How the desire to be perfect is killing us | Carli Bushoven | TEDxBergenCommunityCollege

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  • @tinaschultz6406
    @tinaschultz6406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My heart broke when I first heard about Madison. I'd be more than happy to talk to you about what I know of depression. There is so much we know now yet so much we don't understand.

  • @mjeb3
    @mjeb3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Who could give this video a thumbs down??

    • @bkirstie
      @bkirstie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      well, it does not explain the most important part in my opinion of WHY she was a perfectionist. you are not born like that. or maybe thumbs down because she took her life?

  • @faberbosc6639
    @faberbosc6639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderful speech; thank you so much
    .... And it tells a lot on social media, the "millenial" generation" and our society

  • @bkirstie
    @bkirstie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    this is kinda what happened to me. but WHY was maddy a perfectionist? they NEVER discussed this. i was, because i could never please my mom. i was only valued for my accomplishments. that’s how i felt. what i did mattered, not who i was. now i just lay in bed all day. 😁

  • @bkirstie
    @bkirstie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “perfection is not always attainable” WHAT? it’s NOT attainable period. i don’t even use the word.

  • @bkirstie
    @bkirstie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    red flag that "she didn’t need much from my parents" all children need a lot from their parents. and why did she want to be around them all the time? following them? another red flag.