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Nikki Glaser Talks Sex (Or Lack Thereof) & Codependency | Ep 39
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ค. 2020
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Whitney and Nikki talk about sex (or lack thereof), relationships, and codependency.
Check out Bangin' on Netflix and the You Up podcast with Nikki Glaser!
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This podcast is basically what happens in the women's restroom at bars on a Friday night after 11pm.
I miss bars.
😆
OmG!!!!! As a woman.....confirmed;!!
Same i miss it too. Its one of the things in sober life that im like awww not happening anymore
exactly!
Listen to Post Malone... He got mad bars
I saw a thing recently where you switch all of your “I’m sorry” phrases to “thank you” phrases.
So instead of saying “I’m sorry for being late” you can say “thank you for being patient and waiting for me.” How great is that!
No joke, that's brilliant, thanks.
Yes
Theo Von should be in the middle just staring at them.
Rabby criminally undervoted comment.
he needs to be high for it as well. He's only allowed to communicate via eyebrow raises and smirks
Playing spin the bottle with these two
The whole time he just looks uncomfortable saying "oh my... GAWWWwwdd... Bro.."
Mailbox
My two FAVORITE women comedians. This is like when the ninja turtles were on power rangers
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RexNovem na...I had it right the first time. I have favorite women comedians and favorite male comedians.
These are my 2 favorite women comedians
@@LynnJrMusic Hahahhahahahahahhaha
😂😂😂
Ah to be a millennial! Haha
The highest-low self esteem Queens in the game. I might OD from the amount of self sabotage in this one.. but it's worth the risk :D
Isvvx Their game is base on it, at least they turned it out in $$ but still undatable
So cringe I had to click. Wonder how long I make it b4 I go outside to smoke.
@@likearollingstone007 But are they f***able? I'd say YES. These girls sound like they'd be great in the sack
If these two were lesbians it would be the most fascinating relationship of all time.
That would be crazy they would be in competition with each other in the bedroom lol.
You mean hottest... I think you meant hottest
@@nickthomas6475 lmaooo who cleans the taco the quickest
Omg seriously. I feel like it be so intense and beautiful for a bit and then end in a huge public breakup. Glad they’re platonic honestly cause their energy together is so good.
That's interesting... When I think of them being lesbians I'm not thinking about how their romantic relationship would play out.
I think this is the most genuine and honest I've ever seen Nikki and she's known for holding nothing back.
“The amount of time I have lost trying to get the approval of men” 😭👏👏 yay. I could cry about it too... wish I could have a re-do
Read this as she said it verbatim, weird.
Single and smart?
@@treylyde999 whose fault is that though ?
Can this be a weekly talk? Like Tom and Bert. I would pay for that.
Two Girls One Pod?
Agreed this was awesome!
100% I would love that plus Taylor
Live Sound Reichenberger they don drink 64oz of kool-aid a day, so no.😉
@@ozzycalle also they are not racist. Don't get me started on dogs!!!
"We only attract people who are as healthy as we are"... yup, that explains a lot XD
For sure 3 weeks in to knowing every woman i meet ” ooooh you also hate yourself me too babe”
@Whut Now! can't tell if this is sarcasm or a genuine question. Just in case: she's talking about mental health, not physical
I once had a fat man constantly tell me I should go for far girls, until said he's not cool with a woman fatter than him. I told him that's the way I feel about it, I not comfortable with a woman bigger than me. He was dumbstruck, "but you're not fat?" He said. Am I wrong being attracted to women roughly within my general level of fitness?
Steven Williams I couldn’t be comfortable with a man smaller than me. It’s anthropologically incorrect.
@@susie7336 all the more reason I'm not comfortable with a woman bigger than me.
JESUS THIS WAS SO GOOD! I could listen to raw talks like this all day.
Emily Delgado I get it, but it wasn’t much for guys today
My two favorite female comedians! And they couldn't be more relatable. Love these two. 💕
"All of my friends got cancelled" R.I.P Chris Delia 2020
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Chris d’Eleted.
Swann ‘Chris D’leted’ omg 10/10!!!
Rip
You mean Chris De-leted?
it's like when you were a kid and your mom ran into a friend at the store.
Dude.. these two women are so beautiful and it's cool that they're a part of the comedy world. Nikki is absolutely flawless in my eyes.
This podcast is the EPITOME of what it's like to be a woman and to have female friendships. Some of it was actually super validating to me (especially their conversation about being afraid of sex/men and not always enjoying sex, but feeling obligated to). It was nice to hear that other women have similar feelings about this. Very randomly ended up becoming a really fascinating conversation, lol
This podcast could have been 3 hrs long my two favorites (love how much they’ve grown and that they talk about working on themselves)
Same!! I was freaking stoked to see these 2 talking to each other 😁
🤣
I was going to say the same thing. This was podcast heaven.
U two are killers on ur own, but together= a force to be reckoned with!!!
Whitney is Flo from the Progressive commercial on tv.?I love her work
This was like watching two podcasts. Whitney is interviewing Nicki...then suddenly Nicki is interviewing Whitney. Good work
@@TheTrouserPuppetsOfficial My mistake
the goosebumps are happening!!!! the honesty and love between these two women is so beautiful to watch. I'm on minute 16 and I don't ever want this to end.
these two absolutely need to do more together. The way they talk as a duo and the things they talk about are so good.
Two introverted extroverts in a basement being unintentionally intentionally hilarious about the fact that parenting in the 90s was just that bad and turned out way too many insecure women.
Christine Herrmann Can you imagine what kind of women the little snowflakes of today will be...will their be legit comedians by then ?
Like a complete unknown / Like a rolling stone hopefully the women of the future will know the difference between their and there.
Bro, when they were talking about how they feel so insecure that lying about "something their ticked off about that their partner in crime is doing just so they wouldn't get on his bad side and have him say shit to you, in order to get back at u" that's insane. If any person does that to you! You fucking kick that person out of your life. {==Wait I wrote this with hate in my heart. Maybe you can talk it out and ask them why they had that kind of reaction. Idk maaaaan.
@@hrdlxs I read Cummings' book and stan'd all the stuff on narcissists so hard. I'm 4 years out of the worst relationship debacle of my life and her book really goes over all the stuff you go through trying to love yourself enough to tell them to f*ck off.
introverted extrovert? you mean a *human being* ??
Really enjoy the energy between Whitney and Nikki. Would love to see them host a podcast together!
Honest “girl talk”. It makes me more open as a man. We need to hear this. You’re both so beautiful in your lives and selves. Please, as best you can, be yourself. You are both so special. It exudes....
This may be the most pathetic thing I've ever read
Finnook
@@bryangomez1887
🤣🤣🤣
@@bryangomez1887 HAHAHA, damn :D
They're so similar to each other yet so different. Love em both.
I have been waiting so long for this. My last 3 wishes are Chelsea Peretti, Rachel Feinstei and Nate Bargatze.
KRob314to636 NATE BARGATZE ON THIS YES. Wanda Sykes too.
KRob314to636 Theo Von before all these guys bud
Dan Rhodes Nah
47:00 that resonates with me haha. A few years ago I would hit my leg on a chair and I would unconsciously say sorry. To a chair. An inanimate object. That's when I decided to start working on myself LOL
good for you. that is a moment of awareness
I absolutely love what Whitney brings to the table especially to women.... I hope Nikki will truly feel how beautiful she is.... Love them both!!
This podcast was a perfect example of how a women's brain never stops thinking.
And their mouths never stop moving
@@brandonlantier lol. It is a podcast but I understand what you mean. :)
@@Fabi_87 I love them both but they're trauma bonding so hard. Nikki needs direction and love so much and Whitney loves being knowledgeable about therapy topics (which she is) but it was kind of overwhelming in this one
@@Fabi_87 oh 110% yes. I cant watch her pre-haircut. She tried wayy too hard.
@@nickbargas7352 Yeah I cant listen to Whitney drone on about her insecurities and all the blah blah blah we have heard it a million times and get her and Nikki together and oh shit is it a who is damaged more contest, I tried to watch the pod with Esther but Whitney wouldn't shut the fuck up long enough for her to finish a sentence, like why even have the girl on if you just going to keep cutting her off?
Thank you ladies. That was excellent to see two great minds come together like that. I had a great time. And...to Nikki, the guy on the plane never thought in a million years that you would be single or flirting with him. He had no clue. I'm sure the fodder you took from that experience will come out in your brilliance at some point. Blessings to you both.
These two should have a weekly podcast, I’d never stop listening
Tip 1: date outside of LA and NYC, Tip 2: learn to love and respect yourself. Tip 3: Enjoy being alone and learn how to make yourself happy.
I genuinely love how open and honest you are, and how you are able to get your guest to open up!
This podcast is an interesting insight into the female brain. I’m terrified.
No, some of us have figured our issues out, and treat people, and men with respect. I don’t act like a child; I really try hard to not cause any bs- but I own up to it when I do. I’m not a cheater nor a liar. I’m all about respect. No time for drama and games, don’t fuck with social media, I stay in my own lane. I’m aware no one gives a fuck what I had for lunch, or cares about my yoga class. I’m learning to love myself, so I can be better to love someone else. We’re not all deranged.
I promise. But we need all kinds of people to make the world go round. ❤️💋 just spread love either way
Leave pls
yes! The "Lets find a problem to any solution women"
clearstatement “overthinking over analyzing separates the body from the mind” - Tool
The Only's yes and that happens because women are supposed to get birth to baby. When they do they release all this energy that makes them go crazy, overthink and all this.
Whitney, Nikki & Taylor. The supernova trifecta of comedy. Brutally honest twisted sisters. We all are twisted, mostly mean. In denial. Emotionally dangerous. You 3 spotlight our dark places in good spirited delightful ways, it gives us hope. Thanks.
I cannot stop smiling. I love these two so so much. They are my favorite comedians. This is comedic gold.
I love how deep/high thoughts this got! The things you girls said hit me hard and helped me think through some truths.
I love Nikki so much, and she’s such a talented comedian.
From a guy's perspective on Nikki's airplane story, if someone as hot and famous as her talked to me for 2 hours on an airplane, it would never even enter in to my head to think she was in to me. I would just be thinking "wow she's super nice and down to earth, what a cool person".
Sean Connaughton But, Sean, it is sad to say, you are not the standard representation of all men everywhere. Boy do I wish that was the norm. Thankfully we have Seans out there. Thanks, bro
i.e.presents u came to this generalisation how? Hv u spoke to most men u come in contact with?
But we all know if we tell a lot of our friends this story (that Nikki talked to us for two hours) - “dude! she was into you! why didn’t you get a number!”
Why am i only discovering these youtube gems only now??? This is by far my favorite colab ever! The honesty in this podcast is so uplifting, and relatable. Ladies you're both gorgeous, brilliant and talented. Much love for both of you.
this podcast humbles and humanizes me often. bless u and ur blue eyeliner.
Love all these podcasts so much. Just a request, would y’all be willing to list the books mentioned in the description? It’ll be helpful to reference later. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Two people on adderal. Engaged!
Allan Walker Or, just genuinely excited to spend time together...it does happen apart from chemicals. #truestory
@@i.e.presents638 yeah , your right. I was being assumptious and judgmental .probably should have not said anything. I just came off as a jerk.
literally eyes popping out of their skulls lol its hilarious how tuned up they both are.
Whitney seems like it for sure.
You're probably right though. I enjoyed this and love them both, but I had to take a couple of breaks. They seem pretty wired.
I love the longer podcasts! Don't feel the need to rush. The Kat Dennings one is my favorite and it's four hours long
This has been my fave episode so far. So relatable. Not being obsessed is also my new high.
This is the first podcast I’ve watched of yours and everything you are saying is resonating with me so much because I was also raised very male centered! I’m so glad I found a good new role model❤️
Whitney said she likes to “trauma-bond” with people. Where has that phrase been all my life.
In every damn episode 🙄 she needs to find a new term it's gotten that bad.
She needs to stop playing therapist lol. Both of them are so overtly self aware, it comes off as self absorbed and contrived. I like them but it's very woke white woman lol
Yeah she’s been saying that phrase for years lol
In most 12 step programs.
Haha I thought the exact same thing when I heard that
A spin-off podcast with the two of you interviewing other women would be fantastic. Together you have a relaxing flow of conversation. I am only half way done with this episode and already want another one.
relaxing? it was like a runaway train. both are TUNED UP on stimulants and just keep complimenting eachother and fake agreeing back and forth. this is stressful and i am only 10 minutes in. and nikki really needs to stop saying girl.
@@mrsir1872Lol what makes you think they were high? They're just feeding off of each other's energy. This is just how a lot of women talk with their friends.
Podcasts like this have been my saving grace during lockdown. Two of the funniest people on the planet just talking! Thank you.
“That was actually a really smart idea”
“I mean hey it worked, I was proposed to by many men in my 20’s”
😂😂😂😂😂😂
See how that worked out lol fake engaagments mean shit
This is just what I needed 😭❤️ I LOVE YOU WHITTTTTT❕
My two favourite women in comedy...I listened to the whole podcast in one sitting. Loved it!!!
This was so wholesome in that we are all imperfect and women can be so cute towards each other 🥺
This podcast just singlehandedly captured the insanity of women and their friendships and I both loved it and was uncomfortable by it.
The Thumbnail alone I knew it was going to be fake a cringey, weird as fuck.
I had to stop listening after 5 mins of "are we friends? how close are we? should we be closer? can i be your friend?"
5 minutes in and this was the only comment I needed to see lol
It’s more just like jaded people in general believe they have the whole world figured out and it’s annoying lol But the way they talk about themselves and relationships gets me nauseous, it’s too much.. I feel like they try too hard to be relatable 🤷🏻♀️
I've never talked with a friend like this my entire life.
I can’t tell if they are genuine or if this is how LA girls talk to each other. 😎
Truth Street Definetly LA stuff
Nikki was born in Ohio and grew up in Kansas and lives in NY. She's not a CA girl.
I want to believe Whitney is genuine. But I have no clue why she took down the Bryan callen episode after the Delia incident. Been bugging me since.
And now we know why.
DUDE "i got attention only when i was sick" is so helpful!
I absolutely adore these two! Finally Nikki is on GFY! I have chronic anhedonia and no one ever knows what it is. It was so good to hear Whitney explain it and bring attention to it. 💜 Whitney 💜 Nikki and 💜 Taylor (off screen)
This whole episode was the Spider-Man meme and I don’t know how to feel about it
Underrated comment
As soon as I saw the title I thought, "Wow, I'm not watching that, but I bet the comments are good."
Should name this podcast Crazy Auntics
Killer.
Just call it Cool Wine Aunts.
Heeehee
Omgggg! Whitney & Nikki!!! My life is complete! My two favorite comedians! 👏🏼😩😍
Came for the crazy. Wasn't disappointed.
I feel like i just went to the most intense therapy sesh but in a good way? haha does everyone get what im saying hahahh
These two are talking to each other like two black dudes who haven't seen each other in a while.
"I'm tryna get like youu!!"
"Nahhh bruh, I'm tryna get like youuuu!"
Lmao 🤣
Hilarious
love this combo...both their most recent specials were badass, and they have such great chemistry.
This podcast is always so much fun. Good on you Whitney for creating such a interesting space
They both had great guest monolgues for jimmy kimmel.
OOOOOOOooooooppppsie no they didnt!
Wendell Smallwood go back to your special education class and remember to color in the lines.
They did better than Kimmel if that's what you mean. Dead air would've been better than all three.
Muximus That’s exactly what i mean. Their guest monologues were better than a lot of jimmy’s by a mile.
i think both of these girls could find a partner that will truly love them but they both like the type of guys that won't ever like them because the idea of winning them over is way more exciting than just dating someone who is ready to love them. Ok that's just me projecting but I wonder if Nikki and Whitney are also like me a little bit.
jesus christ, I'm like literally four minutes in and smiling and laughing my ass off. Nikki Glaser is such a wonderful dynamic here XD
Thank u beautiful ladies, some of the top content I've heard since the quar. My comment is ditto ditto,ditto ,I identified with so much & it lifted my depression Grateful 2 ya'll. CC from Colorado. #1 fan of both of u.
Didn't know I needed this untill I actually saw this on my feed
they're the wonder twins of being beautiful and not believing it.
This is women supporting women. This. Not that self-serving, virtue-signaling black-and-white filtered photo instagram challenge.
Yeah, actually talking things through. What men consider to be arguing.🙄
Exactly. I was just thinking that if men would feel free to communicate their pain like this, it just may end war. It's always been so frustrating to me as a gay man because I don't have that shame of expressing emotion, but none of my straight male friends would even know how to take the first 5 minutes of this confessional healing. It's so sad to see the veins pop out on their foreheads because they literally have no map for acknowledging or describing their feelings, so if they're even able to subconsciously somehow release it, the result is almost always destructive.
this is the realest i think ive heard Nikki ever. and she gets Whitney to open up in ways i havent heard before. seriously thanks
OMG I'm really excited about this one!!
Same!
Two of the most intelligent and hilarious women in a room together. This made my day.
O M G ~ I didn’t know this podcast interview existed!! Love you gals. Thanks for being so much fun, honest and of course hilarious. 😇🥰❤️📵
Totally relate to what Whitney was saying around 46:00 about how she can feel around other women, needing to over compliment and concerned about putting them out if I need something. I have to really figure out how to navigate that. Love to y’allz 💛.
When she does other women its just stroking each others ego for like 30 min eye roll. Still love them
That and name dropping is the worstttttt
I’m still laughing at “feel this, feel my underwear”.
I like listening to both of you together. I would watch daily! Keepin’ it extra real. Similar and so mutually exclusive too. I can relate, yet I feel more confused than before...? I feel relaxed, then anxious ➡️ then repeat. Very interesting dynamic vibes. 🙂
These two are absolutely the best together. This is hilarious and amazing ❤️
These two ladies are beautiful, gorgeous and funny and I am a huge fan of both of you! Keep up the great work!
This podcast should be called « Whitney discussing her co-dependency for two hours »
I love how outspoken Benton is!! Awesomeness personified!!
Benton kills me! :D Especially during that underwear ad
This is everything to me. So grateful there are other women out there who get it!
These two are a great example of modern femininity. Honest, straight forward, owning their own space and not PC in a way that’s truthful without being aggressive. Love them:)
These two are a great example of red flags tutorial for guys. I'm glad I know how how they think to pass on crazy.
Minute 48: Whitney: "The hardest part about doing a podcast is asking other people to be on it." Asking for anything is hard for us codependents. We want people to read our minds and just give us what we obviously are scared to ask for. A rule that changed my life is "I have the right to ask for anything I want, and the other person has the right to respond in any way they choose."
This is maybe the most honest conversation I've ever heard between 2 women who weren't drunk.
Whitney! it’s so inspiring to hear where you’re at with relationships ☺️ thank you for being so open, honest and faithful. you’re helping a lot of people 🙌🏽
chris delia felt this podcast in his bones
Whitney's comment about having friend openings was cringey.
@@andrewfavor9532 timestamp?
@@Hola-dp9ev start at 4:00
Just get married already...! You two are perfect for each other if you let go of all your baggage and embrace what you really want...I see two ladies turning into an old HAPPY lesbian couple!
Actually, yea! What better partner to understand you then another woman? I think they'd be a great pair :D
"I'm a piece of shit in the center of the universe". We all are in our minds.
I didn't know I needed this conversation until now, thanks Whitney, your podcast ROCK!!!!
This was so good! I need more of them together
My two favourite female comedians ...life is great
Y’all should have a podcast together!
Thanks for sharing all the insecurities, obsessions, and weird thoughts so openly! This is the best kind of "oversharing"
first 10-15 of every podcast with a female guest "OH MY GOD WE'RE FRIENDS YOU'RE NICE ARE WE FRIENDS? WE SHOULD BE FRIENDS?"
To be fair thousands of people love creating imaginary feuds between women so they kinda have to.
"What do you need?" has to be a 2 way street though.
agree 100%
Great episode, thx Whitney. This was the best conversation with Nikki I've seen. You bring out the best in people. Nikki your great, feel good, be good, and keep being you.
These was such an energy Podcast between these 2 should be a thing every week.
I have the world’s biggest crush ever on Nikki.
2nd. I got #1 lbvs
You and me both. I have love nikki's wit and openiness for years. She is amazing.
She is confusing me because I am bi, and I am so in love with her I would date her and want her as a best friend at the same time. She is so attractive and such an intelligent blast.