The topic in this video is a little different than what I usually post. I have a lot of thoughts on this type of thing and wasn't 100% sure if I should post it here or if it belongs in a separate perhaps new channel. I'd love to hear from you if you think I should post more videos like this or just stick with TH-cam tips :-) I hope you're having a great day!!
@@RobtheMaritimer Just my opinion, but, yes, I'm thrilled you posted this video. Again, it was a timely video (for me)... so, it was very welcomed. It's exactly the type of content I, too, was grappling with (i.e., hoping to incorporate) into my own [new] YT channel, even though that channel, on its face, is largely about Earth Science (Geology) and environment (fyi... Ive only done two videos, one short, and posted two polls - crickets, but it's only been 10 days since I officially launched 🙃 LOL). Anyway... if you choose to embrace this more personal aspect of yourself/topics, and start doing more of these kinds of videos on your *Rob The Maritimer* channel, I'll definitely stay watching, and can learn and enjoy seeing how you incorporate it all, too. In that way, we will learn and grow together! ☺️
Yeah, this was good content. Perhaps you need to do it on another channel though. I'm 68 and just starting a YT channel. I've done several practice videos just to get use to hearing my voice and seeing my older self in video. Goodness, at first, I hated it, then the more I do it, I realized, "Well that's me, so get used to it." Thinning hair, smile lines (wrinkles), raspier voice, little slower in talking... I think GenX'ers and Boomers are coming out of the woodwork on YT. Everyone has different stories. For technology, learning all the ins and outs is a whole different way of thinking of how systems work. The younger generation grasps it immediately, but that's all they've grown up with. I grew up with dial and push button phones, record players, radio. Then caught up with computers, CD's, DVD and such. Was way behind the times when we finally got a cell phone. What a learning curve and I still don't have a grasp on all the functions. So uploading a video and pics from phone to laptop is a struggle. Like everything, it's a learning curve, but now it's a long drawn out curve. Ugh.
Rob, I think this video was spot on AND very timely. Anyone with a couple of brain cells to rub together is being contemplative at this time of the year. These frank points need to be heard. We need to be honest with ourselves, and our power is in our lived experience as well as our limitations. I could have accomplished more when I was younger if I’d had someone speak to me like you have in this video, but you’re right about not being able to turn back the clock (there’s not really a Tardis, well, as far as we know). It’s only too late if we don’t start now. We can’t change the fact we didn’t do this a year ago, 10 years ago, or longer, but now that we know, it’s our responsibility to take that knowledge and put it to work. Like Red Green always said: I’ll pulling for you; we’re all in this together.
Haha that's awesome!! I think that's my problem... so far I've been trying hard not to delete anything from my hard drive... but I think it's time I make room for some new information ;-) Thanks for watching!
@@RobtheMaritimerNot getting enough sleep can mimic early dementia. I found that out when I took Dr. Amen’s memory test on his website. Your brain needs at least 4 hours of sleep in one chunk for its lymphatic system to flush all the dead skin cells out, then you need a minimum of 3 more hours of sleep for your brain to repair and reboot. It’s like rebooting your computer to clean out all the little pieces of the cache that don’t get deleted when you run your cleaning software. . . You can also lose your train of thought from attempting to track too many different things at the same time. Simplifying personal, home, and home business systems, as well as decluttering sleep and work spaces really help boost brain function and tracking capabilities. And honestly? I probably lost my train of thought when I was in my 20s and just was too full of myself for it to impress on my consciousness. I’m so thankful I’m not in my 20s anymore!
Yes, I agreed 💯!!! Glad you decided to make a video regarding our lives! Getting old is a privilege although I do feel sad a little when I face new challenges over the things I no longer do as an older person! I missed my youth and the energy and all the silly hopes & dreams I have had! The dreams of yesteryears no longer relevant so all I can do now is to plan a new life with new dreams in my season of life with what I have. Acceptance is my greatest lesson today and learn to be at peace every moment! ❤
I feel like there's no point in being upset about our age or that we're getting older... I believe that to be wasted energy. We can't change it so why worry about it? Just my 2 cents :-) All the best to you!!
Hey Rob. Great topic for me. First comment I’ve made on your channel. I’m a few months from 70 years old, and all of your points are relevant to me. I do wish I had my hair from my 20’s when I was a Rock & Roll drummer, but that’s not realistic. The ability to do certain physical things, not so much now. My contribution would be to not think retirement is the freedom you really think it is if you don’t plan the one thing you need to keep you motivated everyday. Stopping work after 50 years of going to the job, whatever it was for me, was the goal. Well afterwards, 2-3 months into into it, realized I needed to plan better to do things that will keep me motivated because not having a job, which becomes part of your identity, then stopping suddenly, was really a shock to my lifestyle for one thing but the overall driver that kept me moving and had a purpose to it everyday. I did the best I could to save and work a pensionable job for 18 years in the end, but at 66 years old my body and mind just wanted to stop. So the income circumstances being what they were, I moved to Central America to provide a better lifestyle than I could have afforded in Canada. I’ve done well so far, good location near the beach, not so expensive rental, I like to cook so not relying on restaurants is good for the budget, and overall “I’d rather be here than there” I’m still struggling to get motivated everyday, I wanted to start a TH-cam channel to show what life is like to retire here, and what I do, but again haven’t done it quite yet. It certainly was not what I thought I’d be doing at 70. I do enjoy your channel and all the tips and tricks, great info on doing a TH-cam channel. Keep it up. 👍
Thank you for sharing your story! Moving to Central America and creating a new lifestyle is such a bold move-good on you! Starting a TH-cam channel about retirement abroad sounds like an amazing idea and could help inspire others in similar situations. Good luck with it! :-)
@ Thank you Rob. Yes moving here was not my first retirement destination, but as everything kept rising price wise in BC, I had to look elsewhere and this Country came up at work in a conversation I happened to overhear. 10 years of research, and still needed to know so much more. I’ll need all the tip & tricks I can absorb on the TH-cam plan.
Funny about the hair 😁 After 20+ years with a #2 buzz cut I started growing it again last year. It's now about as long as it was when I was 23 (back in the 70s) and everyone says that I look 10 years younger. Long hair can be a hassle but so far I think it's worth it.
@@GRAYnomad Ha! 😅 Well I’ve really got nothing on top, and when I cut the remaining bits, it’s a #2 or #1 in some areas. I practically had hair down on to my backside. I have the photos for memories, that’s all that remains now.
Can I ask where you moved to? Costa Rica? If you do start a channel please respond and let me know. Having spent a few weeks there on holiday, Central America is one place I would definitely consider retiring to.
I LOVED this video. Your thoughts and feelings are what unites us in midlife, and your positive outlook on life is beautiful. 🎉❤ Wishing you a wonderful and fulfilling year ahead. Hugs and smiles from Southern California 🫂😊🫂😊✨✨
I'm only a few minutes into the video, but wanted to comment :) Mostly on the topic of aging 1) Today is the youngest you will ever be 2) If you are wondering if you have "enough time" left - consider this: If you are 50 and are expected to live to 85 (average lifespan) then that means you will live another 35 years. 50 minus 35 is 15. This means the time ahead of you is the same as all the years you lived from 15-50. Let that sink in.
Thanks, Rob. How timely, for me, to see this. These topics you discussed are seemingly always on my mind... getting older. I admit that I "live too much in the past" (i.e., pine for) and I always have. Even as a young person, I recall a sadness with every passing birthday (why was that!?). But I've been through a lot in the past 5 years, especially; it's made me reflect on my life, and lately I've come to believe that the root of my overwhelm with nostalgia, and my melancholy with aging, has simply always been fear. I'll be 55 this next May wow!? 🙃😜 ) and I admit, I don't like that. **"How did I get here? ...Where have the years gone?... I still feel (and act) like I'm 25 or 30, and I can't believe I'm nearing twice that... I haven't yet done awesome things with my life!... I'm not ready to get old... I'm not ready to see my parents go!"** ... These are the words I find taxing my mind, especially when I put my head on the pillow each night. And I know others my age can relate. You touched on many of these feelings... and whereas I don't find it as easy to embrace the aging process, I did find a comfort, "camaraderie," and peace in what you've said/shared. Thank you. And I think therein lies the solution to much of this: having community and friends (especially if you've no siblings, like me) with whom we can relate, and with whom we can share the feelings, events, and experiences we're all having, together. Having such connections (friends, companionship, community) in our lives, at every stage, is important. It can't change or reverse the fact we're all aging, or fix our circumstances, sadness, or whatever we might experience with regard to our aging, but it can soften the journey through it all. And that is what a beautiful life is all about, I suppose. ❤ ... "88 rules!" 😜 LOL
Thank you for sharing your perspective! I completely agree that community and connection are so important as we navigate the challenges of aging. They remind us that we’re not alone in these thoughts and experiences. I’m so glad you found comfort and camaraderie in this video. You’re right... a beautiful life is about sharing the journey, and your words capture that perfectly :-) Cheers!
Great video Rob, the timing is spot on for me. Just got back in from dinner with my family, we went out for my birthday today. I have been pondering some of these same things you mentioned in your video for quite a while leading up to today. I uploaded a video a few weeks ago, I made it, because getting older has been on my mind a lot these days. I am very fortunate and grateful, to still be around, to spend time with my family. The older I get, the more precious those times are to me. I am 53 now, like you said, slowing down and changing is a natural process of getting older. Some of those changes are definitely more challenging than others, and some folks can handle those challenges better than others. But you are absolutely right, there is no sense wasting time and getting stressed out about it. Just roll with it. No one can stop it, time does what it does. Time is a thief, before we realize it, it has stolen our best years from us. We need to slow down and enjoy the ride. Thank You for this video. It really resonates with me. Happy New Year to you and your family!
I'm 60+ and would love to see more videos like this from you, even though I started following for your other content. I've decided to start showing myself a little here and there in my videos in the near future, but I've also been considering starting another channel in case it's not well received on this one. It's come to the point on this channel where I feel too confined to what people subscribe to. I want to start fresh and show people who's behind the camera and what I'm about while enjoying the whole process.
I'm 67 and I made it through the video. Thanks for sharing! Nowadays I just focus on keeping it real. No matter what obstacles or challenges I face. I'm always learning and gaining a new perspective on life. Thanks again. Keeping it real life!
Rob, good post !! I am 54 and on your exact same page... many of your thoughts are my thoughts too. Getting older and uglier makes it harder for me to get on camera ;-) !! 😚😜
When our dad used to say he was losing his hair, my older brother would say to him, "Have you tried looking behind the sofa". Now that my brother is going a bit thin on top, our dad says, "Don't worry son I'm still looking behind the sofa, and if I find any strands belonging to you I'll hand them straight over"😂. The wheel surely does turn 😁.
I’m a 57 y/o subscriber of your channel and really enjoy your content. I would like to throw in some encouragement in the form of healthier eating. The cells in our body need more calcium as we age. Calcium from foods like collard greens and Brussels sprouts are plant based. These foods help cells especially brain cells regenerate. Humans do not need to age with poor health. There are natural foods to eat that are designed to help the body heal and regenerate. Thank you for this video!
Wonderful advice! I honestly wouldn’t go back to my 20’s. I made a lot of mistakes as most do and I value my wisdom way too much now. I’m proud to be a Gen X’er 😄
You live in the most beautiful place, so majestic the snow and and countryside. Great story and so darn true. I don’t want to be 20 again, but wishing I had the physical agility I had up to my 40’s would be great. Thx Rob. Again, great job.
The lighting was fine. They call it the golden hour for a reason and your audience are here for you. They’ll give you a bit of leniency with the tech because, just as they’re not too good with it, they’re probably not very critical of it. You’re great.
Hi Rob! Great video on life and its implications. There's one thing that I don't totally agree with and it's the fact that we necessarily lose certain capacities as we age. I'm 64 and I'm usually told by people half my age that my memory and concentration are better than theirs, lol...same with our vision: I'm finally getting to the point where I might need to use reading glasses here and there but I've made it so far without them. I love to play with the thought that we can interrupt these genetic limitations with the power of our mind and the power of our choices and habits. Just my 2 cents...I'll be hitting you up one of these days for advice but already got back to recording some videos for my YT channel and dipping my toes in the water to feel the current temperature. Thanks for everything you do - and for keeping it real!
Thanks for sharing your perspective! It’s inspiring to hear how you’re challenging the usual narrative around aging and thriving in so many ways. I love your mindset about the power of choices and habits... it’s a great reminder for all of us. Glad to hear you’re back to recording for your channel; I’m here if you need advice. Keep going strong!
Thanks for sharing that. Love your honesty and natural humbleness in your videos. I also have experienced this, losing the train of thought and looking for the right words, we lose skills and we gain other ones for it, like being able to look at things in a different way, telling and listening to stories with patience is also a skill we should increase. Wishing you all the very best for 2025!
Yep, I think G.B.Shaw said “Youth is wasted on the young”. My only regret is that 20 year old me didn’t invest in index funds. I don’t really regret that he spent his money on horses, dogs and cars (which leave nothing but memories). But He bought a house and married the right girl so I cannot complain. I enjoyed your video. Made a nice change and suitable you this time of year.
You are absolutely correct about story telling. Let them tell their story. We are reliving it and hoping to pass some knowledge along. My adult kids cut me off all the time. It makes me feel like they don't need me or even want me any more. I struggle not to feel that but, at times, that feeling envelopes me.
I completely understand that. I'd like to think it's just a matter of having empathy... but it's a wisdom thing... until people are older, I feel they won't get this on their own. Thank you for sharing your perspective :-)
Great video Rob! I'm closing in quickly to 70.... Good solid advice here for your viewers to consider. The piece of advice that I thought was exceptional is how to look at people reliving the story they are telling. Let them tell their story! Perfect!
This was a great video. I hope you do more having to do with things people do or experience as we age. I love your videos on making TH-cam channels, but it’s nice to see you branching out and talking about other things. I hope you do more like this.
Thank you :-) I've got lots I'd love to share about things like this, so if that's what people would like then I'll absolutely make more videos like this :-) Thanks for watching!
I’m so glad I’ve found your channel especially for the TH-cam advice & camaraderie. I want to follow your wonderful, new way of talking off of notes, not script. Awesome to see your success with that! (Found you through Alexa’s interview) Occasionally, I experience a disconnect while listening, since being ‘over 40’ (I’m about your age) is a completely different animal than being elderly.
I'm glad you enjoy my videos :-) And yes sometimes it's hard to talk to one specific age category, but what I'm finding is that the things I talk about in my videos seem to resonate with people who are older than I am... I think the average age of my viewers is 65-ish :-)
@robthemaritimer yes, I noticed that & considered not even leaving my comment. You’re wonderfully paying attention to & in tune with your viewership. Thanks for being so encouraging & providing a model …you’re giving me courage in more ways than improving my TH-cam scripts!
Thank you so much! I wasn't sure how well this video would be received by my existing subscribers... it's a little bit different than my other videos. So thanks for watching :-)
I'm 50 and my life has changed a lot because of medical conditions, but I don't think it happened because of my age, but I'm learning how to navigate that as I get older.
I’m 44 and I’m witnessing my body not being able to do what it use to. I’m also realizing that life goes by so fast and it’s precious. I wish some people in my life who are younger could understand this. I left TH-cam months ago and have decided to get back to it (I hope.) I work in criminal justice right now and it’s stressful. I just want to go back to being an old hippie again. 😊
When our bodies don't cooperate it can be frustrating... I totally get that! Criminal justice sounds like it would be incredibly stressful... I don't think that's something I could do! Best of luck to you! Cheers :-)
Great video and it is interesting how much our mindset changes with age. You definitely nailed it when it comes to telling the same stories over and over again. luckily on TH-cam, we have the excuse that there may be new viewers who haven't heard that one before ;-)
Good topic, I got value from it, we are the same age. I’d say, it might be easier for us men to age. I’m in better shape than in my twenties, primarily because I stopped eating sugar and about 96% of the carbs I did in the past. Your words are wise & kind, keep up the great work! Happy New Year!
Hi Rob, yes more like this are good. All your videos are so very helpful. And they always boost my spirits, I'm an over 50 'still in the workforce' but looking at creating a YT channel and 'retirement' career in the not too distant future. I love your channel and so far everything you post is relevant and relatable. Thanks!
Rob, thanks for sharing your thoughts on getting older. Like you, I"'m an older creator; 58 will be 59 in August, but I lost my mom at 93, who had dementia back in January 2024. I watched how this once-vibrant lady declined, but I also noticed how she never complained and always made sure her children were doing well (5 boys & 3 girls). I'm a survivor of September 11th, and I remember she called me because she remembered that day; it was such a moving moment for me in so many ways. I think one of the reasons I do TH-cam is because it makes me think and become more engaged in learning new things (i.e., AI, video editing, etc).
Loved it Rob I am a 70-year-old From Australia, subscribed ages ago and just today published my first video on my channel, embarrassed already, but who cares, I will keep trying. Your video resonated a lot with me, I am going through all of it and more and thanks brother, I will keep watching, wish me luck
Your voice is so peaceful for me 😊 what a deep video, actually touched me and my thoughts. Sounds like you are in a happy place in your life. 36 year old here 😊
Hey Rob. I watched this the other day and since I’ve noticed some of the younger content creators I follow also go off on side tangents. For me, this is naturally the way I talk with friends so it feels way more authentic to me than those who stay on topic for the entire video. Granted short term does become a concern the more we age but this specific thing has always been the way I naturally communicate.
If it's the natural way you talk to people anyways, then just keep doing that... your authenticity will shine through and viewers will appreciate you for that :-)
Life changes for sure as we age! I am a 59 year old TH-camr with one successful channel and another one being revived after taking a 2 year break. Things are definitely more of a challenge as we age. I still have two sons at home--19 & 20 so that keeps me young but also allows me to lean on them for technology and physical things like moving furniture around...setting up the Christmas tree lol. I Wish I would have known about TH-cam younger but actually we 50+ TH-camrs have a perspective to add that can be so valuable! ~Colleena
Tugging on the ol' heart strings Rob!😢So many good truths you brought to light. For me it's physical health, mental health, & sprinkle in a little bit of that forgetfulness too.😅 I am looking forward to 2025 because, like most of us, we realize time is a precious commodity & I've not put my best foot forward in several years. Looking ahead my want is to start my YT channel in ernest & to assist my wife in her new found publishing pursuit. Best of 2025 to you, Rob ( thanks for your channel, assistance & support) & to everyone on this wild ride we call life. Cheers!🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much 💎🙏 a very impotant topic, your perspective is very inspiring... I'm in my early sixties and prepared for this particular time since twenty years, as a sociologist I have a special view on aging... maybe I'll start a YT-Channel too and share ... again, thank you for your work you are doing, probably I'll become a Client of one of your courses...🍀
Rob, as usual, your videos are spot-on and very relevant. Your mention of memory issues pertains to me at my ripe old age of seventy-eight. It's a function of age that I've grown to accept wholeheartedly. I joke about it with my quip about women dealing with "PMS" in their lifetime. However, I deal with "CRS" which I explain as, "Can't remember Sh__!" And by all means, continue to mix up your videos and post topics as you see fit. You don't need to start another channel. Best wishes for a Happy, Healthy, Safe, and Prosperous New Year to you and your family.
I'm glad you talked about exercise to help stay healthy as we age. Our lifestyle makes a big impact on how we age. That's why I started my channel. As a physical therapist, I see the results of lifestyle choices everyday in my work. I hope people listen to you about that. I love that you model good habits of going for walks. And I hope you know that exercise is great for keeping your mind sharp.💚
I may not be the fittest person in the world but I do know the value in exercising and staying active! "Use it or lose it" lol! Thanks for commenting and best of luck with your channel :-)
Just came across your channel today and subbed! I’ve been back & forth with starting a channel for the last couple of years, but as you mentioned, the tech/editing/equipment can be overwhelming and I don’t think I’ll ever get used to the sound of my recorded voice lol as far as getting older, my Gen X brain can’t grasp that I’m no longer 28 however the hips & knees know the reality 😂 52 this year 👵🏼 Thanks for putting out great content!
Haha the sound of our own voices is definitely a hurdle! Just remember... how you sound on a recorded device, is EXACTLY how you've ALWAYS sounded to everyone else! So it's no different to them. It only sounds strange to you. Maybe that will help! Best of luck to you :-)
I watched it all to the end. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. For some reason, it is always interesting to listen to you. I guess because you are always trying to be yourself and genuine
One of the reasons it may appear that we slow down cognitively as we get older, a significant reason is that we have a lot of memories that slows down the processing speed. When I was in my twenties I knew very little compared to what I know now, so back then there was eternal sunshine on a spotless mind. 😊
Loved this video. Made me laugh out loud in many parts, especially the parts where you kept checking behind you for anyone coming. I can relate when I record my "public" videos I keep doing the same thing. 🤣 It's been such a joy watching a fellow Maritimer's channel grow. Your videos have helped so much on my own journey and I LOVED this video's topic as much as I enjoy your TH-cam How To videos. Keep up the great content!
Happy New Year to you, Rob! Thanks for all your great content(even though I’ve not managed to make any vids yet). When I was young, I tended to live life organically if you know what I mean. I used to compare myself to flotsam and jetsam-going where the wind blew, as far as I could. My biggest piece of advice to younger people would be to plan, plan, plan. I know the best laid plans can go belly up but planning, esp financial planning, is worth its weight in gold. You’ll be v happy you did when you’re old. I did not. They were different times then I know but still the best advice I can think of. Sth we were and are never taught in schools yet the most valuable. Happy2025 again Rob and I look forward to more excellent content! 🙏X
Just found your channel and appreciate your videos. And your right to be able to share wisdom for years to come through videos is fantastic. I am thinking about starting up a channel but just not sure what my content would be. Still in the thinking about it process.
Welcome aboard, Patricia! If having trouble deciding on your niche, I made a video that might help with that: th-cam.com/video/mgnSF-xiiFw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=Mtttr-mp4GlpJu1F Best of luck with it!
Very interesting video. The long videos are very pleasant, we can take the time to listen to them quietly. Continue without hesitation. On the same channel in my opinion.
I covered some of the above in my Christmas Eve post last week. But your video is a lot less gloom and doom as some other videos for our ages I've seen lately!!!
Rob, enjoyed your video. I like the idea of you talking in that location. Kinda like your "Thinking Spot". Good therapy eh!. Being a boomer( young one) the memory is scary but good way to laugh when forgetting stuff. Sometimes I with I had kept my first TH-cam video I made in 2007 left on my channel. I deleted it since it over had 4000 views in 15 years. Thought it was time to try something different. Anyway look forward to another video👍
I couldn’t have started a channel before 50. There are a variety of reasons, and all compounded by becoming timid from domestic violence. Being over 50 has energized me, made me realize that I have experience that would help others, and that here-being short and a woman is not something that is a factor.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s inspiring to see how you’ve turned challenges into strength and embraced your unique voice to help others. You’re proof that it’s never too late to start something meaningful,. Keep going - you’re making an impact!
Just curious... when you uploaded this did you share it with your subscribers? Very different from the rest of the stuff on your channel and I've noticed when I post "out of my niche" content to my subs, I lose subscribers and the watch time metrics are poor. I realize subs are more of a vanity metric, but poor engagement can kill a video getting pushed out.
Yes I did. The topic is a little different than my other videos, but I feel like it's something many of my subscribers think about. Call this a "soft pivot" or a test of a topic I think a lot about. If it resonates with viewers then I'll do more like them. If not, then that's data from the experiment too :-) I guess we'll see if this is something that resonates with them :) Thanks for your comments!
Thanks Rob! I enjoy this type of video. I have read many articles on agism from a womens perspective so it's great to hear your perspective. You seemed to have more topics on your list you discuss. Maybe you can fo a followup video. I'd like to hear more on this suject matter.
Yes there were more topics but I figured the video was long enough :-) I actually have a follow up video coming out today... it expands on the "let them tell their stories" idea ;-)
I guess Im one if your older ones. Ill be 78 in March. I'm seemingly healthy, although I now have a couple issues to monitor. And mobility due to arthritis is becoming a problem. But my mind and memory is still pretty good. I think a lifetime of using my brain to figure things out has helped. Even now, Im working on the challenges of restoring a couple of old cars. But, things ARE changing. I look at outbuildings on our property, all of which I built. Although my mind says I could build them all over again, my body says "ain't happening".😊
I love this topic!! @Rob I try to leave the “age” topic out of my videos but it doesn’t feel authentic when I do 😮 any advice? I have a work life- business -focused channel 🎊
I think it's important to be as authentic as possible. If age isn't a part of what you're talking about then I wouldn't worry about including it... but if it comes up I think you should just be honest about it. At the end of the day it likely doesn't matter anyways... if there's value in the content you're providing then age shouldn't matter. That's just my take :-) Best of luck with it!!
I'm 70 and pretty much still have all my mental and physical faculties. But my neighbour (71) constantly tells the same story and will even ask the same question 3 times during a 1-hour conversation. Occasionally I mention it, but mostly I just let it slide. His Mum had serious dementia so I guess he's going the same way.
Like you! I will be creating an over 50 channel where we can do some kind of generational wisdom and get off of this talking just amongst ourselves because I think that’s not healthy either. We need to be able to reach out to younger generations just like the younger generations need to reach out to us. We offer great experience to one another. We have Life experience. They have knowledge of software and things and processes that we could even think of.
Sharing your life experiences and thoughts on life is welcomed. As an older person it’s good to hear the stories of others in this phase of life. Your how-to videos are also welcomed. Thank you.
I am not sure if losing your train of thought is typical for 50 - 60. I don't think I have a problem with that, and I am one day younger than you. Also, technology is not something I struggle with. I am typically the one that is telling the younger generation how things work. I work in the IT department so it is not uncommon that people come to me with questions about tech. I don't even have the feeling that it takes me much longer to learn something new. Learning now how to use Fusion in Davinci Resolve and that is completely new to me, and I don't have a problem with that. I am now about a year a member of a chess club and I am beating more and more people and people that are much older than me are still very strong with chess.
In response to your pinned comment Rob, IMO that's why your Channel is called Rob the Maritimer. Although your focus is getting into TH-cam for over 40s, this type of content still aligns with that. If your channel was named & niched as "Over 40 & Making Videos" then maybe this would be off topic. Maybe I align with what you're saying because I am of similar age? I don't know. Either way I loved the video and, to me it all made sense. Perhaps it's like having a delayed conversation? 🙂 BTW I did make it all the way to the end. Personally I appreciate your comments and perspective on "things".
A different video for you today, but we need to talk about our time on earth. I just heard a friend has cancer of the spine. Another has bone cancer and another friend has prostate cancer and then there are those that passed in the last few years. Get happy now and stay healthy is the goal for 2025 and beyond. As you end the video the stock market is dropping today. Add that to the joys of life lol. Also you look like you could add some more layers in that cold looking scenery? We do not want you to catch a cold. No no no.
The topic in this video is a little different than what I usually post. I have a lot of thoughts on this type of thing and wasn't 100% sure if I should post it here or if it belongs in a separate perhaps new channel. I'd love to hear from you if you think I should post more videos like this or just stick with TH-cam tips :-) I hope you're having a great day!!
@RobtheMaritimer we need variety, helps us grow.
@@RobtheMaritimer Just my opinion, but, yes, I'm thrilled you posted this video. Again, it was a timely video (for me)... so, it was very welcomed. It's exactly the type of content I, too, was grappling with (i.e., hoping to incorporate) into my own [new] YT channel, even though that channel, on its face, is largely about Earth Science (Geology) and environment (fyi... Ive only done two videos, one short, and posted two polls - crickets, but it's only been 10 days since I officially launched 🙃 LOL). Anyway... if you choose to embrace this more personal aspect of yourself/topics, and start doing more of these kinds of videos on your *Rob The Maritimer* channel, I'll definitely stay watching, and can learn and enjoy seeing how you incorporate it all, too. In that way, we will learn and grow together! ☺️
Yeah, this was good content. Perhaps you need to do it on another channel though. I'm 68 and just starting a YT channel. I've done several practice videos just to get use to hearing my voice and seeing my older self in video. Goodness, at first, I hated it, then the more I do it, I realized, "Well that's me, so get used to it." Thinning hair, smile lines (wrinkles), raspier voice, little slower in talking... I think GenX'ers and Boomers are coming out of the woodwork on YT. Everyone has different stories. For technology, learning all the ins and outs is a whole different way of thinking of how systems work. The younger generation grasps it immediately, but that's all they've grown up with. I grew up with dial and push button phones, record players, radio. Then caught up with computers, CD's, DVD and such. Was way behind the times when we finally got a cell phone. What a learning curve and I still don't have a grasp on all the functions. So uploading a video and pics from phone to laptop is a struggle. Like everything, it's a learning curve, but now it's a long drawn out curve. Ugh.
@@RobtheMaritimer I can see another channel at your own pace if you have the time. You for sure have the content to share
Rob, I think this video was spot on AND very timely. Anyone with a couple of brain cells to rub together is being contemplative at this time of the year. These frank points need to be heard. We need to be honest with ourselves, and our power is in our lived experience as well as our limitations. I could have accomplished more when I was younger if I’d had someone speak to me like you have in this video, but you’re right about not being able to turn back the clock (there’s not really a Tardis, well, as far as we know). It’s only too late if we don’t start now. We can’t change the fact we didn’t do this a year ago, 10 years ago, or longer, but now that we know, it’s our responsibility to take that knowledge and put it to work. Like Red Green always said: I’ll pulling for you; we’re all in this together.
I’m turned 90 in November 2024. I don’t lose my train of thought. I’m making room on my hard drive (brain).
Haha that's awesome!! I think that's my problem... so far I've been trying hard not to delete anything from my hard drive... but I think it's time I make room for some new information ;-) Thanks for watching!
@@RobtheMaritimerNot getting enough sleep can mimic early dementia. I found that out when I took Dr. Amen’s memory test on his website. Your brain needs at least 4 hours of sleep in one chunk for its lymphatic system to flush all the dead skin cells out, then you need a minimum of 3 more hours of sleep for your brain to repair and reboot. It’s like rebooting your computer to clean out all the little pieces of the cache that don’t get deleted when you run your cleaning software. . . You can also lose your train of thought from attempting to track too many different things at the same time. Simplifying personal, home, and home business systems, as well as decluttering sleep and work spaces really help boost brain function and tracking capabilities. And honestly? I probably lost my train of thought when I was in my 20s and just was too full of myself for it to impress on my consciousness. I’m so thankful I’m not in my 20s anymore!
Yes, I agreed 💯!!! Glad you decided to make a video regarding our lives! Getting old is a privilege although I do feel sad a little when I face new challenges over the things I no longer do as an older person! I missed my youth and the energy and all the silly hopes & dreams I have had! The dreams of yesteryears no longer relevant so all I can do now is to plan a new life with new dreams in my season of life with what I have. Acceptance is my greatest lesson today and learn to be at peace every moment! ❤
I feel like there's no point in being upset about our age or that we're getting older... I believe that to be wasted energy. We can't change it so why worry about it? Just my 2 cents :-) All the best to you!!
Hey Rob.
Great topic for me. First comment I’ve made on your channel.
I’m a few months from 70 years old, and all of your points are relevant to me.
I do wish I had my hair from my 20’s when I was a Rock & Roll drummer, but that’s not realistic. The ability to do certain physical things, not so much now. My contribution would be to not think retirement is the freedom you really think it is if you don’t plan the one thing you need to keep you motivated everyday. Stopping work after 50 years of going to the job, whatever it was for me, was the goal. Well afterwards, 2-3 months into into it, realized I needed to plan better to do things that will keep me motivated because not having a job, which becomes part of your identity, then stopping suddenly, was really a shock to my lifestyle for one thing but the overall driver that kept me moving and had a purpose to it everyday.
I did the best I could to save and work a pensionable job for 18 years in the end, but at 66 years old my body and mind just wanted to stop.
So the income circumstances being what they were, I moved to Central America to provide a better lifestyle than I could have afforded in Canada.
I’ve done well so far, good location near the beach, not so expensive rental, I like to cook so not relying on restaurants is good for the budget, and overall “I’d rather be here than there”
I’m still struggling to get motivated everyday, I wanted to start a TH-cam channel to show what life is like to retire here, and what I do, but again haven’t done it quite yet.
It certainly was not what I thought I’d be doing at 70.
I do enjoy your channel and all the tips and tricks, great info on doing a TH-cam channel. Keep it up. 👍
Thank you for sharing your story! Moving to Central America and creating a new lifestyle is such a bold move-good on you! Starting a TH-cam channel about retirement abroad sounds like an amazing idea and could help inspire others in similar situations. Good luck with it! :-)
@ Thank you Rob. Yes moving here was not my first retirement destination, but as everything kept rising price wise in BC, I had to look elsewhere and this Country came up at work in a conversation I happened to overhear. 10 years of research, and still needed to know so much more.
I’ll need all the tip & tricks I can absorb on the TH-cam plan.
Funny about the hair 😁 After 20+ years with a #2 buzz cut I started growing it again last year. It's now about as long as it was when I was 23 (back in the 70s) and everyone says that I look 10 years younger. Long hair can be a hassle but so far I think it's worth it.
@@GRAYnomad Ha! 😅
Well I’ve really got nothing on top, and when I cut the remaining bits, it’s a #2 or #1 in some areas.
I practically had hair down on to my backside.
I have the photos for memories, that’s all that remains now.
Can I ask where you moved to? Costa Rica? If you do start a channel please respond and let me know. Having spent a few weeks there on holiday, Central America is one place I would definitely consider retiring to.
We all have a story to tell. What really amazed me was realizing that the world wants to hear it. Fantastic video as always brother!
Thanks so much Chad! I'm loving your channel as well :-) Keep it up!! :-)
I LOVED this video. Your thoughts and feelings are what unites us in midlife, and your positive outlook on life is beautiful. 🎉❤ Wishing you a wonderful and fulfilling year ahead. Hugs and smiles from Southern California 🫂😊🫂😊✨✨
Thank you so much Doris... means a lot! Cheers :-)
I'm only a few minutes into the video, but wanted to comment :) Mostly on the topic of aging
1) Today is the youngest you will ever be
2) If you are wondering if you have "enough time" left - consider this: If you are 50 and are expected to live to 85 (average lifespan) then that means you will live another 35 years. 50 minus 35 is 15. This means the time ahead of you is the same as all the years you lived from 15-50. Let that sink in.
That's an awesome perspective! :-)
Thanks, Rob. How timely, for me, to see this. These topics you discussed are seemingly always on my mind... getting older. I admit that I "live too much in the past" (i.e., pine for) and I always have. Even as a young person, I recall a sadness with every passing birthday (why was that!?). But I've been through a lot in the past 5 years, especially; it's made me reflect on my life, and lately I've come to believe that the root of my overwhelm with nostalgia, and my melancholy with aging, has simply always been fear. I'll be 55 this next May wow!? 🙃😜 ) and I admit, I don't like that. **"How did I get here? ...Where have the years gone?... I still feel (and act) like I'm 25 or 30, and I can't believe I'm nearing twice that... I haven't yet done awesome things with my life!... I'm not ready to get old... I'm not ready to see my parents go!"** ... These are the words I find taxing my mind, especially when I put my head on the pillow each night. And I know others my age can relate. You touched on many of these feelings... and whereas I don't find it as easy to embrace the aging process, I did find a comfort, "camaraderie," and peace in what you've said/shared. Thank you. And I think therein lies the solution to much of this: having community and friends (especially if you've no siblings, like me) with whom we can relate, and with whom we can share the feelings, events, and experiences we're all having, together. Having such connections (friends, companionship, community) in our lives, at every stage, is important. It can't change or reverse the fact we're all aging, or fix our circumstances, sadness, or whatever we might experience with regard to our aging, but it can soften the journey through it all. And that is what a beautiful life is all about, I suppose. ❤
... "88 rules!" 😜 LOL
Thank you for sharing your perspective! I completely agree that community and connection are so important as we navigate the challenges of aging. They remind us that we’re not alone in these thoughts and experiences. I’m so glad you found comfort and camaraderie in this video. You’re right... a beautiful life is about sharing the journey, and your words capture that perfectly :-) Cheers!
Stuck around 😊 Good stuff 👍🏼
Thanks Sandra :-)
Great video Rob, the timing is spot on for me. Just got back in from dinner with my family, we went out for my birthday today. I have been pondering some of these same things you mentioned in your video for quite a while leading up to today. I uploaded a video a few weeks ago, I made it, because getting older has been on my mind a lot these days. I am very fortunate and grateful, to still be around, to spend time with my family. The older I get, the more precious those times are to me. I am 53 now, like you said, slowing down and changing is a natural process of getting older. Some of those changes are definitely more challenging than others, and some folks can handle those challenges better than others. But you are absolutely right, there is no sense wasting time and getting stressed out about it. Just roll with it.
No one can stop it, time does what it does.
Time is a thief, before we realize it, it has stolen our best years from us. We need to slow down and enjoy the ride.
Thank You for this video. It really resonates with me.
Happy New Year to you and your family!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts... I'm glad the video resonated with you! Happy New Year to you as well :-)
I'm 60+ and would love to see more videos like this from you, even though I started following for your other content.
I've decided to start showing myself a little here and there in my videos in the near future, but I've also been considering starting another channel in case it's not well received on this one. It's come to the point on this channel where I feel too confined to what people subscribe to. I want to start fresh and show people who's behind the camera and what I'm about while enjoying the whole process.
Sounds like you've got a solid plan to move ahead... best of luck with it!! :-)
I'm 67 and I made it through the video. Thanks for sharing! Nowadays I just focus on keeping it real. No matter what obstacles or challenges I face. I'm always learning and gaining a new perspective on life. Thanks again. Keeping it real life!
Keeping it real is the way to go! You've got a great outlook on life. Cheers and all the best to you!
Rob, good post !! I am 54 and on your exact same page... many of your thoughts are my thoughts too. Getting older and uglier makes it harder for me to get on camera ;-) !! 😚😜
Haha! I think we can come up with a better way to say, "older and uglier" lol!! How about "Wise and distinguished"?? ;-)
When our dad used to say he was losing his hair, my older brother would say to him, "Have you tried looking behind the sofa". Now that my brother is going a bit thin on top, our dad says, "Don't worry son I'm still looking behind the sofa, and if I find any strands belonging to you I'll hand them straight over"😂. The wheel surely does turn 😁.
Haha that's funny :-) What comes around goes around!
I’m a 57 y/o subscriber of your channel and really enjoy your content. I would like to throw in some encouragement in the form of healthier eating. The cells in our body need more calcium as we age. Calcium from foods like collard greens and Brussels sprouts are plant based. These foods help cells especially brain cells regenerate. Humans do not need to age with poor health. There are natural foods to eat that are designed to help the body heal and regenerate. Thank you for this video!
Great advice! Thanks for sharing :-)
Yes - plant based is the best way!
Thanks for being you, Rob. I enjoyed this. 49 here and I can relate for sure. ~from your neighbor in Maine
Thanks neighbor! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Maine is beautiful :-)
Cool! I live in Hallowell Me
I made it to the end and you did well, yes, do more please 😊😊
I'm posting another video today :-)
Love this content! I'm just starting my TH-cam journey! Thanks so much for sharing. I loose my train of thought all the time. I feel ya!😊
Thank you! And best of luck with your new channel! Cheers :-)
Wonderful advice! I honestly wouldn’t go back to my 20’s. I made a lot of mistakes as most do and I value my wisdom way too much now. I’m proud to be a Gen X’er 😄
I think most of us made plenty of mistakes in our 20s... myself included! Good on you for being a proud Gen X'er! :-)
You live in the most beautiful place, so majestic the snow and and countryside. Great story and so darn true. I don’t want to be 20 again, but wishing I had the physical agility I had up to my 40’s would be great. Thx Rob. Again, great job.
Thank you it does have its moments! And thanks for watching... I'm glad you enjoyed it :-)
The lighting was fine. They call it the golden hour for a reason and your audience are here for you. They’ll give you a bit of leniency with the tech because, just as they’re not too good with it, they’re probably not very critical of it. You’re great.
It looks like I recorded right through the golden hour... it wasn't so golden by the end of the video haha! Thank you :-)
Beautiful scenery. I lived in Oregon when I was growing up looked just like this there. I loved it
I've never been to Oregon although I'm sure it's beautiful! I'm in Nova Scotia, Canada :-)
Hi Rob! Great video on life and its implications. There's one thing that I don't totally agree with and it's the fact that we necessarily lose certain capacities as we age. I'm 64 and I'm usually told by people half my age that my memory and concentration are better than theirs, lol...same with our vision: I'm finally getting to the point where I might need to use reading glasses here and there but I've made it so far without them. I love to play with the thought that we can interrupt these genetic limitations with the power of our mind and the power of our choices and habits. Just my 2 cents...I'll be hitting you up one of these days for advice but already got back to recording some videos for my YT channel and dipping my toes in the water to feel the current temperature. Thanks for everything you do - and for keeping it real!
Thanks for sharing your perspective! It’s inspiring to hear how you’re challenging the usual narrative around aging and thriving in so many ways. I love your mindset about the power of choices and habits... it’s a great reminder for all of us. Glad to hear you’re back to recording for your channel; I’m here if you need advice. Keep going strong!
@@RobtheMaritimer You're very welcome my friend!Take good care and talk soon!!
Thanks for sharing that. Love your honesty and natural humbleness in your videos. I also have experienced this, losing the train of thought and looking for the right words, we lose skills and we gain other ones for it, like being able to look at things in a different way, telling and listening to stories with patience is also a skill we should increase. Wishing you all the very best for 2025!
"We lose skills but gain other skills"... I love that! Thanks for sharing and for the kind words :-) Cheers!
@@RobtheMaritimer 🌹
Great video Rob, great topic to, wish I was younger and know what I know now
There's no time like the present to know what we didn't know when we were younger. lol does that even make sense?? :-) Thanks for watching!
@ umm yeah sure it did lol I got it though
Yep, I think G.B.Shaw said “Youth is wasted on the young”. My only regret is that 20 year old me didn’t invest in index funds. I don’t really regret that he spent his money on horses, dogs and cars (which leave nothing but memories). But He bought a house and married the right girl so I cannot complain. I enjoyed your video. Made a nice change and suitable you this time of year.
Thank you for watching... and sharing with us! All the best to you :-)
You are absolutely correct about story telling. Let them tell their story. We are reliving it and hoping to pass some knowledge along. My adult kids cut me off all the time. It makes me feel like they don't need me or even want me any more. I struggle not to feel that but, at times, that feeling envelopes me.
I completely understand that. I'd like to think it's just a matter of having empathy... but it's a wisdom thing... until people are older, I feel they won't get this on their own. Thank you for sharing your perspective :-)
I just discovered you on January 1st 2025. I love and appreciate your content. Thank you so very much for everything you do Rob.
Awesome! Welcome aboard! Thank you for the kind words and best of luck to you :-)
Great video Rob! I'm closing in quickly to 70.... Good solid advice here for your viewers to consider. The piece of advice that I thought was exceptional is how to look at people reliving the story they are telling. Let them tell their story! Perfect!
I'm expanding on that idea in another video I'm posting today... "Let them tell their stories" :-)
I made it to the end. I’m 72. Your demeanor and voice makes for easy listening
I'm glad you enjoyed it :-)
This was a great video. I hope you do more having to do with things people do or experience as we age. I love your videos on making TH-cam channels, but it’s nice to see you branching out and talking about other things. I hope you do more like this.
Thank you :-) I've got lots I'd love to share about things like this, so if that's what people would like then I'll absolutely make more videos like this :-) Thanks for watching!
I’m so glad I’ve found your channel especially for the TH-cam advice & camaraderie.
I want to follow your wonderful, new way of talking off of notes, not script.
Awesome to see your success with that! (Found you through Alexa’s interview)
Occasionally, I experience a disconnect while listening, since being ‘over 40’ (I’m about your age) is a completely different animal than being elderly.
I'm glad you enjoy my videos :-) And yes sometimes it's hard to talk to one specific age category, but what I'm finding is that the things I talk about in my videos seem to resonate with people who are older than I am... I think the average age of my viewers is 65-ish :-)
@robthemaritimer yes, I noticed that & considered not even leaving my comment. You’re wonderfully paying attention to & in tune with your viewership.
Thanks for being so encouraging & providing a model …you’re giving me courage in more ways than improving my TH-cam scripts!
I’m a 46 y/o subscriber and a fan of your videos. I found this video very insightful and every bit as ‘watchable’ as the others. Keep it up! 👍🏼
Thank you so much! I wasn't sure how well this video would be received by my existing subscribers... it's a little bit different than my other videos. So thanks for watching :-)
I'm 50 and my life has changed a lot because of medical conditions, but I don't think it happened because of my age, but I'm learning how to navigate that as I get older.
Best of luck to you Tracey! :-)
I’m 44 and I’m witnessing my body not being able to do what it use to. I’m also realizing that life goes by so fast and it’s precious. I wish some people in my life who are younger could understand this. I left TH-cam months ago and have decided to get back to it (I hope.) I work in criminal justice right now and it’s stressful. I just want to go back to being an old hippie again. 😊
When our bodies don't cooperate it can be frustrating... I totally get that! Criminal justice sounds like it would be incredibly stressful... I don't think that's something I could do! Best of luck to you! Cheers :-)
Great video and it is interesting how much our mindset changes with age. You definitely nailed it when it comes to telling the same stories over and over again. luckily on TH-cam, we have the excuse that there may be new viewers who haven't heard that one before ;-)
Haha exactly! I just have to make sure not to tell the same story more than once in a video ;-)
Good topic, I got value from it, we are the same age. I’d say, it might be easier for us men to age.
I’m in better shape than in my twenties, primarily because I stopped eating sugar and about 96% of the carbs I did in the past.
Your words are wise & kind, keep up the great work!
Happy New Year!
Thank you! Happy New Year to you as well! :-)
Hi Rob, yes more like this are good. All your videos are so very helpful. And they always boost my spirits, I'm an over 50 'still in the workforce' but looking at creating a YT channel and 'retirement' career in the not too distant future. I love your channel and so far everything you post is relevant and relatable. Thanks!
Thank you! I'm glad you find the videos helpful! :-)
It’s good when we take time to listen to the stories of life and wisdom❤
Thanks for watching :-)
Rob, thanks for sharing your thoughts on getting older. Like you, I"'m an older creator; 58 will be 59 in August, but I lost my mom at 93, who had dementia back in January 2024. I watched how this once-vibrant lady declined, but I also noticed how she never complained and always made sure her children were doing well (5 boys & 3 girls). I'm a survivor of September 11th, and I remember she called me because she remembered that day; it was such a moving moment for me in so many ways. I think one of the reasons I do TH-cam is because it makes me think and become more engaged in learning new things (i.e., AI, video editing, etc).
Thanks for sharing your story - it's really inspiring!
Loved it Rob I am a 70-year-old From Australia, subscribed ages ago and just today published my first video on my channel, embarrassed already, but who cares, I will keep trying. Your video resonated a lot with me, I am going through all of it and more and thanks brother, I will keep watching, wish me luck
That's awesome! Best of luck to you!
Your voice is so peaceful for me 😊 what a deep video, actually touched me and my thoughts. Sounds like you are in a happy place in your life.
36 year old here 😊
Thank you so much!
Rob I absolutely loved this video 😊
Thank you, I'm glad you liked it :-)
Hey Rob. I watched this the other day and since I’ve noticed some of the younger content creators I follow also go off on side tangents. For me, this is naturally the way I talk with friends so it feels way more authentic to me than those who stay on topic for the entire video. Granted short term does become a concern the more we age but this specific thing has always been the way I naturally communicate.
If it's the natural way you talk to people anyways, then just keep doing that... your authenticity will shine through and viewers will appreciate you for that :-)
Hi Rob! I really appreciate your videos. This one was particularly meaningful in many ways. Thank you 🙏
Thank you, so glad it resonated with you :-)
Excellent ❤ it is emotional the whole time cycle.
Thanks for watching :-)
Life changes for sure as we age! I am a 59 year old TH-camr with one successful channel and another one being revived after taking a 2 year break. Things are definitely more of a challenge as we age. I still have two sons at home--19 & 20 so that keeps me young but also allows me to lean on them for technology and physical things like moving furniture around...setting up the Christmas tree lol. I Wish I would have known about TH-cam younger but actually we 50+ TH-camrs have a perspective to add that can be so valuable!
~Colleena
Well said! All the best to you :-)
Tugging on the ol' heart strings Rob!😢So many good truths you brought to light. For me it's physical health, mental health, & sprinkle in a little bit of that forgetfulness too.😅 I am looking forward to 2025 because, like most of us, we realize time is a precious commodity & I've not put my best foot forward in several years. Looking ahead my want is to start my YT channel in ernest & to assist my wife in her new found publishing pursuit. Best of 2025 to you, Rob ( thanks for your channel, assistance & support) & to everyone on this wild ride we call life. Cheers!🎉🎉🎉
Thanks for sharing your story, and best of luck with your wife's new pursuit! 🎉
Thank you so much 💎🙏 a very impotant topic, your perspective is very inspiring... I'm in my early sixties and prepared for this particular time since twenty years, as a sociologist I have a special view on aging... maybe I'll start a YT-Channel too and share ...
again, thank you for your work you are doing, probably I'll become a Client of one of your courses...🍀
Thank you and yes, with your knowledge you absolutely could start a channel helping others with your perspectives :-) Best of luck to you!
Rob, as usual, your videos are spot-on and very relevant. Your mention of memory issues pertains to me at my ripe old age of seventy-eight. It's a function of age that I've grown to accept wholeheartedly. I joke about it with my quip about women dealing with "PMS" in their lifetime. However, I deal with "CRS" which I explain as, "Can't remember Sh__!" And by all means, continue to mix up your videos and post topics as you see fit. You don't need to start another channel. Best wishes for a Happy, Healthy, Safe, and Prosperous New Year to you and your family.
Thank you so much for the kind words :-) I think I have a moderate case of CRS too lol!! Cheers :-)
I'm glad you talked about exercise to help stay healthy as we age. Our lifestyle makes a big impact on how we age. That's why I started my channel. As a physical therapist, I see the results of lifestyle choices everyday in my work. I hope people listen to you about that. I love that you model good habits of going for walks. And I hope you know that exercise is great for keeping your mind sharp.💚
I may not be the fittest person in the world but I do know the value in exercising and staying active! "Use it or lose it" lol! Thanks for commenting and best of luck with your channel :-)
I made it this far. I teach my children to save and they are doing great. 💕NonnaGrace 🐓
That's awesome!
Good morning . . . so nice video.
Good morning! I'm glad you enjoyed it.
Great message Rob, keep posting. !!
I'm 65 👌🏼👌🏼
Thank you! I will :-)
Just came across your channel today and subbed! I’ve been back & forth with starting a channel for the last couple of years, but as you mentioned, the tech/editing/equipment can be overwhelming and I don’t think I’ll ever get used to the sound of my recorded voice lol as far as getting older, my Gen X brain can’t grasp that I’m no longer 28 however the hips & knees know the reality 😂 52 this year 👵🏼
Thanks for putting out great content!
Haha the sound of our own voices is definitely a hurdle! Just remember... how you sound on a recorded device, is EXACTLY how you've ALWAYS sounded to everyone else! So it's no different to them. It only sounds strange to you. Maybe that will help! Best of luck to you :-)
I watched it all to the end. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. For some reason, it is always interesting to listen to you. I guess because you are always trying to be yourself and genuine
Thank you for such kind words. I try to be as real as I can.... while talking to a camera and pretending it's a friend :-)
One of the reasons it may appear that we slow down cognitively as we get older, a significant reason is that we have a lot of memories that slows down the processing speed. When I was in my twenties I knew very little compared to what I know now, so back then there was eternal sunshine on a spotless mind. 😊
That is true!
You might be on to something there! :-)
Spot on .....52 defibately feels a lit different than 42
1000%!!
Nice one🎉🎉🎉
Thank you :-)
I saw the sunset in your video
Yes the sun actually set while I was recording... the lighting changed drastically :-)
Loved this video. Made me laugh out loud in many parts, especially the parts where you kept checking behind you for anyone coming. I can relate when I record my "public" videos I keep doing the same thing. 🤣 It's been such a joy watching a fellow Maritimer's channel grow. Your videos have helped so much on my own journey and I LOVED this video's topic as much as I enjoy your TH-cam How To videos. Keep up the great content!
Thank you so much for the kind words! Take care and Happy New Year :-)
I am 70 and did not realize how scary it can be because when younger, I looked forward to my retirement 😮😮
People have a completely different outlook on retirement when they are in their 20s than in their 50s :-)
Hello Rob, I really love this talk. 💕NonnaGrace 🐓I use to not like Jim in with me but I don’t mind now. Don’t feel comfortable with strangers around.
I don't think I'll ever feel comfortable making these videos with people around :-)
Nicely said, and totally unexpected.
Thank you... I hope you didn't mind this "change in direction" video ;-)
Not the normal video but still interesting. I appreciate your perspective.
Thank you! I'll be getting back to my "How To" videos shortly ;-)
Happy New Year to you, Rob! Thanks for all your great content(even though I’ve not managed to make any vids yet). When I was young, I tended to live life organically if you know what I mean. I used to compare myself to flotsam and jetsam-going where the wind blew, as far as I could. My biggest piece of advice to younger people would be to plan, plan, plan. I know the best laid plans can go belly up but planning, esp financial planning, is worth its weight in gold. You’ll be v happy you did when you’re old. I did not. They were different times then I know but still the best advice I can think of. Sth we were and are never taught in schools yet the most valuable.
Happy2025 again Rob and I look forward to more excellent content! 🙏X
That's some great advice! thank you for sharing with us... and a very Happy New Year to you too! :-)
Just found your channel and appreciate your videos. And your right to be able to share wisdom for years to come through videos is fantastic.
I am thinking about starting up a channel but just not sure what my content would be. Still in the thinking about it process.
Welcome aboard, Patricia! If having trouble deciding on your niche, I made a video that might help with that: th-cam.com/video/mgnSF-xiiFw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=Mtttr-mp4GlpJu1F
Best of luck with it!
Very interesting video. The long videos are very pleasant, we can take the time to listen to them quietly. Continue without hesitation. On the same channel in my opinion.
Glad you like them! And thanks for watching :-)
Thank you
You're welcome :)
Thank you for sharing this.
I am thankful today that I reached 37 years.I I enjoyed hearing your thoughts. Keep aging
Happy Birthday and you're welcome! :-)
I covered some of the above in my Christmas Eve post last week. But your video is a lot less gloom and doom as some other videos for our ages I've seen lately!!!
Thank you for watching :-)
Great video.
Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed it :-)
Rob, enjoyed your video. I like the idea of you talking in that location. Kinda like your "Thinking Spot". Good therapy eh!. Being a boomer( young one) the memory is scary but good way to laugh when forgetting stuff. Sometimes I with I had kept my first TH-cam video I made in 2007 left on my channel. I deleted it since it over had 4000 views in 15 years. Thought it was time to try something different. Anyway look forward to another video👍
In the future you can always set a video to "unlisted" if you don't want it to show on your channel anymore... just an FYI :) Best of luck to you!
@RobtheMaritimer thanks for the tip. Forgot about that.
Great job I stayed to the end, I'm glad I won't deal with that. Use his reading glasses.❤
Age is good
I couldn’t have started a channel before 50. There are a variety of reasons, and all compounded by becoming timid from domestic violence. Being over 50 has energized me, made me realize that I have experience that would help others, and that here-being short and a woman is not something that is a factor.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s inspiring to see how you’ve turned challenges into strength and embraced your unique voice to help others. You’re proof that it’s never too late to start something meaningful,. Keep going - you’re making an impact!
Just curious... when you uploaded this did you share it with your subscribers? Very different from the rest of the stuff on your channel and I've noticed when I post "out of my niche" content to my subs, I lose subscribers and the watch time metrics are poor. I realize subs are more of a vanity metric, but poor engagement can kill a video getting pushed out.
Yes I did. The topic is a little different than my other videos, but I feel like it's something many of my subscribers think about. Call this a "soft pivot" or a test of a topic I think a lot about. If it resonates with viewers then I'll do more like them. If not, then that's data from the experiment too :-) I guess we'll see if this is something that resonates with them :) Thanks for your comments!
Thanks Rob! I enjoy this type of video. I have read many articles on agism from a womens perspective so it's great to hear your perspective. You seemed to have more topics on your list you discuss. Maybe you can fo a followup video. I'd like to hear more on this suject matter.
Yes there were more topics but I figured the video was long enough :-) I actually have a follow up video coming out today... it expands on the "let them tell their stories" idea ;-)
@@RobtheMaritimerGreat , I'll check it out!
I guess Im one if your older ones. Ill be 78 in March. I'm seemingly healthy, although I now have a couple issues to monitor. And mobility due to arthritis is becoming a problem. But my mind and memory is still pretty good. I think a lifetime of using my brain to figure things out has helped. Even now, Im working on the challenges of restoring a couple of old cars. But, things ARE changing. I look at outbuildings on our property, all of which I built. Although my mind says I could build them all over again, my body says "ain't happening".😊
Haha I hear you! Best of luck to you in the future :-)
I love this topic!! @Rob I try to leave the “age” topic out of my videos but it doesn’t feel authentic when I do 😮 any advice? I have a work life- business -focused channel 🎊
I think it's important to be as authentic as possible. If age isn't a part of what you're talking about then I wouldn't worry about including it... but if it comes up I think you should just be honest about it. At the end of the day it likely doesn't matter anyways... if there's value in the content you're providing then age shouldn't matter. That's just my take :-) Best of luck with it!!
@ TY 🤗
I'm 70 and pretty much still have all my mental and physical faculties. But my neighbour (71) constantly tells the same story and will even ask the same question 3 times during a 1-hour conversation. Occasionally I mention it, but mostly I just let it slide. His Mum had serious dementia so I guess he's going the same way.
Thank you for sharing :-)
Like you! I will be creating an over 50 channel where we can do some kind of generational wisdom and get off of this talking just amongst ourselves because I think that’s not healthy either. We need to be able to reach out to younger generations just like the younger generations need to reach out to us. We offer great experience to one another. We have Life experience. They have knowledge of software and things and processes that we could even think of.
That's a great way to look at it! All the best to you :-)
Sharing your life experiences and thoughts on life is welcomed. As an older person it’s good to hear the stories of others in this phase of life. Your how-to videos are also welcomed. Thank you.
Thanks for sharing!!
I am not sure if losing your train of thought is typical for 50 - 60. I don't think I have a problem with that, and I am one day younger than you. Also, technology is not something I struggle with. I am typically the one that is telling the younger generation how things work. I work in the IT department so it is not uncommon that people come to me with questions about tech. I don't even have the feeling that it takes me much longer to learn something new. Learning now how to use Fusion in Davinci Resolve and that is completely new to me, and I don't have a problem with that. I am now about a year a member of a chess club and I am beating more and more people and people that are much older than me are still very strong with chess.
People age at different rates too... it's hard to generalize like I tried to do :-)
In response to your pinned comment Rob, IMO that's why your Channel is called Rob the Maritimer. Although your focus is getting into TH-cam for over 40s, this type of content still aligns with that. If your channel was named & niched as "Over 40 & Making Videos" then maybe this would be off topic. Maybe I align with what you're saying because I am of similar age? I don't know. Either way I loved the video and, to me it all made sense. Perhaps it's like having a delayed conversation? 🙂
BTW I did make it all the way to the end. Personally I appreciate your comments and perspective on "things".
Thank you for the kind words :-) All the best!
I am 72 and my husband is 80. He loves those young women on TikTok 😂😂😂😂
Hahaha!!
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Now I think about it I have one complain about this video: no peanut😂😊
Haha! I don't think I can take her for a walk with me on the trail... she's an indoor cat lol! I'll be making more indoor videos soon :-)
@ OK, that's fine. I'm sure peanut got some time to relax all this recording and editing can get stressful.🐈⬛
What is that noise in the background? Sound like someone typing on a laptop keyboard.
That was the snow melting and dripping down from the roof of the gazebo I was sitting at :-)
A different video for you today, but we need to talk about our time on earth. I just heard a friend has cancer of the spine. Another has bone cancer and another friend has prostate cancer and then there are those that passed in the last few years. Get happy now and stay healthy is the goal for 2025 and beyond. As you end the video the stock market is dropping today. Add that to the joys of life lol. Also you look like you could add some more layers in that cold looking scenery? We do not want you to catch a cold. No no no.
I'm sorry to hear about your friends... that's hard. Being as happy and healthy as we can I think is super important. Thanks for sharing :-)