dear 30 year old me
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 พ.ย. 2024
- oh yeah as it's my birthday on Sunday I'm probably going to do a bday livestream of some kind! I'll post about it on my socials so KEEP UR EYEs PEEEEELED
I have a suspicion not as much will change than it did going from 20 to 25. But I'm still interested! Hi future dodie. Hope you love being 30. Hope you're surrounded by legends. I hope you can do a pressup
NOT LONG NOW
Build A Problem out on May 7
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cant wait to come back to this in 5 years and cry
Hgh i just commented the exact same then scrolled down & saw this 🤣
oh my god i dont think i'll be ready
Omg same I’m gonna be a wreak
I’ll- be- 20- I will have discovered dodie 9 years ago then😀 I’ll be an adult- AH
IM ALREADY CRYING
I feel like I'm witnessing a live historical moment
Same
1000% same yes I’m so happy seeing this
you are bro
i cant wait to see this video in the future :')
right?
0:52 Dodie is throwing shade at someone who not only doesn’t exist yet but is also herself
3:23 also dodie shading herself
3:34 the biggest shade
@@Commenter339 I can't wait 'til 2025 (assuming TH-cam is still around), and seeing her react to those little jabs like "Hey! I'm not old yet!"... :P
Also, to 30-year-old Dodie: I don't know if you'll read the comments here when you finally re-watch this video, but I hope you do. Maybe you'll even see this one. Maybe it'll make you smile. I hope it makes you smile. You can reply, if you like. :)
Why did "I wonder who you love, I wonder who you miss" send me into tears immediately
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It sounds like a song lyric
Same ♡
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Omg same
i cannot believe it’s been a year since the last one wow
I literally did not believe you when I read that but I checked and OMG ITS BEEN A YEAR WTF WHAT IS TIME
I THOUGHT IT CAME OUT LIKE A MONTH AGO WHAT THE HELLL
WHAT THE FUCK
no way!! ;-;
I’m sorry it has what!?
dodie thinking ages 26 to 30 is 9 years cracks me up. we love artists who cant do math.
I didn’t even realise she miss calculated but true hahahah
wait when was that, I missed it haha! timestamp pls
5:31 is the time stamp hehe
"it's weird to mourn something that will come back"
,,woah
right like that hit me right in the existential spot
like I can't believe after a year of mourning being in online school I'm going to be in person in a month!!! its odd that this thing i mourned so much is actually coming back and im scared of it too
When I was 15 I wanted to be 10 again. When I was 20 I wanted to be 15 again. When I’m 25 I’m pretty sure I’ll want to be 20 again.
Stop. No moment is better than another. Live in the now.
I’m turning 25 in a few months and honestly, I don’t think you will. Being this age is pretty great.
Honestly, I´m 35 and I would NEVER wanna be 25 again. No way in hell, nonono. It gets SO MUCH BETTER. 30s are lit. The confusion and the messiness is out of the window. You come into your own. I would not want to trade that in ever ever. I also now look younger than I did at 25 somehow. Survived the burnout, anxiety lessened. It shows.
@@vanillerygarden This is conforting to read, I'm personalt TERRIFIED of growing old and at 23 it feel like life is going to end at 30 and it's nonsense but I can't shake the feeling off. Thank you for sharring that!
@@raphaelmotta7630 Yo, time draaaaagged on when I was in my twenties. It took me AGES to get to 30. And then I blinked and 5 years passed. You simply stop fretting and just allow yourself to have what you want. You learn to love yourself enough to give in to your dreams and your purpose. Purpose is an unraveling. Not a sudden insight that you then follow for the rest of your life. It only gets better. Promise.
i’ve been here since “dear 25 year old me.” wow.
wow...
Omfg me too, wild. Feels like a year ago tbh
10 YEARS OF DODIE
Where did the time go?
@@danaalmasoud8618 A dodie decade if you will
in 5 years im so excited for there to be a screencap of 25-year-old dodie saying, "maybe you're not crying this time" and 30-year old dodie to be fully in tears
can’t wait to see dodie react to this when she’s 30 🥺
Time goes so much faster the older you get. I feel like all I have to do is blink and Dodie will be 30 already. It feels like she was 20 just a minute ago. Time is strange.
DEAR 30 YEAR OLD DODIE WHEN YOU COME BACK TO THIS HAPPY BIRTHDAY HELLO I LOVE YOU
"What is the new experience that you've had that you can't believe I haven't had yet?" I just started sobbing because if I'd ended it when I wanted to I wouldn't have had all these amazing experiences I have and it just hurt for a second. I'm glad I stayed though. And I'm glad you did too.
I'm glad you stayed too ❤️
Proud of you! 🧡
I'm glad you stayed!
Love you 💌
i’m glad you’ve stayed and i’m glad i’ve stayed
dodie is a literal angel on earth and i absolutely refuse to believe otherwise
God this is even scary for me, because we’ll also be aging as she does. I’M GONNA BE AN ADULT WHEN SHE REACTS TO THIS AAAAAA
Saaaame :,))
I’ll be 24🙃 crazy to think about
I’ll be 20 omgg
Ah me too🥺
I’ll be 22 gosh
whoaa I'll be 21
“Take care of me” what sweet words to say to your self 🥲
I can not believe I watched this when it came out and now we only have half a year left until Dodie is 30
this is your prep time before the extreme cry session begins in the response video
5 years and i still won't be ready
It’s weird to think that a lot of us will still be watching in 5 years time- time is weird lol...😅
I am 30 and a half. It's truly been such a gorgeous, liberating age and also the age I discovered dodie. So sending love to current and future 30 year olds. I am looking forward to being the old lady at your Manchester concert who hasn't come with their child 😂
I’m going to Manchester concert- but I’m not thirty- I’m fifteen and very much scared that I’ll literally be TWENTY when she replies-
@@millie17 ahh fab! Enjoy the growing up, hehe- it can be calming and chaotic but ultimately don't rush it✨
I can’t wait :”)
I am 40 and here to tell you that 30 and a half is so much younger than it feels right now!
IM READY TO CRY NEXT APRIL
I love how she says "did you figure out that other thing yet" knowing that future her will understand what she means, because this video is really v personal and more for herself than anyone else
I recently turned 20, feels very strange knowing I’m not a teenager. It’s scary but exciting. Expensive too! 😂
@@ianpitzerds Me too!
I'm turning 21 this summer and because of the pandemic I had to go back to living with my parents and it really doesn't feel like I'm not a teenager anymore (apart from my inner self who is way more mature than just 3 years ago 😅)
I remember that feeling, but now I'm 23 and 20 feels far away and teen-hood feels like another dimension lol...
nO IM NOT PREPARED TO CRY RIGHT NOW DODIE MY GOD
i screamed “YES” when i got this notification oh my god
Same
When dodie described here childhood “it blows my mind how far away childhood feels it feels like another universe. Like another life” I felt that. Been trying to describe that feeling for a while now and dodie just did 🥲
i just know i’m going to cry
oh no i’m gonna cry at this in a few years
'im reluctant to name anyone' names EVERYONE
"Do you have a cat yet?" dodie getting right to the important bits
dodie: dear 30 year old me
me: *flashbacks* here we go again--
i think there was a big difference in dear 25 vs dear 30. when she was younger it was a lot more anxiety about the future (which is understandable because im at that stage right now) and, im just assuming, now it just feels more like, "life is always changing and progressing and im curious as to what is waiting for me and whether its good or bad, i accept that". and that's a really amazing way to look at that future.
“brain is still bad” WHY DO I RELATE. SO. MUCH.
i feel anxious watching this because that five years will be zooming. but its cool, goosebumpy
"Remember to look after me and lal the other young dodies so we can look after ourselves. That hit me hard. wow. that quote will stay with me forever. Thank you dodie
As a current 30 year old, I can tell you, 4yrs isn't that long Dodie... This will probably fly by... Enjoy it, time (& attention) is the most precious commodity we have ❤🌈☀
I’m 40 and I REALLY feel this! It’s a lesson I didn’t learn soon enough.
When I saw the title I was like “didn’t she just come out with her reacting to dear 25 y/o me?” And then I realized it’s been a whole year...
“I’m reluctant to name names”
Dodie five minutes later:
“i would say i’d make one for me at 30 but... i’m just not going to!”
I love these as I’m 5 years younger than her so when she speaks to her younger self (same age as me) it feels like she’s talking to /giving me advise for the stage that I’m at
yes same!!
I am living for the rearranged "Build A Problem". Also, I hope the Dodie dots never go out of style. ✨💖💫
1) that transition at 1:37 was incredible
2) i learned to drive in an auto car first for a while and then learned on a manual car once i'd figured out the driving basics, would recommend!
3) i live in australia where we almost don't have covid anymore and life is very much back to normal. i hope this gives you hope :)
I hope she's doing this until she's 80, so much self-reflection
It’s so hard to understand how when I watch 30 year old dodie react to this, I will be 21. I’ve been watching her and listening to her since I was 12. I truly feel like we’ve grown up together even though we’ve never met. Dodie’s music has helped me through so much and I hope it will always be that way :)
I love you like an unhealthy amount of a lot. If you're reading this just know that I only figured out I had depersonalization because of you and I love you so so much for talking about it. You're my inspiration, never stop believing in yourself 🖤🖤
same! i remember when she first mentioned it i cried because i'd never heard anyone describe my experiences so accurately and put a name to them
@@mypersonalbubble my experience exactly T_T I had it for as long as I can remember and the first time I heard the name of it was from her
Dodie, you've inspired me to also make a video to my 30 year old self. I turn 25 this year so I'm going to make it on my birthday as a gift to my future self.
I’m really here tearing up because of how different this is from “dear 25 year old dodie” and how much you’ve grown and realising I’ve been here since then and didn’t even NOTICE how long it’s been and now you’re doing this video and WHAT where has the time gone I’m so emotional
“Remember to take care of me, and all the other young dodies” hit different. I’m doing some serious inner child work at the moment and oh boy did that get me right in the heart
ugh. I’m so weepy and nostalgic and proud and sad and happy all at once. Help
“Remember to look after me and all the other young dodies” I wasn’t prepared for that.
the thumbnail is the face i made when i saw the title in my notifications
I’m only 16 but I’m so afraid of getting older (I make this face everytime I think about ageing) and turning thirty to me sounds kind of terrifying because you are supposed to be an adult by then and I can’t imagine me being having a stable job and an own apartment or even buying my own house and all that stuff... so this video made me really emotional
dodie is basically now halfway between when she made this, and 30 :O
being here for a second edition of these dear future dodie videos is MAD
I swear, in 5 years I’ll be like “Omg, it’s been 5 years? Wow.”
Happy early birthday Dodie!!!
dodie: I'm reluctant to name anyone
also dodie: hazel, Sammy, dan, Evan, josh, shannon, jack, Hannah, Lucy ...
Can’t wait to see this in 5 years. Have a feeling I’m gonna be crying along with dodie again like the last one. 😍
I had just turned 26 in the fall before the pandemic started, and then turned 27 during the pandemic (& it feels like a weird lost at sea year because of obvious reasons), and now I’m creeping up on 28 ... let me just say Dodie, 30 is so young and so soon!!!
It still feels like I was JUST sitting on my couch, crying while watching this, passing the time at the beginning of quarantine. My heart
ILL BE TWENTY YEARS OLD WHEN SHE RETURNS TO THIS S T O P
i'll be twenty two holy crap
Yeah, me too
Oh my god same
I’ll be 25 don’t worry
@@oksanaastankova8360 terrified
I always love these. I'm about five years older than you (I turn 30 in November, what??!!?) and despite being different people it always feels like I'm watching back to myself five years ago. Funny, that. Time does feel a little faster, but it's just as unfathomable how much happened in five years time. People I was close with then I barely speak to now. People from high school I've picked up again as pen pals. Career changes. Moving apartments. I got a second cat! I figured out I'm queer! Still trying to write a book, still not very good at it, but that's alright. I'm less apologetic for the bits of myself and my life that I love, now, which is nice. I swear when lockdown ends I'm actually going to use the museum membership pass my mom bought me years ago.
Happy 26th! Cheers to another five
dodie please never stop doing these every five years
i did this literally yesterday and scheduled it to email to myself in 5 years and these are the exact same questions I asked even from whats the new social media to hows the worlds climate health. crazy
Dodie- I'm reluctant to name friends...
Also Dodie- *names everyone*
I kinda wanna do one of these for my 35 year old self to watch [ CRINGES AT THE THOUGHT OF BEING ON TH-cam AT 35 ]
It's crazy that all our cells are replaced on its entirety every 7 years. You'll be almost an entire different person. Im now in my 30s, and 20s year old me feel like another person that Im embarrased he ever existed. Whenever I talk about him I refer to him as a 3rd person. I wonder if that happens to anyone else.
Omg dodie can't drive, that's so comforting to me. I'm 21 and I feel like everyone around me is learning to drive and I'm just like "what, no, metal death machine!"
Man, I remember writing letters to future mes in Animal Crossing Wild World. How time flies...
can’t wait to cry at this in 5 years
omfg see u all in 5 years i guess (maybe i’ll try and find this comment when you make the reaction video I WILL BE 22 EW)
SAME I cannot conceptualize being 22 WTF I swear I’m still like 13 or something
Oh fuck i will be 21 jeezus.
I'll be 25 oh GOD
@@b3ndavies you’ll be like dodie in her first one haha
@@abee948 nooo don't remind me hahaha
I love these videos. Growing up with you feels so special
in 5 more years, i'll be 20. :,(
i hate the feeling of becoming an adult because i never got the chance to be a kid.
hey there, I just wanted to answer to this bc my younger me would relate to this A LOT. For me I found that I can make up for the time I felt I lost. Just because I am legally grown up, doesn't mean I can't do childish things. That doesn't bring the time back, but those positive feelings aren't just tied to that time. So I just thought I'd let you know that you can still feel free like a kid even though being an adult. You'll never know what your future brings and it may not all be great, but it may not all be awful as well. :)
@@marenfrecklesmusic9810 thank you so much for that :,) i want to be as free as i can now that i almost forgot that i can still live my life to the fullest even though i wont be a kid anymore. so thanks for that :)
I am turning 20 this year, but please do not be scared. Embrace right now, even though it isn't ideal. You are growing and becoming an amazing human being. Every day you can choose not to become a "boring" adult and you can create your own life.
i feel this- i’m 18 and have finally moved out of my parents house to live with my aunt in another city. i spent the last five years just wishing and hoping for the time i’m at right now, and i feel like i let life happen without me. you can still be a kid! from the people i’ve met, one dear lovely friend is 55 this year and he is very much a kid. enjoying life the way he always has, the way his parents taught him and the way he has taught his kids. i hope you’ll be able to come back to this at 20 and not feel like you haven’t had a chance to live yet.
take the little things that bring you joy and peace and love them with all your heart until they become the big things. i bought glow stars for my room and i see them every night to remind me that i’m still a kid, but a kid with freedom now :)
In 5 years I’ll be 18 I really didn’t think it was that much time until I put it into this perspective
I just- I feel so special to be watching this right now. So excited to still be obsessed with your music when you’re 30. Also, I have a song suggestion that would make my life to hear you sing. The Cat Came Back!! It’s such a cute song and it screams dodie to me. ❤️
Oh my God I haven't clicked something this fast in a long time
i’m getting prematurely emotional for her response video 5 years from now 😭😭 i sobbed at her last one
here we go again! glad to be here at 26, imagine you in your 30s with albuns and records and shows and everything else
Was there to watch “dear 25 year old dodie” when it first came out then felt v shocked when your response to it came out, like it flew by. I’m now thinking “wow can’t wait to watch 30 year old dodie’s response to this” and realising time is FRICKIN crazy
'...Rosianna. Okay!' Initially heard this as '... Rosianna, now gay!' 😂
Okay now that I’ve watched this time to cry over the fear of my life changing and losing people I currently love even though in the past letting go of people previously I loved was a good choice.
Basically I’m madly in love and it’s good and pure and they’re far away because I had to move and that terrifies me.
ohhhh i can’t wait for her to react to this later hehehe
How the heck are you so loving of your future and past self??? I'm too afraid to accept who I've been because there's a lot of pain there, and I'm too worried that future me won't be someone I'm proud of..... It's truly amazing how you can be so free and accepting to say I love you to yourself in such a way.
imagining you being 30 is so weird, like will I still watch you in 4(ish) years? 😳
Looking back at 20 year old her and Dodie now is a trip. So many times when I’ve been scared, sobbing and afraid of growing up I come back and watch you. You’ve been the soundtrack to so many people’s lives and childhoods, especially mine. I love you, you’re like a big sister I’ve never met. It would be insane to one day meet you :,)
"i'm reluctant to name anyone" *names everyone she's ever met*
I remember watching "dear 25 year old me" when it first came out and I am very confident I will be here when you watch back "dear 30 year old me"
*motorbike noises* "what is going on"
They always love to start when you want to film anything in London fml
I can't, this is the series I most anticipate but also the mist heart wrenching
okay imma write a letter to 20 year old me now bc i turn 18 in 2 months and that seems like an appropriate thing to do,,,, ✨fear✨
I just turned 30 a few weeks ago... I moved to LA not long after turning 26. I felt this burst of reflective feelings after watching this vid, so don't mind me.. The last 5 years had the hardest losses and the largest gains in understanding about quality of life. I think you'll have a better time than I did, entering a wounded but healing country. You'll continue to take on that new difficult thing as the newest, most difficult thing... You go on living through it all, and it's just a lovely mess of awful and beautiful. You'll begin to appreciate the hard times more than resent or depress them. You begin to be more grateful and graceful than you've been before. This is a very different world than it was. Age 25-30 has been monumental. 30 doesn't feel real still, but it often feels about right.
anD SHE SAID SHE WASN'T GOING TO MAKE ANOTHER "DEAR FUTURE ME" VIDEO!
When she said "dry your eyes" I felt so called out. Wouldn't be me sobbing over someone who doesn't even know my name, but who has affected me more than anyone in my life EVER. Love you dodie, here's to hoping the world won't have ended before your 30th so I can come back and cry some more ❤
Lock down sucked. I can’t really remember any of it though
off topic but I have seen SO many dodie hairstyles and I think that your hair looks the best here I've ever seen it. so long but so much volume but zero frizz???? incredible
wholesome ;-;
It’s weird it’s been a year since the last one, I still remember watching the dear 25 year old me one as a little tot, ready to see what else is coming up in the world.
Dodie being Dodie, talking about Dodie, in a way that only Dodie can.
omg no i will cry watching this in 5 years
‘ur first album build a problem is out now’
....or is it
cursed timeline
Dodie videos are the only thing reminding me of time anymore
Also oh god 'plumbl'
Hey future dodes, Im currently 15, I will be 20 when you reply soooo... that’s terrifying!😀 I’m seeing you in concert in September, how was tour for BAP? I hope it was fun. Maybe I’ll see you in the comment section of your response to this video- I hope so. But 20 is old :( I want to stay 15, anyway, look after current dodie, I love her very much
20 is way better than 15 - don't worry.
this is gonna make me cry SO hard in 5 years
the one thumbs down is someone who accidentally pressed through tears of joy 🤌
Watching this only just over a year later and thinking about the lockdowns feels very strange...
5:05 I really hope Dodie will figure out the thing with her Dad even if he isn't 'Guiltless' (Stream now on Spotify ;)