i just turned 30 this year , and everything in my life is literally worse than i had imagined, but thank you for making this video and letting me know that i'm not alone and it just might get better.
I'll be 30 in March, but I'm oddly okay with it? I also found a gray hair on my head, and I don't know why, but it makes me happy (probably because I've always wanted silver hair). I'm with the man of my dreams, love my job and currently have enough money to survive. I also have health issues that may or may not alter my lifespan, so I think all of those help me feel content. 30 is just a number. 🖤 Thank you for sharing such positive messages on your channel. Best of luck to you on your new adventure in the USA 🤗🖤
I’m 28 now and I feel like I’ve failed completely, I’ve done nothing in my early 20’s but then I’m watching videos like this and a lot of people say they start to enjoy their life a lot more in their 30’s and they feel better than ever before, so it gives me a lot of hope 🥰💕 I think there’s too much pressure from the society to have your life “together” by the age of 25 - doesn’t work like that!
ever since i was a kid i knew 20s/30s were very early in life, it’s always made sense since we have long lives. being in your timeline, doing your own thing, and enjoying the process have helped me out in being grateful for being alive here in the present and while having the opportunity to create a fulfilling life. being alive itself isn’t taboo so as long as we’re still breathing and prioritize our well-being, everything works out in its own timing. we’re alive so we can learn and grow, a cool thing about life is that all of our timelines are different, which is something i also realized as a kid that has come back to me as an adult further helping my mental health
Thankyou gorgeous. I got my eyes teary when watching it. Im 24 now. Will be 25 in 3 months. I've been so lost in the past 2 years due to dysfunctional depression after 4 years in functional depression before that. Which force me to skip everything on hold to work on my trauma and wound enough so i can get functional enough back. But the societal judgements and eyes that's been watching over me far before my downfall worsens things up. I put up with more abuse in this downfall when i desperately trying to get my health back after pushing myself too hard. Even tho i was made improvements, i carrying heavy emotional weight after absence from society to focus on my recovery included doing that painful shadow work. Idk can i taking role and actively participate in society back. I still figuring things and see my options as i have to start from zero. But I'll take this video as such a loving reassurement for me to keep pushing through. Idk how my life will unfold tho. If i still given life and remember or if its possible. I'll back here in the next 5 years and in the next 10 years to give an update, or maybe just simply in every 5 years.
I'm 30 and I'm NOW starting to realize what I may do with my life. It sounds absurd or strange to many people but what I'm supposed to do? Giving up because people say that when you're 30 and have no career you're 'dead'? I completely agree on what you say. People mature at different times. I did things in my 20's that I never thought I was capable of and I feel super grateful I addressed some of my mental health conditions with my therapist. I dream like many other people but I struggle to tell myself that I need to stop to be a people pleaser and live an authentic life that feels right to me. You're a wise woman and I'm happy you found your path. I hope I'll overcome my fears and I'll make the right choices when I need to❤❤
I'm 24 and been questioning a lot of things lately. I'm from Venezuela and left my country when I was 19 to Italy- it was a plan under development for about 6 years and I did it with a lot of effort (for better or for worse, I'm not the type of foreigner that moved out with their parents paying things for them. I struggled a lot financially and it was almost a nightmare and really traumatizing that whole process and I did things on my own). Lived in 3 different countries and right now I'm back in Italy because of bureaucracy. Been questioning about my surroundings and how I don't feel connected to things here and also the people... All my friends are Italian here and around my same age or a bit older and I feel we perceive things and are living really different lives and I don't know if this is the context I want to be in, but I just do not feel aligned. I have a stable job since 22, high paid salary (which I'm really blessed, the situation in Italy is really awful in that aspect, but well, I don't work for Italians because of that) and little by little creating things that are aligned with myself and what I want to accomplish but been wanting to move out and change environment and people... Also been wanting to expand more my ideas and grow in different areas (financially, socially aware, connected with reality beyond privilege...) and it keeps coming to my mind to leave this country again, but unfortunately I have to wait around 2 more years to have the right resident permit that allows me to move out of here to another EU country. I travel a lot and the people I attract outside of Italy are more aligned to what I want and admire in others and here I feel so... like if some things are not moving at my time. Again, been questioning a lot about my surroundings, where I am, what I'm doing here and what people I have around me and I feel a sense of unachievement or disappointment- I don't know how to explain it. Your channel just popped out today and felt they really spoke to me in this period in which I'm having these thoughts... Don't know exactly where all this will lead- I'm good financially and I'm stable, I'm able to also do entrepreneurship but I feel that I'm in the wrong place. I speak Spanish, Italian, French and English. Hope that that and all of what I lived and learnt can be helpful in the future if I manage to hopefully properly move out of here eventually. Sorry for the long message. Great videos and hope everything goes well in the US :)
I‘ll turning 40 in one month. I feel much better now than with 30. I have a better routine, am fitter, I feel more comfortable. Although there are some struggles too, I don’t want to go back. ❤
@ I don’t miss my 20s and 30s at all. I was unsure with myself and body, my career, I wasn’t stable. But of course those times are necessary and helpful for growing. The only thing I could say I miss a little, a was more confident by traveling alone. Nowadays I don’t feel so save, but maybe that’s because of the overall world-problems.
I’m 22 watching this and your just the best TH-camr ever. I can’t fathom how much you are truly inspiring me to keep going no matter what. Thank you for the advices❤
I'm 29 but I've never feared getting older & I don’t know why people make a big deal out of 30. My husband & I can't wait to be 30 next year 🎉 especially me being told I look 26 😂 but I can't wait for my 30's❤😊🎉!!!
I'm 29 watching this. It sometimes scary to think that you are lack behind than others in certain area,and we start comparing. But this video is powerful reminder that 30s can be our best years! Thanks for sharing ur journey and thought popy ❤❤
Im 32.. girls, stop comparing and stressing about if someone else has more than you. I learned in the hard way to focus on yourself and achieve little stuff or more. At the end of the day, u are the only one who can make it happen❤❤❤
I'm 25, and I have a hard time accepting myself because of younger people's achievements and accomplishments compared to mine. But I am so happy to have found you; you reminded me to run my own clock and to never compare myself to anybody. My 25 y/o version may be this now, but who knows what happens from 5 to 10 years later. So thank you. ❤
Exactly! I was in your shoes and shared the same feelings but some of those people I felt were ahead of me are no longer ahead. You truly have your own timeline ❤️💕
People make the assumption that by the time you're 30, basically life is done and there's nothing else that you can do. Because you no longer have the youth like you did before. Not the strength, the metabolism, getting tired more often etc etc. I have learned and grown so much in my 20s, and I believe in my 30s. All the experiences and life lessons that I went through will shape my future for what's to come. I'm currently 29, and if anything. I am grateful for those experiences and learning them early rather then learning them later. We can't compare ourselves to others, because everyone is playing a different story then yours. Some people will be older than you, and some people will be younger than you. And there's people who are around your age or exactly your age! We all move on our own pace, and the sooner you stop comparing yourself to other people and their journey. You will begin to realize how beautiful life really is, and start appreciating what it has to offer. Is it perfect? Of course not, nothing is. But with the time that we got now, we should taking advantage of it and make the most out of it. Thank you for this video.
27, getting a white hair grown on my right ear but I do have theories because I was so distressed toxic people around me yelling at me how young I look. They're ruining my lifestyle. I need money to move away elsewhere they kinda ruined the process of slowing down my aging. I'm still investing and people are telling me to stop investing or catching up with me. Lots of challenges ahead of me in 2025.
I’m 25 now i have youtube channel about study english, i create this channel for myself and for who want to improve their english skills, i will not compare myself with others, compare my channel with others just study and never stop improve my channel and wait one day it will achieve 1000->10000 subs in the future 😁, i hope one day not too far… peace… 🎉
All is going well still! There are up and down days but you do get that everywhere we still think it's a good move for us for the next couple of years. The weather itself really does help keeping our mental wellbeing in check.
I stopped having that anxiety of turning 30 when I got to 28. Now I have anxiety of turning 40 XD
I'll be 40 in a few years and a few years ago I did have an anxiety turning 40 but not so much anymore :)
i just turned 30 this year , and everything in my life is literally worse than i had imagined, but thank you for making this video and letting me know that i'm not alone and it just might get better.
I'll be 30 in March, but I'm oddly okay with it? I also found a gray hair on my head, and I don't know why, but it makes me happy (probably because I've always wanted silver hair).
I'm with the man of my dreams, love my job and currently have enough money to survive. I also have health issues that may or may not alter my lifespan, so I think all of those help me feel content.
30 is just a number. 🖤
Thank you for sharing such positive messages on your channel. Best of luck to you on your new adventure in the USA 🤗🖤
I got no gray hair, no bald, no smoking, and no drinking as 30.
I’m 28 now and I feel like I’ve failed completely, I’ve done nothing in my early 20’s but then I’m watching videos like this and a lot of people say they start to enjoy their life a lot more in their 30’s and they feel better than ever before, so it gives me a lot of hope 🥰💕 I think there’s too much pressure from the society to have your life “together” by the age of 25 - doesn’t work like that!
ever since i was a kid i knew 20s/30s were very early in life, it’s always made sense since we have long lives. being in your timeline, doing your own thing, and enjoying the process have helped me out in being grateful for being alive here in the present and while having the opportunity to create a fulfilling life. being alive itself isn’t taboo so as long as we’re still breathing and prioritize our well-being, everything works out in its own timing. we’re alive so we can learn and grow, a cool thing about life is that all of our timelines are different, which is something i also realized as a kid that has come back to me as an adult further helping my mental health
Thanks for that video you beautiful soul! ❤ I am turning 31 next week and i am very excited for everything’s coming now :)
Thankyou gorgeous. I got my eyes teary when watching it. Im 24 now. Will be 25 in 3 months. I've been so lost in the past 2 years due to dysfunctional depression after 4 years in functional depression before that. Which force me to skip everything on hold to work on my trauma and wound enough so i can get functional enough back.
But the societal judgements and eyes that's been watching over me far before my downfall worsens things up. I put up with more abuse in this downfall when i desperately trying to get my health back after pushing myself too hard. Even tho i was made improvements, i carrying heavy emotional weight after absence from society to focus on my recovery included doing that painful shadow work.
Idk can i taking role and actively participate in society back. I still figuring things and see my options as i have to start from zero. But I'll take this video as such a loving reassurement for me to keep pushing through. Idk how my life will unfold tho.
If i still given life and remember or if its possible. I'll back here in the next 5 years and in the next 10 years to give an update, or maybe just simply in every 5 years.
Sending you a big virtual hug 🤗 and I look forward to knowing how you're doing in 5 years.
I'm 30 and I'm NOW starting to realize what I may do with my life. It sounds absurd or strange to many people but what I'm supposed to do? Giving up because people say that when you're 30 and have no career you're 'dead'? I completely agree on what you say. People mature at different times. I did things in my 20's that I never thought I was capable of and I feel super grateful I addressed some of my mental health conditions with my therapist. I dream like many other people but I struggle to tell myself that I need to stop to be a people pleaser and live an authentic life that feels right to me. You're a wise woman and I'm happy you found your path. I hope I'll overcome my fears and I'll make the right choices when I need to❤❤
I'm 24 and been questioning a lot of things lately. I'm from Venezuela and left my country when I was 19 to Italy- it was a plan under development for about 6 years and I did it with a lot of effort (for better or for worse, I'm not the type of foreigner that moved out with their parents paying things for them. I struggled a lot financially and it was almost a nightmare and really traumatizing that whole process and I did things on my own). Lived in 3 different countries and right now I'm back in Italy because of bureaucracy. Been questioning about my surroundings and how I don't feel connected to things here and also the people... All my friends are Italian here and around my same age or a bit older and I feel we perceive things and are living really different lives and I don't know if this is the context I want to be in, but I just do not feel aligned.
I have a stable job since 22, high paid salary (which I'm really blessed, the situation in Italy is really awful in that aspect, but well, I don't work for Italians because of that) and little by little creating things that are aligned with myself and what I want to accomplish but been wanting to move out and change environment and people... Also been wanting to expand more my ideas and grow in different areas (financially, socially aware, connected with reality beyond privilege...) and it keeps coming to my mind to leave this country again, but unfortunately I have to wait around 2 more years to have the right resident permit that allows me to move out of here to another EU country.
I travel a lot and the people I attract outside of Italy are more aligned to what I want and admire in others and here I feel so... like if some things are not moving at my time. Again, been questioning a lot about my surroundings, where I am, what I'm doing here and what people I have around me and I feel a sense of unachievement or disappointment- I don't know how to explain it.
Your channel just popped out today and felt they really spoke to me in this period in which I'm having these thoughts... Don't know exactly where all this will lead- I'm good financially and I'm stable, I'm able to also do entrepreneurship but I feel that I'm in the wrong place. I speak Spanish, Italian, French and English. Hope that that and all of what I lived and learnt can be helpful in the future if I manage to hopefully properly move out of here eventually.
Sorry for the long message. Great videos and hope everything goes well in the US :)
I‘ll turning 40 in one month. I feel much better now than with 30. I have a better routine, am fitter, I feel more comfortable. Although there are some struggles too, I don’t want to go back. ❤
Really? How? How much do you miss 30s something and 20s something?
@ I don’t miss my 20s and 30s at all. I was unsure with myself and body, my career, I wasn’t stable. But of course those times are necessary and helpful for growing. The only thing I could say I miss a little, a was more confident by traveling alone. Nowadays I don’t feel so save, but maybe that’s because of the overall world-problems.
I am 29 I am watching this video. My best years are yet to come :) it will come 💟
You got this!
I’m 22 watching this and your just the best TH-camr ever. I can’t fathom how much you are truly inspiring me to keep going no matter what. Thank you for the advices❤
Thanks for your kind words! It means the world to me that my videos inspire you ❤️
I'm 29 but I've never feared getting older & I don’t know why people make a big deal out of 30. My husband & I can't wait to be 30 next year 🎉 especially me being told I look 26 😂 but I can't wait for my 30's❤😊🎉!!!
Love this!
I will be 30 on this January. We are 1995ers.
I'm 29 watching this. It sometimes scary to think that you are lack behind than others in certain area,and we start comparing. But this video is powerful reminder that 30s can be our best years! Thanks for sharing ur journey and thought popy ❤❤
You're so welcome!
This is so eye opening. I appreciate your transparency & you truly are an inspiration ❤
You're so welcome!
Im 32.. girls, stop comparing and stressing about if someone else has more than you. I learned in the hard way to focus on yourself and achieve little stuff or more. At the end of the day, u are the only one who can make it happen❤❤❤
Yep that's it, couldn't agree more 👏
This is such an amazing video. thank you so much for making this
I‘m 24, thank you for this Video 💖
You're so welcome!
I'm 25, and I have a hard time accepting myself because of younger people's achievements and accomplishments compared to mine. But I am so happy to have found you; you reminded me to run my own clock and to never compare myself to anybody. My 25 y/o version may be this now, but who knows what happens from 5 to 10 years later. So thank you. ❤
Exactly! I was in your shoes and shared the same feelings but some of those people I felt were ahead of me are no longer ahead. You truly have your own timeline ❤️💕
People make the assumption that by the time you're 30, basically life is done and there's nothing else that you can do. Because you no longer have the youth like you did before. Not the strength, the metabolism, getting tired more often etc etc.
I have learned and grown so much in my 20s, and I believe in my 30s. All the experiences and life lessons that I went through will shape my future for what's to come.
I'm currently 29, and if anything. I am grateful for those experiences and learning them early rather then learning them later.
We can't compare ourselves to others, because everyone is playing a different story then yours. Some people will be older than you, and some people will be younger than you. And there's people who are around your age or exactly your age! We all move on our own pace, and the sooner you stop comparing yourself to other people and their journey. You will begin to realize how beautiful life really is, and start appreciating what it has to offer.
Is it perfect? Of course not, nothing is. But with the time that we got now, we should taking advantage of it and make the most out of it.
Thank you for this video.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
Thanks alot for this!😊
You're welcome 😊
27, getting a white hair grown on my right ear but I do have theories because I was so distressed toxic people around me yelling at me how young I look. They're ruining my lifestyle. I need money to move away elsewhere they kinda ruined the process of slowing down my aging. I'm still investing and people are telling me to stop investing or catching up with me. Lots of challenges ahead of me in 2025.
Your awareness and determination to move forward really shows your strength - wishing you the very best for 2025!
I’m going to be 30, on December 11, and this video is very useful for me sister 👍
❤️❤️
33 years millenial , i took four years to heal & delete the Twinflame Mind trap ..
It took a of emotional Healing 🎉
Good on you lovely! ❤
Ur correct madam, we should be adaptable always
Yep always!
Im 29. This year felt in some ways more painful than the 5 years of clinical depression in my early 20s. I feel I entirely lost a decade...
i already got in my 30s i'm still learning and finger things out
Me at 36 watching this… will pass it onto someone who is almost 24.
Thanks for your support!
This came up in perfect timing as I turn 30 in 3 months!
TH-cam algorithm at its finest!
How much do you love being adult?
I’m 25 now i have youtube channel about study english, i create this channel for myself and for who want to improve their english skills, i will not compare myself with others, compare my channel with others just study and never stop improve my channel and wait one day it will achieve 1000->10000 subs in the future 😁, i hope one day not too far… peace… 🎉
That's it, control the controllable and the rest will come. Kudos to you for starting your own TH-cam channel!
How’s America treating you?
All is going well still! There are up and down days but you do get that everywhere we still think it's a good move for us for the next couple of years. The weather itself really does help keeping our mental wellbeing in check.