THANKYOU SOOOOOO MUCH DIDI!! I HAD BEEN FEELING THIS WAY FROM MORE THAN A YEAR AND THIS VERY DAY AS I WAS COMING BACK FROM MY SCHOOL AFTER PREBOARDS (yes I'm a class 12 student...that too from pcm side xD) I FINALLY DECIDED TO FACE IT ALL AND GET TO THE ROOTS AND THEN I FOUND THAT ALL MY EXCUSES AND FEARS AND PROBLEMS WERE SUPERFICIAL AND I KEPT ASKING MYSELF "KYO NAHI KIYA YE SAB"...AND RECIEVED NO GENUINE ANSWER...AND THEN I WENT TO JOURNALING AND FOR SEEKING HELP IN MY ROUTINE I CAME TO YT AND AFTER WATCHING IT I SAW THIS VERY VIDEO, IT TRULY RESONATED SOOOOOO WELL AS IF U ARE TELLING THE ANSWER OF THE SO VERY PROBLEM I WAS FACING AND IT CLICKED IN MY MIND THAT FROM ALL THAT I WAS FEELING THIS VOID WAS THE VERY CORE OF ALL THE PROBLEMS...I WAS LITERALLY DOING ALL 'SECRET NRG SHIFTERS' UNKNOWINGLY...TRYING TO FIND MYSELF... I DID MEDITATION TOOK WALKS TALKED TO MUM GRANDMOTHER DID WORKOUTS JOURNALING AND ALSO THE PEPTALK EVERYDAY IN THE MORNING AFTER I WAKEUP AND IT WAS THIS VERY VIDEO THAT NOT ONLY GAVE ME THE ANSWER BUT TOLD ME THE REAL PROBLEM I WAS FACING IN THE CORE WHICH WAS ACTUALLY KEEPING ME STUCK IN MY OLD LIFE!!! REALLY THANKYOU SOO MUCH ...I SAW YOUR INITIAL VIDEOS LAST YEAR WHEN YOUR WERE 1 MONTH BEFORE YOUR EXAM AND THAT TOO HELPED ME!! BTW, I DO NOT COMMENT ON ANYONES ANY VIDEO BUT AFTER THIS ONE I AM REALLY FEELING ENLIGHTENED SO I HAVE A INFORMATION THAT MIGHT ERADICATE YOUR PROBLEM OF FEELING BAD FROM HATE COMMENTS PERMANENTLY: (only if uh deeply meditate upon it and take time to reflect upon it) PEOPLE ONLY SEE WHAT THEY ARE BE IT ANY PLACE i.e. THEY SEE THEIR FLAWS IN YOUR GOODNESS WHICH THEY THEMSELVES ARE LACKING ...hope it helps!! Ty once again didi 😃😇
What really hurt is when you can't share your tough or depressed time with your best friend. When you scroll your contact list and don't find anybody to talk. It really hurts aa lot.
I am lone wolf. I did it by myself. I went against the grain, I NEVER HAD NO HELP. I never gave up. I made it through the pain. On top of the hill is where I remain.
My energy shifters :- ✓ Journalling( sometimes I just read which I wrote earlier, I am doing it from last 15 years!) ✓ Self talk ( one of the best thing. Tell yourself your story and be proud about it) ✓ Listening to TED TALKS ✓ self help books ✓ Music (light instrumental or old meaningful bollywood songs about life) ✓ Reading/listening to some Bhagwat Geeta or other great scriptures or stories from them(many good available on TH-cam too) ✓ Cooking for your close ones ✓ Play with kids(one of the best thereby) ✓ Earthing therapy 🌍 One of my fav quote of all time which actually narrates my learning of life till today is :- "The now is all there is" We are all just memories at the end....make sure to make the best one for you. Thankyou Ma'am. I can say you are a very learned person.
whenever I feel low, I write down my feelings on a piece of paper as if you're sharing your emotions with someone trust me it really helps you to feel better
Thanks a lot, I watch all your vid since u were 4.2k this is the first comment I am writing on your channel I am 23 and went a lot through my life specially in last 3 years because of financial conditions of family, managing my articleship , family and studies and specially after the demise of my father last year which gave me huge responsibilities on my shoulders while watching this video I realised that I waw never allowed to feel low or weak or never allowed to cry every one around me just said me be positive be strong etc. etc. after watching this I cried my heart out and now I am feeling light thanks to you for making me aware of this ❤️.
1. Mummy 2. In a dark room (introspection) 3. Meditation 4. Self talk on terrace 5. Punjabi music. Your energy shifters are same as mine..but priorities are different...i prefer 1. Music 2. Talk with mom 3. Walk on terrace or self talk. 4. Alone in room (introspection) 5. Meditate
More than just studies and subjects CA Course needs mentors like you Ma'am to guide the students for dealing with pressure, depression and mental stress & the issues they face during this phase and also helping us in taking right decisions. Thanks a lot, Neha Ma'am ❤️🙂 I am able to feel the change.
I am CA because of her....her affirmation videos I used to listen & When my FR paper wasn't good in Dec 21 cycle. I downloaded her videos in audio format and listen everyday. It helps me to manage my further papers. Further She also help me to keep my channel growing #ToBeConsistent
Bahut acha samjhaya ek ek word 👍👍 mai last month tak bht depression se gujri hu but now i feel so good, calm and relaxed. Ab mujhe meri zindagi bahut achi lag rahi jabki mai akeli hu na koi dost jyada na bf no relationship and no insta and no fb... I feel so good now a days kyuki ab mai sirf apne sath samay beeta rahi hu last month tk isly depression me thi ki mai to akeli hu koi hai hi ni mere sath but aaj akeli hu to bhi bahut acha lagta khud k saath khud ko samay de rahi hu and specially career wise chize change huyi isly mainly itna sab ho paya but acha lag raha aaj kal bahut ❤️
this was needed due to online lec ,we all are losing the synergy between friends and most of us will lose friends in this age thank you for talking on this topic as ca student most of them can relate
When in doubt, speak out, seems like this is your true motto! I love talking to myself hence and always confront all emotions, apologize whenever I feel, or do something wrong!! Thanks for showing the path of acceptance, you're right we all are humans!!!
Going to the terrace and giving pep talk to yourself.. Is the best thing❤❤Even I practice this and this helps! ✌🏻✌🏻 I want to add one more thing.. Sometimes it do happen, that we have friends or we were okay but as soon as we open Instagram or any social media.. We start to feel void and we think yaaar hamare to aise dost hi nhy hai nahi koi aisa group jiske sath itni masti karu and we end up feeling bad about our own self.. I feel, that's okay to be lonely sometimes.. Yaaar, atleast khud ko samjhne ka time milta hai.. And God is always there... And the most important thing is-*If you overcome that feeling, just go little further, you can connect the dots and finally you wil feel.. Wo situation kuch lesson dekar gya hai..
Whatever you just mentioned, I can completely relate to every bit of it. At times looking at people having all the fun while you’re either studying or working. It feels even more worst but we chose a career like CA which has it’s own struggle but also a different kind of success. It’s like the calm before the storm. Best wishes
I will say it again CA degree has a great power. It can make everything possible. Being a finalist just a one big hit away from winning this long match of CA, looking at you I do feel ki yaar cheeje badlegi aur APNA TIME AAYEGA 😂😂 Thanks alot mam
Kabhi teres pe aapke aate hi hawai chalne lagti hai... Kabhi video banate banate andhera ho jata hai... Kabhi neighbour ke ghar kaam chal raha hota hai to uska disturbance hota hai... Kabhi video banane ke liye lunch skip karna padta ha... Upar se itna saara Workload to hai hi.... In sab ke bawjood aap har 2/3 day mai ek video to upload karte hi ho,Sach mai Didi aap kitne dedicated ho and kitne efforts lagate ho hamre liye i have no words to express my gratitude... Hum to dhany ho gaye ki hume aap jaisa mentor mila. Thank you so much❤️ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Ps: Hawa be like: Aaiye aapka intezar tha isliye aapke teres pe aate hi wo chalne lagti hai 😂😂😂😂😂
This is what I really want to listen...each word really hits me...I know its going to be difficult to accept the reality ...but u helped me a lot .Thank u for being there to inspire us😊
1. Do not force positivity allow yourself to vent out. 2.Accept 'it is what it is' and see what next step can be taken. 4.Find your energy shifters. 3. Meditate. 4. Give yourself a pep talk. 5. Listen to music / dance it out. 6. Avoid scrolling social media its just escapism. 8. Alone time is a blessing in disguise and do not see it as a curse and make the best out of it. 9. Remember that Tigers hunt alone unlike sheep that follow the crowd!
Pep talk to self and going to terrace everyday and plugging in earphones to listen my favourite songs has helped me a lot didi. Also, thinking and planning with pen paper works for me the best (didi has also told regarding this in some videos). I would suggest everyone to try that as well😇😇.
I can relate my life with those people, I am first bencher and I want to flash a good impression on my teachers but the fact is I don't have so many frnds. Actually frnds he nhi hai .koi jesee bat karo . When I see there wtsap statusI fell like I have no social life at all. I fell very depressed ... And these video literally lit my confidence . I am ok...
Sab ke sath aisa hi hota hai. Jaise jaise Insan ki age badhegi waise waise log apni life se dur hote jayenge. Mera ek bachpan ka dost jiske sath 12tak sath rahe. IIT se pass out hai. Usne muje shadi mai tak nahi bulaya aur na phone karke bataya ki maine love marriage ki. Sirf parents bro sis hi Permenant rehte hai. 😊😊🙂
Social media ki life real life se alag hai. Do din pahele maine Instagram mai ek photo dali jab mai restaurant mai gaya tha 😂, logo ko lagega ki akhil mauj kar raha hai. But uss samay mai akela hi gaya tha. Jo dikhta hai aisa hota nahi. Why are u so depressed. Mere to kahi Sare dost the. Almost sabhi Canada chale gaye aaj muje call tak nahi karte.
Mai kabhi Garden jata hun to bujurg logo se hours tak baat karta hu, nayi chize janta hu. Aise hi social relation banata hu. Aap try kijiye... Acha lagega. Bye.
My energy shifters: ♥️🤍💚 1) Talking to myself... 2) Singing song golden era songs or ever green songs of bollywood which makes me jump/dance... 3) Watching some short transition video of a girl from worse background to achieving something big, with her hardwork... This gives me extra energy... Itna motivation/energy aa jata hai... 2 dinn takk sooti nhi hu... So, jo depressed/lonely feel krrne wala time hota hai... Vo worth it feel hota hai... Such situation is like a decision making moment for me... Aur usske baad wala situation jo hota hai ussme zada efficiently padai hoti hai... 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 ♥️🤍💚
Di , I m Neet Aspirant , I m 3rd dropper now 🥺 I feeling so much Exhaust, depressed ...but you know your vdo help me a lot ❤ I can relate you most of the things that you felt that time 😢
Hey.. Its also my 3rd drop for neet... Previous scores 302,532 ..now targeting 670+❤ Online study is very heavy 😢no friends at surroundings .. Tell me your story and scores.. If u are interested..
I am evolving with your thoughts. 😊😊😊😊 Commenting for the first time... My biggest problem got solved 🎈🎈... Thank you neha didu... I am watching your videos since long time.. But never commented..I comment under videos very rarely...🌟🌟 Thank you very much neha didi... You don't know how much you have helped me...I can't thank enough... 😊😊 I wish you tons of success in your life 😍
Trueeeee, I had always considered myself as an extro, i hated going back to room, when I decided to go in hostel for 3-5 months I cried every single day but now, i think if I get out of that Mangla Gauri I can do anything, being alone was my biggest fear and during this I genuinely found that there lays an invincible summer in me! We all are just the same! I yet am very happy when my friends are around, I yet talk to my parents so much, i yet cry, i yet ask out my personal mentors(mainly teachers and chachu) for help but i feel that now i m not hollow without them, and i m really thankful that at 17 I have really gone through and discovered so much within:)
Seriously....... I cant believe ki abhi mai yahi feel kar rai thi nd randomly phone mai yutube on kia nd aapka vedio a gaya, u r a motivaton for me, ki life mai faliure aapka future or aapko define nai karte, aap aik example ho ki galtiya kar ke bhi bht kuchh seekha ja sakta hai, so love urself❤ thankew so muchh.hume ye feel karane ke liye😊
There are numerous channels but your channel is amazing. Some points I know internally but you put all the things in perspective. Thank-you for putting whole platter out there. As you description says aptly dilsetalk. No marketing, no false self motivation only true talk. ❤
Bonus point -- start writing things/ PPL whom u r grateful for and thank them( gratitude journal) Trust me u will feel super happy after writing gratitude journal Thanku for every breath that I take Thnku for proper functioning of my every body part Thanku for my eyes that makes me to see everything
I'm feeling the same.. I have no clue what to do with the situation but I'm trying my best. Just hope, I will definitely overcome from all this things strongly. Thank you so much di.. you are a blessing for many. Here are some energy shifters that I use.. 1) Meditation 2) Write a letter to god & tell him all my thoughts & emotions. 3) Go to terrace 4) Listen to bk shivani di & you 5) Listen bhajan.
So insightful i am fed up of listening to English people telling about this GLAD YOU ARE INDIAN AND SPEAKING IN HINDI . This is penetrating in my brain 🧠
Ma'am we as society tell boys that you can't vent out or cry you must remain hard and never tell your weaknesses or you are not allowed to be weaken as you has lots of burden to take care off
My energy shifter .. . Food . Family . Watch something new or motivated . Talking to god . Walking . And thinking something new . Cooking . Traveling . Having Tea
Why why are u crying any problem if you have any problem then you can share with me i have no frnds iam only busying in my study leave this you say why are u crying 🙂🙂
I literally feel the tear of joy. your each line is worth listening di. i have been feeling so messed up. but, after watching your talks i felt good and you gave me a hope light. lots of love di. I am grateful that I came across to your channel. :)
Feeling void or alone inside....it's because of lack of love or care for us....this can be family, friends, pet or anything which makes us feel loved and cared many times helps a lot
M'aam.. these days CA final student face such problem like loneliness, the way you elaborated in this video about this topic is remarkable.. "You are worth Spending time with your ownself" touched my heart..!!💝
Me Pichle two years se akele feel kar rahi hu after a loss of my mother. No understanding friends or relatives who really deeply understand my inner trauma. I how tried all the things like cooking, consuming positive content or self pep talk, and many more but find one thing that those activities which really make me alive is no longer seems interesting and do not comforting me. Now I feel so lonely that someone try to come close to me I just get angry on them even now on my relatives, father, and anyone. I feel so depressed that thinking to need any kind of medical help but more stressed out to share my feelings as I have reserved my feeling to myself and there is no one who has the capability to understand anyone. Your video didn't help me. May be helpful for others.
Hi, Kartik from Pinkcity Jaipur, Rajasthan 1. Thanks for your videos 2. They are purely genuine and straight from the heart 3. After watching this, it feels like it's with everybody out there and you are not alone 4. Congratulations to me as well, because you and me both are at Par.. In terms for finding the solutions of different problems 5. From day 1 you posted about vipasana, I everday meditate. Please tell about advance phases someday 6. For introverts, you are a super hero. You are reminding them their superpowers, they forgot. Thank you so much!!
My energy shifters:- 1. Meditation - always helps me calm down and think positively. 2. Good self-talk - this helps me understand my achievements better and feel proud of myself. 3. Good TED talks and Josh Talks - Listening to inspirational talks and the lives of other people is very motivating. 4. Talking to my mom - she is my biggest supporter and motivator. 5. Journaling my thoughts - this helps me understand myself better.
The roof top discussion is absolutely relatable to me sister. Your words hits directly in the heart. 🙃 Thank you so much for your valuable lessons . ☺ Loads of love and good wishes from your lil sister.❤
Every girl gets thousands of proposals from boys still girl feels alone Meanwhile boy barely get compliment for appearance in his life still boys are happy 🤣
Before:- Bheed hai quayamat ki fir bhi hum akele h After watching this video: Zindagi na milegi dobara... Life is very short for crying waste time... Thanks a lot...😊🎉❤❤
What a great motivation, I do the same as she said I is the ultimate truth that when u are distant and alone at any point of your life it is a one time thing that makes you or breaks you if u choose to stay positive and hold ur self up alone you can survive rest of your whole life even if any bad situation arises
I really appreciate the way to explained! As an international student I had been experiencing lack of belongingness and always been expecting an emotional support! Its been hard lately.. but your energy and understanding allows positivity! Thanks Neha!
Thank you I personally feel this because sometime I feel lonely and no one support me even my family member not support me thank You for give solution......
I learnt to stand alone than in crowd during my college days..Present is pressured but looking at the past makes me feel ..yeah I stood alone for myself..thanks to me
Don’t know how bt TH-cam recommended me this video on right time… what i used to do always was suppressing my emotions, bcoz I always feel afraid to seat alone & let that emotion come out. Someone’s memories kills me inside & had made me void..
I can totally relate... Currently going through this but.... I came to know that.... Khud se baat karke khud ko describe karke jo satisfaction aur jo positivity milti hai wo kisi se share karne se nhi milta... Aur akele hone me hi hm grow kar paate hai....! When you feels that no one is understanding you..... To khud se acha dost koi nhi hai... Apni khushi aur gam ke jimmedar hm hi hai hm chahe to hm khud ko khush rakh sakte hai.... Currently breakup hone ke baad cheat hone ke baad dost n hona family na samjh rhi to bahot bura lagta hai.... But realise kiya ki rona aa rha hai roo.... But remember one thing ki.... Khud se baat karke khud ki condition sahi karna aur khush rakhna apne goal pe focus kar rhi hu..... Feeling very positive😊😊❤❤
Acha ye point to mere dimag me chal raha tha ..ki koi nai baat karne ko..hum kya kar rahe kya karenge aage etc etc..mere jaise bahut log hai iska matlab n m not all alone.. anyway good that u brought these common point to us..and one more things ur words are awesome and so do ur voice..
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THANKYOU SOOOOOO MUCH DIDI!!
I HAD BEEN FEELING THIS WAY FROM MORE THAN A YEAR AND THIS VERY DAY AS I WAS COMING BACK FROM MY SCHOOL AFTER PREBOARDS (yes I'm a class 12 student...that too from pcm side xD)
I FINALLY DECIDED TO FACE IT ALL AND GET TO THE ROOTS AND THEN I FOUND THAT ALL MY EXCUSES AND FEARS AND PROBLEMS WERE SUPERFICIAL AND I KEPT ASKING MYSELF "KYO NAHI KIYA YE SAB"...AND RECIEVED NO GENUINE ANSWER...AND THEN I WENT TO JOURNALING AND FOR SEEKING HELP IN MY ROUTINE I CAME TO YT AND AFTER WATCHING IT I SAW THIS VERY VIDEO, IT TRULY RESONATED SOOOOOO WELL AS IF U ARE TELLING THE ANSWER OF THE SO VERY PROBLEM I WAS FACING AND IT CLICKED IN MY MIND THAT FROM ALL THAT I WAS FEELING THIS VOID WAS THE VERY CORE OF ALL THE PROBLEMS...I WAS LITERALLY DOING ALL 'SECRET NRG SHIFTERS' UNKNOWINGLY...TRYING TO FIND MYSELF... I DID MEDITATION TOOK WALKS TALKED TO MUM GRANDMOTHER DID WORKOUTS JOURNALING AND ALSO THE PEPTALK EVERYDAY IN THE MORNING AFTER I WAKEUP AND IT WAS THIS VERY VIDEO THAT NOT ONLY GAVE ME THE ANSWER BUT TOLD ME THE REAL PROBLEM I WAS FACING IN THE CORE WHICH WAS ACTUALLY KEEPING ME STUCK IN MY OLD LIFE!!!
REALLY THANKYOU SOO MUCH
...I SAW YOUR INITIAL VIDEOS LAST YEAR WHEN YOUR WERE 1 MONTH BEFORE YOUR EXAM AND THAT TOO HELPED ME!!
BTW, I DO NOT COMMENT ON ANYONES ANY VIDEO BUT AFTER THIS ONE I AM REALLY FEELING ENLIGHTENED SO I HAVE A INFORMATION THAT MIGHT ERADICATE YOUR PROBLEM OF FEELING BAD FROM HATE COMMENTS PERMANENTLY:
(only if uh deeply meditate upon it and take time to reflect upon it)
PEOPLE ONLY SEE WHAT THEY ARE
BE IT ANY PLACE
i.e. THEY SEE THEIR FLAWS IN YOUR GOODNESS WHICH THEY THEMSELVES ARE LACKING
...hope it helps!!
Ty once again didi 😃😇
In one word ladki ko ladka chahiye...aur ladke ko ladki chahiye...
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Thank u so much❤
You don't wake up at 2am ... Sleepless nights triggers tinnitus. Sleep is the most important.
Right
What really hurt is when you can't share your tough or depressed time with your best friend. When you scroll your contact list and don't find anybody to talk. It really hurts aa lot.
Yaa , I always feel this moment . but dont worry always live happily with yourself 😊
mere se bt krlo chaho to
Ryt.. Otherwise I stand strong but IDK why I m feeling this highly today 🥺
U don’t need to share anything keep it to ur self
So true
My energy shifters:-
1) Gym
2) Mummy Papa ka happy face
3) Talking to myself
4) Visualing the day I achieve my goals
Very true💯💯
. 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
I'm lonely depresssd from my childhood😢💔. But now I'm mentally stronger
@@tanu9545 hi can we be frnds
❤️❤️
"काफी अकेला हू.. पर
अकेला ही काफी हू"! 🖖
This one line is enough for loneliness!
Sahi baat h bhai 👌
When we are DEPRESSED we feel everything on planet are happier except us 😂
Correct
Yea I feel that too like freaking every walking man is happy accept me
So true nd relateable
I am lone wolf. I did it by myself. I went against the grain, I NEVER HAD NO HELP. I never gave up. I made it through the pain. On top of the hill is where I remain.
someone with the same energy as mine.. 🥂
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@@gooat1729same heree😊🎉
❤️🤝🏻🙌🏻
I can feel you 😢😊 With the same motivation 😉💪 and intention to succeed in life
My energy shifters :-
✓ Journalling( sometimes I just read which I wrote earlier, I am doing it from last 15 years!)
✓ Self talk ( one of the best thing. Tell yourself your story and be proud about it)
✓ Listening to TED TALKS
✓ self help books
✓ Music (light instrumental or old meaningful bollywood songs about life)
✓ Reading/listening to some Bhagwat Geeta or other great scriptures or stories from them(many good available on TH-cam too)
✓ Cooking for your close ones
✓ Play with kids(one of the best thereby)
✓ Earthing therapy 🌍
One of my fav quote of all time which actually narrates my learning of life till today is :-
"The now is all there is"
We are all just memories at the end....make sure to make the best one for you.
Thankyou Ma'am. I can say you are a very learned person.
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❤❤
Journaling is magic! I just completed a decade of it, and everytime I read my notes, I connect the dots...
@@SumitGupta-ys7lb Can relate, it's such a wonderful feeling everytime!
What's earthing therapy?
"Standing with crowd is easy. It takes courage to stand alone."
Yeah u r right ❤️
I live my life alone all the time ,its not courage which makes solitude joyful ..it's clarity in mind which makes solitude blissful
Right 💯💯
True👍
Good
I used to call my friend to vent out my sadness.... Then he used to tell his problems which are more depressing than mine 🤣
No one can understand the other person… don’t waste your energy telling others
Lol 😂
Hehehehe
Right, jab hum khud ko behtar insaan banane pe focus karne lagte hai to life apne aap behtar hone lagti hai. 🙂
whenever I feel low, I write down my feelings on a piece of paper as if you're sharing your emotions with someone trust me it really helps you to feel better
Thanks a lot, I watch all your vid since u were 4.2k this is the first comment I am writing on your channel I am 23 and went a lot through my life specially in last 3 years because of financial conditions of family, managing my articleship , family and studies and specially after the demise of my father last year which gave me huge responsibilities on my shoulders while watching this video I realised that I waw never allowed to feel low or weak or never allowed to cry every one around me just said me be positive be strong etc. etc. after watching this I cried my heart out and now I am feeling light thanks to you for making me aware of this ❤️.
Sending all the blessings your way ❤️
You are strong!
God bless u 🫂♥️
Trust me, if you can cry & vent you, you are emotionally strong. And this is a scientific fact! Well done! First step taken!
More power to u
1. Mummy
2. In a dark room (introspection)
3. Meditation
4. Self talk on terrace
5. Punjabi music.
Your energy shifters are same as mine..but priorities are different...i prefer
1. Music
2. Talk with mom
3. Walk on terrace or self talk.
4. Alone in room (introspection)
5. Meditate
Last line " You are worth..."
: Really very touchy. Thank you very much for this one.💙
More than just studies and subjects
CA Course needs mentors like you Ma'am
to guide the students for dealing with pressure, depression and mental stress & the issues they face during this phase
and also helping us in taking right decisions.
Thanks a lot, Neha Ma'am ❤️🙂
I am able to feel the change.
I am CA because of her....her affirmation videos I used to listen & When my FR paper wasn't good in Dec 21 cycle. I downloaded her videos in audio format and listen everyday. It helps me to manage my further papers.
Further She also help me to keep my channel growing #ToBeConsistent
Just needed this right now.You are a blessing 😭
Bahut acha samjhaya ek ek word 👍👍 mai last month tak bht depression se gujri hu but now i feel so good, calm and relaxed. Ab mujhe meri zindagi bahut achi lag rahi jabki mai akeli hu na koi dost jyada na bf no relationship and no insta and no fb... I feel so good now a days kyuki ab mai sirf apne sath samay beeta rahi hu last month tk isly depression me thi ki mai to akeli hu koi hai hi ni mere sath but aaj akeli hu to bhi bahut acha lagta khud k saath khud ko samay de rahi hu and specially career wise chize change huyi isly mainly itna sab ho paya but acha lag raha aaj kal bahut ❤️
this was needed due to online lec ,we all are losing the synergy between friends and most of us will lose friends in this age thank you for talking on this topic as ca student most of them can relate
Same bro Yaar
I have been In online classes from last 2 years.. On frnds no.. Enjoyments..
@@princepandey2697 same here
Same happening to me rn! Glad to see I'm not alone in this journey.
You are my energy shifter
Your videos did change my mood🥺🥺🥺❤️
When in doubt, speak out, seems like this is your true motto! I love talking to myself hence and always confront all emotions, apologize whenever I feel, or do something wrong!! Thanks for showing the path of acceptance, you're right we all are humans!!!
th-cam.com/video/ssh17gNnE1U/w-d-xo.html
Thanku neha ❤❤ waheguru g bless u dear, just hi apka ye video dekha, mujhe solution mil gya, i am very grateful for this video. Stay blessed 😊
Going to the terrace and giving pep talk to yourself.. Is the best thing❤❤Even I practice this and this helps! ✌🏻✌🏻
I want to add one more thing.. Sometimes it do happen, that we have friends or we were okay but as soon as we open Instagram or any social media.. We start to feel void and we think yaaar hamare to aise dost hi nhy hai nahi koi aisa group jiske sath itni masti karu and we end up feeling bad about our own self..
I feel, that's okay to be lonely sometimes.. Yaaar, atleast khud ko samjhne ka time milta hai..
And God is always there... And the most important thing is-*If you overcome that feeling, just go little further, you can connect the dots and finally you wil feel.. Wo situation kuch lesson dekar gya hai..
Same yar
I must Say these self pep talks are damm good dude🌸 even i follow these
Me too.. Di you are just like me
@@aditi_17 same situation
Whatever you just mentioned, I can completely relate to every bit of it. At times looking at people having all the fun while you’re either studying or working. It feels even more worst but we chose a career like CA which has it’s own struggle but also a different kind of success. It’s like the calm before the storm. Best wishes
I will say it again CA degree has a great power. It can make everything possible.
Being a finalist just a one big hit away from winning this long match of CA, looking at you I do feel ki yaar cheeje badlegi aur APNA TIME AAYEGA 😂😂
Thanks alot mam
Kabhi teres pe aapke aate hi hawai chalne lagti hai...
Kabhi video banate banate andhera ho jata hai...
Kabhi neighbour ke ghar kaam chal raha hota hai to uska disturbance hota hai...
Kabhi video banane ke liye lunch skip karna padta ha...
Upar se itna saara Workload to hai hi....
In sab ke bawjood aap har 2/3 day mai ek video to upload karte hi ho,Sach mai Didi aap kitne dedicated ho and kitne efforts lagate ho hamre liye i have no words to express my gratitude...
Hum to dhany ho gaye ki hume aap jaisa mentor mila.
Thank you so much❤️
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ps: Hawa be like: Aaiye aapka intezar tha isliye aapke teres pe aate hi wo chalne lagti hai 😂😂😂😂😂
Listening to your videos is my energy shifter🙏
This is what I really want to listen...each word really hits me...I know its going to be difficult to accept the reality ...but u helped me a lot .Thank u for being there to inspire us😊
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your voice is sweet, matured and fells like therapy.❤
There is a difference between "Being alone" and "spend time lonely" and that We need to understand.
Exactlyy!!
This dilsetalk series is wonderful sach mai aapki baat dil ko chu jati hai Thank you 🙏
1. Do not force positivity allow yourself to vent out.
2.Accept 'it is what it is' and see what next step can be taken.
4.Find your energy shifters.
3. Meditate.
4. Give yourself a pep talk.
5. Listen to music / dance it out.
6. Avoid scrolling social media its just escapism.
8. Alone time is a blessing in disguise and do not see it as a curse and make the best out of it.
9. Remember that Tigers hunt alone unlike sheep that follow the crowd!
Thank you very much
I feel good after listening to you .
We are the power source of the whole world introverts 😊😊
Pep talk to self and going to terrace everyday and plugging in earphones to listen my favourite songs has helped me a lot didi. Also, thinking and planning with pen paper works for me the best (didi has also told regarding this in some videos). I would suggest everyone to try that as well😇😇.
Same things...😆
Jyada kuch nhi kahunga...but first time kisi ka complete video dekha h👌👌
I can relate my life with those people, I am first bencher and I want to flash a good impression on my teachers but the fact is I don't have so many frnds. Actually frnds he nhi hai .koi jesee bat karo . When I see there wtsap statusI fell like I have no social life at all. I fell very depressed ... And these video literally lit my confidence . I am ok...
Sab ke sath aisa hi hota hai. Jaise jaise Insan ki age badhegi waise waise log apni life se dur hote jayenge. Mera ek bachpan ka dost jiske sath 12tak sath rahe. IIT se pass out hai. Usne muje shadi mai tak nahi bulaya aur na phone karke bataya ki maine love marriage ki. Sirf parents bro sis hi Permenant rehte hai. 😊😊🙂
Social media ki life real life se alag hai. Do din pahele maine Instagram mai ek photo dali jab mai restaurant mai gaya tha 😂, logo ko lagega ki akhil mauj kar raha hai. But uss samay mai akela hi gaya tha. Jo dikhta hai aisa hota nahi. Why are u so depressed. Mere to kahi Sare dost the. Almost sabhi Canada chale gaye aaj muje call tak nahi karte.
Mai kabhi Garden jata hun to bujurg logo se hours tak baat karta hu, nayi chize janta hu. Aise hi social relation banata hu. Aap try kijiye... Acha lagega. Bye.
My energy shifters: ♥️🤍💚
1) Talking to myself...
2) Singing song golden era songs or ever green songs of bollywood which makes me jump/dance...
3) Watching some short transition video of a girl from worse background to achieving something big, with her hardwork... This gives me extra energy... Itna motivation/energy aa jata hai... 2 dinn takk sooti nhi hu... So, jo depressed/lonely feel krrne wala time hota hai... Vo worth it feel hota hai...
Such situation is like a decision making moment for me... Aur usske baad wala situation jo hota hai ussme zada efficiently padai hoti hai... 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
♥️🤍💚
Yours is like yeah it can happen means you do whatever you want to do ...but seriously it's very hard to decide how to move on ..
Di , I m Neet Aspirant , I m 3rd dropper now 🥺 I feeling so much Exhaust, depressed ...but you know your vdo help me a lot ❤ I can relate you most of the things that you felt that time 😢
Hey.. Its also my 3rd drop for neet... Previous scores 302,532 ..now targeting 670+❤
Online study is very heavy 😢no friends at surroundings ..
Tell me your story and scores.. If u are interested..
@@ronimondal809 238,362... bohot health issues hai meri bt i m still keep working ...Iss year kisi tarike se nikalni hai Neet
I am evolving with your thoughts. 😊😊😊😊 Commenting for the first time... My biggest problem got solved 🎈🎈... Thank you neha didu... I am watching your videos since long time.. But never commented..I comment under videos very rarely...🌟🌟 Thank you very much neha didi... You don't know how much you have helped me...I can't thank enough... 😊😊 I wish you tons of success in your life 😍
Trueeeee, I had always considered myself as an extro, i hated going back to room, when I decided to go in hostel for 3-5 months I cried every single day but now, i think if I get out of that Mangla Gauri I can do anything, being alone was my biggest fear and during this I genuinely found that there lays an invincible summer in me! We all are just the same! I yet am very happy when my friends are around, I yet talk to my parents so much, i yet cry, i yet ask out my personal mentors(mainly teachers and chachu) for help but i feel that now i m not hollow without them, and i m really thankful that at 17 I have really gone through and discovered so much within:)
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Seriously....... I cant believe ki abhi mai yahi feel kar rai thi nd randomly phone mai yutube on kia nd aapka vedio a gaya, u r a motivaton for me, ki life mai faliure aapka future or aapko define nai karte, aap aik example ho ki galtiya kar ke bhi bht kuchh seekha ja sakta hai, so love urself❤ thankew so muchh.hume ye feel karane ke liye😊
Really a great therapy speech, awesome, I'll utilise this Alone time...
"Energy Shifters" great idea 💡
There are numerous channels but your channel is amazing. Some points I know internally but you put all the things in perspective. Thank-you for putting whole platter out there. As you description says aptly dilsetalk. No marketing, no false self motivation only true talk. ❤
Bonus point -- start writing things/ PPL whom u r grateful for and thank them( gratitude journal)
Trust me u will feel super happy after writing gratitude journal
Thanku for every breath that I take
Thnku for proper functioning of my every body part
Thanku for my eyes that makes me to see everything
I'm feeling the same.. I have no clue what to do with the situation but I'm trying my best. Just hope, I will definitely overcome from all this things strongly. Thank you so much di.. you are a blessing for many.
Here are some energy shifters that I use..
1) Meditation
2) Write a letter to god & tell him all my thoughts & emotions.
3) Go to terrace
4) Listen to bk shivani di & you
5) Listen bhajan.
Hare Krishna hare Krishna krishna krishna hare hare
Hare Ram Hare Ram Ram Ram Hare Hare
Chant this mahamantra and be happy
U sense problems just like me.....And u r more experienced than me and hence u know what I am thinking and u guide me in the way I need....
Criticism is something we can avoid easily by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.
You are doing a great job, lots of love❤
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To bhi hoga😊
So insightful i am fed up of listening to English people telling about this GLAD YOU ARE INDIAN AND SPEAKING IN HINDI . This is penetrating in my brain 🧠
Ma'am we as society tell boys that you can't vent out or cry you must remain hard and never tell your weaknesses or you are not allowed to be weaken as you has lots of burden to take care off
Wah Neha wah , Self Pep Talk wala sahi tha Guru, bahut Khub, Neha You are too Good and so much inspiring,keep it up,
Warm regards 👍
My energy shifter ..
. Food
. Family
. Watch something new or motivated
. Talking to god
. Walking
. And thinking something new
. Cooking
. Traveling
. Having Tea
I m watching this video while crying ....thankyou mam
Why why are u crying any problem if you have any problem then you can share with me i have no frnds iam only busying in my study leave this you say why are u crying 🙂🙂
I literally feel the tear of joy. your each line is worth listening di. i have been feeling so messed up. but, after watching your talks i felt good and you gave me a hope light. lots of love di. I am grateful that I came across to your channel. :)
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I did not know that CAs also look beautiful .U are so wonderful and energetic .#lovefromKolkata
Love to hear such great things from u ❣️ really feel blessed to have a motivator like u ...
What really saddening is when you go through such sad times and scroll through you contacts, you will find absolutely no one you could talk to...
You are lucky you can talk to your mom atleast
Feeling void or alone inside....it's because of lack of love or care for us....this can be family, friends, pet or anything which makes us feel loved and cared many times helps a lot
Recently I got my AFCAT result
I couldn't clear the cut off
That's why I was feeling heartbroken
Your words are so Inspiring ☺
hope you are okay now. :)
Thanks a lot di I am also pursuing CA you are not just a inspiration for me as well as you are a mentor for me who motivates me in my tough time ❤🤗😊
M'aam.. these days CA final student face such problem like loneliness, the way you elaborated in this video about this topic is remarkable..
"You are worth Spending time with your ownself" touched my heart..!!💝
The fact is many have reached to the point that they can't even cry their heart out. 😢
Me Pichle two years se akele feel kar rahi hu after a loss of my mother. No understanding friends or relatives who really deeply understand my inner trauma. I how tried all the things like cooking, consuming positive content or self pep talk, and many more but find one thing that those activities which really make me alive is no longer seems interesting and do not comforting me. Now I feel so lonely that someone try to come close to me I just get angry on them even now on my relatives, father, and anyone. I feel so depressed that thinking to need any kind of medical help but more stressed out to share my feelings as I have reserved my feeling to myself and there is no one who has the capability to understand anyone. Your video didn't help me. May be helpful for others.
Hi,
Kartik from Pinkcity Jaipur, Rajasthan
1. Thanks for your videos
2. They are purely genuine and straight from the heart
3. After watching this, it feels like it's with everybody out there and you are not alone
4. Congratulations to me as well, because you and me both are at Par.. In terms for finding the solutions of different problems
5. From day 1 you posted about vipasana, I everday meditate. Please tell about advance phases someday
6. For introverts, you are a super hero. You are reminding them their superpowers, they forgot.
Thank you so much!!
4th point is same for me too di
Mam aap ke bato se hmne khush rahna sikha life me age badhna sikha ...aap ke liye mere dil me bahot bahot respect h ❤️😇
My energy shifters:-
1. Meditation - always helps me calm down and think positively.
2. Good self-talk - this helps me understand my achievements better and feel proud of myself.
3. Good TED talks and Josh Talks - Listening to inspirational talks and the lives of other people is very motivating.
4. Talking to my mom - she is my biggest supporter and motivator.
5. Journaling my thoughts - this helps me understand myself better.
The roof top discussion is absolutely relatable to me sister. Your words hits directly in the heart. 🙃
Thank you so much for your valuable lessons . ☺
Loads of love and good wishes from your lil sister.❤
Every girl gets thousands of proposals from boys still girl feels alone
Meanwhile boy barely get compliment for appearance in his life still boys are happy 🤣
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Jo koi bhi insaan is duniya ki asliyat jaan lega use is duniya se vairagya ho jayega
True that mam well said. U have seriously achieved a good self awareness
Life mein hamesha ek next target hona chahiye ...... Koi lonely feel nahi hoga..... Khali baitho ge toh aisa he kuch bhi naya naya hota rahega.
Before:- Bheed hai quayamat ki fir bhi hum akele h
After watching this video: Zindagi na milegi dobara... Life is very short for crying waste time... Thanks a lot...😊🎉❤❤
What a great motivation, I do the same as she said I is the ultimate truth that when u are distant and alone at any point of your life it is a one time thing that makes you or breaks you if u choose to stay positive and hold ur self up alone you can survive rest of your whole life even if any bad situation arises
I really appreciate the way to explained! As an international student I had been experiencing lack of belongingness and always been expecting an emotional support! Its been hard lately.. but your energy and understanding allows positivity! Thanks Neha!
Mat Haro jindagi se...
Abhi mauke kaii baaki hai...
लक्ष्य तक पहुंचने में कई कठनाइयों का आना लाजमी है। इन कठनाइयों से जो डर जाता है वो हार जाता है और जो पार पा जाता है वह कमाल कर जाता है
💯💯💯💯💯💯
I also do the same thing didi and you tell that exactly 🤠😅 thank you 😊 Didi.. you are really become one of my mentor 😊😊
Solution is 100% appropriate. Highly praiseworthy.Thank u very much.
Yours videos are superb..and feels like connected ❤❤
Talking with Krishna is a therapy in itself ❤
A very great takeaway Neha. The energy shifter idea is cool 🤩
Wise words! Self pep talk & calling mom are my constants too✨️
Lonelyness is a feeling that few can handle.....
I wish I had a mature friend like u ..I'm a ca finalist ...wish u great success 🔥🔥.
Thank you I personally feel this because sometime I feel lonely and no one support me even my family member not support me thank You for give solution......
Your...meditation ...deep breathing exercises really helped....i can relate to every video of yours....❤❤❤
I learnt to stand alone than in crowd during my college days..Present is pressured but looking at the past makes me feel ..yeah I stood alone for myself..thanks to me
Don’t know how bt TH-cam recommended me this video on right time… what i used to do always was suppressing my emotions, bcoz I always feel afraid to seat alone & let that emotion come out. Someone’s memories kills me inside & had made me void..
Finally acknowledged myself this was the video I was looking for, random click .
So nice mam, u are handling issues in a more practical way than unnecessarily dumping positivity 😊
Gr8 job :)
Meditate , Journal, exercise, eat, study and repeat; you will always be busy and never feel depressed,
Listening to her is new therapy to me.
You are so young.
Such mature thoughts you are sharing.
Hats off to you. God bless you.
Love ❤❤ the way You Doing things.! Nowadays 🌹🙏
You r very honest Person..All the words come through you...& I appreciate that.
Talk to yourself you are your own best friend
I can totally relate... Currently going through this but.... I came to know that.... Khud se baat karke khud ko describe karke jo satisfaction aur jo positivity milti hai wo kisi se share karne se nhi milta... Aur akele hone me hi hm grow kar paate hai....! When you feels that no one is understanding you..... To khud se acha dost koi nhi hai... Apni khushi aur gam ke jimmedar hm hi hai hm chahe to hm khud ko khush rakh sakte hai.... Currently breakup hone ke baad cheat hone ke baad dost n hona family na samjh rhi to bahot bura lagta hai.... But realise kiya ki rona aa rha hai roo.... But remember one thing ki.... Khud se baat karke khud ki condition sahi karna aur khush rakhna apne goal pe focus kar rhi hu..... Feeling very positive😊😊❤❤
Har insaan akela hai you are no exception......☺
I am depressed bcoz of my loneliness..away from family in hostel and no true friendship , feeling alone , crying a lot from inside...
Acha ye point to mere dimag me chal raha tha ..ki koi nai baat karne ko..hum kya kar rahe kya karenge aage etc etc..mere jaise bahut log hai iska matlab n m not all alone.. anyway good that u brought these common point to us..and one more things ur words are awesome and so do ur voice..
Boht akela reh liya khud ko bhi samaj liya,self aware b hogi ab or kya kbi koi muje priority ya preference nahi deta itni buri hu kya😢😢