Don’t worry, I’m not unsubscribing anytime soon. 😉 I just got a Botox brow lift for the first time a couple days ago, so your video is very relatable. Another thing that can cause a girl to be clocked is large breast implants. In fact, anything that appears unnatural will draw more attention and could potentially lead to being clocked.
I love your channel, today's has great advice. It's hard to pull back on the makeup, especially eyes, when I never was a teenage girl, but you're correct.
A very effective video. Thanks for making it. It has been a fear of mine, ever since I began my transition a year ago, that I would look like a drag queen. Consequently, I have only used makeup in the most minimal way. I rarely use more than a subtle lipstick with perhaps a bit of natural tone eyeshadow. Another feature that makes one clockable is fashion sense. Here too, I have kept my process understated. I am much older than you, but have had enough wit (so I tell myself) to wear styles that are age and situation appropriate. So no miniskirts, no fishnets, no spiky heels and so forth. From behind, or when my face is hidden, I am usually identified as female, but I am immediately clocked when my face is revealed. Most people recognize my situation and struggle and are nice enough about it.
You'll get no hate remarks from me. I totally agree with you. Go for the more natural look to be less clockable. That's what I always try to aim for myself. As a side note, I also went a little over the top early on in my transition when applying my makeup and using my feminine voice after voice feminization training, but I learned from it and have since toned it down so it's more natural now - and I rarely get clocked anymore even though I started transitioning late in life when I was 44, which is now 7 years ago.
Lee, I am 67 years old, and just over three years on HRT. I will not have much facial surgery. Since I have facial rigidity caused by Parkinson's disease. So no matter what, my best look gets me confused with Ma Fratelli from the Goonies movie. You are beautiful, and your videos would be required if I were a provider treating trans women.... Wendy from Idaho
You literally are prettier than angellena jolee, I am on hormones but want to fully pass. Don’t know fully how so I appreciate your honesty in videos! ❤
Definitely agree, natural if it can be helped is better (and not vering too far away from ones unique look). And, honestly I think it's ridiculous that we are intimidated into silence on this central topic that affects all actual transsexual women. With any procedure like cat/fox eye thread lift I think there can be viable reasons for some women, such as droopy eyes caused by botox over time. Ngl, I've considered it myself as a 42 y/o trans woman (thank God I look so much biologically younger than my chronological age). I think a lot of these procedures should be definitely avoided in most circumstances, especially if younger. Great topic 💖
Regarding height and having "wide" shoulders etc i dont consider clocky. Theres cis women who have wide shoulders and are very tall i think its just .. some trans women try to pass so hard that they end up doing exactly the opposite. Most of the trans women i see online lately literally wear a string as a shirt and TONS of makeup. Your day to day girl wont be doing that .. most of them just throw a shirt and jeans and just go about their day lol. Some of these trans women think the more femme u dress the more youll pass and thats NOT the case.
You can look how ever you want, we're trans and don't see a reason to pass, you can do it, but its not required and no one should pressure you to, its transphobic and patriarchal to enforce any gender roles on other people, its a personal choice.
This was so much fun (taking it lightly, without offense to anyone ❤) You're very good with these things, if you will want to get into another business one day, you'd be successful as a consultant in this field, or something similar 💯😊
I watch these videos because the psychology is fascinating. As a hetero female, whatever my label may be these days, I am still not understanding why people can't just face the world naturally. I wear no makeup, and let my hair go gray naturally. As an older bio female, I no longer "pass" as a younger woman. And the more I may try, the older I would look. This concept is general across all humans, regardless of orientation or physicality.
Lee, I'm not trans, and always say how natural you look. Then you want more surgery. I'm a nurse of 36 years. I also worked in the Surgery dept. Less is more. Don't fix a perfect face. What you've had already is so beautiful. Please no more surgeries. Move on with your life. Start living your best life. ❤
Hello Lee I’m back are you okay you went to an abandoned place that’s really crazy hope your surgery goes well and yes I’ve been on your channel while I was gone we love you!
Good content Lee. I have had my eyes opened up (fat removal and some excess skin) plus I had a brow lift. My lift was just above the brow line and I lost most of my natural hair which was actually a good thing because the microblading was done on a blank space. I later that same year had a face lift. Most people think I am late 50 to early 60's where in fact I am 71. You just have to be careful not to go too mad with surgery. Like you I have broad shoulders but unlike you I own it and don't worry about it. There is too much emphasis on looking like a perfect example of a woman. There are so many variations that it is not hard to blend in. Do I pass? I guess so as I have never heard a negative comment from anyone. Confidence is the key for me.
The thing you must remember is that in today's World it wouldn't matter if you looked like Marilyn Monroe people will still find some thing on you to say your trans and there's even TH-cam Channels devoted to telling people that Cher, Dolly Parton, Elvira and Marilyn Monroe are trans. Point is even the most beautiful women are some times accused of being trans.
Good demo video, Lee. Would have been interesting to see split screen BEFORE and AFTER to compare. I don't like big puffed up lips on any woman, nor do I like the heavy eye shadow. Less is more. You look amazing with minimal, tasteful makeup. 👌
Dear Miss Francis, everything you've described I've seen Sis woman do for there own enhancement, so it doesn't apply just to transwoman. I see you as a topical woman looking for things to criticize about themselves or other woman. No need to do that you're beautiful as you are no need to change anything you're gorgeous 😍 and if I were near you I'd look to marry you.
As a guy, is it okay to say I am a connoisseur? I admire a hard effort and will only subscribe to those hard to clock. Although saying that I find an attraction for a certain type of woman because it does give me goosebumps. What you are doing is working. I like it.
You look fine. Leave well enough alone! I bet you don't get "clocked" very often, Your voice is fine. A plenty of women a 5' 9". (That's taller than average, but still the high side of average woman.) You're fine!
The lips is SO true. You are not lying!! If you want to do that, it's fine. But it's so obvious you have way too much filler!! Again, if you want to look like your top lip is sticking to your nose every time you smile, cool, I guess. I think trans girls are trying too hard to look what they think is feminine so they do have surgery blindness and stack feminine features on top of feminine features instead of just getting things that compliment their features in a feminine way. Your lips are pretty much the prettiest lips I've seen, actually. I don't know how you undid the tattoo, but yeah, your lips are actually one of the prettiest I've seen.
Excessive Lip Plumping: There are a number of pretty actresses who ruined their look from getting that done! Marg Helgenberger of CIS is an example. I love Blaire White, but she is another.
Dear Lee, I agree with you. Your video is helpful for all transwomen. I do have a small question: In one of your videos you mentioned that you had FFS in Spain. Would you mind sharing the clinic that did the FFS?
If I saw you in the women's bathroom I don't think I would have any clue and I dont stare at strangers so I doubt I would have another thought besides you are pretty lady and went on my way.
hello miss Francis like the song goes (you are so beautiful) as you are cute, I like you just the way you are if any thing missing would be a smile in other words you are perfect so loosen up and enjoy life and enjoy your self let your self go, I mean is it so dificult to turn the page you have completed your transition from boy to the lovely woman you have become, darling if I had the opportunity it would be dificult for me to keep my lips off of you
I dislike the gatekeeper attitude here. You are coming from a place of privilege with being younger which is naturally more feminine looking. As an older trans woman it is extremely difficult to achieve passability. That is a desire I have but I am also practical about it. I can only do so much for my hairline. My high forehead is hard to hide without expensive FFS or hair transplants. I am even taller than you and naturally larger as well. I have always been quite strong and those muscles are not going away easily. I have a lot of things that clock me. I try my best and continue to improve but I can realistically only go so far. I am no less trans than you are.
Fantastic topic. Verrrrry interesting. Not talked about enough. Thank you.
Don’t worry, I’m not unsubscribing anytime soon. 😉 I just got a Botox brow lift for the first time a couple days ago, so your video is very relatable.
Another thing that can cause a girl to be clocked is large breast implants. In fact, anything that appears unnatural will draw more attention and could potentially lead to being clocked.
Very good discussion. You are 100% right. ❤
Without makeup you're beautiful, A true natural beauty. Clockable ?? No 🥰
I love your channel, today's has great advice. It's hard to pull back on the makeup, especially eyes, when I never was a teenage girl, but you're correct.
A very effective video. Thanks for making it. It has been a fear of mine, ever since I began my transition a year ago, that I would look like a drag queen. Consequently, I have only used makeup in the most minimal way. I rarely use more than a subtle lipstick with perhaps a bit of natural tone eyeshadow. Another feature that makes one clockable is fashion sense. Here too, I have kept my process understated. I am much older than you, but have had enough wit (so I tell myself) to wear styles that are age and situation appropriate. So no miniskirts, no fishnets, no spiky heels and so forth. From behind, or when my face is hidden, I am usually identified as female, but I am immediately clocked when my face is revealed. Most people recognize my situation and struggle and are nice enough about it.
You'll get no hate remarks from me. I totally agree with you. Go for the more natural look to be less clockable. That's what I always try to aim for myself. As a side note, I also went a little over the top early on in my transition when applying my makeup and using my feminine voice after voice feminization training, but I learned from it and have since toned it down so it's more natural now - and I rarely get clocked anymore even though I started transitioning late in life when I was 44, which is now 7 years ago.
Lee, I am 67 years old, and just over three years on HRT. I will not have much facial surgery. Since I have facial rigidity caused by Parkinson's disease. So no matter what, my best look gets me confused with Ma Fratelli from the Goonies movie. You are beautiful, and your videos would be required if I were a provider treating trans women.... Wendy from Idaho
You literally are prettier than angellena jolee, I am on hormones but want to fully pass. Don’t know fully how so I appreciate your honesty in videos! ❤
Definitely agree, natural if it can be helped is better (and not vering too far away from ones unique look). And, honestly I think it's ridiculous that we are intimidated into silence on this central topic that affects all actual transsexual women.
With any procedure like cat/fox eye thread lift I think there can be viable reasons for some women, such as droopy eyes caused by botox over time.
Ngl, I've considered it myself as a 42 y/o trans woman (thank God I look so much biologically younger than my chronological age).
I think a lot of these procedures should be definitely avoided in most circumstances, especially if younger.
Great topic 💖
Regarding height and having "wide" shoulders etc i dont consider clocky. Theres cis women who have wide shoulders and are very tall i think its just .. some trans women try to pass so hard that they end up doing exactly the opposite. Most of the trans women i see online lately literally wear a string as a shirt and TONS of makeup. Your day to day girl wont be doing that .. most of them just throw a shirt and jeans and just go about their day lol. Some of these trans women think the more femme u dress the more youll pass and thats NOT the case.
Wide shoulders can definitely be clocky for some women if they carry themselves in a masculine manner. Caitlyn Jenner is perfect example of this.
I have broad shoulders as do all the women in my family
There's also cheekbones implants and buccal fat pad removal who are super clockable
Lee there is trans and there is cross dressing! You are genuine and authentic and valid, mwaaah ! I love you !🤭🥰🫶
You just went through all the surgeries I was going to have. Rethinking cat eyes but I must get a nose job. Thanks for the advice
Lee you’re bang on with your thoughts.
I have to say without makeup you’re perfect 😃
You hit the right cord . The # of comments are a testament to you and your willingness to help guide others along our ever evolving path.❤
You look so beautiful. I love your eyes, 👀lips,👄 hair color too ❤️❤️
Its the yes I'm trans look. Often you can work out the ones who used the same surgeon too.
Thank you for sharing Lee!!
Thanks, Lee, I appreciate your tips and liked this video.
You can look how ever you want, we're trans and don't see a reason to pass, you can do it, but its not required and no one should pressure you to, its transphobic and patriarchal to enforce any gender roles on other people, its a personal choice.
Thank you for this video. You really are an inspiration ❤
Hey chic don't let things bother yourself talk to your bff and get things off your chest and take a deep breath your beautiful and inspiring take care
This was so much fun (taking it lightly, without offense to anyone ❤)
You're very good with these things, if you will want to get into another business one day, you'd be successful as a consultant in this field, or something similar 💯😊
I watch these videos because the psychology is fascinating. As a hetero female, whatever my label may be these days, I am still not understanding why people can't just face the world naturally. I wear no makeup, and let my hair go gray naturally. As an older bio female, I no longer "pass" as a younger woman. And the more I may try, the older I would look. This concept is general across all humans, regardless of orientation or physicality.
Lee, I'm not trans, and always say how natural you look. Then you want more surgery. I'm a nurse of 36 years. I also worked in the Surgery dept. Less is more. Don't fix a perfect face. What you've had already is so beautiful. Please no more surgeries. Move on with your life. Start living your best life. ❤
Thank you. Very interesting
Hello Lee I’m back are you okay you went to an abandoned place that’s really crazy hope your surgery goes well and yes I’ve been on your channel while I was gone we love you!
I like your honesty, it's refreshingly rare
Lee ... fascinating stuff.
Useful comments for trans ladies. Well done.
Good content Lee. I have had my eyes opened up (fat removal and some excess skin) plus I had a brow lift. My lift was just above the brow line and I lost most of my natural hair which was actually a good thing because the microblading was done on a blank space. I later that same year had a face lift. Most people think I am late 50 to early 60's where in fact I am 71. You just have to be careful not to go too mad with surgery. Like you I have broad shoulders but unlike you I own it and don't worry about it.
There is too much emphasis on looking like a perfect example of a woman. There are so many variations that it is not hard to blend in. Do I pass? I guess so as I have never heard a negative comment from anyone. Confidence is the key for me.
You are beautiful ❤You look and sound just like a woman❤ You are amazing ❤
The thing you must remember is that in today's World it wouldn't matter if you looked like Marilyn Monroe people will still find some thing on you to say your trans and there's even TH-cam Channels devoted to telling people that Cher, Dolly Parton, Elvira and Marilyn Monroe are trans. Point is even the most beautiful women are some times accused of being trans.
Thank you very much. This was an important advice, especially for new and upcoming transwomen.
Good demo video, Lee. Would have been interesting to see split screen BEFORE and AFTER to compare. I don't like big puffed up lips on any woman, nor do I like the heavy eye shadow. Less is more. You look amazing with minimal, tasteful makeup. 👌
Great examples you show on your own face (w/ make-up) but perhaps they would have been more illustrative had you had better lighting.
You are an amazing Lee. You are always interesting love you're channel
Dear Miss Francis, everything you've described I've seen Sis woman do for there own enhancement, so it doesn't apply just to transwoman.
I see you as a topical woman looking for things to criticize about themselves or other woman.
No need to do that you're beautiful as you are no need to change anything you're gorgeous 😍 and if I were near you I'd look to marry you.
As a guy, is it okay to say I am a connoisseur? I admire a hard effort and will only subscribe to those hard to clock. Although saying that I find an attraction for a certain type of woman because it does give me goosebumps. What you are doing is working. I like it.
You are on the right track you look very passable yre eye bras look natural you're face is beautiful ❤
Surgeries are scary it seems. Please be safe Lee
You look fine. Leave well enough alone! I bet you don't get "clocked" very often, Your voice is fine. A plenty of women a 5' 9". (That's taller than average, but still the high side of average woman.) You're fine!
I don't use lipstick, foundation or contouring. Having FFS on 10/9/24 and I will still do the same thing less makeup is more!
You should consult with other transgender peeps, giving them advice and help so that they can't be clocked. You'd be perfect.
The lips is SO true. You are not lying!! If you want to do that, it's fine. But it's so obvious you have way too much filler!! Again, if you want to look like your top lip is sticking to your nose every time you smile, cool, I guess.
I think trans girls are trying too hard to look what they think is feminine so they do have surgery blindness and stack feminine features on top of feminine features instead of just getting things that compliment their features in a feminine way.
Your lips are pretty much the prettiest lips I've seen, actually. I don't know how you undid the tattoo, but yeah, your lips are actually one of the prettiest I've seen.
Excessive Lip Plumping: There are a number of pretty actresses who ruined their look from getting that done! Marg Helgenberger of CIS is an example. I love Blaire White, but she is another.
You are so honest 🥲❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Blair White does that with their shoulders. This is such a minefield
Omg, you are so funny. I want to see more comedy adjacent content from you.
Also hairline lowering that gives them short forehead. It ruins facial balance.
You are so beautiful... Really ❤️🙏
Great video! What colour and make blush do you use? It's v pretty and natural.
Female gremlin is my go to look 👹
Thanks for the advice so I don't get caught going 100mph over the trans limit.
❤ Facinating
Where did you go? US or Thailand to do FFS?
You cannot be clocked even if you tried.
Dear Lee, I agree with you. Your video is helpful for all transwomen.
I do have a small question: In one of your videos you mentioned that you had FFS in Spain. Would you mind sharing the clinic that did the FFS?
Facial team in Marbella. Nobody else known does FFS in Spain
5'8 is not clockable
If I saw you in the women's bathroom I don't think I would have any clue and I dont stare at strangers so I doubt I would have another thought besides you are pretty lady and went on my way.
Ta mais linda, mas parecia triste.
Thank-you it was fun,but no joke.less is more
Lee looks very feminine to me.
the thumbnail 😂
"1+1 = trans" 🤣
❤❤❤ 💯 %
hello miss Francis like the song goes (you are so beautiful) as you are cute, I like you just the way you are if any thing missing would be a smile in other words you are perfect so loosen up and enjoy life and enjoy your self let your self go, I mean is it so dificult to turn the page you have completed your transition from boy to the lovely woman you have become, darling if I had the opportunity it would be dificult for me to keep my lips off of you
Ur voice isn't super deep tho. It sounds like a deep woman's voice more then a deepman's. And just by the face....u look like a very pretty woman.
Sorry but it's all about passing.
All trans women in Thailand look more beautiful than Thai women
Is it due to birth control?
1+1=🚂🦵 👏👏😹👩⚖
I dislike the gatekeeper attitude here. You are coming from a place of privilege with being younger which is naturally more feminine looking. As an older trans woman it is extremely difficult to achieve passability. That is a desire I have but I am also practical about it. I can only do so much for my hairline. My high forehead is hard to hide without expensive FFS or hair transplants. I am even taller than you and naturally larger as well. I have always been quite strong and those muscles are not going away easily. I have a lot of things that clock me. I try my best and continue to improve but I can realistically only go so far. I am no less trans than you are.