17 HARSH TRUTHS about men I wish more women knew ⚠️
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As a guy I wish every girl sees this video because it also creates a higher standard of man which will benefit society.
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Thanks dude 😊
We need more guys like you
I agree
The pro women guys are the most toxic one, pretending to be nice to get free attention,old tactics
If I need to train a man to treat me with respect/ human decency then I don't want that man. That's a broken man.
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Exactly I’m not training anyone. Training is still labor and it’s a job. Just be decent person
In male circles I see men are willing to train a woman, but now I'm seeing women aren't willing to train men.
So men are open to potential, but women want the man to come prepackaged good already. Brutal.
deadass…take his ass back to the factory
Stay single then@@SaphireSparkk
NOT DATING ANYONE, BUT SINCE SIMONE POSTED, WE GOTTA WATCH IT!!
Love that 😅
Same! ❤
Same, it's not relevant to me, but want it to circulate 😌✨️✊️
ME
Most here are hateful fe,mce,ls so yeah no dating for y'all 🤣
As an aside, beware of guys who badmouth every girl they're dating. There is a quiet confidence in men who know how to be discrete
AGREEEEE
What’s the reason for them to be doing this? I had a couple of guys I talked to who had done it, very uncomfortable.
@@catchingfeelings2691Ego boost I’m guessing.
@@simonesquared Beware of girls who badmouth every guy they've dated. AGREEEEEEEE
If a guy badmouths his exes please don't date him
1:05 A dream girl looks different for every man,BUT they have some commonalities.
1:50 Sometimes you will get "fumbled" because you're Too good and they can't meet you at that level.
2:01 "You deserve better than me" = I don't care about you enough/or have the capacity to meet you at the level you want.
2:36 Being too good is a thing.
3:40 Even if a guy doesn't like you, but you're convenient and giving him things...he will keep you around.
7:20 Men settle more than women.
7:59 They stay in comfortable relationships, even if it is not ideal.
8:17 Taxi cab theory is real and timing is everything for guys.
9:56 They will do everything to get laid. It's harder for them and not readily available like it is for us.
9:59 Fragile people seek validation through multiple people
10:07 Men will do everything to repair and protect their ego, even at your expense.
12:22 Men are drawn to boundaries and self-respect, unless narcissistic, weak and fragile.
12:42 Men need to feel needed and valued by you.
13:10 Many men can be gold-diggers too Imao
13:40 No excuses for consistent late reply. He doesn't like you!
14:10 Men are simple and go for what they want. Mixed signals = don't like you (they may ne in denial too tho)
14:30 They come back for an ego boost to see if you're still willing to take them back.
15:11 If he is bad early on, he will be worse later.
Correction, "you deserve better than me" = i gonna off myself.
Thanks ❤
Thank you for preparing this my brain is a little too smooth to watch the whole video lol
1:30.. so cringe
“If you’re overqualified they actually don’t hire you…”
Meaning?
@@Peter-sl6zn When they say they don't deserve you, they are telling the truth.
The way y'all view guys is so gross misandrist and toxic no wonder y'all are single
"We deserve more" you deserve nothing, we are not work horses for you, do your own work
Next level delolo
The way y'all view us is so misandrist, acting like we owe you effort or a date, we owe you nothing, pay for your own life, maybe you put in effort for once, literally viewing us as work horses
Sounds like coping
I wish women truly accept rejection as a big protection for us coming directly from God himself.
I like this way of seeing it. Like rejection is God protecting you, makes rejection feel easier too
Hurts their fragile feminine egos
Brilliant darling!!!
That's what my best friend Paul said to me "If they ignore you that's Good be glad. That's what you want". I agree with him. I feel peaceful and think they are gone but in a few weeks or months they come back with knife symbols, blood symbols and insults.
beautiful perspective
12:38 LITERALLY what happened to my mother 😢… she was this gorgeous single, city girl and my father was from this village but was extremely hardworking. She paid him no attention whatsoever and he’d stand outside her dormitory gates for hours and she finally gave him a shot and she didn’t know he was a narc. He truly broke her down it’s just so tragic looking back. He made sure she had nothing for herself. No longer able to pursue her hobbies or interests. Now that she has cancer I feel like she’s relieved and finally ready to leave this world. I still want her to go to therapy.
Wow, thats so terrible…
my mom always told me to avoid village men cuz they are most of the time narcs, so this makes so much sense, and yeah my father was a narc too but my mom is too strong to be controlled lol. I feel bad for your mother, i hope she gets better and recover soon, cancer is hard but giving up mentally is like death.
Every girl should take therapy and human psychology and always always stay mean.
those shy guys can be evil too unfourtnaly
My biggest fear. One dude can literally derail your whole life.
Some time ago, I posted in a women’s group about a guy I was seeing. I shared that he didn’t plan dates in advance, never walked me to my car after a date, and would constantly suggest “stay-at-home dates” (which, you know... we all understand what that’s about). Honestly, I was just venting and didn’t expect much of a reaction.
To my surprise, most women attacked me, saying I was "high maintenance." LOL. In my opinion, though, what I wanted was the bare minimum-guys are hunters by nature, right? Anyway, I ended up dumping him, and guess what? He suddenly started to change and act like a gentleman. But by then, I had already lost interest.
This just proves my point: the higher your standards, the more effort men put in. Don’t make it easy for them, ladies! If a guy really wants you, he’ll move heaven and earth. If he’s putting in low effort, it’s because he’s keeping you around until the "hard-to-get" woman comes along. Think about it-men always seem head over heels for the women who don’t want them. Something to consider! 💁♀
I totally understand the touching thing. You don't need to touch me to talk to me and definitely not on the first date. Boundaries are boundaries. 💅🏼
But don't women like physical touch?
@basilhenry-eyo6522 yes, but not necessarily on the first date and CERTAINLY not to speak to me.
@ ok so when can a man establish physical touch?
@@basilhenry-eyo6522 think it's different with every person. I think the first few times you hang out should be about getting to know each other and see where it goes from there.
@ true true
15:28 "guilty until proven innocent" lmfaoo i love simone so much
Truth 100%
Relationships are dying in this mordern world. And women are the onrs killing it.
@@StarzyGaming-fg3rk womp womp
1:54 I did not understand this until I was journaling yesterday and I reached this conclusion. The way you can love, be honest and straightforward can terrify the other person esp if they are dishonest and lowkey an asshole because they know who they are. And instead of rising up to your energy they "fumble" you and run to other options.
This was such a freeing realization. That's why they say "Don't dim your light for others"
Some men can only play games because they are kids. Adults are honest and straight forward. So yes, they will seek a girl that is an emotional child like them
In a way it's flattering when they fumble you this way. This sums up basically all of my relationships in the past 2 years, and I know that's what's happening because half of them told me that's what it was, and the ones that didn't tell me reacted the same as the ones that did
It's frustrating because I don't know how to find a man that won't be scared of me and run away once they see the level I'm at (I'm sweet, kind, intelligent, giving... and it seriously freaks them out!)
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Simone, men refuse to give you their actual list of qualities they want in a girl to keep you guessing as a manipulation tactic. Him telling u his preference is him showing u his poker cards. Women need to start doing this.
Nah how about you raise your dam usel esss sons.
well i never ask for their list i just ask if they have a list lmfaoooo and i never give them my list too ofc. u cannot play a player periodt
@@simonesquared How can I get out of the question or go around it regarding on the what's your list question
@@mirhanmagdy2878 another commenter said this "l'll just know when I feel a vibe"
@@mollyo2407 thank you
I've been obsessed with this idea ever since I started reading 'The Irresistible Seduction Formula' by Olivia Simmons. Why don’t we talk about this more? GIRLS, you absolutely need to check it out!
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Misandrists crying they don't get respect 🤣 the irony
Rejection is Gods protection
So true.
I have to thank God many many times
in my COLLECTING DATA ERA
Same here girlie 💓
That a good Eras Tour, keep it up ❤ And use the date correctly ! 👏🏾
WE DONT NEED MEN WE NEED SIMONE😔💔🥀
Gayyy
@@mw2458 Everyone should be
@@HM87520 no
We need trans men doe and bbc
@@nonbinary_gendqrGRbbc? Why ??
you got the most unique topics that i dont find anywhere else fr
Thank uouuu
The way y'all view us is so misandrist, acting like we owe you effort or a date, we owe you nothing, pay for your own life, maybe you put in effort for once, literally viewing us as work horses
@@nobodythenobody9779 ok broke ass
@@simonesquared you will be single forever, because you don't even see us as humans, just a work horse
@@nobodythenobody9779oh no, what will we do if the rnen say they won’t date us?? Guess we’ll just have to keep doing what we were already choosing to do and not date rnen, and you guys just have to date other rnen or stay single 😂
Cry harder - threatening women with a good time isn’t exactly harming us. YOU benefit from hetero relationships, not us. That’s why you guys had to force women to date you guys by not giving them any rights so that they had to marry a rnan just to afford to live. That’s because even you guys know you are not the prize and we’re mad about it.
6. Asking someone you're seeing what their type is can be problematic, regardless of gender, and it shouldn't be considered a red flag if unanswered.
People can use that information, all the traits and behaviours you want, and mold themselves into an ideal partner to seduce and deduce you.
If a guy asked me, I'd just tell him: l'll just know when I feel a vibe
Yeah i've read this somewhere else too. Practicing discernment will really save you.
Simone is pretty on point with these. If someone is interested in you, you will know.
I'm really glad she encourages building self-respect, given that you can't truly love someone else until you love yourself first. I hope more women watch this.
GURL, THE INTRO IS EVERYTHING-
It's so cringe 🤭
thanks simone!! u literally taught me a lot and saved me from a guy. Last year i started listening to your videos and understood that a guy i had to deal with was not cool at all. he was REALLY good-looking but had a huge amount of ego and he is used to treating people like shit. i am 16 years old and last year i didnt know anything about relationships in general…. actually i ve never been his girlfriend because he disrespected me so many times and laughed at me with his female friends( idk why but i thought he was doing it because he liked me). then i opened my eyes and started to ignore him. what he did next was stolking me and chasing me at school bc he wanted me back. NOW I HAVE A STABLE RELATIONSHIP WITH MYSELF, I HAVE BOUNDARIES AND HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND (he is still angry at me bc of our story and still wants me back).
Love this! So inspiring! My mind has been completely consumed by thoughts of him. It’s been six months since he left, and the pain of losing him feels like a physical ache. The laughter, the memories, the adventures sadly, it’s all gone. I’ve tried everything to distract myself, but the harder I try, the more I find myself thinking about him. How do people let go and move on? It’s been months, yet the memories of him are still so vivid. I miss him more than words can say.
A spiritual counselor? That sounds fascinating. How can I reach out to him?
Thank you so much for sharing this I really appreciate your honesty and openness.
Same here, it took me a while to get over him and not miss him… it hurt so bad, it sounds cliche but literally just time heals everything
Search this subject on cutting Energy Cords and hypnosis about detaching. Sounds like a Twin Flame connection. Search this subject too
Therapy and finding other ways to fill those needs.
I got ghosted after the guy I’m dating for 3 months say he needs space. Sure, giving him space until he is at the very end of the earth. 😊
3 months dating. OK.. You probably had sex. He got bored. Stop giving the cookie away.
Don't ever go back to that
i needed this so bad to really cut off a guy who has inherently treated me so bad not even as a love interest but as a friend, i kept on putting it off sending this vm but especially after point 15 and 16, i need to do it - i can’t disrespect myself anymore by letting him think i’ve tolerated anything he’s done :,) there’s no point keeping a guy like that in my life, even more so if i still have left over feelings for him because it’ll definitely just make me feel worse
i feel this way rn and i already tried to cut him off but he came back and now idk what to do
Real because why did I have a guy friend who started treating me like I was his side chick, only seeing me when it was comfortable for him, leaving me on delivered after he reached out to ME. Like bro I’m not one of your b*tches you’ve got yourself confuseeeed and I cut him off. The audacityyyy
Amazing content. I am in my 30s and still surprised how many women my age don't understand those "simple" truths. They end up with a looser and wonder why he treats them like shit while it was all avoidable if they understood this in the first couple of dates...
Same
Happily single but watching it to make myself aware love u Simone❤
Simone dropping these at the right time!! I was literally feeling hopeless and lonely this past days. But now listening to this stories I'm actually glad that I'm single lol
I recently agreed to get into a relationship with someone, I’ve done a lot of self reflection and I’m contemplating breaking up with him
update: I didn’t break up but decided to be more authentic and had a serious talk with him about it, we might end up just becoming friends, but we’re getting along very well, I think there was too much emphasis on romance and not enough on genuine connection.
@@eyes1168 So you will friend zone him?
update: I decided to break up, will do it this week, I’m scarrrrrrrrred but I’ve mourned him, I got no tears left to cry, I know that this is what I want. Will update when I’ve done it
@@eyes1168 Update??
@@bhavyapanchalbe grateful any women want to be friends with rnen at all, with how y’all speak and act.
As a straight men this was interesting to hear. I also hear a lot of this from the male space online, both genders in the end having to do so much mental gymnastics, it's tiring, draining and says a lot about the current state of dating for both sides. This isn't a gender issue but a human issue, a sign of the times that one must heal themselves first before going out there, also making their intentions clear, honest and genuine.
Humanity is cooked
@dominikb1284 Fr bro. It seems to just save your sanity you need to shut off your heart from potential love. There's so much risk involved like realistically life is hard enough on its own, at this point I don't know what to do or believe, but I honestly feel stronger mentally when I just shut myself off from this side of life and just focus on my self.
@@sourcesymbiosismetamorphis2228 as a straight women . Same . Heterosexuality is a curse
@@sourcesymbiosismetamorphis2228 easier said than done… I’ll speak to a therapist about this issue soon.. haven’t had much sex in my life yet but at some point would definitely prefer to get some action
Yeah sincerity is RARE, but when we embody it, we will attract it period
It breaks my heart everytime i hear that guys think you don’t have selfe respect because you gave in too soon , i did this with the one i loved the most ( knew him for a year on and off until we met twice )and it still haunts me i wish i can turn back time to undo this bcz i keep hoping he comes back even tho he did me wrong and used me ,
there's a special place in hell for men (and women) who use people like this.
I'm sorry tho, I hope you're feeling better now
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Why it breaks your heart? You should wait until marriage
Well, from the male perspective the problem is that you keep hoping he comes back. That's why men don't like to date girls with previous experience, because they might be still in love with those men. A new guy might think that he never would replace that one man that you still in love with.
@@chavamartinez3102 i’m not gonna tell the new guy about the prev one 😅 cuz nobody does and that applies to both genders
@@HawraaHasan-ff4gq I agree with you, but I commented that because you said that guys talking about those things broke your heart. I was just explaining the male perspective. Some men might say those things so women realize that they're making it harder for themselves in the future if they have many s3xual partners when they're young. I have read about men divorcing their wives after years of marriage because they found out about their past s3xual experiences, or men canceling weddings the very same day for similar reasons. If a man is good looking and has money he probably knows that he has many options and can "replace" his woman if she does or did something that he doesn't like and this includes her s3xual past, even more if she lied about it.
Again, I'm not shaming, I'm just explaining something that may be unknown by many women.
My boyfriend broke up with me last week, and I really needed this video as an eye opener because 🤡👈 this is exactly how I feel right now 😒 anyways, thank you so much, you're like a big sister to me and i follow your advices. Ily, take care of yourself❤
There is a man in the word manipulation....🤡
@@Missbombastic-k8cthere is a man in woman
Women has a w ....men don't
@@chiknosis wo in women makes the word respectable unlike men
@@Missbombastic-k8c what does this mean?
This goes both ways! No one wants someone who doesn't value themselves. The higher your values and standards, people will work harder to meet them. Someone who is true to their values and sticks to their guns is more attractive and you respect them more.
"hey if you're watching this, I think we're gonna be BEST FRIENDS and nothing more" Simone, the way you clown them 😭😭😭
IKR, that was soooo gooood! 💀
the intro is so cool 😭
Simone is the one who saved me from dating toxic men,i'm so happy since i found her channel,thanks Queen 😄🥰🥰🥰
Dang! Spot on. This list took me 50 + years to learn and here you have it down AND teaching it to others.
Literally ilysm ..just decided to get over a situationship which was haunting me forever.
We are so gonna outgrow all men with her advice 🥰
good luck.
Don't generalize about men. They're Not ALL bad.
I stay away from jerks they suck for sure. I don't want to settle for less, learning from past bad experiences and no more bs. I deserve better and not to be treated like shit, not interrested in superficial or someone wearing a mask , he cannot drop his ego and is a player it's goodbye forever. I want something real not a manchild that treat me like a toy to fuck with, no thanks that's sickening. I respect myself and it is only normal that i would want partner that has self respect and self control and more. I'm fine by myself alone than being with the wrong person.
Unfortunately, I've been through most of this. It hits home for me too much but I needed to hear this. The guy I was with hit your description--he was just comfortable being with me and it was 'convenient'. I honestly feel so used and fucking hopeless, and my self-worth and self-esteem is at an all time low after the comments he made about me after our break up (I left him). I don't know what to do anymore. I'm lost...
Honey, you are an incredibly valuable human being who is both special and beautiful. Don't let some punk define who you are. There's light at the end of the tunnel, keep going! You are loved, and you are not alone in this.
@@Ambiverts_R_Us Thank you so much darling. It means a lot.
Babes it will get better, trust me just stay strong and tell yourself everything you wanted him to tell you!
@@Graceful4ever I will!
That must be awful to experience, it seems both genders have their own dating challenges i see now. Wish you the best!
This is insaneee, not even finished the video but everything simone says matches what i read in the book „Men don’t love women like you“ by G. L. Lambert. 100% harsh truth. Im so happy to learn all that before my first involvements with the opposite genitals
What does that mean, “men don't love women like you”?
@ women love men a different way than how men love women. And women need to understand that if they want to attract a man that truly loves them and not sees them as a „placeholder“ till they can conquer „the game changer“… there is a reason why men dont marry a woman they have been together with for 8 years and once they have cheated or broken up, they will marry the next woman after 3 months for example… or why men ruthlessly test your boundaries…or why they do everything to get into bed with you… men categorize women into fuckable and wifey-material lmao and more funny stuff i as a woman would have never thought about. They wanna pull excalibur sooo badly which is why succesful, powerful women will be pursued no matter the age. Btw i like your name, Dorian Gray is one if my fav books haha
GL lambert is correct in some ways, but his message can be misogynistic to women when he refers to women as basic b’s, ho’s, and slxts
But I do like his book ho tactics, it helps getting what you want while dangling the carrot (Wit, charisma, sex appeal).
@@Mondscheinelfe successful women will not be pursued if they have attitude problems, men prefer peace in the household. They don’t want to be fighting with their partner over what decisions to make in the house. Which is why you see men leaving their wives who is educated , pretty and successful for a girl who is not. She makes him feel needed, men want that, especially a woman who is kind, peaceful, caring, loving and respectful
I have to say that there was a study that showed success full marriages (happy in marriage, not just divorced) men knew within 6 months that they want to marry you. So I am going to start to live by this and ask in the 6 month mark where they see this going.
I also want to add that BOYS don’t know what they want. Date men not boys 😉
Because men are taught to be the right man instead of looking for the right woman because it's hard for men to be accepted. I've seen multiple men say they just got with the first girl to like them and been married for life ever since.
Gay men have the lowest divorce rate. Being pedantic is not good.
You have such older sis energy
thank you so much!!!!
Hey girl love your video. I work as a chaplain in elderly care and had so many conversations with men and women about love. I think bc life was back in the days really difficult, the only thing that really mattered was true love because you knew that you will overcome it by being together and build a solid strong foundation as in marriage. many of my elderly clients that did not find their specific person remained single and focused on other aspects of their life bc they did not want to compromise when life became better for older generations and also they understood well if i don't find her or him, thats what its at. no worries, im still a good person.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
This girlie is a life saverrr
Simone spitting facts! Never had a bf, I’m almost 19. It’s not that there isn’t options, there just all bad 💀
Thank you so much for this video, it helped me a lot. I've been texting with this guy for a while and i got attached, he started ghosting me for quite long time but i was still desperately holding onto him but just couldn't let go. Naive... I know, but after watching this video it helped me move on and realise some stuff.
I know no one cares but I just had to say it..I'm feeling a lot better now🥲
good for you
Meanwhile there are loads of men who would never ghost a woman but you ignore them because they're not visually attractive enough for your unreasonably high standards
@Godzilla_Star_Eater I never really had much of a 'standard' on man's look, I always cared more about how he was inside rather than on outside
@@Maria_hwasaaaaaIgnore that clown...Sourpuss response detected!
This giiiirrrl !!!! She saves my life every time I’m about to lose it 😭✨❤️
Still to this day I'm thanking the universe for sending me the forbidden ebook called Feminine Ancient Blessings
Why are there are so many likes
@@cookiecutter7642its an ad probably
@@cookiecutter7642 its a bot
@@cookiecutter7642 They're obviously advertising the book. The likes are probably bots
The way y'all view us is so misandrist, acting like we owe you effort or a date, we owe you nothing, pay for your own life, maybe you put in effort for once, literally viewing us as work horses
You sending him the reel is soooo wild lollllll love it
Video is 🔥 your blouse is 🔥 intro and energy is 🔥 subscribed instantly !
Good thing this video got over my recommended when I'm scrolling. I really need this as a single lady who just recently get over a toxic courtship.
This is so true.
I've seen so many of these things happen, wish I knew them sooner.
4B movement was started in South Korea, it’s not political, it’s a social feminist movement and it doesn’t imply to reject men as human beings and avoid any interactions with them. It’s a movement that is promoting decentralization of romantic relationships with men as a top priority in females lives and decentering them as the focal point of your consciousness since the Patriarchal society puts them in the center. Meanwhile, women are treated as orbits circling around their collective Ego. It’s putting yourself, your ideas, feelings, values and foals in the center, developing your own philosophy. It implies developing strong female friendships, building sisterhood and putting females in your life BEFORE any men and romantic relationships with them. It’s about refocusing on yourself, reclaiming your energy, sexuality, time and emotional labour.
Yes slaaaay, remove yourself from the gene pool due to getting rejected by player chad on Tinder lmao
You do realize we live in a gyocentric society right?
It’s a failure anyways
The 4B movement is not as popular as you think it is, Western Media likes to pick up on these provocative topics and hype it up. TikTok has done it for the 4B movement and now everyone thinks it is this huge thing when it is not.
@@dreamchaser7603 it’s a divide between men and women
Simone needs a podcast
These games happen at EVERY AGE, Remember this. Players, Narcissistic, Avoidants DO NOT Grow out of their Tendancies...They will be as they are until they go in their grave
Omg but i'm avoidant i hate this...
Omg but i'm avoidant i hate this...
They get even better at their game the older they are too.
This video kicked some sense into me 🙌🏻
This was the slap in the face I needed rn. Thank you!!
THIS WOMEN KNOWS WHAT WE NEED! QUEEN SIMONE! 👑
The German at the end suprised me
partnerships are rare. u either date up and get controlled a bit or you date down and the person a bit salty at u for sacrificing less
What does that say about men?
i just posted hot take on her serial first dating. “Girl economics of dine’n’dashin guy after guy”
high quality people date high quality people, it just means waiting longer because they are hard to find!
Probably genuine high value people of prestige inside qualities of virtues, responsibility, and discernment patiently wait and couple up in this manner high with high. It’s a rare breed I would say
@@simonesquared problem is everyone thinks they are high quality person (especially women ) even they are not then refused to date other good men and go with one narcissist at end
i needed you when i was 15
Relationships are based on energetic matches please do not compromise
Hahahaha Men can be gold diggers too but they dig more for beauty and value than gold
when a guy says your too good for me just means he dont like you lmao
Too good for him is true it happens
Wake up kids simone postedddd’ 🤌🏻🤌🏻
as always, you’re amazing queen 😍😍😣🙏
+1 ❤
anyways 1 MILLION SOOOOONNNN SIMONE
I found out that the guy i like dont take bath everyday. He was so dirty. He told me that his mother also dont take bath too. My feelings went away in a second. I am just writing this to be aware of such man that actually exists. Taking bath is a basic civic manner. I just still can't digest what i had witnessed. 😢😢 I feel scared to get marry now.
Not everyday lol. Showering or bathing every third day is enough😂
@curiousmoa3998you're dirty
Every third day ….good lord. Here I am taking twice a day showers. I wouldn’t even look twice at someone who told me they take showers every 3 days.
Was he black or white because????
11:00 As you should!! Dont let him ghilt trip you or make u feel weird for it. So glad you said "thats my boundary"
I knew I love myself the moment I started to watch simmon's videos❤
All of this tracks well with my experience and the experiences of my friends. Luckily I’m new to the dating game so I haven’t wasted too much time with men that won’t treat me right, but even knowing all of this it’s difficult when there’s hope and attraction involved. I have learned my self respect though and going forward I refuse to put up with any bs that will disturb my peace
Was having a hard time moving on 🙏🏾🙏🏾 your vids are truly helping
I really need to start going on dates again you're inspiring me to start data collecting
lets geti tttttt
Using girls to data collect is mean
Accurate. As someone who has been around a while longer I have noticed various male friends, acquaintances, long-term ‘admirers’, usually the ones who have a lot to say about their life philosophies and seem to talk about relationships with disdain as if they are some pioneering batchelor, are the same ones who are persistently in weird relationships and situationships.
Some are now in their 50s. They still haven’t seen the light. They think they’ve done the work but ain’t no way.
I literally said this above in comments. Have Monogamous relationships but no marriage and separate residences
Hope you're opening their eyes instead of enabling.
Fun fact: Everything she says can also be applied to women. It does not depend on the gender, it depends on the person.
Geez you really getting dxcked down for that clearfication. Make sure you have enough room in your house for chad because he wants his turn to. Like girl shut up, no dude cares about women look at the history. Sit down damn!
@@VLuava5v5 bro you okay?
She literally says vice versa in the video
@@lolong5976 Yall just love to dxck ride it so corny like get off their dxck. It hxe behavior lowkey.
@@SQUELCH-zj7il Right they still want to collect as much dxck they can every single second it irritating
I keep thinking I made a friend but it’s actually a love bomber that gets scary angry when I break all their dating rules in their own head.
YESSS THE FIRE INTROOO AGAINNNNNN
I've been single for 2 months now and I feel more and more glad to be single.
Your intro is 🔥
As a guy ✌️ hope this video make difference
I'm new to this channel and I just wanted to say- You're SO AWESOME!! 💜xxx
THANK YOU MOTHER
10. Validation from multiple women.
The settling too.
... and here i am 20 yrs later still there 😞
Lol I hate this, at this point I feel like I’m not going to meet a guy that I like that is worth it and willing to stay with me and show up in the ways I want 💀
Me, a lesbian, still watching this because it's Simone
😂
SHES BACKKKKK
girlll i love uu u are so inspiring
watching bc I'm lowkey obsessing over a guy and that cannot be 🫡
I just love this chicks energy. I watch her because she reminds me of my eldest daughter ❤
You're literally my role model Simone
She knows what she's saying. This is all true for around 99% of men.
Simone, I want you to know you are way ahead is of your time/age and it’s Awesome. Very inspiring
Girl you got that damn energy 💪✨
Not all men just 99.999999%
Thank you for this video Simonesquared💵☘️✨🥂✈️🙏❤️🎀
The intro 🤌🏻🤌🏻
you are wonderful~ thank you queen✨
10:52 GIRL I LOVE YOU