What People Get Wrong about Christian Dating

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  • @AlastairEnd
    @AlastairEnd 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    I was researching a horror game (Mouthwashing) on youtube and this video came up. God is moving in my life lately, thank you for this!

    • @albertodove4125
      @albertodove4125 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Press in brother. Even if it scares you. So much spirit to be had!!!🔥💕✝️

    • @Biblereader919
      @Biblereader919 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Do you think Jesus would play that game?

    • @rowan1957
      @rowan1957 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      lol I’ve been seeing videos about that game everywhere lately

    • @ignis2614
      @ignis2614 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@Biblereader919 I get where you're coming from, but is a fallacy, as Jesus most likely wouldn't of played video games at all. Video games are a form of entertainment, and God being God, has blessed us with entertainment, and says to enjoy all things, because he as created them and they are good. Moderation and boundaries are crucial, but that doesn't mean you can't play something that you can enjoy unless you know it will lead you further into darkness.

  • @kleptosepto1848
    @kleptosepto1848 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +56

    Hardest part is finding an actual saved, god loving, bible believing woman to begin with. All these christian dating sites are filled with women not mentioning anything about god. all divorced as well. There's no point in trying to find a christian woman with real convictions. This is why i constantly fall into the trap of dating non christian women.

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Honestly I would marry a hindu buddhist or muslim than any person in america or In this
      Culture in this country

    • @silasbucur685
      @silasbucur685 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      That’s why I don’t date bro. I got better things to do. God got better things for me

    • @Christ2010Grad
      @Christ2010Grad 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      My thoughts exactly!

    • @The4Tifier
      @The4Tifier 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      "An excellent wife, who shall find? She is far more precious than jewels."

    • @gomes_341
      @gomes_341 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      I would say instead of going on dating sites, go to church and volunteer at the church to find real Christian women who love the lord.

  • @amorarisa
    @amorarisa 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Ananias and Sapphira's sin wasn't keeping a part of the money, but lying that they gave everything to the church.

  • @betrothalguys
    @betrothalguys 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The "treat her as your sister in all purity" thing does make a big difference. For us it resulted in us not doing the boyfriend-girlfriend relationship at all. We also didn't do the "engaged" relationship (a plan to marry still makes her your sister in Christ.) We went back to the Bible's middle stage of "betrothed" (husband and wife by covenant) while we built our bond and planned for our wedding.

  • @space_monkey3188
    @space_monkey3188 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Bro this is awesome, I’d be interested in some other videos on this topic! Praise God🙌 I can feel Him working through you!

  • @calebPslm1914
    @calebPslm1914 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    yessss!!! please do more on this topic.

  • @Itssmyles-bz3dy
    @Itssmyles-bz3dy 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You have helped me so much. Thank you! God bless!

  • @willimitus
    @willimitus 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This gave me confidence in the insight I have gained from my last relationship. I think I did many things right and many things wrong and I learned a lot. I must stick to the values God has given me, and more importantly pay attention when He is speaking.

  • @sjmac1518
    @sjmac1518 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    You're right about Adam and Eve. Adam didnt look after his wife and husbands need to look after their wives. Great video

    • @nerychristian
      @nerychristian 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      There is no proof that Adam did anything wrong. The husband isn't supposed to be next to his wife at all times. Remember, they were the only 2 people on the Earth. And there was no malice or sin or death. So why should he be watching her at all times?

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@nerychristian Exactly. Adam did nothing wrong, at all, until he simped to Eve and went along with her vile decision.

    • @nerychristian
      @nerychristian 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ModelJames13 We're assuming that Adam knew what he was being fed by Eve was the same fruit that God prohibited that they eat. Maybe Eve lied to Adam about where she got the fruit. Maybe Adams sin was trusting that his wife was a good woman and not seeing the red flags

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@nerychristian Oh Adam knew. If Adam truly didn't know then God would have offered him grace and not cursed him. Like how God offers grace to children when they die so that they go to Heaven even if they haven't chosen Jesus.

  • @skyhart1377
    @skyhart1377 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Dude, any possibility we can get these episodes in podcast formate as well? Would love to just put your stuff on while I'm doing other tasks like cleaning or cooking

  • @TheQuietPart
    @TheQuietPart 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Dating? Can you call it dating if you can't even get a date?

  • @SylerPlayz
    @SylerPlayz 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Really good video

  • @Destroyer83
    @Destroyer83 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My problem is that I do get those emotions, or in other words, I do fall in love easily and I have no idea how to translate that into an actual relationship.
    It's either try and go slow and turn into a time bomb, destined for Idolatry.
    Or go fast, turn into a rocket, confess my love and get rejected (this has historically been the better of the two options.)
    It's very hard to slowly boil a frog with the thrusters from the Space Shuttle.

  • @cableroy4099
    @cableroy4099 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So recently, my neighbor (17) called me and asked me (16) out and said that she prayed to God about it and felt it was the right time to do it then, so I told her I’d be willing to try it out. I’m doubting if I made the right decision or not and if we should even be dating at this age. Any thoughts?

    • @Bitter_Beauty_Music
      @Bitter_Beauty_Music 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I think if you feel mature enough, dating at your age is just fine. If you really like this girl and think she's a good person, you'll at least learn some good dating lessons, even if nothing comes of it.

    • @leviosborne3797
      @leviosborne3797 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      For me, being the teenager that I am, I need to remind myself that I cannot trust on my small amount of wisdom to make wise decisions, I need to rely on the counsel of people older and wiser who have experienced life more than I have. I would encourage you to seek out a couple older and wiser people who can give you counsel on this. Our sinful tendencies often lead us to following our what our heart wants. However, Scripture says our hearts are deceitful above all things (Jeremiah 17:9) and therefore how we feel can not be trusted. That's why outward counsel is so important to me. What do you think? Questions/disagreements?

    • @cableroy4099
      @cableroy4099 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@leviosborne3797 That’s actually really good advice, thank you both so much for your input I really appreciate it!!

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You totally should if you like her. Finding a young wife/getting married young is the best a man can hope for. 👍

  • @ElijahLynch-gw1yj
    @ElijahLynch-gw1yj วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What kind of conversation would be of limits because I think that in would be important to have deep conversations with your couple? Just trying to get a better understanding of what you think.

  • @djashovel
    @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Here's a confession I sometimes Look up Adult games or Perverted stories Sometimes for my curiosity or Being kind of bored or tired Because Because I have never been in a relationship ( I am 22) And it hasn't been the easiest
    Being being a guy And getting a relationship When You don't wanna wait for marriage
    I guess you could say I sin because The waiting process is driving me crazy
    And I do want to find a wife and have a family but I don't think that's a possibility In america
    ( it's worse because i am autistic so i am hypersexual and that Part of the spectrum Including Things like b.d.s.m. and its driving me crazy )

    • @bomcfadden5842
      @bomcfadden5842 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      I will be praying for you 🙏

    • @lingonberry6500
      @lingonberry6500 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I encourage you to read Ps 34
      9 O fear the Lord, ye his saints: for there is no want to them that fear him.
      10 The young lions do lack, and suffer hunger: but they that seek the Lord shall not want any good thing.
      11 Come, ye children, hearken unto me: I will teach you the fear of the Lord.
      Let the Lord teach you to fear Him.
      Remember the fear of the Lord is when your only priority is Jesus.

  • @JenScully
    @JenScully 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +70

    most people stay stuck because they avoid books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, which actually show you how to break through

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bug off with your lies

  • @WildNick-q8x
    @WildNick-q8x 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    They had no dating culture in Judea when Jesus was alive, parents decided for their children who they will marry when they grow up

  • @m_jay5
    @m_jay5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Christian dating/courting without the end goal of marriage is a complete waste of time! Casually dating as a Christian is completely pointless!

  • @Professorgutierrez
    @Professorgutierrez 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Bro what’s this Magnetic Aura thing?

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      They're not real accounts

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Fake spam counts

    • @DailyDisciple
      @DailyDisciple  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      Spam accounts

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I've only seen those spam comments showing up in Christian videos. It must be a tool of the devil.

    • @nerychristian
      @nerychristian 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@DailyDiscipleYou should delete them

  • @ModelJames13
    @ModelJames13 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I wish it was like the glory days of the Bible where people would just skip the dating stuff and just get married right away. 😎

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That's arranged marriages

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@djashovel Well............ then that's what I want. 😎

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@ModelJames13 that still happens, and even now, in America

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@djashovel I wish I could get in on some of that. I feel like if I approached a father at church and asked for his daughter as a wife he wouldn't give me a favorable response. 😎

    • @betrothalguys
      @betrothalguys 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ModelJames13 If you read Genesis 24 you see that the Bible teaches us not just arranged marriage but to let God direct us to a spouse. But if you check out our website we have testimonies on there by people who have practiced the Biblical method, today.

  • @samuelsaady9909
    @samuelsaady9909 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    36 seconds no views bro fell off

  • @djashovel
    @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am 22 and autistic I really want to be in a relationship
    ( I have never dated any girl Even though I don't want to be alone or single ) And being single has driving me crazy for so long and It's even worse because i'm naturally wired to lust or be extremely lustful and kind of a sexual sadist
    That is part of the spectrum and Just how your brain is wired with those fantasies and b.d.s.m.
    Not to mention sensory or what you feel. Can be a lot more intense
    ( It took me Years to realize this and finally when I did my own research and Heard the stories of other autistic people It made sense and I could stop thinking of it being demonic or I need deliverance Constantly )

    • @Vincent-yp1gj
      @Vincent-yp1gj 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Praying for you brother.

    • @DaBladePwn
      @DaBladePwn 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I know its not what you want to hear, but here's a couple things.
      1. The cliche is true, but get close to God and your uneasy feeling of not being in a relationship will go away. if you consistently pray and read the word you will feel fulfilled in God. Not that you won't still desire a relationship, but you won't feel like you need it and you truly can have joy simply in God.
      And 2, I dont want to act like I know what it's like to be autistic but be careful when you say that "it's just the way my brain is wired". It may seem small but if you constantly tell yourself you can't change or overcome something because you're different, i think it could keep you from being free from it and seeing breakthrough. To change you first have to have faith Christ can change you.

    • @shad4101
      @shad4101 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@DaBladePwnamen

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@DaBladePwn the first one doesn't not work tried it and doesn't help
      And The second one Here's an interesting fact Did you know brain Tumors can make you Hypersexual And you can't stop it or control it Your brain is consumed by those Thoughts
      And why do I say this? Because No amount of prayer will fix you When your brain Is wired You cannot fix it Oh, believe me I tried Prayer did not help at all

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@shad4101Why do people say amen so quickly Like they say they Solve the problem

  • @FLOYDSeitz
    @FLOYDSeitz 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    funny how people spend so much time on this stuff but ignore books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki that actually explain what’s going on

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Fake account

  • @MetaSoto-s5c
    @MetaSoto-s5c 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    imagine trusting this kind of content but never exploring books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, no wonder people stay in the same cycles

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Fake book fake people for scam money 😊

  • @LailaDouglas-n8q
    @LailaDouglas-n8q 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready

  • @LyndiaSteed
    @LyndiaSteed 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    can’t believe this is what people focus on instead of reading something like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, maybe that’s why so little ever changes

  • @JamikaSeitz
    @JamikaSeitz 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    if this resonates with you, you owe it to yourself to read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, but maybe it’s not for everyone

  • @SYDNEYMontanez
    @SYDNEYMontanez 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this is good, but if you haven’t read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, you’re only seeing part of the picture

  • @HarriettDye
    @HarriettDye 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    not saying this isn’t interesting, but books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki make this look like child’s play

  • @DARRELLWorthy
    @DARRELLWorthy 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    imagine trusting this kind of content but never exploring books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, no wonder people stay in the same cycles

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Robot account😅

  • @GertudeSchwab
    @GertudeSchwab 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready

    • @djashovel
      @djashovel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It's wild that anyone could believe a comment like this 😂