Yaarra nee tharkuri... The topic is not about being alone, its about being LONElINESS... Social pressures and expectations are causing this, there is no choice of failure, one have to succeed. The mental pressures men going through is not at all being addressed.
Problems are temporary, learn to handle the problems in a better way. I understand its easy to advice, after few years, you might think "why did I worry about these silly issues, I could have handled it better" So, time heals. So look at "What Next" rather than sulking in depression, its not worth it. Dont take life too serious, it is just too short.@@errayyanar If you are facing difficulty, reach out to people for help. All the very best, you will be fine.
Thanks from my heart ❤️❤️❤️ I always love being alone. But மற்றவர்களால் தனிமைப்படுத்தப்படுவதால் ஏற்படும் வலி கொடுமை. இது எனக்காகவே எடுத்த வீடியோ போன்று இருந்தது.... Thank you...... Thank you...... Thank you..... So much... ❤️
Only Women, Children and Dogs are loved Unconditionally. A man is Loved under the circumstances that he provide something. To provide something we men need to play a role as a doctor, engineer, driver etc. Without this identity we are treated worst than anything in this society.
Who choose this ?! Obviously the men. They want to be superior in everything and everyone. So ofcourse they had lot of pressure. Idellam avagale theadikitadhu. So enjoy 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I am in 40+. I never felt lonely here before even i lost my mother at age 9.I thought my friend's mothers are mine. I don't think "Maduraiyans" being alone. Our Gangs are: 1.kolikkundu boys (school gang) 2.Azar team (cricket gang) 3.Panchathandiram (5 college friends B.Ed gang) 4.M.Ed mates ( 6 intimates) 5.Professional friends ( Above 100) Above mentioned friends are still in touch. I never rely only on my relatives for love. I threw away my loneliness by "unconditional love" on others.
Fantastic One Jr Anu !! 😇 I felt many times recently and thought the same, age aaga age aaga..circle kami aaguthu... Only through whatsapp we are connected.. rare meetings,, ! Its Alarming one.. thanks for the video, Keep Rocking🤞👏 My Boys - Vadavalli - Gajetz Gang !😁
I'm going through this! 6 and half years of relationship got broke down jus because I'm not settle down yet... Now im running behind my passion and I feel scared to get close with someone so iam being alone always with my profession. As you said I want to treated lovely by others but society gave me a role to earn , dont be childish , act mature , dont act immature even with your friends.
It is a sad reality that men are often put in a position where they feel like they don't need to take a stand. This situation can be quite challenging, and it can also lead to a lot of restrictions, even after getting married. These restrictions can have a significant impact on a man's relationships and social circle outside of the family. It can be disheartening to hear people say things like "You're not spending enough time with us" or "We're not in the same status as so and so” etc. Somehow men's life like racing horses. Even a man could say no to this. But this is the reality. This is one it's not started now. Men are always men.
True facts sister… I would advise boys get married soon that’s the only way you could escape this loneliness. Ask the last person to get married in your gang he will tell you the true story of loneliness. And one more advise don’t trust the guy who got married first in your gang then you will be the last one. If you’re the last then start loving your loneliness because no one will come to save you, trust me😌. RJ Ananthi -Thank you for talking about men.
Every day I think 🤔 😕 why I am Alone.. I thought my childhood 😢 (from 2nd class i am in hostel)and single child was the reason..and today also I discussed same topic with friend...why it is happening...suside thoughts, crying 😢, I don't any one , sitting in dark......over thinking .. Finally I got why it is happening...to me ...Thank you So much ....really I appreciating ur work...great Job.... only 2 types human man or woman.......but woman is treating as victims...actually man us the victims 😢. Any way thanks 😊 🙏
10:52 I was thinking, India mari oru society (though changes are upcoming) la men can easily maintain their friendships even after marriage unlike married women, so why the feel lonely...platicity...got the answer here. Women can gel easily no matter how new she is to a place. 13:31 Honestly, naan neraiya vati porama patruken boys gang pathu...like how close they are and there for each other. Even neeya naana show la pakumpothu kuda I was supporting pasanga frnds tha gethu though I'm a girl. But this information is really shocking to me. Women's relationships are deep but when it comes to frndships i thought men were better.
I'm student. I'm surviving alone without roommate, without friends. How i can do it? I started convo also people is away from me always. Why so like to live lone and bulit in alone.
Ithu yenaku pudusa iruku keka but it's true now I will notice yenna suthi iruka mens sa pathi yosichen neenga sonathu 100 persent true .but na unga kita pala vizhayam ketu iruken neenga inum yethukumee ans panathu illa still I am old follower of u it's ok ipaiyum onu kekuren soluvengala nu therila but I need ans yenaku English suthama puriya matikuthu [So neenga upload panra English books tamila translate agi irukanu sollunga Illa enaku English kathuka vazhi solunga sis pls
Nanume loneliness ah feel panen nan lonely ya irukenu theriyamale antha time la suicide thoughts neraya varum and life worthless a feel panen aprm nan Atha kandupudichu velila vanthuten Ithulernthu velila vara ore solution Unga vibe ku set ahura ahuravanga kuda frnd agunga
Sachotharigal sachotharargal kirta amma appa kitta pesanumma palaghanummna vaiyiru vaiyie valikadhu pondattinnaedho adimai vellaigari puluchachi villages than vivakarathu adhigarikuthu many mens in mosts of the villages are committing sucides only
🙏 எங்களையும்(ஆண்கள்) கவனித்துக்கொண்டதற்கு நன்றி, நல்ல உள்ளம் கொண்டவர் போன்ற உறுதியான உறவு, அத்தகைய அற்புதமான வாழ்க்கையை நாங்கள் உறுதி செய்கிறோம், உங்களை பற்றிய என் உணர்வு - நெற்றியில் பொட்டும், மூக்குத்தியும் வைத்தால் எப்பொழுதும் இன்னும் தங்களுக்கு அழகு கூடும்,...hmm DGF(DAYAL GANG FRIENDS)🛶⛵🚤🛳⛴🛥🚢 Friendship .டாட்டா ..👋🖐👋 Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Some guys treat their friends pulling down in front of girls to show the girls that he is better than others. This happens to most of the guys than between girls. This loses and breaks the friendship between guys. In this way men become alone by and by. It's my own observation over so many people in my life.
I phone call my school friends, but no one is answered my call. After sometime I call my school friends , someone picked up the call, and said now I am outside with my friends, I call when I go home. And still no call from anyone. I replied to all my friends story in Instagram everyone not replied me, how are you? How is your life going. Then i feel so bad.
Male egos are worse! I wanted my gang to communicate and deal with the issues. But they(even some empathetic guys from toxic families) are all ready to not communicate and choose to not listen and shut the victims, blaming the victim being argumentative suddenly in the gang. And even worse i see some/enough women are also getting egoic day by day. All prefer to have shallow friendship gangs to hang out for lifetime, than to have a deep caring friendship. They don't deserve me and I don't belong to a gang. Left my 13 years of gang and I prefer my other lonely creative friends, one on one real friendships are better than the all powerful delusional tribe culture of the men‘s gang, where hierarchy exists and atleast not preferable in the 21st century! Men or women doesn't matter, lonely doesnt matter, kind & caring friendhips matter!
As a men, we have lots of responsibility, while we look we are not enjoying own life, always people are treated us as money making tree. If men not useful to make money, then he is useless. But for women, it will be ok. Nowadays friendship is also not true, even best friend have their own life, we cant able to disturb him again and again. We cant able to speak up certain things. We cant able to cry infront of all, we cant able to show yes iam failed, while search for peace men thinks their is no peace here, so let's go RIP 😂
I agree the point on book that men's are being alone. I feel it's process. Am 24 now. I had friends gang on each stage of my life. Now as I working on my career. I need much foucs apart that loving the things what am loving to do apart form my work time. Responsibility are pushing every men hard. I really couldn't find my time. Second biggest issue is all my friends having different goal to reach. They thoughts are different. I can't get much connected. Now work colleges are there but we don't share any personal things. Just work and some random topics. I started to love being alone. I don't want to think about anyone on my time. Just me and my soul. I really feeling like an race is going between every one. It's created my the society. Parents should think and educate themselves on understand the feelings of younger generation.
Sorry 🙏 Akka Antha mathiri entha oru feelings yarukittaiyum solla than Akka oru person Kuda illa😢 ithunala than romba depression la 4 years Ku Mela suide thought vanthuttu irukkum 😢
Irukanga .....see your mirror Talk to yourself once in a day, otherwise you may miss meeting an intelligent person in this world." .....swami vivekanadha 😊
This is unnecessarily creating guilty feelings to the society. Please don't compare Human with Animal. Humans are only one Species who know how to survive in any situation.
Hi miss, I feel the respect of a literate when I see you as an personality. The beauty is you accumulate literacy and bloom into social serving flower. I don't have a exact word to describe you honestly. Sorry🫡. 🎉
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Yaarra nee tharkuri... The topic is not about being alone, its about being LONElINESS... Social pressures and expectations are causing this, there is no choice of failure, one have to succeed. The mental pressures men going through is not at all being addressed.
@@nagendraprasadr9278 yes, I'm going through same kind of pressure
Pin of shame!
Problems are temporary, learn to handle the problems in a better way. I understand its easy to advice, after few years, you might think "why did I worry about these silly issues, I could have handled it better" So, time heals. So look at "What Next" rather than sulking in depression, its not worth it. Dont take life too serious, it is just too short.@@errayyanar If you are facing difficulty, reach out to people for help. All the very best, you will be fine.
Thanks from my heart ❤️❤️❤️
I always love being alone.
But மற்றவர்களால் தனிமைப்படுத்தப்படுவதால்
ஏற்படும் வலி கொடுமை.
இது எனக்காகவே எடுத்த வீடியோ போன்று இருந்தது....
Thank you......
Thank you......
Thank you..... So much... ❤️
Only Women, Children and Dogs are loved Unconditionally.
A man is Loved under the circumstances that he provide something.
To provide something we men need to play a role as a doctor, engineer, driver etc. Without this identity we are treated worst than anything in this society.
Who choose this ?! Obviously the men. They want to be superior in everything and everyone. So ofcourse they had lot of pressure. Idellam avagale theadikitadhu. So enjoy 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Yes only savings of bank balance is fully occupied throughout men's life every men getting judged by his money
Absolutely..
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Current generation every child is feeling the loneliness since their childhood and also the old parents
I too feel the same right now, but I'm trying to over come it. Thank you for the video for giving me a further better clarity.
Eye opener for all Men👌👌👌
Hey fellows, Ellarum indha video oru like podunga. She is also speaking about men
Finally
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She always talks about everything. Don't try to label her.😅
16:27 emotional
Super
மிகவும் அருமையாக இருந்தது.
நான் பத்து பேருக்காவது அனுப்புவேன்.
நன்றி
வாழ்க வளமுடன்
I am in 40+. I never felt lonely here before even i lost my mother at age 9.I thought my friend's mothers are mine. I don't think "Maduraiyans" being alone.
Our Gangs are:
1.kolikkundu boys (school gang)
2.Azar team (cricket gang)
3.Panchathandiram (5 college friends B.Ed gang)
4.M.Ed mates ( 6 intimates)
5.Professional friends ( Above 100)
Above mentioned friends are still in touch. I never rely only on my relatives for love. I threw away my loneliness by "unconditional love" on others.
Very valid book and well explained Ananthi. Hats off. Keep up the good job.
Fantastic One Jr Anu !! 😇
I felt many times recently and thought the same, age aaga age aaga..circle kami aaguthu... Only through whatsapp we are connected.. rare meetings,, ! Its Alarming one.. thanks for the video, Keep Rocking🤞👏
My Boys - Vadavalli - Gajetz Gang !😁
Thank you sister...very useful information
Very good topic, heartfelt thanks for making this awareness. An good eye opener too
Before seeing your video, i know I'm facing this loneliness issue...😢 Need to overcome as soon as possible.
Thaniya iruka brain ah train pannikanum..athaan vali..ipo iruka world la yevanukum nammala pathi kavala illa..so naamum kavalai llama iruka train aagikanum
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Thank you So much for sharing
This is power of INTROVERT loneliness ❤️🔥
I'm going through this!
6 and half years of relationship got broke down jus because I'm not settle down yet...
Now im running behind my passion and I feel scared to get close with someone so iam being alone always with my profession.
As you said I want to treated lovely by others but society gave me a role to earn , dont be childish , act mature , dont act immature even with your friends.
2 times watched. Super 👍
❤🙏🏻👌🏻👍🏻 well explained 👏🏻 👌🏻
This video really true
It is a sad reality that men are often put in a position where they feel like they don't need to take a stand. This situation can be quite challenging, and it can also lead to a lot of restrictions, even after getting married. These restrictions can have a significant impact on a man's relationships and social circle outside of the family. It can be disheartening to hear people say things like "You're not spending enough time with us" or "We're not in the same status as so and so” etc. Somehow men's life like racing horses. Even a man could say no to this. But this is the reality. This is one it's not started now. Men are always men.
It's true mens we are care about further money, wealthy and good status.
And live for the family.
Thank u Ananthi❤
❤some one speak about men's ❤
True facts sister… I would advise boys get married soon that’s the only way you could escape this loneliness. Ask the last person to get married in your gang he will tell you the true story of loneliness. And one more advise don’t trust the guy who got married first in your gang then you will be the last one. If you’re the last then start loving your loneliness because no one will come to save you, trust me😌.
RJ Ananthi -Thank you for talking about men.
Every day I think 🤔 😕 why I am Alone.. I thought my childhood 😢 (from 2nd class i am in hostel)and single child was the reason..and today also I discussed same topic with friend...why it is happening...suside thoughts, crying 😢, I don't any one , sitting in dark......over thinking ..
Finally I got why it is happening...to me ...Thank you So much ....really I appreciating ur work...great Job.... only 2 types human man or woman.......but woman is treating as victims...actually man us the victims 😢. Any way thanks 😊 🙏
Most important video for every men
10:52 I was thinking, India mari oru society (though changes are upcoming) la men can easily maintain their friendships even after marriage unlike married women, so why the feel lonely...platicity...got the answer here. Women can gel easily no matter how new she is to a place. 13:31 Honestly, naan neraiya vati porama patruken boys gang pathu...like how close they are and there for each other. Even neeya naana show la pakumpothu kuda I was supporting pasanga frnds tha gethu though I'm a girl. But this information is really shocking to me. Women's relationships are deep but when it comes to frndships i thought men were better.
Worth one and it's red like a book ❤😊
I'm student. I'm surviving alone without roommate, without friends. How i can do it? I started convo also people is away from me always. Why so like to live lone and bulit in alone.
is it coz you are batman? just kidding.... dont loose hope
@@srithickss ❤🔥😂
Illa nga naanlam enna thanadha valathukiten oru puli ku hunt panna yarum sollitharala oru singathuku yarum vazha sollitharala adhuva valarum 😊
Im men 22 alone but Im Very Happy
If you are happier at 22 than when you were at twelve, then its proof that the videos' content is wrong !!!
Ethu nammaku 💯 percentage relate aaguthey 😢
யோசிக்க வேண்டிய விஷயம் தான்
Action num edukanum. 🙂
But today social media la girls ku dhan easy aah attention kidakkudhe
Thanks❤
Thank you akka
I'm in same state
Ithu yenaku pudusa iruku keka but it's true now I will notice yenna suthi iruka mens sa pathi yosichen neenga sonathu 100 persent true .but na unga kita pala vizhayam ketu iruken neenga inum yethukumee ans panathu illa still I am old follower of u it's ok ipaiyum onu kekuren soluvengala nu therila but I need ans yenaku English suthama puriya matikuthu
[So neenga upload panra English books tamila translate agi irukanu sollunga
Illa enaku English kathuka vazhi solunga sis pls
Nanume loneliness ah feel panen nan lonely ya irukenu theriyamale antha time la suicide thoughts neraya varum and life worthless a feel panen aprm nan Atha kandupudichu velila vanthuten
Ithulernthu velila vara ore solution Unga vibe ku set ahura ahuravanga kuda frnd agunga
My friend died, at the age of 21, so maybe this might be the reason. He was lonely. Understood ma'am
Sachotharigal sachotharargal kirta amma appa kitta pesanumma palaghanummna vaiyiru vaiyie valikadhu pondattinnaedho adimai vellaigari puluchachi villages than vivakarathu adhigarikuthu many mens in mosts of the villages are committing sucides only
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கவனித்துக்கொண்டதற்கு நன்றி, நல்ல உள்ளம் கொண்டவர் போன்ற உறுதியான உறவு, அத்தகைய அற்புதமான வாழ்க்கையை நாங்கள் உறுதி செய்கிறோம், உங்களை பற்றிய என் உணர்வு - நெற்றியில் பொட்டும், மூக்குத்தியும் வைத்தால் எப்பொழுதும் இன்னும் தங்களுக்கு அழகு கூடும்,...hmm DGF(DAYAL GANG FRIENDS)🛶⛵🚤🛳⛴🛥🚢 Friendship .டாட்டா
..👋🖐👋 Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Thanks from ❤ as a man.
This video should be shared with many. Timely video for ateuggling men...i have shared it...please you all share it.
I really feeling lone ananthi
Hi mam it's book fully true line because all men was happening in fack laughing including me
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I have mom ❤ ,,,
Call panalam... But na yarunu...,negabagam illa na yanna Panna🥴
medam ungalukku arivum azhagu, mugamum, azhagu yen photo anuppi vaikkiren naan aan azhagan thaadi vechiruppen, yen arivai sothichi paarunga , maruthuvam, ariviyal ,arasiyal, computer, yella thuraiyilum kaitherthavan,
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Lyftime doliss, GHGS, GP MUTHU THONDARGAL.....Ithu munum ore gang oda peruthaan en schl friends
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Some guys treat their friends pulling down in front of girls to show the girls that he is better than others. This happens to most of the guys than between girls. This loses and breaks the friendship between guys. In this way men become alone by and by. It's my own observation over so many people in my life.
Truth is always bitter to believe.
Hai....
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I phone call my school friends, but no one is answered my call.
After sometime I call my school friends , someone picked up the call, and said now I am outside with my friends, I call when I go home. And still no call from anyone. I replied to all my friends story in Instagram everyone not replied me, how are you? How is your life going. Then i feel so bad.
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Is it better for a lonely person to reconcile with her ex. partner, If the latter is still available & feel loneliness?
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100 vayassukku mella irunthu enna madam sairathu.???
Akka na lonely ya tha irukken
but enakku apdi feel aaha la
na enna panrathu😅
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பெண்களின் கதியும் இது தான்
கூடிய சீக்கிரம் பெண்களுக்கும் இதே நிலைமை வரும் karma is boomerang 💯....
Avanga vera maari expose pannitu happy ah poiruvaanga namba nelaamathaa apayu kastama irukum paavapaata piravi jenman nambathaa
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Male egos are worse! I wanted my gang to communicate and deal with the issues. But they(even some empathetic guys from toxic families) are all ready to not communicate and choose to not listen and shut the victims, blaming the victim being argumentative suddenly in the gang. And even worse i see some/enough women are also getting egoic day by day. All prefer to have shallow friendship gangs to hang out for lifetime, than to have a deep caring friendship. They don't deserve me and I don't belong to a gang. Left my 13 years of gang and I prefer my other lonely creative friends, one on one real friendships are better than the all powerful delusional tribe culture of the men‘s gang, where hierarchy exists and atleast not preferable in the 21st century! Men or women doesn't matter, lonely doesnt matter, kind & caring friendhips matter!
You are right dude...
Unmai
Aangalukku loneliness kidaiyadhu acting show scene kattittu erukiranungal adutha penngal pesanumma palaghanummna kala kalapagha erukkanummna vaiyie valikadhu pondatti pillaigal pesuradhukku than vaiyie valikkum vayiru valikkum especially villages ulla aangalukku villages ulla aangalae mental psycho kirukku loosu aravettru pathiyam
Explain English or tamil clearly ji 🤝
Book name
அடேங்கப்பா ஆறு பேர்
Akka enakku oru Kindle kidailkuma puthusu kuda vendam neenga use pannathu kuda para va illa😅
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As a men, we have lots of responsibility, while we look we are not enjoying own life, always people are treated us as money making tree. If men not useful to make money, then he is useless. But for women, it will be ok. Nowadays friendship is also not true, even best friend have their own life, we cant able to disturb him again and again. We cant able to speak up certain things. We cant able to cry infront of all, we cant able to show yes iam failed, while search for peace men thinks their is no peace here, so let's go RIP 😂
medam ungalukku churidar pottaal neengathaan perazhagi
I agree the point on book that men's are being alone. I feel it's process.
Am 24 now. I had friends gang on each stage of my life. Now as I working on my career. I need much foucs apart that loving the things what am loving to do apart form my work time.
Responsibility are pushing every men hard. I really couldn't find my time.
Second biggest issue is all my friends having different goal to reach. They thoughts are different. I can't get much connected.
Now work colleges are there but we don't share any personal things. Just work and some random topics.
I started to love being alone. I don't want to think about anyone on my time. Just me and my soul.
I really feeling like an race is going between every one. It's created my the society. Parents should think and educate themselves on understand the feelings of younger generation.
Toxic friends😂❤
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The gang name
Sorry 🙏 Akka Antha mathiri entha oru feelings yarukittaiyum solla than Akka oru person Kuda illa😢 ithunala than romba depression la 4 years Ku Mela suide thought vanthuttu irukkum 😢
Apadii allam feel pannathingaa😢own happyness thedi pongA❤
@@harshu8280damn true
First fine your passion and second fine peoples like you...that's it simple
Irukanga .....see your mirror
Talk to yourself once in a day, otherwise you may miss meeting an intelligent person in this world." .....swami vivekanadha 😊
Shes taking about ancient Humans where women are more than men
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This is unnecessarily creating guilty feelings to the society.
Please don't compare Human with Animal.
Humans are only one Species who know how to survive in any situation.
thank you ananthi.. most of the men's attitude around us are like how u/book explained.. n nice jokes...
one of my gangs name omelette guys 😂
I he'd friend
1. Peaky Blinders
2. Compound Pullingo
3. 90 ML Boys
The Gangs Names😂
Because men are paavapatta piravigal 😂
கல்யாணம் உனக்கு எப்பம்மா?
உனக்கேன் இந்த கேள்வி
nan ipa lonely a irukren enodw girlfriend ipo enna avoid panranka.
Hi miss,
I feel the respect of a literate when I see you as an personality. The beauty is you accumulate literacy and bloom into social serving flower. I don't have a exact word to describe you honestly. Sorry🫡. 🎉
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