Man Flew A Girl Out And Was Disappointed With The Outcome
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I’m 42 and my mother told me as a young girl… don’t take anything from a man. If you do they expect something from you. I think flying out with someone you don’t really know is dangerous. This is some new generation stuff.
Easy solution here...if she ain't your girlfriend, fiancé or wife she don't get flown out. Simple.
Exactly Some Guys Used there Money as leverage Some Women are Looking For Good Vibes 😎
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Unfortunately…… that’s not how must guy think lol
@@Cartersjourney15 Those guys are clowns most women rather have a good time.. Just be Yourself!!!
So simple! Not hard to comprehend here.
Bro, this is the game. You don't expect romanticism on the first date. Act accordingly. Don't spend too much money upfront and get to know her and check the vibe first. Flying women out is usually a dumb idea.
it's simpin to the max.
He might as well be paying for sum
especially after 2 weeks
Exactly the energy and vibe gotta be good
If he wanted to spend let him. He just needs to have an understanding with her before she got there.
Flying a complete stranger out will always be wild to me, let alone after just 2 weeks, bro said “she thinks I’m a trick or Some” Lmao Nigga you literally are a trick
Women, no man is going to fly you out if he doesn't want to have sex with you. If you don't want to have sex or don't want to be tried, make that known upfront or get your own place to stay during the trip. Men, fly to her first, build some type of connection where sexual intimacy is achieved or at least developed, *then* take her on a trip. Everybody be trying to go 0-100 nowadays
Wanting to have sex and expecting to have sex are 2 different things. All y'all want to have sex with Beyonce but it ain't never going to happen. Stay in your financial lane. Be a good host stay classy, a gentleman.
@flashsanders1331 If you agree to share a bed with a man, of course he'll expect to have sex at some point. That's why I'm saying communication is everything and women have to set that tone from the jump. Staying in a financial lane has nothing to do with this because we're talking about men that can afford to do this.
I'm never sleeping in the same bed with a man who flies me out. For my safety he can send me the money so I can book my own room.
smart man 🙌🏾👌🏾
@@AfuaYmanithe point is
Nobody going to say it so I will….. that man flying her out after 2 weeks is insane. He was desperate as hell and probably overzealous once he met her.
Every comment is saying that.
Yep.
The other part is she gave some kind of green light it was a hoe trip. FaceTime with lingerie, or provocative pics or lusty conversations. However, there are times when none of that is there and that freak just know he getting action. I'm sure the girls in his city know he likes to spend or his finesse could strictly be just with out of town women. Not close to home. Can't get real info.
She should not have for let that man fly her out knowing that she was not interested in him.. i don't wanna hear that crap about her mood changed because moods change all of the time even for married people, however if a man fly's you out you have to know that he is not just flying you out and spending money on you for nothing.. but keep playing dumb
@@rogerblewett5595 bro, that is extremely gross. You can't do something big for a woman, then act like a creep and expect that she had no choice but to put out because you spent coin on her. That is an extremely disgusting way of thinking, and super alarming. Do you have sisters or daughters? Can anyone treat them like that? Do you raise daughters saying "gifts are given in exchange for sex, and if you don't want to give sex, then don't accept gifts?" Gross, dude. Just extremely gross, scary and gross that you think that way. My daughters and sisters aren't being raised like that. Your daughters and sisters are free to come live with me once they escape your disgusting prison where men are entitled to take their bodies because they spent money on them.
Brothers, stop flying women out in 2023+. 🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
That part pimpin...
It was one BM. Why do you people ALWAYS exaggerate and take credit for another person's actions. BM from the USA are not flying women anywhere so STOP. You guys make a woman pay for a two for one meal and expect to use her body for one to three minutes.
@@teresamarie7460just say they’re not flying YOU out because men are they do it everyday, I’ve done a few times
@@teresamarie7460don’t blame all bm for your problems
@@teresamarie7460Black men YOU deal with. My wife would tell you different.
When I was single, I had an interaction with a woman (pictures showed she was beautiful) and she wanted me to fly her out to spend time with me. After looking at the cost of a round trip plane ticket, lodging, food, gas, etc... and the fact that I had only communicated with her for a few weeks, I decided to kick it with someone local lol.
Desperation & pressuring someone, would probably put off most women. Or *lying,* as the 1st caller discovered.
The vibe that some guys give off, like women owe them sex is a huge turn off. When a guy acts like i can't or shouldn't say no, i get the hell up out of there.
Vibes in person are different from vibes online.
Man, I wouldn't take any advice from DJ Envy. 😅
Why
This dude is tricking SMDH
Facts. He let his wife cheat. No married supposed to go on a month vacation
@@georgiapeach8930Because he couldn't make his wife come in 10 years... oh yeah, he helped scammed a bunch of people out of their life savings
He's a scamming idiot. I hope when Charmaine the Goddess returns we can get some real answers and tea about what happened last week; did the feds take any equipment? Will Envy see jailtime? What does Tyrese think of all this? Lol
Maybe I just don’t have enough money but there’s no way I’m flying women out. Why tf am I trying to talk to women in another state?
Its dudes that cant really get play in real life but got money so they resort to tricking and spending on women through social media or some other dating platform
So basically if you had money you would simp?
Why would you only want to limit yourself to women in your own state lol that’s crazy
Ask Luda. He told us why.
@@Brandon_beenflyClose proximity allows the opportunity to get to know one another better
I'm a woman, and paying airplane tickets for an adult that one has only had text and/or phone conversations (basically a stranger) reeks of stupidity and desperation to me. To each his/her own.
The person being flown in could be crazy or a criminal.
facts. as a man I ain't flying nobody nowhere unless we already fkn.
And taking it is the same because that’s setting yourself up for trouble also trusting someone that would fly you out so quickly without thinking they want something in return.
Beg to differ. As a man I spoke to this girl for weeks. We would fall asleep on the phone and all that. I flew myself out to see her first. After we started dating I started flying her to see me.
@limitlesspursuit exactly. Flying to meet another "Jeffrey Dahmer" type fr3ak.
Many people I know are now married to the person who flew them out or flee themselves out to the person they met online 🤷🏾♀️ don’t live ya life in fear if you’re smart and have discernment.. your life partner may not be in your state or country
If you’re trying to get to know someone, it doesn’t mean I’m sleeping with you. IDC if we vibe or not, why is sex always the expectation? This is why you don’t go on trips with ppl until you’re already in that space with them. Not every woman is looking for a free trip.
The only comment that makes sense 💯 all I heard is sex was the end goal lol no relationships or marriages just fronting until you get sex and figure everything else out later. #theblckcommunity 🤦🏿♀️
Exactly! 💯💯💯💯
Fellas, just be honest up front. If you’re expecting sex, just tell her you’re expecting sex. Otherwise it’s slight entrapment. ✌🏾
A man with sense:)
This
Ladies stop taking paid for trips if you ain’t rocking with dude like that! Ain’t no guy flying you out and spending his bread to hangout. We gotta stop being stupid and acting like we don’t know. Fellas stop flying these women out because it’s not worth it. Spend that bread on an escort or professional girlfriend.
Why is he expecting a stranger to be affectionate?
No one should be getting catfished nowadays. We have FaceTime and other ways to video chat.
you'd think right? But that one MTV show went on for yearsssss (fake or not) even after we had technology to prove who we are.
@@thecunninlynguist yup I always wondered about that too
@@thecunninlynguist That show definitely partly fake and the side is just desperate people that shoulda known that IG model ain’t want them 😂.
This is similar to the vacation conversation. I’m not taking a woman on vacation if we’re not already actively sleeping with each other
Church. Who raised these dudes
Facts dont be a sucker
FACTS. Most of these women just looking to finesse anyway.
And I wouldn't go unless we were having sex. What's the point? If I went through Laguardia oh we are fucking.
Had this issue last month we slept together twice. She asked ME if I wanted to go on vacation with her. I get to booking the place, she's like "only one room, this a friendly only trip" I said cool I'm good off going then. Kind of feel like a douche but spending all that money even for myself and not getting any is crazy
Men really think they don’t sound creepy saying they aren’t doing anything with sex first. Yuck
Dont Be Flyin These Heaux Out! 😅
Ain't nobody flyin' out these scallywags.
Why would you fly out someone who is basically a stranger? I can see flying out a girlfriend but you are really rolling the dice spending all that money for essentially a blind date. On the other end of the spectrum, it’s crazy for women to put their safety in the hands of a stranger just for a plane ticket, a meal, and some shopping. Make it make sense 😓
It's actually the other way around. These girls get the full file on who sending the pj to come get their musty asses. They know exactly who they are getting into and how daddy like it. They just play the damsel lady role. That's the star part.
This has become too normalized.
@@Erica-cf1xb 🤣🤣🤣🤣
at a minimum have money to fly yourself home when you break the news he's not getting anything out of it lol
That part!!
Me being a woman, If I flew out to meet someone, NEVER would I go alone, not in the world we live in NOW!!! Im definitely bringing one of my friends with me and she can do her own thing while im on my date. I'll pay for my own flight, and have my own hotel, we can hang out, have a good time, but I'm going back to my OWN hotel!!! I totally agree, If their is a next few times, we can take turns visiting each other, that would mean I'm feeling you and other shit can DEFINITELY down, but not the 1st time. Or people need to be straight up, if they want sex, just let them know, when you come out, were gonna have a nice time and were gonna end the night off with getting some ass. Thats it thats all!!!
That's not how a daddy speak to a lady. It's a pretend it's a nice gesture, gifts, and depending on how he treats lady and what din din he takes her too...then that determines if he deserves semen deposit. He gotta pay tho.
7:06 Now all of a sudden he's mister no means no?
Some of this makes sense, but why go wjth your friend if your friend isn’t going to go on the date with you? If it’s for safety, how will your friend keep you safe if she’s doing her own thing when you’re with the guy? Or is it not for safety and just to have someone to split the hotel tab with try and not be bored when you go back to your hotel? I could be way off but as of now there seems to be holes in the logic of brining your friend if the friend isn’t also with you guys. (And as a side note, for me, a lady bringing a friend on the actual date is a no-no because 99% of the time they’re expecting you to pay for the friend too. Seems like a using situation, and the my only seem to try to bring a friend to dinner dates…been there. Uh uh. I know you weren’t suggesting you do that).
@@KennyBucketz Well because it's a set up. Joke is on the man. If the friend is not getting any motion...She gonna flip and snake that friend. The real snake side comes out in environments where the attractive meter and money is very high.
@@Erica-cf1xb I was asking OP. Also, I’ve never heard of flipping and snaking before. What is that? Cockblocking?
People these days take unnecessary risks. I can’t imagine flying out to meet someone I don’t know. For what? Companionship? Sex? WTF?
That sounds so crazy to me.
I don’t understand women who fly out to spend time with someone they don’t know. My time is more valuable to me than a free plane ticket and dinner. I dated a guy long distance before and our first meeting he flew to my city and got a hotel so there was no expectation of me sleeping with him. Ladies please stop flying out until you really know them. Let them come you for a first meeting.
Egggxactly! Its really common sense but them girls just being wanting that experience until some scary shit happens.
Women need2 be careful flying out 2 meet strangers Danger😢
Expectations will have you broke or depressed. Don’t fly no one out or do things and expect something out of it. Dating for us men means we have to spend money in some kinda way.
My ex did that to me a few years back. Flew herself out like 'Oh I'm gonna be in the neighborhood' type ish' 'and I wanna see you.' She came outta the airport terminal and I knew off rip, seggs was not going to happen. She catfished me with the screenshot but I said what the hey; hadn't seen her in a while. Same thing paid for everything: the place to stay, food, amusement park, museums... spent 4X my rent in a week. But back to the trip; she's picking fights and SCREAMING at the top of her lungs at me any chance she gets (in public, in the car, any and everywhere) I had to keep my composure and walk away when she would do that. Had to block her haven't seen or heard from her since. YEA!
When simpin goes wrong. Actually it never goes right.
It’s crazy to call me thirsty for flying you out but you’re not thirsty for accepting it!?
i wouldn't say they were thirsty for accepting it. More of a finesse. If some rando dude is willing to fly me out on a perception, that's on him...it's like those dudes who take out women on expensive first sates thinking it's a way they'll be smashing by end of night, when they just were finessed out of a meal instead of smashing. Simps gon simp, and they gon be targets for predatory women
@@thecunninlynguist Exactly, just like how most women are targets for predatory men and get slapped around, pumped and dumped and cheated on. 2 wrongs don't make a right, just be a decent person in life. The energy you put out will come back on you at some point
@@thecunninlynguistno that bird shit. Look if you don’t rock with dude stop accepting money and gifts. Some dudes don’t play about the bread and it could be dangerous. I’m telling my daughter that, please dont accept lavish gifts if you don’t like the guy.
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If he was smart, he would’ve paid for one way or straight up with her. Also, use updated photos. At least three months.
Online dating is tricky, sometimes you are vibing and then you meet the person the chemistry is just not there, or maybe he said something that just turned her off. I have met men that I feel like I could do something with him and then he opens his mouth and says something dumb and spoils the whole vibe
HE PLAYED HISSELF 😂😅😂
Himself
Both of them play themselves
The fact that he’s calling in complaining and did all that for some 🐈let’s me know everything I need to know about him 😂😂 and why you can’t get 🐈 in the hometown why you gotta fly chicks out😂😂🤷🏾♀️
You fly someone out for a first date, you take that gamble. You should’ve flown to see her. When you meet ppl in person, things do change.
I Wona Fly Over & Come See You😊
@@kwekujobs4795 my man did, which is why he’s mine and I’m his.
Yup, sometimes things change. And on the other hand, sometimes people were never interested/attracted in the first place and just use you for a free flight to a city, free shopping, free meals, and free experiences all on your dime. Happens all too often.
And either way it’s a gamble. Fly her out and she either changes her mind or was using you (like I explained). You fly out to see her, and she can still change her mind, you change yours, she can be using you for free food, shopping, experiences, she could be setting you up, or she might ghost you when you land. Huge gamble either way. It’s usually a terrible idea to fly someone out or to fly to see them, especially if you haven’t met already and had chemistry.
@@KennyBucketz honestly, flying anywhere to see anyone is an investment. If you don’t KNOW if they’re worth it, I wouldn’t do it.
@@tamaracharese exactly. That’s what I’m saying. If you haven’t met and had chemistry, the risk isn’t worth it. If you’ve met and had chemistry and think she/he is worth it, then flying out to see them can be worth the risk because dating in general is already a risk. It’s now just less of a risk of blowing a big investment
When is envy gonna get donkey of the day for the ponzi scheme? Lol
Okay!!
That's his fault. Take the L and let this fly. It is what it is. Just learn from your lessons. It's not that deep
Two weeks?? Did he say they had been talking for two weeks? That's not nearly enough time to get to know someone to be flying out to meet them in person.
Buddy a whole goofy out here. I wouldn’t tell nobody I did that dumb isht.
Yall gotta stop flying these chicks out. And Envy doesn't understand stuff like this. He is speaking from a simp position
He didn’t want Romance or affection, he thought he could make this transactional. To assume a woman should sleep with you is wild. I’m sure there was no conversation about the expectations. that’s what he gets 😂😂😂
I mean her being naive is pretty wild too
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Before Charlemagne said "transactional" were you saying "transactional"? Or are we as human beings just prone to not being original?
@@deezihogan8675i thought about the word "transactional" from the jump. How are you out here trying to call out a stranger? More than one person can agree with someone and not be unoriginal. A lot of times, when people agree on something, it's because it's correct.
Boy, bye.
@@forallthestupidshit3550 hold up Sis!, I'm out here calling out Ms. Thang, Not you. If you want the smoke, I'm definitely here for it, as well. Girl, Bye!
Envy giving advice is funny asl 😂
Right!
Social media messed alot things up 💯
Envy SHOOK 😂he nervous every time the door opens
The moral of the story is...... If you're gonna expect sex from somebody, maybe you should bring the conversation up on the phone first and facetime them to see if that's your vibe and the person you want to spend your time with.... Simple... Common sense 😅
Yea this is why relationships aren’t forming properly
when simpin goes wrong. I for the life of me will never understand flying chicks out. Just seems so loserish, if you gon pay, just go get a local escort or something haha
Simpin never goes right. Women only see simps as a lick.
Stay in topic about DJ envy aka Dj Madoff
They do that too. That's why they move out of town to buy whores in peace. They think those whores don't know the other whores from where he came from. Nope. All friends. Big whore community. They love their kangs
You CAN have that conversation. You have to have that conversation. If she’s not down she needs to say that.
That's not how allegations work. There is no honesty.
Ain't No way I'm doing that. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The Broolyn caller represented right👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I like her (mothers) perspectives. 😅
You know what a man wants, if you ain't ready to give it up, then don't go.
Be an adult and be upfront. Stop playing childish games. If you wanna have sex and that’s it be upfront with them.
Whenever I flew a Chic out to Ny I always got that because I just remained myself and I just let everything flow organically. You can always tell really early what that vibe is gonna be like. If it happens it happens.
Men be expecting so much. You meet them once and they're ready to move in together and have the nerves to say you seem hesitant. Like obviously. Use common sense.
Book A One Way Trip , If She Not With The Program She Gotta Suffer The Same L and Fly Her Self Back
Damn str8
Sometimes, the vibe is off... maybe she was nervous... maybe he wasn't what she thought...
IT'S CALLED DATING!!!.
I LIKE TO GET TO KNOW SOMEONE AND THEY GET TO KNOW ME
UNLESS THERE'S A PROMISE OF EXCHANGE "SEX FOR MONEY SPENT" DON'T EXPECT SEX!!!😢
You can’t expect someone to give you what you want just because you fly them out 😂
Yes you can. Just like the person being flown is "expecting" a good time, sightseeing, and/or shopping.
@@cedriclloyd5571 no one owes you anything mr entitled 😂😂 goodbye
I’ve flown a couple of chicks out, some met off social media, some I’ve met on a holiday weekend but I’ve never not hit. And I’m very blunt you’re gonna know what time it is before you get that ticket. I’m married now and my wife was flown out lol.
I aint flying nobody out that i'm not sleeping with 🤣🤣🤣 we in a recession goddamnit
Dj envy deserves everything coming to him for doing business with a convicted scammer and thought he’s a changed person
Where did his car collection come from 😂😂😂😂 what an idiot I hope you do time bro
She ran game on him to see what she could get out of him. It worked 😅
Why fly out when you know you wont put out?? He isnt flying yoy out to have bible study. Plus you leave yourself in a situation where the worst outcome can happen. Ladies please do better
Why tf would women accept getting flown out by men qhen he can easily assault her if it doesn't work and why would men proposition women expecting something? Come tf on
Yeah I don’t get it from either side
so their first date was a all expense paid vacation for her. WTH!
Sounds like it wasn't his first rodeo. They know whores get real nasty when it's sand and exotic locations.
You all remember this is the first date. 🤷🏾♀️it’s a date no matter how fancy it may be. No force just have a great time. Get to know the person in person and find out what they are into. So you can be great at it then the next time you all will be vibing !!
Don’t entertain women that don’t find you sexually attractive. Dating a woman that has no desire to be with you sexually is boring and pointless.
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That doesn’t apply in this case. She pretended or at minimum was interested then changed her mind. I think she wanted a free trip and meal. I mean who doesn’t
@@rbush431 I’m not sure if you’re a man or a woman, but there’s nothing free in life. That’s the main problem with some women in general is the sense of entitlement. The last caller had the right response to the scenario. The bottom line is that man worked for that money that was spent on the vacation that she should’ve declined if she’s not attracted to him.
Hygiene could be another reason a woman changes her mind
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As a woman, a grown ass woman, the talk would have been had and all parties know what's up. She wanted the FLEW OUT experience and there's nothing wrong with that: HOWEVER, let him know. It's not fair to him.
Facts she knew what homie was thinking & wanting
@getmoneychill6462 exactly. It's going to cause him to be guarded next time, and I don't blame him.
I travel a lot for work and my personal time. A woman that’s well traveled doesn’t see getting “flewed” out as serious. If he expects sex HE needs to mention that before anything since HE is the one that offered. That’s just me tho
@Bigthighs134 I travel a lot for personal reasons with friends as well as solo. It may not have been a big deal for her; however, it was for him. She should have practiced her communication skills. As adults, we know that there's nothing in life FREE
Amen! Thanks for stating the truth. She knew what he was expecting.
She got a free trip 😂😂😂😂. 🗣️🗣️🗣️he turned out to be a coorrrrrnnnyyyyyy
Maybe dingo does not have a MANdingo!!!!! 😂😂😂
Wait is nobody gonna say something? Envy is still coming to work 😂
He’s expecting her to drop it only after 2 weeks of communication 🙄?? He’s wrong for that. From how he sounds. He probably don’t look good. 🤷🏾♀️
When did it take weeks when women doing it on the daily now lol.. 2 weeks is time gouging ... 🤷♂
@@already5912just because all the women you know are fast it doesn't mean all women are that way. I can't imagine being so jaded that you believe all women are the same.
@@hannahi9355 exactly! I couldn’t even find the words to respond to him so thank you. 😊
@@hannahi9355 To be honest some of these women you put on high pedestals are like that.. Stop thinking so highly of women. You say the right thing/s and the vibes are right both parties are satisfied..
I personally don't meet people online, because you don't know WHO you are dealing with. 😮
Dang.. Envy you at work??. Bruh.. that new deal must be fiya fiya
Waiting for the day Envy gets Donkey of the Day for his role in scamming people. LOCK HIM UP!
This is why we women get got nowadays. You have a complete stranger fly you out, make ALL the arrangements and pay for everything, then you stay the entire time???? Y'all ain't afraid to die???
Why would a woman even take the chance to fly out anywhere without her own dime in her pocket as a fall back plan..
Because getting the semen is the plan. They gotta put it on them with their musty lingerie and honey pack on their body to get roach baby on that Vacation. If he ask her to stay she is there for good. New life, new me.
She from Cali, she she’ll buss it down for a flight and some food quick 😂😂😂😂😂
As a man who have money I would never fly a woman out for sure !
Sounds like he had expectations but never had a conversation with her about what those expectations were. As I tell my children “use your words”. That’s always the surefire way to let it be known what you want
I agree with CTG, meet and greet first. As a single woman myself, if a man offered to fly me out, and we were meeting for the first time, I would pay for my own plane ticket. Many men will be expecting something if they wine and dine you because they dished out their dough on you. Sounds very prostitutish/pimpish to me. In this day and age, women should always have a back-up plan if you agree in having the gentleman pay for everything. Escape plan if you will. Because like a lot of callers are saying, it's one thing to talk over the phone but up in person, a whole different level.
Bobby is right, and women be knowing what’s up when they except these gifts
CTG was 1000% correct in this entire conversation.
You must be a simp 😂
Why are these woman leaving thier comfort zone "flying" to them , you crazy , have them get a room in your city .....you crazy 😂
Do men feel differently about paying for the woman to fly to their city, vs. the man just booking his own trip to fly to her?
Part of the reasons women accept being flown out is because its a flex. It lets the woman know that a man has means. If he can fly you out and shower you with gifts and dinners that's an ego boost for him.
i think the simp perceives it as a flex to the woman they're flying out....like "i have money to spare, i'm flying you out"
@@thecunninlynguist Exactly.
Bro said F that I flew you out here to hit that 😻
Y'all guest is not getting flew in nowhere, let's start there. Then she said, she is getting flew in for her conversation. Listen, simple as this, don't nobody fly or pay for flying if you're not on the same page. If a man is attracted to you, he wanna hit just off that, women need to learn men, so if he flew you out, he definitely wanted to hit, don't go if your not interested in getting smashed, I don't care how you feel about I should be able, be able to stay at home and everybody be good, and men start buying one way tickets just to be safe 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Men should learn that a woman is more valuable than money. However, if you men want to put a dollar value to it, it's definitely worth more than a couple thousand. But, y'all already know this and that's why you play with women with no self esteem and self worth.
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Yeah no, I’m never getting flown out for this reason bc it’s not for sale .. 🙅🏽♀️and it’s the entitlement for me from some men
I mean flyouts are associated with sex that's not entitlement that's the culture of flying someone out
To alleviate anyone from feeling used. The girl should fly herself out and split the food bill. That way there’s no expectations or obligations from the man or woman.
Sounds like heaven. The problem is there is no leverage.
@@Erica-cf1xbfrom neither part
Why would a woman be so desperate to meet a man...
@@teresamarie7460 the desperation would diminish very quickly if women flew themselves out. The desperation comes from a free trip and free meal and free content and pics for their IG for most women.
We can ask the question that the other way around....@@teresamarie7460
Thank you tht last girl will get everything paid for with tht energy ‼️
Charla nailed it- if he’s too thirsty and doesn’t play his cards right
Damn these pre recorded interviews is crazy DJ envy locked up 😂🕺🏿
He just wanted to smash and she just met him. He was in the wrong.
Females do it...then its ok
Why accept the trip
@@stevengrvp free trip. Just like when thy accept free meals.
@@thecunninlynguist it's messed up but they are playing a dangerous game
@@stevengrvpbecause a trip doesn't mean you're entitled to anything from me.
Lol fly you out for your conversation but doesn’t wanna converse enough to FaceTime 😅
With the amount of turmoil in the world right now, the fact that this is the topic of discussion is appalling. Black people need to get serious, seriously.
Bro if you fly a girl out you take that chance, lol learn how to accept either situation, mfs be hype
IDGAF if it's 2 weeks or 2 years. You can get the same results flying someone out you've never met.
Envy keep saying you can't have that convo, yes the hell you can.
I've definitely had that conversation beforehand so we both knew the deal and what the expectations were.
I've gotten yes. I've gotten maybe and I've gotten flat out, no. I respected all 3 because they were honest.
Moral of the story, stop flying these females out on some thirsty shit. Ladies stop lying about the shit you gon do.
A. A woman shouldn't be letting a stranger fly her out, if she is not going to smash.
B. If she change her mind after agreeing to smash she needs to give him back asap the money he spent on her.