DATING FOR BLACK PEOPLE IN CHINA | THE WHOLE TRUTH 😮

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  • @ucheobuekwe
    @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Yay! The first interview on this channel. Whoop! 🙌
    Let me know what you guys think 😁😁

  • @ucheobuekwe
    @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    A lot of you don’t like the videos before watching. Please like oh. It’s helps my channel reach more people. 🥹🙏😘

  • @PeacefulnHappy
    @PeacefulnHappy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I am a black woman and they love me everywhere I go. All types of Asians. I am friendly, sweet, I learn fast, I adapt easily, and respect other cultures and customs. Even the senior citizens love me in those places and that’s huge! 😊
    Of course you will have those who won’t like you because of ignorance and brainwashing, but most of them are cool. I just maintain a positive spirit and always aware of the environment. ❤😂

  • @kenechukwumenankiti
    @kenechukwumenankiti 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    This was really an interesting interview, keep doing amazing Nne!👏❤ Your Zambian friend saying "I'm gonna hunt for my man was really funny"😂

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kenechukwumenankiti Lmao 😂 Thank you ❤️

    • @r.gertse742
      @r.gertse742 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I actually love her spirit 😊

  • @weifan9533
    @weifan9533 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    As a Chinese man, here're the reasons I think why some Chinese men are afraid of approaching African women (and skin color is the least of their concern):
    1. Language barrier. Although English is widely taught in China as a 2nd language, most people don't really use it that often in daily life and don't speak it very well.
    2. Unfamiliarity. Africa is still rather mysterious and unknown to much of the world, and some Chinese people may consider it as a dangerous place full of hippos, lions, crocs or plagued by never-ending civil wars. Documentaries that we've seen about Africa tend to focus on those aspects.
    3. Dowry. Some Chinese men don't want to approach women in general (not just African women) because they are afraid that the girl will ask him to pay for everything and ask him a high sum of money for dowry. And with the inflation it's quite hard to raise kids as well.

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@weifan9533 Thank you for breaking it down 👍👍
      You’ve listed some good points. lol number 3 is funny. Where did you see that a girl will ask you to pay for everything? 😮🤭 that’s not true lol

    • @weifan9533
      @weifan9533 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@ucheobuekwe While I'm not sure about African women, I've indeed dated a few Chinese women before who asked me to pay for everything during the date. Again I know I'm generalizing a bit here, but still I think this mentality of saving money can be applied to many young Chinese nowadays, because it's harder and harder to earn money in China.

    • @Meeounn
      @Meeounn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@weifan9533 It's clear that when a man is genuinely attracted to or deeply interested in a woman, he has no hesitation in spending money on her. If you notice that he becomes transactional or financially stingy in your relationship, it often signals a lack of genuine attraction. In such cases, it may be that you're simply a placeholder rather than someone he truly values.

    • @Meeounn
      @Meeounn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Black women are often the brunt of this cheapsake behavior... often because we are generally kind, patient and hardworking women, sadly not universally deemed beautiful because of our skin color and hair by other races. Often men use us and treat us on a budget. Sad.

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@Meeounn This is true. A real man has no issues spending money on his woman 🤭😁😁

  • @Chinesestreetfashion23
    @Chinesestreetfashion23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I'm South African chatting to an amazing man from Hong Kong, very respectful and is doing well in life, I had concerns about his parents approval but he said that he's parents will respect his choices, he has his own house. Soon coming to see me. The attention is on another level 😂I can get 20 messages within 1 minutes. There no such thing as chinese men don't like black women , not everyone is the same.

    • @danisverse
      @danisverse 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope he delivers in the end.

    • @denniskcobi3470
      @denniskcobi3470 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Becareful most of them use hongkong to do anything they want to do, I know what iam saying iam hongkong citizen with family in hongkong marry to hongkong lady

    • @danisverse
      @danisverse 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@denniskcobi3470 I know that alot of men pretend online. Sometimes it is catfish and completely different person behind the computer.
      And sometimes if they really look like what they calim they can still be deceiving you and playing with the person. Maybe love bomb them.
      Even i know this too. I wish her well. I am on a dating website with China as my region. Many scammers on there claiming to be Chinese but they are not even Chinese.

    • @Chinesestreetfashion23
      @Chinesestreetfashion23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@danisverse Thank you I hope so too.I only want chinese men because they treat women with love and respect.

    • @Chinesestreetfashion23
      @Chinesestreetfashion23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@denniskcobi3470 He sent me his passport, he's really from Hong Kong based in Malaysia. I hope this really works coz I'm really terrified of our men and I don't want to go back there.

  • @learnTableTenis
    @learnTableTenis 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    China has a huge population. There are different tastes when Chinese men picking their girl friends. But African girls have been very popular in Chinese dating TV series. If you are a beautiful girl with good character the chance is really big, since Chinese boys usually like the African girls' more attractive figures. However, Chinese boys generally are shy, and will not approach like African boys. If you meet someone you're interested, you can be friend first. And find out whether that's the right guy after knowing each other better.

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@learnTableTenis Yea i agree to being friends first and seeing where it goes from there 👍

    • @weifan9533
      @weifan9533 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They tend to value face more than figure, Chinese men likes girls with large eyes and small face (I know that cause I'm one of them), skin color or height might be a requirement for some but for me they don't matter, I actually like women with brownish or olive skin tone like for instance some SE Asian or South Chinese girls.

    • @Nethanda
      @Nethanda 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@weifan9533 So then this discussion isn't really for you, is it?
      Everyone values attractive faces, large eyes, full features, and beautiful skin are very attractive as are stylish hair dos. Some will have that, and some won't,

  • @WestA269
    @WestA269 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    You have to be a lucky person to find love in China cuz many foreigners can’t settle reason why most of relationships are temporary

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@WestA269 This is true 😮‍💨

  • @tarynthewriter3583
    @tarynthewriter3583 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great interviews!
    Not sure why the mic sounds like the audio is too loud for it. Maybe the settings need to be adjusted for how close the mic is to everyone?

  • @austinogbonna167
    @austinogbonna167 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So I'm the first to comment wow 🎉🎉😊

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@austinogbonna167 Yay! Let me go get your gift 🏃😁😁

  • @ECINADGIRL
    @ECINADGIRL 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Love is love. And what works for you may not work for me and the other way around ❤

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ECINADGIRL Hmm yes to this point of view but sometimes.. 😮‍💨

  • @HOBBYMONEY
    @HOBBYMONEY 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I think it's the man's responsibility to approach the woman... I'll let the man see that I like him, but that's all ... After I push the ball in his court, he needs to make his move.

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@HOBBYMONEY Yes this is definitely what I would recommend as well 😌👍

  • @murphy628
    @murphy628 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Skin color and discrimination are present in many countries, including the USA still!

  • @Waridi23
    @Waridi23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    For me my parents i know would not agree especially if he's not christian and can't speak in english, that is not able to communicate, then forget it...They wouldn't want me to go live in china as well.

  • @jenkwasi-kumah4643
    @jenkwasi-kumah4643 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this video Uche.

  • @sirainilawal
    @sirainilawal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That our golden hair/brown shirt sister is a romantic. How cute!

  • @romokeawero
    @romokeawero 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What an amazing interview ❤

  • @ChinyereOwoh
    @ChinyereOwoh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Am a Nigeria girl ... I love Asian men ( Chinese and Thailand men to be precise) ...am also learning Chinese and thai language to avoid any language barrier with my future hubby 😁 .... Xiexie🙃

    • @Nethanda
      @Nethanda 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love who and love what?
      Do they love you back?
      Swooning over men of another race is never a good idea. I'll never understand why black parents utterly fail to teach that.
      Those Asian men you love are over there in your country exploiting your fellow Africans to the max.
      Don't go and fall into the hands of those of them who have awful ulterior motives. Because they are there in abundance.
      With the internet, there's no excuse for not knowing things in this day and age.

    • @IncognitoRenegado
      @IncognitoRenegado 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Nethanda people have preferences

    • @Nethanda
      @Nethanda 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@IncognitoRenegado It is a sign of a lack of intelligence and self preservation when you prefer what does not prefer you, what is frankly speaking esthetically displeasing and what is also racist. And that demographic ticks all three boxes

    • @Nethanda
      @Nethanda 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@IncognitoRenegado You read about their racism and still wrote about prEfeRenCeS. Try and be a bit intelligent.

    • @Egoyiboinchina
      @Egoyiboinchina 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Nethanda😂😂😂😂you dey vex ooh even though I understand you but don’t cancel her bcos nobody cancels a black man when he lists his interest in other race women. Na una Dey go outside most

  • @sheelania8833
    @sheelania8833 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is the truth a lot of foreigners are not that concerned with finding a Chinese partner, not compatible. They have their own culture. And prefer their own or another foreigner.

  • @CAROLYNCHANG-k3s
    @CAROLYNCHANG-k3s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ITS A CULTURAL THING
    CULTURE SHAPES N DEFINE THE WAY A PERSON PERCEIVE N BELIEVES 🤔
    NIGERIA 🇳🇬 MEN N BLK MEN ON A WHOLE ARE THE ONLY RACE N GROUP'S WHO WILL ACCEPT N TALK TO ANY RACE N ANY WMN
    WHICH I FIND MYSELF SPEECHLESS

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@CAROLYNCHANG-k3s I agree. Nigerian men are definitely more open to dating outside their race/ culture

  • @danielorjiudeh9703
    @danielorjiudeh9703 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Can you interview men also??

  • @selamuyhabena7038
    @selamuyhabena7038 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing

  • @Sarah-v7x
    @Sarah-v7x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You see that wechat adding, not only the guys do that even the girls too

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Sarah-v7x haha yes 😫😭

  • @orchide362
    @orchide362 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Uche it was q,uite an interesting interviw for us to know more about the dating life i china for foreigner

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@orchide362 😉❤️

  • @akpakaoluchi1530
    @akpakaoluchi1530 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lovely 😍

  • @JTG-wc9ow
    @JTG-wc9ow 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    For sure I also don't find Chinese men interesting, everything on them is a total turn off for me 😂😂

  • @denniskcobi3470
    @denniskcobi3470 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chinese men find it difficult to befriend Asian women or even marrying them talks of Africa even their own ladies or women Chinese men find it difficult go to China single ladies is higher than married women which alot of Chinese ladies or women mostly single ladies have turn their own self into single mothers without husband what Chinese men old or young do to Africa women or ladies is to test their sexual how they are and the difference between their own ladies and Africa women when it comes to marriage for Chinese men to stand up for it is very difficult

  • @ndoyisilemogale6855
    @ndoyisilemogale6855 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The lady wearing white top she wanted to remain anonymous oh its fashion ?

  • @tracikennedy7833
    @tracikennedy7833 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  • @agrofeen1700
    @agrofeen1700 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Interesting video, I have live in China over a decade now dating in China for foreign men in general is easier than women finding a partner in China

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@agrofeen1700 hmm. Interesting. Why would you say so?

    • @weifan9533
      @weifan9533 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Depending if the person speaks Chinese or not. If he or she speaks the language fluently then I see no issue of him or her finding a Chinese partner.

  • @于力司马夹头是条狗
    @于力司马夹头是条狗 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😘

  • @gilvanamendesdasilva1750
    @gilvanamendesdasilva1750 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @Sitbannon132
    @Sitbannon132 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Where can someone find husband na????

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Sitbannon132 😭😂😂 my dear oo.

  • @gideonkofiamoappau8488
    @gideonkofiamoappau8488 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm new here

  • @tochiopara-gm7nq
    @tochiopara-gm7nq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Uche Obuekwe

  • @saidamacharia1659
    @saidamacharia1659 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey uche l want one in chain

  • @bravohbravine8742
    @bravohbravine8742 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Asian men are short 😂😂😂

  • @johnsonm2499
    @johnsonm2499 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do Africa Women Believe They Will Get Married To a Chinese Man And Get Old Together That's Not Possible... Temporary Marriage...

    • @ucheobuekwe
      @ucheobuekwe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@johnsonm2499 That’s false. They’re alot of biracial couples in the world today. You sound like a negative person 🏃

    • @elimlinrr6898
      @elimlinrr6898 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ucheobuekweExactly, Rose Anzai youtube channel is one of them.

    • @flovonnejohnson707
      @flovonnejohnson707 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LMFAO 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 sure buddy

  • @BlackMan777-y6u
    @BlackMan777-y6u 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    See our black Women would never let US AS SHE SAID GO AFTER IT, ....but let it be any other groups of Men, like Asian/Indian/Arabes/Whyte yeah 👍🏿 go after it.....but then you shame black men who has gathered enough courage and spontaneous energy to propose to you, you mercilessly shame. SMH 🙄🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @babssloans7945
    @babssloans7945 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a black man, hahaha am not there yet, sleeping with Chinese no thank you