What Would You Do If Your Parents Stole Your Identity?
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The thing that confuses me the most about the credit system is that having bad credit can prevent someone from getting a job and can get someone fired from a job. How exactly do they expect someone to pay off any sort of outstanding debt and improve their credit if they cannot get a job or keep a job? I know it's tangentially related to this thread, but it's relevant to many of these stories.
I would no issues what so ever sending a family member to prison for using my name for credit
If I had to hazard a guess it's actually a form of classist separation. Some businesses see your credit report and think that you might be a spending your money on things like drugs and alcohol instead of paying down your debts when really the reason you can't pay down your debt is the interest rate has gotten out of control and you still need to buy food to live and pay rent. Also, some businesses want you to buy their product while you work for them and it's kind of hard to do that if you're paying back debts to other people.
I don’t see the problem. You aren’t owed a job. If you can’t manage the requisites to get or keep a job it’s your own fault.
As for your other point, would it be reasonable to never send certain people to prison ever, regardless of the crime, if they have dependent children? After all, how are they going to take care of them otherwise?
Yea, that seems pretty stupid
@@philiphughes30 Licky on da pee
waaah waaah waaah. All I see is communist hipster ranting. You got yourself into bad credit, you better be ready to have a harder time. Would you rather people who actually work to get good credit not get rewarded for it? Make there be no penalty for low credit? Or somehow get PENALIZED for having good credit? Congratulations, your parents must be so proud of your intellectual achievements.
I’m so sorry to everyone involved. Just makes me grateful for the life I’ve had
I hope you genuinely feel that way as there are people out there that were never loved, never given a normal environment, normal parents, I was abandoned at 3 years old but I feel lucky that the children's home gave me something my own family never did or cared, it's a shame the rest of my life fell flat afterwards in the end 😢
I get the feeling that the dad in the pig story picked a pig for a pet entirely because he could get away with killing and eating it more easily than a dog, seeing as even small pigs get upwards of a hundred pounds, and are considered an EXOTIC pet for a reason.
Yeah that was my feeling as soon as I saw it
Dork One
I hate that dad.
that one really got me
I was very surprised when there was no divorce at the end of that story. Divorce is the LEAST I would do if my husband ate my beloved pet pig. I think Id at least start with cooking him up and feeding him to some pigs.
"I don't really go back to vist them very often." WTF?
While I do understand that relationships between parents and their adult children can be extremely complex, I simply can't imagine a single appropriate number of times to visit a parent who shot a gun towards any part of your body that is anything other than exactly ZERO.
The only possible exception being, to attend their funeral, give a heartfelt and completely truthful eulogy and then take a massive, steaming crap on their fresh grave.
My mom raised me in an ultra religious cult, and my dad was a raging, abusive sociopath and wannabe serial killer. Not making any of that up in the slightest. So yeah, it's probably a good thing they got divorced just after I was born.
Yes it's very good they did, so sorry you had to endure such terrible things. I truly hope you're doing well and please always remember that you are loved and important and you are free and have the right to live happy healthy and on your own accord. Hugs.
Stories like this make me realize that I need to appreciate my parents more
Following a nasty argument with my dad(he has NPD [which wasn’t diagnosed at the time] I was in 5th or 6th grade when this argument occurred), I sarcastically told him I might as well jump out my bedroom window if all he’d ever do is put me down, and he opened a drawer, grabbed a knife, and offered it to me while saying “do it, go kill yourself”
He still hasn’t apologized. It fucked me up for years.
My mom hit my knuckles with a steak knife , (yes I was bleeding) because I used my finger to scoop peas onto my fork.
She'd rather you use a steak knife to eat peas than to eat with your hands😳 get spoons Sheri, or forks...
Nice cool story
My dad almost swung his belt at me for eating my chicken with my fingers...even though the shitty “Manners Matter” book he gave me clearly stated how chicken was a finger food.
Oh geez. And I am annoyed when I am told to stop using my fingers to put rice onto a spoon...
Damn, should've punched her and yelled "BLOODY HAND JOB"
I can’t get my head around these posts...
I was brought up by a mother who adored her children. I love my own children unconditionally and only want what’s best for them.
So these situations are so foreign to me.
I AM SO SORRY that not all parents are good parents. I don’t know which story is the saddest, but it’s good to know you all survived. Keep going, there are good people out there. Take the time to find them. ❤️
That dad who borrowed $8000, he did not forget. No way. He's hoping you forgot, or else hoping you'll be too nice/nervous to say anything about it.
Those people are not parents, they are sociopaths.
More like psychopaths who need to be in prison and beaten by longtime prisoners so they could learn their lesson.
psycho. psychopaths.
a sociopath can still live as a functional member of society without comitting crimes/ THIS kind of.....
thing, out of simple self-interest (e.g of the mindset "i see no "moral" reason not to rob a 24 hour shop, but it'd get me arrested, and wouldn't be worth it-not breaking the law gives me more options to better myself, on avarage, then doing so")- a sociopath is simply missing a bit of the hardwiring regarding empathy/morality- a psychopath outright gets off on hurting/inflicting mysery
@@Gantradies FARTS TO THE MAX
Keep in mind this is one person's biased perspective. No doubt a lot of these people are awful, but some are probably right but selectivity talked about.
No, narcissists, cold, callous vile selfish creatures, that is what they are
stop using "physically shamed" in place of rape/sexual assault. It belittles the act. There are better ways to censor things
Ig it’s just an example of how reddit TH-cam channels only care about money
I would have never guessed
Yeah I was kinda confused by that
victims often feel unconfortable using the words rape or sexual assault and prefer using others that don’t sound as bad
@@lau7477 No it's one of this channel's filters. These low-hanging-fruit text-to-speech YT Reddit channels do this for profanity and words that might hurt monetisation (cf. how 'fuck' in this video is changed every time to 'frick'). I've seen others where 'rape' was changed to 'debauch' every time.
I used to have a terrible relationship with my stepfather, cause he was very abusive to me.
One time we got into a huge fight when he turned to mom and said “either she gets out or I do”
And that’s how I ended up living with my grandparents 🤷♀️
It's absolutely horrible but I'm comforted knowing other people out there have had childhoods where their parents actively tried to hold them back from getting an education and generally succeeding in the world. The rare occasions when I try to explain some of the stuff that happened in my house, people can't comprehend it, because how on earth can a parent possibly want their child to fail? But it definitely happens.
Mom left my sister and I, 3 and 18mths, with my dad while she went to class one day. Dad got tired of watching us, so left me in charge of my little sister so he could get drunk with his buddies. I did the best I could. Thankfully no one died and my mom was pissed. This was the beginning of many, many years of taking care of my younger siblings for extended periods of time.
My dad is a narcissistic jerk, who constantly gaslights and messes with me and my mom and sister. He does and says a lot of awful things, but then denies everything and acts nice enough to make you feel guilty for being angry. Apparently it is severe emotional abuse. My mom is passive and makes excuses for him. The second I hit 18, I am outta here.
My heart goes out to everyone affected by shitty parents or caretakers ❤️ you deserve so much better
At 50 i had to forgive them to stay sober.the hatred of them was killing me.
Some of these stories make me think that mandatory contraceptives or sterilisation would be beneficial in some very special and extreme cases. Some people should not be allowed to have kids just so that they can inflict all that horrific abuse on them and use them to gain financial benefits. Absolutely disgusting people. No child should have to go through shit like these stories.
Yes and if they already have a child in the system & can't/refuse to do whatever is required to get them back & it's because of legit abuse they should not be able to have more kids. And of they do they shouldn't be able to keep them how does that make any sense?
When being shot at isn't even the worse thing your parents have done, that's a whole new level. It is a slightly different level when being shot by your parent is the worst thing that has happened.
I was raised up in Barrow Alaska. From age 3 to 10. At age 10 my Uncle met with government officials and he sold his land, which was about 35,000 acres. He sold it for $15,000,000. So we went to the airport. We arrived in Los Angeles the next day. He said he had to use the bathroom and told me to wait at a Subway, the restaurant, while he uses the restroom. I waited, and waited, and waited. Turns out he took another flight to a non extradition country. Abandoning me.
Often the worst stuff we don’t remember. I think I have some bad things that happened in my infancy regarding my teenage brother. He gives me the creeps and my boyfriends all dislike him. Sort of instinctively.
When I was 14 I got very sick and ended up in the hospital for a month and almost died.
The day I was released my step-dad said that the family would have been better off if I had died!
My parents emotionally neglected me so bad that my brain got goofed up and I turned out bipolar. But I'm alive and we went on summer vacations, so they get a C on their parenting grade.
I was emotionally neglected too! Mum was and is now a recovering alcoholic. So now I'm just a relatively independent bit still majorly insecure and depressed pos.
I'm bipolar mania also, PTSD, anxiety, panic attacks, cannot function normally and a social introvert, my world is crumbling down because of how broken and shattered they left me and I'm alone apart from a bottle because the world laughs at me and my self esteem and ego, I would rather be a mannequin or a statue than living breathing at this point
Oh man, I could write an entire series of books on what it was like to live with my mom for several years. My grandparents (dad’s parents) raised me the majority of my life, and it took my until I turned 24 years old to finally realize why I was so ignorant to it all (I’m 29 now). Living with dad sucked too (you couldn’t ask for his help with anything because he has zero patience, and he still has the nerve to wonder why some of us, me in particular, act so defensive or feel challenged when he tries to show us things), but with my mom was a whole new level of fucked up and torment, and things only got worse when she started with her drinking.
Gas lighting, emotional, verbal and physical abuse, alcoholism, degrading me, her Christian hypocrisy, her entire conspiracies that the world was against her, constant lying, and worst of all, abusing me (and my siblings) because she had this idea that our youngest brother was always her precious baby, could never do any wrong, and everyone who said things against him was wrong and became a public enemy to her (seriously, she stopped talking to a neighbor down the street because said neighbor raised her voice at my little brother, even though she was only telling him to not play in the middle of the street); because her could do no wrong; he was spoiled rotten (which in the long run affected him too). She still had the audacity to act stupid or turn a blind eye when youngest brother stole things from us or call me some of the most horrible things, but the claws came out whenever anyone dared do the same to him.
But the 2 most fucked up things that come to mind? She beat the living fuck outta me once when I gave my brother a damn well deserved backhand slap to the face. He was going on and on for almost an HOUR of calling me gay, faggot, dick sucker, that I was a moron, etc. (and this was a kid who was only about 9 years old), and my mom was right there, not doing shit, not telling him to shut up, not slapping him across the face like a good parent would. Nope, she was just acting like nothing was being said. Oh, but she reacted FAST when she heard my little brother call her name, said beating happened next, and yet somehow that wasn’t enough and she still proceeded to throw a hard plastic cup at me; as if kicking, scratching, slapping and throwing me around wasn’t enough. I finally fucking snapped and called her a crazy fucking bitch and locked myself in the room. Oh, and she still had the audacity to look at me all pissed off the next day as I came home from work, and told my grandma (her mom) that I had called her a crazy bitch, omitting the entire reason why I called her that.
She was on another of her whiny, presumably drug-induced fits (I never caught her doing any of that) and I begged her to make me something to eat, which she outright refused to do, all while my little brother goes on again and again with his usual name-calling towards me. This was the second time she didn’t make me something to eat (first time being when she was drunk outta her mind, and spent the next hour in the shower not listening to me or anyone else). That memory suddenly sprung into my head years ago (like at around 24 years old again), and it was so shitty to me that I have since started asking people I care about (my grandparents, friends, my dates, and even my ex) if they’ve eaten yet. I feel like I annoy them sometimes, since I ask a few times a day almost every day that I see or talk to them, but knowing how it feels to be deprived of eating just sucks, and I don’t want ANYONE to have to go through that.
I haven’t seen her in over 8 years, and I still talk to her, but I’m waiting for the day she tries to shame me or say something negative about me, so I can let all hell loose on her about how much of a shitty parent she was.
kudos to the people who read this as my response was oh frick what have i gotten myself into
I feel like maybe you shouldn't talk to her, let her come to you. If/when she does try to initiate a conversation say you will speak to her when she apologizes for the hell she put you through.
@@goldenstunter8525 Lol it is pretty long but sometimes you just gotta get all that shit out of your head.
Very late comment but having been through things I almost wonder if parents have children specifically to have someone to hurt or bully.
Yes, narcissists use us as their punching bags, we are not their children, we are their piece of furniture that they can damage as they please
my dad (to this day) basically yells profanities at me bcs if gaming. (hes indian for anyone wondering) he wanted me to be only educated and even tried having me sheltered away from my mum side if family (russian and VERY chill) so one day it got to the point of him telling me im not his son, always a disappointment, retarded (stayed in honors math from grade 4 till graduated high school, entered university in a 200 lvl calc class, scored a 700 in math on psat 710 on sat), even said i should go and well die, (ive considered it greatly and almost got close to doing it, thanks mum you always loved me and understood me, and helped me out of that shit). he still doesnt believe me its his fault for me gaming 16 hrs a day. as a kid he wont let me hang out AT ALL like sheltered away from outside world. i turned to gaming.
even now (attending university as a freshmen) he does most of thr above mentioned shit. ive considered running away from home ( no plan lined up after). my grandpa (his dad) left him some inheritance and specifically said to my dad "this is for your kids college" but he decided to keep for him self. what do i turn? i turned to my uncle (bless you uncle andrey and my mum ) mum helped me buy a salvage 2015 Infiniti q50 45k miles. and he helping me fix it so that one day ill sell it and profit to pay thru my education as a cis major.
sorry for the rant, whoever paid attention, I appreciate you guys reading it, All have an awesome day
Run away and get the hell out. I know this is hard. I read this and feel for you absolutely, because my russian mother was much like your Indian father buy only SLIGHTLY more humane. But I was also basically locked in the house at all times and would be terrified to Literally go out the front door to go the car 5 feet away from the door to grab something if necessary.
You absolutely need to get out. Feel free to reach out to me if you would like. You are important and deserve a better life and treatment.
@@bedazzledmisery6969 I am waiting on finish up my cis degree (just bachelors) and fixing up the q50 so that once graduated and landed a job with that first week pay im moving out and changing contact number but will keep in touch with mum side of family as they know what im going thru
Before running away, gather evidence. After you ran away, call the cops. Give them all the evidence. Get help. I am still healing from 20 years of multiple kinds of abuse. I want abusive parents to die off.
Go to your grandfather's lawyer or whoever is in charge of his estate. Tell them what you've written about your father's theft of your inheritance. Your dad is in for a lot of legal trouble when they find out. If your dad gets mad for turning him in, tell him he is a poor excuse for a father and a thief and that is far worse than anything he has EVER accused you of being.
Yes this video is so true, my mum did some of those things to me and I can relate to the fact on this video, I highly recommend this video to any teenage, they will benefit from it and feel much better getting it off their chest, please make more of these videos
This is why people should need to pass a test before being allowed to breed.
yes this has to be approved
A mental health and "life competency" examination, a thorough check. This should also apply to getting a driver's licence, and renting (if the neighbours I've had lately are anything to go by).
god damn, if some of these were my parents, they'd be getting a Colombian necktie while they slept
That last one sickens me. You don't bring innocent animals into it as punishment.
Mae [MHTARDIS21] the first one is worse. Shooting YOUR OWN KID who’s innocent because of YOUR shitty relationship that YOU ruined???? AWFUL!!!!!!
I’d have told my horror story, but then I watched the video and realized my story is just a nursery rhyme.
Clearly favored my older brothers over me. I try not to be bitter about it since my brothers didn't know what was going on and it's not their fault, but I still resent their seemingly infallible choices whereas I, the only one without debt, who knows where I'm going in my future career and has never been fired/divorced can't seem to comprehend life.
17 year old credit card debt? No such thing. Delinquent debt drops off your credit after 7 years.
Omg! I've said it before but I'll say it again... some ppl should NOT be allowed to have children!!!
I believe I saw your comment on another vid
Stole roughly $30,000 in Social Security Income while I was his dependent. that's money that could have kept me fed. money that could have gassed my car. but he pocketed every dime of it without me knowing it existed until it was too late. I don't speak to Ronald anymore, nor do I refer to him in any familial way.
he spent every dime on booze. also, he made me work to pay him "rent", so my Social Security ended up fining me about $3000 (I was supposed to pay back what I earned in pay, but he pocketed everything and never told me about SSI) that I'm *still* paying off to this day with garnishes to my SSI. y'all ever have to decide between food or gas? cos I did. regularly.
Title: "What would you do if your parents stole your identity?"
First story: My dad shot me
Not stole my identity in this Reddit way, but another.
I (17F at that stage) had just gotten back home from a long holiday with my dad, after finishing school and of course, I was job-hunting. I had put in several applications and had a couple of interviews which were not successful so I had gone to the CES (old Centrelink in Australia, in the 1980's) to try and find some jobs. I returned home with a couple of good job cards and ready to send my resumé off, when my mother said, "TO2, you got a phone call from XXX place, and I had to pretend to be you. Interview at 9am tomorrow" and she gave me the address. I was horrified (we had no cell phones at that stage, of course) and I asked her exactly what she said, etc, etc. I told her NEVER, EVER to do that AGAIN. I was really pi**ed off!!
Next day, I arrived at XXX for the interview, the interviewer called me in, greeted me, sat down and started asking the usual questions. I answered her and she looked quizzically at me. "Gee, your voice sounds rather different than on the phone yesterday". "Oh,", I said, "Talking face-to-face and on phone, some sound a little different." But I knew I was caught.....She continued on with the questions and I answered. Again, she looked at me quizzically and said, "It wasn't you on the phone, was it?". I sighed and said, "No, it was my mother pretending to be me...I did tell her off about it, she was only trying to help as I'm job-hunting".
This lady was very nice about it all and she asked for my mum's number. She rang mum and said "Mrs X, I'm interviewing your daughter ,TO2, at the moment. I'm not going to give her the job because of your dishonesty. I suggest you change your attitude towards job-hunting and unemployment as it is not shameful. Let your daughter do her own job-hunting and you can live with the consequences of this act." She put down the phone. I smiled, stood up, shook her hand, thanked her for the opportunity and left.....and laughed. When mum told dad what happened he told her to next time, mind her own business and let me deal with it.
I'm 56yo now, and I still remind mum (86) about that. She said "Yeah, I learned my lesson"!!
A week later, I found a job....by myself.
OK. I can't watch anymore of this. If I do, I'm going to have to punch a wall. Or become Batman. Not rich enough for the latter and too poor to fix the former.
Same tbh.
These stories remind me of my childhood. My mother tracked me down after they threw me out and demanded the rent for the next month. I was homeless and they were demanding the money in my pocket. Stealing it from my dresser wasn't enough they took half my check too. Left me with 40 bucks for 2 weeks and demanded I save up and move out I had just turned 16 and if I didn't sleep with my money in my bra they stole it!!! She blamed me for my dad sexually abusing me too and still denys her best friend did it as well. 40 years later my story is still the same but theirs keep changing!! Stay strong and don't look back♥️
I had a rough childhood, but compared to a lot of these stories it was a fairytale. I hope all of these people can move on in life and leave the horrid upbringings they had in the past. There really needs to be a standardized test for people having children, I’m not pro state stepping in and intruding in peoples lives but no child should have to go through what some of these folks have. The biggest problem with state intrusion is often times the foster homes are worse than where they came from.
My mother one time slammed my face into the table multiple times because I was mixing mashed potatoes and ketchup, *Don't Worry* we're both good now and she's a much better mother now
toni 37 oh really. Believe it when she shows it. Actions speak louder than words, even past actions.
JFC ur parents are insane... But slamming u against a table over mashed potatoes and ketchup? While it sounds disgusting, that doesn't mean u should be beat!?!
@@anthonypolk18 potatoes and ketchup go together just fine. Mashed or as fries. Don't know if I could forgive in this situation.
Old stepmom verbally and physically abused me. (Though it was always just a slap on the top of the hand when I messed up, I suppose.) Ruined my self-esteem and worsened my depression.
im so sorry for you. hope you get better
What strikes me most is how parents are able to get away from very awful things they do to their children, some of them being clearly illegal, and that affects and hurts them for the rest of their freaking lives? but if those things were done to non-relatives their behaviors would be considered illegal and their ass could end up in jail. Why does society keep protecting some criminals just because they're related to the victim? Why psychological arm isn't as punished as physical one when we know how bad it affects the victims, for so long and end up fucking their whole life?!Why are they allowed to never face the consequences of their actions and get a free pass out of very profoundly disturbing situations that fucked those kid's lives forever?
Wow! So many b's out there, it amazes me because I would've called the police and cps
Edit: I realized that this sounds like I skeptical, I'm not I meant multiple jerks not bs
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Dear goodness... I’m the same age as her and I cannot imagine... poor girl.
If you’re reading this. I’ll be here for you! I will listen!
24:05 This one worried me so much with the implications. God I hope she's ok.
Same here.
I really think that people should have a license to have children
If they’re handed out like foster licences and drivers licences then the kids still have no chance in hell...
I would get burned or radiators still have scars at 24 years old
Same here. It hurt like holy hell.
My friend would get locked in a closet, an it was small an had a radiator in the back. The burns he came to school with shocked me, but I was 6-7 so did nothing. It was pretty much the chokey, as there was one nail on 3 of the sides, then the 4th had a radiator.
Listening to/reading these makes me realize that my mom being sick all the time and my dad telling me she was killing him because she couldnt do things he wanted to do wasn't that bad
My parents would punish us in which we had to stand in a corner until our legs gave out or we pissed ourselves.
My parents would make me pull weeds from our yard without any gloves for hours on end. My hands would often be blistered and sometimes bloody. There was also that time in the summer of 8th grade when I got grounded for 4 years, for playing donkey Kong 64 "without permission" after I finished all my things to do for the morning already.
Hello doggo, your ultimate and astounding beauty. Has blinded me, your envy strengthens me my love.
Wow. So many to choose from. For dad, making me stand at attention consistently for 2 hours, which took 4 hours, rainfall, and a case of pneumonia. For mom, after covering for her blowing $40k and putting the home in jeopardy and also buying her a car, refused to care for me after I was accidentally poisoned and left her door closed when I subsequently became homeless.
If some of this horrible shit happened to me, I would most likely be in jail, or had sued the crap of of my parents. Who needs enemies when you got family like this horrifying bunch.
I’m so pissed for every one of those people. If I was mentally and financially stable I’d adopt all of them lol
41 years too late on that one, but thanks for your kind offer 🫡🫡
I wish genitals wouldn’t work on cruel people.
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When you find out grandma’s cookies the only reason why your living. O_O
My parents made fun of me to the point that I developed an eating disorder and I cried every time I looked in the mirror.
My brother is clearly their favourite because they actually tell him things and give him things. I asked for a new plant if I got a good grade a few months ago and I did get that good grade but I didn't get the plant. I've had to beg to be taken to the doctor and they always take forever to make the appointments, they keep forgetting.
I'm always forgotten about.
One time when I was younger I had my dinner taken away because my dad was pissed and he put my stuffed toy on the outside of the window before I went to bed and in the morning it was gone, I didn't see it again until 4 years later.
My mother stopped going to my parent teacher conferences because she just couldn't be bothered. She'd usually say she'd go and on the day of she'd say she wouldn't be going anymore and it was always embarrassing the next day when the teachers asked why I wasn't there.
I know that they didn't want me
I'm very lucky to have the parents I do, I do love them very much. But... my parents bought me down emotionally to the point that I was depressed and suicidal at 14. They didn't do it intentionally, just pushed too hard. Love them still though
My grandpa shamed my father from going to college on a fully funded football scholarship.( my dad was an amazing football player). His reasoning?
"What's football gonna do for you?"
Dad turned down the scholarship for fear of disappointing his dad(its never enough for my grandfather, btw. Nothing pleases him)
Needless to say, I dont like my grandpa very much.
Regarding the titular question, well, creatively eviscerate them, cook them and feed them to their pets
"My mom grounded me for making the highest score on a class project in sixth grade." Talk about screwed up standards T_T
My dad had to pick me up from my seasonal part time job at GameStop. He forgot about me on Black Friday and left me for an hour outside of the mall. He didn’t pick me up until about 11 PM and he was drunk. He drove home drunk with me in the car and we almost hit multiple things on the way home. I realized how little he cared about me 😅
This leaves me very VERY MAD! Who else has parents who abused them? What do you want to do to them?
To the IRS scammer father, turn yourself in.
Well, my parents relationship was very emotionally abusive. Bio father is a narcissist. Mum has been an alcoholic for most of my life. Very physically and emotionally abusive. I was always very uncertain of myself and insecure. Still live with mum bc I can't afford a place of my own. I hate my mum, I never understood family or love or relationships because I always feel so empty, probably have depression since I was a child. Only child too, and intellectual. Always felt like I was wrong and different. Wouldn't mind having my own place so I can just be myself for once.
1:32 i sat there with my eyes wide and mouth wide open for like 5 minutes, that is so fricked up
Probably this: my mom ignored my mental and social problems in the 6th grade and was way more concerned with my grades. Now, I'm very afraid of getting bad grades and I have so much trouble making friends.
My dad also used my social security number, to buy cable for a couple of months, but my mom eventually found out and stopped him and was able to clear my name (when I was 7-8 years old)
Holy shit. A lot of these parents are monsters.
The mind blocks out certain memories for a reason and this thread has a lot of reasons.
My mum was a drunk for most of my life. Had to deal with her seizures since she is also epileptic and all her broken promises. Emotional neglect is fun. Even now she treats me like im a lazy fuck when I'm very socially anxious and awkward bc I'm the invisible only child. Bio dad took one look at me in an incubator and yeeted out of the ward until I contacted him 25 years later and he's now decided to be a dad. He's a narcissistic arsehole. I'm 28 and still passive and regressive bc I've been ignored for most of my life. Fun.
My story is tame compared to all of these stories. I forgot to pick up a piece of trash so my mother tossed it to me. She then grabbed the trash can and dumped half of it and me. And shouted at me for forgetting to pick up a single wrapper. I had to pick up all the garbage that was dumped on me.
How is that tame?
My mom left me with the babysitter when I was 4 months never came back... thankfully my great grandparents found out and picked me up and raised me. Ima grandma's Son!
Damn. Some kids just lose straight out the gate huh? That isnt fair
Said that I wouldn't be a normal functioning human being unless [might've been until, can't recall which word she used] someone "beat the absolute tar out of [me]"
I feel like a pos when I complain about my parents now. We moved to a different state because of me and my sibling and I still complain about them...
My dad always shamed me for just being 5'7' he said men would have to be at least 6' tall so I'm not a man to him
I also don't have a beard which made it even worse
I have no self esteem thx to him and I always feel like there's someone better than me who deserves whatever I desire more
I'm 22 and have never even attempted to get a gf, probably never will because of how fricjed up I am in my head bc of the constant verbal abuse and shaming by him
He makes up for it by always helping me with money whenever I need it and since I am unemployed bc of covid he even pays my rent but still, the damage can never be undone
I know what you mean. My mom constantly made fun of my bone structure, my big bottom lip, the way I walked or ran, the way I smoked, my reactions, literally anything I did. She would always look me over before patting my shoulders and saying, "Relax your shoulders.". I would say I am relaxing them, and she'd try to push them down, physically hurting me. She'd constantly say I have man shoulders, and I was never skinny enough, though she'd compliment my ass and stare at it (fucking weird). I had to start sucking in my stomach and lowering my shoulders around her so she'd stop. Of course I'd forget and be reminded of my flaws. When I tried to fit her mold, she said that I wasn't the same person anymore and that she was disappointed and sad for me. It really fucked me up and I still have severe issues with my appearance and self esteem. I cry every time someone takes a picture of me and forces me to look because I feel so ugly.
@Txomin abel. Dont listen to your dad. You can get a gf. Do it out of spite
These are so freaking messed up. This is some of the cruelest crap I've heard.
Happened today, my step father boil the entire of my existence to being an errand boy and/or butler.
Not me, I'm a teenager, but I knew a woman ( currently in her midtwenties ) who had a tough childhood. When she was fourteen, her mother was an alcoholic and was extremely abusive sometimes. At that time, she was living with her mom and her stepfather, who tried to get inappropriate with her. When she complained this to her mother, her mom became hysterically and argued with her stepfather who claimed she was lying. Sadly her mother believed him and in return beat her for 'lying'. Then she when to lived with her father, who wasn't any better than her mom. One night, her father claimed to hear stories of incest sex among his friends and tried to talk her into having sex with him. She became scared and denied, later to make a call to her cousins so they can help her. Afterward she ended up living in an orphanage with no financial support to attend school and dropped out at 15 to work. How's she doing now? She's now married and has two kids, or three, if you count her 14 year old brother whom her mother refused to look after of. Her daughter is 9 years old and her son is 4. How's her parents doing? Her mom is still living with men and gets drunk often. She's had many children even before her (my friend) who are already independant adults. Her dad has went on and married and started a new family with already several kids.
my mother was extremely toxic when i was young, she punished us in extremely brutal punishments. one of her favorites was having us strip down naked and stand out on the porch for 10 minutes. we lived in the suburbs. i would see many people stopping and staring at me.
Christ, I need a break from this one, I hope you did no contact and never spoke to your parents again, I'm out of this one from now 😢😢
I had a rough childhood but always believed in being with my family even though it was hard and changing even with the abuse my sister and myself suffered physically socially and mentally. I use to think it was okay for my girlfriend to beat me at that time too cause I was beaten daily. My parents guilted me into owing the house with them when I was 18 when I joined the military and was bought into it and paid off their reverse mortgage and their remodeling and then was told that I never paid for anything. I also went to college as well at that time. I gave about $45,000 for remodeling repairs to find out they used someone else and took my money to pay for a trailer. They Use to be berated for taking martial arts and served in the navy. Came back trained fighter as well, Dad tried to beat me when I was moving out I threw the 300-pound bastard of the man around and literally owned his a$$. I came by to say hi one day after about a year and he tried to beat me after I saw him hit my mother. I landed up putting him through a spare clothes hanger closet, then put his head through the door of another closet then pinned him against the wall on his knees. My mom tried to come after me with a knife and I quickly disarmed her. She backed away after that my uncle just sat there and done nothing. Police were called they tried to say I caused the fight and everything cops looked at everything and noticed that I held back and fended myself accordingly. Had to leave. I was allowed to see them after a year and a bit with my new girlfriend. My dad keeps a very safe distance away from me now and won't talk to me personally. He will talk to me if my sister is there or someone else was around but at a very far distance if anything he talks over the phone and tried to bully me or guilt me now. My mother is almost the same way. When I did move and when I was away my parents did come by and surprised me with a new couch and a bed. My dad realized and finally came to the conclusion that I also paid off his house insurance and my name was literally on the home with my mom and not him that was why he did what he did. He thought that he was squared-off with me for doing this. No dad a couch and a bed does not square off the $48,658.32.that they owe me I can also add interest but that is too mean at this point. He still owes me a lot of cash technically but I know i will not see it at all So I said it was cool I gave the home to my mom completely but my mom never did tell him that I removed my name on the house completely and gave it to my mom cause I did not want them to be put or forced in a retirement home cause part of me still loves them. I barely see them now, I live alone away from them. it has been the best thing ever.
I would never speak to either of them again tbh.
The pig one was just horrific
Especially as pigs are very intelligent animals, much more than we give them credit for. Poor Sonic knew. RIP Sonic. :,(
I support women’s right to abortions, but I can understand the concern for depriving the life of a child. That being said, no life is better than a miserable life. My parents were damn good all things considered but I still ended up a depressed wreck. I can’t imagine what it would be like to have parents who are actually abusive, let alone who try to murder you.
So Many Stories Of Parents Breaking The Law, It's Crazy!
I literally feel sick to my stomach for all you children who have suffered at the hands of your parents 😪 all of you are a precious gift from God🥰 big mama bear hug to you all
This whole video just makes me thank whatever deity, power, or even just sheer luck, about how great my parents are/were (mom's sadly gone now). Sure, they weren't perfect, but even the worse I can remember they ever did to me was my dad not being always there (because he worked away) or my mom asking me to babysit my younger brother and sister after school because she went back to college in order to get a career and better our family's finances. Of course, we sometimes had problems and/or didn't act our best, but that's miles and miles far from even the mildest things written here
The first one , wow just wow, what a father
I have ankylosing spondylitis too. They finally diagnosed it at 26.
How the hell can someone take out a credit card at 1 year old ! Im sure in Europe the CC company is liable for failing to do a check. But hey thats 'freedom' I suppose.
My mom slapped me because I kept crying which made me cry even more (I was very young but I have like a third person view of it for some reason now)
I love my parents but they argue about every 2 weeks. It’s never physical but they do yell.
@@maddykrantz thats still not a health relationship or environment if they're arguing every two weeks. If two people stay together "for the kids" and hate each other its not good for anyones mental health.
Lord, some of these people need to sue their parents.
That ragtime theme in the background is such a big contrast to the feel of the content......
birth mom picked drugs over me even did them and drank while pregnant i was born wither missed up health wise she left when i was around 2 the possible dad she left me with decided he only wanted me for my disability check at 6 i moved in with his parents which are way better people then him but he kept the disability check every month so he could have extra gambling money he gave his parents the last 2 checks i guess after getting caught miss using the funds and losing my checks and health insurance i changed my name at 18 later found out it was probably great that i did his parents found what they believed to be evidence that he was about to sign me up for student loans and credit cards keep all the money for himself and leave me in massive debt also after i turned 18 he finally admitted what i suspected from age 3 or 4 that he not my actually dad even if he is my bio dad he isnt no dad
For some reason the stepdad turning the highschool gf into a heroin addict hurts especially
Killed the pets.
Totally expected "So I took a kitchen knife at 4 a.m., went to his bed and shoved that sucker so deep into his thoat it came out the other side".
Thank you for not taking care of those monsters, so they can keep doing harm. Good work you guys.
I'm so glad that I have my parents. Like, the worst punishments I ever got were no tv or Nintendo ds for a few days.
Oh, and since I'm autistic and with that I have a disability our car runs on me for ensurance advantages, but they pay everything for that car and drive me wherever I need to go, so it doesn't affect me negatively in any way. So, yeah, I've got great parents and I'm sorry for anyone who hasn't parents like mine.
That’s first story about the dad shooting the kid. I always wonder at what point to these marriages turn? Do they realize the red flags before the marriage? Or does it suddenly escalate? Idk. What are your thoughts?
With my ex husband we were together 2 years before getting married. Not long enough I guess because afterwards it was a pretty quick decline where he turned into a totally different (& awful) person. There's no way I could have been blind to it all for 2 years because we had already been living together & were inseparable. I probably did miss some minor red flags perhaps but he really did just quickly change. I think he thought I would be trapped now that we were married & would never leave him.
My parents entire relationship. Bio dad is a narcissist and mum was one of those clingy people pleasing types. He was always a prat running off because of emotional issuses or whatever, she kept running after him trying to make it work. There were a lot of red flags, but mum convinced herself she loved him, even though none of her previous boyfriends treated her that way. Mum was and is an alcoholic. My parents spilt up just after I was born. I was born 5 monthes premature. Bio dad essentially took one look at me and wanted to pretend I didn't exist. Mum was still obsessed with him and was always physically and emotionally abusive to me. I was always the quiet imaginative little girl. I never want to have kids because I wouldn't be a good mum but the mere thought of pregnancy and stuff is gross to me. As for relationships, I don't understand them, possibly due to my upbringing and maybe I have depression.
@@Phoebe5448 if there is a chance you can separate from your mom you should take it. Dont end up like your mum
@@meyeneetuks4680 Thanks. Hoping to soon. And I don't intend to be like my mum. Thank you! 😊
If you’re under 18 ,in most States ,parents can’t kick you out. Call the PoPo on your parents. 💁🏽♂️💁🏼♂️
first story .22 lr rounds are pretty weak and beyond a certain distance can not penetrate the human skull
ok so this is not s bad, but my parents sold my sisters inhalers and mine and my other sisters (im 1 of 8) pills. my sister has severe asthma and has ended up in the hospital multiple times bc of it. my sister has a feeding disorder bc of a botched brain surgery. it has gotten to the point that i have to hide my pills in a broken phone power bank. i take xanax and dizapram for parinoia and severe clinical depression, and i learned that if i need money, might aswell cut my mom out of the deal and sell myself. thats how i got into dealing. nobody who reads this will believe me, but its true