"Hey loan me some money" "No" Proceeds to call the person they're trying to get money from names..... So, I'm just wondering, does insulting somebody ever get then to change their mind?
Exactly 💯 It just shows how much of a cowardly, weak, jelly spined doormat they truly are. That type of behavior should never be rewarded with sympathy and should be mocked to the point of utter embarrassment. Because at that point, they're not even victims anymore. They're just idiots...SMH
How can this OP say she always thought her parents would always have her back, after she whined about the favouritism and how they never had her back growing up. It can’t be both.
these parents are the worst in all of reddit history no doubt she got assasulted physically and parents and relative took johnathon side is crazy also op should file a lawsuit and get arestraing order
I don't understand how people can be crapped on over and over, and then wondering if they're the ah for finally standing up for themselves. Tell them to duck off and then go on to live your best life.
Why is it that the sister is expected to spoil the brother because their parents have been bad at managing their money? If they wanted 15 k there’s 2 sets of parents so they could get their wallets out for their bs.
Don’t trust Jonathan or their parents - and you’re a doormat dump those folks they will never recognize you as family - sometimes friends are better family than the bio group
Johnathan literally physically attacked OP & she still wants to be BFF’s with him??? Make it make sense. Dude was more than willing to harm you if your Uncle never stepped in.
That's because she's been whipped into being submissive to her toxic family. Besides I don't see any support system for OP and unless someone gives OP a wake up call.
@@rogueshark23 I agree with you honestly but man that one just for me was hard to listen too and was sitting feeling sad for and pissed at the Op at the same time.
You pay what you can pay. No one owes you a wedding, college, etc. Entitled people need to be pushed out of people's lives. Money brings out the monster in people.
I was skeptical about it until he started calling her names + if you thinks "some of us want to start a family" means more hard work from YOUR end of the deal and NOT exploiting others 😑
Seriously why even try with those people. She should be total NC with the parents. Jonathan is also a victim of those horrible parents. She should just pull all the way back with her parents. They bring nothing positive to her life.
So Johnny boy has no ambitions because his dreams of playing in the NFL were squash and besides he had a low chance of going pro no matter how skilled he is. Even if he makes it an football players career is only 3-4 years that is if he doesn't suffer a permanent injury. So Johnny boy has been mooching off his ex snd yet complains of her being materialistic at least she has more ambitions than he does.
you dont owe your family your financials. your family needs to stay in there lane and if your bro does get married or anyone else your bank acct is yours not theres and you are not obligated to pay anyone else's financial obligations
I've always been my family's peace keeper it's not an wait job and I think you choose the right him to die on to not uphold the peace. After everything he's said and done he lost the privilege to ask for a favor and his parents give minimum respect it affection at all.
Make a contract that if you loan him the money, he needs to pay it back or that when you get married he has to give you the same amount! If he doesn't you now have a contract to take him to court!
You can't get something from nothing. If he had good credit and collateral he would be able to get a bank loan. He didn't, therefore ask family, because how will they get the money back when, not if, you don't pay him back.
The OP's decision to live her life as she seems it fit is her choice and it should be respected but it's her decision to change it big time plus she was better off having a backbone by calling out her parents on the blatant favoritism that was displayed by them onto their children from the time they were kids up to now, so maybe the parents should be reminded of that reality instead of blaming their daughter for not doing the right thing and support financially for a wedding that was beyond over the top for sure, so in the end the parents should pay attention to their unkempt parenting skills and not about the wedding not taking place and quit being so difficult to pay attention to what's important and what isn't period.
How I haven't. She not cut off their parents yet like they treat her like shit and she just sucks it up and yaps " I need to communicate better with them so that they can understand how I feel" like they only see you in a negative like, she should stop wasting her time
It feels like OP loves suffering. Her worthless brother insulted her, assaulted her, but when his relationship comes apart, she rushes to comfort him. No wonder the familty had expectations for her to chip in for wedding expenses - she sets herself up easily.
Stories like this annoy the shit out of me. While I understand wanting & craving unconditional love of your family but after emotional blackmail, mental abuse, favoritism, being looked at as an atm & finally physical abuse and still Op is still looking for and wanting that love & acceptance from these horrible people? Op is better then I’ll ever be and I’m a practicing Buddhist
You had a more or less identical story before. Older sister but same thing. Turned family against you etc. Even they amount was the same 15K. You need to mix up your chatGPT prompts I reckon.
these stories always make me far more frustrated and unsympathetic to the op. if your brother attacks you and almost all your family still takes his side its time to take up the orphan lifestyle.
Was buying the story until I heard that they sent him to a private school out of state for football when they were in Ohio.... Either this is AI or the parents were dumber than a box of rocks when the "flagship" state school is right there where they are.
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"Hey loan me some money"
"No"
Proceeds to call the person they're trying to get money from names.....
So, I'm just wondering, does insulting somebody ever get then to change their mind?
Fr, the stupidity to think that insults would help get their way then become more furious when they don't get that result.
Good question,I think the answer will always be, No.
Only if there's validity to them, I've insulted a few ex friends into being better people far fuckin away from me
@@jayking2228not the same thing.
It honestly pisses me off how much people stay connected to toxic people for no other reason than "family"
Grow a fucking spine
Exactly 💯
It just shows how much of a cowardly, weak, jelly spined doormat they truly are.
That type of behavior should never be rewarded with sympathy and should be mocked to the point of utter embarrassment.
Because at that point, they're not even victims anymore.
They're just idiots...SMH
In my mind, I've "liked" this comment 1000 times.
It's because they've gotten use to it and can't tell the difference between normal and abnormal.
@@Y0ur_ev1l_tw1n grooming? Brainwashing? Either/or? Both? Who knows?
exactly man. she says my mom keeps guilt tripping me. then why does she keep picking up her calls and letting her into her house?
Wait wait isn't the bride side of the family supposed to come up with the wedding funds. Rich gf is a big lie
How can this OP say she always thought her parents would always have her back, after she whined about the favouritism and how they never had her back growing up. It can’t be both.
@@Mop222 Came on here to say just this, smdh.
AI doesn't know how the world works.
I mean they aren't obligated to pay but I mean I think they should chip in
In some cultures the wedding budget belongs to the groom's family.
these parents are the worst in all of reddit history no doubt she got assasulted physically and parents and relative took johnathon side is crazy also op should file a lawsuit and get arestraing order
These are AI generated stories.
Too bad op is a spineless doormat that love for her parents and POS brother to walk all over her.
@@MCBRUCE76sometimes you can tell AI stories
I don't understand how people can be crapped on over and over, and then wondering if they're the ah for finally standing up for themselves. Tell them to duck off and then go on to live your best life.
Never ‘loan’ family money. You’ll never see it.
Hell no don't contribute you are right OP your brother is using you as an ATM.
4:14 "15,000 is a lot of money, more than ive spent on my entire wardrobe over the last 5 years" fuuuck, id hope so
Why is it that the sister is expected to spoil the brother because their parents have been bad at managing their money? If they wanted 15 k there’s 2 sets of parents so they could get their wallets out for their bs.
DO NOT EVER TELL MONEY CENTRIC PEOPLE ANYTHING ABOUT HOW MUCH YOU EARN, SAVE, OR SPEND.
Don’t trust Jonathan or their parents - and you’re a doormat dump those folks they will never recognize you as family - sometimes friends are better family than the bio group
You should've called the police and reported the assault
AIs can't report assault
@@artosstark9076😅
@@artosstark9076 what does Als mean?
@@cathyjolivet what does Als mean?
Story 1: Do not reconcile with the brother; he made his bed and he can sleep in it! Go no contact with him and those who agreed with your brother!
Oh no, being disinvited to
another wedding. What a threat?
Op basically lacks a backbone
Op should have confronted her parents
Johnathan literally physically attacked OP & she still wants to be BFF’s with him??? Make it make sense. Dude was more than willing to harm you if your Uncle never stepped in.
My god I can't stand this Op at all. She has no spine and reached out like a good little doormat.
That's because she's been whipped into being submissive to her toxic family. Besides I don't see any support system for OP and unless someone gives OP a wake up call.
@@rogueshark23 I agree with you honestly but man that one just for me was hard to listen too and was sitting feeling sad for and pissed at the Op at the same time.
@@jaycehoward2771Real
You pay what you can pay. No one owes you a wedding, college, etc. Entitled people need to be pushed out of people's lives. Money brings out the monster in people.
I despise the parents!
I wonder if the AI is programed to pepper in the phrase “cautiously optimistic” in every vid lol
Yep, and these same phrases pop up in every story, no matter the subject of the story.
I get the "do it for Dan" feeling 😂
I was skeptical about it until he started calling her names + if you thinks "some of us want to start a family" means more hard work from YOUR end of the deal and NOT exploiting others 😑
Seriously why even try with those people. She should be total NC with the parents. Jonathan is also a victim of those horrible parents. She should just pull all the way back with her parents. They bring nothing positive to her life.
So Johnny boy has no ambitions because his dreams of playing in the NFL were squash and besides he had a low chance of going pro no matter how skilled he is. Even if he makes it an football players career is only 3-4 years that is if he doesn't suffer a permanent injury. So Johnny boy has been mooching off his ex snd yet complains of her being materialistic at least she has more ambitions than he does.
I swear,OP parents think their life is a sitcom
Mommy and Daddy have no idea what love is, unless it involves cold hard cash.
I'm glad Jonathan came around and they finally made a truly lasting peace.
Why is he paying for the wedding anyway?
An absolute doormat.
Walk away from this toxicity. It’s not worth your happiness and safety.
A story which only AI's could cherish about.
She comes from Southern Ohio, but tells us about an Asian story and culture, was funny enough for me.
Did your feelings ever really matter to your relatives? They're just money grabbing hypocrites
Op such a doormatt.
Your brother didn't come crawling back. You called him.. what does op mean by being more open about her finances with family. 😂😂
Your parents are the first in line who are responsible for your brother wedding dream being crunched. He stands just behind.
you dont owe your family your financials. your family needs to stay in there lane and if your bro does get married or anyone else your bank acct is yours not theres and you are not obligated to pay anyone else's financial obligations
These „do it for Dan“ vibes!
Call the police post on social media it will ruin their rep especially your brother
It’s too bad OP doesn’t have a backbone
Stop being a doormat!
Story 1: You should never have reached out; he is reaping what he sowed by the wedding being called off!
so he shoved you, and you took it............................
Those parents are just monsters.
Reasons like this are the reason I want a small church wedding or just to elope.
I've always been my family's peace keeper it's not an wait job and I think you choose the right him to die on to not uphold the peace.
After everything he's said and done he lost the privilege to ask for a favor and his parents give minimum respect it affection at all.
I dont understand why OP didnt even discuss with her parents the preferential treatmemt jonathan received from the parents. Shes a doormat
Stand your ground and skip the wedding. Take a trip instead.
Give them 15 sense😂😂😂😂😂 because if they don't think it's a big deal 15 grand
Op is such a doormat 🤦🏾♀️
It took me a while to figure out these were Asian stories. No way Becky or Shaniqua would have let him push them and just leave😅
Make a contract that if you loan him the money, he needs to pay it back or that when you get married he has to give you the same amount! If he doesn't you now have a contract to take him to court!
You can't get something from nothing. If he had good credit and collateral he would be able to get a bank loan. He didn't, therefore ask family, because how will they get the money back when, not if, you don't pay him back.
"cautiously optimistic" just how many times u wanna use this word??
its their wedding its no one elses job to fund it
op is a weak person she wants to forgive her brother and blame her self she is very weak spined unlike other op espically do it for dan
Why even still be in contact with her parents let alone her parents? Makes no sense to me
@@chrismccloskey2502 fr
I would've gone NC with everybody, especially the brother after shoving me into a table.
@@coolbeans3752 agrees
What is with AI and doormat.
Op could have clearly stated " Fine pay my student loan I will pay for the marriage"
Easy as that.
The OP's decision to live her life as she seems it fit is her choice and it should be respected but it's her decision to change it big time plus she was better off having a backbone by calling out her parents on the blatant favoritism that was displayed by them onto their children from the time they were kids up to now, so maybe the parents should be reminded of that reality instead of blaming their daughter for not doing the right thing and support financially for a wedding that was beyond over the top for sure, so in the end the parents should pay attention to their unkempt parenting skills and not about the wedding not taking place and quit being so difficult to pay attention to what's important and what isn't period.
Your parents raised your brother to entitled, selfish, and irresponsible. Don't it at all.
How I haven't. She not cut off their parents yet like they treat her like shit and she just sucks it up and yaps " I need to communicate better with them so that they can understand how I feel" like they only see you in a negative like, she should stop wasting her time
Is it wrong to hope that her cousin and other supportive relatives start hosting events family events without Johnathan his girlfriend and his parents
I feel like the answer is clear.
It feels like OP loves suffering. Her worthless brother insulted her, assaulted her, but when his relationship comes apart, she rushes to comfort him. No wonder the familty had expectations for her to chip in for wedding expenses - she sets herself up easily.
Stories like this annoy the shit out of me. While I understand wanting & craving unconditional love of your family but after emotional blackmail, mental abuse, favoritism, being looked at as an atm & finally physical abuse and still Op is still looking for and wanting that love & acceptance from these horrible people? Op is better then I’ll ever be and I’m a practicing Buddhist
Not better, stupider.
You had a more or less identical story before. Older sister but same thing. Turned family against you etc. Even they amount was the same 15K. You need to mix up your chatGPT prompts I reckon.
Wait why would you pay???
Honestly stop reaching out to family that's not family
Doormat...smh
are all ops in stories weak willed and soft hearted
these stories always make me far more frustrated and unsympathetic to the op. if your brother attacks you and almost all your family still takes his side its time to take up the orphan lifestyle.
I'm slowly realizing these stories are fairy tales
Was buying the story until I heard that they sent him to a private school out of state for football when they were in Ohio.... Either this is AI or the parents were dumber than a box of rocks when the "flagship" state school is right there where they are.
All these people......
F the cautiously optimistic