I was very bad attracting women! I have seen a lot of videos of different coaches in you tube! But a part of Dan's videos are the best on you tube plus the flow! I viewed your videos so many times, i think i know them better than Dan 😅
I joined a dating site in 2018 and about two weeks before my subscription was going to come to an end (which I was just going to let go as I didn't receive any matches a woman starting writing to me, so we met, liked each other and dated for two years but unfortunately we ended up having a very bad breakup in April of 2020 which was very hard for me as I fell for her but anyway I lost my virginity to her. I seriously thought that I was just going to remain a lifelong virgin unless I outright paid for it before I met her because I'm shy and not assertive around women that I find attractive.
You are no different than most men. Unless we happen to get lucky and have a father who teaches us or we happen to meet the right friends when we are growing up (and, actually sometimes the wrong friends to an extent), we just don't get an education on how to behave with the opposite sex. That is ultimately my goal, to become the place where guys learn how to have success with women - and, done properly, is welcomed by women.
Human brain is super adaptive and we are incredibly smart, we can adapt and cope with everything. So you either develop a pathological cope aka negative feedback, which is very likely because loss aversion is like top 3 human instincts, and its proven that it skews facts into negative like 2-4x times. On the other hand if our experience break the pattern or we get cognitive wedge as we make theory which contradicts current belief. Again the most important part is that we are super capable and if we get tons and tons of new info we will get the good working theory, the problem is if we stay on old patterns and use old info as a reference, meaning we take 2-4x more negative info as default which probably is already layered and multiplied so its 8-16x
I don't really follow that reply you got but if you are always getting negative feedback you do need to consider that whatever you are doing may need to be adjusted. That is the point of these videos which focus on getting success with women.
I haven't kept things going as much as I should but Cliff's List is active today primarily through the email newsletter and the interviews that I post here. But Cliff's List, for those not familiar with me, has been around since the early days of the community and I was a part of the beginnings of it all. I am mentioned quite a bit in The Game and most of the coaches who have been around awhile either know me or have heard of me (as Dan had). I do plan to expand and grow this project soon, though.
Most women on the street or the mall are busy with errands. I'm not saying they won't be some success but most of the time women don't want to approach while they are shopping
You are not alone but unless you find a way to deal with that, you will be unlikedly to succeed with the women you most desire. That's the purpose of the videos here and of Cliff's List.
If you aren't tall, handsome or wealthy you must have one hell of an attractive personality.. nobody can ''teach'' someone to be naturally hilarious. They either are, or they aren't. The amount of dudes who can naturally attract quality women off personality alone long term is extremely small. If you're one of those dudes that quality, you should be using your comedic talent to make a great career on social media first before worrying about women
What most guys don't understand is that while the conventional items that we believe attract women will work some of the time, there's a lot of elements to these things that aren't immediately apparent. For example (and here's one that really turns it around), if you attract women primarily because you are good looking, many of the guys who have this experience have the same or similar result that many good looking women have. And that is that the experience isn't satisfying because they feel that they only like them for their looks, not for who they are as a person. And having money may work, but it can equally be unfulfilling because the women are only there because of the money and you yourself are incidental to the experience. One of the keys to attracting women genuinely is having an understanding of masculinity, and I believe this is one of the strongest factors involved in what Dan teaches. And that can completely trump looks, money and fame.
Dan Bacon Live! Awesome, he is the best dating coach on You Tube.
Dan is so transparent and the way he explains concepts is so clear, easy to understand, for me he's just the goat im this
Wow, Dan Bacon. What a legend!
Hi Paju! Cheers - glad you enjoyed the interview. Dan 👍
@@DanBacon_hello Dan one doubt, can a autistic guy get girls, what I mean is does a girl attracted to a autistic guy when he do confidence behavior.
I think the answer is no.@@G-ONE1234
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Dan bacon casually dropping some A1 GAME AS ALWAYS
I was very bad attracting women!
I have seen a lot of videos of different coaches in you tube!
But a part of Dan's videos are the best on you tube plus the flow!
I viewed your videos so many times, i think i know them better than Dan 😅
Dan is the best.
Wow I love Dan the Man Bacon he's freaking awesome
I joined a dating site in 2018 and about two weeks before my subscription was going to come to an end (which I was just going to let go as I didn't receive any matches a woman starting writing to me, so we met, liked each other and dated for two years but unfortunately we ended up having a very bad breakup in April of 2020 which was very hard for me as I fell for her but anyway I lost my virginity to her.
I seriously thought that I was just going to remain a lifelong virgin unless I outright paid for it before I met her because I'm shy and not assertive around women that I find attractive.
You are no different than most men. Unless we happen to get lucky and have a father who teaches us or we happen to meet the right friends when we are growing up (and, actually sometimes the wrong friends to an extent), we just don't get an education on how to behave with the opposite sex. That is ultimately my goal, to become the place where guys learn how to have success with women - and, done properly, is welcomed by women.
1:04:00 there are only 334 comments on that video as I am doing commenting right now.
Dan your great!
What about when you get consistent feedback that pushes you in the other direction (negative)? It can have the opposite effect.
Human brain is super adaptive and we are incredibly smart, we can adapt and cope with everything. So you either develop a pathological cope aka negative feedback, which is very likely because loss aversion is like top 3 human instincts, and its proven that it skews facts into negative like 2-4x times. On the other hand if our experience break the pattern or we get cognitive wedge as we make theory which contradicts current belief. Again the most important part is that we are super capable and if we get tons and tons of new info we will get the good working theory, the problem is if we stay on old patterns and use old info as a reference, meaning we take 2-4x more negative info as default which probably is already layered and multiplied so its 8-16x
I don't really follow that reply you got but if you are always getting negative feedback you do need to consider that whatever you are doing may need to be adjusted. That is the point of these videos which focus on getting success with women.
How did you get Dan bacon ?
I haven't kept things going as much as I should but Cliff's List is active today primarily through the email newsletter and the interviews that I post here. But Cliff's List, for those not familiar with me, has been around since the early days of the community and I was a part of the beginnings of it all. I am mentioned quite a bit in The Game and most of the coaches who have been around awhile either know me or have heard of me (as Dan had). I do plan to expand and grow this project soon, though.
Hey dan I would like to purchase your product flow
But my debit card is not supported on paypal
Is there any other way
Iam from India 😊
Maybe just try debit card on its own
i have both the ebook and the audiobook of The Flow. i can give both to you for only $10. (not a scam, i have proof) let me know if you’re interested!
No mention of malls, on the street, through the day…
Most women on the street or the mall are busy with errands. I'm not saying they won't be some success but most of the time women don't want to approach while they are shopping
Look out for body language. Thats most telling sign during day
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Holy shit its the man himself both yiu together this will be interesting.miye answer for all you men are blocked everywhere.after 8 months.....
@1:00:13 very inspiring!
What happened to this guy?
I'm very shy around woman I'm attracted to.
You are not alone but unless you find a way to deal with that, you will be unlikedly to succeed with the women you most desire. That's the purpose of the videos here and of Cliff's List.
@@Cliffslist isn't it shocking to you, that for men some minor 'flaw' in character has such disastrous consequences?
If you aren't tall, handsome or wealthy you must have one hell of an attractive personality.. nobody can ''teach'' someone to be naturally hilarious. They either are, or they aren't. The amount of dudes who can naturally attract quality women off personality alone long term is extremely small. If you're one of those dudes that quality, you should be using your comedic talent to make a great career on social media first before worrying about women
What most guys don't understand is that while the conventional items that we believe attract women will work some of the time, there's a lot of elements to these things that aren't immediately apparent. For example (and here's one that really turns it around), if you attract women primarily because you are good looking, many of the guys who have this experience have the same or similar result that many good looking women have. And that is that the experience isn't satisfying because they feel that they only like them for their looks, not for who they are as a person. And having money may work, but it can equally be unfulfilling because the women are only there because of the money and you yourself are incidental to the experience. One of the keys to attracting women genuinely is having an understanding of masculinity, and I believe this is one of the strongest factors involved in what Dan teaches. And that can completely trump looks, money and fame.
why the interviewer has a dead face. he has no interaction..
I love you too
Cliff try and show some energy, some life!! 😮
What is wrong of why women and men can't live happily single. Do you always need to think about sex??