, i only have a flight response, byye, not worth it

    • @EF-kk3vh
      @EF-kk3vh ปีที่แล้ว +16

      real of you

    • @irmacommentsalot7380
      @irmacommentsalot7380 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thank you! i think that applies to mostly everyone…

    • @cyrra8865
      @cyrra8865 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      it's not a flight or fight response, it's just called having self respect!

    • @bee.ok666
      @bee.ok666 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same! at a point it gets to "this person is not putting as much effort into this relationship as I am. so why i am i still trying?" and it just makes me a bit bitter and less likely to message that person. it happens with friendships too. a good relationship is built on communication.

  • @erburu
    @erburu ปีที่แล้ว +117

    "Guys fall in love during space through their imagination" absolutely broke me

    • @vkaatz425
      @vkaatz425 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @umarb7325 So then you're falling in love with your idealized version of a person that you may have only interacted with a few times?

    • @zexnynex777
      @zexnynex777 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm pretty sure I'm in love with Carley n this is my 2nd vid 😂❤❤😂

  • @user-qb1ht7fr3n
    @user-qb1ht7fr3n ปีที่แล้ว +203

    I love the fact that ur dad was one of the original ‘female pick up artist’ , just didn’t have TikTok yet😂

  • @christinab5778
    @christinab5778 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    This second girl’s advice: be an emotional abuser

  • @alina5110
    @alina5110 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    I love how some of them state in EVERY VIDEO that they are an relationship expert or something. Like yeah, I‘m sure that in relationship school they teach you exactly how to become an obsessive stalker-queen girly ❤

  • @lukelie
    @lukelie ปีที่แล้ว +329

    the way that carley mentioned that TikTok makes her want to end her own life. that is so relatable and girlboss of her. we love an open and honest queen.

  • @claudiaramirez9786
    @claudiaramirez9786 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    "the plane in which you inhabit is not the same as my reality" SOOO true bestie

  • @mxdhatter
    @mxdhatter ปีที่แล้ว +264

    CARLEY BLESS YOU I‘m stuck in a family gathering and you just saved me from dying out of boredom

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +45

      omg best of luck

  • @jamesroop6572
    @jamesroop6572 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    They're all like "confuse him with pointless mind games", we guys love that

  • @thegingerx
    @thegingerx ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Carley remember when you see good makeup on tiktok they’re 1) probably using the beauty filter and 2) have eyelash extensions so everything looks better. Although god damn I wish I could do eye makeup too 😭

    • @36424567254
      @36424567254 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't get this. I mean, I'm male so by no means an expert on make up, but while the 1st girl's looked great (also probably attractive face to begin with), the fourth one had eyes SO visually big and doll-like that it was seriously unsettling. Do girls really think we like that?

  • @Me-mq5zd
    @Me-mq5zd ปีที่แล้ว +73

    this is the youtube channel I watch at 3 am with a bowl of cereal and that is the highest form of compliment 😂

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +18

      this is my legacy

  • @karakask5488
    @karakask5488 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Why does anyone want someone "obsessed" with them? It just seems creepy

  • @skykaneshiro5984
    @skykaneshiro5984 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    As someone who went through the phase of “how to get my crush to notice me” videos in my teen years, I’ve heard these things multiple time. Kimberly was one of the main youtubers I would watch, and all of them would include the same messages over and over again: push and pull, hot and cold, use physical touch, act like you need help with something. Even after watching all that I couldn’t find myself executing any of the “advices”. I felt manipulative, scummy, I didn’t feel like myself and I felt as if I would have to keep up the act all the time. The only times I’ve managed to attract someone was when I was myself and minding my own business, not caring about how I appeared to the opposite sex.

  • @user-qb1ht7fr3n
    @user-qb1ht7fr3n ปีที่แล้ว +135

    “ Grab his neck “ , “ choke him “ I spit out my water !!!😅

  • @LiahnaForbes
    @LiahnaForbes ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I'm sorry but that Baby Jessica thing came out of NOWHERE and It got me laughing so hard XD

    • @herluka
      @herluka ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There's an Oscar in the making in that story 😂 x

  • @bayleebrowning9720
    @bayleebrowning9720 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    queen, the reason their makeup is serving in ways is because they have lash extensions- ur makeup looks good it’s falsies or extensions that ur noticing I promise I battle this on the daily

  • @amynorton9619
    @amynorton9619 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "If you have no older sister in your life, you are hung out to dry." I have never identified with any sentiment more strongly than this.

  • @alexjames7144
    @alexjames7144 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The thing that most of these things miss is that either:
    1. They already find you attractive and you'd have to fuck it up pretty bad to ruin it or
    2. They aren't interested and this weird dance is not going to change that

  • @cat-breath9684
    @cat-breath9684 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    these kinds of relations are not relations at all it’s just a cat and mouse power struggle and it breeds so much pain and miscommunication. Like these behaviors set you up to be incapable of a real relationship due to narcissism and mistrust. It’s deeply sad.

  • @m2012o1
    @m2012o1 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    The one huge silver lining from all of this is that maybe girls who grew up watching these videos will recognize those behaviors when they're used on them.

  • @hopiemelton
    @hopiemelton ปีที่แล้ว +38

    the clockwork orange eye thing 💀💀 obsessed with this reference

  • @conversations_with_kara
    @conversations_with_kara ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "it's a way to get him interested if he's a DETECTIVE" 💀

  • @BecRaper
    @BecRaper ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Hey ya big f***ing silly... put a glock to his head, boys love physical touch" gurl I am dying

  • @blugreen123
    @blugreen123 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    It's a way to get him interested...if he's a detective. That made me snort laugh. 😂

  • @adorkable4eva
    @adorkable4eva ปีที่แล้ว +82

    IM A WOMAN IN STEM!!! thank you for the shoutout girlie!

  • @ritisha992
    @ritisha992 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    tiktok has dissolved my brain cells😅

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      same bestie

    • @KatieRingley
      @KatieRingley ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girl you gotta work on that algorithm then. There’s so much valuable info on it

  • @WitchlingFairyelle
    @WitchlingFairyelle ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Okay its funny but also It’s legitimately WILD to me that anyone actually wastes any energy on doing things like this or being “manipulative” to make someone get obsessed with you?
    It’s very odd, like you do you but also literally just be yourself and if they don’t like who you actually are then you don’t want that person anyways 🤨
    Basically this vid had me in deep though about how people are out here curating every move in their interactions to manipulate and meanwhile I’m just skipping around in dreamland saying everything that passes through my brain and just so unaware of people around me calculating every move 😅
    PS you’re hilarious and I want more reaction stuff like this thanks babes

  • @anaclarasebben
    @anaclarasebben ปีที่แล้ว +103

    The number one rule in most of these videos is to be conventionally attractive

  • @herluka
    @herluka ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Loving all this "How to emotionally mess with someone until either him or you has to take out a Restraining Order on the other" advice 👍

  • @nataliaalonzo580
    @nataliaalonzo580 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When you said “I’m a thimble and you’re a beast” I choked on air

  • @chochiinwonderland5784
    @chochiinwonderland5784 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Can you imagine the kind of relationships these people are in? It's so painful!

  • @neptunehenriksen
    @neptunehenriksen ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Carley, the sacrifices you make to create content for us peruses of the internet are so noble. And wow these creators seem endlessly fascinating to me, but probably not in the way they are intending.

  • @sophiaisabelle01
    @sophiaisabelle01 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    We will always support you and your channel. Just know you're the best at everything.

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      🥺🥺

    • @dds5993
      @dds5993 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      She is our best and only option for content

  • @petergershon4734
    @petergershon4734 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    As a man the fact that there are female pick up artists fascinates because male pick up artists will never shut up about how “females will never be lonely like us men if they ever feel lonely they can just call up one of their guy friends”

    • @ayomidedareabel5525
      @ayomidedareabel5525 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      The delusion of some guys that we girls are never lonely is astounding at times.
      Like carley said if you are conventionally attractive that is the only time you have lots of options but quantity doesn't always mean quality.
      If you're an average girlie you may have dudes but it's probably like a once in a while thing depending on how social you are
      If you are unattractive you are totally invisible
      I'm someone that has a lot of male friends and they aren't remotely attracted to me. And I'm honestly happy about that

    • @AnimatorBlake
      @AnimatorBlake ปีที่แล้ว +23

      The females will never be lonely thing is just to make you feel inadequate in comparison so that you feel more like you need to compensate and are more likely to look to them for advice. As well, if you think women are different, you won't look to them for advice, you'll look to other men.

    • @JS-it3dx
      @JS-it3dx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it’s because women are usually lonely by choice. they’re only interested in a certain caliber of man.

  • @princessbablaschmabladingd7451
    @princessbablaschmabladingd7451 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    The way 80% of this advice is just telling you to emotionally abuse the person you are interested in

  • @rsmith4407
    @rsmith4407 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love hot girl friends. They are so genuinely unaware how different their baseline is until they start getting older and then they become total badasses with the new awareness they have. I love them so much.

  • @neevcoll69
    @neevcoll69 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    as an only child, girl i'm right there with u
    fended for ourselves
    we did what we could
    6% fashion sense

  • @maryem9225
    @maryem9225 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    please take this as the compliment it is - you are the female version of Mike’s mic and I love it

    • @alizalieb3962
      @alizalieb3962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg this is so true, i knew her energy reminded me of someone else i loved on here

  • @buhguh-r8g
    @buhguh-r8g ปีที่แล้ว +202

    As a guy, and someone who suspects they're talking to a girl who is following this kind of advice, I can tell you now that it doesn't work. This girl I was talking to said she was happy to hang out the week I asked her, but said she was busy for a lot of it, so I asked her to let me know when she's free, and she has not responded for about 2 weeks. Contrary to what these pick up artists all seem to have agreed on, this has not made me more interested in her, rather I've lost what little interest I had in her. Also it was very refreshing to hear you talk about pretty privilege, I feel like that's a point I don't often hear brought up in relation to these female pick up artists, where a lot of the time they assume themselves to be dating experts, because they're successful at attracting people, when they're actually just getting away with behavior that less conventionally attractive people can't, in a case of post hoc ergo propter hoc. That being said, the upside is that there's a limit, most people can notice red flags, the hope is just that they won't be desperate or lonely enough to ignore them.

    • @RealGermanish
      @RealGermanish ปีที่แล้ว +45

      no offense, but also just very possible that they just weren't that interested to begin with.

    • @ambersmith2612
      @ambersmith2612 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      That’s not this advice… she’s just not interested in you 💀 women say they’re busy because they’re scared to outright reject you. Not speaking for TWO weeks is your answer

    • @infinitecurlie
      @infinitecurlie ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Speaking as a woman...She...Just wasn't interested in you but didn't want to hurt your feelings right then and there to your face. It's a way to protect ourselves from having a conflict or blow up from men. (not saying you would have but it's just past experiences of many women).

    • @buhguh-r8g
      @buhguh-r8g ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I hear everyone replying, and I agree, somehow I didn't consider that lmao. Should I delete this comment or keep it up to learn from in future? This is a pretty good ego check, so I'm inclined to think the latter is better.

    • @lookingforlilli
      @lookingforlilli ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@buhguh-r8g woman here, I think it's cool that you reflected on yourself. self awareness and stuff like that makes a person way more attractive than just looks, in my option

  • @availandco
    @availandco ปีที่แล้ว +25

    😊😊😊 you are encouraging me to make my hiatus from TIKTOK scrolling indefinite 😊😊😊

  • @hew619
    @hew619 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    As an only child with older parents (I’m 27) I didn’t have YT when I first started getting interested in makeup! My mom rarely wore it and did very basic stuff, so it’s a miracle I’m decent at it

  • @dfjulesful
    @dfjulesful ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That woman's makeup looked flawless because of filters and lighting

  • @neivilde.1242
    @neivilde.1242 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    okay so they have 3 advices they give on loop, got it

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yup

    • @Awsome101Girl
      @Awsome101Girl ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Their advice? Have you considered ✨ emotional abuse✨

    • @chloeblakesley608
      @chloeblakesley608 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Awsome101Girlliterally how are people so chill at recommending abuse because it’s FUN

    • @neivilde.1242
      @neivilde.1242 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Awsome101Girl literally

  • @workedfriday
    @workedfriday ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "I am his ~best~ and ~~ONLY~~ OPTION!!" Sounds like a fundamentalist purity ritual.

  • @thiagocavalcanti6175
    @thiagocavalcanti6175 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I LOVE that the "mental health advocates", "we need to face our fears in therapy" generation's idea of romance is to create trauma and insecurities in others.

    • @bogboybogboybogboyb
      @bogboybogboybogboyb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think it's worth noting, these girlies are not mental health/therapy advocates- just because that kind of awareness is more popular now doesn't mean these people are into it.

  • @nikolendski5401
    @nikolendski5401 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    there has been not one day in my life that i have regretted deleting tiktok

  • @sonidrei
    @sonidrei ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Carley calling us fucking freaks is 🫶✨

  • @ritisha992
    @ritisha992 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    carley we missed you so freaking much❤

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      missed ya too

  • @rianna3543
    @rianna3543 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    👋 **no older sister here** can completely relate. THANK YOU!! I am always trying to explain to people that this is why I can't do make up, don't know how to french braid, and didn't finish college.

  • @Whoblewboobear
    @Whoblewboobear ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I use the small hand trick ALL THE TIME. This is so real

  • @kierstynsaoirse
    @kierstynsaoirse ปีที่แล้ว +5

    brb sending my partner "you looked different today, and I liked it" even though I have not seen him today

  • @RattlesnakeJakey
    @RattlesnakeJakey ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your dad's advice is actually highly accurate, all men desire nothing more than to be privvy to a good secret, we actually all turn instantly in to detectives.

  • @moonycanwatch
    @moonycanwatch ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is my reward for getting through a week of work

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My reward for getting 7/9 of my exams done

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      congratulations bestie

  • @geistking
    @geistking ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "The best way to make a guy be obsessed with you is to literally just murder his parents right in front of him, like I guarantee you he will spend the rest of his life thinking about you and what you did, he might even end up dressing as a bat but what matters is that his entire life will be different thanks to you and he will literally only care about finding you again" -The Joker, probably, if he was a gaslight gatekeep girlboss

  • @uhh9919
    @uhh9919 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    AHH im so glad more shows were announced this is the first one i’ll be able to attend since i subbed we love to see it girlies

  • @sophiasherrill8003
    @sophiasherrill8003 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    this video is actually so funny, you're doing God's work queen, perfect lunch break video

    • @sophiasherrill8003
      @sophiasherrill8003 ปีที่แล้ว

      also sweet Jesus the advice in this video is, in a very real way, manipulative

  • @RedMoonSolitary
    @RedMoonSolitary ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't want a guy to get obsessed with me. Like. Ever.
    Have we learned nothing from Twilight and After?

  • @james092396
    @james092396 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Haven't laughed this hard in a while, thank you! So happy to have found your channel

  • @sunshine123401
    @sunshine123401 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ok but I had the thought that YOUR makeup looked SO GOOD in this video!

  • @shivani7041
    @shivani7041 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    your reactions are sending me more than the videos... carley why do i feel like you're the "if we're in a don't laugh situation don't look at me" friend

  • @sabrinamichelle3588
    @sabrinamichelle3588 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Second girl literally teaching you how to emotionally manipulate someone

  • @MrsSoapAndClay
    @MrsSoapAndClay ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I dunno, I’ve been trying the “I have a secret and I’m not telling you” bit all day and have been proposed to thrice and propositioned 42 times. Dad might be on to something.

  • @maryd7753
    @maryd7753 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the baby jessica joke took me OUT LMAOOO

  • @bugzy_brain
    @bugzy_brain ปีที่แล้ว +12

    a lot of those vids were just teaching serious manipulation. thats not how to get ur crush to be "obsessed 😍" with you, thats going to tear their mental state apart. no amount of "lol toxic alert 🚨!! cant say i didnt warn you 😚" shit will excuse teaching kids how to ruin every relationship theyll ever be in, romantic or otherwise.
    sincerely, someone who fell victim to this shit multiple times in a friend group and got diagnosed with c-ptsd because of it

  • @lindsaysmith4208
    @lindsaysmith4208 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “If you see your crush at school just walk up and say hey you big fuckin silly and then put a Glock to his head”😭😭😭😭😭 I can’t breathe

  • @morganmicallef6032
    @morganmicallef6032 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    all of this advice is just the DENNIS System rebranded 😭

  • @sunny__johanna
    @sunny__johanna ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Funny to see the 1st girl in this video cause usually her advice is actually really good (I mean her non boy/relationship related advice slays)

  • @chloemarasigan0221
    @chloemarasigan0221 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i physically recoiled at each tiktok i’m not sure how you are still in one piece😭😭

  • @laurasmith9784
    @laurasmith9784 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I haven't laughed this much at a youtube video in a long time... thank you queen carley (ps if it's any consolation, I always think your eye makeup looks great)

  • @HVanda06
    @HVanda06 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Carly, i am going trough some dark times. But your videos always makes feel much better! Thank you. You are amazing!!❤

    • @ssarahmooneyy
      @ssarahmooneyy ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sending all the good energy and love your way bestie

    • @HVanda06
      @HVanda06 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ssarahmooneyy thank you.

  • @NE-ns8mk
    @NE-ns8mk ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It's very disturbing that most of those recommendations translated into psych language would be like "behave as if you had borderline personality disorder"... and that often enough it works.

  • @BlanesWorld
    @BlanesWorld ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The “baby Jessica” reference was top tier 😂😂

  • @Sjaella
    @Sjaella ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you are so histerically funny, i don't understand how you come up with these unhinged comparisons HAHAHAH

  • @thomaskole9881
    @thomaskole9881 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These aren't dating tips it's just 'how to gaslight someone 101'
    Great vid btw

  • @highpalpss3708
    @highpalpss3708 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’re looking absolutely glowing babes

  • @colewilliamson5412
    @colewilliamson5412 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    i'm actually dumbfounded at these tiktoks. having been on the other end of these tactics and still trying to recover from it all this really blows my mind. actively promoting harm ... just girly things i guess

  • @sunshinenuggets385
    @sunshinenuggets385 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the fact that every woman you showed was like “oh just be obsessed with urself!!!

  • @jesspopps
    @jesspopps ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I'm not a hot girl, but I managed to get my boyfriend to fall in love with me by baking him a tonne of cakes. It worked, we've lived together for like, 4 years now.

    • @Onnarashi
      @Onnarashi ปีที่แล้ว +26

      As a man, I can confirm that that's a legitimate method of attracting a man. There were a couple of decent tips within those videos too, like giving a guy a compliment, showing interest in his interests and hobbies, touch and wearing red, although the touch one is very situational because you can't go up to random strangers and start groping them. As men we learn this is wrong, so I think women should as well.

    • @EllipsesMusicc
      @EllipsesMusicc ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣

    • @katfujioka212
      @katfujioka212 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Onnarashiexcept those tips involve treating a guy like a human being with interests, hopes and fears rather than an obsessed chump who will fall to his knees when you brush him lightly!!! It’s like these women have never met a man before

  • @caseyw.6550
    @caseyw.6550 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Carley "I'm friends with models" Thorne. Lol

  • @Taayooo
    @Taayooo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    all of your examples of scenarios killed me 😭😭😭 like the most off the wall thing you can say

  • @Angryoyster
    @Angryoyster ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is my best compliment I’ve got, “uhhh yah you slayed today frfr”

  • @neonelectric9668
    @neonelectric9668 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your expressiveness just makes me so happy. Your jokes in response to the videos are so funny!

  • @scliffbartoni9771
    @scliffbartoni9771 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    We love(?) femcel representation

  • @bbybluebee
    @bbybluebee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i watched your deep dive in aris relationships and got hooked on your videos in a day, you’re genuinely so entertaining and fucking hilarious, thank you for being a new staple creator for me ❤

  • @karkkara
    @karkkara ปีที่แล้ว +4

    carley you're so not the worst texter, twice i sent your crazy silly video ideas and you replied. acessible girly

  • @baskerville-hound-0028
    @baskerville-hound-0028 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look gorgeous girlie! I actually loved your eye makeup best. I don’t think you need to change anything.😩

  • @luciataylor8068
    @luciataylor8068 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "he is literally addicted to me" my first thought was Edward Cullen ngl