Maybe this is true, but if they are using her and continue to berate her for her past they are UNCIVILIZED MONSTERS PERIOD. you can't heal or repair what you aren't willing to forgive
I love how kayla protects and uplifts melanie like she’s cheering her on when the mom comes out she switches seats with her like idk I really enjoyed seeing that
8:03 let me stop you right there. The minute you lay down and decide to have kids you owe them EVERY SINGLE THING. You owe them the best life you can give them because they never asked to be here.
No, having a child doesn't mean you owe them EVERY SINGLE THING. It is your responsibility to take care of them to the best of your ability and make sure they have all they need to grow up and become healthy functioning adults. That doesn't include giving them every single thing (Doing that can and oftentimes does cause them to become selfish entitled kids/adults).
It goes both ways and I’m not saying the mom is innocent and I’m not talking about the girls but some kids do grow up being monsters look at how many kids kill their parents and others
Calling them monsters is putting a label on the wounds, not addressing the issue, they may be grown women, but their actions show they are still hurt little girls. Me and my siblings went through the same thing, I met my mom again when I was 15, she was still on drugs, I remember when I became an adult I blamed her for me turning out the way I did, which I also became addicted to drugs, At 43 I learned I had choices back then, it took me going through the same things she did to understand that I had misplaced blame and resentment. I chose to be a better human being. I forgave her, and I'm still learning how to forgive myself.
Yes, you do owe them, because you are their mother. You choose drugs over them, and you did abandon them. Of course they hold grudges towards you, as you let them down.
I never understood parents with addiction denial. There's no way your children is well taken care of when the only parent present has a health crisis. Now, the disrespect they are showing is too much but it's nothing but trauma. I pray that they get family and individual therapy. They need to break this cycle.
@@yolandafernandez4651 yes. You can’t go back all you can do is move forward in life. And to her children with children they will get what they dish because absent or present the disrespect is past ridiculous.
@@yolandafernandez4651 It’s normal for that to happen when the parent don’t make amends with ALL sincerity for the past. The recovery has to be just as loud as the addiction was. You can’t just come back and jump in parent mode because the trust is lost. There’s too much trauma. They need counseling on a weekly basis to reach forgiveness. Right now everybody’s concerned with their own pain.
@@yolandafernandez4651 she also stripped their childhood away from them, made them learn to depend on themselves at a young age when your brain begs for parental love. These girls have every right to feel how they do.
Foster care is difficult, and mom abandoning them, they have a strong right to feel the way they do. They need to be proud of how far they got in life.
@@damiagunbiadeI have seen people who grew up in foster homes they are very polite and respectful these are just spoiled ladies without respect inspite of being addicted she was there for them , beating her and insulting her it's a no a mother is a mother no matter the situation .
I just want to say that Kayla has grown into a beautiful woman and I’m so sorry that you had to endure that growing up. Hearing you speak and articulate your feelings and emotions is absolutely beautiful. Praying for you
she is not well emotionally. she beat up the mother. those were her true colors when she said her male side will come out. idk why they are denying it. she is so aggressive. if she doesn't fix it she will go down a dark path
@@deusexmachina9776 Would you be? Emotionally well, I mean. Facing the trauma of being separated from your mother and siblings. Being raped for 10 years of your (young) life. Coming of age with a mother who not only has an extremely fragile sense of accountability, but also can't avoid being hurtful about your personal truth regarding your gender. She held up a heck of a lot better than I probably would have, to be honest.
@@trinaroach2832 thing is they are acting like she didn't beat the mother but that aggression shows she did it. Also she is acting like she is better but clearly need a lot of psychological help
Coming from a child who was in foster care with a mother who was addicted for over 20 years (even before I was born). I will say all of them need immense individual therapy. I was able to forgive my mother and she took full accountability so it worked well for me. The mother needs accountability and the daughters need a little understanding that’s all :) praying for this family 🥹
I don’t understand why it’s hard to take accountability when you have failed your child or children. Dismissing your kid/ kid’s feelings as an absent parent it not the way to ease year of abandonment and resentment. Whatever you are going through or have been through does not trump your kid/ kids feelings, You had them ! Being a parent is such a selfless love, it’s not for the selfish at heart!
@@prettygirltee8 PERIOD!! AND HONESTLY IT DIDN'T SOUND LIKE TO ME SHE WASN'T TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY FOR HER ACTIONS I THINK IF THEY GAVE HER TIME TO SHE WOULD'VE SAID MORE
I’m tryna figure out where the father is in this, i hadn’t heard none of them bring up where his part was to play…, all moms fault? Nah where is the dad 🤦🏽♀️
@@MutedSins26 If they see her that way, why even go on the show? How about they move out and live on their own and stop using this women as a punching bag? Their uncontrolled behaviors left no room for conversation.
I’m Dominican but I have a Puerto Rican adoptee cousin. She was taken in by my family because both her parents were on drugs and in and out of jail. Both from New York as well. Most Puerto Ricans and Dominicans reside in NYC. I knew the type of case this was within the first 2 minutes . We don’t know exactly what Norma was going through but I pray these kids get some type of Justice for this because this was clearly traumatic as hell for them.
Been here done this with my parent . Honestly they will not get the apology or half the parent they want until she really heals and holds herself accountable and mean it . They had a horrible upbringing and she can’t even acknowledge that . That speaks volumes . This didn’t happen for me until I was in my 30’s. I wish them all the best . Addiction is no joke
She took them there to put them on blast. I’m praying for all 7 of them kids because they deserve better. God bless them their anger is based in pain. I pray their pain is healed. You all be better parents than you have had. Be better people than you have come across. ❤❤❤
That's what really got me. Not seeking support to reconcile on the show, but to flaunt your supposed victimhood in their faces via hoped-for support from the host and audience...
The mother have to accept that her kids felt abandoned by her. The kids has to realize because you’re hurt you don’t have to be disrespectful ESPECIALLY to the point of putting hands on her
@Shanequa Newkirk Are you serious? She abandoned them for drugs and is indignant about it. Do you think she should get away with that because she had sex, got pregnant, then neglected the kids she had who didn't ask to be here? Is that logical to you?
I think the mom was telling the truth when she was explaining why she called acs on her daughter in the pink and that’s why she was trying to shut her down so hard because she didn’t want to be embarrassed but she wants to embarrass her mom, this whole situation is off.
I love the way the sibling love one another. Just trying to give each other what they think they need. Thats all we can do when we're abandoned by our parent. So as we grow and even have our own children, we dont understand how they did what they did to us. We see the love for our own and we just dont get it. Praying for this family every step of the way. ❤
There is too much trauma for their relationship to be worked out on a show.This much disrespect and hostility is bound to end up in physical aggression.They should NEVER put their hands on their mother, so maybe it's best that they stay away from each other until they can get some kind of family counseling with a mediator.
Do you think is the host wants you to text him. Because he sent that same number in my comment for me to text him. I did on WhatsApp But I don't know if it's him🙆🏽♀️
@@nicolagordon6490 I don't know if it's legit because I get those messages whenever I leave a comment on different sites, but I never tried to text them.
So what if your mom puts her hands on you do you still not do anything but besides that they didn't hit her the claim was the other sister did one that wasn't on the show but I do think they need time away from eachother.
Yup and for Karamo(per usual) to not take control over the conversation is crazy. Her daughters were able to talk prior, so let this woman tell her story without constant interruptions! Geesh
Exactly!! Not just the Mom it’s the kids to.. I’m sick of these People talking about the Mom the only one wrong NAWL I wouldn’t talk to my Mom like this and I swear my Mom Didn’t raise me but I respect her and I’ll never curse around her are nothing and I’m 40 with 5 kids.. I’ll never chose a Man Are Drugs before them though..
Unfortunately addiction is a disease but that does not give the right to these kids to be so disrespectful and physically abusive to the mom at the time she thought she was doing the right thing unfortunately years later she realized it was a big mistake. Children don’t come with instructions as parents we do what we think is the right thing at that moment. And these kids are beyond cruel abusive and disrespectful to the mom. Therefore they need to stay apart from each other but the kids refuse to leave the mom alone. Too much to the story I can write a book about all this family drama. (Insider)
Okay, so everybody wrong. First and foremost, the mother can’t expect respect from her children when they consistently feel abandoned. As a child who grew up with a drug addicted mother, I OVERSTAND their frustration. However, they can’t snap at her at every conversation…it’ll get them no where. They need to learn to love their mother from a far. There will be no resolve if mom doesn’t acknowledge, apologize and change her behaviors & the daughters have to be OPEN and receptive to whatever changes mom makes. It’s a process but everyone has to be willing to let the past go because it literally does not serve them.
@@MzKane313 nah if mom wanted to get off those drugs she should have got off, i dont feel bad for no one thats on drugs. go get fucking help if u wanna change.
I am a mother of one and I will never understand the addiction to illegal drugs because I didn't travel that path. I do however have family members who were addicted and with the one's that couldn't get it together it was family members that banded together to raise their children. Every child born into the world deserves the love and obligations of their parents. Addicted parents need to understand that their children are sometimes broken inside and the children are the victims of their addiction. Once the parents are in recovery they need to know that they need to stop denying the damage that was done. Drugs destroy families and communities. Listen to the children and swallow the pain that they feel and the hurt that they have experienced. Therapy and counseling is needed individually and as a family and hopefully they can began to mend.
Idc there’s no excuse not to be there for your children. My mother had 7 kids and was a single mother and took care of us with no problem! We struggled because she was a single mom but she did that! Mind you we were stepping stones! 😂 Back to back! Shout out to my mom! Rip queen I miss you ❤️🫶🏾
my parents were born in africa my mom had her first kid at 14 and bc of that both my parents couldn’t finish school but their so smart and she has 7 kids total and my dad stayed with my mom for 25+ yrs and now my mom is a nurse and caregiver and my dad works for a construction company but we were raised pretty well we don’t take things for granted and learned a lot from our parents I think my parents are truly blessings from God and I am very lucky to have have them as my parents also this video is a good example of why some ppl aren’t meant to be parents💕
Norma destroyed her own life!!! Quit blaming your daughters!!! Quit calling your daughters horrible names!!! What mother does that? A good mother wouldn't call their children horrible names. Norma needs to take responsibility for her own actions.
So if some beat you up & talked to you like that all of the time you wouldn’t called them a monster? That’s actually nice of her to say about them. Yes, she’s wrong & needs to take accountability, but they way that they talk is disgusting!
@reesa cup oh please. Parents who bitch about their kids are delusional. She is the exact reason why they turned out how they are. Parents who can't take accountability and demonize their kids are WEAK and have no maturity or understanding. Repeat is EARNED. She has not earned it. Period
I know how they feel. My mother was an alcoholic and took handfuls of sleeping pills to where she was always passed out and out of it. I was 12 and my dad rushed me to the hospital because i was throwing up nonstop and it hurt so bad. Anyway, even when i was at the hospital, it took like day 4 for her to show up... And the times she wasn't there, CPS kept asking me questions wanting me to explain why i had a stress ulcer at 12 and i lied and said i was overwhelmed with school. Memories freaking suck.... When people have hard childhoods, there should be some type of procedure you can erase every traumatic memory and you can get a new start at life.
This is heartbreaking. Nas, you are a beautiful person don’t allow anyone to steal who you are, it’s time to move on. Love yourself! Be good to yourself! You deserve the best and the Best is waiting for you. God Bless You
This was the realest episode. Clearly shows how the talk and the walk are so different. And it takes WORK, a LOT of work to have your actions match your intentions. They both deserve empathy. But if they want to be together and have 1 family unit for their kids... They need to do some work for themselves before they can achieve that. You cannot pour from an empty cup, and you have to put on the oxygen mask on yourself before helping others.
@@sabrayachestnut9577 Why is it always the VICTIM who's called to be the "bigger person", though? They not only have to deal with their trauma, but also carry the weight on the responsibility, too????? #NOPE
@@trinaroach2832 you answer that for yourself. I was brought up to obey your mother and thy father!!! Like I said respectfully Somebody should be a bigger person. And 2 wrongs don't make a right periodt!!!!
What did that disrespect earn them though? How has beating up their mom (which the male child literally confessed to doing and threatened to do again) benefiting them? Then one of them has a child who one day might grow up to see that her mother and uncle behaved like this for the world to see.
going through this right now with my two younger sisters and its crazy how both of our parents act just like there mom smh, when you have parents that you just gotta cut them off.
Everybody in this situation is acting out of pain. Your pain does not give you the right to be disrespectful and say hurtful things to one another. They need group and individual counseling. The mother calls them monsters and they get mad...but expect her not to react to them putting their hands on her. The 22yr old literally said " when it's her time to go to the king ..don't call me. I don't care " and the girl in the pink is obviously following her mother's footsteps if she believes leaving her children alone at home to be with a man is ok. I hope they all get the help they need.
Why is it the mothers always get the backlash but fathers are never held accountable as well. Mothers are always being attacked,but these children don't realize how much stressful it is to raise children alone,and also why don't they attack the fathers the way the do the mothers. Most of the time it's always the mothers that stick around even though they don't always do their best.
as a mother u owe ur kids everything that’s what being a mother is about and for her to sit there and say she owes them nothing u can’t be surprised that they want nothing to do with u. she wasn’t the only person they had. all they had was each other that’s who they really had
People in the comments talking about the kids are disrespectful are ridiculous. Parents OWE their children accountability. From the time you you don't protect your babies you open the door for whatever resentment they harbor. All yall saw was disrespect chikdren to a parent. But I saw hurt children angry that their mother couldn’t do the basics of motherhood and they're not trying to let her in becauase they refuse to let her tear them down when they had to build themselves up by themselves. I don't blame him, I blame her.
Yeah these kids are disrespectful to the fullest. We all go through something, THE good and the bad. If your mother was such a piece of shit and ya still traumatized by it. You let this monster who let you fall to the system take care of yours?🤦🏽♀️. Make it make sense… Why would you even consider of putting your kids through this cycle if you don’t want no parts of her? They all have problems and drugs can mess up families. I know to well.
@@goldeycoats6502 if you listened closely the mom clearly lied about taking care of her children. That’s what highly narcissistic people do. They make up delusional lies to make them sound good.
People forgets that moms are human. Understand that she has issues. The fact that she has been addicted to drugs literally means that she had issues. I had a drug addicted mother and i love my mother. I had issues with her for years. It took therapy and held her accountable, but as a mother of grown kids myself I learned like me my mom is human and deserves grace like all humans. Its understandable how the kids feel but empathy is missing from both sides.
@@3rdelement10right. Are her children not human as well? She let her pain and decision to ruin her own life caused her to bring children into the world with no chance of survival…being human includes understanding ppl will eventually get fed up with your BS regardless of what you’re going through when whole time everybody going through stuff and somebody’s baggage they’re specifically going through is YOU😂 I forgave my mom but she didn’t understand until I explained to her I understood she’d been through things in her life before I was born but me being her child my entire life has been dealing with her ish.
First and Foremost...My heart goes out to these young ladies! Most woman can have children, but not all are fit to be Mothers...Case and Point ! I thank goodness my Mother and Father were fit and loving parents.
@@Roads2RichesRickkkits scary his trauma is evident and they’re letting him express himself this way. It’s clear he needs help to express those feelings. As a child being taken advantage of for 10 years is DEEP.
I understand they mad that she wasn't in their lives but i don't care what my mom did or didn't do for under no circumstances is ok you hit or curse your mother out just stay away from her
Sounds like she was a terrible mother and the kids had terrible experiences in foster care. They may never get the apology they need/deserve and they have to accept that. She did a shitty job as a mother. You got a raw deal, go to therapy, distance yourself from your mother, and move on. Sounds like the daughter is as good of a mother as her mother was to her. Leaving your kids?? That touched a nerve for sure. I wish every ending was happy but that isn’t reality.
This is hurtful to watch, I pray for they’re healing in Jesus name Amen 🤍 no matter what that women is your mother and should always respect your Mother
I would stay completely away from my mother if she was toxic before I would disrespect her like that. My childhood was horrible because of my mothers heroine addiction. The unspeakable things me and my siblings had to endure because of her addiction were atrocious. But by God’s Amazing grace, I was able to overcome and break a vicious cycle that ran through our family. My mother saw better and began to do better. She overcame her addiction, got her life together, and she and I became the best of friends when before we had no relationship because she was very abusive. She took accountability and apologized for what she put us through and she went above and beyond being a better mother and grandmother (we were now grown).I wouldn’t trade her for nothing. I would choose her again if I had to. I love my Moma! Never give up on your mother. God is able to change and heal all of the damage done. But all of these people are toxic. They will wind up doing the same to their own kids if they don’t change their attitudes. This is sad 😔
understand what the girls been through, I've been given up at the age 6 and grew up in foster care all my life and ended up in the streets, but I chose to be responsible for my own life and actions as an adult...it was cringing to see how they speak so aggressively to their mother it made me uncomfortable...a lot of healing needs to take place its all so sad..if y'all can't love one another then leave each other alone..
@@shweta3590 Even “June Cleaver” can’t be everywhere to protect their child from everything. Forgiveness is for YOU…not for her. An unforgiving heart holds only itself hostage. Beating her either mentally or physically only ADDS to the victim’s issues.
@@shweta3590 that is not a judgement for you or I or anyone to make as she is not your or my or anyone else’s mother but theirs and those girls will have to answer to Divine Justice for intentionally harming the vessel used to give them life unintentionally causing them to have an unhappy childhood…,all because the vessel had a crack in it as if yours doesn’t have a single one. Forgive your parents. For YOU to be free. The mother forgave herself to free herself and she shows us it wasn’t easy as water rolling over log for her to do it. The hell you go to is the one you choose. They could choose to be a lot more understanding and so could everyone else.
One thing people have to understand is that parents are human too and they have their own walk. Nobody is happily choosing to be on drugs and abandon their children but that is the way her life went. The longer they spend being upset with her for the path her took her on the longer they will be harming their own children. No way the one in the pink kids don't have residual hurt. Look how hurt she is. Her kids feel it, no doubt.
because most these people are these types of young kids and are disrespectful as hell lol, like our parents and grand parents had hard lives it's not a excuse BUT they didn't have the things/tools my generation has today. I am 30 and my grandmother raised me and I've heard the abuse and the stories she had and I can understand why she is the way she is, and being a parent there was no guide there was no youtube tutorial video on how to be a parent but these generations don't seem to get it. I think it's both sides, it's apparent the mother wasn' there in terms of them being in foster care and her having 7 kids and all of them taken away without being married is kind of sad. She should of got fixed if she wasn't going to take care of them unfortunately.
It sounds like all 3 of them need to understand one another. I’m a child that struggle with trauma but let’s be honest… these new kids different. If they’re THAT toxic, keep it pushing and live your life. Once you stay and start spewing out the same hate, you’re now on that person’s level. Karamo… I’m worried about where you obtained that psychology degree lol
I hope therapy was offered to all family members that are open to it. Unless you have disrespectful adult children you will never ever understand. Parents have trauma just as their children do. No one ever has the right to abuse anyone in any way. My sister and I agreed as our children grew up there should be a law against children who emotionally abuse their parents. Adult children must stop blaming their parents for their own poor choices. My mother did the best she knew and could at the time. I would never threaten her. I have her back no matter what. I have and will always love my children it doesn't mean I always like them vice versa I am sure. I agree 100% the adult child should have never been allowed to threaten beat up the mother regardless of how angry they are.
This was sad. My mothers mom was an addict and left my mother. My mother doesn’t treat her mother like this. At first my mother had a lot of pain but she forgave my grandmother. No therapy just listening and understanding each others pain. This is awful because they are holding so much anger to their mother to the point it’s physical. The mother seems to be giving back what they give to her. After awhile no one is gonna let someone disrespect or put hands on them with out getting the same back.
Right THEY DISRESPECTFUL AS HELL TO THE MOTHER so I believe EVERYTHING the mother said.. they hurt and treat her any kind of way which is wrong idc that's their MOTHER they shouldn't disrespect her like that I see why she call them monsters
As someone who is in foster care I’m so grateful I wasn’t raped or Constantly beaten. I just had a money hungry, mental abusing foster family. I’ve heard so many stories from other girls 🤮🤮
OK purple I so agree with u because no matter what your mom did u still supposed to respect and love your mother no matter what that's what God would want u to do
I’m so glad my childhood was decent. It was 7 children and my mom and dad. I pray they can forgive each other and make amends but if not move on with their life. The kids may be angry n hurt but the disrespectful as hell. Mom need some help too, the whole family. 🙏🏽
@♜þinned by Karamo Show I agree with you The whole family need Therapy I couldn't believe how they was talking to they mother like what the lady said disrespectful me your be getting pick up from the floor Thank God only have one child And 6 grand boys And they all respect iful young man one take care of me since I been disabled And I Thank God for him all my grandshave respect for the Elderly people tell me all the time how respectful they are I Thank God none have any baby run around her And they young man 20 to 30 years old and finish school and work
These 2 young women needs to live their lives and forget about their mother , and hope and pray 🙏 that the circle doesn't continue . They know what their mother did and why they were taken away , what happened , happened, can't change the past , but yes you could change the future . This relationship between mother and daughter , can't never be fixed , they all lost respect for one another . Praying that God could heal these 2 young women hearts ❤️
These types of parents are always the same, they cause pain and destruction in their wake but only acknowledge the pain they feel and not what they cause. She will never take accountability. You just love them from a distance to protect yourself. I also don’t think she’s fully sober!
Not true. Plenty of kids who grew up in foster care and don't disrespect their parents like this. Let's not make excuses for bad behavior. None of us had perfect upbringings and most of us don't put hands on our parents or cuss them out.
I grew up in the foster care system as well. I get that the daughters have trauma. However, the mom has her problems as well and she wasn’t trying to deny the problems that she face. I have also seen family members on drugs and have a addiction it is hard for them to get out of and the mom put them in foster care bc that’s what the system give you no other choice but to do. Some parents completely stick to the drugs and just leave their kids alone. But the mom made time and for that they should be grateful. Instead of hearing all sides the doctors wanted to talk over and threaten and the oldest daughter is the bully and the other sister is following. This is something he shouldn’t have put on the show bc nothing was fixed respectfully.
These are some disrespectful kids I love my mom she wasn’t there I would never beat my mom up I will never disrespect her or threaten her it’s not enough in this world that would put fear in my mom
I don't see how Karamo says that he's fair, but he let these two rude (fill in the blank) disrespect their mom like that. Yes I understand that they are upset with her, but you can talk to her in a respectful way without all the cursing. He should've held them accountable the same way he held the mom accountable.
Parents who raised kids tangled in their trauma will do every flip, juke, crossover, run, ANYTHING but take accountability. Their truth is it. No one else’s truth in relation to the things they did to hurt the kids matter.
The fact that Melody's rape wasnt addressed is sick asf. The mom wasnt like im so sorry you had to go through that or anything KARAMO said "im so sorry" and shes just another woman on his show. That is terrifically sad dude
@2:42 I love what she says, they(the parent) should take some accountability. The flip side is what if you(the parent) has taken responsibility, by expressing it, and the kids still don’t get it?
I am going from a biblical standpoint. She is their mother your days will be limited by the way that you treat your mother. no mother is born with a hand book. Unfortunately, we have a lot of family members that are battling with addiction. And I understand it is hard, but no matter what you have to be the one to forgive. They may never receive that apology from their mother, but they need to forgive her in their hearts because it’ll only hurt them. What happened in the past cannot be change, but the future can be better. Sometimes we have to ALL grow up and accept things as they are. They all need intense therapy however, that mother got that black eye no one is right in the situation and no one is healed in the situation. But if we believe that there is a father above, that will take the pain away, and that will heal us, and that we need to have a forgiving heart and a loving spirit. Then we cannot continue the cycle of placing blame, but starting the cycle of forgiveness with or without an apology.
Stop making excuses for horrible Mothers. You don’t know how long their lives will be. You people just apply scriptures to anything to justify nonsense. The Mom is lucky her days haven’t been limited doing drugs and being a crack slore.
I feel for the kids.. I understand the pain they feel and anger is only coming from a hurt place. I also know the truth behind the older you get the wiser you become.. that may not be exactly true for everyone but I do think this mother regrets a lot of things.. she just settles on the fact that she can’t go back and fix things but I don’t think that’s to say she doesn’t love her kids. She should still keep trying to put in the effort regardless of the set backs.. just because their not babies anymore doesn’t mean they’re not your children. I wish them all healing..
Karamo was wrong for letting any child sit on his stage & tell their mother on tv that they will beat anybody ass. Wrong asf!! Letting any child bully their mother out their feelings is CRAZY!! The older one is outta line & need their ass whooped bc you only popping shit like that to your mom. Smh Karamo should’ve really played fair & defend the mother as well not just the children
The one in the pink has had to be the protector and the peacemaker. She was probably her mom’s biggest champion when she was in foster care because she had to be the fixer. She’s trying her best to parent with what she has been taught. God bless this whole family and especially those seven kids.
The daughter and son are both insanely disrespectful and not genuine, while the mother isn’t the greatest she admits to that, however the children refuse to acknowledge their own wrong doings whilst claiming that the mother doesn’t when it’s clearly not the case
She wasn’t doing none of that for healing, she did it for sympathy and validation even tho personally I feel she’s wrong af. I’m glad her children grew into beautiful independent women with good heads on their shoulders 🙏🏻🌟❤️
My heart goes out to all 7 siblings. Sometimes you just have to love people from a distance to heal even if it’s your mother 😢
I completely agree but they refuse to leave the mom house.
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You got that right ✅
Maybe this is true, but if they are using her and continue to berate her for her past they are UNCIVILIZED MONSTERS PERIOD. you can't heal or repair what you aren't willing to forgive
Right, but they can ask mom to be a babysitter though? Make it make sense?
I love how kayla protects and uplifts melanie like she’s cheering her on when the mom comes out she switches seats with her like idk I really enjoyed seeing that
yeah and how she puts her hand on her and telling her its ok
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8:03 let me stop you right there. The minute you lay down and decide to have kids you owe them EVERY SINGLE THING. You owe them the best life you can give them because they never asked to be here.
Sounds good but nope, everyone doesn't see it that way and it doesn't make either side wrong.
Everyone never asked to be here.
No, having a child doesn't mean you owe them EVERY SINGLE THING. It is your responsibility to take care of them to the best of your ability and make sure they have all they need to grow up and become healthy functioning adults. That doesn't include giving them every single thing (Doing that can and oftentimes does cause them to become selfish entitled kids/adults).
@@1000mizz so why become a parent? If you didn’t want to be here why make other people be here?
@@MissLadyG99 which she did none of and like I said you owe your kid the best life you can give them.
Any mom who calls their kids monsters is the monster. Parents like her never take accountability.
It goes both ways and I’m not saying the mom is innocent and I’m not talking about the girls but some kids do grow up being monsters look at how many kids kill their parents and others
Or a father
@@dominiquexo4772 absolutely. Any parent😩
@@Janyia-qy5qg True that.
You must don’t have kids OR you’re into that gentle parenting bs 😂
Calling them monsters is putting a label on the wounds, not addressing the issue, they may be grown women, but their actions show they are still hurt little girls. Me and my siblings went through the same thing, I met my mom again when I was 15, she was still on drugs, I remember when I became an adult I blamed her for me turning out the way I did, which I also became addicted to drugs, At 43 I learned I had choices back then, it took me going through the same things she did to understand that I had misplaced blame and resentment. I chose to be a better human being. I forgave her, and I'm still learning how to forgive myself.
I’m so proud of you🤎🤎
They better not never cancel this man show, just because he’s healing black generational curses
Black where at on this segment?
No God does
🙏🏾👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
He’s been renewed for a 2nd season!
Black? They’re Latino
Yes, you do owe them, because you are their mother. You choose drugs over them, and you did abandon them. Of course they hold grudges towards you, as you let them down.
Y’all are the ones lost….. how did she get a black eye etc. …… pitiful crayons
You definitely are a KAREN
Girls that's your mother have some respect
I wouldn't hold grudges I'd move on with my life it is what it is can't make some one be a parent
The vid did not say nun bout drugs 😂
I never understood parents with addiction denial. There's no way your children is well taken care of when the only parent present has a health crisis. Now, the disrespect they are showing is too much but it's nothing but trauma. I pray that they get family and individual therapy. They need to break this cycle.
They punish the mom everyday of her life for the mistakes made and they think that the way they treat her is ok.
@@yolandafernandez4651 yes. You can’t go back all you can do is move forward in life. And to her children with children they will get what they dish because absent or present the disrespect is past ridiculous.
@@yolandafernandez4651 It’s normal for that to happen when the parent don’t make amends with ALL sincerity for the past. The recovery has to be just as loud as the addiction was. You can’t just come back and jump in parent mode because the trust is lost. There’s too much trauma. They need counseling on a weekly basis to reach forgiveness. Right now everybody’s concerned with their own pain.
Therapy is needed ASAP..
@@yolandafernandez4651 she also stripped their childhood away from them, made them learn to depend on themselves at a young age when your brain begs for parental love. These girls have every right to feel how they do.
She abandoned her children, and doesn’t think she’s at fault for their pain smh.
Foster care is difficult, and mom abandoning them, they have a strong right to feel the way they do.
They need to be proud of how far they got in life.
The don't have the right to beat and disrespect thier mother never and never
@@MerveilleloveTamegnewhy does she deserve respect when she doesn't respect no one. They shouldn't be violent but what did she teach them.
@@damiagunbiadeI have seen people who grew up in foster homes they are very polite and respectful these are just spoiled ladies without respect inspite of being addicted she was there for them , beating her and insulting her it's a no a mother is a mother no matter the situation .
I just want to say that Kayla has grown into a beautiful woman and I’m so sorry that you had to endure that growing up. Hearing you speak and articulate your feelings and emotions is absolutely beautiful. Praying for you
Both the women
she is not well emotionally. she beat up the mother. those were her true colors when she said her male side will come out. idk why they are denying it. she is so aggressive. if she doesn't fix it she will go down a dark path
@@deusexmachina9776 Would you be? Emotionally well, I mean. Facing the trauma of being separated from your mother and siblings. Being raped for 10 years of your (young) life. Coming of age with a mother who not only has an extremely fragile sense of accountability, but also can't avoid being hurtful about your personal truth regarding your gender. She held up a heck of a lot better than I probably would have, to be honest.
@@trinaroach2832 thing is they are acting like she didn't beat the mother but that aggression shows she did it. Also she is acting like she is better but clearly need a lot of psychological help
@@deusexmachina9776 I think you have the two siblings mixed up. Kayla is female. Melony is male.
Coming from a child who was in foster care with a mother who was addicted for over 20 years (even before I was born). I will say all of them need immense individual therapy. I was able to forgive my mother and she took full accountability so it worked well for me. The mother needs accountability and the daughters need a little understanding that’s all :) praying for this family 🥹
And good thing you didn't come out jacked when your mom wasn't sober when she was pregnant with you.
@@kekejefferson9219 True! I’m very grateful .
Yess it’s going to take THE LORD JESUS CHRIST TO HEAL THEM AMD THEIR SITUATION
THANK YOU JESUS 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
You’re so strong ❤
I don’t understand why it’s hard to take accountability when you have failed your child or children. Dismissing your kid/ kid’s feelings as an absent parent it not the way to ease year of abandonment and resentment. Whatever you are going through or have been through does not trump your kid/ kids feelings, You had them ! Being a parent is such a selfless love, it’s not for the selfish at heart!
Still no reason to put your hands on your own mother. WTF are you talking about?
@@prettygirltee8 PERIOD!! AND HONESTLY IT DIDN'T SOUND LIKE TO ME SHE WASN'T TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY FOR HER ACTIONS I THINK IF THEY GAVE HER TIME TO SHE WOULD'VE SAID MORE
@@prettygirltee8 umm mother is a title You earn from your kids. They don’t view her as a mother. She’s simply a woman they really don’t like!
I’m tryna figure out where the father is in this, i hadn’t heard none of them bring up where his part was to play…, all moms fault? Nah where is the dad 🤦🏽♀️
@@MutedSins26 If they see her that way, why even go on the show? How about they move out and live on their own and stop using this women as a punching bag? Their uncontrolled behaviors left no room for conversation.
i wish his show had more time, i feel like he’d really be able to come to a genuine happy ending if there was just a little more time
I’m Dominican but I have a Puerto Rican adoptee cousin. She was taken in by my family because both her parents were on drugs and in and out of jail. Both from New York as well. Most Puerto Ricans and Dominicans reside in NYC. I knew the type of case this was within the first 2 minutes . We don’t know exactly what Norma was going through but I pray these kids get some type of Justice for this because this was clearly traumatic as hell for them.
Been here done this with my parent . Honestly they will not get the apology or half the parent they want until she really heals and holds herself accountable and mean it . They had a horrible upbringing and she can’t even acknowledge that . That speaks volumes . This didn’t happen for me until I was in my 30’s. I wish them all the best . Addiction is no joke
Thereisnorxcusems.mam.
She took them there to put them on blast. I’m praying for all 7 of them kids because they deserve better. God bless them their anger is based in pain. I pray their pain is healed. You all be better parents than you have had. Be better people than you have come across. ❤❤❤
That's what really got me. Not seeking support to reconcile on the show, but to flaunt your supposed victimhood in their faces via hoped-for support from the host and audience...
The mother have to accept that her kids felt abandoned by her. The kids has to realize because you’re hurt you don’t have to be disrespectful ESPECIALLY to the point of putting hands on her
Exactly
They didn't thought that was the other sister supposedly so yea
Karomo should have checked them for talking disrespectful to their mother.. not right
@Shanequa Newkirk Are you serious? She abandoned them for drugs and is indignant about it. Do you think she should get away with that because she had sex, got pregnant, then neglected the kids she had who didn't ask to be here? Is that logical to you?
@@shanequanewkirk2029 Girl bye. She disrespectful herself
I think the mom was telling the truth when she was explaining why she called acs on her daughter in the pink and that’s why she was trying to shut her down so hard because she didn’t want to be embarrassed but she wants to embarrass her mom, this whole situation is off.
The pink girl is very disrespectful
Yes and they definitely was beating up on there mom because why would Melody say I’ll beat anybody up lol like what
@Latrice2YouBoo that part rite there is the nail on the head
I love the way the sibling love one another. Just trying to give each other what they think they need. Thats all we can do when we're abandoned by our parent. So as we grow and even have our own children, we dont understand how they did what they did to us. We see the love for our own and we just dont get it. Praying for this family every step of the way. ❤
There is too much trauma for their relationship to be worked out on a show.This much disrespect and hostility is bound to end up in physical aggression.They should NEVER put their hands on their mother, so maybe it's best that they stay away from each other until they can get some kind of family counseling with a mediator.
Do you think is the host wants you to text him.
Because he sent that same number in my comment for me to text him.
I did on WhatsApp
But I don't know if it's him🙆🏽♀️
@@nicolagordon6490 I don't know if it's legit because I get those messages whenever I leave a comment on different sites, but I never tried to text them.
@@trinathompson8587
Thank you. I block that number
So what if your mom puts her hands on you do you still not do anything but besides that they didn't hit her the claim was the other sister did one that wasn't on the show but I do think they need time away from eachother.
@@syniahare8630 Exactly! The hands off applies to all of them,and that includes mom.
The moms ponytail- omg
It’s the tit for tat for me. Parents like this are so delusional because of their own trauma. 😢
That part.
Yes, they all need (intensive) long-term therapy.
No offense but I would slap the mom silly, so annoying
The mom was definitely talking the truth, about that daughter leaving her kids
Thank you !!!!!
Yup and for Karamo(per usual) to not take control over the conversation is crazy. Her daughters were able to talk prior, so let this woman tell her story without constant interruptions! Geesh
It was the daughter in pink look evil
Well it’s hypocritical for her to talk about that when she abandoned them first
@@sistamya9981 that part 😂
Somehow I get the mother's perspective. She had an issue for years.
I feel sad for the younger one who was SA for all those years. I pray they heal.
This episode left me speechless
They’re all wrong . That’s all I have lol
I agree 💯 They are all broken 💔
The Mom need to own up and the daughter's need to try to understand
I pray for them 🙏🏾
Thank You
Most definitely, not just the mum
Exactly!! Not just the Mom it’s the kids to.. I’m sick of these People talking about the Mom the only one wrong NAWL I wouldn’t talk to my Mom like this and I swear my Mom Didn’t raise me but I respect her and I’ll never curse around her are nothing and I’m 40 with 5 kids.. I’ll never chose a Man Are Drugs before them though..
Unfortunately addiction is a disease but that does not give the right to these kids to be so disrespectful and physically abusive to the mom at the time she thought she was doing the right thing unfortunately years later she realized it was a big mistake. Children don’t come with instructions as parents we do what we think is the right thing at that moment. And these kids are beyond cruel abusive and disrespectful to the mom. Therefore they need to stay apart from each other but the kids refuse to leave the mom alone. Too much to the story I can write a book about all this family drama. (Insider)
Okay, so everybody wrong. First and foremost, the mother can’t expect respect from her children when they consistently feel abandoned. As a child who grew up with a drug addicted mother, I OVERSTAND their frustration. However, they can’t snap at her at every conversation…it’ll get them no where. They need to learn to love their mother from a far. There will be no resolve if mom doesn’t acknowledge, apologize and change her behaviors & the daughters have to be OPEN and receptive to whatever changes mom makes. It’s a process but everyone has to be willing to let the past go because it literally does not serve them.
@♜þinned by Karamo Show not you out here tryna scam folks
Exactlyyyy! They are all wrong and all hurting ❤
@@MzKane313 nah if mom wanted to get off those drugs she should have got off, i dont feel bad for no one thats on drugs. go get fucking help if u wanna change.
They don’t need to love her or respect her. They need her GONE.
@@Dee52790 this. Show. Is. A. Blessing. To. People. Thank. You.
I am a mother of one and I will never understand the addiction to illegal drugs because I didn't travel that path. I do however have family members who were addicted and with the one's that couldn't get it together it was family members that banded together to raise their children. Every child born into the world deserves the love and obligations of their parents. Addicted parents need to understand that their children are sometimes broken inside and the children are the victims of their addiction. Once the parents are in recovery they need to know that they need to stop denying the damage that was done. Drugs destroy families and communities. Listen to the children and swallow the pain that they feel and the hurt that they have experienced. Therapy and counseling is needed individually and as a family and hopefully they can began to mend.
Kayla voice is so cute lol 😂 “ So it’s okay are you to call us monstasss” 😂😂
Idc there’s no excuse not to be there for your children. My mother had 7 kids and was a single mother and took care of us with no problem! We struggled because she was a single mom but she did that! Mind you we were stepping stones! 😂 Back to back! Shout out to my mom! Rip queen I miss you ❤️🫶🏾
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my parents were born in africa my mom had her first kid at 14 and bc of that both my parents couldn’t finish school but their so smart and she has 7 kids total and my dad stayed with my mom for 25+ yrs and now my mom is a nurse and caregiver and my dad works for a construction company but we were raised pretty well we don’t take things for granted and learned a lot from our parents I think my parents are truly blessings from God and I am very lucky to have have them as my parents also this video is a good example of why some ppl aren’t meant to be parents💕
Unless your mom was on drugs I don't see the point you making being valid.
Just cause u can have children doesn't mean u should
Norma destroyed her own life!!! Quit blaming your daughters!!! Quit calling your daughters horrible names!!! What mother does that? A good mother wouldn't call their children horrible names. Norma needs to take responsibility for her own actions.
So if some beat you up & talked to you like that all of the time you wouldn’t called them a monster? That’s actually nice of her to say about them. Yes, she’s wrong & needs to take accountability, but they way that they talk is disgusting!
I can relate my mom did the same thing 💯
@reesa cup oh please. Parents who bitch about their kids are delusional. She is the exact reason why they turned out how they are. Parents who can't take accountability and demonize their kids are WEAK and have no maturity or understanding. Repeat is EARNED. She has not earned it. Period
@@tdcleveland09they talk to her like that cause she’s clearly a shitty mother
I know how they feel. My mother was an alcoholic and took handfuls of sleeping pills to where she was always passed out and out of it. I was 12 and my dad rushed me to the hospital because i was throwing up nonstop and it hurt so bad. Anyway, even when i was at the hospital, it took like day 4 for her to show up... And the times she wasn't there, CPS kept asking me questions wanting me to explain why i had a stress ulcer at 12 and i lied and said i was overwhelmed with school. Memories freaking suck.... When people have hard childhoods, there should be some type of procedure you can erase every traumatic memory and you can get a new start at life.
This is heartbreaking. Nas, you are a beautiful person don’t allow anyone to steal who you are, it’s time to move on. Love yourself! Be good to yourself! You deserve the best and the Best is waiting for you.
God Bless You
This was the realest episode. Clearly shows how the talk and the walk are so different. And it takes WORK, a LOT of work to have your actions match your intentions. They both deserve empathy. But if they want to be together and have 1 family unit for their kids... They need to do some work for themselves before they can achieve that. You cannot pour from an empty cup, and you have to put on the oxygen mask on yourself before helping others.
Omg Karamo, you are such a blessing! I can’t get enough of your compassion, communication, style, Grace, honesty and genuine love. 🫶
So much hurt, the mother is admitting she did her best as a drug addict and the children needed more. Where were the fathers and extended family?
She earned every ounce of that disrespect, I’m glad they not letting her lie and gaslight them in front of all these people.
I disagree!!!! Somebody should be a bigger person. And 2 wrongs don't make a right periodt!
@@sabrayachestnut9577 Why is it always the VICTIM who's called to be the "bigger person", though? They not only have to deal with their trauma, but also carry the weight on the responsibility, too????? #NOPE
@@trinaroach2832 you answer that for yourself. I was brought up to obey your mother and thy father!!! Like I said respectfully Somebody should be a bigger person. And 2 wrongs don't make a right periodt!!!!
What did that disrespect earn them though? How has beating up their mom (which the male child literally confessed to doing and threatened to do again) benefiting them? Then one of them has a child who one day might grow up to see that her mother and uncle behaved like this for the world to see.
@@MissLadyG99spot on.
People just wanna be right so bad that they act out their anger and frustration only to realise they cause so much damage 😢
Honor your mother and Father
Your dayz will be longer on this earth.
Parents don't provoke your children to anger.
Yep. Both are true and necessary.
going through this right now with my two younger sisters and its crazy how both of our parents act just like there mom smh, when you have parents that you just gotta cut them off.
Everybody in this situation is acting out of pain. Your pain does not give you the right to be disrespectful and say hurtful things to one another. They need group and individual counseling. The mother calls them monsters and they get mad...but expect her not to react to them putting their hands on her. The 22yr old literally said " when it's her time to go to the king ..don't call me. I don't care " and the girl in the pink is obviously following her mother's footsteps if she believes leaving her children alone at home to be with a man is ok. I hope they all get the help they need.
I agree. The transgender one actually admitted to beating up the mom before and threatened to do it again.
Why is it the mothers always get the backlash but fathers are never held accountable as well. Mothers are always being attacked,but these children don't realize how much stressful it is to raise children alone,and also why don't they attack the fathers the way the do the mothers. Most of the time it's always the mothers that stick around even though they don't always do their best.
Who needs enemies when you have a mother like that.
as a mother u owe ur kids everything that’s what being a mother is about and for her to sit there and say she owes them nothing u can’t be surprised that they want nothing to do with u. she wasn’t the only person they had. all they had was each other that’s who they really had
People in the comments talking about the kids are disrespectful are ridiculous. Parents OWE their children accountability. From the time you you don't protect your babies you open the door for whatever resentment they harbor. All yall saw was disrespect chikdren to a parent. But I saw hurt children angry that their mother couldn’t do the basics of motherhood and they're not trying to let her in becauase they refuse to let her tear them down when they had to build themselves up by themselves. I don't blame him, I blame her.
Beautifully well stated!!!!
Yeah these kids are disrespectful to the fullest. We all go through something, THE good and the bad. If your mother was such a piece of shit and ya still traumatized by it. You let this monster who let you fall to the system take care of yours?🤦🏽♀️. Make it make sense… Why would you even consider of putting your kids through this cycle if you don’t want no parts of her? They all have problems and drugs can mess up families. I know to well.
@@goldeycoats6502 if you listened closely the mom clearly lied about taking care of her children. That’s what highly narcissistic people do. They make up delusional lies to make them sound good.
You're right
People forgets that moms are human. Understand that she has issues. The fact that she has been addicted to drugs literally means that she had issues. I had a drug addicted mother and i love my mother. I had issues with her for years. It took therapy and held her accountable, but as a mother of grown kids myself I learned like me my mom is human and deserves grace like all humans. Its understandable how the kids feel but empathy is missing from both sides.
I'm glad u realised after being a parent.
I hope they do too.
U are right
This decision of hers impacted 7 KIDS tho...
@@3rdelement10right. Are her children not human as well? She let her pain and decision to ruin her own life caused her to bring children into the world with no chance of survival…being human includes understanding ppl will eventually get fed up with your BS regardless of what you’re going through when whole time everybody going through stuff and somebody’s baggage they’re specifically going through is YOU😂 I forgave my mom but she didn’t understand until I explained to her I understood she’d been through things in her life before I was born but me being her child my entire life has been dealing with her ish.
Nobodies perfect I’m sure she was an addict before she was even dropping them kids the whole situation is sad but it’s life
So you feel like they should respect when you’ve done nothing to be respected for? GOTCHA!
First and Foremost...My heart goes out to these young ladies!
Most woman can have children, but not all are fit to be Mothers...Case and Point !
I thank goodness my Mother and Father were fit and loving parents.
That’s a whole ahh dude and u calling him a women… would u call him a woman in Jesus Face
@@Roads2RichesRickkkits scary his trauma is evident and they’re letting him express himself this way. It’s clear he needs help to express those feelings. As a child being taken advantage of for 10 years is DEEP.
All three of them are so mean to one another. The kids have no respect for her and she thinks they are monsters 😕 it is so heartbreaking
What is there to respect? Drugs, abandoning her children, bringing multiple boyfriends. What exactly is there to respect.
I understand they mad that she wasn't in their lives but i don't care what my mom did or didn't do for under no circumstances is ok you hit or curse your mother out just stay away from her
Sounds like she was a terrible mother and the kids had terrible experiences in foster care. They may never get the apology they need/deserve and they have to accept that. She did a shitty job as a mother. You got a raw deal, go to therapy, distance yourself from your mother, and move on. Sounds like the daughter is as good of a mother as her mother was to her. Leaving your kids?? That touched a nerve for sure.
I wish every ending was happy but that isn’t reality.
This.
I hope they get the emotional help they need this is sad and crazy
“We not gonna talk about that” before it was even said 😭 she definitely did that
Sometimes we end up with a horrible parent. Tough luck. We can’t make a person change, regardless of whether they person is our mom or not.
This is hurtful to watch, I pray for they’re healing in Jesus name Amen 🤍 no matter what that women is your mother and should always respect your Mother
I would stay completely away from my mother if she was toxic before I would disrespect her like that. My childhood was horrible because of my mothers heroine addiction. The unspeakable things me and my siblings had to endure because of her addiction were atrocious. But by God’s Amazing grace, I was able to overcome and break a vicious cycle that ran through our family. My mother saw better and began to do better. She overcame her addiction, got her life together, and she and I became the best of friends when before we had no relationship because she was very abusive. She took accountability and apologized for what she put us through and she went above and beyond being a better mother and grandmother (we were now grown).I wouldn’t trade her for nothing. I would choose her again if I had to. I love my Moma! Never give up on your mother. God is able to change and heal all of the damage done. But all of these people are toxic. They will wind up doing the same to their own kids if they don’t change their attitudes. This is sad 😔
but that’s because your mother wanted to change. this woman would rather hide behind lies than face her truth. point blank.
It’s not for you to judge how they feel or how they deal with their trauma based on your experience. Stop it.
understand what the girls been through, I've been given up at the age 6 and grew up in foster care all my life and ended up in the streets, but I chose to be responsible for my own life and actions as an adult...it was cringing to see how they speak so aggressively to their mother it made me uncomfortable...a lot of healing needs to take place its all so sad..if y'all can't love one another then leave each other alone..
Are we supposed to accept them grossly disrespecting and/or beating their mom because she’s a jerk mother!??
Exactly, still your mom is your mom, you don't beat her ....
@@shweta3590 Even “June Cleaver” can’t be everywhere to protect their child from everything. Forgiveness is for YOU…not for her. An unforgiving heart holds only itself hostage. Beating her either mentally or physically only ADDS to the victim’s issues.
@@shweta3590 that is not a judgement for you or I or anyone to make as she is not your or my or anyone else’s mother but theirs and those girls will have to answer to Divine Justice for intentionally harming the vessel used to give them life unintentionally causing them to have an unhappy childhood…,all because the vessel had a crack in it as if yours doesn’t have a single one. Forgive your parents. For YOU to be free. The mother forgave herself to free herself and she shows us it wasn’t easy as water rolling over log for her to do it. The hell you go to is the one you choose. They could choose to be a lot more understanding and so could everyone else.
I mean, nobody is even talking about that, if i was dis mother, i wol abandon de kids nd liv.
Exactly these ppl in the comments justifying it is disgusting
One thing people have to understand is that parents are human too and they have their own walk. Nobody is happily choosing to be on drugs and abandon their children but that is the way her life went. The longer they spend being upset with her for the path her took her on the longer they will be harming their own children. No way the one in the pink kids don't have residual hurt. Look how hurt she is. Her kids feel it, no doubt.
You are very wise 😮
Ion see why people always on the kids side no one would let the mother speak at all. 😢 I believe the mother they showed they real side.
I know!
because most these people are these types of young kids and are disrespectful as hell lol, like our parents and grand parents had hard lives it's not a excuse BUT they didn't have the things/tools my generation has today. I am 30 and my grandmother raised me and I've heard the abuse and the stories she had and I can understand why she is the way she is, and being a parent there was no guide there was no youtube tutorial video on how to be a parent but these generations don't seem to get it. I think it's both sides, it's apparent the mother wasn' there in terms of them being in foster care and her having 7 kids and all of them taken away without being married is kind of sad. She should of got fixed if she wasn't going to take care of them unfortunately.
Right he threatened to beat her up that’s crazy as hell
Awful
It's crazy because the "transgender" literally threatened to beat moms up and karamo said nothing like fr
It sounds like all 3 of them need to understand one another. I’m a child that struggle with trauma but let’s be honest… these new kids different. If they’re THAT toxic, keep it pushing and live your life. Once you stay and start spewing out the same hate, you’re now on that person’s level. Karamo… I’m worried about where you obtained that psychology degree lol
Every situation is different though
I hope therapy was offered to all family members that are open to it. Unless you have disrespectful adult children you will never ever understand. Parents have trauma just as their children do. No one ever has the right to abuse anyone in any way. My sister and I agreed as our children grew up there should be a law against children who emotionally abuse their parents. Adult children must stop blaming their parents for their own poor choices. My mother did the best she knew and could at the time. I would never threaten her. I have her back no matter what. I have and will always love my children it doesn't mean I always like them vice versa I am sure. I agree 100% the adult child should have never been allowed to threaten beat up the mother regardless of how angry they are.
You can tell her kids are messy and do not want her to tell the truth about them
I feel bad for these girls. The mother is actually getting a taste of what she truly deserves.
THE ONE IN THE BROWN IS A MAN😟
This was sad. My mothers mom was an addict and left my mother. My mother doesn’t treat her mother like this. At first my mother had a lot of pain but she forgave my grandmother. No therapy just listening and understanding each others pain. This is awful because they are holding so much anger to their mother to the point it’s physical. The mother seems to be giving back what they give to her. After awhile no one is gonna let someone disrespect or put hands on them with out getting the same back.
Right THEY DISRESPECTFUL AS HELL TO THE MOTHER so I believe EVERYTHING the mother said.. they hurt and treat her any kind of way which is wrong idc that's their MOTHER they shouldn't disrespect her like that I see why she call them monsters
They don't need to be in each others' lives...
A part 2 or Part 3 is required to sort this mess out.
As someone who is in foster care I’m so grateful I wasn’t raped or Constantly beaten. I just had a money hungry, mental abusing foster family. I’ve heard so many stories from other girls 🤮🤮
I love their accents
You like people that can’t speak well 😁
Mom was wrong but them kids are way too disrespectful. Lawd
Sheeshhh. I'm African and my mom is toxic at times BUT it would be a cold day in HELL to EVER disrespect my mother in person let alot on national TV.
And?
why should they respect the woman that abandoned them
OK purple I so agree with u because no matter what your mom did u still supposed to respect and love your mother no matter what that's what God would want u to do
Raped for ten years in a foster home that could’ve been avoided and you asking for respect hell nah
I’m so glad my childhood was decent. It was 7 children and my mom and dad. I pray they can forgive each other and make amends but if not move on with their life. The kids may be angry n hurt but the disrespectful as hell. Mom need some help too, the whole family. 🙏🏽
@♜þinned by Karamo Show I agree with you The whole family need Therapy I couldn't believe how they was talking to they mother like what the lady said disrespectful me your be getting pick up from the floor Thank God only have one child And 6 grand boys And they all respect iful young man one take care of me since I been disabled And I Thank God for him all my grandshave respect for the Elderly people tell me all the time how respectful they are I Thank God none have any baby run around her And they young man 20 to 30 years old and finish school and work
These girls are the way they are because MOMS DECISIONS. You get the treatment you deserve. I hope these kids stay away from her.
I thought the one in the brown was a transgender...that Adam's apple 🍎
The other one is a boy.
THANK YOU!
You shouldn’t hope that seriously
@@ETayy I’ll hope how I see fit thanks :) it’s obvious that woman’s not accountable for her actions or the role she played so yeah
These 2 young women needs to live their lives and forget about their mother , and hope and pray 🙏 that the circle doesn't continue . They know what their mother did and why they were taken away , what happened , happened, can't change the past , but yes you could change the future . This relationship between mother and daughter , can't never be fixed , they all lost respect for one another . Praying that God could heal these 2 young women hearts ❤️
The other a boy
These types of parents are always the same, they cause pain and destruction in their wake but only acknowledge the pain they feel and not what they cause. She will never take accountability. You just love them from a distance to protect yourself. I also don’t think she’s fully sober!
This is the kind of respect you get from your kids when you give them up to foster care.😢
Not true. Plenty of kids who grew up in foster care and don't disrespect their parents like this. Let's not make excuses for bad behavior. None of us had perfect upbringings and most of us don't put hands on our parents or cuss them out.
I absolutely love karamo. He is a real man!!
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Until the mother is ready to genuinely humble herself and take accountability her relationship with her children will forever be fractured
I grew up in the foster care system as well. I get that the daughters have trauma. However, the mom has her problems as well and she wasn’t trying to deny the problems that she face. I have also seen family members on drugs and have a addiction it is hard for them to get out of and the mom put them in foster care bc that’s what the system give you no other choice but to do. Some parents completely stick to the drugs and just leave their kids alone. But the mom made time and for that they should be grateful. Instead of hearing all sides the doctors wanted to talk over and threaten and the oldest daughter is the bully and the other sister is following. This is something he shouldn’t have put on the show bc nothing was fixed respectfully.
I agree with every word you said
The sisters are pretty asf
no.
@@patiencepierre you look and sound like a hater boo
hell no
They’re pretty but their attitudes stink
The one in the pink was born a female the other is a male wanna be a female
These are some disrespectful kids I love my mom she wasn’t there I would never beat my mom up I will never disrespect her or threaten her it’s not enough in this world that would put fear in my mom
I don't see how Karamo says that he's fair, but he let these two rude (fill in the blank) disrespect their mom like that. Yes I understand that they are upset with her, but you can talk to her in a respectful way without all the cursing. He should've held them accountable the same way he held the mom accountable.
She needs to tell her daughters she was a bad mother and apologize to them.
I love this man doing what all the other shows in this format could never: healing people.
Parents who raised kids tangled in their trauma will do every flip, juke, crossover, run, ANYTHING but take accountability. Their truth is it. No one else’s truth in relation to the things they did to hurt the kids matter.
The audacity that woman has is incredible!
The daughter in the pink need her own show
The daughters are so cute!
daughter* brown jacket one is a man
@@luvvjoanaaawas shocked no one talked about that
@@luvvjoanaaaI knew it
I thought I was the only one trying to figure it out 😭
The fact that Melody's rape wasnt addressed is sick asf. The mom wasnt like im so sorry you had to go through that or anything KARAMO said "im so sorry" and shes just another woman on his show. That is terrifically sad dude
I’m sure ‘Melody’ is a he.
that’s sad but that’s a man not “another woman”
The mother wasn’t on stage when Melody mentioned it
@@luvvjoanaaa does that matter?
@@Nothingisreal1737 why tf does that matter? Explain
This was so hard to watch🥺
@2:42 I love what she says, they(the parent) should take some accountability. The flip side is what if you(the parent) has taken responsibility, by expressing it, and the kids still don’t get it?
I am going from a biblical standpoint. She is their mother your days will be limited by the way that you treat your mother. no mother is born with a hand book. Unfortunately, we have a lot of family members that are battling with addiction. And I understand it is hard, but no matter what you have to be the one to forgive. They may never receive that apology from their mother, but they need to forgive her in their hearts because it’ll only hurt them. What happened in the past cannot be change, but the future can be better. Sometimes we have to ALL grow up and accept things as they are. They all need intense therapy however, that mother got that black eye no one is right in the situation and no one is healed in the situation. But if we believe that there is a father above, that will take the pain away, and that will heal us, and that we need to have a forgiving heart and a loving spirit. Then we cannot continue the cycle of placing blame, but starting the cycle of forgiveness with or without an apology.
Stop making excuses for horrible Mothers. You don’t know how long their lives will be. You people just apply scriptures to anything to justify nonsense. The Mom is lucky her days haven’t been limited doing drugs and being a crack slore.
This mother is not right smh and that pony tail is sending me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I feel for the kids.. I understand the pain they feel and anger is only coming from a hurt place. I also know the truth behind the older you get the wiser you become.. that may not be exactly true for everyone but I do think this mother regrets a lot of things.. she just settles on the fact that she can’t go back and fix things but I don’t think that’s to say she doesn’t love her kids. She should still keep trying to put in the effort regardless of the set backs.. just because their not babies anymore doesn’t mean they’re not your children. I wish them all healing..
The daughter in pink is annoying!!! She over-talked her mom when she told that story...her voice is ek. But they need counseling...BAD!
Karamo was wrong for letting any child sit on his stage & tell their mother on tv that they will beat anybody ass. Wrong asf!! Letting any child bully their mother out their feelings is CRAZY!! The older one is outta line & need their ass whooped bc you only popping shit like that to your mom. Smh Karamo should’ve really played fair & defend the mother as well not just the children
I agree! WTH!
Yup!
And let the daughter call her mom a b
I agree
Yes he was wrong asf
Those drugs have fried her brain. Kids are disrespectful and have absolutely no respect for this woman. She’s got no respect for herself.
The one in the pink has had to be the protector and the peacemaker. She was probably her mom’s biggest champion when she was in foster care because she had to be the fixer. She’s trying her best to parent with what she has been taught. God bless this whole family and especially those seven kids.
The daughter and son are both insanely disrespectful and not genuine, while the mother isn’t the greatest she admits to that, however the children refuse to acknowledge their own wrong doings whilst claiming that the mother doesn’t when it’s clearly not the case
She wasn’t doing none of that for healing, she did it for sympathy and validation even tho personally I feel she’s wrong af. I’m glad her children grew into beautiful independent women with good heads on their shoulders 🙏🏻🌟❤️