Man this broke my heart. The minute she walked out and started talking I knew there was something deeper than the surface. People yell when they have a history of not being heard…
@@keepitreal335 Tbh It’s Not Even All About That Tho I Don’t Think She’s Ungrateful I Think She’s More Hurt From Feeling Like She Can’t Run To Her Mom About Anything… My Mom Never Been There For Me Physically, Mentally & Emotionally! It’s Way Deeper Than The Mom Just Helping Her Out With Her Child
@@sabrina21clark Idk I’m Not Her Only She Can Answer That… I Feel Exactly How She Feels Day By Day I’m Taking Different Steps To Get Through This The Only Thing Different Is Her Mom Still In Her Life Mine Wasn’t There & Still Not There…
You can clearly see the mom has been holding a grudge on her from when she went to jail. Her daughter told her she was RAPED multiple times and she didn’t even flinch. The child is a direct reflection of the parent
Let me say what I’ve seen from young family members. Some will say they were raped to shut you down. And it works. I had to stop my niece from using that tactic because it is extremely harmful. And in her case, she falsely blamed young man we knew. There are real victims out there, and then there are the others.
@@thinkaboutit155unless you had solid evidence he didn’t commit the act, you were suppose to trust that baby… and maybe offer him the benefit of the doubt
@thinkaboutit155, how do you know she lied? I'm asking because I've seen ppl recant an accusation because they were scared and ashamed when ppl didn't believe them.
I could see the break through in both of them. You can tell the daughter just wants to be heard, she yells, screams and tries to rush and talk because nobody listens and the only way to express those suppressed feelings is by screaming or lashing out. Her mom really does love her, they both just have a lot of unlearning to do and I’m praying that God continues to reconcile their relationship ❤
I don't like this daughter. I truly don't. She wants her mother to excuse her bad behavior and her mother is holding her accountable for it. She's lucky that she has someone who cares enough to do that. The daughter is a piece of work! If I were the mother, I'd tell her to go and live her own life and to not come back until she grows up! What a RUDE girl!
@@b.u.dmusic9424 I respect your opinion but you don’t know either of their stories in depth to pass judgement, especially from a small segment of a conversation. Children aren’t perfect and parents aren’t either. To not know your child was raped says a lot about their relationship as a whole. Again, we don’t know their story only what they chose to share for a few minutes. They both have a lot of unlearning to do, this issue isn’t one sided-it’s both.
@b.u.dmusic9424 I agree with you. These are circumstances the daughter created on her own. If her mom is around to help her, then she should close her mouth and listen. If she wants her mom to listen, then yelling at her, won't work. It hadn't worked for anyone in the past. She is yelling because she thinks that justifies her actions but it doesn't. She is an entitled daughter who needs to realize her mom don't have to do those things. She does them because she cares and she is a real mom. Her daughter has to calm down & learn to listen. Even when the mom asked her a question (Do you think it will be hard to get custody of him) She chose attitude, instead of answering honestly because answering honestly will require her to take ownership in WHAT SHE CREATED.... I pray these queens find healing and repair their love. It's clear thr love is there......❤❤ Lord keep this family together.
I hate she was taken advantage of & that is what is going to bring their relationship full circle ❤She needs loving through that & I pray mom can & I have faith she will love her through it
@@shawn6986 Damn you got all that from my comment. 1st off I don't compete with NOBODY, my mom and I do get along but we have our moments & that's all you need to know. I was just tryna say I feel for the daughter.
@@shawn6986girl shut up cause if anything 😅God didn’t make our parents better than nb we all equal bookie if you think ur mother is better than u should be trying get on this show cause ain’t no way u just said that to her yo generation must be f** up bad baby girl
If anything u not hearing her out cause yo mother must’ve been a bad person lol she must’ve failed u her mom should want her to be better not below her not to the point where she still makes her cause n it’s crazy cause my aunty n I go thru the same thing she still makes me cry n I only cry so I won’t start disrespecting her I got so much respect for her n I love her is really what she trying say
@@shawn6986Complete BS! Her mom is NOT better than her just because she is older than her! Don't you dare invalidate someone's feelings! 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
I literally cried with her! Like , sometimes parents need to just stop talking and actually listen to what their kids are telling them. That's the only way that issues can be solved. 🤷🏽♀️
One thing I've learn as a mom of an 7 and 6 year old, they are just tiny humans. They have feelings and emotions as well. I always give them a space to talk to me and always let them know their feelings and emotions matter. They can be angry cause I get angry too. We are all human and have to treat them as such. They want someone to talk to and who is better than their mom and without judgement!
i’m 18 yrs old & this is literally the perfect example of the relationship my mother and i have. this episode made me so emotional because i see myself in the daughter… i just want to be heard and i wish my mom could understand that. i’m happy that they were able to come together and both take steps towards bettering their relationship. i wish the same for me and my mom.
@@bigmovietv7339 U are beautiful & I pray that God heals u and your mom relationship. One day at a time babygirl. I have both living parents, neither have raised me or did no type of parenting. My grandma who is in her mid 90's raised me but now she's much older and as a Nurse Assistant Im starting to see all the love my grandma had for me is much different now because of her old age. I accept all the bull crap now because I've learned taking care of elderly ppl for 20 yrs now is how they act sometimes. So I'll hold on to all the good memories my grandma and I once had. Take care babygirl & continue to be a great mom to your son. You and your mom will be fine❤
My best advice my father told me... when we hear loud voices people want to cover their ears. When whisper people lean in to hear you. I have used silence as my way through many uncomfortable situations as when I do loud it makes people run. Whisper and see who really wants to hear you .... your momma loves you as you are a reflection of herself. Accountability is something that will heal you. Being louder isn't righter .....❤
@@All5AJz Agreed, but it's hard to get past trauma responses without proper healing/therapy. A lot of people who respond loudly do so because they whispered before, but no one listened.
I think the daughter is upset because her mother looks at her like a bad person. Like she’s always up to no good and she’s ruining her life. As if she’s a criminal and her mom has to keep her locked up at home. That whatever she does her mom will not be proud and will always have something negative to say and she’s tired of it. All the anger has bottled up. All her daughter wants is to see what she sees and that she’s trying to better herself. Moms want the better for their kids and are hard on them to be better and excel in everything. But you have to keep in mind that kids aren’t robots. They have feelings and emotions.
I loved the emotional progress they made. Her mom listening literally meant everything to her. Sometimes people scream because they don’t feel heard. Great mediating, Karamo!!!
The moment the man asked the mum to just listen and then she started pouring her heart out, mahn that broke me. Sometimes all we need is just someone who listens to us. Someone we can confide in and feel safe to communicate with.
The mom seemed to be more upset about her not communicating her sexual assault with her than she was about the actual assault. That’s how my mom did me.
Wow! So random. I was neighbors and went to elementary school with Ca’Varri. She was a great friend from what I can remember! I’m so glad to see her but hurt by everything I see she’s been through. I wish you the best girly hope you see this! ❤
you are loved, you are appreciated, and you are important. i'm so sorry to hear that you are not being listened to by your parents. if you ever need to talk, your school should have a counseling system that you can use. i know that for me they made all the difference in how i dealt with issues i felt I couldn't share with my parents. i hope you will be listened to soon.
Jesus loves you!! He died on a cross for you and rose again on the 3rd day because He loves you and you’re very special and precious in His sight❤ He wants a relationship with you and He wants to heal you from any trauma you’ve gone through ❤
I think the mom regrets how she raised her and has to face it every time her daughter does something she deems no longer acceptable. Her problem is that she isn’t taking accountability for the part she played in it and instead is trying to ignore it and force new behaviors. This is probably why she shuts her down in conversation because those hard conversations forces her to look in the mirror. Her judgement of her daughter is really her judgement of herself, whether it’s the old her, new her or somewhere in between. She would be better off acknowledging that she taught her what she thought was right at the time and that she now realizes there is a better way. She should be patient w/ her daughter and help her integrate into this new way of living instead of crucifying her for being what she taught her to be. Our community has to learn how to hold ourselves accountable past, present and future rather than sweeping things under the rug and pretending it doesn’t exist. This will never be effective. & I believe she means well for sure. Our children NEED us to be the accountable and apologetic adults our parents didn’t know how or refused to be. These children are a reflection of how they are raised and we cannot forget that. Whether it’s how they are actively raised or the lack thereof. To hold them accountable is to hold ourselves accountable.
Her mother homeschool her, so what should she hold herself accountable for? Wanting to shield and protect her child. That’s a grown woman going around fighting people! That’s embarrassing!!
@@camillerainey6557 Behavior her MOTHER taught her. Point that finger but 10 are pointing back at you. I can tell this mom loves her daughter more than life itself but we often try to dissociate our parenting from our children’s behavior when those two things go hand in hand. I believe that girl when she says her mom taught her that same behavior she is now criticizing and she also didn’t deny it. Y’all wanna chuck everything up to protection to use as an excuse to not have to look at your terrible behavior that’s severely affecting your children. “I might make you feel like trash for doing things I taught you but it’s ok because I’m trying to PROTECT you.” 🙄 It’s ok if you want better but TEACH THEM! Not throwing judgements around because you’re too lazy to try and fix your mistakes.
Nah.. her mom is still like this. She SENT her to fight the girl A MONTH AGO. She wanted to be on TV and is pretending to be innocent. Classic narcissism.
I think the mom truly means well, she comes off judgmental and a “know it all” can’t tell her nothing! And she will NEVER forget your mistakes… And that’s how I feel about my parents. I would never tell them my secrets.
Stop blaming parents, especially if you have attitude problems of not respecting them... We're not your friend, we are here to help guide you along this mean ass world we live in...
@@YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BONDno one is blaming anyone. I’m expressing how I FEEL, and can relate. The CHILDREN’s feelings matter too. We are human beings with feelings and not puppets
That's not anger. That's pain. Feeling unheard can make the words come out as anger, though. I wish both of them healing because there's a lot of generational trauma in the Black community between parents and children. They took a big step getting it out, but it's going to require more work on both parts. Wishing whoever reads this a peaceful week. ✌🏾❤
The MOM definitely the problem. The daughter feels like she’s not being heard & y’all not seeing the mom narcissistic behavior? Pleaseeeeee!!!!!! The daughter isn’t innocent at all but the mom needs to listen and give better guidance. Also, if you’re “helping”’your daughter stop bringing it up. It’s your grandkid you love him stop throwing him in it. The mom wants to be right all the time and perfect.
I see different love languages. Mom shows love through her actions...driving 8 hours every week to see her daughter. The daughter's language is through emotion and feelings which mom doesn't show.
It’s weird that everyone keep saying the daughter was doing too much. Or must be on some type of substance or have a disorder.. when all she’s doing is expressing herself. I’ve use to have this same type of rage and anger and would lash out because I had soo much hurt bottled in and felt like no one understood me or listened. And it’s like the more someone would try to downplay my pain or tell me I was wrong whenever I expressed myself I would get angrier. I 10000% understand where she’s coming from. It’s like you’re really not trying to be disrespectful it’s just you get tired of hurting and just want to finally be heard especially if you keep explaining your feelings and keep getting them blown off. It’s literally a level of hurt that’s hard to express..Thank God I found my way and released all my hurt and no longer lash out or have anger. I feel for her and hope she finds her way.❤
This is such a heartfelt episode. The daughter has anger, but it’s really HURT. Mom really does love her daughter and I’m so glad that they had a breakthrough.❤️ Great episode. Love you Karamo❤😊
Whew! This was me a while ago! When she said "I'm tired", I felt her pain. I went through the same thing. Going thru life mad as hell not knowing why and realizing how much being raped affected my life. Bravo ladies. I pray for y'all healing🙏🏾❤✨
I'm surprised by how people in these comments have never experienced that deep level of hurt and feeling unheard. I genuinely think that's great for you, and I hope you never have to experience it. ❤❤
Loved this ending, it just shows that a lot of the time-anger is just a symptom to a sickness which is pain. To mend a connection, all you need is willingness from both parties 🙌🏾
I really felt this episode so much I’m 32 and I feel the same way about my mother I love her but it’s hard to express things to her because she gets so defensive 🙈 hopefully this lady and her mother can have a better relationship & the daughter can heal from all the pain she has ❤️
This. If she would have stopped talking, stopped cutting her off, listened through to the words and not the tone or how loud she was she would have gotten it. I am 36 and maybe 2 years ago I started really telling my mom stuff and talking to her because, a lot of times, they will be so judgemental and so defensive of what they did as mothers. I feel her.
She’s hurt. Neither the mother or daughter is wrong. It’s how it is when you have a young mother. They may not come across the right way, but they want the best for you.
i believe that it’s very important for people to understand that everyone expresses everything differently. whether that be yelling or crying or sitting down and just talking. props to the mother for finally letting her daughter express her emotions the way she feels is safest and most efficient for her
I felt this so strongly. This used to be my mum and I. There was a recent outburst just a week ago that lets me know I had still some letting go to do. Today, I can say I’m grateful for how far we’ve both come and how much healing we’ve accomplished cos I know this is our journey and there’s nothing time and love can’t heal. ❤️
I think when you homeschool you have to do things that still socialize your kids and allow them some freedom to make normal teen mistakes. We also have to know if our kids have a leader or follower type personality and parent them accordingly. It’s not easy to create that balance so your kids turn out to be well rounded adults. I have 4 kids and 2 are adults. They took completely different paths once they were grown. It’s just so hard especially when you’re trying to maintain a good respectful relationship with grown children. I will also say keep the government OUT of your life! Don’t threaten it either.
Dang I thought the same. When he says “can you tell/promise your daughter…” she does with almost a laughing smile. She does it a few times, very narcissistically. It’s something that I see sometimes from my mom and it makes my rage go through the roof.
I’m 31 in tears watching this clip. I wish i could hug her. This is so trigging watching known you’re not being heard all because of an image of what others think. Loving your child unconditionally comes with no strings attached. Meaning good, bad, ugly, embarrassing, emotional etc etc etc. Love them through it all once a child feels safe, loved and heard the behavior will change. We seek attention in the only way we know how and y’all call it (misbehaving). Parents being a young child or teenager is just as hard when trying to figure out life and still enjoy your youth so please have some grace on our babies. And Children have some grace for our parents. We know parents mean well and sometimes we need to step out of “that parent role” and talk to your child as if you’re a child or their friend and help come up with a solution. All voices deserve to be heard. If you’re reading this I love you so much I’m sending love, positivity and healing your way 🤞🏽💚
The mother barely acknowledging the violation reminds me of my mom. She pretended to care so that I would confide in her. And within a day, she said aloud "what kind of situations were you putting yourself in 😒?" As though I asked to be graped. I dont see us being close.
I couldn’t skip pass that her mom said if she died she stuck with her daughter child and not “my grandchild will be left without a mother” that showed me she wasn’t lying about her mom 🤷🏽♀️
I cried the moment she said i love you mom and you know that, i be feeling unheard all the time in my house and i don't know why its always a case of the first daughters and their moms, there's always this gap that is created by the mom and they don't feel the need to listen to what their daughters want but they try to force opinions on them. I hope you heal gurl❤❤
I'm going to repost a comment I left under someone else's because some of these comments missed the point. This isn't meant to be hateful! The problem is that too many people are seeing the daughter's pain as genuine anger and not hurt. It's something you wouldn't understand unless you have been in or closely witnessed something similar. I cried with the daughter. There's a lot of generational trauma in the black community with parents and children, and sadly, it often doesn't get talked about. Neither mom nor daughter is "the bad guy." Mom is doing what she knows and what her mom probably did, and her actions have molded and hurt her daughter, who has big reactions because she feels unseen/unheard. I hope they can mend their relationship. Either way, it's not our place to judge these people, but rather to learn from these videos and apply what we learned to our own lives. Wishing you all a peaceful week. ✌🏾 ❤
I feel the daughter so hard when she said she's angry every day. I am too I cant even have simple conversations with my grandma ( she raised me) because she's so dismissive. it hurts fr fr
Y'all don't understand...I'm 14 and my momma the same way she always starts arguments and stuff like that and when I stand up for myself she hits me...and like she acts Innocent around others and she puts on a fake personality around other people or in public...
Sounds like she has narcissistic traits and if so I feel for you. It's a mental illness that usually is looked over and the person doesn't seek help. Making others miserable is gratifying for them. I hope you can find peace. The best thing for you to do in this situation is avoid the arguments and record her outbursts if possible because you will never be right. You have to be careful with that as well because when they are exposed they become embarrassed and all hell breaks loose. They are not just full of anger..it's rage.(violet uncontrollable behavior).
Dang I pray that Ca'varri gets to the place she would like to get to with her mother, because I can relate to her so much with everything she feels and is going through. It hurts so much when you have a mother that doesn't listen to you as well as two older siblings. The only difference is, I don't have a relationship with my mother, due to past trauma she put me and my siblings through.
I just feel like this relationship is so deeply wounded. Wouldn’t doubt either of them having cptsd. Hope they continue to seek help. It’s what I wish my mom and I could do. 💖
It took me to become age 24 to have a relationship and conversation with my mom. Parents tend to forget to be there for us and listen because all they see is PARENTING. When in most cases that’s all a child needs is parents to listen and be there for them. At least that’s all I needed.
Sometimes moms have to let our kids learn on their own. It's unfortunate though because usually we are trying to keep them from making a mistake we have already made 😢
Very true! Sometimes, though, it's about how parents go about teaching your children that ends up being more of the issue. Parenting isn't easy, and naturally, every parent will mess something up in their parenting. Parents must be willing to learn from their children in order to best help them. 😊❤
@@MillennialHippie👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿 Daughter is toxic full of crap 💩. Why do most of these young blacks make illegitimate babies and fathers are never around, unless which happens most of the time moms don’t know who’s the real dad sleeping with multiple men .
Very disrespectful moron screaming n yelling to get sympathy and morons in the audience clapping for her. She needs to be behind bars bcz soon she’ll go back to her sinful life and make another baby. I sympathize with her mother as this girl it seems will never improve
I don't like this daughter. I truly don't. She wants her mother to excuse her bad behavior and her mother is holding her accountable for it. She's lucky that she has someone who cares enough to do that. The daughter is a piece of work! If I were the mother, I'd tell her to go and live her own life and to not come back until she grows up! What a RUDE girl!
@@b.u.dmusic9424crazy, because the mother is sick for hearing how her daughter was abused and not even flinching. The mother is the reasons he came out this way. She needs to accept responsibility that she was a sh**ty parent.
I just want to give her a huge hug! ❤ I pray she’s doing better. Anger and rage are exhausting emotions to have pinned up inside of you. It’s literally like a bottle under pressure. ❤
I like how they listened to each other. I understand both their frustration. Hopefully they can go back look at the video and continue the communication. God Bless
I can so relate to this story because i went through alot with my mother and my oldest. Babygirl hurting, but mom trying to understand... that's a start! And she does need to grow. Throwing up old things, coming from the person you love the most makes it hard to move forward!! Mom has to commit to her daughter to help her deal with her hurt and be a better parent.. #Experience 💯💯
KARAMO you did SUCH an amazing job w this situation…I relate so deeply to the dynamics of this mother-daughter relationship & .. I’m really happy for the positive developments & breakthroughs I just saw ❤ it makes me hopeful & grateful for my own relationship with my mom, something that I have struggled with for a long time. Thank you @karamo show ❤
This episode reminded me of my relationship with my mother. I’m nearing my 30s about to get married and I have so much resentment for her. Given the fact that she was the only parent I had growing up, I’m basically being told my emotions aren’t relevant and I should be grateful for the sacrifices she has made for me. She has manipulated me my entire life and now that my eyes are open, it’s a problem. I’m still filled with a whole lot of anger, but a lot of it has just been suppressed 😔
This child needs therapy desperately . The angry coming from her someone needs to listen we need to learn to listen and listen to learn . I wish I could hug her so many of our children have the problem nobody take the time to listen to them .
Oh wow. I know this lady.. she is a very good and protectivr attentive parent.. we worked together at Thomas Construction.. this woman worked a full time job and had a beauty shop... ❤❤❤praying for u and urs Queen
Aw poor daughter 💔that girl is broken I hope she gets better honestly this is hard to see the way she tried talking loud to be heard the way she cried to see the hurt she really is in and the mother is hurt to she just wants her daughter to be protected and doing the right things mothers are always worried about what they children are getting themselves into and that is wonderful so happy they squashed this.
its a pattern in many mother/daughter relationships. most mothers demand their daughters are always soft and polite, the second they show any other emotion its always taken as 'disrespect'. this mother is just COLD. you just heard your daughter got assaulted and you make it about yourself...shes more concerned about the cameras and less about her daughter
I shed heavy tears watching this because I feel that girl so much, I’m not a mom yet but I feel her because it’s the same for me too with my mother, when you just want to speak but you feel like you’re a mute in the darkness, you feel like how much u could shout no one can hear you…. That made me feel good to see them heal together ❤ I’m very happy for them
This was like watching my parents and I relationship, but with a different story. Even in adulthood. Unfortunately, I had to disconnect from them, even communication. I had to choose me. I'm glad the mom and daughter are able to work things out. I wish the best for them. 💜
Poor baby the daughter is hurting and needs someone to talk too but she feels like she can’t bc her mom is judgmental and cuts her off so now she fells like she has to rush and scream when she talks in order to be heard.
I weirdly believe both of them. A lot of shit it’s just a matter of perspective. I can tell the mom is trying to be and do good but I think the daughters feelings are valid…she acts the way exactly she raised and her mom hates that and is very judgmental of her. I’m really feeling the daughter. Praying for a lot of healing for them
Yes I think the mom regrets how she raised her and has to face it every time her daughter does something she deems no longer acceptable. Her problem is that she isn’t taking accountability for the part she played in it and instead is trying to ignore it and force new behaviors. This is probably why she shuts her down in conversation because those hard conversations forces her to look in the mirror. She would be better off acknowledging that she taught her what she thought was right at the time and that she now realizes there is a better way. She should be patient w/ her daughter and help her integrate into this new way of living instead of crucifying her for being what she taught her to be. Our community has to learn how to hold ourselves accountable past, present and future rather than sweeping things under the rug and pretending it doesn’t exist. This will never be effective. & I believe she means well for sure. Our children NEED us to be the accountable and apologetic adults our parents didn’t know how or refused to be.
Two things can be true at once. One person wants to be heard and feels like "I don't need you to clean up my mess". The other doesn’t want to "clean up the mess".
She was sheltered and then let go and tried to Fit in…some attention is better than no attention…this hard shell is starting to crack. God bless them both.
My mom is like that, she doesn't listen to me. Now, I kinda stopped talking to her emotionally. Whenever I have something to say I'll never say it to her, I know there is no communication.
@@call-me-specialStart therapy. I avoided it but it was actually nice to have someone finally listen and understand. It’s a way to keep you sane until you’re able to move and start being able to focus better on yourself.
this is the first ever episode to truly make me almost cry ... I felt the daughters pain so much I believe that's why , bless her heart an I hope her an her mother are doing good rn .
This was very real and raw had me in tears but it seemed like they listen and I wish the best for them to progress and complete their relationship and be happy❤🎉❤
Man this broke my heart. The minute she walked out and started talking I knew there was something deeper than the surface. People yell when they have a history of not being heard…
this right here, and u can tell this was her last resort to be heard.
Yes I'm the same way
Or when they have not learnt how to express themselves
I can confirm that....
It made me cry! The girl is so innocent!!! It is so sad
When She Said “I’m Tired Of Being Mad Everyday I’m Tired” I Felt Every Emotion
But what is she gonna do about it?
In my opinion I think she is selfish and ungrateful daughter 😢😢I wish I had mother like her mom
@@keepitreal335 Tbh It’s Not Even All About That Tho I Don’t Think She’s Ungrateful I Think She’s More Hurt From Feeling Like She Can’t Run To Her Mom About Anything… My Mom Never Been There For Me Physically, Mentally & Emotionally! It’s Way Deeper Than The Mom Just Helping Her Out With Her Child
@@sabrina21clark Idk I’m Not Her Only She Can Answer That… I Feel Exactly How She Feels Day By Day I’m Taking Different Steps To Get Through This The Only Thing Different Is Her Mom Still In Her Life Mine Wasn’t There & Still Not There…
@enchantressss7521 well I'm sorry for you. But that difference means it's different. I will pray for you though.
You can clearly see the mom has been holding a grudge on her from when she went to jail. Her daughter told her she was RAPED multiple times and she didn’t even flinch. The child is a direct reflection of the parent
Let me say what I’ve seen from young family members. Some will say they were raped to shut you down. And it works. I had to stop my niece from using that tactic because it is extremely harmful. And in her case, she falsely blamed young man we knew. There are real victims out there, and then there are the others.
@@thinkaboutit155unless you had solid evidence he didn’t commit the act, you were suppose to trust that baby… and maybe offer him the benefit of the doubt
@@thinkaboutit155 yeah this comment is not it LMFAOOOOO
@thinkaboutit155, how do you know she lied? I'm asking because I've seen ppl recant an accusation because they were scared and ashamed when ppl didn't believe them.
@@Play4keeks I, like you, do not know what is the truth. I just have what I feel is dishonesty.
I could see the break through in both of them. You can tell the daughter just wants to be heard, she yells, screams and tries to rush and talk because nobody listens and the only way to express those suppressed feelings is by screaming or lashing out. Her mom really does love her, they both just have a lot of unlearning to do and I’m praying that God continues to reconcile their relationship ❤
I don't like this daughter. I truly don't. She wants her mother to excuse her bad behavior and her mother is holding her accountable for it. She's lucky that she has someone who cares enough to do that. The daughter is a piece of work! If I were the mother, I'd tell her to go and live her own life and to not come back until she grows up! What a RUDE girl!
@@b.u.dmusic9424 I respect your opinion but you don’t know either of their stories in depth to pass judgement, especially from a small segment of a conversation. Children aren’t perfect and parents aren’t either. To not know your child was raped says a lot about their relationship as a whole. Again, we don’t know their story only what they chose to share for a few minutes. They both have a lot of unlearning to do, this issue isn’t one sided-it’s both.
@b.u.dmusic9424 I agree with you. These are circumstances the daughter created on her own. If her mom is around to help her, then she should close her mouth and listen. If she wants her mom to listen, then yelling at her, won't work. It hadn't worked for anyone in the past. She is yelling because she thinks that justifies her actions but it doesn't. She is an entitled daughter who needs to realize her mom don't have to do those things. She does them because she cares and she is a real mom. Her daughter has to calm down & learn to listen. Even when the mom asked her a question (Do you think it will be hard to get custody of him) She chose attitude, instead of answering honestly because answering honestly will require her to take ownership in WHAT SHE CREATED.... I pray these queens find healing and repair their love. It's clear thr love is there......❤❤ Lord keep this family together.
I hate she was taken advantage of & that is what is going to bring their relationship full circle ❤She needs loving through that & I pray mom can & I have faith she will love her through it
I don't think she's going to change, because she does not take accountability for her behaviour and choices...I hope time proves me wrong
“You need to stop” when she’s having a breakdown. Ooohhh that angered my soul.
Mines too
That pissed me off!
I feel the daughter's pain, I know this anger, and even at 34 my mom can make me cry and still treats me like she's better and won't hear me out
@@shawn6986 Damn you got all that from my comment. 1st off I don't compete with NOBODY, my mom and I do get along but we have our moments & that's all you need to know. I was just tryna say I feel for the daughter.
@@shawn6986girl shut up cause if anything 😅God didn’t make our parents better than nb we all equal bookie if you think ur mother is better than u should be trying get on this show cause ain’t no way u just said that to her yo generation must be f** up bad baby girl
If anything u not hearing her out cause yo mother must’ve been a bad person lol she must’ve failed u her mom should want her to be better not below her not to the point where she still makes her cause n it’s crazy cause my aunty n I go thru the same thing she still makes me cry n I only cry so I won’t start disrespecting her I got so much respect for her n I love her is really what she trying say
@@shawn6986Complete BS! Her mom is NOT better than her just because she is older than her! Don't you dare invalidate someone's feelings! 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
@@shawn6986 age doesn't equal maturity... some adults are just rude abusers
This truly tugged at my heart and made me realize our children are vulnerable and dealing with so much 😢
I literally cried with her! Like , sometimes parents need to just stop talking and actually listen to what their kids are telling them. That's the only way that issues can be solved. 🤷🏽♀️
One thing I've learn as a mom of an 7 and 6 year old, they are just tiny humans. They have feelings and emotions as well. I always give them a space to talk to me and always let them know their feelings and emotions matter. They can be angry cause I get angry too. We are all human and have to treat them as such. They want someone to talk to and who is better than their mom and without judgement!
Yess you are right !
We all are!
I can't lie I'ma grown ass man and I couldn't help but shed a tear smh we as black people need true healing
She ain't yelling..it's her soul.. bleeding and broken to the ground.
i’m 18 yrs old & this is literally the perfect example of the relationship my mother and i have. this episode made me so emotional because i see myself in the daughter… i just want to be heard and i wish my mom could understand that. i’m happy that they were able to come together and both take steps towards bettering their relationship. i wish the same for me and my mom.
Hey !!! That’s me on the show . If u ever wanna talk , I’m here for u
@@bigmovietv7339 U are beautiful & I pray that God heals u and your mom relationship. One day at a time babygirl. I have both living parents, neither have raised me or did no type of parenting. My grandma who is in her mid 90's raised me but now she's much older and as a Nurse Assistant Im starting to see all the love my grandma had for me is much different now because of her old age. I accept all the bull crap now because I've learned taking care of elderly ppl for 20 yrs now is how they act sometimes. So I'll hold on to all the good memories my grandma and I once had. Take care babygirl & continue to be a great mom to your son. You and your mom will be fine❤
I’d love to talk I am going through the same thing With my mother.
My best advice my father told me... when we hear loud voices people want to cover their ears.
When whisper people lean in to hear you.
I have used silence as my way through many uncomfortable situations as when I do loud it makes people run.
Whisper and see who really wants to hear you .... your momma loves you as you are a reflection of herself.
Accountability is something that will heal you.
Being louder isn't righter .....❤
@@All5AJz Agreed, but it's hard to get past trauma responses without proper healing/therapy. A lot of people who respond loudly do so because they whispered before, but no one listened.
I think the daughter is upset because her mother looks at her like a bad person. Like she’s always up to no good and she’s ruining her life. As if she’s a criminal and her mom has to keep her locked up at home. That whatever she does her mom will not be proud and will always have something negative to say and she’s tired of it. All the anger has bottled up. All her daughter wants is to see what she sees and that she’s trying to better herself. Moms want the better for their kids and are hard on them to be better and excel in everything. But you have to keep in mind that kids aren’t robots. They have feelings and emotions.
You all notice after she blurted out what happened to her she was calmed because she finally got it out.
I loved the emotional progress they made. Her mom listening literally meant everything to her. Sometimes people scream because they don’t feel heard. Great mediating, Karamo!!!
She has pain from the rape, my heart breaks for her
The moment the man asked the mum to just listen and then she started pouring her heart out, mahn that broke me. Sometimes all we need is just someone who listens to us. Someone we can confide in and feel safe to communicate with.
Man tears just started falling when the daughter vented you can hear the hurt I pray they can mend this.
The mom seemed to be more upset about her not communicating her sexual assault with her than she was about the actual assault. That’s how my mom did me.
🙏🏿
her mom got upset when her daughter said.. "you told me to go fight them" i hate this for the daughter
Same w me.
Wow! So random. I was neighbors and went to elementary school with Ca’Varri. She was a great friend from what I can remember! I’m so glad to see her but hurt by everything I see she’s been through. I wish you the best girly hope you see this! ❤
She went to my high school I said the same thing
Same here! I use to cheer with Ca’Varri in middle school. Hope her and her mom both heal 🙏🏾
All that she needs is a mom who hears her out, doesn’t attack her with words and she’ll have a good relationship.
She was homeschooled so.. 😂
@@Cosmo.crescent_ it was elementary school jackass lol I have the yearbook to prove it 😂
The fact I’m 13 and I see all my emotions in the daughter…
you are loved, you are appreciated, and you are important. i'm so sorry to hear that you are not being listened to by your parents. if you ever need to talk, your school should have a counseling system that you can use. i know that for me they made all the difference in how i dealt with issues i felt I couldn't share with my parents. i hope you will be listened to soon.
You are loved!! Don't forget it!❤❤
Sending you a lot of love 🤍🤍🫶🏼
Jesus loves you!! He died on a cross for you and rose again on the 3rd day because He loves you and you’re very special and precious in His sight❤ He wants a relationship with you and He wants to heal you from any trauma you’ve gone through ❤
guys thank you all so much I really appreciate you guys, I wish you all the best in life thank you so much 🩷🩷
I think the mom regrets how she raised her and has to face it every time her daughter does something she deems no longer acceptable. Her problem is that she isn’t taking accountability for the part she played in it and instead is trying to ignore it and force new behaviors. This is probably why she shuts her down in conversation because those hard conversations forces her to look in the mirror. Her judgement of her daughter is really her judgement of herself, whether it’s the old her, new her or somewhere in between. She would be better off acknowledging that she taught her what she thought was right at the time and that she now realizes there is a better way. She should be patient w/ her daughter and help her integrate into this new way of living instead of crucifying her for being what she taught her to be. Our community has to learn how to hold ourselves accountable past, present and future rather than sweeping things under the rug and pretending it doesn’t exist. This will never be effective. & I believe she means well for sure. Our children NEED us to be the accountable and apologetic adults our parents didn’t know how or refused to be.
These children are a reflection of how they are raised and we cannot forget that. Whether it’s how they are actively raised or the lack thereof. To hold them accountable is to hold ourselves accountable.
Powerful and poignant
Her mother homeschool her, so what should she hold herself accountable for? Wanting to shield and protect her child. That’s a grown woman going around fighting people! That’s embarrassing!!
@@camillerainey6557 Behavior her MOTHER taught her. Point that finger but 10 are pointing back at you. I can tell this mom loves her daughter more than life itself but we often try to dissociate our parenting from our children’s behavior when those two things go hand in hand. I believe that girl when she says her mom taught her that same behavior she is now criticizing and she also didn’t deny it. Y’all wanna chuck everything up to protection to use as an excuse to not have to look at your terrible behavior that’s severely affecting your children. “I might make you feel like trash for doing things I taught you but it’s ok because I’m trying to PROTECT you.” 🙄 It’s ok if you want better but TEACH THEM! Not throwing judgements around because you’re too lazy to try and fix your mistakes.
Their alot of healing in what you said. keep dropping them gems ❤
Nah.. her mom is still like this. She SENT her to fight the girl A MONTH AGO. She wanted to be on TV and is pretending to be innocent. Classic narcissism.
I think the mom truly means well, she comes off judgmental and a “know it all” can’t tell her nothing! And she will NEVER forget your mistakes… And that’s how I feel about my parents. I would never tell them my secrets.
exactly how my mama is
Stop blaming parents, especially if you have attitude problems of not respecting them... We're not your friend, we are here to help guide you along this mean ass world we live in...
@@YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BONDno one is blaming anyone. I’m expressing how I FEEL, and can relate. The CHILDREN’s feelings matter too. We are human beings with feelings and not puppets
@@YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BONDI made a comment you might want to read. It's not in this thread.
@YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BOND A parent like this teaches their kid that the world is mean and not even your mom will be your soft place to fall
That's a lot of anger! I hope she gets to the bottom of it and heals for her son's sake! That's too much anger!
FOR REAL!!
That's not anger. That's pain. Feeling unheard can make the words come out as anger, though.
I wish both of them healing because there's a lot of generational trauma in the Black community between parents and children. They took a big step getting it out, but it's going to require more work on both parts.
Wishing whoever reads this a peaceful week. ✌🏾❤
Angry for what?
It’s disheartening seeing so many people here making excuses for her. Like naw, that anger is super toxic and harmful for her child.
@@MillennialHippieThe pain is fueling the anger. It’s anger.
The MOM definitely the problem. The daughter feels like she’s not being heard & y’all not seeing the mom narcissistic behavior? Pleaseeeeee!!!!!! The daughter isn’t innocent at all but the mom needs to listen and give better guidance. Also, if you’re “helping”’your daughter stop bringing it up. It’s your grandkid you love him stop throwing him in it. The mom wants to be right all the time and perfect.
I agree! They're both in the wrong: the mother has to listen to the daughter more and the daughter needs to make better decisions
I was so angry at the mom the entire time. My mom would never take credit for being a mom which mom would..only a narcissistic one
I see different love languages. Mom shows love through her actions...driving 8 hours every week to see her daughter. The daughter's language is through emotion and feelings which mom doesn't show.
It’s weird that everyone keep saying the daughter was doing too much. Or must be on some type of substance or have a disorder.. when all she’s doing is expressing herself. I’ve use to have this same type of rage and anger and would lash out because I had soo much hurt bottled in and felt like no one understood me or listened. And it’s like the more someone would try to downplay my pain or tell me I was wrong whenever I expressed myself I would get angrier. I 10000% understand where she’s coming from. It’s like you’re really not trying to be disrespectful it’s just you get tired of hurting and just want to finally be heard especially if you keep explaining your feelings and keep getting them blown off. It’s literally a level of hurt that’s hard to express..Thank God I found my way and released all my hurt and no longer lash out or have anger. I feel for her and hope she finds her way.❤
Thank you!!
@@bigmovietv7339did you and your mom’s relationship ever get any better?
@@jo-naizahnicole3093 it did
Thank you!!!
That's society gaslighting hurt ppl
This is such a heartfelt episode. The daughter has anger, but it’s really HURT. Mom really does love her daughter and I’m so glad that they had a breakthrough.❤️
Great episode. Love you Karamo❤😊
She doesn’t have a problem with communicating or taking accountability she’s just not feeling heard
She such a beautiful young lady and I hope she continues to grow while her mother stops judging her and really listens to her.
This was a heartfelt episode. ❤️ I know a lot of mom and daughters can relate.
😢I cried during this episode. It’s genuine ❤love between them….😢
Whew! This was me a while ago! When she said "I'm tired", I felt her pain. I went through the same thing. Going thru life mad as hell not knowing why and realizing how much being raped affected my life. Bravo ladies. I pray for y'all healing🙏🏾❤✨
I suscribed to your yt i look foward to watching your videos and sharing them to others that need healing ❤
Forgiveness is a powerful thing.
💯%
Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to be bothered with them
Ngl i was a bit shocked at all that fire coming out of such a pretty face 😂
Them be the ones honey
She’s hurt
I'm surprised by how people in these comments have never experienced that deep level of hurt and feeling unheard. I genuinely think that's great for you, and I hope you never have to experience it. ❤❤
And yessss she's so pretty! Even when she was full of emotion and crying.🥺🥺
It’s called PAIN
I believe the daughter because the mom is not taking no accountability for anything nobody is perfect like she is acting
What take accountability for what exactly
Because she can’t blame her mom for fighting
When the Mom asked her daughter why she is so angry, she didn’t have an answer.
@@thecalmsetting3161 she took accountability she said that's not me anymore
@@thecalmsetting3161 she made mistakes to and not just the daughter it's easy to point the finger
This episode made me so emotional because I relate to her so much, sending love and light to the both of them❤
Lord I bind this spirit of anger and destruction in the family. In Jesus name amen
AMEN HALLELUJAH 🙌🫂💕🌹🙏
Amen!
@@lordybelance3410 🌹
I noticed this to, i rebuke the spirit of anger and rage in the name of JESUS 😊
This had me crying sooo glad they was able to get everything off their chest I felt exactly how that daughter felt before!!!
Loved this ending, it just shows that a lot of the time-anger is just a symptom to a sickness which is pain. To mend a connection, all you need is willingness from both parties 🙌🏾
See they both have a lot of pain and I really don’t know why they on here
I knew someone touched her by the rage.. you get that rage from being taken advantage of. How the Mom glossed over the rape .. scary..
powerful. daughter is so brave for being so vulnerable, what a great break through.
I really felt this episode so much I’m 32 and I feel the same way about my mother I love her but it’s hard to express things to her because she gets so defensive 🙈 hopefully this lady and her mother can have a better relationship & the daughter can heal from all the pain she has ❤️
This. If she would have stopped talking, stopped cutting her off, listened through to the words and not the tone or how loud she was she would have gotten it. I am 36 and maybe 2 years ago I started really telling my mom stuff and talking to her because, a lot of times, they will be so judgemental and so defensive of what they did as mothers. I feel her.
@@ladyjourney exactly I feel you 💯
I’m 41 and my mom still does this to me. So I’ve chosen to grieve her and move on.
@@ShatondraStafford yes girly if it’s protecting your peace do just that 💁🏽♀️
She’s hurt. Neither the mother or daughter is wrong. It’s how it is when you have a young mother. They may not come across the right way, but they want the best for you.
i believe that it’s very important for people to understand that everyone expresses everything differently. whether that be yelling or crying or sitting down and just talking. props to the mother for finally letting her daughter express her emotions the way she feels is safest and most efficient for her
I used to work with Denise at Macy’s years ago. Praying for her and her daughter
Was she mean ?
@@iLoVeaNiMeS101 no she wasn’t mean, but she didn’t take disrespect. She was really nice though
I felt this so strongly. This used to be my mum and I. There was a recent outburst just a week ago that lets me know I had still some letting go to do. Today, I can say I’m grateful for how far we’ve both come and how much healing we’ve accomplished cos I know this is our journey and there’s nothing time and love can’t heal. ❤️
I think when you homeschool you have to do things that still socialize your kids and allow them some freedom to make normal teen mistakes. We also have to know if our kids have a leader or follower type personality and parent them accordingly. It’s not easy to create that balance so your kids turn out to be well rounded adults. I have 4 kids and 2 are adults. They took completely different paths once they were grown. It’s just so hard especially when you’re trying to maintain a good respectful relationship with grown children.
I will also say keep the government OUT of your life! Don’t threaten it either.
It hits home. Her emotions is deeper than what her mom knew about.
That mom is a piece of work. I see right through it.
Same. I hope not but something tells me things went right back left after they left the show. I hope the daughter can push through
i was about to say the same thing 😭
Dang I thought the same. When he says “can you tell/promise your daughter…” she does with almost a laughing smile. She does it a few times, very narcissistically. It’s something that I see sometimes from my mom and it makes my rage go through the roof.
1000%
I hope she changes for the sake of the relationship
Powerful episode! I shed tears! I hope they continue to work at mending their relationship! Many of us have been in their shoes!
4real
I felt Ca'varri heart just like she was my child. Ca'varri I hope you will heal for your child. Tears of happiness I hope she has grown.
So nice for the both of them to have a safe space for their emotions without someone misreading them because of their tone. ❤
I’m 31 in tears watching this clip. I wish i could hug her. This is so trigging watching known you’re not being heard all because of an image of what others think. Loving your child unconditionally comes with no strings attached. Meaning good, bad, ugly, embarrassing, emotional etc etc etc. Love them through it all once a child feels safe, loved and heard the behavior will change. We seek attention in the only way we know how and y’all call it (misbehaving). Parents being a young child or teenager is just as hard when trying to figure out life and still enjoy your youth so please have some grace on our babies. And Children have some grace for our parents. We know parents mean well and sometimes we need to step out of “that parent role” and talk to your child as if you’re a child or their friend and help come up with a solution. All voices deserve to be heard.
If you’re reading this I love you so much I’m sending love, positivity and healing your way 🤞🏽💚
You can definitely tell that they love one another deeply!! I’m glad he was able to be that bridge for them🙌🏽
The mother barely acknowledging the violation reminds me of my mom. She pretended to care so that I would confide in her. And within a day, she said aloud "what kind of situations were you putting yourself in 😒?" As though I asked to be graped. I dont see us being close.
I know people like that it’s sad
I couldn’t skip pass that her mom said if she died she stuck with her daughter child and not “my grandchild will be left without a mother” that showed me she wasn’t lying about her mom 🤷🏽♀️
Srsly!!! Huge red flag!!!! 🚩 And there are people in the comments trying to be on the mother’s side … ugh..
I thought that at first but as I kept watching she loves her daughter and her grandchild I think stuck was just a poor choice of words.
She also said, "when you dead and gone." Most parents say, "when I'm dead and gone."
She wanted custody of her grandchild.
I am NOT raising grandchildren…period.
I'm crying because I can feel that there's a lot of work to be done in this Mother Daughter relationship 🙏🏻
this describes me and my mom so perfectly… this episode was very deep.. he handled this soo well ❤️❤️
Every child's greatest wish is the acceptance/approval/pride/honor/respect/encouragement of their parent. ❤
I cried the moment she said i love you mom and you know that, i be feeling unheard all the time in my house and i don't know why its always a case of the first daughters and their moms, there's always this gap that is created by the mom and they don't feel the need to listen to what their daughters want but they try to force opinions on them. I hope you heal gurl❤❤
The mom saying it wouldn’t even be hard if she tried to take her baby was low and dirty! I feel for the young woman.
I'm going to repost a comment I left under someone else's because some of these comments missed the point. This isn't meant to be hateful!
The problem is that too many people are seeing the daughter's pain as genuine anger and not hurt. It's something you wouldn't understand unless you have been in or closely witnessed something similar.
I cried with the daughter. There's a lot of generational trauma in the black community with parents and children, and sadly, it often doesn't get talked about. Neither mom nor daughter is "the bad guy." Mom is doing what she knows and what her mom probably did, and her actions have molded and hurt her daughter, who has big reactions because she feels unseen/unheard.
I hope they can mend their relationship. Either way, it's not our place to judge these people, but rather to learn from these videos and apply what we learned to our own lives. Wishing you all a peaceful week. ✌🏾 ❤
Miss Ca’Varri , I’m so proud of you for being a AWESOME mother. I understand your struggles…😊
That “ BUT LIKE DAMN”. I felt that
I started tearing up! So happy these episodes are coming back out !!
I’m so tired of crying over people I don’t know 😂 this was a good episode ❤
I feel the daughter so hard when she said she's angry every day. I am too I cant even have simple conversations with my grandma ( she raised me) because she's so dismissive. it hurts fr fr
Y'all don't understand...I'm 14 and my momma the same way she always starts arguments and stuff like that and when I stand up for myself she hits me...and like she acts Innocent around others and she puts on a fake personality around other people or in public...
samee
Sounds like she has narcissistic traits and if so I feel for you. It's a mental illness that usually is looked over and the person doesn't seek help. Making others miserable is gratifying for them. I hope you can find peace. The best thing for you to do in this situation is avoid the arguments and record her outbursts if possible because you will never be right. You have to be careful with that as well because when they are exposed they become embarrassed and all hell breaks loose. They are not just full of anger..it's rage.(violet uncontrollable behavior).
@@felicianorwood9958 thanks for the advice.
My Mom was like that iam 24 now and been away from her for years talk to her from a distance
We are the same omg gurl I am always angry
Love this. One of the best mother/daughter relationships I have seen on stage!❤❤❤ God bless them and wishing them the best!
I love karamo for the fact that he’s like a spiritual healer helping unite people so that they can heal their spirits from within side of themselves 🙏
Dang I pray that Ca'varri gets to the place she would like to get to with her mother, because I can relate to her so much with everything she feels and is going through. It hurts so much when you have a mother that doesn't listen to you as well as two older siblings. The only difference is, I don't have a relationship with my mother, due to past trauma she put me and my siblings through.
Thank you 💕
I just feel like this relationship is so deeply wounded. Wouldn’t doubt either of them having cptsd. Hope they continue to seek help. It’s what I wish my mom and I could do. 💖
It took me to become age 24 to have a relationship and conversation with my mom. Parents tend to forget to be there for us and listen because all they see is PARENTING. When in most cases that’s all a child needs is parents to listen and be there for them. At least that’s all I needed.
Sometimes moms have to let our kids learn on their own. It's unfortunate though because usually we are trying to keep them from making a mistake we have already made 😢
Very true! Sometimes, though, it's about how parents go about teaching your children that ends up being more of the issue.
Parenting isn't easy, and naturally, every parent will mess something up in their parenting. Parents must be willing to learn from their children in order to best help them. 😊❤
@@MillennialHippie👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿
Daughter is toxic full of
crap 💩. Why do most of these young blacks make illegitimate babies and fathers are never around, unless which happens most of the time moms don’t know who’s the real dad sleeping with multiple men .
Very disrespectful moron screaming n yelling to get sympathy and morons in the audience clapping for her. She needs to be behind bars bcz soon she’ll go back to her sinful life and make another baby. I sympathize with her mother as this girl it seems will never improve
I don't like this daughter. I truly don't. She wants her mother to excuse her bad behavior and her mother is holding her accountable for it. She's lucky that she has someone who cares enough to do that. The daughter is a piece of work! If I were the mother, I'd tell her to go and live her own life and to not come back until she grows up! What a RUDE girl!
@@b.u.dmusic9424crazy, because the mother is sick for hearing how her daughter was abused and not even flinching. The mother is the reasons he came out this way. She needs to accept responsibility that she was a sh**ty parent.
Whew this one gave me the feels! Mama PLEASE hug your baby! She needs you!❤❤
My mom is also judgmental so I sometimes feel like this, I’m glad the daughter was able to speak out and her mom listenened
This just breaks my heart into pieces. SMH. Sigh. I have no words. God be with this family.
I just want to give her a huge hug! ❤ I pray she’s doing better. Anger and rage are exhausting emotions to have pinned up inside of you. It’s literally like a bottle under pressure. ❤
The Mother does not LISTEN!!!! The Young Woman needs to be loved, respected, appreciated and heard.
I like how they listened to each other. I understand both their frustration. Hopefully they can go back look at the video and continue the communication. God Bless
I can so relate to this story because i went through alot with my mother and my oldest. Babygirl hurting, but mom trying to understand... that's a start! And she does need to grow. Throwing up old things, coming from the person you love the most makes it hard to move forward!! Mom has to commit to her daughter to help her deal with her hurt and be a better parent..
#Experience 💯💯
KARAMO you did SUCH an amazing job w this situation…I relate so deeply to the dynamics of this mother-daughter relationship & .. I’m really happy for the positive developments & breakthroughs I just saw ❤ it makes me hopeful & grateful for my own relationship with my mom, something that I have struggled with for a long time. Thank you @karamo show ❤
This episode reminded me of my relationship with my mother. I’m nearing my 30s about to get married and I have so much resentment for her. Given the fact that she was the only parent I had growing up, I’m basically being told my emotions aren’t relevant and I should be grateful for the sacrifices she has made for me. She has manipulated me my entire life and now that my eyes are open, it’s a problem.
I’m still filled with a whole lot of anger, but a lot of it has just been suppressed 😔
I’m hugging you sis. My mom was the same way and I’m now grieving her while she is alive.
@@Karynwashere wow 😕 I hope you continue to find healing while grieving.
YOU NEED TO LET HER KNOW. UNFORTUNALLY SOME OF US WERE RAISED BY NARCISISTIC PARENTS
This child needs therapy desperately . The angry coming from her someone needs to listen we need to learn to listen and listen to learn . I wish I could hug her so many of our children have the problem nobody take the time to listen to them .
True love keeps no record.
Oh wow. I know this lady.. she is a very good and protectivr attentive parent.. we worked together at Thomas Construction.. this woman worked a full time job and had a beauty shop... ❤❤❤praying for u and urs Queen
Aw poor daughter 💔that girl is broken I hope she gets better honestly this is hard to see the way she tried talking loud to be heard the way she cried to see the hurt she really is in and the mother is hurt to she just wants her daughter to be protected and doing the right things mothers are always worried about what they children are getting themselves into and that is wonderful so happy they squashed this.
She has to first have respect to her mother . She feels herself so much.
Karamo… our community needs what you got soooo much!!! I appreciate you!
Obama failed the black community
its a pattern in many mother/daughter relationships. most mothers demand their daughters are always soft and polite, the second they show any other emotion its always taken as 'disrespect'. this mother is just COLD. you just heard your daughter got assaulted and you make it about yourself...shes more concerned about the cameras and less about her daughter
He is such a good host with a big heart I hope your show runs smoothly for a long time
Gosh o love the break through that Karamo provides for families! ❤
I shed heavy tears watching this because I feel that girl so much, I’m not a mom yet but I feel her because it’s the same for me too with my mother, when you just want to speak but you feel like you’re a mute in the darkness, you feel like how much u could shout no one can hear you…. That made me feel good to see them heal together ❤ I’m very happy for them
Wish I had a mom like that
Oh, Love, I'm sorry. I'm that mom tho.. I can be your social media momma❤
@@nildahernandez9940omg im so sorry you have to go through that.
Thank you!
Wish I had a mom like that too.
@@nildahernandez9940 I’d love that.
This was like watching my parents and I relationship, but with a different story. Even in adulthood. Unfortunately, I had to disconnect from them, even communication. I had to choose me. I'm glad the mom and daughter are able to work things out. I wish the best for them. 💜
Poor baby the daughter is hurting and needs someone to talk too but she feels like she can’t bc her mom is judgmental and cuts her off so now she fells like she has to rush and scream when she talks in order to be heard.
Yup everything you said
I weirdly believe both of them. A lot of shit it’s just a matter of perspective. I can tell the mom is trying to be and do good but I think the daughters feelings are valid…she acts the way exactly she raised and her mom hates that and is very judgmental of her. I’m really feeling the daughter. Praying for a lot of healing for them
Yes I think the mom regrets how she raised her and has to face it every time her daughter does something she deems no longer acceptable. Her problem is that she isn’t taking accountability for the part she played in it and instead is trying to ignore it and force new behaviors. This is probably why she shuts her down in conversation because those hard conversations forces her to look in the mirror. She would be better off acknowledging that she taught her what she thought was right at the time and that she now realizes there is a better way. She should be patient w/ her daughter and help her integrate into this new way of living instead of crucifying her for being what she taught her to be. Our community has to learn how to hold ourselves accountable past, present and future rather than sweeping things under the rug and pretending it doesn’t exist. This will never be effective. & I believe she means well for sure. Our children NEED us to be the accountable and apologetic adults our parents didn’t know how or refused to be.
@@auntkera oh girl now this was nothing but straight facts ❤️❤️ so well said
Two things can be true at once. One person wants to be heard and feels like "I don't need you to clean up my mess". The other doesn’t want to "clean up the mess".
She was sheltered and then let go and tried to
Fit in…some attention is better than no attention…this hard shell is starting to crack. God bless them both.
My mom is like that, she doesn't listen to me. Now, I kinda stopped talking to her emotionally. Whenever I have something to say I'll never say it to her, I know there is no communication.
Same... but now I just deal with my problems alone because I don't feel like sharing them with my friends or anybody else
@@call-me-specialStart therapy. I avoided it but it was actually nice to have someone finally listen and understand. It’s a way to keep you sane until you’re able to move and start being able to focus better on yourself.
this is the first ever episode to truly make me almost cry ... I felt the daughters pain so much I believe that's why , bless her heart an I hope her an her mother are doing good rn .
Karamo you better get renewed for a couple more seasons. I learned more from you than my whole undergrad degree 💯
This was the best one bc they really listened to each other .. they wanted to fix it, I love tht.. blessings on yall
I felt all of that in my soul 💕
This was very real and raw had me in tears but it seemed like they listen and I wish the best for them to progress and complete their relationship and be happy❤🎉❤
The daughter has me in tears!!!! She’s angry for a reason!