Why My Husband Doesn't Have Herpes, Preventing Herpes Transmission, Wellness For Herpes 3/22/23

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  • 0:00 Introduction
    01:44 Misconception about people who have herpes
    03:03 Is eczema a form of herpes
    03:54 What type of herpes do I have
    04:35 Do I make my husband to take something to avoid herpes transmission
    05:23 Why don't they test for herpes
    05:55 STD/STI difference
    06:36 People who seek therapy for herpes
    07:11 Did I have outbreaks during pregnancy
    08:03 My partner did not tell me they have herpes
    09:55 Spreading HSV through mucous membranes
    10:34 Viral shedding of herpes
    10:58 Back pain w/ herpes
    11:18 Can herpes form on inner lip
    12:00 Do we need to use condoms with herpes
    12:53 How does everyone have herpes
    14:08 Antivirals and delivery with herpes
    14:29 Have you taken suppressive therapy
    15:07 What does my husband do to prevent transmission
    15:33 My genital area looks different after I got herpes outbreak
    15:49 If I never had an outbreak, is it possible I don't have it
    16:23 Tiny white spots & herpes
    16:43 Can I have it and never had an outbreak
    16:55 Herpes on lower back
    17:05 Supplements for herpes
    18:48 Where can herpes outbreak be
    19:15 Do outbreak rebound when you stopped suppressive therapy
    19:35 Can you become pregnant while taking acyclovir
    20:00 When will herpes outbreaks stop
    20:13 Ways of lessening outbreaks
    21:45 Are supplements safe to take while pregnant
    22:36 Can you take supplements along with antivirals
    22:55 How many outbreaks do I get
    23:11 Are supplements comparable to antiviral
    26:22 At what age have I got herpes
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ความคิดเห็น • 69

  • @user-go6lz9hz8f
    @user-go6lz9hz8f ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I have to say, I don’t even think I have herpes but knowing that someone like you is out there to support means a lot. Our society’s stigmatization is the source of all the fear and shame. Thank you for doing this!

  • @carsonjensen1038
    @carsonjensen1038 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Just got diagnosed, you have helped me tremendously

  • @user-je5de5qp6r
    @user-je5de5qp6r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for all your help. God Bless You

  • @sasha.tori99
    @sasha.tori99 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just got diagnosed. Your videos are really helping me process this and makes me feel less alone!

  • @HIMTHOTHY_Da1
    @HIMTHOTHY_Da1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your vids relax me too

  • @jeisymiranda
    @jeisymiranda ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I live in Cuba. Here it's very dificult to get the tess. So I hace yo wait a little more. I'm SO exiting with your Chanel and You changed My way of thinking. A bunch of love for you
    And so happy for understand You every thing 😅😂♥️

  • @HIMTHOTHY_Da1
    @HIMTHOTHY_Da1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Appreciate you for these I was wondering what Soaps I should start using just in case of an outbreak cause I haven’t got one yet ❤

  • @nehagawde574
    @nehagawde574 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you make video about how your IVF process went with the hsv ? What frequency of obs you had ? Was it when you were taking injections etc ?

  • @MissOnelove28
    @MissOnelove28 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🫶

  • @CAmom75
    @CAmom75 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thinking I should stay on the anti-virals for now, until I build up my immune system more. 🤔

  • @amour9027
    @amour9027 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fact that a doctor told me 4 years ago they don't test for it like it's no big deal. If they stopped thinking like this ppl wouldn't be passing it around as much. I don't understand.

  • @MichelleWhite-tc2zk
    @MichelleWhite-tc2zk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

  • @Validsince99
    @Validsince99 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My ex gave me this horrible thing sleeping with every guy walking & now I have to live with it 😔

    • @OpalRavenna
      @OpalRavenna 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      First of all, a diagnosis isn’t life threatening. The shaming/blaming you’re laying on your ex is perpetuating the undeserved stigma that only a promiscuous person can have HSV. Now that you’ve been diagnosed, do you see yourself as less than others or promiscuous? Learn and educate.

  • @richardgonzalez7539
    @richardgonzalez7539 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can u talk about the side effects the anti virals may have?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      antivirals are considered pretty safe, even in long-term. There are however side effects, as with every drug. The most concerning one is the effect on liver, so some doctors will test patients regularly who stay on antivirals for years.
      You can find others listen on the medication label, but some people complain of hair loss, depression, headache, and such.

  • @ciciloveLA
    @ciciloveLA ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How effective is lysine without the other supplements on herpes transmission ?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lysine is something herpes doesn't like. Many people say it helps them with their outbreaks, but you need to know it's no 100% guarantee. Actually, nothing is. Even with antivirals, you can still get outbreaks. But, more you do/stronger your immune is, less chances there are you will be shedding and not know.

  • @cindyj0312
    @cindyj0312 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How often did you get outbreaks your first year of being diagnosed with HSV 2? So far I had 3 outbreaks in a year. Would it decrease the longer I have it? I had an outbreak that lasted a little over a month and I can’t take this pain. 😢

    • @AMVREYZEN
      @AMVREYZEN 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Could you please update? Did it decrease?

    • @Rawherbalshots
      @Rawherbalshots 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi Cindy I am sorry to hear that...hope you get some help!

    • @Rawherbalshots
      @Rawherbalshots 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know of some herbs that could help you.

  • @Casyfill
    @Casyfill 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What are the supplements mentioned in the video ?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Andrographis, monolaurin and lysine.
      You can get them here.
      www.naturalcurelabs.com/collections/all-products?ref=LWH

  • @julienalexander6113
    @julienalexander6113 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn. I didn't know your partner could take the antiviral... could you explain more on that?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry, where did I say that?

    • @julienalexander6113
      @julienalexander6113 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@lifewithherpes Sorry, i missed the context that you were talking in @12:41. you were talking about another persons partner. My bad.

  • @jeisymiranda
    @jeisymiranda ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your comunity and your working almost every day. A bunch of love for you ,🤍🤍🤍

  • @americoechevarria8387
    @americoechevarria8387 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you get fever with the first outbreak of herpes? I mean my rush it’s almost gone and I’m having a little fever and it’s destroying mentally

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  ปีที่แล้ว

      You can have flu-like symptoms, yes

  • @HIMTHOTHY_Da1
    @HIMTHOTHY_Da1 ปีที่แล้ว

    It won’t let me purchase the Clean L-lysine it keeps saying my card information wasn’t verified even tho I’m putting my card correctly my address & I was able to purchase 2 of the essential oils & the rescue lip balm & the other Lip balm with SPF

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, for the lysine, we can't help you directly, since it's not our company. So,if you can, please contact the company - they have great customer service!

  • @user-qv1zs3xv3x
    @user-qv1zs3xv3x 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So should I disclose this with my ex wife who gave me herpes? Before we had our second child, that’s when she decided to disclose this information to me. She told me it was a year before me and her met us when she got it from someone else. Should I bring this up to her? Right now she’s wanting a divorce. When she disclosed this to me she sat there and cried over my shoulder. But we did not have a serious talk about it.

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry, if you should disclose what?

  • @jamesoconner9262
    @jamesoconner9262 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This thing sucks. Im on week 5 and everyday get a new red bump on my face. Do you have any suggestions? I hope this is just the initial thing and it will go away. Seems like my skin is less smooth also ever since i got it

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you have constant outbreaks, try boosting your immune system. Something like this immune support, and lysine + monolaurin can help to boost your immune system, which seems to be struggling with the virus.
      www.naturalcurelabs.com/www.naturalcurelabs.com/products/immunesupport/?ref=LWHproducts/immunesupport/?ref=LWH

  • @stephaniediaz1222
    @stephaniediaz1222 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How come your husband does not have it? If you have it? How can you prevent

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  ปีที่แล้ว

      I talk about it often :)
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  • @sexymoore9126
    @sexymoore9126 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What are u taking to help with the outbreak so u don’t pass it to your husband..

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Supplements: androgrpahis, monolaurin and lysine

  • @jeanbobbb
    @jeanbobbb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Herpes is awesome! I always tell it to everyone so they know that I iz doing it a lot! 💪🏿🚀

  • @Validsince99
    @Validsince99 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do I use to not give my girlfriend anything ?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can take antivirals, prescribed by your doctor. You can also take lysine, monolaurin and immune boosting supplements to keep your immune system strong. However, none of these things are 100% guarantee.
      www.lifewithherpes.com/monolaurin

  • @sugar1973us
    @sugar1973us ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Are we close at all to finding a cure or having a vaccine?

    • @Validsince99
      @Validsince99 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right??!

    • @BlargeMan
      @BlargeMan ปีที่แล้ว +3

      **possibly**, there are some promising vaccine and gene therapy candidates that are either in or moving in to clinical trials soon

  • @joyokafor9243
    @joyokafor9243 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can I take these supplements that you take although I dont have herpes but my boyfriend does?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes! A healthy immune system is the best thing you can do to keep viruses at bay. You may want to check andrographis. There are some studies suggesting it can block viral entry (of the herpes virus). A great supplement if you don't have herpes. You can get it here: and use LWH code to get 10% off.
      www.lifewithherpes.com/shop-andrographis

  • @kennethriddick5907
    @kennethriddick5907 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is it still possible to contract hsv 2 From just kissing someone not oral

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If the person has oral HSV2, then it's possible to get it with kissing

  • @billmichell3004
    @billmichell3004 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry just confused. If you don't take any perscribed meds and your husband doesn't take use protection. How does he not get herpes 2

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're not contagious all the time. Alexandra & her husband somehow managed to avoid it. Alexandra is very adamant about communication and takes her supplements.

  • @tonjastandley375
    @tonjastandley375 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you get an outbreak in your nostrils?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, you can get it anywhere on your body

  • @younggirlmitz4555
    @younggirlmitz4555 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is it harder to pass it on if its not on yr private part

  • @courtneyschroet7399
    @courtneyschroet7399 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have herpees can I still kiss my boyfriend

  • @ianbott1449
    @ianbott1449 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was advised not to take anti virals on a regular basis as it lowers your immunity

    • @persevere6326
      @persevere6326 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not true. Its 'antibiotics" that lower your own system. Not antiviral

  • @Martin944turbo
    @Martin944turbo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, I was told by doctors that there is no test, blood test or anything, can that confirm if you have it or not until you flare up and they can swab a blister. For blood tests, there may be a DNA marker left behind that shows if your immunute system has fought it but there are no tests that confirm if you have it or not.
    I noticed a video of your husband on the channel and you mentioned that he gets tested twice a year. I find this misleading your audience. Your husband may have it and no flare up. No tests will confirm if he has it.
    Can you please clarify for your viewers? Many if your videos are very misleading with this thinking that a partner can simply get tested for peace of mind. The truth is that your husband may have it and fall into the 90% of asymptomatic people. It's a risk and choice we make.

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi, thank you for your comment.
      Many times doctors test via blood test to see if the person has herpes, but is asymptomatic. Since most people are asymptomatic, but can still shed and transmit it to their partners, this is sensible. Even a quick google search on CDC confirms that.
      Sometimes doctors are reluctant to test for herpes since a test taken too soon can end up in a false-negative result. It is also said that 'knowing you have herpes' can be worse because of the stigma, and there are no proof that 'knowing' would end up in different behaviors in individuals infected.
      Antibodies can take up to 6 months to develop, so in a long-run, if you get infected, it would show positive at one point.
      However, different doctors have different opinions, and some don't want to test for herpes, unless there are indicators that the person is at risk, or was knowingly exposed. For many doctors herpes is no more than a nuisance and a patient knowing can just cause discomfort, but nothing that would really be significant for them, in terms of health.
      I hope that explains your concerns.

    • @SalvadorRamirez-sk2jx
      @SalvadorRamirez-sk2jx หลายเดือนก่อน

      You say nothing significant in terms of health but what about children 🤔 is there any health concerns on children 4 yrs and older I'm dealing with emotions and at the emergency room because I feel like I passed it on to my children from Sharing drinks

    • @SalvadorRamirez-sk2jx
      @SalvadorRamirez-sk2jx หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@lifewithherpes I didn't have any visual cold sores but I noticed inside of roof of mouth red little dots and my kids have the same red little dots except my wife