Doesn't even have to be every time you say no. But inbetween, here and there, tell em no. Especially at work. Sometimes even if you don't have a reason, but have been saying too much yes recently. Best example: Day off. Some lazy fucking bum calls in sick. Now your boss is on the line because he needs someone ASAP. Don't say yes everytime, because you will become the "Back-up Guy Nr. 1". Instead, every second or third or fourth or so time, say no. "No, I can't, I'm already busy and I told you I had this day planned out." End the call. Boom. Boundary set.
Mayhzon It's all good 'till the "end the call" part, don't hang up on your boss unless you want to lose your job. Just hold your ground &casualy close the conversation
I had RSD and Elliot during highschool regret some aspects of rsd but damn they did help me a lot, Elisha and red pill content is what I’m on and Patrice on Neal like 24/7
All of your videos I’ve seen have helped me change as a person and grow and learn more about myself, I appreciate you and all you stand for brother. Much love
Started applying this to my life since i entered college, man IT WORKS, i have so much respect among the group, they know i’m the sigma male so i never go to their partys and instead i study and work with focus...and the sex appeal has gone thru the roof lately because of this almost samurai style of thinking
Dude. This came right on time. I've slowly but surely grown out of being the yes man. It doesn't get you anywhere, makes you feel like shit and weak on the inside. My mom is a huge example of someone who made me set several boundaries growing up; she used to literally tell me to do anything and everything, the smallest of things. But they add up. I had to start telling her no here and there, or say I'm busy or bluntly I don't feel like it. Keep up the videos man.
Your channel has become my go to when I’m feeling lazy/unmotivated, it always puts me back into a productive mindset. Thank you 🙏 keep uploading regularily
Your videos change life’s. you’ve help me apply want I’ve learnt to my own life to fit my journey.Hope this message can positively influence you. My message can’t express my gratitude. Thanks
An example that readily comes to mind when talking about following your own path as a man is with homework. I'm still in high school and got a lot to learn about still but it was recently, the past month or so, that after following Elisha's and Peterson's advice that I've become more disagreeable and began adopting that mindset of "I don't owe anything to anyone". As an honors student, a lot of your life revolves around HW. Being in "higher-level" courses does not necessarily mean more complex material, though you could argue that. The education system now a day's core teachings/ purpose is to create diligent, agreeable, competent young adults that will not question the status quo. Critical thinking is no longer a skill emphasized. And it is more evident the more AP and Honors courses one takes. The way you excel in those classes is mostly attributed to doing the vast amount of homework and spending a lot of time and energy into studying for tests. As I began on my own path I started to question why it is that I spend so much time on my homework and school work, concluding that it's just a waste of time. Not to discourage anyone from doing their school work as it teaches you to manage your time and become self-disciplined, but taken to an extreme it can become detrimental. My whole life has been oriented around my school work, getting that A+ on all courses and having my face planted firmly on a textbook I could give less fucks about as all I cared was getting the info for the test that would evidently come. It wasn't until a couple months that I said "fuck that" and took Elisha's advice. I confronted some dragons and was honest with myself and my parents. All my time, energy, being was devoted to school work. I would even prioritize it over the gym and reading which contributed to the period of time where I just stopped going so I had more time to study. Now I follow my own path. Do the things I want to do every day, for the most part. At first, I felt like I was letting down my teachers, parents, and myself. But that's so silly once you step back and look at the situation at hand. I got a lot of backlash from my peers once I adopted this attitude. Classmates said I was lazy, slow, arrogant, they got rather frustrated when they asked if I had done a HW or what I thought about a test but answered "I didn't do it" or "I don't care". I won't lie I still do my work and shit even though I don't want to sometimes. I feel like I owe it to my teachers. The most valuable thing for me this past school year has been the repor I've been able to build with all my teachers. And when I first started not doing HW and projects I let them know that I didn't mean disrespect by it as I felt completely dismissing them is rude and disrespectful given the amount of time they spend creating lessons and what not and me just dismissing it would make me a shit student, but hearing Elisha again talk about the subject has made me rethink that. Idk I'm a bit torn but I might just say fuck it to everything now. That's something I have to figure out on my own. Thanks bro as usual. Hopefully one day I can repay everything you've done for me.
I teach 6th grade, my finance class is all about critical thinking. But your right about what typically the education system is. Stay your own path young man. Stay out of the matrix.
@@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 I'm glad to hear that you try to engage with your students like that. This was two years ago so it's funny going back. Since then l have been in classes that push for that kind of thinking. I've noticed that just about all teachers are more than willing to help when you begin to look for your own answer to things. Crazy how when I wrote that I was fed up with school work and now the amount of work I do is even more taxing. Ended up studying architecture. It's Thanksgiving and I'm here in my studio working on the final project. Gonna be here all weekend too. Pour in 13+ hours on a regular basis. Only difference is that I like the work. It's cool being able to other students while I'm here too. I think there's definitely a period in one's life where you have to be a student. Sit and learn but it has to be driven by your own desire to understand the world and be of some service to it. I think the way we think about education is changing and going to change drastically over the next couple of years or so. Mostly driven by people trying to figure out what it is they really want/want to be doing. Thats a whole conversation though. I guess what I've learned since then is that a part of life is figuring out a purpose for yourself. The most fuffling is being able to be of service to others. But to do that you need to become "more". Studying can help with that. Eh I don't even know what I'm trying to say anymore. Haha. Life is good man. Despite all the struggle. :)
Took my garlic last night for the first time. Didn't have to blow my nose in the shower for the first time I can remember. Throat clear. No stomach issues. FKN TRY IT! I set a boundary last Feb about video games, I quit them to pursue chess (over the board). Has made a world of difference to my personality and mental capabilities.
God damn good video, spot on! Setting boundries and being brutally honest with people and myself has helped me with gaining confidence and respect. Because I could finally respect myself.
Hey Elisha. I love these daily uploads they're amazing. If you wanna change it up sometimes you can upload a Day in a life or something it would be interesting to see what you get up to. You've changed my life! Love the content !!
I find this really motivating to watch thank you, Elisha I have a very weak long term frame. When I started my new job I set boundaries very firmly early on and maybe I went overboard but this created a shit tonne of problems for me and I was getting criticism left right and centre. Then I started to let my guard down and shit got worse, you know when you drop some meat into a piranha tank everyone is taking a little bite at once, that's how my centre felt. Thankfully I've left this job and moving on.
Good advice. This also puts ourselves into perspective. We might be asking too many favors without realizing, or expecting too much from others on things we're already capable of doing by ourselves.
I agree that you don't have to do things you don't want to just because someone asks you to but I also think we should compromise once in a while so that people don't lose trust in us. It's important to sacrifice a little bit for the people who are important in our lives. I could be wrong but that's just my two cents.
I’m going through a difficult time in my life atm and watching your videos and listening to the insight has really motivated me to change myself for the better. Really appreciate your content and glad that I’ve found you on TH-cam!
Man, I'm not watching every one of your vids, but I do watch the ones that seem like they apply to my life. Every single one of your vids that I've watched has helped me become the man I am, thanks Elisha.
imma be real this actually came up at the perfect time something work related actually happened a day ago where they asked if I could work another day but they had already created a schedule and the mangers basically got me thinking and I wanted to say yes because I felt obligated to make them happy but after some time of thinking and asking around the decision is no, my gut feeling at first when she asked was no at first but I’m still working on myself to say no on things I don’t want to do and also just trust my gut instinct. Love your videos man keep up the great work
In the past years I have set some serious boundaries around watching TV, playing video games, drinking alcohol, watching porn, participating in hockey pools online to name a few. Cutting all that crap which used to take most of my free time. Nowadays i`d much rather read a great book, meditate, go take a walk with the dog. Trying to simplify life as much as possible. The less distractions the better.
Great vid I noticed while working I’ve tended to do help my co workers to much next time they ask for my help up I’ll just tell them calmly they can do it themselves
Awesome video, Elisha. It is a social norm for people to try to get a capable person to complete a task, but there is usually some means of compensation. A great way to build negotiation skills is to either set conditions or set a task that the other party would have to complete of equal value or difficulty. This will also present just how willing the other party would be in helping if you were the one asking for a favor. After a while, people will ask less favors of you because they know you would stand firmly on your ground, and they will just go find another Yesman else where, and will only turn to you when it is truly necessary. Being someone's last resort means when you do accomplish their favor, they are most grateful for it.
I'm setting boundaries with my little sister at home, she's 10. I feel like my parents are doing her a dis-favor by giving her too much, letting her have her way too often. Not to boss her around, but to be a male that tells her NO.
👊This is soooo TRUE...im the "responsible" child out of 3, so Im called for everything....started having to say NO for my own sanity! I got shit to do too dammit!
@@foxdonze I'd recommend replacing about half or more of the cannabis in your joint with damiana leaf. It was used by the ancients as an aphrodisiac, but it also has a relaxing and mood enhancing effect. You could buy it online in bulk for pretty cheap. By gradually reducing the amount of cannabis in each joint until there's hardly any in there; you are ready to stop smoking and quit cold turkey.
Aye man tysm for this video. Just fell out of my lane recently. This helped me realize my mistakes. I will take action and move this bullshit matrix that they try to force me in out of my way. Love (nohomo), ❤️
i really struggle sometimes with my anger. where i try to stick up for my self i sound like im just really pissed, which i sorta am but dont want to show it. but i do. and its almost never personal, i just break, and when i do im a lil bitch that cant go through with it because i know i look dumb reacting over nothing. it reflects im insecure. i mainly get angry being talked down to or someone is taking the piss.but its fine most of the time, i just have moments where im so flustered in the situation i dont know how to react because everyone is looking at me and then i look weak and stupid. any advice anyone? im not an angry person but when i am i feel even more annoyed i cant express it in the moment or laugh about it.
Aqua Fever If you can recognize when you’re in a situation like that, take a deep breath and take that time to ground yourself. You’ll feel like you’re taking a long time to respond but that’s just in your head bro.
Focus really intently on saying the words without any hint of emotion. Try and try again until you get it. When you can speak without any emotion at all, then you will be heard. Then you will have power. Then you will be an adult. Now, I must clarify: the best way to speak without emotion is to actually have no emotion when you speak. Simply decide and communicate your decision. Emotionless. Calm. Commanding. Direct. Matter-of-factly. If they ask you whether you are sure, do not get emotional. Merely restate yourself with gentle confidence. Use even less words the second time than the first. Refuse to explain.
Hey Elisha , this video couldn’t have come at a better time. I just wanna ask, when you said no to your sister , didn’t she ask you why not? And what was your response to that?
This rings so true right now, lats Tuesday me and the girl I was dating had sex, very high level of attraction, she had to be somewhere and she said: promise me you'll come over on Thursday. I knew in the moment that I should have said no, but i said yes anyways. What happened on Thursday? Barely any kissing, a few pecs, now the past few days its been bad, level of attraction seems really low, shes basically ignoring me. Go with your gut. Never make compromises for someone else when it doesn't feel right.
Nikolas Wilson Play the game to get her back, act busy, ditch her on your next rendez-vous, &Kill it on the one after with a nice restaurant or something &a good movie when yoi get home (go back to normal afterwards, but stay true to the game) Don't expect her to become your girlfriend though, doesn't look like a keeper, her loving game is masculine if you see what I mean. She got you first shot with her 😸 trap, she thinks she captured you. Prove her wrong but don't go too hard or she'll leave. Hope you keep hitting that thang ✌🏽
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Saved me 120$ on therapy today. Thanks man.
Boundaries are important to have your respect
Doesn't even have to be every time you say no. But inbetween, here and there, tell em no. Especially at work. Sometimes even if you don't have a reason, but have been saying too much yes recently.
Best example: Day off. Some lazy fucking bum calls in sick. Now your boss is on the line because he needs someone ASAP. Don't say yes everytime, because you will become the "Back-up Guy Nr. 1". Instead, every second or third or fourth or so time, say no.
"No, I can't, I'm already busy and I told you I had this day planned out." End the call. Boom. Boundary set.
Mayhzon It's all good 'till the "end the call" part, don't hang up on your boss unless you want to lose your job. Just hold your ground &casualy close the conversation
Good points gentlemen.
Gold is only valuable when it is rare yet available to the merchant.
Be rare yet available, and you will become valuable.
Be like gold my boys 🥇
I had elliot hulse guide me through high school.
Now elisha long is guiding me through college.
I had RSD and Elliot during highschool regret some aspects of rsd but damn they did help me a lot, Elisha and red pill content is what I’m on and Patrice on Neal like 24/7
wish i had them then. I barely had access to internet at that point in my life.
Me too exactly
Me too. Elisha is the mentor we needed.
Check out aanghel
All of your videos I’ve seen have helped me change as a person and grow and learn more about myself, I appreciate you and all you stand for brother. Much love
Much love man
It's like you know what's going in my life bro I love you😂
Same man
Exactly haha
Honestly 🤣🤣
Yea same here lol
I literally just wrote down in my journal "setting boundaries" 2 days ago and I watch elisha all the time haha hell yeah
My life has improved tenfold since finding your channel. I feel like a new man and there’s no stopping baby😤
the grind never stops 💯😂👌🏻🤯😤😡💯
Started applying this to my life since i entered college, man IT WORKS, i have so much respect among the group, they know i’m the sigma male so i never go to their partys and instead i study and work with focus...and the sex appeal has gone thru the roof lately because of this almost samurai style of thinking
Dude. This came right on time. I've slowly but surely grown out of being the yes man. It doesn't get you anywhere, makes you feel like shit and weak on the inside. My mom is a huge example of someone who made me set several boundaries growing up; she used to literally tell me to do anything and everything, the smallest of things. But they add up. I had to start telling her no here and there, or say I'm busy or bluntly I don't feel like it. Keep up the videos man.
Your channel has become my go to when I’m feeling lazy/unmotivated, it always puts me back into a productive mindset. Thank you 🙏 keep uploading regularily
Dude i got two little sisters too... They have that unusual talent of making my life a living hell!
Your videos change life’s. you’ve help me apply want I’ve learnt to my own life to fit my journey.Hope this message can positively influence you. My message can’t express my gratitude. Thanks
An example that readily comes to mind when talking about following your own path as a man is with homework. I'm still in high school and got a lot to learn about still but it was recently, the past month or so, that after following Elisha's and Peterson's advice that I've become more disagreeable and began adopting that mindset of "I don't owe anything to anyone". As an honors student, a lot of your life revolves around HW. Being in "higher-level" courses does not necessarily mean more complex material, though you could argue that. The education system now a day's core teachings/ purpose is to create diligent, agreeable, competent young adults that will not question the status quo. Critical thinking is no longer a skill emphasized. And it is more evident the more AP and Honors courses one takes. The way you excel in those classes is mostly attributed to doing the vast amount of homework and spending a lot of time and energy into studying for tests. As I began on my own path I started to question why it is that I spend so much time on my homework and school work, concluding that it's just a waste of time. Not to discourage anyone from doing their school work as it teaches you to manage your time and become self-disciplined, but taken to an extreme it can become detrimental. My whole life has been oriented around my school work, getting that A+ on all courses and having my face planted firmly on a textbook I could give less fucks about as all I cared was getting the info for the test that would evidently come. It wasn't until a couple months that I said "fuck that" and took Elisha's advice. I confronted some dragons and was honest with myself and my parents. All my time, energy, being was devoted to school work. I would even prioritize it over the gym and reading which contributed to the period of time where I just stopped going so I had more time to study. Now I follow my own path. Do the things I want to do every day, for the most part. At first, I felt like I was letting down my teachers, parents, and myself. But that's so silly once you step back and look at the situation at hand. I got a lot of backlash from my peers once I adopted this attitude. Classmates said I was lazy, slow, arrogant, they got rather frustrated when they asked if I had done a HW or what I thought about a test but answered "I didn't do it" or "I don't care". I won't lie I still do my work and shit even though I don't want to sometimes. I feel like I owe it to my teachers. The most valuable thing for me this past school year has been the repor I've been able to build with all my teachers. And when I first started not doing HW and projects I let them know that I didn't mean disrespect by it as I felt completely dismissing them is rude and disrespectful given the amount of time they spend creating lessons and what not and me just dismissing it would make me a shit student, but hearing Elisha again talk about the subject has made me rethink that. Idk I'm a bit torn but I might just say fuck it to everything now. That's something I have to figure out on my own. Thanks bro as usual. Hopefully one day I can repay everything you've done for me.
I teach 6th grade, my finance class is all about critical thinking. But your right about what typically the education system is. Stay your own path young man. Stay out of the matrix.
@@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 I'm glad to hear that you try to engage with your students like that. This was two years ago so it's funny going back. Since then l have been in classes that push for that kind of thinking. I've noticed that just about all teachers are more than willing to help when you begin to look for your own answer to things. Crazy how when I wrote that I was fed up with school work and now the amount of work I do is even more taxing. Ended up studying architecture. It's Thanksgiving and I'm here in my studio working on the final project. Gonna be here all weekend too. Pour in 13+ hours on a regular basis. Only difference is that I like the work. It's cool being able to other students while I'm here too. I think there's definitely a period in one's life where you have to be a student. Sit and learn but it has to be driven by your own desire to understand the world and be of some service to it. I think the way we think about education is changing and going to change drastically over the next couple of years or so. Mostly driven by people trying to figure out what it is they really want/want to be doing. Thats a whole conversation though. I guess what I've learned since then is that a part of life is figuring out a purpose for yourself. The most fuffling is being able to be of service to others. But to do that you need to become "more". Studying can help with that. Eh I don't even know what I'm trying to say anymore. Haha. Life is good man. Despite all the struggle. :)
You have to be able to say no to instant gratification if you want long term success.
You should do one about addiction next man. Beautiful topics tho keep em comin much love from Cali
"keep doing actions that validate your integrity of spirit, mind, body."
This is unbelievable, today I've been taken advantage 3 times, been very angry all day long, and right now I find this topic of yours.. Right spot on!
Took my garlic last night for the first time. Didn't have to blow my nose in the shower for the first time I can remember. Throat clear. No stomach issues. FKN TRY IT!
I set a boundary last Feb about video games, I quit them to pursue chess (over the board). Has made a world of difference to my personality and mental capabilities.
When should i take garlic? If i dont wanna break my fasting, because i try not to eat or drink anything besides water after 7,8 pm
@@TheKLLamaN
Take it at 8pm then.
@@marshy.. okay, so it will have the same effect? I thought i should take garlic on a empty stomach :'), thank you!
@@TheKLLamaN just get some in your belly bro.
I missed the details on this how do I do the garlic challenge?
Just found your channel today. About to binge these videos
YEAH !!!
You're not ready😂 You'll be a better version of yourself by next week my dude
Your channel has been the best youtube recommendation ever.
I listen to your video as podcast while working out. Super effective one, fam. Monk Squad.
This is one of the most important qualities you can have! Thx Elisha!
God damn good video, spot on!
Setting boundries and being brutally honest with people and myself has helped me with gaining confidence and respect. Because I could finally respect myself.
Hey Elisha. I love these daily uploads they're amazing. If you wanna change it up sometimes you can upload a Day in a life or something it would be interesting to see what you get up to. You've changed my life! Love the content !!
Great Video, thank you for putting it out here. Your videos teach me a lot lately. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Man, I wish I saw these videos when I was 20. Thank you!
Found your videos on my recommended section ! You have a dope vibe bro. Love your authenticity.
Keep spreading knowledge man, much respect.
I find this really motivating to watch thank you, Elisha I have a very weak long term frame. When I started my new job I set boundaries very firmly early on and maybe I went overboard but this created a shit tonne of problems for me and I was getting criticism left right and centre. Then I started to let my guard down and shit got worse, you know when you drop some meat into a piranha tank everyone is taking a little bite at once, that's how my centre felt. Thankfully I've left this job and moving on.
This channel has helped me make some big changes in my life
Thanks man
Thank you so much for making this video! I just commented about this a few vids ago.
Thanks man
Straight up and don't allow yourself to get used
Good advice. This also puts ourselves into perspective. We might be asking too many favors without realizing, or expecting too much from others on things we're already capable of doing by ourselves.
Beautiful video bro.
The work you do is inspiring.
May Peace and Love be upon you!
Be careful what you tolerate, You’re teaching people how to treat you
I agree that you don't have to do things you don't want to just because someone asks you to but I also think we should compromise once in a while so that people don't lose trust in us. It's important to sacrifice a little bit for the people who are important in our lives. I could be wrong but that's just my two cents.
I agree. We should be willing to serve those who we care about, and who care about us.
thank you your videos are so powerful i'm a big fan now
Thank you brother
It's like I'm listening to myself think right now. Thanks for reaching out to others brother God knows we all need to be reminded. Peace.
Elisha, thanks for the garlic video. My morning tonsilitis smell has reduced drastically.
I feel like a new person.
I’m going through a difficult time in my life atm and watching your videos and listening to the insight has really motivated me to change myself for the better. Really appreciate your content and glad that I’ve found you on TH-cam!
Man, I'm not watching every one of your vids, but I do watch the ones that seem like they apply to my life. Every single one of your vids that I've watched has helped me become the man I am, thanks Elisha.
I love how I can have so many big brothers I never had through TH-cam. =)
My dad was also raised with three sisters but he was the youngest. He always tells them no, and they all live in Florida now except one.
You're awesome bro keep on spreading these messages cuz damn ppl need to hear this shit
I like your advises broh, regards from Mexico, Yucatan.
I need this.
imma be real this actually came up at the perfect time something work related actually happened a day ago where they asked if I could work another day but they had already created a schedule and the mangers basically got me thinking and I wanted to say yes because I felt obligated to make them happy but after some time of thinking and asking around the decision is no, my gut feeling at first when she asked was no at first but I’m still working on myself to say no on things I don’t want to do and also just trust my gut instinct. Love your videos man keep up the great work
Lookin' swole bro, keep at it! So much power in being your own Man and saying No and not caring about it because you care about yourself more.
This is valuable advice!!!!!!
In the past years I have set some serious boundaries around watching TV, playing video games, drinking alcohol, watching porn, participating in hockey pools online to name a few. Cutting all that crap which used to take most of my free time. Nowadays i`d much rather read a great book, meditate, go take a walk with the dog. Trying to simplify life as much as possible. The less distractions the better.
Family is the worst.
I needed this so much thanks brother
Great vid I noticed while working I’ve tended to do help my co workers to much next time they ask for my help up I’ll just tell them calmly they can do it themselves
I have sooo much respect for you
When i feel depressed tho i can be easy pushed around because i feel i dont have the strength at that point.
Awesome video, Elisha.
It is a social norm for people to try to get a capable person to complete a task, but there is usually some means of compensation. A great way to build negotiation skills is to either set conditions or
set a task that the other party would have to complete of equal value or difficulty. This will also present just how willing the other party would be in helping if you were the one asking for a favor. After a while, people will ask less favors of you because they know you would stand firmly on your ground, and they will just go find another Yesman else where, and will only turn to you when it is truly necessary. Being someone's last resort means when you do accomplish their favor, they are most grateful for it.
Ive noticed before how you said you wanted a family someday and all that youd make the most epic father! Love you mate
Great videos dude. Could you maybe make some fitness related videos?
I can't believe I didn't find your channel earlier, your shit's improving lives like crazy mine included
Been struggling with this for a while
Needed to hear this!
I'm setting boundaries with my little sister at home, she's 10.
I feel like my parents are doing her a dis-favor by giving her too much, letting her have her way too often.
Not to boss her around, but to be a male that tells her NO.
Great video man struggling with this at school
Awesome video!
started to lose myself, then i started setting boundaries n saying no n im starting to feel more like myself again
this video got uploaded the exact time i needed it.... thank you elisha. come to germany sometime
I love this dude Elisha :D
say no, and life wil start saying yes to you
👊This is soooo TRUE...im the "responsible" child out of 3, so Im called for everything....started having to say NO for my own sanity! I got shit to do too dammit!
Ohhhh man I needed this.
Meet the new Elliott Hulse.
Elisha is better
Both are good men. Elisha however has taught me much more because I am very similar to him
@@Victor-jm2cg cheerleader
Elias Lonnroth , no he is his own entity.
Yeah i know yall
Your videos are Really good and helpful Thanks Bro.
Day 9 no cannabis after smoking multiple times a day the past 3 years I feel liberated. Keep impacting people’s lives Elisha
Keep it up bro! Don't look back
Good for you. Keep it up.
Good work man. Make that something you never touch again or something you only touch rarely. Rest easy
I’ve been smoking multiple times a day and it’s becoming harder to tell myself no. Any tips for quitting?
@@foxdonze I'd recommend replacing about half or more of the cannabis in your joint with damiana leaf. It was used by the ancients as an aphrodisiac, but it also has a relaxing and mood enhancing effect. You could buy it online in bulk for pretty cheap.
By gradually reducing the amount of cannabis in each joint until there's hardly any in there; you are ready to stop smoking and quit cold turkey.
It’s literally like you know everything going on in my life with every upload , damn near god sent lol crazy
Respect.
Thats most imp. Stuff that matter to me. I struggle with it so its of great use. Bro u have no idea how you have changed my life respect to you 👍
Elisha is not in it for the fame. His mind-frame is Top Tier.
Great advise and nice henley
Never be one with the wind!!!
Thanks eli, it's like you know what to post exactly when I need it brother appreciate the content 💙
I love you elisha you helped me a lot !
Aye man tysm for this video. Just fell out of my lane recently. This helped me realize my mistakes. I will take action and move this bullshit matrix that they try to force me in out of my way.
Love (nohomo), ❤️
thanks!
love your stuff, man. Keep it up!
i really struggle sometimes with my anger. where i try to stick up for my self i sound like im just really pissed, which i sorta am but dont want to show it. but i do.
and its almost never personal, i just break, and when i do im a lil bitch that cant go through with it because i know i look dumb reacting over nothing. it reflects im insecure.
i mainly get angry being talked down to or someone is taking the piss.but its fine most of the time, i just have moments where im so flustered in the situation i dont know how to react because everyone is looking at me and then i look weak and stupid.
any advice anyone?
im not an angry person but when i am i feel even more annoyed i cant express it in the moment or laugh about it.
Aqua Fever If you can recognize when you’re in a situation like that, take a deep breath and take that time to ground yourself. You’ll feel like you’re taking a long time to respond but that’s just in your head bro.
Lifestyle in Progress thanks man
Aqua Fever dude I have the exact same issue
Focus really intently on saying the words without any hint of emotion.
Try and try again until you get it.
When you can speak without any emotion at all, then you will be heard. Then you will have power. Then you will be an adult.
Now, I must clarify: the best way to speak without emotion is to actually have no emotion when you speak.
Simply decide and communicate your decision. Emotionless. Calm. Commanding. Direct. Matter-of-factly.
If they ask you whether you are sure, do not get emotional. Merely restate yourself with gentle confidence. Use even less words the second time than the first. Refuse to explain.
Ice Mario wow, you put that really well. Thank you
Quality 👊🏼
Just have a strong atitude and dont care about opinions. Great vid!
Oh elisha
People can step all over you and still complain that you're not flat enough. Yeah man, healthy boundaries are good to have.
Thanks bro peace
thanks, man
Day 87 nofap. I feel incredibly good
Yoooo man early rise morning's for 2 days now and i already feel like a fucking animal. Can't way to kill today man 😎 also great video brother.
Wise ol' man
Hey Elisha , this video couldn’t have come at a better time. I just wanna ask, when you said no to your sister , didn’t she ask you why not? And what was your response to that?
Yes she asked and I said because "I don't want to."
Elisha Long as simple as that 👍. Thanks for replying.
I find out that’s women if you don’t say no to them they’ll keep asking continuously and will not let any moment for your !!
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Youre such a beast man 👊
Love your vids man. Is TH-cam your full time gig or do you also have a 9-5 job
Its is. I was able to save from a sales job and quit
Damn you're making big business over here. Great content, actualy relevant &helpful, you deserve your success.
This rings so true right now, lats Tuesday me and the girl I was dating had sex, very high level of attraction, she had to be somewhere and she said: promise me you'll come over on Thursday. I knew in the moment that I should have said no, but i said yes anyways. What happened on Thursday? Barely any kissing, a few pecs, now the past few days its been bad, level of attraction seems really low, shes basically ignoring me. Go with your gut. Never make compromises for someone else when it doesn't feel right.
Nikolas Wilson Play the game to get her back, act busy, ditch her on your next rendez-vous, &Kill it on the one after with a nice restaurant or something &a good movie when yoi get home (go back to normal afterwards, but stay true to the game)
Don't expect her to become your girlfriend though, doesn't look like a keeper, her loving game is masculine if you see what I mean.
She got you first shot with her 😸 trap, she thinks she captured you. Prove her wrong but don't go too hard or she'll leave.
Hope you keep hitting that thang ✌🏽