Nope!! Never again. Dating someone with a crazy ex is a nightmare. Crazy exes are dangerous people who will only bring drama into your life. Somebody else can deal with that...
The ex being toxic isn't the problem. The issue is what's the real truth. Sometimes when people call someone "toxic" ad nosium it's because they themselves are venomous. Nothing like "poisoning" the well.
True but I think that will come out when dating as you will see the signs if you are looking. The thing that is a problem is your partner entertaining a crazy ex, many try to justfiy having that person around. Sometimes it can't be helped if kids are apart of the relationship, which something to consider and talk about if you in a healthy relationship.
@@phantomzxro1I agree. I don't have children but I have talked to women with children. For me it didn't work but I don't hold it against them. The red flag and deal breaker is when she can't leave the "ex" alone.
My ex's baby mama was very toxic and jealous. He was very generous in not telling me how toxic she was while we were together. He was honest with how bad he treated her, and she was jealous he treated me very well. It wasn't until we broke up, months later she was STILL mad at me for dating him...like sis...you more pressed about my ex than i am 😂. I no longer date men with baby mamas. Im not about be blamed for your bad decisions 😊
@@janedough6410 I'll date a man with an EX WIFE....but not a baby mama. If its ex wife and they have kids, thats a completely different scenario, and im cool with that.
Hard NO. I enjoy peace, and if her 'ex' is crazy, chances are it's not just one that's crazy. So nope. And if it seems she's INTO the craziness of the ex, because that does happen, then I will EASILY step out of the way and let her enjoy the circus. To me it should be more of a compliment to one another. Who wants to invite drama and that nonsense into their lives? To distract from your goals or the life you want to live?
I’ve done it before, I was never scared but he gave her serious trust issues she took what she learned from that toxic situation and applied it to me and her relationship
NO I wouldn't. People deal with far more than they should and it also depends what U bring to the table. Some people are lucky to be in a Relationship lol im not dealing with a Woman who has a toxic EX, Kids or an attitude problem 💯 there's MORE than enough people out here who are Single and fit what you want. No need to settle whether Man or Woman
No! But for those of you who have a hard time moving on, you have to tell yourself that there are billions of people on this planet to be stuck on one individual. If you got over one person, tell yourself I can get over the current or next person too. Good luck! ♥
The brother at 3:50, that’s not called being a “man”, that’s pride and ego bro…. If you a have a family to live for, knowing how to pick your battles and living and fighting for your family is being a man…
Nah, my peace is more valuable to me. Toxic exes could mean a few things: drama or danger involved tryna date that person, you gotta deal with trust issues, and/or they may have a type and the toxic ex is a reflection of them. Hard no.
That's not always true. When u date somebody, they probably wasn't toxic in the beginning but as time goes on, sometimes ppl change for the worse and their true colors start to show.
@@tejaynem2292 Or the person that left wasn't the toxic one it was the crazy Ex. The crazy ex probably is still hooked to that person emotionally or sexually...Soul ties are a real thing.
Warning ⚠️ signs I’ve ignored in the passed. Her ex trying to open the door with a pliers. You can see the mark all over the door knob. Two times the crazy ex came by when I was there. This crazy mofo banging on the door while arguing with her. Female names Tracy-Ann & Divon.
@4:30 It is a bad message to send to society to say that women who have an abusive and stalking ex-partner are not worthy of a non-abusive relationship. This puts to onus on the abused and not the abuser. Women should get a restraining order if their ex-partner is stalking them and has abused them. If they violate it, then call the police and get them locked up. Otherwise, it could lead to you, your family or your new partner being attacked and/or killed. This goes for men, as well. Although most of the time it applies to women.
They aren't blaming the non-crazy one. They are warning people that when you date someone who was in that situation, you are becoming part of it and it could cost you a lot even your life. You clearly are dealing with something if "victim blaming" was what you heard. Would you tell your son or daughter to pursue a relationship that you truly believed would be unhealthy for them and take away more then it's going to give
It's a no for me. And I laugh because I'm a different kinda crazy. I carry. It would be end of story for someone coming at me over a man and in a manner where I would have to defend myself. That's why I couldn't. Not for him but for me. I'll pass on alll of that drama!
I have legit “crazy” exes but they were that way during our situation so that’s why he became an ex😂😂😂but seriously tho-I prefer t make sure when something is done it’s actually DONE and as far as dealing with another person’s “crazy” ex -that’s a HARD no!! More often than not, that person is probably still dealing with said ex-whether it be from pressure, habit or whatever. They haven’t closed out that cycle.
I would be very cautious. It would be a red flag and shows me the type of men she prefers. If she "gets bored" with me she's likely to go back to the "bad boy" type men. Also, he crosses the line and we end up fighting or worse, and it's not worth it.
Craziest ex story I heard in college was when someone’s crazy ex came to the apartment and pooped and smeared it in the oven..allegedly she cut up all the new shorty’s wigs and wrote “I’ll be back” with the hair cuts…she defrosted took all the meat from the freezer and left it out..dude and new boo came home to the stench of hell but he refused to press charges.
I was just dealing with this this weekend.. I think I've decided the drama is a lil much for me, however... damn. I wish she could just tone down the noise a bit. She's worth it personally but I have shit going on. Can't dive into it like that.
I dealt with it before Dude chased her around the city She lost him and pulled up at my spot 3 hours later I’m outside having a drink and a smoke She appear in the window and I can see she on the phone- I see her like get off the phone and look at it Called me right there like he found my car He out there Bra she brought it to my door step That was on me though too. So I ask her what kind of car he drive And she tell me I’m like yup He at the end of the lot I told her lock the doors Swung that back seat open and he back up and turned around Never came back I said never agin Cause I done had to wonder if this car pulling up is door dash or cuz But he called her when he left like “you got people tryna kill me Ok i got something for that “ Man when me and her was done who she go to? Smfh
@@Bravo937 bro this weekend I’m chilling with the homegrl who just left her abusive ex after a decade. She tells me his older brother, dude bout 56, stole from her apartment when she wasn’t there. I’m like lock your doors girl what are you thinking? The dude shows up at 2AM didn’t expect to see my big black ass sitting there (he’s a small Latino dude) and he got a lil shook. But I had to look at my homegrl like why do you allow this shit to come to your door when you have a son and you’re trying to move on? I can’t get down with randoms showing up at 2AM been there done that over that lifestyle man. But she fine AF ahhhhhhhhh. Damn. It’s never easy.
@@JudgeDredd_ yea it’s a battle We a protect but if you keep doing the same I guess I’m protecting in vain I had a couple homegirls try to be good and support a former friend Let him stay In their extra room bro - niggas came down from a different city and tried to trap it out. I stepped in cause my lil sisters ain’t have no body to turn to But I looked at em like I told Yal. But what’s not going happen is food getting ate and bottles getting drank ect Funny thing is she was bad af 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I had her bro Lol na But they had to leave and it was understood in 3 days I remember looking back like damn they be having us all up in some shit
Nope, did it once when I was 18 and I’m 37 today and the lady is still harassing me!!! Stalks my social media, used to drive by my home screaming cuss words, crazy lady 😂
The crazy Exes always be single tho for some reason, they a bit better when they have someone in their life..Totally not worth it because many men dont know how to deal with the crazy exes and it just adds to it.
You can really tell when someone's dad is a cop cause they're not afraid of anything... theyll show up the next day say 'whatsup' like nothing happened
toxic ex/bm/bd nah im good i been knowing a guy for almost 7 years and we never dated in his eyes we will date one day …..sadly he consumed by 3 bms im good
Thea Mitchem needs to make a statement in regards to Envy cause why are we acting like it’s business as us usual when you’re apart of a huge ponzi scheme. At this point CTG and iHeart is complicit
Did yall change the topic from “should uzi get his chain back” to this because y’all were afraid people would call in to say envy need to give people their money back ? 👀 just a question
That dude talking about “what if it’s your soulmate” is dumb. That’s not wise counsel. Charlemagne is right. It would be wise to go for something that’s easier for you. That’s the healthiest approach to finding someone.
Nope!! Never again. Dating someone with a crazy ex is a nightmare. Crazy exes are dangerous people who will only bring drama into your life. Somebody else can deal with that...
exactly avoid all drama
Someone with a toxic ex means they’re accustomed to toxicity. At my age I can say confidently I ain’t going for that sh!t.
PERIODT!!
Facts
😂😂
NO. Life is too short don't get caught up in a crazy love quarrel with anyone or their ex(s)
The ex being toxic isn't the problem. The issue is what's the real truth. Sometimes when people call someone "toxic" ad nosium it's because they themselves are venomous. Nothing like "poisoning" the well.
True but I think that will come out when dating as you will see the signs if you are looking. The thing that is a problem is your partner entertaining a crazy ex, many try to justfiy having that person around. Sometimes it can't be helped if kids are apart of the relationship, which something to consider and talk about if you in a healthy relationship.
Exactly
@@phantomzxro1I agree. I don't have children but I have talked to women with children. For me it didn't work but I don't hold it against them. The red flag and deal breaker is when she can't leave the "ex" alone.
Unless you see the ex being crazy, she or he might be the crazy/toxic one. People love to blame the other person when it could be you.
Facts! Well said. ✨💕
True
I believe you, but I need you to believe me too… that fool was TOXIC TOXIC😂😂😂
Just say no.
My ex's baby mama was very toxic and jealous. He was very generous in not telling me how toxic she was while we were together. He was honest with how bad he treated her, and she was jealous he treated me very well.
It wasn't until we broke up, months later she was STILL mad at me for dating him...like sis...you more pressed about my ex than i am 😂. I no longer date men with baby mamas. Im not about be blamed for your bad decisions 😊
@@janedough6410 I'll date a man with an EX WIFE....but not a baby mama. If its ex wife and they have kids, thats a completely different scenario, and im cool with that.
Hard NO. I enjoy peace, and if her 'ex' is crazy, chances are it's not just one that's crazy. So nope. And if it seems she's INTO the craziness of the ex, because that does happen, then I will EASILY step out of the way and let her enjoy the circus. To me it should be more of a compliment to one another. Who wants to invite drama and that nonsense into their lives? To distract from your goals or the life you want to live?
Naa because i have a peaceful life and i don't want no "toxic" ex or anybody else to mess it up. I hate dealing with drama.
A toxic ex in Baltimore usually ends with a double homicide and a suicide. Just check murder inc…😢
Yea these Baltimore ninjas are straight up crazy!! 😄
I’ve done it before, I was never scared but he gave her serious trust issues she took what she learned from that toxic situation and applied it to me and her relationship
Damn, that’s cold blooded. That’s why people have to heal before they DEAL with the next person. Blessings to you, Sir. ✨
I wouldn’t date anyone with a toxic ex, mama, sister, dog, cat… ion give a damn how good that shit is 😂😂😂😂 I’m super good, don’t fall for it 🚫❌💯
@@janedough6410 😭😭😭😭😭
NO I wouldn't. People deal with far more than they should and it also depends what U bring to the table. Some people are lucky to be in a Relationship lol im not dealing with a Woman who has a toxic EX, Kids or an attitude problem 💯 there's MORE than enough people out here who are Single and fit what you want. No need to settle whether Man or Woman
No! But for those of you who have a hard time moving on, you have to tell yourself that there are billions of people on this planet to be stuck on one individual. If you got over one person, tell yourself I can get over the current or next person too. Good luck! ♥
All day!!!🧘🏾♀️✊🏾
The brother at 3:50, that’s not called being a “man”, that’s pride and ego bro…. If you a have a family to live for, knowing how to pick your battles and living and fighting for your family is being a man…
So everybody just forgot about what happened to Trouble in Atlanta huh? Smfh
I am done with everyone toxic..I remove them all from my life..Best decision of my life
Caller showed up to thanksgiving should have left with a plate and move on.
7:05 That dude’s insane 💀💀💀
Nah, my peace is more valuable to me. Toxic exes could mean a few things: drama or danger involved tryna date that person, you gotta deal with trust issues, and/or they may have a type and the toxic ex is a reflection of them. Hard no.
Not the caller claiming she's a crazy ex and coming off like she's proud of it smh
Imagine dating a scammer tho.....
😂
It's people in their 20s. If you're 30+ going through this, you need therapy. Seriously.
the man who popped up to his ex's on thanksgiving is wild. Talkin bout "I'm family" and "I wanted my baby" WYLINNN lmao
Facts😂😂😂😂
Nah I can’t do it. I’ve seen too many episodes of First 48 to go through that. Somebody almost always dies.
The way most women work these days, it's nearly impossible to find women who hasn't dated men that are toxic
So most men are toxic i guess 🤷🏿♀️
@@janedough6410 no. I'm saying alot of women prefer toxic men
That’s because so many MEN are toxic🤷🏽♀️🤭
I just came here to see if DJ Envy was on the show… I don’t even watch TBC !!!!
IHeart evil for promoting scams.. ya going down
Wouldn't that make person mentally unhealthy for picking someone toxic 🤷🏾♂️
That's not always true. When u date somebody, they probably wasn't toxic in the beginning but as time goes on, sometimes ppl change for the worse and their true colors start to show.
@@tejaynem2292 Or the person that left wasn't the toxic one it was the crazy Ex. The crazy ex probably is still hooked to that person emotionally or sexually...Soul ties are a real thing.
No, that's how innocent people get hurt; no need for unnecessary problems on you; keep it moving and talk to someone else.
Absolutely not. Don't need the drama.
you can be a “ real man “ & still get murked … RIP Trouble her ex was mad she moved on pulled up & k*lled that man peace of mind is key ☮️
That is true that's why Charlemagne told him you need to worry about your safety. No person is worth your life.
Warning ⚠️ signs I’ve ignored in the passed. Her ex trying to open the door with a pliers. You can see the mark all over the door knob. Two times the crazy ex came by when I was there. This crazy mofo banging on the door while arguing with her. Female names Tracy-Ann & Divon.
Good morning the breakfast club 🌅🏙
I did, it could definitely ruin your life! Don't do it!
@4:30 It is a bad message to send to society to say that women who have an abusive and stalking ex-partner are not worthy of a non-abusive relationship. This puts to onus on the abused and not the abuser. Women should get a restraining order if their ex-partner is stalking them and has abused them. If they violate it, then call the police and get them locked up. Otherwise, it could lead to you, your family or your new partner being attacked and/or killed. This goes for men, as well. Although most of the time it applies to women.
They aren't blaming the non-crazy one. They are warning people that when you date someone who was in that situation, you are becoming part of it and it could cost you a lot even your life. You clearly are dealing with something if "victim blaming" was what you heard.
Would you tell your son or daughter to pursue a relationship that you truly believed would be unhealthy for them and take away more then it's going to give
It's a no for me. And I laugh because I'm a different kinda crazy. I carry. It would be end of story for someone coming at me over a man and in a manner where I would have to defend myself. That's why I couldn't. Not for him but for me. I'll pass on alll of that drama!
See, my lady asked why I didn't let her know where I lived for 6 months... This is why... People be wilding waaayyy too much
I don't date men with kids because I don't like baggage won't date someone who entertains any ex either - baggage
Everything about Dj Scam just sounds fake. Yall need a new host, the magic is gone, its been scammed too lmao
How about someone with multiple fraud charges?
It’s not worth it. You might die dealing with the BS.
I have legit “crazy” exes but they were that way during our situation so that’s why he became an ex😂😂😂but seriously tho-I prefer t make sure when something is done it’s actually DONE and as far as dealing with another person’s “crazy” ex -that’s a HARD no!! More often than not, that person is probably still dealing with said ex-whether it be from pressure, habit or whatever. They haven’t closed out that cycle.
Unfortunately I put someone through this my bm acting a fool didn't make her leave me tho
Get this man off the air!!!!
I would be very cautious. It would be a red flag and shows me the type of men she prefers. If she "gets bored" with me she's likely to go back to the "bad boy" type men. Also, he crosses the line and we end up fighting or worse, and it's not worth it.
I have and thus they became the past as well. I love my peace more than anything else... 🙏🏾
Craziest ex story I heard in college was when someone’s crazy ex came to the apartment and pooped and smeared it in the oven..allegedly she cut up all the new shorty’s wigs and wrote “I’ll be back” with the hair cuts…she defrosted took all the meat from the freezer and left it out..dude and new boo came home to the stench of hell but he refused to press charges.
It's not worth it
I was just dealing with this this weekend.. I think I've decided the drama is a lil much for me, however... damn. I wish she could just tone down the noise a bit. She's worth it personally but I have shit going on. Can't dive into it like that.
I dealt with it before
Dude chased her around the city
She lost him and pulled up at my spot
3 hours later I’m outside having a drink and a smoke
She appear in the window and I can see she on the phone- I see her like get off the phone and look at it
Called me right there like he found my car
He out there
Bra she brought it to my door step
That was on me though too.
So I ask her what kind of car he drive
And she tell me I’m like yup
He at the end of the lot
I told her lock the doors
Swung that back seat open and he back up and turned around
Never came back
I said never agin
Cause I done had to wonder if this car pulling up is door dash or cuz
But he called her when he left like “you got people tryna kill me
Ok i got something for that “
Man when me and her was done who she go to?
Smfh
@@Bravo937 bro this weekend I’m chilling with the homegrl who just left her abusive ex after a decade. She tells me his older brother, dude bout 56, stole from her apartment when she wasn’t there. I’m like lock your doors girl what are you thinking?
The dude shows up at 2AM didn’t expect to see my big black ass sitting there (he’s a small Latino dude) and he got a lil shook.
But I had to look at my homegrl like why do you allow this shit to come to your door when you have a son and you’re trying to move on? I can’t get down with randoms showing up at 2AM been there done that over that lifestyle man.
But she fine AF ahhhhhhhhh. Damn. It’s never easy.
@@JudgeDredd_ yea it’s a battle
We a protect but if you keep doing the same I guess I’m protecting in vain
I had a couple homegirls try to be good and support a former friend
Let him stay In their extra room bro - niggas came down from a different city and tried to trap it out. I stepped in cause my lil sisters ain’t have no body to turn to
But I looked at em like I told Yal.
But what’s not going happen is food getting ate and bottles getting drank ect
Funny thing is she was bad af 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I had her bro
Lol na
But they had to leave and it was understood in 3 days
I remember looking back like damn they be having us all up in some shit
Advice from envy woah 😅
No way my life is worth more than a crazy EX
“Boy I’m frm tht land till I die “ 🅿️
Tay said "this mf Envy snitched on his mans, he'll def snitch on me"
No! Don't do it.
Nope, did it once when I was 18 and I’m 37 today and the lady is still harassing me!!! Stalks my social media, used to drive by my home screaming cuss words, crazy lady 😂
The crazy Exes always be single tho for some reason, they a bit better when they have someone in their life..Totally not worth it because many men dont know how to deal with the crazy exes and it just adds to it.
I’m just watching this seeing if Envy still there 👀
Please… how do I get the positive note of the day? I can’t find the latest one today on 10-30-23! I would really appreciate if some could help 😅
10:00 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 he said “ nahh I can’t do this man. “
Exactly if that's who you want go for it. File a ppo and stick to it!!
Thin line between love & Hate
Erica Mena belongs in this category 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why is envy still not in jail?
Is my name Scott Pilgrim??... hell nH I aint stressing over no ones emotional baggage
“Morningggggggggg it’s DJ envy” 😂😂😂😂
I will not….when I find out I’m OUT 💯✌🏾
Dj Ponzi pay those people back
You can really tell when someone's dad is a cop cause they're not afraid of anything... theyll show up the next day say 'whatsup' like nothing happened
Back in the dayz the crazy ex pull out a gun and threatened to kill me
Hell no did before never again put myself in that bullshit stress
That man trying to be killed running in people’s houses. Especially, granny house.
Simple Answer is NO🙄🙄🙄
ALREADY HAVE JUST SET BOUNDARIES 🧐🤔🤨🤝🏿💯🗣🙏🏿
Would you date the toxic ex? Is the question I’m more interested in. 😂
No because its gonna lead to somebody getting hurt or put in jail lol
@@tejaynem2292and then you can write a book about it 😂
I'll have you in court f ing wit me 🤷🏿♂️ toxicity and all we can squash it over a law suit
toxic ex/bm/bd nah im good i been knowing a guy for almost 7 years and we never dated in his eyes we will date one day …..sadly he consumed by 3 bms im good
Bruh said he was scared to death over nothing lmaooo
Was debating on getting draftkings until i saw DJ Envy promoting it
maybe....
Thea Mitchem needs to make a statement in regards to Envy cause why are we acting like it’s business as us usual when you’re apart of a huge ponzi scheme. At this point CTG and iHeart is complicit
I would. I’ve been the toxic ex but I was in my 20s. I’m more calm now I think. 🤔
7:57 bruh that’s wild 💀
Attend your seminar is the craziest thing Tae did
Such a whack joke,,your likes prove it
Get Indicted Breakfast Club Hotline
Y'all can't wait to self snitch
Hell nah and the fact ppl wear like a badge of honor is even crazier
Hell naw I don’t want to see Michael blackson fight 🤦🏽♂️
When is ENVY goin to jail F everything else
Yes but I’ll need my Dr with me n my burger
Did yall change the topic from “should uzi get his chain back” to this because y’all were afraid people would call in to say envy need to give people their money back ? 👀 just a question
He made the deal and picked a 🚪 he's safe
That dude talking about “what if it’s your soulmate” is dumb. That’s not wise counsel. Charlemagne is right. It would be wise to go for something that’s easier for you. That’s the healthiest approach to finding someone.
Cleveland 216💪🏽
Nope That's Not Love At All Ain't Worth It 😎❤️🤘🏾
Hell no!
Good to see Envy in his chair doing his thang great wishes to that young man
No
Lots of men in the grave for being with a woman with a crazy ex. Let her go.
How is this scammer still on here
No but things happen
Would you do a business with a scammer?