I'm 20 years old and I feel as if everything in my life is crumbling away including me but everyone around me doesn't care enough to listen when I try and get help. They always ignore it or say " if other people are okay than you'll be okay too" and than walk away like nothing happened.
Heey my Friend, I know life I can be unspeakable hard and there are times where nobody is there for you and you wanna give up... but please, don't give up. Always say to yourself "there is a time so good in the future, I can't even imagine how good I will feel right now", even if you can't see it yet. It's forth all the struggle, believe be my friend. I personally still struggle as well but I'm more than sure that we both will make it!!
Hey man. I’m 56. I KNOW how you feel. This is the beginning of Manhood. The struggle is yours, most likely no-one can help you. But you have strength within you. Strength that you don’t even realise you have. Endurance. The capacity to change and grow. The Stubborness to simply say “No, I’m NOT going to let this shit win.” You have the Power to let everything crumble around you and discover, in the wasteland and dust after, that You are the only thing still standing. You can walk out of the desert, empowered by all that you have endured. Never give up. Keep going. Make it through and fully realise what being “strong” means. Self-realised Resilience is the Strength of being “a Man”. ✊🙏
We men got to support each other and stop judging each other just because we cry in front of other men your not alone brother keep fighting because that's what we do best🙏
I agree. Men need to find ways to support each other. I as a woman will do my best to support the men around me too. I remember having some good talks with my brother when things were tough for him, and I hope he still feels like he can talk to me.
Neither. Ever since she met her new boyfriend I’m just in the background and whenever I ask for something she shouts. She makes me feel like i have nothing, like I am nothing
I'll never forget the man I talked to at work, I work in a call center, and while we we're working out his issues, we had a real conversation.... and that man...who was at least 50yrs old broke down and cried about abuse from his childhood...it was such a real moment we shared .....I pray he found the peace he needed....bless all those suffering in silence....🙏🏾
Tyson Fury (first guy) is an incredible role model and outspoken about his struggles. I resonate so much with his dialogue here, its everyday and it never stops, but remember you woke up today and many people didn't, make the most of what God has given you and know there is help out there.
Bro please have strength in yourself, if you believe then believe on God, just do what you can right now, please, you can breakdown, but take along your problems and fight like warrior. Lot proud and lots of wishes, love and blessing to you.. And it's for everyone who is down, smile and little homie now please 🙏😄❤
Believe in yourself bro, don't stop trying. Everybody has lows and highs in their lives. I'm sure you have someone willing to hear you. Stay strong brother, I don't know you but you have a brother here willing to hear your problems.
We men got to support each other and stop judging each other just because we cry in front of other men your not alone brother keep fighting because that's what we do best🙏
Being a man in 2023 is kinda like roller skating up a volcano. It’s really fucking hard and by the time you get up there, you’re probably regretting it…and dead.
6:10 thank you man I haven’t heard those words in a while. It’s tough having to hear it through a screen but at least I get to hear it. One day I’ll hear it in person, I deserve it. Someone will see my potential. All I need is one person
Some times the best part of my day is when I pull into my garage, turn the car off, close the door and just sit for a few minutes in the car in dark silence….
My best friend of 20 years ommitted suicide on June 26th of this year. And the only questions parents are asking me is, "why are you taking a leave of abscence this semester?", "why are you letting someone's death stop you from doing what you want to do?!". And i sit and realize that my own parents don't give a fuck about how i feel. Sometimes i wonder jow life would have been if i were female, if it were be any different. But all i know is, i cant even show my feelings about death without permission otherwise my own family feels obligated to "whack me on the head", so to speak, and tell me "grow up".
Can't imagine what you're going through. I'm really sorry to hear about your best friend passing bro. You as person matter. Your thoughts, feelings seriously do matter. With best intentions hope ok bro 🙏
been married 2 years....lost my job due to health problems and were struggling to keep things together and i honestly feel like im not doing any good...dont know if today will be the day tho...might be best
I'm a little late with this video. So I apologize. I feel the deepest sincerity for all my fellow brothers feeling like they are not good enough. Remember, whether you know it or not you are good enough to the people around you. That's all we need, good enough.
I don't think anyone realizes that men want to feel safe too. In my last relationship I defended my ex, protected her, and built her up despite it breaking me down. And when I needed her to hold me together for once as I was falling apart, she laughed and walked away... I dropped literally everything for her just to make sure she was okay, but when I needed her help, all she did was walk away like I was nothing... Same thing after she left. She told allnour friends lies and blamed me for everything she did, and without even considering listening to me, they all immediately took her side... For what felt like an eternity, I had absolutely no one while she was distracting herself with other people... It's been over a year and I still have nightmares, I still have panic attacks that drive me to the floor gasping for air, and I still have flashbacks. I'm so terrified to sleep because I'm afraid to see her in my nightmares... But does anyone care?... no...
I look around me and I can't put into words how lucky I am to have a grandfather, the only man in my family who did anything to better his life and to provide a better life for his four kids, one of whom wasn't his and three of whom turned out to be ditch-diggers, I'm lucky as can be to have his old AF lean-to and not pay for a goddamn thing so long as I have a job. That was the condition, the house is yours, keep the job, pay the bills, you don't have to pay rent. But I work my job, and at the end of the day, I can't save up for a damn thing. I'm doing everything I can to buy a PC or a laptop so I can start the most important project in my life, a project has the capability of lifting my family out of the poor class. Every week I only have $100 to my name, then something comes up, and I lose it for one reason or another. I look around my home, and I can't see anything that I own. Just a mattress on the floor, an alarm clock, a lava lamp, and this phone. Everywhere I go, I need to put up a facade or I'll be deemed as worthless and I'm afraid that I'll lose my job or be ostracized by the people around me. In my head I'm screaming, crying, raging, doing violent acts to my failures. But I'm alright, hitting that grind, running that mile, climbing that mountain because I have only one reason to do so. My project. My dream. My final reason for living and struggling. If that, too, is taken from my, I wouldn't kill myself, but I'll still die.
Dig in son. I am a man in his later yrs and have achieved all I set out to do. Is it nice yeah I guess so but son I NEVER felt more alive than I did when I was in your shoes. Life is a journey it ain't about arriving at the goal but the journey there. Dig in, never quit, never give in. You have everything you need to succeed within you.
It's something I would never understand. Why do they always blame the man?? They just put us in a situation where we are just blaming each other continuously.
For me, I am dealing with most of basic things mainly family problems and financial crisis.. And when I feel like not moving forward, I just go to my room shut myself in and watch any things, but still this overthinking kills me from the inside.
I was the nice quiet guy in my school. I was used, mocked, left. Never had any close friends only people that kept me around either because they wanted something or just to have someone to mock. Then i would go home where my dad if he was in a bad mood would phisically attack me. I mever stopped being the nice guy, i never fucking learned. No matter how many times i got fucked over i would still be nice to them. Now i camt hold a simple conversation. I dont have any friends. Always alone. I normally dont care but then there are days where im just fucked. Went to a psicologist, basically useless. My dad no longer hits me but still treats me like shit when he is mad, calling me all sorts of names. I work 11 hours a day and i wake up thinking why the hell am i doing this shit for.
Am extremely sorry to learn what youve been going through, sometimes being tough isnt enough but its all we know and all we have dont give up even when youve hit rock bottom dont give up! Even when it seems hopeless dont give up! Even when it seems like the world is about to get you never give up! There's always a calm after everything... So please dont give up please never give up...
It's ok. I can only imagine how hard being a man must be. However, you are human. It's gotta come out one way or another. I would strongly advise EFFECTIVE COUNSELING with a male therapist. It has changed the lives of men that I know for the better.
I've never really struggled with depression as some people have but I've struggled with chronic anxiety and immense fear for most most of my life (I'm 16) it's gripped and it got really bad I thought people could read my mind and that people were judging me for the littlest things. I've dealt with rejection and have hurt people myself, trying to overcome it in my own strength but falling each time. I was young and naive so I thought little of what I was going through until I was taken out of this. Only one gave me life and hope (Jesus) is you don't believe that's alright no worries but if you do He can save you like He did me
No body in my family wonts to here me about my mental health but my sibling gets more help then me but when they finally got help for me and my sibling was not as depressed any more my mom blames for Lossing things and my mom tells problems about me behinds my back and tell me do more thing and when my sibling picks on me my mom tells them lightly to stop but when I joke to my sibling and I don't say any thing that mean maybe teasing her but that's it just normal sibling thing my mom over reacts he calls me annoying when I do the slightest things and maybe your like she's younger then you no we are about the same age my mom don't care about me more then my sister my sister gets everything and picks on me and gets away with it and all end up being my fault at the end so let's be together stop being a bully to people and be responsible and help people men or girl I don't care stick up for for yourself and every one stop men criticism and let's be together like sibling that are happy
When people ask me am I alright my response is that I have to be and the conversation ends
I'm 20 years old and I feel as if everything in my life is crumbling away including me but everyone around me doesn't care enough to listen when I try and get help. They always ignore it or say " if other people are okay than you'll be okay too" and than walk away like nothing happened.
Stay strong king.
How are you now champ...
Hey man I hope you're okay. Give us a reply if you can. Stay strong out there dude.
Heey my Friend, I know life I can be unspeakable hard and there are times where nobody is there for you and you wanna give up... but please, don't give up. Always say to yourself "there is a time so good in the future, I can't even imagine how good I will feel right now", even if you can't see it yet. It's forth all the struggle, believe be my friend. I personally still struggle as well but I'm more than sure that we both will make it!!
Hey man. I’m 56. I KNOW how you feel. This is the beginning of Manhood. The struggle is yours, most likely no-one can help you. But you have strength within you. Strength that you don’t even realise you have. Endurance. The capacity to change and grow. The Stubborness to simply say “No, I’m NOT going to let this shit win.” You have the Power to let everything crumble around you and discover, in the wasteland and dust after, that You are the only thing still standing. You can walk out of the desert, empowered by all that you have endured. Never give up. Keep going. Make it through and fully realise what being “strong” means. Self-realised Resilience is the Strength of being “a Man”. ✊🙏
We men got to support each other and stop judging each other just because we cry in front of other men your not alone brother keep fighting because that's what we do best🙏
I agree...
I agree. Men need to find ways to support each other.
I as a woman will do my best to support the men around me too. I remember having some good talks with my brother when things were tough for him, and I hope he still feels like he can talk to me.
That second to the last clip broke me.
I keep asking other people how they're doing. But nobody asked me how am I doing.
Society failed us men
I can’t even speak to my own mother for help
Neither. Ever since she met her new boyfriend I’m just in the background and whenever I ask for something she shouts. She makes me feel like i have nothing, like I am nothing
@@TheOutsiderEdge316 you aren’t anything… you matter to me if you ever need a friend I can personally and respectfully would love to be your friend
I have been there bro , 🫶
Whats help?
Why? Mother's always care about own kid's. You should talk to her. They love us. Whatever it takes.
When I fall down I have to pick myself up. Most of the time I don't have the energy, I just want to lay here and die.
I'll never forget the man I talked to at work, I work in a call center, and while we we're working out his issues, we had a real conversation.... and that man...who was at least 50yrs old broke down and cried about abuse from his childhood...it was such a real moment we shared .....I pray he found the peace he needed....bless all those suffering in silence....🙏🏾
Men are awesome 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
Thanks for the support
They are
But so are women 🤩🤩🤩🤩
Thank you.
Amen
I think I cried harder when I reached my hands over my face, trying to silence myself
Tyson Fury (first guy) is an incredible role model and outspoken about his struggles. I resonate so much with his dialogue here, its everyday and it never stops, but remember you woke up today and many people didn't, make the most of what God has given you and know there is help out there.
I feel the same way as the first guy in this vid. I'm suffering from depression and my family doesn't want to hear me
Bro please have strength in yourself, if you believe then believe on God, just do what you can right now, please, you can breakdown, but take along your problems and fight like warrior. Lot proud and lots of wishes, love and blessing to you..
And it's for everyone who is down, smile and little homie now please 🙏😄❤
Believe in yourself bro, don't stop trying. Everybody has lows and highs in their lives. I'm sure you have someone willing to hear you. Stay strong brother, I don't know you but you have a brother here willing to hear your problems.
We men got to support each other and stop judging each other just because we cry in front of other men your not alone brother keep fighting because that's what we do best🙏
I’m sending you hugs! Hope you get better soon xxx
Being a man in 2023 is kinda like roller skating up a volcano. It’s really fucking hard and by the time you get up there, you’re probably regretting it…and dead.
6:10 thank you man I haven’t heard those words in a while. It’s tough having to hear it through a screen but at least I get to hear it.
One day I’ll hear it in person, I deserve it. Someone will see my potential. All I need is one person
This video found you for a reason
Some times the best part of my day is when I pull into my garage, turn the car off, close the door and just sit for a few minutes in the car in dark silence….
My best friend of 20 years ommitted suicide on June 26th of this year. And the only questions parents are asking me is, "why are you taking a leave of abscence this semester?", "why are you letting someone's death stop you from doing what you want to do?!". And i sit and realize that my own parents don't give a fuck about how i feel. Sometimes i wonder jow life would have been if i were female, if it were be any different. But all i know is, i cant even show my feelings about death without permission otherwise my own family feels obligated to "whack me on the head", so to speak, and tell me "grow up".
Can't imagine what you're going through. I'm really sorry to hear about your best friend passing bro. You as person matter. Your thoughts, feelings seriously do matter. With best intentions hope ok bro 🙏
been married 2 years....lost my job due to health problems and were struggling to keep things together and i honestly feel like im not doing any good...dont know if today will be the day tho...might be best
I mean well. I really hope your ok bro 🙏
Thank you for this
if a girl breaks up with a guy shes mad at him cuz he didnt had time for her but the guy is depressed that he couldnt make better. and thats sad
Thank you.. I'm glad more men are talking about this. You are respected and truly appreciated.
I'm a little late with this video. So I apologize. I feel the deepest sincerity for all my fellow brothers feeling like they are not good enough. Remember, whether you know it or not you are good enough to the people around you. That's all we need, good enough.
I'll be completely honest I broke down and bawled halfway through its real hard to make it through somedays
I don't think anyone realizes that men want to feel safe too. In my last relationship I defended my ex, protected her, and built her up despite it breaking me down. And when I needed her to hold me together for once as I was falling apart, she laughed and walked away... I dropped literally everything for her just to make sure she was okay, but when I needed her help, all she did was walk away like I was nothing...
Same thing after she left. She told allnour friends lies and blamed me for everything she did, and without even considering listening to me, they all immediately took her side... For what felt like an eternity, I had absolutely no one while she was distracting herself with other people... It's been over a year and I still have nightmares, I still have panic attacks that drive me to the floor gasping for air, and I still have flashbacks. I'm so terrified to sleep because I'm afraid to see her in my nightmares... But does anyone care?... no...
I care buddy.
Chin up and move on, you are more valuable than you think.
Last piece, get in touch with God or a higher power.
I'm really sorry to hear what went through bro. With best intentions hope ok bro 🙏
I look around me and I can't put into words how lucky I am to have a grandfather, the only man in my family who did anything to better his life and to provide a better life for his four kids, one of whom wasn't his and three of whom turned out to be ditch-diggers, I'm lucky as can be to have his old AF lean-to and not pay for a goddamn thing so long as I have a job. That was the condition, the house is yours, keep the job, pay the bills, you don't have to pay rent.
But I work my job, and at the end of the day, I can't save up for a damn thing. I'm doing everything I can to buy a PC or a laptop so I can start the most important project in my life, a project has the capability of lifting my family out of the poor class. Every week I only have $100 to my name, then something comes up, and I lose it for one reason or another. I look around my home, and I can't see anything that I own. Just a mattress on the floor, an alarm clock, a lava lamp, and this phone. Everywhere I go, I need to put up a facade or I'll be deemed as worthless and I'm afraid that I'll lose my job or be ostracized by the people around me. In my head I'm screaming, crying, raging, doing violent acts to my failures. But I'm alright, hitting that grind, running that mile, climbing that mountain because I have only one reason to do so. My project. My dream. My final reason for living and struggling. If that, too, is taken from my, I wouldn't kill myself, but I'll still die.
Dig in son. I am a man in his later yrs and have achieved all I set out to do. Is it nice yeah I guess so but son I NEVER felt more alive than I did when I was in your shoes. Life is a journey it ain't about arriving at the goal but the journey there. Dig in, never quit, never give in. You have everything you need to succeed within you.
Thanks.
They keep saying your family are the ones you I can talk to but what are you supposed to do when when your family causes most of your stress
Talk to God.
This video is helpful . Thanks you
That dude at 1:34 realy got me smiling I can't thank him enough
Facts
It's something I would never understand. Why do they always blame the man??
They just put us in a situation where we are just blaming each other continuously.
For me, I am dealing with most of basic things mainly family problems and financial crisis..
And when I feel like not moving forward, I just go to my room shut myself in and watch any things, but still this overthinking kills me from the inside.
I was there, actually still there..
And it is really sucks to be at that position
Just wanna stop the pain but I never goes away
I was the nice quiet guy in my school.
I was used, mocked, left.
Never had any close friends only people that kept me around either because they wanted something or just to have someone to mock.
Then i would go home where my dad if he was in a bad mood would phisically attack me.
I mever stopped being the nice guy, i never fucking learned.
No matter how many times i got fucked over i would still be nice to them.
Now i camt hold a simple conversation.
I dont have any friends.
Always alone. I normally dont care but then there are days where im just fucked.
Went to a psicologist, basically useless.
My dad no longer hits me but still treats me like shit when he is mad, calling me all sorts of names.
I work 11 hours a day and i wake up thinking why the hell am i doing this shit for.
Am extremely sorry to learn what youve been going through, sometimes being tough isnt enough but its all we know and all we have dont give up even when youve hit rock bottom dont give up! Even when it seems hopeless dont give up! Even when it seems like the world is about to get you never give up! There's always a calm after everything... So please dont give up please never give up...
21 year old and wondering what tf am I doing here , getting up every day struggling but still smiling putting others first , why do I do this
It's ok. I can only imagine how hard being a man must be. However, you are human. It's gotta come out one way or another. I would strongly advise EFFECTIVE COUNSELING with a male therapist.
It has changed the lives of men that I know for the better.
This helps
What is the song when jordan Peterson is talking?
i’m alright
Does anyone know the song at 1:25 please?
I've never really struggled with depression as some people have but I've struggled with chronic anxiety and immense fear for most most of my life (I'm 16) it's gripped and it got really bad I thought people could read my mind and that people were judging me for the littlest things. I've dealt with rejection and have hurt people myself, trying to overcome it in my own strength but falling each time. I was young and naive so I thought little of what I was going through until I was taken out of this. Only one gave me life and hope (Jesus) is you don't believe that's alright no worries but if you do He can save you like He did me
What's that song on the last tiktok
Im tired of putting on this fake mask Everyone around me think im the strongest.. deep down im crumbling
Stay strong bro...
No body in my family wonts to here me about my mental health but my sibling gets more help then me but when they finally got help for me and my sibling was not as depressed any more my mom blames for Lossing things and my mom tells problems about me behinds my back and tell me do more thing and when my sibling picks on me my mom tells them lightly to stop but when I joke to my sibling and I don't say any thing that mean maybe teasing her but that's it just normal sibling thing my mom over reacts he calls me annoying when I do the slightest things and maybe your like she's younger then you no we are about the same age my mom don't care about me more then my sister my sister gets everything and picks on me and gets away with it and all end up being my fault at the end so let's be together stop being a bully to people and be responsible and help people men or girl I don't care stick up for for yourself and every one stop men criticism and let's be together like sibling that are happy
Sometimes a perfect stranger can really help. See you @menwecare Lets share the struggle together. #mens mental health (together were stronger)
@its_e_1020 up that guy spoke every word I’m feeling