12 Smart Psychological Tips You'd Better Learn

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  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Hey guys! Have you ever tried that yawning trick? 3:58
    Btw, these tricks are also cool! th-cam.com/video/l4tWdTmYZoM/w-d-xo.html&

  • @Funeralbloom
    @Funeralbloom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    12. When a group of people are laughing, people instinctively look at the one’s they like.
    11. Chew gum or eat sth when nervous to reduce feelings of anxiety.
    10. Staring can help get any info you need
    9. Imagine your interviewer is a friend you haven’t seen in a long time or consider that they are as nervous as you are.
    8. If you have to work with a lot of people, put a mirror behind you.
    7. If you think sb is looking at you, yawn. If they are staring at you, they’ll yawn.
    6. If you wanna break up a fight, get sth to eat and stand in between the two parties.
    5. If you wanna get rid of sth, hand it to sb while talking to them (hack for moving things around your house😉)
    4. If you want to easily become friends with sb, as them for a favor.
    3. Schedule important meetings for the beginning or end of the day because everything in between is a blur.
    2. Pay attention to the direction of feet while talking to people. It shows their interest in you and what you’re talking about.
    1. Copying other people’s body language, can help you win their trust

    • @prathagautam9872
      @prathagautam9872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Why did I see this after the video ended? 😭

    • @MattTMFG
      @MattTMFG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@prathagautam9872 ikr same XD

    • @prathagautam9872
      @prathagautam9872 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MattTMFG I just subbed you and watched scooter fail/trick 😂

    • @MattTMFG
      @MattTMFG 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@prathagautam9872 thanks bro XD

    • @aiksahab9309
      @aiksahab9309 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      June Kilatya yes

  • @kevanroberts8155
    @kevanroberts8155 5 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    The best way to see someone dissappear is by lending them money 🤣🙄

  • @media12370
    @media12370 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1678

    Love the comic book theme animation ❤️

    • @corteiz
      @corteiz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      vJamahh what are you doing here?

    • @A-_-A.
      @A-_-A. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      vJamahh ikr it gives me life

    • @jabmalassie
      @jabmalassie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Who is the animator?

    • @joeboyo5494
      @joeboyo5494 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      vJamahh I know you vjammah, upload man it's been soooo long
      Btw I got ur Snapchat

    • @sahidcm
      @sahidcm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And the music is pretty cool too

  • @johnokadigbo3203
    @johnokadigbo3203 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Stranger invades my home.
    *Chews gum

  • @guilleacq
    @guilleacq 6 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    *Me imagining that my employer is an old friend of mine*
    - Sup mate, it's been a while; what's shakin'?
    - Get out of my office now.

    • @TheSublimeLifestyle
      @TheSublimeLifestyle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AskillZ I hope you found a new job. I talk to my boss casually every day.

  • @needlessskeleton4231
    @needlessskeleton4231 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1312

    I actually yawned.

  • @coachingleo7479
    @coachingleo7479 6 ปีที่แล้ว +730

    From now on i will never focus on the actual conversations anymore. THANK YOU!

  • @challengerking4358
    @challengerking4358 5 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Well I’m putting mirrors in the house, keep the wife at bay.

  • @trevormiles5852
    @trevormiles5852 6 ปีที่แล้ว +656

    I used this information to fix my life. I was at Kmart and was putting some rings in my pocket. This girl behind counter was looking at me , I think she likes me. But I noticed one foot was facing away from me and the other foot was constantly pressing some button on the floor. So , I asked her if she got hurt, cause angels as heavy as she was can't fly to far before they fall. She kinda laughed and muttered something about 5150 into the store speaker. Security was coming so I asked her a personal question; Just how much do you weigh? And it worked. she just stared at me , so i handed those rings to her. When security got there I yawned at them and got pepper sprayed. Everybody started laughing as I rolled on floor rubbing my eyes. But I noticed that counter girl looking at me as she laughed. So, when i get out in six months, I think I will ask her out. Not sure what it means, but everybody feet are facing me when i go to the showers. ahhh good times. Thanks, for info. I am using it as a road map to success.

    • @rgerber
      @rgerber 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Trevor Miles epic answer. Glad your life got fixed

    • @trevormiles5852
      @trevormiles5852 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      rgerber. lol hope it made you smile.

    • @pinkmotivationalspace
      @pinkmotivationalspace 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣

    • @honeybadgerzs
      @honeybadgerzs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Trevor Miles lol! Thanks for the laugh, I needed that today x

    • @timothysuprapto6226
      @timothysuprapto6226 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Just don’t drop the soap man

  • @mike5177
    @mike5177 6 ปีที่แล้ว +471

    So if a group of people are laughing, and they are all looking around to see who likes them, everyone who sees you looking at them will think you like them lol

    • @leiluatala2
      @leiluatala2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Mike D I guess just look straight at the person you like. Maybe. Lol. But good point hehe

    • @vutranngoc6926
      @vutranngoc6926 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      i think you would look at the person you like the most to see if he/she also likes you =)

    • @mike5177
      @mike5177 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Vu Tran Ngoc Definitely

    • @Docmain3
      @Docmain3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right. Lol. Tis what I thought.

    • @jp-fq9re
      @jp-fq9re 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You would watch people, they all would naturally look at the person they like the most!

  • @0Rahul__Gupta
    @0Rahul__Gupta 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1182

    I want more psychologist tricks. This video is awesome

    • @mishkaparashar3170
      @mishkaparashar3170 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rahul Gupta me too, make a second one pls

    • @NexMix
      @NexMix 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There are SOOOOO many. I want to be a psychologist so I’ve been studying it for 3 years in my free time.

    • @brianalexander216
      @brianalexander216 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read the Tao of badass thank me later 👌

    • @shabazhussain5720
      @shabazhussain5720 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rahul Gupta now bioshock is awesome

    • @DaysChallenge-rq8wp
      @DaysChallenge-rq8wp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can see why by your look

  • @r.a.7195
    @r.a.7195 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1858

    I like the comic look :3

    • @aliabbas2010
      @aliabbas2010 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Regina Mills i like profile pic

    • @shabazhussain5720
      @shabazhussain5720 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Regina Mills now bioshock your look

    • @Convair
      @Convair 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Regina Mills yeah I love comics :)

    • @lrwilliamsjr
      @lrwilliamsjr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then you'll like the works of American pop artist, Roy Lichtenstein!

    • @Jonnyjonnyji
      @Jonnyjonnyji 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jonndie@gmail.com

  • @anneg6635
    @anneg6635 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thank you for posting these tips. May I just add one comment from my own experience: For job interviews or interviews in general, I have observed that it is advantageous to make an appointment early in the morning (as you stated), OR just after lunch. Immediately after a meal, the interviewer is more relaxed. If he/she suffers from an acid stomach, this will not manifest until about 1-2 hours after the meal. If you make an appointment BEFORE lunch, the person may want to get it over with quickly, as he/she is feeling hungry. Just a piece of advice that does work. Kind regards.

    • @oldarpanet
      @oldarpanet 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      For job interviews, I took the attitude that I was interviewing the company, to evaluate if I wanted to work there, if I wanted to work for this person. Made me feel more confident and in charge rather than felling like I'm hat-in-hand, looking for approval or acceptance. Worked! got the job I wanted, in the company I wanted and worked there for 28 years!

  • @lexthe1st166
    @lexthe1st166 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    12.) When a group of people are laughing, each individual looks at the person they like the most
    11.) Chew on something (gum etc.) when you’re nervous since no one eats when in danger
    10.) Staring can give you any answer you need; the silence can be so unbearable they’ll tell you anything
    9.) imagine that your future employer is an old BestF and they’re just as nervous as you
    8.) if you have to work with people a lot, put a mirror behind you since no one likes to see themselves angry or annoyed
    7.) if you think someone’s looking at you, yawn
    6.) to break up a fight, get something to eat and stand between them since eating is associated with relaxation
    5.) if you want to rid of something, just hand it to them while talking to them (while they’re talking, their brain switches to autopilot)
    4.) to become friends with someone, ask them for a favor
    3.) Schedule important meetings for the BEGINNING or END of the day; try to be the first or last interview candidate
    2.) pay attention to direction of the feet while talking to you; if their body is facing you but their feet are facing outwards they’re likely trying to get away ASAP
    1.) repeating someone’s facial expression or gestures, can help them trust you since they’ll be like you

  • @ReigoShirofficial
    @ReigoShirofficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    These psychology methods won't apply or work against sociopaths.

    • @AZIZAANGELLOVE28
      @AZIZAANGELLOVE28 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Thanks for the tip ! Reigo Shir... only a sociopath would know that. Just saying .... 😂😂😂

    • @amarimbumba6338
      @amarimbumba6338 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Reigo Shir tell me about it im friends with one

    • @theporcupine9993
      @theporcupine9993 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Reigo Shir or people that aren't easily manipulated. I never liked someone because they asked me something.

    • @milanhenke343
      @milanhenke343 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Oh no inhuman intelligence, which makes you superior to everyone else...nooooo.
      What do you think, how many sociopaths talk about being sociopaths and how many even know about it? The number is incredibly low, so the probability tells me you are most likely just a poser.

    • @ReigoShirofficial
      @ReigoShirofficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Milan Henke To be fair, you have to have a Rick and Morty IQ to have known that I was posing without even saying anything that they are what you claim You sure got me

  • @TheOriginalMarimoChan
    @TheOriginalMarimoChan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2749

    If someone asks me for money I immediately hate them.

    • @iam_spindel
      @iam_spindel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      marimo chan even if he's ur friend?

    • @flaviucojocaru2480
      @flaviucojocaru2480 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hahaha 😂😂

    • @qwertyuiop888000
      @qwertyuiop888000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jeez

    • @LynxStarAuto
      @LynxStarAuto 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Not only do I hate them, but I would like to beat them as well.

    • @pauliemills
      @pauliemills 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Or when someone ask you for a ride... Low key.. Your kinda mad.

  • @Reverberate_
    @Reverberate_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2064

    I yawned...

    • @thegirlgamer8518
      @thegirlgamer8518 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I yawned too..

    • @madunicorn5842
      @madunicorn5842 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too!

    • @stiwari906
      @stiwari906 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zenyatta me too

    • @Reverberate_
      @Reverberate_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      sushma tiwari And I yawned again reading these replies...

    • @ArunWagley
      @ArunWagley 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same

  • @speedmaster001
    @speedmaster001 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A common trick I pulled with my friends while in high school and college is to own a taken table by simply joining people already there and politely saying, may we share this table. You and your buddies start a conversation that the other person or persons can't relate to. They will be so uncomfortable about it that they will rush to leave. Works all the time.

    • @LuvThyMind29
      @LuvThyMind29 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or sometimes they start trying to talk to you about the days they spent knitting on the farm...

  • @namratha5119
    @namratha5119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Who is hosting the video???
    That guy is really good in keeping people watch the video till the end

  • @MatthewMoscotto
    @MatthewMoscotto 6 ปีที่แล้ว +762

    No wonder Michael Jordan was always clutch... He was chewing gum !!!

    • @Filipe_Gomes10
      @Filipe_Gomes10 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was just thinkin about that hahahahaahha.

    • @rayir.1382
      @rayir.1382 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      And curry with the rubber thing for ur mouth

    • @MatthewMoscotto
      @MatthewMoscotto 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rayi Rashad Your right lol

    • @dannniels
      @dannniels 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Rayi Rashad its called mouthguard

    • @rayir.1382
      @rayir.1382 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Home r yeah, thanks for reminding me. Has been streesing me out but to lazy to search it out

  • @vitocorleone1462
    @vitocorleone1462 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the mirror behind the chair thing. Genius

  • @MaZeYoutube
    @MaZeYoutube 6 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    If you don’t want a teacher to call on you in class! Do not make eye contact with her and pretend you are writing. She will think your “busy” so she will not call on you

    • @IamPhinetoo
      @IamPhinetoo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Tr4p MaZe It works the other way around too - if you want to get called by the teacher, just make eye contact - sometimes I do this when I don't want to raise my hand (because I don't want to make the impression I'm a show-off)

    • @bpdmf2798
      @bpdmf2798 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Tr4p MaZe You can also always have the right answer and willingly give it in the early weeks and then the teacher will stop calling on you because they think that the rest of the class will just rely on you. Also, always do your homework in the first quarter and do well on tests, then by the end half of the year you will get the benefit of the doubt if you are being graded on essays (they might just skip reading it because it's an auto A+ anyway). I suppose if you aren't a good student anyway then my advice won't help much, but I was an A+ student across the board and let me tell you it was easy as pie to get away with whatever I wanted by the end of the year, I even convinced a biology teacher to give me a 100 on a test where I had one answer wrong because of an English technicality on the phrases many vs a lot. The question was about the use of the scientific method, and in the question it was something like "brad pitt starred in many movies, true or false?" The correct answer was false because "many" is subjective and science requires more accuracy. I argued that "many" in English is used for a number greater than 1 and is able to be counted (a lot is used instead for things that are uncountable, like laundry), and I argued that brad pitt starred in more than 1 movie and the number of movies is countable. I not only got the 100, but every student got that question right since I argued for true because of my argument and false because many can be considered objective when used colloquially. Because I pointed that out we all benefited from it.

    • @floggyWM1
      @floggyWM1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      show off, i was a F student and got a GED...

    • @kudzaipaguwah7260
      @kudzaipaguwah7260 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tr4p MaZe worked every time lol

    • @watcher4075
      @watcher4075 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tr4p MaZe true when I looked at her she told me to read when I starred at the book when she was picking some ppl and I hot away with it.

  • @makaylatheweird2685
    @makaylatheweird2685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Along with mimicking a person's body movement, I also find it helps to get someone interested in you by 'using' open body language that unconsciously suggests one likes someone. The idea is that people don't usually know they're into someone until they find out that someone is into them; Given this knowledge, one can assume that although they may not exhibit these cues, they can also unconsciously pick up on them and feel liked. So if you want to get someone's interest, raise your eyebrows when they speak, occasionally glance at their lips, play shy, keep open body language, and keep your feet pointed to them. Hopefully they'll pick up on it unconsciously, and start to return these cues since you're making them feel special.

  • @tc7069
    @tc7069 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Remember to get them talking about themselves, or what interests them, and listen. To show them you are listening, ask them a question related to something they have said. People like to be heard; so gain their interest, and maybe trust by doing this.

  • @Perky143247
    @Perky143247 6 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    But..but when I laugh I don't look at anyone but my feet or prefer to close my eyes. Does that mean, I don't like anyone? Am I gonna die alone? (Grasping air..panting)

    • @deborasara8641
      @deborasara8641 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Perky143247 No you are not going to die alone. sometimes I don't even look at people's face when I laugh because I get scared if they would see my whole mouth open like this😁 ...😂😂😂

    • @floggyWM1
      @floggyWM1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      why, u got teeth like meelina?

  • @neelpatel9364
    @neelpatel9364 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I've tried the trick of asking small favors. It actually works..👍🏻👌🏻

  • @queenrona9545
    @queenrona9545 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Love the comic look

  • @madvtecyoboostin4870
    @madvtecyoboostin4870 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Best pick up line I have ever heard “can I borrow $20” lol

  • @jonathan8582
    @jonathan8582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The yawning staff really works
    I yawned before it was even mentioned

  • @musicnlove911
    @musicnlove911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    which software did you use for the pop art styling? thank youuu :)

  • @Gamez4eveR
    @Gamez4eveR 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    that moment that when you're in a group of people and you share a joke and you laugh but you look at scenery

  • @ThinkerOnTheBus
    @ThinkerOnTheBus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    *They wanted me to "hit that like button", but I would not fall prey to their attempts of psychological manipulation!*

  • @randomchaos9359
    @randomchaos9359 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yay, we've all learned how to manipulate other people. What if we didn't focus on getting what we want in life, but tried to be kind and helpful to other people? Life is better when we serve others.

  • @dabz7588
    @dabz7588 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    when asking someone to do something for you always say "will you" NOT "can you", and that will persuade them to do as you would like themvto because anyone CAN do something, but the question is WILL they...

    • @HeartlessKnave
      @HeartlessKnave 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      For someone who shows such comprehension of correct grammar; the English used in your comment is surprisingly atrocious.

    • @dabz7588
      @dabz7588 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      oh trust i know my grammar, stop tryin to police people.we all understand that your a know it all and we really dont care! pure ignorance. i wasnt even trying to show my comprehension in anything so mrs.know it all, you know nothing because the real meaning went right over your head!!! lol

    • @koteswar009
      @koteswar009 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dabz7588 probably they think it is not a request but a demand?

  • @Dupella
    @Dupella 6 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Okay, who yawned? 😂😂

  • @saisanzi21
    @saisanzi21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Hate people who constantly beg for likes instead of letting the video talk for themselves.

    • @amirm4000
      @amirm4000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      saisanzi i agree. If you appreciate me agreeing with you, like this comment

  • @07zefix
    @07zefix 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The best thing to pass the job interview is to always smile and eye contact.

  • @voxmm8579
    @voxmm8579 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I need to calm down for an interview, I just smile before and in the interview. Even though I’m really nervous. Kid of a 2 in 1 relieve stress and make them more interested since they’d think I’d be a good employee. That’s how I got a good job, even though other people had way higher skill than me. It works out. Thanks.
    Edit: Period. Gotta have good grammar kids.

  • @inquizative44
    @inquizative44 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is so true, when you ask someone for a (reasonable) favor they do start to like you. I've always did it, it shows you need them and you value them. Makes them feel needed.

  • @TheCosmicDancer111
    @TheCosmicDancer111 6 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    where i live if u stare at someone u usually get stabbed. but im going to trust this video and try it today

  • @Springspin
    @Springspin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    i used to have a therapist who'd stare at me for a few minutes straight and it was seriously scary. and super annoying, plus it didnt work on me cause i never told her more than i already said.

    • @pekraab
      @pekraab 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      galaxies Yeah, staring also has the opposite effect on me. It just annoys me.

    • @Springspin
      @Springspin 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Thomas More well i was in a clinic so there were more therapists who talked to me, but she was really annoying

    • @niubilities
      @niubilities 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe she watched too much In Treatment.

    • @daniellebordeau606
      @daniellebordeau606 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      loved me too..n i knew this is what she was doing...to see if i would say more..n i already told her everything...so it was really uncomfortable..ugh drove me nuts..had to ditch her

    • @troy3456789
      @troy3456789 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She can't help you unless you're honest and open - complete transparency.

  • @o0oDEJAVUo0o
    @o0oDEJAVUo0o 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I tried handing someone something while asking a question. They took out without even realizing it works like a charm.

  • @scorpionwins6378
    @scorpionwins6378 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    When feeling pressured at a job interview, I always remind myself of one thing. That is to take away their job title, then they simply become a regular person just like everyone else. Works every time. Also keep in mind that your interviewer likely started at the bottom many years ago like most employees. Very important to find that common ground with upper level management. It will help put you more at ease when being confronted by them.

  • @podersa241
    @podersa241 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a 100% rate of getting the job after a job interview.
    1. My friend told me to always sit on the edge of the seat. It shows you are anxious and ready to begin the job. If you sit back you will give off a feeling of a lazy person.
    2. If you feel uncomfortable about looking at someone in the eye just look at them right in between the eyes. They cannot tell the difference and you will come off as a good listener.
    3. When asked for my weakness I do not give text book answers. I say I am a nail biter.
    4. When asked where do you see yourself in 5 years. I say I see myself as happy in my life and career.

  • @PrinceCharmingNY
    @PrinceCharmingNY 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    no wonder everytime i rage on fortnite ... then i grab a bite of something to eat ...im less likely to break my keyboard XD nice

  • @donhuell77543
    @donhuell77543 6 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    When u watched the whole thing but realize your using ur data.

    • @zelinoz3783
      @zelinoz3783 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zexity Playz 😂ROFL

    • @eyada.7194
      @eyada.7194 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I guess that's what happened to you whilst waching this video.

    • @A-_-A.
      @A-_-A. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Zexity Playz that is too true that it hurts 😂

    • @billrock6386
      @billrock6386 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zexity Playz HATE THAT

    • @Andrew-ih2gz
      @Andrew-ih2gz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joke's on you tough guy. I can't read.

  • @Evil_Knievel
    @Evil_Knievel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    8:33 LOL.. "..use common sense!".. Best part 🤣🤣🤣

  • @LijenC2357
    @LijenC2357 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    the mirroring is a good way to get people's guard down. like when you are talking to someone with crossing arms means they are in defense mode, mirror that, and casually put your arms down during conversation, see if they follow your movement. if they follow, that means they are in same page with you and more trusty now.
    but these mind tricks only work if people dont realize been manipulate, so dont go tell people you know these stuff.

  • @-bonitoflakes-4958
    @-bonitoflakes-4958 6 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    ...cant stare at the person if the person walks away.

    • @d.cannaboom9769
      @d.cannaboom9769 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      When I stare at them they walk away :(

  • @JengoFilm
    @JengoFilm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    When someone asks to borrow money from me I don’t think it makes me like them more. It’s usually the opposite. People smiling or randomly giving me money makes me like them though. Haha.

    • @oliviaseed1199
      @oliviaseed1199 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      JengoFilm
      Spot on loll

    • @EAZIIMAN
      @EAZIIMAN 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      How about asking you what time is it? Or getting into their van?

    • @Gringorilla
      @Gringorilla 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      It actually does. It's called the Benjamin Franklin effect, as he was one of the first to notice it. It's subtle and subconscious, but it works in most cases. However, this video doesn't explain WHY it works very well. The reason it works is mainly because of cognitive dissonance. If you do a favor for a person while getting nothing in return, your brain (subconsciously) figures that the reason must be that you like that person. Lending them money is probably the worst example they could use, as money is one of the few things that this doesn't work as well with.
      Regards a psychologist.

  • @alir.9894
    @alir.9894 6 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    This video is what junk food is to health, short term it makes you feel good, but long term it fails. If you truly want to get ahead in life, begin with yourself first. Spend 30 min. a day in front of a word processor asking yourself questions, "Why do you do what you do?, What mistakes have you made today? Is there anything you could've done better? If someone criticized you could some or all part of there criticism be true?, etc." In addition to that exercise, you need to think about your values. What is honesty, courage, kindness, forgiveness, humility, eating healthy about? Can they be beneficial in my life? Should I experiment with one of these values at a time to see how they can possibly change my life? That type of change is real, and for the long term. These "psychological tricks" are not lasting. If you're a cheat and liar eventually you'll get found out no matter how many "psychological tricks" you know. If you're mean and angry people won't like you. BTW - I'm still working on what I just said, I'm just giving my opinion. ; - )

    • @londonkhareem6515
      @londonkhareem6515 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ali Rafatjah makes a lot of sense

    • @JustForNowStudios
      @JustForNowStudios 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Ali Rafatjah I disagree. While you are definitely right about the importance of evaluating your values, these psychological tricks are best utilized once you have figured yourself out. A more appropriate statement would be: This video is what cheat codes are to video games. Is life a video game? GASP!

    • @dangerduguid
      @dangerduguid 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Word processor?

    • @BazzaTheMan12
      @BazzaTheMan12 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I really like your perspective on reflecting yourself as a person. Is there any interesting books you have read that made you think this way?

    • @adeleydunda
      @adeleydunda 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ali Rafatjah I’m not reading this...

  • @tushargupta4262
    @tushargupta4262 6 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    50 views and 142 likes....THAT'S BRIGHT SIDE OF LIFE

    • @zelinoz3783
      @zelinoz3783 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tushar Gupta how is that even possible?

    • @tushargupta4262
      @tushargupta4262 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PICKLE RICKSTER a bug.

    • @zelinoz3783
      @zelinoz3783 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tushar Gupta ohh 😂

    • @vijayaakash7232
      @vijayaakash7232 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You can like a video only by sign in into your account so it can be verfied easily and youtube will show the count without time lag but views will take more time to count. if u watch a video for 10 sec at first it will add that to "real time view" (you can't see this) and then filter it out to show you the verified view that's why likes are more than views 😑

    • @nomiplays1814
      @nomiplays1814 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      How????

  • @samuelhuff468
    @samuelhuff468 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've noticed a psychological trick that works for me is how I wake up. I put my phone on the floor next to my bed, so that when I want to turn off my alarm, it force me to get out of bed. Also, when I hear my alarm, I've developed the habit of immediately throwing the covers and sheet off of me. These first few moments of the day help me to be less stressed, less anxious, and more awake in the morning when I'm at School.

  • @Madagames
    @Madagames 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always copy gestures and facial expressions of the people i talk to and it really works. Not in long terms of course, but i really have the feeling that employers, teachers and parents of girls, who will not be spending too much time with me but are trying to see wether i'm trustworthy or not always seem to conclude that i am.

  • @halinaamani
    @halinaamani 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    C food is always the answer😂

    • @Chooong7
      @Chooong7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Halina Amani wow you're beautiful

    • @mikushenko75
      @mikushenko75 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Halina Amani yup lol. And bacon is the ultimate answer.

    • @halinaamani
      @halinaamani 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chooong7 ❤️

  • @jalynedoucet3260
    @jalynedoucet3260 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That staring stuff is true 👍sometimes the person will end up laughing 😆 and telling you the truth or if it’s more serious 🤔 they will ask you what are you looking at? 🙄 Tell you to Stop staring.. 😡 or They will get more & more nervous 🤥 because they are lying. 😐 Why you think in a job interview the Employer 👨🏻‍💼 continues to stare you in the eyes 👀, not only because it’s “Professional” or whatever 💁🏻‍♀️, it’s because they can tell if your probably lying. 🤭

    • @fuvet
      @fuvet 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jalyne Doucet aaand there goes any interview confidence I built up.. Now i know they're gonna stare into my soul

  • @umehhabiba9889
    @umehhabiba9889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Thanks I’m now lowkey a sociopath

    • @alexanderkatterman5170
      @alexanderkatterman5170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Umeh Habiba hey to break it to you but this is not how one can be a “sociopath” sorry

    • @jessw.6250
      @jessw.6250 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stephen Katterman LOL true, meaning they were already sociopaths.

    • @unidentified0947
      @unidentified0947 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alexanderkatterman5170 yeah you'd be a victim

    • @umehhabiba9889
      @umehhabiba9889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stephen Katterman
      Lol chill its a joke

    • @oz7081
      @oz7081 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      My cousins best friends friend ex was a sociopath and I take offense to that

  • @GigiRockEMO
    @GigiRockEMO 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the aesthetic of this video is just perfect!

  • @Dariuxee
    @Dariuxee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The mirror thing is really smart

  • @knightingale5669
    @knightingale5669 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    If the yawning doesn't work or you want more confirmation, try also looking at your watch or phone. See if the person mirrors it.

  • @mariejuana2993
    @mariejuana2993 6 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Who else was looking for that comment saying something like "Who else yawned when he spoke about yawning"

    • @dasaauto2024
      @dasaauto2024 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Marie Juana Was anyone else looking for the first comment about someone anticipating the first comment about the yawning gag making them actually yawn IRL?

    • @kashifhussain6496
      @kashifhussain6496 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ìt was your name that I found more hilarious than your comment

  • @peihu479
    @peihu479 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video was so useful THANKS!

  • @wjaxtv
    @wjaxtv 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think be aware but be yourself is the main message here : ) My feet are pointing towards you and my arms are not crossed. Love you Bright Side!

  • @micha781000
    @micha781000 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    12 during laughing u look at the person u like most, want aproval from her
    11 chewing makes stress less, no one eats in danger
    10 by keep staring they cant handle silence and give info u want. Purpose is persuasion.
    9 imagine he is a good friend you havnt seen in ages, makes u calmer. Imagine intervieuwer also nervous. Come in with a smile
    8 work with people a lot, hang a mirror behind u. They will be nicer bcos no one likes to see himself angry.
    7 if u think a person looks at u, just jawn, they will also jawn if so.
    6 break up a fight by standing between with some food. Eating is socialising and calm
    5 get rid of someone and give it while u ask them a question
    4 bcome friends by asking a favour, they think they like u bcos she does a favour to u
    3 important meetings in the end or beginning of the day.
    2 direction of feet who u like, intetested, feet in different directions means want to leave
    1 copy body language, smile sincere good news, frown by bad news

  • @TextualArts
    @TextualArts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I actually did not yawn. I don't like being told what I'm going to do next.

  • @christianbucal6933
    @christianbucal6933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think the chewing thing is also responsible for stress eating.

  • @ComfortLining
    @ComfortLining 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have a issue where I grind my teeth real bad all the time. Doesn't matter what I'm doing. It's obvious that my subconscious knows something I do not

    • @zebedeesummers4413
      @zebedeesummers4413 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I suggest chewing gum to aid in not destroying your teeth.

  • @10231898
    @10231898 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very enjoyable ... No objections anywhere ... The drawings are certainly professional (takes a lot of practice to draw like this) totally appreciated.

  • @xristos19971997
    @xristos19971997 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'll surely do the mirror trick. seems legit. Although my favorite is to mimic body language of people im talking to as im doing it for years and its working very well...

  • @kristy89523
    @kristy89523 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've tried the ask someone for help thing to make friends.. I'll be like Hey do u know how to do so and so I can't figure it out, hey do u know where the so and so is?, that looks like great quality how did u find it? I even ask questions for the things I know the answer to just so they feel like I look up to them or think their smart. I'll do that to make friends and even change the opinion of someone I didn't like so I could be around them at school and not be grounded by hatred. I didn't know this was a psychological tip it just works for me I thought I made it up? Everyone hated this kid in class so I asked a him where to get a MacBook cuz I needed one but he had a PC and I knew that but he was more than happy to help that's when I formulated my own opinion that he was pretty cool.

  • @SlowMotionFight99
    @SlowMotionFight99 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    When ever I am in an exam and want to cheat but I feel like the teacher is looking at me I yown then look at the teacher from the corner of my eye and check if he/she will yown back

    • @kaushikpandya1134
      @kaushikpandya1134 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SlowMotionFight99, thnks for giving the idea😊

  • @mohammedhisham6254
    @mohammedhisham6254 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey bright side. Can you make a video on how to stand while waiting for someone in public?

    • @DiogoChris
      @DiogoChris 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. It was always sort of awkward standing and waiting for someone in public.

    • @androidlast3329
      @androidlast3329 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Try to act like you are waiting for someone. You are welcome

  • @staceysoap3624
    @staceysoap3624 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    About half the video is missing audio. I've seen others post this, but it has not been fixed.

  • @khurshidalom9408
    @khurshidalom9408 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video taught me that I have to use my mind to remember all these things while I talks to other person. And It will never give me a chance to think those thing that the person says to me.I can't live like this. I want to stay as I am.

  • @Yosh6400
    @Yosh6400 6 ปีที่แล้ว +705

    Simulation inside a simulation inside a simulation....

    • @Joshpmat1234
      @Joshpmat1234 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      TheYoshinator 64 Rick and morty fan?

    • @Yosh6400
      @Yosh6400 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup

    • @codyclickbait5443
      @codyclickbait5443 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh my god, Rick ... how dumb are you!?
      If you need a quick fix: th-cam.com/video/l0k92RSxYq0/w-d-xo.html

    • @ricksanchez5164
      @ricksanchez5164 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      HEY!!

    • @Yosh6400
      @Yosh6400 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🎶is it me you're looking fooooor??🎶

  • @jomygeorge1287
    @jomygeorge1287 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yawning and 6:22 both works ...I have been fooled too many times...😅

  • @sandyo2943
    @sandyo2943 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I have experienced the foot direction one..sometimes we do tge same thing..

  • @MarkettaWalker
    @MarkettaWalker 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm definitely a person who always smiles.. It's always been my way to cheer myself up when I'm feeling the blues.

  • @olstone878
    @olstone878 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Orinology words of wisdom. Pay attention to what your paying attention to.

  • @paytonmajestynoscopes
    @paytonmajestynoscopes 6 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    The title of this video should be "How to take advantage of people by being fake"

    • @wildgolemlord8337
      @wildgolemlord8337 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you both have a point

    • @coltonmartinez1824
      @coltonmartinez1824 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Man I'm in highschool and I'm a loner man u have no idea how many people are fake it happens way more than u think that's why I have a thing for genuine people lol but I have only 2 friends I would call friends

    • @cezararvelo2262
      @cezararvelo2262 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bad way of looking at it. Everyone is playing the game, it's all about how well you play it.

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      These tips don't have anything to do with how fake or genuine you are. Can be an honest, genuine person, and still look at someone in a laughing group of people, or look at the direction of a persons feet? I think what upsets you is that you don't like the idea of being analyzed like that - and most people don't.

    • @coolness-vt4mu
      @coolness-vt4mu 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cezar Arvelo Nope. Not everyone is playing these petty, immature games.

  • @rosemarywilliams9969
    @rosemarywilliams9969 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    i use the starring one on my boss to cut thru the bs excuses i get.

    • @assmaasadek5330
      @assmaasadek5330 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rosemwqary Williams t فأغلب عمران ي عمران 295' 9 @ Gmail p9

    • @akshaybhavle6597
      @akshaybhavle6597 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rosemary William

  • @YavuzSelimIsler
    @YavuzSelimIsler 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jack and Rose at 05:00.

  • @KevinBeal
    @KevinBeal 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've used the foot direction and mirroring tricks for a long time to what appears to be personal gain, but which may actually just be a confirmation bias or simply the effects of the focus and confidence such considerations offer. In which case, it is still helpful.

  • @Time364
    @Time364 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good advice for the psychopath. My brother is a pathological narcissist, he watched this type of videos a lot and I always see him when he takes advantage of people.

  • @hiraarshad5702
    @hiraarshad5702 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I know these tips because i am student of psychology.
    By the way Nice video 👍

    • @StKim-px3oq
      @StKim-px3oq 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hira as

    • @_101__s._.3
      @_101__s._.3 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hira Arshad idk you but you are a narcissists

    • @obscenequeenbee
      @obscenequeenbee 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hira Arshad dvsfdftf

  • @mickkennedy1344
    @mickkennedy1344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "..The fighting passengers chilled out, then they both punched the guy eating the Pringles.."

  • @raphazard8737
    @raphazard8737 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    WOW GREAT BACKGROUND MUSIC

  • @mikassorandom
    @mikassorandom 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad I watched this!! I start my new job Monday, these tips will come in handy!

  • @MillennialTravelConfessions
    @MillennialTravelConfessions 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Planning on testing out Number 5! Changing rubbish bins will never be easier! :D

  • @hallelujahhosanna4144
    @hallelujahhosanna4144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    why did you mute the most important place of this video ?

  • @Omegas88
    @Omegas88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    Who else yawned?

    • @zhafri8167
      @zhafri8167 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i yawned at the end of the video.
      btw it 3:36am now

    • @debbxo
      @debbxo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      XO God XO'TWOD ❤

    • @Omegas88
      @Omegas88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Debbie absolutely!!! Yes!!

    • @nischalmaharjan3098
      @nischalmaharjan3098 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yawned after reading your comment lol😂😂

    • @mavendeo
      @mavendeo 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Say "Me, too." It works. Try it.

  • @waynedoo7442
    @waynedoo7442 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    is this based zeus?

  • @TseringKunga
    @TseringKunga 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asking small request, laughing at close one, yawning for finding out who is looking, I like most of you said but I have experienced above four. Thanks for the useful and informative video.

  • @subtletiger
    @subtletiger 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The artwork is amazing. Nice work.

  • @ContinualImprovement
    @ContinualImprovement 6 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    My wife already knows these 😂

    • @zerosternritter566
      @zerosternritter566 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Continual Improvement who do you think taught your wife these tricks ?

    • @henryriehl2058
      @henryriehl2058 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Continual Improvement nice try mate ....

    • @Epsillion70
      @Epsillion70 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My French wife knew that I knew so much so that she knew and so she packed her bags and flew out of the country back to France....

    • @nicolenewsome4863
      @nicolenewsome4863 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Edward Celtic Bear are you two still together?

    • @Epsillion70
      @Epsillion70 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nicole Newsome no she left me over 1/1/2 years ago and never came back.

  • @justinreyez5561
    @justinreyez5561 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I remember watching that video about the guy eating in between those people fighting and why it worked. so I was strolling downtown with my guitar on my back one night with a buddy and these guys were fighting by the bars people egging them on and I walked right between them and started playing. totally diffused the situation

  • @menopassini9348
    @menopassini9348 6 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Then why is there fighting around the dinner table?

  • @suhasprasad7718
    @suhasprasad7718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    11. Chewing reduces anxiety.
    9. Pretend your interviewer is an old friend. Remember he is under pressure as well.

  • @ShadySoldier222
    @ShadySoldier222 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I actually do the chewing thing & I did not even relise that it was for comfort. Sometimes when I'm out and I don't have any gum, I just pretend to have gum in my mouth & do the chewing as if I had a peace of gum in my mouth. It weirdly enough works as you say, I just feel a but less stressed. Great little Video ✌